View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
AChildOfBoredom
10-31-2018, 03:05 PM
So, I made the new girl at the club a little uneasy this past weekend (see above), and I feel bad about it. So I’m trying to think of how I can make it up to her. I thought about maybe baking her some cookies, but then others in the club will be disappointed if they don’t get any… we’re a bunch of dorks living here, so we have baking sessions from time to time where we’ll all bake a ton of cookies - more than we’ll actually eat - so we take them wherever to share, and I bring some to the club, where they always get wolfed down pretty quickly. And if I bring some for everyone, then it’s not really anything special I did for her. So, I have to think of someone else.
Any ideas?
miss.a.p1600
10-31-2018, 05:00 PM
Annoying ass bitch at the office trying to slick intimidate me lol!
“Bitch if we weren’t in this office, I would have been knocked your ass into the middle of next week”
carmen_b
10-31-2018, 09:26 PM
She totally over reacted. I wouldn't do a DAMN THING ! hahaha
So, I made the new girl at the club a little uneasy this past weekend (see above), and I feel bad about it. So I’m trying to think of how I can make it up to her. I thought about maybe baking her some cookies, but then others in the club will be disappointed if they don’t get any… we’re a bunch of dorks living here, so we have baking sessions from time to time where we’ll all bake a ton of cookies - more than we’ll actually eat - so we take them wherever to share, and I bring some to the club, where they always get wolfed down pretty quickly. And if I bring some for everyone, then it’s not really anything special I did for her. So, I have to think of someone else.
Any ideas?
AChildOfBoredom
10-31-2018, 10:58 PM
^^I thought it was funny, but the reactions were mixed. It’s just that, if there’s going to be drama, I don’t want to be the source of it, and I’d rather clear the air than to let the molehill grow into a mountain.
Glamourmilf
11-01-2018, 06:00 AM
My cousin (who molested me ALL throughout my childhood), is now a Bible thumping Jesus freak.
He's condemning everyone, and everything for their sinning ways.
Oh, that's rich.
GTFO bitch! :finger:
WendiStarr
11-01-2018, 09:03 AM
My cousin (who molested me ALL throughout my childhood), is now a Bible thumping Jesus freak.
He's condemning everyone, and everything for their sinning ways.
Oh, that's rich.
GTFO bitch! :finger:
Omg! That's awful! I am so sorry Glam. I hate that that happened to you. I also hate when horrible monsters like that use the bible and Jesus to try to make themselves out to be such good people, as if all their past wrongdoings magically disappeared or never happened, when in reality they are the lowliest scum of the Earth. Ugh, that makes me mad.
naomi_doll
11-01-2018, 02:21 PM
We don't have to answer questions about camming, stripping, escorting or anything else for free just because the person asking is in the same occupation and wants to *help us* If they can't see that time and energy are something, and that I don't have to give that away under the guise of "solidarity" then idk. You learn to expect that men will demand every ounce of you, but then you see that women will too. And they'll think it's better, because they are *helping*. Ughhhhh
AChildOfBoredom
11-01-2018, 03:52 PM
I keep getting approached by Mormons because the way I dress causes them to think I'm one of them. I think I REALLY need to reconsider about 90% of my wardrobe. Old habits are so hard to break sometimes, though.
miss.a.p1600
11-01-2018, 07:40 PM
Sometimes I get irritated looking at peoples pics on Instagram
It seems like a narcissist brag fest.
Which I could delete my account and start a new one with strangers as my “friends” so I can look at strangers pictures and be unbothered.
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-02-2018, 05:58 AM
I keep getting approached by Mormons because the way I dress causes them to think I'm one of them. I think I REALLY need to reconsider about 90% of my wardrobe. Old habits are so hard to break sometimes, though.
Nawww they just wanna look at your cleavage.
I have a lot of Jack Mormon guy friends and they "behave" but they love women too.
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-02-2018, 06:00 AM
Sometimes I get irritated looking at peoples pics on Instagram
It seems like a narcissist brag fest.
