View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Violethollywood
12-29-2018, 12:19 PM
^ damn wth though
yaya_cash
12-29-2018, 06:07 PM
So sad. $20. Wow she must be ugly if she had to steal $20. I’d start giving handjobs before I’d steal from one of my bitches. Being a woman is hard enough, the last person I’d steal from is another female.
My petty annoyance-vampires!
I’m not a therapist. I can point people in the right direction, but 9 times out 10 they just want to suck energy from me instead of doing the hard work themselves. My goal for 2019 is to not let people suck the life out of me. I talk about solutions, but I’m not listening to problems.
This reminds me, that:
Man, I had a stripper request to borrow some scissors from me, then after she borrowed them she didn't give my shut back. And she had an attitude when I confronted her about not returning my stuff and asked her to pay for. She started saying must you really ask for money. Yes, bitch. And don't ask for shot from me again. Don't try to play me. Was so disrespectful without any regard of anyone.
I was upset too because I was looking to use the scissors and they weren't there.
chanzep
12-29-2018, 07:27 PM
Everything I wanted from bath and body works sale sold out, I don't know why I have a weird obsession of being stocked up on candles, I still have some from the last sale, I love the holiday season scents, they are launching the spring fragrance already ugh, I want a Apple cider body wash from ULTA too. I wish I did not sign up to work Nye and New year's day now I don't have a day off until next Saturday.
AChildOfBoredom
12-29-2018, 07:54 PM
i don't know why i have a weird obsession of being stocked up on candles
that is not weird, that is the way it is supposed to be.
Jalena
12-29-2018, 08:11 PM
I was looking forward to working Sun-Tues since my brother is coming to visit for a few days, but then I got fired the other night. So I get to make other non-paying plans to spend as little time at home as possible while he is here.
AChildOfBoredom
12-29-2018, 09:01 PM
I was looking forward to working Sun-Tues since my brother is coming to visit for a few days, but then I got fired the other night. So I get to make other non-paying plans to spend as little time at home as possible while he is here.
:(
Fired from the club?
Jalena
12-29-2018, 09:26 PM
:(
Fired from the club?
Yup. Posted about it in the My Last Shift thread. Bastards wouldn't even return my license, that's the other thing that pissed me off, they said I have to come see the daytime manager about it. I am not driving an hour each way just to get that back. Fuck em with a cactus and a white hot poker.
carmen_b
12-29-2018, 09:32 PM
I think sex work has ruined me for dating.
I'm always ending up so confused !
Does he like me ? Does he not ?
The club is so clear ! He likes you if there is a wallet open and money flying out !! I need this kind of pure clarity in my regular life !!!
miss.a.p1600
12-29-2018, 10:50 PM
That plus mfs spend money right off the bat.
Irl men be slow af opening their wallets/giving cash. The last dude I had spend money on me it was mainly only when I was with him. And it took him so fucking long to give me cash to the point where it’s like they are literally forcing you to date other men (which you should be doing anyways lol)
miss.a.p1600
12-29-2018, 10:51 PM
I’m pissed cause the coworker I’m trying to pull away from (cause I don’t want to get emotionally close to a dude who is emotionally unavailable) is reaching out and .... idk trying to make me feel guilty for pulling away ?!?
AChildOfBoredom
12-29-2018, 10:58 PM
Yup. Posted about it in the My Last Shift thread. Bastards wouldn't even return my license, that's the other thing that pissed me off, they said I have to come see the daytime manager about it. I am not driving an hour each way just to get that back. Fuck em with a cactus and a white hot poker.
I just read. That’s some shit. They should at least have the balls to tell you to your face what it’s all about.
WendiStarr
12-30-2018, 10:46 AM
Guys who refuse to screen. No, you cannot see me in 15 minutes. No, I'm not going to send you face pics. I'm not giving you my incall location address so that you can use gps to "check how far away" we are from each other. You either give me screening info and references or else hit the road, jack! Stop wasting my time with explicit questions and I don't give a damn that your wife of 32 years closed her legs to you. You'll get nothing but crickets in response until you follow the rules!
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-31-2018, 09:45 AM
Guess what happened ladies?...………………..
