View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-26-2014, 11:44 AM
My mother has made a few comments over the last several days abt 'how good it is that you're finally standing up for yourself w/ [recent ex] … you've tolerated so much shit bc you don't have any self-esteem …'
Are you fkng kidding me … you & my dad thought I was mentally ill in grade school when I refused to shave my legs & treated me accordingly … called me a disgusting embarrassment … your idea of dealing w/ violent bullies in school was 'kill em w/ kindness' … 'fighting back is un-ladylike' … I learnt more abt 'standing up for myself' from my martial arts instructors than I ever did from my parents & I was already in my teens by then, no wonder 'standing up for myself isn't 2nd nature & whenever I do it I overreact & hurt ppl's feelings' My dad didn't even want me starting martial a he thought it would 'make me aggressive' & I was already getting complaints from schoolteachers abt 'going off on other kids' who bullied & physically hurt me.
She made another one of her comments implying 'no self-esteem' then tried to joke that I need to relax. I was just telling myself 'Don't flip your shit at your mother on Xmas Fkng Day' But she is so bloody narrow-minded it would nvr occur to her that she is a huge part of the reason 'poor Aniela is such a pushover'
I've noticed that bully types panic when they get a response out of someone they felt secure in attacking. (I personally feel most bullies are geniuses at reading body language, that's how they profile targets.) After a childhood of being bullied by relatives and people at school....I've gotten good at lulling bullies into complacency and then fucking them up at a surprise moment. (Or sometimes their weak moments, lol.)
Regarding parents and abusive behavior, I noticed many feel they get a built in "pass" on that b/c they "made" their kids. Like, "you can't get mad at me, I made you." I had to grow up to understand this. (I don't have kids but seeing life as an adult, I could understand how parents would view their offspring this way.)
Aniela
12-26-2014, 12:42 PM
I've noticed that bully types panic when they get a response out of someone they felt secure in attacking. (I personally feel most bullies are geniuses at reading body language, that's how they profile targets.) After a childhood of being bullied by relatives and people at school....I've gotten good at lulling bullies into complacency and then fucking them up at a surprise moment. (Or sometimes their weak moments, lol.)
Regarding parents and abusive behavior, I noticed many feel they get a built in "pass" on that b/c they "made" their kids. Like, "you can't get mad at me, I made you." I had to grow up to understand this. (I don't have kids but seeing life as an adult, I could understand how parents would view their offspring this way.)
Thnx for this, & I agree largely w/ bullies being genius profilers. Dominant personalities are that way in general IME, even when they don't harbour malicious motives.
As to the parents, I think part of it is that my mother has (her words, not mine) nvr been a target of bullies, apparently in school she was one of the lucky ones who kept to herself but didn't have problems w/ any1. So I guess if she's nvr been on the receiving end of that sort of abuse she could afford to stick her head in the sand & say it's no big deal. My dad was the basic opposite -- alcoholic abusive mother, well-meaning but enabling father, & an older brother who I am quite convinced is a true sociopath. Growing up for him was literally 'do as you're told or get beat w/in an inch of your life, & even then sm times a little smacking-around bc it feels good' So once he makes a decision, altho he's nvr hit me (beyond an occasional well-earned spanking) he is forceful in other ways & 'opposing viewpoints' are … not esp welcome.
They are both quick to write-off things they don't agree w/ or understand as 'mental illness' or otherwise just wrong or undesirable. Not a whole lot of effort to see past their own prejudices. :banghead:
simone87
12-26-2014, 03:49 PM
I don't know if you ever went to court but he has no rights unless that was established in court.
yeah we never went to court for anything, i'm planing on nailing him for back child support since he can't even hold down a job, and the 50 bucks a month would just be coming out of his poor girlfriend's pocket if i took him to court right now. meh, glad i only have to deal with that crap once or twice a year!
Selina M
12-26-2014, 07:34 PM
^ Ugh I am so sorry Simone... one of my best friends kid's dad is like that. Not a peep from him all year, can't be bothered to drive out to see his son, but on holidays he calls and screams at her how he never gets to see him... the kid literally didn't even remember him last time she brought him over.
A lawyer actually told her to not file for custody, but to just dangle child support over his head whenever he gets demanding; "Don't talk to me that way or I will file for custody and sue you for back child support". He and his family knocked off a lot of their bullshit when she started that. Maybe you can try that next time he's an ass to you.
kassie
12-27-2014, 11:45 AM
No matter what you're weight is, people are always going to have something stupid to say.
I went to get my nails done yesterday and the lady who was doing my nails had the balls to tells me "honnie, you too skinny, eat more". I replied with "I love my body and I'm happy with the way I look. I don't starve myself and I eat normally, I'm just naturally skinny, and I love it" She Slinked back and shut her fucking mouth up.
Even the big women in the salon gave me that "you go girl" look. Thick or thin, we all go through some shit, even in opposite directions. We all struggle, in different ways but either ways struggle is struggle and struggling sucks. Even for those who have the perfect body, won't be forever and once it's gone, the mourning process is gonna suck. It's like this world is meant to set us up for failure, no matter what your circumstances may be. So instead of focusing on perfection, we also need to learn how to love ourselves no matter what. Be confident even in days you look like shit. Easier said than done for I have yet to learn that. Learn from that ugly stripper that puts on a sexy sensual stage show and banks, even though she's ugly, for she has learned how to overcome her flaws and bring out her inner beauty.
She's lucky I'm a stripper, so I still tipped her but she needs to watch her fucking mouth. Yes bitch like I'm gonna stuff my face till I feel sick because you tell me to.
Bitch acts like I have bones sticking out of my ass, or look like those scary skinny models that walk the runway. I'm well proportioned. People like her causes people who look perfectly fine to feel insecure and like shit. She pretty much politely insulted me. The Lord is testing me.
Naida
12-27-2014, 05:55 PM
She's lucky I'm a stripper, so I still tipped her but she needs to watch her fucking mouth.
Uh, no. Fuck that bitch. I tip well when I'm dancing too, but it's still based on job performance. That bitch was already making money off of doing your nails (unlike a waitress that gets no cut of your $20 entree) and has the nerve to make such a rude and unprofessional comment? Soup Nazi voice when I say "no tip for you!" Why?
She pretty much politely insulted me.
Cause no that bitch did not. Politely insulting you would have been mentioning that she's worried about your health. That is not what this bitch did. She tried telling you what to do with your body and no one has a right to do that.
Damn, I should quit ranting about other peoples' problems, but it's one of the few things keeping me sane as another New Year's Eve single is fast approaching.
whirlerz
12-27-2014, 06:04 PM
Well, I said my piece in 'Confession's" Thread
Yea. I've heard that shit all my life too..thanks for giving me a good thing to say. :)
Anyways, just what a day. I've dealt w/rats, both the 2 & 4 legged kind. :(
lol1337a
12-27-2014, 07:19 PM
[Warning, slight TMI]: Woke up late today, but just in time to make it into work for the reduced house fee. I started scrambling to get ready, psyching myself up imagining endless rooms and guys making it rain on my stage, barely noticing that my legs and ass were kinda itchy. As I was about to get into the shower, I noticed that my legs, ass, elbows, and lower arms are COVERED in hives. It looks like I was ravaged by a thousand mosquitos in my sleep.
So now I'm patting on Benadryl lotion over about 30% of my body, hoping it doesn't give me a weird contact high, staring at my ass in the mirror as the hours go by hoping it goes away so I can get to work by 11:30. I know from past experience it's just not going to happen, though. Last time this happened (I get them once every few years for no reason) I was out of work for a week because the fucking hives would not leave my ass. They always start on my ass and linger around like I have some sort of dog dragging its ass across the carpet rash for days after the rest clear up. The one place a stripper can't get away with skin problems! FML.
lol1337a
12-27-2014, 07:30 PM
Ughhh the Benadryl cream may have backfired. Everywhere I've grabbed to get a better view breaks out into a new crop of hives. So now they're triggered by any contact. I need an isolation tank.
On the bright side, it's sort of like cloudwatching...
whirlerz
12-27-2014, 10:14 PM
Would aloe help?
KikiGem
12-27-2014, 10:45 PM
My 'boyfriend' who lives a few states away is in a nearby town about 30 minutes away. He has barely communicated with me for months, and all of a sudden he messages me "I'm in town, I asked for this job to come see you, let's get together." I didn't reply because quite frankly he's an asshole and I'm not interested!
Idiot couldn't take a hint and has been fucking harassing me for days! Constant calls and texts asking for my new address, saying 'you must not want to see me anymore' I tried to explain to him that I have been sick since November, with a sinus infection, mysterious frightening neurological episodes (dizzy spells, complete loss of vision at one point, nausea, and terrible migraines) I'm on antibiotics and setting up appointments with specialists. I tried to explain to him that I haven't been social lately, I'm having a depressive episode and I've been withdrawing from everybody. I barely made it through Christmas, having to drive so far and go to family parties and all the bullshit took a lot out of me. I've just been struggling lately and I'm in no mood for him!
His response? "Well I just got done doing a 12 hour day I'm tired too and I'm the one who is trying to set something up with you." You fucking idiot!! I've done countless 15 hour days at the club so don't even try to whine to me about your job. And a long shift is nothing compared to how sick I've been. If having to do a 12 hour day every once in a while is your biggest complaint in life (and in his case it really is) then I envy you because that's nothing.
He is such an insensitive dumbass. I thought I was finally free of him but then all of a sudden, he comes back in my life out of the blue demanding my time and wasting my energy. I know he didn't take this job to come see me- he just happens to be in town and now he's looking for a free convenient fuck. He didn't ask me out on a proper date like a decent guy would do, especially since we haven't seen each other since September. Nope, all he wanted was for me to either come to his hotel, or to get my address- so it's obvious he just wants to get laid. Not gonna happen!
The only good thing that came out of this was that he let me borrow his GPS a while back, I still have it- and he's never getting it back!
Selina M
12-28-2014, 12:08 PM
Everybody keeps doing shit I wanted to do and it's seriously ticking me off.
Ex-best friend stole my wedding colors that she knew I wanted. My other friend is getting married next year and doing all these random small things I wanted to have at mine. Now bf's cousins have named their kid what we wanted to use (and it's NOT a common name at ALL).
This is all really silly but it's very irksome for some reason.
Vyanka
12-28-2014, 06:54 PM
Everybody keeps doing shit I wanted to do and it's seriously ticking me off.
Ex-best friend stole my wedding colors that she knew I wanted. My other friend is getting married next year and doing all these random small things I wanted to have at mine. Now bf's cousins have named their kid what we wanted to use (and it's NOT a common name at ALL).
This is all really silly but it's very irksome for some reason.
Damn. All of those things would irk the fuck out of me too, and they'd hear it. Not cool. Sorry. Hopefully you'll find better names, ideas, and colors. :) Don't tell anyone.
My annoyance - there are NO good looking men around me. It feels like there is a drought of decent looking men. Wtf.
KikiGem
12-28-2014, 07:06 PM
^^ That would annoy me too lol!
Ugh I am so annoyed. I just had an all-out almost-screaming match with my landlord. We were arguing for almost an hour. It started because she was trying to tell me a 'new' rule she made up about rinsing your dishes. Well it's actually not a new rule, she told me when I moved in to rinse the dishes before I leave them in the sink. I have done that ever since I was a kid anyway, and still do, so it's yet another non-issue 'problem' she made up.
She told me to leave my rinsed dishes in the sink, and she throws them in whenever she does hers. Well, she has been letting them rot in there for over a month- (yesterday I turned over a colander and there was a dead stinkbug in there.)
So what I've been doing is just hand-washing the dishes as I need them, because she doesn't want anyone but her to start the dishwasher, because it 'wastes water.' Ok crazy cheapskate.... but I'm pretty sure me hand-washing multiple dishes every day for a month wasted a lot more water than one simple load would have- but it's your water bill so have it your way.
She finally did them today but claims that I did not rinse the dishes I used, which I know is total bull shit. She presented me with the 'evidence' which was actually perfectly clean utensils that were covered in hard water build-up from her nasty crappy old dishwasher. I told her that, so she went looking through all the dishes looking for more evidence- but found none, because I do in fact rinse my dishes perfectly clean, and always have.
I've never gotten personal with her but she has no problem attacking me personally. She told me that I 'eat a lot' and 'use a lot of dishes.' The funny thing is, I don't eat that much at all. We are both thin, except I have nice curves and her body is shaped like a boy's (absolutely no ass or hips to speak of) That was actually the first thing I noticed about her, that she looks like a dude- in the face too. (I didn't tell her this of course)
A lot of things were said though, I went full-bitch on her- it's been a long time coming and she absolutely deserved it. Looking back on it it was actually kind of funny- she kept on after me as I was walking up the stairs, and I said, "Oh just shut up." She came right back with "YOU shut up!" Lol ok...
I tried to get her to break the lease on December 5th, but she said I needed to stay till the end of January. She wanted 30 days notice to find a new tenant, even though it was only 4 days past the 1st. I said let's just pro-rate January and I'll be out on the 15th, she refused that. My other roommate is moving out in 3 days and there has been zero interest in his room, and she's not gonna find anyone to replace me anytime soon either.
What I think I'm gonna do is discreetly move my stuff out within the next few days here and leave. I know she's gonna make up reasons to keep most (probably all) of my $300 security deposit anyway- what's the point in suffering another month with her and giving her another $450 for this.
Vackra
12-28-2014, 07:49 PM
Ughhh the Benadryl cream may have backfired. Everywhere I've grabbed to get a better view breaks out into a new crop of hives. So now they're triggered by any contact. I need an isolation tank.
On the bright side, it's sort of like cloudwatching...
I've had chronic hives for years. I get them from emotional distress, too hot water, and unfiltered drinking water, mainly. I don't find Benadryl works, but what DOES work is compression with cold glass. I used to keep an empty vodka bottle in my freezer for this exact reason.
Selina M
12-28-2014, 07:53 PM
^ agreed, if she doesn't have any money to hold over you, I wouldn't worry about it. Except for maybe the whole "landlord reference" things.... but she sounds like she'd find a reason to give you a bad reference anyway.
Thanks Vyanka, I am going to be making all my Pinterest boards private from now on and not even mentioning any general ideas. I think I might use the colors anyway, we only have one mutual friend and while he's still buddy-buddy with her, he's also well aware of how the theme was my idea first. I'll just do it better ;)
audrey_k
12-28-2014, 08:53 PM
I feel like all my friends want to do is bitch about guys and ask advice about their relationships, and I am seriously so sick of it. On top of that, I feel like giving any advice is pointless, because they don't want to hear it anyway. I get that when you're single and don't want to be you obsess about guys and I have been guilty of this, but I haven't been in LA for almost a year, can't we talk about something more important? I listened to one of my best friends, whom I haven't seen in almost a year, talk for at least 75% of the time I was with her last night about some guy she's been fucking for 4 months who has a girlfriend, and what should she do about it? Gee, I don't know, stop seeing him? Either that or accept that you're just gonna be fuck buddies and keep doing what you're doing. ANYTHING but hope he's going to leave his girlfriend and be with you. Cause I was with a married guy over the summer so I have some experience in this area, and the only reason it worked for me was because I didn't want commitment. But is this advice useful to her? Of course not, because she just wants to hear what she wants to hear, which is that if she stays around long enough he's decide he doesn't want to have his cake and eat it too-- in this case not get to go home to the girlfriend on the weekend and fuck her on the weekdays.
I seriously was so godamn sick of it I just wanted to leave after two hours, and I was SO excited to see her. She's one of my best friends and we've always gotten along so well. I'm seeing my other best friend on Tuesday and I'm worried it's going to be the same crap all over again as I know she's having problems with her (very short-term) boyfriend.
Perhaps I am being hypocritical as I know I have whined in the past and probably much on SW, but I feel like if you're this unhappy with someone, just fucking leave. Why stay? My relationship is by no means perfect--I don't believe any is-- but what makes me feel really good about my boyfriend and I is that when shit does come up we work it out like adults and I don't need to go on some bitch fest about it. Yes we argue and there are period of tension, but I honestly can't think of anything about him that I could complain about for a straight hour even. We had an argument a couple days ago, I went to bed angry, hoped to wake up to an apology, didn't, told him so, and he called and spoke openly with me and apologized. Problem solved, no need to bitch about it. Do things always get wrapped up that easily? Of course not, but there is not constant underlying tension in our relationship because we talk about everything. The only reason I see that this is sooo important is because I have dated SO many guys where I bitched and complained about the same problem for months and months and nothing changed. But is this advice helpful? Of course not.
I guess what really annoys me is girls dating assholes who just want to bitch and complain and not do anything about it.
lol1337a
12-28-2014, 11:16 PM
Thanks Whirlerz and Vackra. I've concluded that creams and oral antihistamines just keep them from spreading in the short term, but don't actually reduce anything. Covering myself in ice packs seems to be the best option so far, which is irritating because I hate the cold.
To keep true to the purpose of this thread I'm gonna go ahead and bitch some more about the fucking hives. They were much better when I woke up, but I took an unexpected, super long nap before taking my scheduled claritin in a really warm room. I'm definitely losing the battle now. They're almost everywhere except my face and boobs, but I can see mini hives forming even on those areas. At least my ass and inner thighs look superficially better, but in reality it's because all the hives converged into massive welts that take up square feet! OMFG. My five ice packs and 3 bags of frozen veggies don't even come close to covering the affected areas so I'm basically gonna have to suck it up and take a miserable ice bath.
I dealt with the worst anxiety I've had in years the past month and missed so much work already. I was just getting back into the swing of things and now this. It's like the universe is telling me to suck it up and go to work regardless of panic attacks, because who knows what physical shit will keep me home when I feel emotionally well. Ok, fine, next time I'm getting panic attacks I'll just bring a sack of Xanax to work and hope for the best.
michele11
12-29-2014, 10:10 AM
I wish my depression would go away already! Paxil is obviously not working but i'm afraid to get fat. When I was on paxil I was 126 and now I've gained 7 pounds on paxil becaise I've been taking it everyday since sept. Ugh. and I had that fearful anxiety 2 days in a row and couldn't even leave the house and I've been waking up and my wrist is hurting again! I haven't been using it alot or lifting heavy stuff. the incision hurts really bad sometimes. Idk. But I've only worked 10 shifts in 4 months. I need to go somewhere!
michele11
12-29-2014, 10:10 AM
Oops. I meant prozac.
countcrabula
12-29-2014, 11:44 AM
To keep true to the purpose of this thread I'm gonna go ahead and bitch some more about the fucking hives.
Hi lol1337a; just wanted to drop a note and say I used to work in an allergy office and we had a lot of patients with what we called "idiopathic urticaria," also known as "hives that appear for no damn reason." My doctor's first line of defense would be to prescribe Zyrtec 10mg once a day, along with Zantac (yes, the heartburn OTC medicine--no idea why it helps with it) 75mg twice a day. If that didn't help, there is a medicine syrup... ugh I forget the name... but it was a Rx that you took once a day. Most patients were relieved by the first step, and any of the remainder (save for like, one), were relieved by the other. Don't know if you've already tried this, but figured I'd try to help. :)
whirlerz
12-29-2014, 12:15 PM
@Kiki: Omg, wtf w/the anal b*. Yea, damn I'd GTFO there, maybe there's some way to get some $ bk from small claims?? I know you have to pay a court fee to file, so idk if it'd be worth it..
So sorry you're going thru that ugh. Hope you find a better place, soon. Glad you told her ass off though.
audrey_k
12-29-2014, 09:54 PM
I have been waiting for my future employer to get back to me for a week now... she wants me to work two days during my first week, but I want to switch the days so that I can work the day my bf is flying back and cook him dinner, we can exchange our Christmas gifts, have lots of sex, and spend the next two days just hanging out before he has to go back to work and I have to do my second day. I miss him sooooo fucking much right now, we've never been apart this long. And we still have two more weeks to go.
I asked her if I can switch the days, but she hasn't gotten back to me. I don't really know why it would be an issue since she isn't working that week and just wants to show me her kids morning and evening routines, but it would nice to have confirmation so I can start planning stuff. I feel like a week is long enough to return an email, even if it is the holidays.
And I told my friend I'd go out with her tonight but after spending the day with my mom and the early evening with my dad and brother, fuck I just want to watch some TV, FaceTime with my bf, and go to bed by 10:30. Really not in the mood to go to the bar scene. I feel like it's sad and pathetic, but I'm actually looking forward to going back to London and spending a week in our flat alone and just having some ME time. I miss my solitude, I feel like I don't get it anymore now that we live together.
Aniela
12-30-2014, 03:03 PM
The Club Reviews section -- all those spots at the top of the page to fill in 'expected mileage' 'fee/tipout rates' 'dancer quality/ethnicity' etc, more often than not they are left blank. It's been frustrating when I would go looking for clubs in the past & so many say 'no comment' bc girls don't bother to fill them in. Idk abt any1 else but those are all things I want to know abt going in.
Naida
12-30-2014, 09:12 PM
The Club Review section is a CONSTANT gripe for me too, Aniela.
~*SwanPrincess*~
12-31-2014, 12:52 AM
I've never been a big New Years person. I've been to big New Years eve parties in Vegas three times, but other than that it's just another day to me. Not that I can't have fun, I'm just really introverted and not a party girl.
My boyfriend told me yesterday he has all these crazy plans with his friends in the city and what clubs they're going to, etc. He barely even asked me if I wanted to go and assumed I wouldn't want to.
I dunno. I don't really have many girl friends so I don't know how people handle things like this, but I don't think "going out" is a good idea if you're in a commited relationship. Maybe I'm extra sensitive since I got burned big time by my ex husband and was far too trusting, but something about it seems disrespectful and doesn't sit well with me.
audrey_k
12-31-2014, 01:25 AM
^it sounds like you're more upset that you didn't ask you than he's going out. Why not tell him you'd like to join him?
I'm not doing anything for New Years either as my friends are either going to Vegas, SF or NY and I don't want to leave LA since that would be such a slap to my family's face. I honestly really don't care though as I'm not a party girl either, I just wish my bf would stop asking me what I'm doing for NYE.
I finally heard back from my employer and she's going to let me not work Tuesday which is good cause I can spend the evening and next day with my bf when he gets back, but now I have to work 3 days that week which is annoying as I was only supposed to work two and don't feel like going into work on Wednesday as it's my bf's last day before he has to go back and wanted to spend it with him. And seriously, I was looking forward to beautiful weather in CA and all I've gotten is cold and now fucking rain.
Naida
12-31-2014, 02:19 AM
Why won't this fucking headache go away?
Aniela
12-31-2014, 09:09 AM
This is going to be several grievances all crammed into one post …
I just checked my Mailboxes section on my iPad & discovered that NONE of the emails I have sent from it have gone thru. This includes two important emails that I sent my recent ex. Same problem w/ my iPhone -- bc I really am *that* tech-tarded & didn't know to configure the email settings on either device & wouldn't have known how if I did. I was thinking seriously abt calling him today to bitch bc I want the items back that I accidentally left at our old place when I moved out, that he promised to send me months ago, now Idk wtf to do. If I contact him I doubt it's going to go over well for either of us, but goddammit I want my stuff back & he promised!
Oh, & I'm w/ all the others who say 'Fk NYE parties' I am in introvert who got pushed into oncoming traffic by a drunk dumbass the last time I went out on NYE & I was completely sober. Fortunately no one was injured but I literally called in 'scared' to work the following morning bc it terrified me so much. 'calling in scared' was kind of a running joke at that job (poor aircraft maintenance), & the boss probably thought I was just covering up a hangover, but Fk all the fruitcakes who are out running around that nite, so not worth it. Last time I went out for NYE was '08.
Aniela
01-01-2015, 12:45 PM
Dumbfuck bicyclists are my main bitch today. Biking against traffic on a narrow one-way street(opposite the damn bike lane), weaving out of the bike lane into the car lane bc they are more interested in rubbernecking everything than in paying attention, crossing against traffic in front of my car when they not only don't have the RoW but I am clearly pulled out into the turn. I know not all of them are this stupid, but today, IMO, bicyclists in KW suck monkey-balls.
Jackwagons who pull their mopeds into the bike lane to illegally pass on the right. Got cut off by two of them today already.
Drivers who speed down the middle of these narrow-ass streets & flip shit bc another vehicle has the audacity to be coming from the opposite direction … on a 2way street … or in the correct direction on a one-way street.
audrey_k
01-01-2015, 04:55 PM
I got my hair done a couple days ago by my old hairdresser at home... she's been doing my hair for years and has always done a great job. I've been jumping from one hairdresser to another in London because no one can do what I like. When she saw my hair she went on a rant about how she didn't understand what the last couple stylists did, I don't understand enough about hair to say, but apparently they've been doing something really damaging to my hair when the whole point of me being brunette is to be nicer to my hair and have it be healthier, and whatever they were doing was completely unnecessary. She did some low lights and highlights and it looks perfect, not sure why I can't find a stylist in London who can do what she does. I wish I could pack her in my suitcase and take her back with me. :(
sexsells
01-01-2015, 09:50 PM
I have an insanely bad ear infection in my left ear and I can not take any good antibiotics to cure it since I'll probably have an anaphylactoid reaction to them!
I'm in so much pain I can barely open my mouth to drink water let alone eat.
I just wanna study and exercise :'(
whirlerz
01-01-2015, 10:35 PM
How about taking some vitamin C, garlic oil caps work good for infections
@ Audrey, there's Space NK, based in London for skin, hair, & makeup prods.
I hope I didn't lose my tote bag again..:(
audrey_k
01-02-2015, 02:27 AM
^yeah someone else posted that, they just don't have my brands! lol
whirlerz
01-02-2015, 06:44 AM
Damn. There's some other co., I know they're based in UK they've a HUGE selection of hair goods..can't think of their name but I'll check in BB to see if I can dig it up
Well. Found my bag, :), but gotta shower b/4 they shut off water again. :(
Naida
01-02-2015, 06:57 AM
I have some kind of infection. Fuck. Been cycling through a low fever off and on for hours.
michele11
01-02-2015, 12:17 PM
My new kitty had an eye issue. I had to put ointment in it for 7 days. She goes back today for her second shot and the eye, now has developed a brown spot by her iris. I hope it isn't serious because with travel I can't deal with this. Kathy said she wants me to bring her back. She just wants me to have one of bon bons kittens( because she's a quadruple grand champion) but i love her. Ugh. I'm going to the vet at 3 I hope it's nothing serious.
michele11
01-02-2015, 12:18 PM
^ and she wants me to show with her which is also hard with travel and expensive...
SweetJulia
01-02-2015, 12:20 PM
Sweet Jesus, I so hate women with short hair, fake hair, and bad hair giving me unsolicited advice on mine. Please don't tell me about how I'm "feeding stereotypes", I'm not doing this (what I look like) for anyone but me. I spent three years and 36K stuck in extensions because of experimenting, yes, I'm gonna flaunt what I've finally grown. I don't lack confidence, I go with a look I like and am happiest with. I'm not behind the times, I just won't try trends that won't look good on me, usually them either, then spend a year growing it out. You telling me what you'd love to do to my hair doesn't "inspire" me, it makes me want to check the locks on my door. Do I tell you yours looks stupid and is a mistake? No, cuz it's none of my business. Please, follow my example.
audrey_k
01-03-2015, 06:54 AM
I really hate when people at make up counters are super bitchy and unhelpful, I feel like MAC is really big hit or miss for that. Like I should not have to ask you to get me a product, you should be offering your help... And if I ask you a question don't act irritated when it's your job to be helping me. I'm not asking for a free make over, just the difference between two products.
I went to MAC today and was so disgusted with their customer service I didn't even want to buy the product I had come for. I was shopping for a few other things and said fuck it and spent my $250 at Sephora instead, serves them right to lose out on my $!
chickchick8182
01-03-2015, 07:43 AM
Hate when SO fucks with my schedule! Kids are gone, he was SUPPOSED to be gone all day and I planned to cam and PSO and film a bit in between all day! Don't wake up and decide you don't feel like doing what you were going to do and totally fuck up my hustle today!!! Then he's gonna ask " Oh were you planning on working today?" Did we not just have this conversation YESTERDAY???? Annoyed for real, I had a plan and I had a goal damn it. This dude needs to find something to do. Crabbin hardcore.
Naida
01-03-2015, 05:51 PM
Being celibate is the right choice for me right now, but it's really sucking at the moment. I just want some head, damnit. Why the fuck can't guys fool around without bugging you for sex?
lynn2009
01-04-2015, 08:12 PM
I'm trying to schedule an appointment w/ a psychiatrist and almost no one is available outside of regular business hours AND don't take insurance. I don't understand. Do they not want people who can ACTUALLY pay to see them?? Drives me insane and now that it's happening again I remember this happens every 18 months or so when I try to make an appointment and get too pissed off at the difficulty and forget about it.
Naida
01-04-2015, 08:17 PM
Want to kick my sister in the fucking teeth. Still pissed about the lack of head.
KikiGem
01-04-2015, 09:24 PM
I know I said I wouldn't write about my landlord anymore but I need just one more...
Even though it's been over a month since we agreed to break the lease she didn't print the papers until today. So we finally sat down and signed them, and I gave her the rent. She took out a counterfeit pen and started checking all the bills right in front of me.. even the two fives :eyeroll I asked her about it cause it's the first time she's done that and she asked why I was getting defensive so I told her to calm down, cause I wasn't in the mood and she was getting worked up for no reason again. I know she's a ticking time bomb of bitchiness and I'm not going to be on the receiving end.
She is seriously just such a cunt. But my main worry is my security deposit. I know crotchety landlords love to withhold security deposits out of spite. Worst of all is how my family doesn't take my side. My mother met her once in passing and insists that she's 'nice.' Yeah anyone can look 'nice' when you know them for five seconds. When someone I care about has a problem I take their side even if they're wrong. But whatever sometimes you just get stuck with a let-down family.
Aniela
01-04-2015, 11:01 PM
Pushups & running are of the devil. I have always had a hard time building up arms/shoulders, & running just hurts & makes me feel like an old lady.
I looked up the PFA minimums for my age range & picked the minimums I want to shoot for, which are pretty near the top of the scale so that if I fall short by a few reps it will still be more than sufficient to pass -- but building up to those minimums is just UGH.
chickchick8182
01-05-2015, 01:00 PM
It's shark week...after a YEAR long hiatus....let the hell begin. I'm seriously pissed off about this, could be the hormones, or the incredible searing pain, or idk the fact that it's been over a year and I got really, really used to not having one. Ughhh gonna have to deal with the customers that like when I'm mean to them bc I'm too bitchy for anything else.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-05-2015, 01:07 PM
I was worked up in a frenzy of hatred about my co-workers at my day job (bitchy females) & I just found out one of them apparently suffered a huge life crisis recently. Now I feel bad for getting annoyed with her. Ughhh whatever.
audrey_k
01-05-2015, 01:54 PM
There's something wrong with my bf's phone and I can't get any texts or FaceTime through to him at all. I just got home from a ten hour flight and just really wanted to speak to him. Now with the damn time difference it's too late.
I've felt sick to my stomach since I got home and of course we threw out all our food, going to the grocery store doesn't sound fun although neither does eating anything, I think I will just starve tonight.
Selina M
01-05-2015, 03:30 PM
I'm sitting in the car by myself in a bad part of town, because the dispensary changed it's rules and I'm no longer allowed inside with my bf. Now I'm fuming about how he doesn't need it to begin with (he has back pain in the morning; he needs a chiropractic adjustment and he'd be fine).
And it's that time so I'm already annoyed that I'm not at work bc Monday is my most lucrative day. I hate everything.