Which I could delete my account and start a new one with strangers as my “friends” so I can look at strangers pictures and be unbothered.
IG is exactly that.
A friend of mine did a social experiment on IG (for work) and he discovered that a lot of IG users stalk profiles connected to celebs/models/famous people. I call these IG users "remoras" (like the fish that stick to sharks to eat what a shark eats.)
Now that IG and Facebook are connected, it's too easy to have privacy issues from having an IG account.
WendiStarr
11-02-2018, 11:25 AM
I am feeling absolutely overwhelmed today. It seems like every relative, friend, client, and people from my past(ex bff's, ex bf, and a former SD) are all coming out of the woodwork today calling and texting me about their problems, asking advice, or wanting to see me. What's up with today? It's only 2:25pm and I'm ready for a nap.
AChildOfBoredom
11-02-2018, 03:14 PM
Nawww they just wanna look at your cleavage.
I have a lot of Jack Mormon guy friends and they "behave" but they love women too.
I still haven't really found my fashion sense. When I tell people I was raised Mennonite, they tend to assume I looked like this:
https://itsnotamatch.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/mennoniteladies.jpg
Now on a formal occasion, yes, I would have to wear a bonnet. But I was in a congress which was 'liberal' enough that I wasn't required to wear a bonnet daily and keep my hair up like that, but I did have to wear a head covering of some sort, so it was typically a bandana, which I'd typically wear (and still often do) like this:
https://img0.etsystatic.com/010/1/5705968/il_340x270.438666450_8p68.jpg
I could wear my hair down, but I couldn't style it in any way. Now that I'm not bound by that, I typically wear it either in a French braid or braided pigtails. Because I absolutely love having that choice.
And I did have some handmade dresses (and made a few myself), but I'm pretty sure most of my dresses I wore daily at the time came from TJ Maxx. And I really haven't gotten away from that, so people tend to think I look like a Mormon. I'll wear skirts at times, but the outfit is still pretty conservative. Of course, I also have my "don't give a fuck" days where I'll wear pants of leggings with either a tunic or the Reverend Bizarre t-shirt I sort of swiped from my ex-roommate.
Now the worst of my fashion crimes were when I was sort of under the influence of the redneck ex-roommate. Realtree sweatpants? Camouflage cargo pants? Oh, these free clothes the Army gave me? Yes, I did that. I'm pretty sure I could've made those people who host What Not To Wear throw their hands up in frustration and give up.
https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/41myGI8RsxL._SX355_.jpg
Yes, I had these.
It's weird.. I can strip, but I really can't bring myself to go out of my way to look sexy in any way outside of the club.
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-02-2018, 07:39 PM
^ true story- I tried recruiting a Amish raised woman to dance at my bar....(nice girl.)
She had a similar style. I now see she looked at her dance outfits as a "work uniform" and had great boundaries b/c she didn't show flesh off the clock. (Three kids to feed, no family support from family because of shunning.)
AChildOfBoredom
11-02-2018, 11:33 PM
They just recently hired an Amish girl at the equestrian center. She's on Rumspringa, and I guess her boyfriend dumped her or whatever. Seems nice, but, tbh, I'm kinda trying not to be too friendly with her.
She must've been baptized into the church, then. In the Anabaptist faiths, you're not baptized as an infant the way the Eastern Church, Catholics, and most Protestant denominations do it - you make a conscious decision to do it on your own. Which is why I say I was raised Mennonite, but I never say I was Mennonite, because I've never made that commitment.... and, FWIW, I think it's pretty safe to say that I intend to remain English. Shunning is typically reserved for those who have been baptized. AFAIK, it's not impossible to be shunned beforehand, but I've never seen it. The idea after all is that you're washed of your past sins once you become baptized. Of course, there's a bunch of hokey shit that goes along with it... community elders who make inane laws and tell you it's effectively God's law, but they end up severely bending those rules, yet chastising anyone else who follows suit. Of course, it seems hypocrisy is paramount to every church I've seen.