A couple years ago I got ripped off by a co-worker at a day job who was going through an chemical dependency downward spiral. The worst part was he shit all the over the kindness of a few other co-workers who were recovered addicts that wanted to help him. Like I started withdrawing my friendship before they did b/c they were more emotionally invested in seeing him get better. Of course he burned them really badly & I'm sure they cut ties by now.
Last night my boyfriend & I went out and we ran into this aforementioned guy. (I assumed he left this state to go back to him home state and stay.....he did not.) We didn't talk b/c I would have told him off. I figure this guy is so good at being parasitic to women his age he talked an old girlfriend out here into taking him in. Sucks for her. There's the minute chance he might be recovering but it's none of my business. I was actually more upset he treated truly kind people like garbage. That whole experience was a mess and makes me very hesitant to help recovering addicts.
"But for the grace of God go I"....
SweetJuliaXXX
12-31-2018, 01:51 PM
So now, I apparently get my period every three weeks. Fucking awesome.
AChildOfBoredom
12-31-2018, 03:18 PM
The one thing I appreciate about hipsters is how easy it is to dissuade them. Helping a friend set up her NYE party, and I’d picked up a shadow. So, since we were listening to Spotify, I did a quick search, found this band called Destroyer 666, and put that on. Now he won’t even look at me.
I’m actually kinda digging this band, too.
:headbange
https://youtu.be/Ax7cdHiZ010
The downside, though, is that now this guy is gonna be awkward all night long.
seashell
12-31-2018, 05:50 PM
I feel a bit depressed, and way less excited than I usually am about the new year. I wish I could flip a switch and just be happy.
But I did have a good time tonight, and I have exciting plans coming up, and things are so much better in my life than they were last year.
miss.a.p1600
12-31-2018, 11:14 PM
Found a dude to pay for all my New Years festivities
But his mf is a stage 3 clinger .... omg!
seashell
01-01-2019, 07:26 AM
I tried to take out $40 from an ATM, but pressed the wrong button, and now I have $400 cash in my wallet. Oops.
Vyanka
01-01-2019, 01:59 PM
Ugh. I paid a membership on a dating site, for only a few months. I should've done one month, only... or better yet, looked around first.
Nothing but some seriously fugly men on there!! What a waste of money. Makes me wonder how many of them have flapped to my pics, and I don't show body parts/skin. They just look like the type - pervs who live in mom and dad's basement that flap to whatever. Lol. Ugh.
JGB2009
01-01-2019, 02:52 PM
Ugh. I paid a membership on a dating site, for only a few months. I should've done one month, only... or better yet, looked around first.
Nothing but some seriously fugly men on there!! What a waste of money. Makes me wonder how many of them have flapped to my pics, and I don't show body parts/skin. They just look like the type - pervs who live in mom and dad's basement that flap to whatever. Lol. Ugh.
I have been on this one dating site for like 6 months, and only 3 guys who have talked to me are cute. The rest are just so unattractive. Some are so unattractive that I block them when they message me.
MyButter
01-01-2019, 05:01 PM
Maaan, trying to find a couples friendly provider in my area has been like Quest for Fire so far. I just want to give someone 3/4ths of a mortgage payment to occasionally squeeze their butt while I watch them fuck the shit out of my hubs. Why is it so hard 8)
carmen_b
01-01-2019, 10:58 PM
^ I think they might not believe it's real. ;)
Have you tried other methods .... tinder .... stuff like that ?
miss.a.p1600
01-01-2019, 11:20 PM
The dude who paid for everything on New Years is old - really old. And he wants to hang out again.
In my mind I’m like “ Bruh! Unless you talking about going shopping.....That was a one time only kind of thing”
TheBrownFox
01-02-2019, 02:06 AM
^^ Vanilla jobs kill me with their shit lately. I can't believe how many places go on and on about their "professionalism" and how "being 15 minutes early is being on time and being on time is being late" and all this fucking hype during an interview, and then just straight-up ghost people after telling them they'd hear an answer "either way."
This shit happened to me in December. The whole "I'll give you a call to let you know either way." And this had been my second time in 2018 interviewing with this particular chick for that position (The first time I interviewed with her, she was like 45 minutes late for the interview because she'd forgotten about it...). I saw the job posting came back up again, so figured I'd apply again. Of course when I got to my interview, she had gotten rid of all my answers (to the interview questions) from before, so I had to go through that whole process of answering those same questions again. *eye roll* And just like last time, she tells me she'll "give me a call to let me know either way," and then I never hear back.....
WendiStarr
01-02-2019, 08:12 AM
Maaan, trying to find a couples friendly provider in my area has been like Quest for Fire so far. I just want to give someone 3/4ths of a mortgage payment to occasionally squeeze their butt while I watch them fuck the shit out of my hubs. Why is it so hard 8)
Honestly most of the time whenever I get a booking request from a couple I assume that it's someone messing around, not serious. Also, of the few couples that I've received booking request from, seem to think I'm some free dating service. Getting them to screen can be a bitch too. Of course you also get the fantasy bookers who will be the hubby hoping to "surprise" his wife with adding another woman to the bedroom and when you get there, find that the wife was totally oblivious to hubby's plans, is jealous and angry, and doesn't want you there at all.
WendiStarr
01-02-2019, 08:26 AM
My petty annoyance today is how EM has become so much like TER. I never even created an EM profile in the first place but they refused to remove the listing. I did have some good reviews on there though. I happened to check the listing again and seen that all my reviews are erased except one. Of course the one that is left is one that is false and written by some slobbyist who's clearly obsessed with receiving anallingus, brown showers, and other nasty stuff related to that, which is something that I never ever have or will ever do, not in a million years. Some people are so gross. It made me wonder if it was some guy I blacklisted or if it was the site owner himself, as I've heard that he's notorious for creating fake reviews. I felt nauseous reading that review and EM won't remove it.
Glamourmilf
01-02-2019, 08:49 AM
All the Valentine's Day merchandise is already out at the Dollar Store, and CVS.:-\
Here we go again.
What's next?
4th of July merchandise in February?
Yes, they will.::)50839
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2019, 06:27 PM
So the coworker I am trying to avoid (cause I think he’s a slick narcissist) is trying to Hoover me back in.
I almost fell for it when he kept saying he missed me and wanted to talk with me. This mf has made no effort to talk with me the entire time I’ve worked there. I had to ask him to call me twice.
Then once he realized I’m done playing games, started reducing the amount of attention I was giving him, putting him in friend zone, and then he tried to guilt trip me and ask what he’s doing wrong, etc.
I realize his efforts have nothing to do with me and just something for his ego.
I’m going to grey rock this mf and be boring af!
And then focus on more worthy dudes.
Glamourmilf
01-03-2019, 09:30 AM
I'm pissed that a girlfriend, ( who's an extremely wealthy trust fund baby), sent me the SAME Christmas card that she sent last year!
OMG!
So cheap and lazy!
I decided not to even mention that it arrived.
Why?
Because I went out of my way to create a photo card for her birthday in Aug. I used the TouchNote app, and had to search my old computer to find a photo of us.
Made sure it got to her on time.
Waited....But nothing. No mention of it.
When I asked her if she got it, she said yes, but threw it away because she thought it was a joke.
Huh?
From now on, ALL birthdays, holidays, and special occasions are off limits for her.
I'd rather spend my money and time on those who appreciate it.
Remember this chick?
Well, ever since she did that, I have been ignoring her.
Oh, she tries and tries to get my attention. Commenting on my Facebook posts, and texting me ad nauseum.
Bitch, when are you going to realize that I'm DONE with you?
Move on.
But, nooo. She's into abuse.
Yesterday I got a text telling me that she's mailed a present to me, and to let her know when it arrives.
Probably going to be some cheap ass trinket worth a dollar.
Laughable. But, sad too.
Elektra Luxx
01-03-2019, 11:40 AM
It really irks me when people don't use their car blinkers when making a turn or changing lanes.
AChildOfBoredom
01-03-2019, 05:59 PM
Fuck… I had to swing by the mall, and spotted a pretty regular patron of the club (though not one of my regulars) there. I know he saw me, but I’m not sure if he recognized me or not. He saw me wearing a jumper dress and with a bandana in my hair, so I didn’t look the way he would normally see me.
WendiStarr
01-03-2019, 06:53 PM
This mf that looked like the spitting image of the cheeto running our country left a review of "Total butterface. Her face is a 3 but her body is a 10 but I'd probably see her again" Really? Ok, Mr. Spooged-all-over-the-place-as-soon-as-I-got-naked-before-we-even-had-sex. You're just mad that you were a no pump chump.
miss.a.p1600
01-04-2019, 12:29 AM
I’m wide awake and wish I could ditch going into this place tomorrow.
Fml!!!!
Jalena
01-04-2019, 12:21 PM
My laptop touchpad has a rude habit of suddenly switching the mouse buttons on me. It's been that way for a long time so I just roll with it anymore, but it gets on my nerves to keep getting tripped up every time my mouse has a case of the ass.
Also, I have been commenting/following a couple of pro-choice/abortion access threads on FB, and while I get the notifications of people reacting to or replying to my comments, when I click on the notifications I get a 'This content is not available right now' screen. It happens for every notification for just these particular threads. I have reported the problem twice to FB and apart from brief apparent fixes, I still can't access these threads once I exit out of them. Can't access them from either the Notifications tab or my activity log. WTF, I want to keep following!
seashell
01-04-2019, 03:01 PM
This is probably TMI... you have been warned...
I found an enormous, spaghetti-like worm in my puppy's poo today.
D:
I am so freaking disturbed. I really hope this isn't something transmissible to humans. Oh my god. First fleas, now this. I will always, ALWAYS advocate for adopting pets from shelters, but... fuck. The shelter owners just gave me this poor little puppy in this condition! Taking her to the vet tomorrow.
lynn2009
01-04-2019, 07:26 PM
Wrong thread.
Spicecake
01-06-2019, 03:09 AM
I’m irrationally jealous of the new girl at work. We’re really similar and I feel like the washed up old version. I’m terrified of losing my whale and I fear it’s making me clingy and desperate. I can’t sleep and I’m barely eating. I’m completely not myself and I have no idea what to do.
yaya_cash
01-06-2019, 03:18 AM
I'm pretty fed up with guys and they're entitlement. And them trying to take advantage of me. I might be asexual now. I'm focusing on me, being better educated and being able to make more for myself without dealing with guys wanting to give myself to. I want to be a very wealthy women in my own right. My foot is half way out the adult industry. Guys, managers have ruined my experience so much I don't want to be in the shit anymore.
WendiStarr
01-06-2019, 09:45 AM
Providers who don't respond to you when you're trying to get a reference cleared. Then you find out from the guy that the provider contacted him after you contacted her, offering a much lower rate than yours. Her usual rate is a bit higher than mine. I don't get why she'd go 320 lower. When other providers do this crap, it actually hurts the entire market in the area overall and is why so many guys expect so much for so little, when you have these bitches doing this dumb "$80 specials". I do not lower my rate for anyone. It's annoying and making me look forward to touring even more.
seashell
01-06-2019, 10:17 AM
^That's so awful! I can't believe someone would lower their rates just to steal a client back. Marketing 101, don't devalue yourself.
I'm really annoyed that I didn't realize tomorrow and the next day are national holidays here. Whoops. I hope I can find somewhere to buy groceries...
Also, I'm having serious anxiety symptoms. I'm stressed about leaving the country in a couple of weeks, and it feels like the walls are closing in. I'm so glad to have my puppy, because she's keeping my depression at bay, and I can focus on her instead of worrying about the craziness in my body and mind.
lilylilylily
01-06-2019, 05:04 PM
My crazy week caught up with me, I woke up with a cold ughh trying to kill it off with garlic and rest but the garlic taste in my mouth makes me feel even more icky
Glamourmilf
01-07-2019, 10:41 AM
Providers who don't respond to you when you're trying to get a reference cleared. Then you find out from the guy that the provider contacted him after you contacted her, offering a much lower rate than yours. Her usual rate is a bit higher than mine. I don't get why she'd go 320 lower. When other providers do this crap, it actually hurts the entire market in the area overall and is why so many guys expect so much for so little, when you have these bitches doing this dumb "$80 specials". I do not lower my rate for anyone. It's annoying and making me look forward to touring even more.
It makes me cringe so hard hearing this.
Although, is it possible that he made that up just to get a lower rate?
carmen_b
01-07-2019, 10:56 AM
Boy Trouble.
I want my fave one to ask me out asap ( we've talked a lot via text last 10 days but only met in person once ) .
I am just NOT going to ask him to get together even though he's my fave. He has to show initiative. He knows I got back to town last night.
Ugh. