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Aurora_Sunset
11-07-2018, 08:03 AM
Bf gets so riled up every single time he has to talk to his ex-wife or she pulls some crap. But it's usually shit that we KNEW was coming. Right before he sends a text to tell her something pertaining to the kids, or walks out the door to see them after something new has popped up, I'll say "You know she's gonna be pissed about xyz, and start some shit about blah-blah-blah, and probably say this, that, or the other thing. Just be prepared, don't let it get to you. She's just mad."

Then he'll storm home later all pissed off, or pout around work the rest of the day after texting her, and when I ask what's wrong, he'll launch into "She's such a bitch! She did/said yada yada because she's pissed about xyz." Like.... why are we acting surprised? You KNEW it was coming. You knew she'd be pissed. You knew she'd be a bitch. You knew she'd whip out something shitty to try to "punish" you or fuck you over because she's all mad. Typically it's exactly the reaction I SAID she'd have and he should be prepared for... It's just the way of things with her - she's always going to go back on her word, fly off the handle, and be bitchy the second she realizes she can't manipulate a situation to where she gets everything she's ever wanted and he gets fucked. That's just her... There's no need to let her completely expected shittiness affect everything so badly every. single. time he sees/talks to her. 99% of the time, it's just angry words. The rest of the time, adhere to the completely reasonable boundaries, document it, and call the lawyer. She's only hurting herself with her inability to get a handle on her feelings translating into crazy actions. Just walk away and let her.

WendiStarr
11-07-2018, 10:47 AM
Word must've got around to that photographer. He texted me asking me what my address is so he can "come by and pay me". I don't trust him at all and definitely don't want him coming to my place. I told him that he can pay me via cash app or chase quickpay. I do not want to see him in person. He kept asking what my address was so he could "drop off the money". I ignored his texts. Then he suggested meeting for a coffee so that he could pay me. No, he doesn't get it. I do not want to see him in person again, at all! He knows that I blacklisted him and warned other people about him. Other models(some of who have also been screwed over by him) and a photographer put the word out about him too. My fear is that if I meet him in person he will retaliate and hurt me. I don't care if it's a public place. He could easily bring a gun to a coffee shop or any public place in a fit of rage, go nuts, and shoot me and then go on a full out shooting spree. You never know with people these days. Part of me regrets having warned others about him because now he knows that it was me who reported him, yet at the same time I don't want other ladies to have to deal with that asshat. At this point I'd rather cut my losses than to possibly put myself in a potentially dangerous situation just to get payment.

wish
11-07-2018, 01:02 PM
Word must've got around to that photographer. He texted me asking me what my address is so he can "come by and pay me". I don't trust him at all and definitely don't want him coming to my place. I told him that he can pay me via cash app or chase quickpay. I do not want to see him in person. He kept asking what my address was so he could "drop off the money". I ignored his texts. Then he suggested meeting for a coffee so that he could pay me. No, he doesn't get it. I do not want to see him in person again, at all! He knows that I blacklisted him and warned other people about him. Other models(some of who have also been screwed over by him) and a photographer put the word out about him too. My fear is that if I meet him in person he will retaliate and hurt me. I don't care if it's a public place. He could easily bring a gun to a coffee shop or any public place in a fit of range, go nuts, and shoot me and then go on a full out shooting spree up. You never know with people these days. Part of me regrets having warned others about him because now he knows that it was me who reported him, yet at the same time I don't want other ladies to have to deal with that asshat. At this point I'd rather cut my losses than to possibly put myself in a potentially dangerous situation just to get payment.

Meet him at the police station. Wait 20 mins after he leaves before you drive away. Do it where there are officers walking around or just ask one to be a witness. You don’t have to tell them why exactly. Ask a officer if they mind witnessing a creigslist transaction or something similar.

Pokahantas
11-07-2018, 04:19 PM
Omg I am the same way.

EastCoastDancer01
11-07-2018, 05:22 PM
So I decided to try online dating to see what I could find...omg! Lol. This one asshole who looks like he’s 50+ but is in his 30s messages me saying ‘’You seem nice but you’re not looking to meet people, you’re looking for something that doesn’t exist. So many women like this end up 40 and still single, wondering what happened and what they did wrong’’ LOL, I deleted his message without responding. Another dude messages me saying what’s up and I say not much you?...he tells me my cousin messaged you and you didn’t even say hi back. He just broke up with his ex, and I told him I’d buy him a beer for trying. I’m like lol who’s your cousin? I got so many messages I couldn’t even sort through all of them lol. But I hope u guys are having fun tonight’’...and he then tells me it’s the same asshole from before and says to me ‘’let me text him to see if he cares...yeah he doesnt’’. ....My god people are such losers!

chanzep
11-07-2018, 05:34 PM
Ugh I remember online dating, the guys on there have got some front!, I also remember a Russian girl who I used to work with that told me she always did Skype dates first so they could not waste her time in person.

trustfundkiller
11-07-2018, 06:09 PM
Ugh I remember online dating, the guys on there have got some front!, I also remember a Russian girl who I used to work with that told me she always did Skype dates first so they could not waste her time in person.
I haven't used a dating app in awhile but I always FaceTime with the person before meeting up with them, or talk on the phone at least. If we're not hitting it off on the phone/FaceTime, for sure we won't hit it off in person.

lynn2009
11-07-2018, 06:15 PM
My dumb as shit and cheap as shit company only buys non-refundable flight tickets, and they have the most asisine travel policy that you can't purchase your flights until 30 days MAX before your travel dates. What the fuck? I thought booking now for my conference now that is in January was pushing my luck, and already flights were more expensive than I was approved for, and barely any arrived before midnight. But no, apparently an extra twenty dollars for refundable tickets is too much!!! Better to let the price go to hundreds and then buy!!! Who comes up with this dumb shit, seriously??

Glamourmilf
11-08-2018, 08:29 AM
Ugh I remember online dating, the guys on there have got some front!, I also remember a Russian girl who I used to work with that told me she always did Skype dates first so they could not waste her time in person.


I haven't used a dating app in awhile but I always FaceTime with the person before meeting up with them, or talk on the phone at least. If we're not hitting it off on the phone/FaceTime, for sure we won't hit it off in person.

I tried doing both when I was online dating.
Good luck. All these dudes wanted was to exchange photos, or do Kik.
Uh, no.
I had such high hopes for FetLife, which I recently joined.. But, that was a let down too. The guys on there wouldn't show me what they looked like. And they too, just wanted to do Kik.
Waste of my precious time.
I need to hear a guy's voice, at least, to see if I vibe with him.
Guys of today don't get that.
And they probably never will.

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-08-2018, 08:35 AM
I tried doing both when I was online dating.
Good luck. All these dudes wanted was to exchange photos, or do Kik.
Uh, no.
I had such high hopes for FetLife, which I recently joined.. But, that was a let down too. The guys on there wouldn't show me what they looked like. And they too, just wanted to do Kik.
Waste of my precious time.
I need to hear a guy's voice, at least, to see if I vibe with him.
Guys of today don't get that.
And they probably never will.

Hetero males treat Fetlife like a specialized Tinder.

Which is too bad b/c it was designed to help people enjoy BDSM safely and without headaches from law enforcement or local "hysterical Mommies" activist groups.

Glamourmilf
11-09-2018, 10:26 AM
I'm feeling more sad than pissed.
Within a few hours of the tragic mass shooting at the nightclub in Thousand Oaks, a massive fire breaks out there.
I wake up to the fire spreading to all the neighboring towns. AND now Malibu is under evacuation because it spread there( it's 10 miles from Thousand Oaks) OMG!
I see that there is also a fire that just started near Griffith Park.
My very first job when I moved to LA, was teaching kids out there.
And lots of my clips were filled out at my friend's house in Camarillo, which is also on fire.
There are over 11 fires burning in California right now.
Didn't we JUST go through this all summer?
It's made me more paranoid to leave the house, or go anywhere.
I'm not going to lie.
This one hits too close to home.
Feeling so sad and overwhelmed right now.
] View from the beach in Malibu. Unbelievable.:'(
What's next? The locusts and bubonic plague?

whirlerz
11-09-2018, 11:13 AM
I'm so sorry to hear all this, it's terrible..
11 fires, damn.
I hope you feel better soon.

PS, here for ya

carmen_b
11-09-2018, 11:17 AM
That’s a really good idea. May steal it.
I haven't used a dating app in awhile but I always FaceTime with the person before meeting up with them, or talk on the phone at least. If we're not hitting it off on the phone/FaceTime, for sure we won't hit it off in person.

whirlerz
11-09-2018, 06:46 PM
So, today, I went in the office of my storage place..
I knew the big mgr was in today.
I was previously talking w/this one worker, he said he didn't know if the heat was not on or not working..
It's been Cold AF. in there.
Now I know it's not going to be like @ home, but COME ON.
He (mgr) just told me that very BS, it's not comfortable, it's below 80 degrees (No Shit!) & above 50° (not by much!)
I had on 2pr of pants, warm hoodie, winter hood jacket & boots, still freezing my ass off!
Cheap ass fucks.
I was a little pissed about them not accepting pkgs, but could deal w/it.
They can fuck right off (the workers are cool).
There's one place in my area I may try,
I already started moving a few boxes.
Ugh

chanzep
11-09-2018, 08:53 PM
I made myself go to the store today, then I realized that I had gotten the wrong tampons ugh, the cardboard ones I hate them, now , I will have to go CVS ugh.

Glamourmilf
11-10-2018, 08:53 AM
I'm so sorry to hear all this, it's terrible..
11 fires, damn.
I hope you feel better soon.

PS, here for ya

Thank You Whirl. I just might take you up on that.:heartbeat
Since I posted that, the fire has also spread in the other direction too.
So, basically most of LA, and all of Ventura county are burning. Zero containment. It's moving a football field length​ per minute.
I spoke with lots of my friends who live in all of those areas. Yeah, it's not good.
This is what happens when the weather is messed with.
It's happening all over the country ( the world).
Scary times we live in.
I was going to attend an outdoor event today. Nope. Don't feel comfortable doing that.
50582 This is Malibu right before the fire overtook it. All the folks trying to get out.

*Edit to add: Go have a look at what Trump just tweeted about the fire.
Disgraceful.

whirlerz
11-10-2018, 10:53 AM
Wow.^
Take care, yea probably not a good idea to go to outside event.
I'm going to look @ that tweet..
I read on Fox news he was going to withhold protection? What.
No containment either, damn

I just read it, on Fox..
Snip: "No reason for deadly, costly fires, billions spent ea. yr. gross mismgmnt of forests.?
No more Fed funds

I just saw on CNN, it said 20% containment

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-10-2018, 04:05 PM
Awesome/stupid petty annoyance- I screamed at one of my cousins over the phone last weekend so she totally blocked me on Facebook.

FINE. I'm Latin, I have like 90 cousins. This does not faze me.

She's is so childish. I'm secretly grateful I don't have to feed into her drama ever again but I can't say this....Don't want to look petty to the few relatives I still talk to.....

Ugh....the holidays. 3 months of this dumbass crap......

AChildOfBoredom
11-10-2018, 04:21 PM
Have you ever known people who, whenever a certain song would come on, they'd constantly subvert the lyrics so that you always heard their version of it, even when they're not around? This is why "Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band" is forever ruined in my mind.

You hear, "It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play". Thanks to a certain jackass, I hear, "It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper gave the whole band AIDS".

I will never be able to enjoy that song.

Glamourmilf
11-11-2018, 10:33 AM
Wow.^
Take care, yea probably not a good idea to go to outside event.
I'm going to look @ that tweet..
I read on Fox news he was going to withhold protection? What.
No containment either, damn

I just read it, on Fox..
Snip: "No reason for deadly, costly fires, billions spent ea. yr. gross mismgmnt of forests.?
No more Fed funds

I just saw on CNN, it said 20% containment

Yeah, that's the tweet. Thank You Whirl for posting it.
After I read that, I stopped watching the fire coverage. It's too depressing to think we're all alone if a disaster hits.
I instinctually already knew it though.
I have a cam customer, who's still in active duty in the army.
Even HE'S preparing for the worst.
I would recommend that everyone get trained in how to live without electricity, creature comforts, etc.
I pray the day never comes. But I have to be realistic.

AChildOfBoredom
11-11-2018, 10:38 AM
What a fucked up time we're in when Axl Rose becomes the voice of reason on Twitter vs. the POTUS.

https://twitter.com/axlrose/status/1061437858878230528?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcam p%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-11-2018, 11:28 AM
What a fucked up time we're in when Axl Rose becomes the voice of reason on Twitter vs. the POTUS.

https://twitter.com/axlrose/status/1061437858878230528?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcam p%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet

Cool story bro- I met some people over the years that confirmed that Axl fell into deep heroin addiction after he quit making music. It was a huge open secret in the music biz for a long time.


He struck me as someone like Jim Morrison, who was a musical genius but too "mental" to get with the program and live a balanced life as a professional musician.

AChildOfBoredom
11-11-2018, 11:34 AM
That's what makes it even more fucked up, when someone who fell into the decadent rock star lifestyle a little too much is more sensible than the person who is supposed to be "leader of the free world". If you had ever told me that there'd be a point in my life where I took Axl Rose seriously, I'd be suggesting rehab for you. But here we are now.

I always figured if drugs hadn't driven him out of music, surely the last album would suffice? Funnily enough, the song which got me into Guns N' Roses is one I can't stand to listen to anymore, because the theme of the song hits a little too close to home for me.

Vyanka
11-11-2018, 02:41 PM
What a fucked up time we're in when Axl Rose becomes the voice of reason on Twitter vs. the POTUS.

https://twitter.com/axlrose/status/1061437858878230528?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcam p%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet

Love him. He says things like it is. Go Axl!

whirlerz
11-11-2018, 03:10 PM
Yeah, that's the tweet. Thank You Whirl for posting it.
After I read that, I stopped watching the fire coverage. It's too depressing to think we're all alone if a disaster hits.
I instinctually already knew it though.
I have a cam customer, who's still in active duty in the army.
Even HE'S preparing for the worst.
I would recommend that everyone get trained in how to live without electricity, creature comforts, etc.
I pray the day never comes. But I have to be realistic.

Yw!
still here for ya!
I watched a little of it, heartbreaking! ;9

WendiStarr
11-12-2018, 09:47 AM
I hate when you make all these exciting plans with someone and as the time gets closer that you're supposed to meet up, you hear nothing from then. Meanwhile you have this sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach that you're about to get stood up. This person has never done this before and I realize that emergencies can come up but I hate the waiting bs.

Aurora_Sunset
11-12-2018, 10:52 AM
While we were waiting for paperwork at a hospital yesterday, that we hadn’t even been to the ER of in over a month, my bf reached down and just squeezed my shoulder in a friendly way while we were joking around with another coworker. This bitch-ass nurse felt the need to burst out of the nurses station and jump down our throats about how the “staff” there had been complaining about our shows of PDA. That would have been dumb enough considering we weren’t doing anything, but then she goes on to say “Sooo... you really need to UP your A-game, ok!?”

My fucking A-game is taking care of my patients, who have never complained about my care suffering due to a totally risqué shoulder squeeze before I was even in the room. How about minding your own fucking business and doing your own damn job? I know we’ve never done anything beyond touching each other’s arms or giving side hugs while waiting on paperwork. Most of our patients have zero clue we’re a couple because we don’t go on “shows” of PDA... Pretty sure SHE just got a bug up her ass at the beginning of October about something and has just been waiting for us to come back and so much as look at each other - it’s not the “staff” complaining.

carmen_b
11-12-2018, 11:31 AM
^ Jealous
She wants shoulder squeezes and sexy time haha.

wish
11-12-2018, 04:51 PM
I forgot Thanksgiving is coming up! I need to pull more than $100 out my ass.

miss.a.p1600
11-12-2018, 08:23 PM
So I decide not to pursue the coworker whose face I rode a few years ago (even though he is slick enticing me) because I noticed him slick flirting with other female coworkers and didn’t feel like wasting my time competing over community dick. Plus that trick is married with like 4 kids so I figure he has bare minimal to spend.

Anyways I decide to flirt with another dude, less my type, but no kids so his paycheck is all his/more discretionary spending and as far as I know no women after him.

He’s totally into me.

He makes me laugh cause we trash talk the weird coworkers

Next thing I know he tells me the psychopath that I’d love to beat the brakes off of (also one of the females the coworker whose face I rode - is actively flirting with) is slick flirting with him - the dude I chose.

I don’t know if he’s lying to make me jealous and compete for him or if she is just trying to flirt with him just to fuck with me to make me jealous

Either way .....

Look bih! I see what you tryin to do and no it won’t work lol.

I don’t compete for dick. I replace dick with new and better dick.

Ill let these petty scavengers compete for these dudes.

baer45
11-12-2018, 09:08 PM
Tonight, at the dinner table, One of the guests is from Japan. He owns a few restaurants. In Japan, a woman can't be the sushi chef for three reasons:
1)women use skin products. (don't they know we can wash our hands?)
2)women's body temperature changes when we have our period, that will ruin the sushi when we are making it. (What a load of BS)
3)Also, menstrual cycle will mess up our taste for food.

lynn2009
11-13-2018, 10:08 AM
I hate when customer service people call me Mrs. Last name. Why do you have to assume every single adult woman is married, or wants to be known as Mrs.?

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-13-2018, 12:30 PM
Tonight, at the dinner table, One of the guests is from Japan. He owns a few restaurants. In Japan, a woman can't be the sushi chef for three reasons:
1)women use skin products. (don't they know we can wash our hands?)
2)women's body temperature changes when we have our period, that will ruin the sushi when we are making it. (What a load of BS)
3)Also, menstrual cycle will mess up our taste for food.

I make people mad when I point this out but in Japan, women are still treated differently.

So weird too b/c in other Asian nations women are allowed a lot more opportunities/leadership roles.

(NO I'm not a racist. I met Japanese people when I worked near there. They have a unique culture.)

AChildOfBoredom
11-13-2018, 01:57 PM
I hate when customer service people call me Mrs. Last name. Why do you have to assume every single adult woman is married, or wants to be known as Mrs.?

Or when people ask about my car, “Is that your husband’s/boyfriend’s?”.

WendiStarr
11-14-2018, 09:06 AM
Tonight, at the dinner table, One of the guests is from Japan. He owns a few restaurants. In Japan, a woman can't be the sushi chef for three reasons:
1)women use skin products. (don't they know we can wash our hands?)
2)women's body temperature changes when we have our period, that will ruin the sushi when we are making it. (What a load of BS)
3)Also, menstrual cycle will mess up our taste for food.

As someone who has Japanese blood in me, this is true. The culture there is way different than it is in the U.S. Women cannot even make direct eye contact with men while talking to them. It is considered to be disrespectful of the woman if she does so. There is some truth in that women's body temperature does change during our period. However, of course this does not affect our cooking abilities in any way. Yes, there is a lot of sexism that still exists today. I have male relatives who live there who seriously believe that food prepared by women while she is menstruating will cause food poisoning among anyone who eats the food and that when having sex, if a woman moans she will somehow cause mold to grow in the home, particularly in the windows. It is silly or ridiculous to Westerners but makes sense to them. Different cultures, different beliefs.

miss.a.p1600
11-14-2018, 09:23 AM
Tonight, at the dinner table, One of the guests is from Japan. He owns a few restaurants. In Japan, a woman can't be the sushi chef for three reasons:
1)women use skin products. (don't they know we can wash our hands?)
2)women's body temperature changes when we have our period, that will ruin the sushi when we are making it. (What a load of BS)
3)Also, menstrual cycle will mess up our taste for food.

Never thought about it until you mentioned this and now I think back I’ve never seen a woman making sushi

Interesting

Glamourmilf
11-14-2018, 09:41 AM
I hate when customer service people call me Mrs. Last name. Why do you have to assume every single adult woman is married, or wants to be known as Mrs.?

Or when servers call me ma'am.:no::no::no:
I realize that it's a sign of respect.
Those that say Miss get HUGE tips from me. Lol!

Vyanka
11-14-2018, 01:17 PM
I miss my first manager. I wish every manager were like him! Girls respected each other's space bc of him. My current is a joke sometimes.

Vyanka
11-14-2018, 01:18 PM
Or when servers call me ma'am.:no::no::no:
I realize that it's a sign of respect.
Those that say Miss get HUGE tips from me. Lol!

Lol

I HATE being called Ma'am too. Ugh. Sounds so ancient. -_-

miss.a.p1600
11-14-2018, 08:08 PM
I have a hard time with men sometimes.

I want, the ones I like, to have an understanding that until they commit then any guy could have a chance to replace them. It seems like often times they act entitled and expect monogamy before they commmit.

chanzep
11-14-2018, 08:47 PM
Starting to hate new vanilla job again lol, at least it's work from home.

AChildOfBoredom
11-15-2018, 06:29 AM
So there was a snake in the garage. And everyone’s apparently more freaked out that I pinned down its head, picked it up, and tossed it outside than they were about the snake itself. For fuck’s sake, is there anything I can do without, “you’re not normal…” being the general reaction? I know this already, I’ve been reminded of it enough times, and I’m just tired of hearing it. You wouldn’t be either if you were me.

miss.a.p1600
11-15-2018, 06:57 AM
I would rather sleep all day than go to the vanilla office an work

Glamourmilf
11-15-2018, 07:35 AM
I have a hard time with men sometimes.

I want, the ones I like, to have an understanding that until they commit then any guy could have a chance to replace them. It seems like often times they act entitled and expect monogamy before they commmit.

I have a hard time with men ALL the time.
That needy dude who I mentioned just met me ONCE, yet acts as if we're monogamous, pissed me off yesterday.
He texted hi. I asked for a photo, because I forgot what he looked like. ( I wanted to show it to my gay boyfriend tonight).
Anyway, instead of sending one, he demands to see one of me first.
Okay. I send him a face shot.
Well, that's not good enough.
He texted me back that he wants one of me from the back, looking over my shoulder. ( A.k.A. Wanted to see my ass).
I went OFF on him!
How he claims to be a gentleman, saying he will take things slowly, blah blah. When he's really just like all of the others,etc.
Bottom line. I blocked him.
It's best.
Conversations are never flowing or easy with him. He is so annoying. He acts like the 'trick' who's stopped spending, yet wants everything for free. Gross.
Good riddance.50626

WendiStarr
11-15-2018, 07:51 AM
It's so cold today. My daughter is at school but she'll be with her grandparents(his parents) after school because it's Thursday and his court ordered time with her. I'm alone with too much time to think and I don't like this right now.

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-15-2018, 08:04 AM
So there was a snake in the garage. And everyone’s apparently more freaked out that I pinned down its head, picked it up, and tossed it outside than they were about the snake itself. For fuck’s sake, is there anything I can do without, “you’re not normal…” being the general reaction? I know this already, I’ve been reminded of it enough times, and I’m just tired of hearing it. You wouldn’t be either if you were me.

There are probably rodents infesting that garage. Where small edible rodents go, wild snakes follow....

Jalena
11-15-2018, 11:52 AM
'The One who loves you will never leave you for another because even if there are 100 reasons to give up he or she will find one reason to hold on.'


This asinine saying, in all its forms, is getting more and more under my skin lately. It seems like whoever writes/believes this is choosing to ignore the fact that sometimes, no matter what you do, it's never going to be enough and the only decent, smart, safe thing left for you to do is leave.

I realise I am taking this personally, but after a long string of abusive/addiction-ruined relationships (especially my last one, which was a whole new level of clusterfuck) I can't see it as anything more than a crapsaccharine guilt trip.

SuperJa
11-15-2018, 12:03 PM
^^

Ugh yes, and all those sayings make it seem like "love" is the end goal. We've all loved different people all throughout our lives, but the goal should be a partnership where you both grow and support each other. I've definitely left relationships where the "love" was there, but it would have meant being stagnant and I am NOT down for that.

DonaDiabla
11-15-2018, 12:20 PM
Why do bill people like waiting two days to take money off your card?:bomb::bomb:

AChildOfBoredom
11-15-2018, 03:04 PM
'The One who loves you will never leave you for another because even if there are 100 reasons to give up he or she will find one reason to hold on.'


This asinine saying, in all its forms, is getting more and more under my skin lately. It seems like whoever writes/believes this is choosing to ignore the fact that sometimes, no matter what you do, it's never going to be enough and the only decent, smart, safe thing left for you to do is leave.

I realise I am taking this personally, but after a long string of abusive/addiction-ruined relationships (especially my last one, which was a whole new level of clusterfuck) I can't see it as anything more than a crapsaccharine guilt trip.

When I hear these "folksy words of wisdom" uttered as absolutes, and the person saying it is beyond their teenage years, it just makes me want to smack them. I get it... it's romantic to be a hopeless romantic. But there's this little thing called reality which I think people who like to throw such sayings out either haven't experienced or try to ignore.


There are probably rodents infesting that garage. Where small edible rodents go, wild snakes follow....

We have the exterminator come pretty regularly. While I doubt it's entirely rodent free, I'm pretty confident we don't have an infestation.