I would be interested to hear her story, though. I certainly feel for that woman. My younger sister is on her Rumpspringa and living with us. Her manner of dress is much more 'English', though not terribly provocative. It seems like there was a trade-off in the gene pool... I got the boobs, she got the height.
And if I needed something to grumble about, I've got it. Had a custie jizz his pants tonight with no warning whatsoever.
yaya_cash
11-03-2018, 12:09 AM
I sort of feel like being very attractive or physically beautiful doesn't benefit me. I have to work very hard, or use my smarts. And my beauty just brings stares, which I find *ANNOYING*. I don't see beauty making life much easier for me. And it's like my appearance is something that just makes me happy to look a certain way, too. It doesn't really help me--
Glamourmilf
11-03-2018, 08:45 AM
I am feeling absolutely overwhelmed today. It seems like every relative, friend, client, and people from my past(ex bff's, ex bf, and a former SD) are all coming out of the woodwork today calling and texting me about their problems, asking advice, or wanting to see me. What's up with today? It's only 2:25pm and I'm ready for a nap.
I've had more days like this than not, and ugh. Just ugh!
Or as soon as I turn on my cam to work. Every. Damn. Time.
Yet, on my days off, or when I'm feeling a bit down, and could use a little support......... Nobody is around, and the phone is dead.
Murphy's law, or some shit like that, I guess.
AChildOfBoredom
11-03-2018, 12:04 PM
Murphy's law
Somewhat related, though I don't necessarily know if I'd cite Murphy's Law - "if it can go wrong, it will, and at the worst possible moment" - here. I think that would fall under the more broad, "shit happens" umbrella.
So I looked at trading my car in. I had kinda settled on the Chevy Cruze, and would've only been financing about $3500 between my trade-in and down payment. So they run my credit, and do whatever else, and the salesman comes back and immediately tries pushing me towards an Impala. I told him I knew what I wanted, and I wasn't going for the upsell. But he persisted, told me some shit about banks don't want to finance under a certain amount, etc. I guess he thought his hustle was better than it actually was. I just got up and walked out. I'm fine with the one I have now. It's still in great shape, and it's been good to me. Not the best on gas mileage, but it's a pickup truck, after all.
carmen_b
11-03-2018, 01:29 PM
I think I'm triggered by the blahs today because the last time I was out of town to this same place for 5 days and a 5 hour drive, I had the first netflix night with J to look forward to. We had planned it days ahead for the day I was returning.
Off to go find something to occupy myself with so I don't ruminate or reach out to him.
I think i'm nervous about this other date tomorrow.
I bought two shirts and a pair of pants that I don't need and might not even wear anytime soon.
What I really need is a haircut , nails, and warm shoes that are not ugly.
carmen_b
11-03-2018, 01:36 PM
I have a day job customer who wants to pay 5 months ahead ( that means I get paid very early ) but I feel so blah !
I better pull it together and do some math at least well enough to invoice properly and not ruin this for myself.
I'm shocked at myself for not processing the card already ( I've been traveling, maybe I'm just burnt ).
EDIT: Got my shit together and invoice is sent! Who doesn't want to get paid EARLY ?! I can't thank the universe enough when that happens. It can much such a difference.
lynn2009
11-03-2018, 01:40 PM
I am home again to canvass this weekend and my day started off very butt hurt because the candidate herself was there at the staging location and no one thought to introduce me. I mean they all know I've been driving home from Maryland every weekend since September, come on. I finally asked someone to introduce me and it was fine. She is just as great in person.
And I already didn't want to canvass today because when I was calling or texting people during the week I got so many complaints about over communication from the campaign I gave up on calling/texting on Wednesday. And then I did canvass today and almost no one was home as per usual and two people marked supporters shut the door in my face. I really think they are over doing it by constantly contacting supporters, and the race is starting to get some national attention so there are a number of grassroots orgs doing their own thing too.
