View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Glamourmilf
12-23-2018, 10:37 AM
I really don't feel like going to my mom's house tomorrow. That's an hour drive away and could I please be spared the crap about how so and so got married, has a baby on the way, the reminder that I am "over the hill" at 30+ years of age, and the questions about,"When are you going to find a nice guy to marry and have more babies?" Never mind the fact that a.)With my job it's too tough to find someone who will sincerely enough to want to marry me b.)guys don't want to marry any more these days anyways c.)my bf is already in an unhappy marriage yet doesn't seem to be in a hurry to leave it but even if he did and married me, then d.)I'm infertile and babies will probably never happen again without expensive $10k+ medical procedures and fertility drugs. I'm sick of hearing about marriage and babies. Don't ask me if I'm engaged. Don't poke at my tummy or ask me if I have a grand baby on the way. I don't care how many times I tell her and other relatives that marriage and more babies are likely never going to happen for me, they still annoy me with this. I already gave you one grandchild by some miracle. Bother the rest of my siblings for more. They are younger, two are married, and the other ones have plenty of time to grow up, get married, and produce an army of grandchildren.
I'll trade places with you. Enjoy her quips while you can. You're going to miss it one day, trust me.
I wish my Mom was still alive. Christmas was always such a big celebration in my house.
I'll be home, alone. Will probably do laundry since all of my neighbors won't be in the laundry room that day.
JGB2009
12-23-2018, 10:56 AM
The rudeness of you for kind of standing me up on Friday.....I call BS.....no one is to busy to message someone to tell them they are busy. Fuck you, Fuck you, and Fuck you!!!!!!
AChildOfBoredom
12-23-2018, 11:09 AM
I really don't feel like going to my mom's house tomorrow. That's an hour drive away and could I please be spared the crap about how so and so got married, has a baby on the way, the reminder that I am "over the hill" at 30+ years of age, and the questions about,"When are you going to find a nice guy to marry and have more babies?" Never mind the fact that a.)With my job it's too tough to find someone who will sincerely enough to want to marry me b.)guys don't want to marry any more these days anyways c.)my bf is already in an unhappy marriage yet doesn't seem to be in a hurry to leave it but even if he did and married me, then d.)I'm infertile and babies will probably never happen again without expensive $10k+ medical procedures and fertility drugs. I'm sick of hearing about marriage and babies. Don't ask me if I'm engaged. Don't poke at my tummy or ask me if I have a grand baby on the way. I don't care how many times I tell her and other relatives that marriage and more babies are likely never going to happen for me, they still annoy me with this. I already gave you one grandchild by some miracle. Bother the rest of my siblings for more. They are younger, two are married, and the other ones have plenty of time to grow up, get married, and produce an army of grandchildren.
I feel your pain. I catch it from both directions. In my community, I’m pretty much an old hag for not being married and having had children by the end of my early 20s. Then, there’s my “husband’s” family, unaware that ours is a sham marriage, wondering why I don’t have a bun in the oven after six years of ‘marriage’. So, we told them I was infertile, so now we get bombarded with information about fertility clinics and such.
It’s tempting to just come out and tell them the real nature of our marriage, that I never have and never will fuck their son, but not to worry - he’s lobbing jizz elsewhere, so it’s quite possible they’ll get a grandchild soon. But that would do much more harm than good.
miss.a.p1600
12-23-2018, 06:48 PM
I have the pleasure (insert sarcasm here) of working the vanilla career this holiday.
I was hoping to at least be paired up with a sexy male coworker to help make the time more enjoyable but I’m paired up with this stank heaux that wrote me up. I’m going to have to pretend that I like her when the truth is .... I really don’t like her monkey ass. And I ain’t getting paid enough for that level of acting. Fuck my life rn!!!
Ladycaxe
12-24-2018, 06:55 AM
I went to work from 3am-6am. Free house fee *kanye shrug*. I made $30. I'm slightly annoyed but....I won't let it get to me lol. Lets just enjoy this merry merry Christmas. and excited for the new year :D and new money
oH on a bright note, my work friend left me the rest of her pizza :D its so delicious ! kind of worth it. lol
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-24-2018, 07:38 AM
I feel your pain. I catch it from both directions. In my community, I’m pretty much an old hag for not being married and having had children by the end of my early 20s. Then, there’s my “husband’s” family, unaware that ours is a sham marriage, wondering why I don’t have a bun in the oven after six years of ‘marriage’. So, we told them I was infertile, so now we get bombarded with information about fertility clinics and such.
It’s tempting to just come out and tell them the real nature of our marriage, that I never have and never will fuck their son, but not to worry - he’s lobbing jizz elsewhere, so it’s quite possible they’ll get a grandchild soon. But that would do much more harm than good.
If this make you feel better Boyfriend and I constantly gloat over our happiness at being child free. Perfect credit! No bad debt! We buy what we want! We sleep in all the time! We listen to the neighbor's screaming infant and think, It SUCKS to be you!!!
^^^ I know I pissed people off by sharing that but really, being childfree OR planning your family growth correctly is the way to go.....
carmen_b
12-24-2018, 01:53 PM
^ LOVE it.
I caught shade yesterday ( the comment was literally " She will never use third row seating " when I was asking about this car ). Haha. Bitch !
I would have had a great come back loaded but I was not ready ( the comment surprised me ).
Now I'll have great stuff loaded ( where should I travel next ect. ? ).
There is nothing wrong with chatting about the upsides of a child free life !
carmen_b
12-24-2018, 01:55 PM
I woke up struggling today. It was a real effort to get out and get coffee .
I will turn this day around !
Update: All is not lost. That was a great coffee , then did a pedicure, then Cafe Rio.
Maybe I'll treat myself to a movie at 7p.m.
Not ideal but I'm alone in this location until I move towards my parents house soon for Christmas .
;)
AChildOfBoredom
12-24-2018, 02:50 PM
So it begins. I have to pretend to be the loving wife today and tomorrow.
carmen_b
12-24-2018, 05:41 PM
^ You going to explain this to us ? Haha. I've been curious before but ( if you are comfy sharing ) ....... what is this marriage exactly ?
Green card ? To fool family ?
( disregard if not comfy sharing )
chanzep
12-24-2018, 06:17 PM
My stupid job pissed me off today, they ask me to wor O T today, even reminded me last night , I log in 8 am at 8:15 they tell a bunch of us to log off we are not needed!, I was so mad . they are so rude , when I was telling them I had been told to come in they started typing in caps to leave, good job I work from home but still I never get up at 7 am normally, assholes.
Violethollywood
12-24-2018, 06:33 PM
So i know it's dumb but there's this chick I know and her choices in life are irritating my soul.
She's just so DUMB . She's a cokehead and has kids or at least she was a coke head up until recently if she did quit... anyway, her husband goes to jail for domestic violence back in sept right? As soon as he lands in jail, She's on another dick except this guy is EXACTLY like her husband except taller. This new guy is facing his 3rd domestic violence charge, has 3 kids from 3 different mamas that he never sees. He's a straight piece of shit . All she does is front all over facebook about her new relationship yet she hasnt even filed for divorce from her husband who is in jail. I'm just like why are you doing this to yourself?
She hates me so it's not like I could say anything to her with out her copping an attitude. This new guy she is with STOLE from her sister a few years ago when they happened to be at the same bar, And just recently stole food from one of his baby mama's house. It's a giant shit show i can't stop watching . LOL.
Aurora_Sunset
12-24-2018, 06:34 PM
I can't remember ever feeling this little into the holiday spirit. It doesn't feel like Christmas/New Years at all. I really tried to get into this year too - not being a scrooge or anything - but I had no free time to do anything Christmas-y or relax that it just feels like any other stupid old winter day.
Vyanka
12-24-2018, 09:04 PM
Am I a bitch for this? If you throw a party, shouldn't you consider your guests food allergies, etc.
Me and my mom don't eat pork or dairy(I'm allergic).
My sister is vegan.
What's at this party... pasta with meat and cheese. Roasted pork -_- So we look like cunts for saying "no thx".
Shit... everyone knows this for years
Jalena
12-24-2018, 10:16 PM
Insecure bitch girlfriends and wives, and the spineless 'men' who cower before them.
Lost an aunt a few years ago to cancer. This was not an aunt and uncle I was close to, and I later cut ties with the uncle for other reasons, but my uncle and my dad had a nearly 50 year long friendship at that point. My aunt and my mother had been in the picture for almost as long. The four of them had been really close. So, it would make sense that my parents would go to whatever memorial service/spreading of ashes/whatever they decided to do, right?
Nope. Uncle married about 6mo later to some broad he met on a dating website. Nice enough lady, although spineless when it comes to her monster kids ... when it comes to my uncle, her word is law. She decided where my aunt's ashes were going to be deposited, and also decided that she was the only one permitted to go. Never even knew this lady and she is calling all of the final shots.
She eventually pulled him away from us entirely, and while I think our family is better off without him for a number of reasons, he was suicidal for awhile after my aunt died. Not one other relative or friend who lived nearby so much as rang him to check up on him, but he was over at our house for dinner at least twice a week. In this case I am more pissed off that their combined dumbfuckery cost my parents a lifelong friendship, but in general this behaviour just disgusts me. I have lost too many friendships myself because of my friends' insecure SOs. People are really pathetic sometimes.
AChildOfBoredom
12-25-2018, 04:07 AM
^ You going to explain this to us ? Haha. I've been curious before but ( if you are comfy sharing ) ....... what is this marriage exactly ?
Green card ? To fool family ?
( disregard if not comfy sharing )
No green cards or any of that. It was basically fulfilling a dying man’s wish after my husband had dug himself into a hole claiming that he was engaged in order to appease them. His father fell ill, and he suddenly had to produce a bride. Well, incentives were offered (there were also incentives put forth from his family for him to get married), so I said, “Sure. Got nothing better to do” (I’m such a romantic, I know). Oh, yes - we were at a Taco Bell when we got engaged.
So the old man who we thought would be pushing daisies about six years ago… I think everyone underestimated him, and now he likes to awkwardly show me off, especially being a veteran (he’s a Vietnam vet himself), and it’s just like, “ummmm… you do remember we’re celebrating a big event for your son, right?”.
His health isn’t great, and I imagine there’ll be one he won’t bounce back from. When I hardly knew him, it wasn’t so difficult to deal with. Now, I know it’s going to hurt a lot for me as well when it does, and it’s become a major point of contention between my husband and I, because I don’t feel like I can keep withholding the truth about our marriage from him.
seashell
12-25-2018, 04:49 AM
Feeling emo this Christmas. I'm so far away from my friends and family. I barely know anyone in this city/country, and most people here celebrate Christmas in January. As an atheist, I know I shouldn't care that much, but I feel like I'm in the upside-down from Stranger Things. Everything is so different here, I can barely speak the language, everyday tasks are extra challenging, and all my old familiar holidays from the US are meaningless here. This is the most homesick I've felt in a long time.
miss.a.p1600
12-25-2018, 08:02 PM
I need to leave this vanilla position bad!
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2018, 06:42 AM
I don’t like some of my immediate family members
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2018, 06:44 AM
I have some liquor. I’d rather drink liquor and lay in bed on stripper webs than go work with people I don’t like
indiegirl
12-26-2018, 06:51 AM
I feel really bitchy for saying this but I don't like when customers text me asking when I'm coming in to work or just to bug me on my days off. I had 6 of them that texted me last week while I was gone finally getting sober (Day 10) off of all the alcohol. One sent like 6 texts and he finally said "Are you okay?" I still haven't responded to them.
WendiStarr
12-26-2018, 11:07 AM
Mr. Dilf and his lovey dovey morning texts but he doesn't say anything when I text him back until the following morning. He sends heart emojis randomly and then tells me not to text him back. I know he's off of work until January and she's around. It's annoying as hell though because this fucker infiltrates my mind all day and appears in my dreams. I don't know how long I'm supposed to wait for him to make up his mind on what he wants.
SweetJuliaXXX
12-26-2018, 02:09 PM
Almost 36 hours at my moms' house for Christmas. Anyone wanna trade families? I'll throw in some psych meds.......you'll be needing them......
queenelayliah
12-26-2018, 02:20 PM
You know what pissed me off right now. I send out a sales email to my mailing list and a flirt who i didnt know was on my mailing list copies my email WORD FROM WORD and then send ME a sales email saying call me.
Bitch you could have atleast changed my words and made it your own!
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2018, 07:50 PM
Mr. Dilf and his lovey dovey morning texts but he doesn't say anything when I text him back until the following morning. He sends heart emojis randomly and then tells me not to text him back. I know he's off of work until January and she's around. It's annoying as hell though because this fucker infiltrates my mind all day and appears in my dreams. I don't know how long I'm supposed to wait for him to make up his mind on what he wants.
Never. I mean never wait for a man to make decisions. Cause they might not be the decision you deserve plus those mfs will never wait for you to leave a dude/bf/husband.
When they know you rely on them that gives them leverage over you.
I only say this cause I learn.....the hard way
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2018, 09:32 PM
My arch nemesis tried to push her work off on me.
Good thing the manager has some damn sense and told that lil heaux she is responsible for her own cotdamn work
Cuntmeister = 0 Miss.a = 1
Take that bih!!!
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2018, 09:44 PM
The manager that wrote me up had the gall to try to make small talk with me.
Bitch! I could give two shits if you forgot your umbrella.
1. You can’t borrow anything of mine
2. I hope your ass gets caught up in a monsoon
Glamourmilf
12-27-2018, 09:35 AM
I have a hard time with men ALL the time.
That needy dude who I mentioned just met me ONCE, yet acts as if we're monogamous, pissed me off yesterday.
He texted hi. I asked for a photo, because I forgot what he looked like. ( I wanted to show it to my gay boyfriend tonight).
Anyway, instead of sending one, he demands to see one of me first.
Okay. I send him a face shot.
Well, that's not good enough.
He texted me back that he wants one of me from the back, looking over my shoulder. ( A.k.A. Wanted to see my ass).
I went OFF on him!
How he claims to be a gentleman, saying he will take things slowly, blah blah. When he's really just like all of the others,etc.
Bottom line. I blocked him.
It's best.
Conversations are never flowing or easy with him. He is so annoying. He acts like the 'trick' who's stopped spending, yet wants everything for free. Gross.
Good riddance.50626
Remember this guy?
He texted me Merry Christmas at 7 PM on Christmas night.
I told him to fuck off weeks ago, so why is he still messaging me? Everytime I block him, he gets a new number.
He says that all he wants for Christmas is to spend lots and lots of time with me.
Huh?:O
Weirdo.::)
AChildOfBoredom
12-27-2018, 10:28 AM
I need to go find some busy work to keep myself occupied, find a quiet place to rub one out, take another horse out for a ride, or go home... just.... do... something. I'm at work and there isn't shit for me to do, so I'm on here writing fucking novels and bored out of my mind.
Elektra Luxx
12-27-2018, 12:43 PM
I chipped a fingernail and it keeps catching on everything, but I'm too lazy to get up and find a nail file.
lynn2009
12-27-2018, 01:31 PM
Someone I'm helping at work, not even my own direct report, argued with me about something stupid over our instant messenger system, then ended her message with a "just sayin". Yeah, ok, let me just sayin that to your boss you dumb asshole.
WendiStarr
12-27-2018, 02:10 PM
Ugh, guys! I've had this guy friend for 6 years. I've never slept with him or anything. Recently he had been confiding in me about his relationship problems and their alleged lack of a sex life(he's been dating the same woman for 9 years now, since before he met me). He sent me this long text about how he knows he might be out of line but he wants to know if I could have sex with him. Apparently she's out of town until tomorrow night. I told him to go book an escort if he wants sex that bad. He has no idea that I am one and I'd never tell him. I have zero interest in fucking him regardless. He could probably easily find someone to have sex with on tinder, some other hook up app, or any local bar but he said no, that he'd rather have sex with me. I told him that I don't think of him in a sexual way. In fact I think of him like a brother. He doesn't get it and said he'd be fine if all I wanted to do was have a one night stand with him and never speak to him again afterwards. Really? Why so willing to risk ending 6 years of friendship over that? Some guys are stupid.
chanzep
12-27-2018, 11:13 PM
The manager that wrote me up had the gall to try to make small talk with me.
Bitch! I could give two shits if you forgot your umbrella.
1. You can’t borrow anything of mine
2. I hope your ass gets caught up in a monsoon
Monsoon lool
miss.a.p1600
12-28-2018, 11:17 AM
Ugh, guys! I've had this guy friend for 6 years. I've never slept with him or anything. Recently he had been confiding in me about his relationship problems and their alleged lack of a sex life(he's been dating the same woman for 9 years now, since before he met me). He sent me this long text about how he knows he might be out of line but he wants to know if I could have sex with him. Apparently she's out of town until tomorrow night. I told him to go book an escort if he wants sex that bad. He has no idea that I am one and I'd never tell him. I have zero interest in fucking him regardless. He could probably easily find someone to have sex with on tinder, some other hook up app, or any local bar but he said no, that he'd rather have sex with me. I told him that I don't think of him in a sexual way. In fact I think of him like a brother. He doesn't get it and said he'd be fine if all I wanted to do was have a one night stand with him and never speak to him again afterwards. Really? Why so willing to risk ending 6 years of friendship over that? Some guys are stupid.
Hence why I stopped keeping male friends.
They get confused, hold on to hope that one day you’ll fuck them, and some of them get petty af and will turn on you if you don’t fuck them/develop sexual attraction to them.
To me it’s like .... Dude you either a non-sexual acquaintance or lover/bf/husband
Yes that guy is stupid it sounds like he is trying to fuel his ego (cause Birtha done left him high an dry n probably not sexually attracted to him anymore) and instead of working on himself and making an effort he is going to default to the option that requires what he thinks is no effort .... single female friend he has a 6 year rapport with who (in his mind) is secretly eager to do him. Men and their delusions of grandeur!
Plus I think he’s foolishly willing to risk a 6 year friendship so he can get a one up (by revenge fucking) on Bertha and have leverage/feel like a desired man again.
I could be wrong but from what you mention ... just my hypothesis
Good thing you rejected his request
Vyanka
12-28-2018, 11:46 AM
Why can't strippers be called "strippers" or "entertainers" anymore? Our "umbrella" is called "adult entertainment". I get ppl can call themselves whatever they want to, but I'm not vibing with the term "sex worker". Personally, not what I wanna call myself to avoid confusion. That is another term of escort, and not the derogatory "P" word.
I got annoyed when the bartender at my club told the customer I was a" sex worker". I looked at her like NO. He looked at her cofused and disagreed. He told her I was an "entertainer". Agree with him. I think this can confuse men into thinking that I actually get paid to have sex by calling me a "sex worker". Thank God he was cool, bc he could've asked me for services... which annoys most of us itc.
miss.a.p1600
12-28-2018, 12:47 PM
Well according to some people all strippers are “prostitutes” anyways so might as well throw everyone into the same blanket category
I mentioned a strip club/strippers to a family member and this bih was like “you know that’s prostitution right?”
I didn’t feel like debating the close minded heifer at that moment but I knew I was way more savvy to that life then they would ever be.
I’m not a fan of the word sex worker simply because it has a very transactional connotation. Not that I care about transactional relationships but I just seems like men become very ruthless and disrespectful of women when things are transactional in nature. They can’t handle it and if reframing it with words that have more positive connotation like adult entertainment helps them treat women better in my opinion.
yaya_cash
12-28-2018, 04:27 PM
Well according to some people all strippers are “prostitutes” anyways so might as well throw everyone into the same blanket category
I mentioned a strip club/strippers to a family member and this bih was like “you know that’s prostitution right?”
I didn’t feel like debating the close minded heifer at that moment but I knew I was way more savvy to that life then they would ever be.
I’m not a fan of the word sex worker simply because it has a very transactional connotation. Not that I care about transactional relationships but I just seems like men become very ruthless and disrespectful of women when things are transactional in nature. They can’t handle it and if reframing it with words that have more positive connotation like adult entertainment helps them treat women better in my opinion.
Traditional strippers aren't sex workers because they wouldn't normally perform sex acts. They are adult entertainers or adult workers. A person that so bluntly or regularly provides sex can be an acclaimed sex worker, such as a porn actress, legal prostitute, street walker or those notorious back page girls.
miss.a.p1600
12-28-2018, 05:26 PM
^I know this......
But the cold reality is....some strip club regions have normalized extras and some strippers are doing way more than stripping in the club.
This is probably why strippers have been lumped into “sex work” category.
The average person is not going to understand that Bubbles who performs extras at The Shake Junt is not the traditional stripper. The average person is going to be like “damn I knew The Shake Junt was a slick brothel and all strippers are prostitutes!”
A stripper can dance “clean” all she wants but if she works in a region/at a club that has a reputation for extras .... guess what ..... the average person is going to assume she slanging extras ITC .... aka sex worker
I don’t agree. I’m just saying......
Especially in conservative areas people can be close minded, over-generalize, and quick to label what they don’t understand
miss.a.p1600
12-28-2018, 07:32 PM
The vanilla workplace is annoying me again.
I have to work the weekend to make sure all the work is done (cause if it’s not these heaux a will try to write me up again) and The “manager” is like “oh next time make sure you get approval” ..... so annoying! Like damn I gotta get approval to breathe in that mf.
Bitch! Approve these nuts in your mouth!
WendiStarr
12-28-2018, 07:39 PM
Damn jealous bitch stole $20 from me. I know it was her because nobody else was around and she was sitting there complaining about how she only had one customer all day. I confronted her about it and she lied right to my face. I just shook my head and walked away. I have to keep a closer watch on my shit. Whatever. Karma's coming.
Ifyouseekamy
12-28-2018, 09:24 PM
Damn jealous bitch stole $20 from me. I know it was her because nobody else was around and she was sitting there complaining about how she only had one customer all day. I confronted her about it and she lied right to my face. I just shook my head and walked away. I have to keep a closer watch on my shit. Whatever. Karma's coming.
So sad. $20. Wow she must be ugly if she had to steal $20. I’d start giving handjobs before I’d steal from one of my bitches. Being a woman is hard enough, the last person I’d steal from is another female.
My petty annoyance-vampires!
I’m not a therapist. I can point people in the right direction, but 9 times out 10 they just want to suck energy from me instead of doing the hard work themselves. My goal for 2019 is to not let people suck the life out of me. I talk about solutions, but I’m not listening to problems.
baer45
12-28-2018, 10:51 PM
Last minute cancellations. I find that so annoying. I could've stayed in comfy clothes, left my hair wavy and wild, and not bothered with makeup and perfume.
You don’t say. Lots of work to get ready. You don’t get paid for what you already have done when they cancel it. And that happens more often when you meet a new client.
carmen_b
12-28-2018, 11:13 PM
I had someone steal a $20 in the club and still remember it years later. It's a horrible feeling even if it's just $20 ! Unbelievable !
Damn jealous bitch stole $20 from me. I know it was her because nobody else was around and she was sitting there complaining about how she only had one customer all day. I confronted her about it and she lied right to my face. I just shook my head and walked away. I have to keep a closer watch on my shit. Whatever. Karma's coming.
Aurora_Sunset
12-29-2018, 07:50 AM
For the next several months, I have to find somewhere to go Friday night - Sunday afternoon every other weekend when my bf has custody of his kids, until they know me better and I’m slowly integrated into their lives. Stayed with a friend the last few times, including last night, whose mom just moved in with him about a month ago. I got off work at 10 but had to go entertain myself until 12:30 because he wasn’t gonna be home from work yet and I didn’t want to disturb her to simply open the door. This bitch has recently decided that the house needs to be 62 degrees at night now (I don’t fucking understand these kinds of people), so I shivered and froze under my one blanket on the couch until the heat kicked on around 6am. I work 12 hour shifts all weekend, and even bring my own lunch bag of meals for the weekend so I’m not eating any of their stuff. Ain’t nobody fucking bothering her.
At 9 this morning, I’m still lying on the couch resting, due to my late bedtime, but my friend has been out in the living room for a good 30 minutes already. I hear his mom bust out of her room and start bitching “It’s about time. I don’t like being trapped in my bedroom, you know?” He was like “You don’t have to...” She’s like “Well it’s kinda hard when there’s, ya know....” and gestures to me on the couch. He’s like “ There’s 2 full size couches.” “Well I can’t DO anything!” Him: “Yes you can. She doesn’t care.” Which I don’t. He’s often up later than me watching TV in the same room.
Like, 1) Aside from taking up 1/3 of the couch, you barely know I’m here. 2) I would happily take his sister’s dirty, cluttered bed that she never uses if it would make everyone more comfortable but it’s never been offered to me so I don’t mention it. And 3) Bitch, this isn’t even YOUR house. Your ass moved in for free after I had a standing invitation here. Oh, also, aside from work, my friend is on house arrest and is more than happy for the company. Go about your damn life.
Glamourmilf
12-29-2018, 08:37 AM
So sad. $20. Wow she must be ugly if she had to steal $20. I’d start giving handjobs before I’d steal from one of my bitches. Being a woman is hard enough, the last person I’d steal from is another female.
My petty annoyance-vampires!
I’m not a therapist. I can point people in the right direction, but 9 times out 10 they just want to suck energy from me instead of doing the hard work themselves. My goal for 2019 is to not let people suck the life out of me. I talk about solutions, but I’m not listening to problems.
"Ditto". My goal too.
The end of the year has me reevaluating my career goals.
I was thinking of getting back into the healing arts~ reiki, readings, cuddling, etc.
I flashed back on the last time I did. Nobody really took my advice, and all they were were energy vampires.
I also flashed back on a psychic/intuitive I personally would see, many, many years ago.
She said, " People don't REALLY want to be healed. They are too wrapped up in their abuse."
I was taken aback when she said it.
But, lately I've been revisiting that sentiment.
All the 'user' 'friends' who have been sniffing around wanting my time and attention are the perfect example.
I don't return their calls/messages, and they immediately become obsessive. Constantly trying to reach me. Nope. Glam has left the building.
In the past, I would have called right back, but then waited sometimes weeks for a return call.
They're attached to the abuse. That's all they know.
It becomes crystal clear, especially now, since I have met some genuine, loving people.
Bye bye user losers! Bye bye.:wave:
carmen_b
12-29-2018, 10:22 AM
^ I'm learning to read tarot. I love it.
I don't really expect people to pay for it ( though I did put it up for $10 on fiver ) . My friend and I sometimes read for each other at coffee shops and if someone comes over, we read for them ( just for free / fun ).
Violethollywood
12-29-2018, 11:13 AM
had a customer get mad I wouldn't show him my tits without a tip and he got so pissed. He's like "im good. pussy" and then left.
How am I pussy for not showing my tits without payment? LMAO BITCH! THIS AINT UNICEF. YOU'RE THE PUSSY YOU BROKE ASS WASTE OF SPACE . GOD!
carmen_b
12-29-2018, 12:00 PM
^ Surely you wanted him to peep for free though ? haha
What is wrong with these people ?
carmen_b
12-29-2018, 12:01 PM
I'm in a state of fear because the club I want to try soon requires that damning sounding " sexually oriented business license " .
It never caused me problems before but I have this fear that if I get it somehow it'll mess with this other goal ( requires a background check and an " ethics " screening ). I can feel myself getting nervous about it so maybe I just won't do it . I was only wanting to pop over and work 4-5 nights anyway.
I could really use the cash in hand though . ;/