WendiStarr
11-03-2018, 06:37 PM
My brother called me this morning to tell me that my niece's birthday party was today at 4. I had no idea because I never got an invite or heard anything about it. My sister-in-law and I don't see eye to eye so I figured she purposely didn't send an invite. My brother said that I was invited and that his wife simply forgot to send an invitation to me. I told my daughter we were going to my niece's birthday party and she got excited. Before I got there my sister-in-law threw such a fit about not wanting me there. She accused me of trying to steal my brother's attention from her and said that my brother cares more about me than he does her. Keep in mind they live an hour away and I only see my brother once a month. This is a blood-related brother, by the way. His wife is too controlling and verbally and physically abusive towards him. I will call her ass out on it and not sit quietly watching or listening to that because I have no filter when it comes to dealing with certain people like that. I can be nice as long as someone isn't starting bs but no, I will not stand by while you punch my brother in the face whenever you don't get your way. Fine. Don't invite me but try explaining to a crying 9 year old why she can't ever go to her cousin's birthday party. I had to deal with a sad kid. It pisses me off that he continues to stay married to her.
TheBrownFox
11-03-2018, 08:54 PM
I am home again to canvass this weekend and my day started off very butt hurt because the candidate herself was there at the staging location and no one thought to introduce me. I mean they all know I've been driving home from Maryland every weekend since September, come on.
I'm in Maryland. :)
Glamourmilf
11-04-2018, 06:17 AM
I'm so pissed and hurt that one of my gay boys cancelled plans with me today so he can go dick hunting at the gay parade.:(
He's been gone for a month. HE'S the one who made plans with me! Church (a gay church), and then brunch.
This is the VERY reason why I stopped hanging with gay guys years ago. They always drop me when there's a chance to get dick. * Remember the gay guys who invited me to the movies. Then spent the entire time cruising internet dating sites throughout the ENTIRE movie?
I felt so sad, and weepy about it.
I called one of my friends who is a fag hag too, and lives right in the 💓 of a gay neighborhood.
She explained that it's nothing personal. That the joke is, that even if he got the call that his mom's in the emergency room. He'd stop to get dick on the way there.
She also explained that the reason they're not inviting me to all of their house parties (that I see them posting on Facebook), is because having a woman there changes the vibe. That they can't let loose with a woman around.
She suggested that I forget about them for a while. To go hang out where the older, straight guys are. Where the money guys are, who will shower me with attention, gifts, dinners, etc, just because I'm hot and a good listener.
She's absolutely right. This is the town where some of the wealthiest men come to during the winter, because it's the best weather in the country.
Fuck these gay men!
I was actually going to forgo attending an outdoor art festival today, because I knew gay boy didn't want to go. ( Too many breeders there, was how he put it). Piss off!
50557
lynn2009
11-04-2018, 01:50 PM
I am home again to canvass this weekend and my day started off very butt hurt because the candidate herself was there at the staging location and no one thought to introduce me. I mean they all know I've been driving home from Maryland every weekend since September, come on. I finally asked someone to introduce me and it was fine. She is just as great in person.
And I already didn't want to canvass today because when I was calling or texting people during the week I got so many complaints about over communication from the campaign I gave up on calling/texting on Wednesday. And then I did canvass today and almost no one was home as per usual and two people marked supporters shut the door in my face. I really think they are over doing it by constantly contacting supporters, and the race is starting to get some national attention so there are a number of grassroots orgs doing their own thing too.
I canvassed one shift today then left without saying bye which I know makes me a jerk but I was so uncomfortable today knowing we are annoying the shit out of almost everyone and I didn't want to get a super guilty trip for not doing more.
And I got the ok already to leave work early Tues and work remotely Wednesday because I wanted to attend the election night party but I don't think I'm going to anymore. I'm so tired of doing everything by myself like a loser and definitely no one with the campaign is going to care.
chanzep
11-04-2018, 07:38 PM
I tried sugar free cake mix, it tastes good but gives me wind! Ugh.
whirlerz
11-04-2018, 07:51 PM
Lol.
Yea, it's the artificial sweetener that does that^
AChildOfBoredom
11-04-2018, 07:59 PM
Oh, you HAVE to read the reviews about the sugar free gummy bears.
https://www.amazon.com/Haribo-SUGAR-Classic-Gummi-Bears/product-reviews/B006J1FBLM
Enjoy.
I have milia on the top of my nose (insert eye roll here) I look diseased.
WendiStarr
11-05-2018, 05:49 AM
I woke up to a painful, big red pimple on the right side of my chin and another red one smack dab in the middle of my forehead. Frick, man! I've been using 10% benzoyl peroxide to try to keep my skin clear. I have a photo shoot tomorrow. I don't need pre-af hormone crap breaking out my face.
Glamourmilf
11-05-2018, 06:13 AM
I'm so pissed and hurt that one of my gay boys cancelled plans with me today so he can go dick hunting at the gay parade.:(
He's been gone for a month. HE'S the one who made plans with me! Church (a gay church), and then brunch.
This is the VERY reason why I stopped hanging with gay guys years ago. They always drop me when there's a chance to get dick. * Remember the gay guys who invited me to the movies. Then spent the entire time cruising internet dating sites throughout the ENTIRE movie?
I felt so sad, and weepy about it.
I called one of my friends who is a fag hag too, and lives right in the �� of a gay neighborhood.
She explained that it's nothing personal. That the joke is, that even if he got the call that his mom's in the emergency room. He'd stop to get dick on the way there.
She also explained that the reason they're not inviting me to all of their house parties (that I see them posting on Facebook), is because having a woman there changes the vibe. That they can't let loose with a woman around.
She suggested that I forget about them for a while. To go hang out where the older, straight guys are. Where the money guys are, who will shower me with attention, gifts, dinners, etc, just because I'm hot and a good listener.
She's absolutely right. This is the town where some of the wealthiest men come to during the winter, because it's the best weather in the country.
Fuck these gay men!
I was actually going to forgo attending an outdoor art festival today, because I knew gay boy didn't want to go. ( Too many breeders there, was how he put it). Piss off!
50557
So, I posted all of the fun videos, and pix I took yesterday of the artists and me on my Facebook page.
Naturally one of the ' butt pirates' has to comment on my post that it was the same day as gay pride.
I replied that I don't give a FUCK about gay pride!
This is the fag who invited me to his house during the summer for a dip in the pool and snacks. Then 5 minutes before I arrived, texted me that he was meeting a random dude from a gay hook up site. And that he had to cut our time together short.
GTFO!
Loser!
I drove over a half hour to a gym and the class was canceled. Yeah so that happened.
AChildOfBoredom
11-05-2018, 01:45 PM
So, as the foal was born in the early hours of Halloween, they decided to name it “Spooky”. Which, okay, I kinda like that.
The owners took several photographs of the whole thing, the most awkward of it being the one where I had to verify the foal was coming out headfirst, so of course they snapped a photo of me when I had my arm halfway up a horse’s hooha. So the barn manager, she says, “Oh, this would be a good one to print and put on the photo wall of the Great Hall, and on Facebook, as well”, and I’m just like…
https://thumbs.gfycat.com/PepperyAccomplishedGrouse-small.gif
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-05-2018, 04:09 PM
I bought a mix of chai and green tea. It's not good. These flavors don't mix well. Ugh
Elle:)
11-05-2018, 04:25 PM
I am sick of my big dog's constant shedding. The weather is close to perfect here year around, she is taking that fur changing stuff way too seriously.
JessaJade
11-05-2018, 04:30 PM
I drove over a half hour to a gym and the class was canceled. Yeah so that happened.
I hope they are compensating you with some freebies!
I am sick of my big dog's constant shedding. The weather is close to perfect here year around, she is taking that fur changing stuff way too seriously.
Fish oil (from the pet store) in their food will reduce shedding.
JGB2009
11-05-2018, 05:43 PM
I am breaking out with Acne as if I am a teenager again!!! This is just fucked up!!!!
chanzep
11-05-2018, 06:03 PM
Oh, you HAVE to read the reviews about the sugar free gummy bears.
https://www.amazon.com/Haribo-SUGAR-Classic-Gummi-Bears/product-reviews/B006J1FBLM
Enjoy.
Omg loool
miss.a.p1600
11-05-2018, 06:27 PM
I feel like I have entered twilight zone
The vanilla workplace has quickly gone from “excited to wake up” to “damn I do not feel like dealing with some of these cock-eyed bitches”
I am starting to see the cracks
And speaking up/blowing the whistle = there is a target on your back and these corporate buffoons are coming for you
Note to self: we gotta get out of here!
I hope they are compensating you with some freebies!
That would be too much like right. They truly didn’t seem to care. They just said it’s not happening today.
I feel like I have entered twilight zone
The vanilla workplace has quickly gone from “excited to wake up” to “damn I do not feel like dealing with some of these cock-eyed bitches”
I am starting to see the cracks
And speaking up/blowing the whistle = there is a target on your back and these corporate buffoons are coming for you
Note to self: we gotta get out of here!
Been there before. Get Out Now!
miss.a.p1600
11-05-2018, 11:39 PM
^^^im interviewing and looking for other places as we speak
I can’t tolerate extreme corporate politics over ethics and doing what’s right
I am really going against my true nature which is working for myself. I loathe office politics, asking “the boss” who’s an idiot - for permission before I make decisions, etc.
WendiStarr
11-06-2018, 06:10 AM
I slept like shit last night, woke up every hour. I have an annoying headache that I always get before my period. I rubbed some Vick's vapor rub on my forehead, hoping that would help. It didn't for long. I don't have anything here for headaches other than ibuprofen and I didn't feel like eating anything because my tummy feels yucky. I can't take that on an empty stomach. I hate how I always feel like I'm coming down with a cold every time before I start my period. I have a photo shoot in a few hours. :(
SON OVA BITCH I have pinkeye. Ugh
WendiStarr
11-06-2018, 12:53 PM
^ Put Johnson's baby shampoo in your affected eye(s).
JessaJade
11-06-2018, 01:33 PM
^^^im interviewing and looking for other places as we speak
I can’t tolerate extreme corporate politics over ethics and doing what’s right
I am really going against my true nature which is working for myself. I loathe office politics, asking “the boss” who’s an idiot - for permission before I make decisions, etc.
I'm feeling very similar. I seriously think I'm gonna leave, and just imagining it makes my spirit feel lighter.
WendiStarr
11-06-2018, 01:58 PM
Photographer I worked with today turned out to be a jerk. If any other ladies here model and are in MI, feel free to pm me and I will give you his name so you can avoid him. I reported him to other models in the area and they're circulating warnings all over modeling websites and groups about him. Apparently he has ripped off other models as well. Smh. I wish there were only female photographers anymore.
^ Put Johnson's baby shampoo in your affected eye(s).
Haha thanks but that sounds about as painful as this medicine the doctor gave me to put in my eye.
carmen_b
11-06-2018, 06:25 PM
I've been pouty for days and i think I *might* have identified it !
I'm BURNT from being on the road for work ! In the last 6 months, I've probably been away from home around 40-50% of the time. My jobs are mostly weekend based so I was often driving 5-6 hours Fri. , working a long day Sat., and returning Sun. ( or Mon. if I added a day to relax a little ).
I'm just so glad that what I've committed to is slowing down. It's delayed other projects I'm interested in.
I'm not sure if it's helped or hurt my dating life. I think the guys find it interesting and unique that I'm not available right away OR often BUT it just doesn't leave a lot of time. I'm seeing a disaster brewing even trying to get to know a couple people at once when that shouldn't be *that* hard. I notice a lot of what I crave romantically has to do with being in a home too ( netflix / cook meal together / coziness themed ).
Anyway ...... SO BURNT . And traveling this weekend . On Monday when I wrap this season, I am giving myself a $125-$150 spa or " whatever" budget to do whatever I want! Once Monday hits, I won't be committed to more than one travel weekend a month. I WANT TO CELEBRATE.
The client asked today if I could add an extra day on ................ firm NO on that one.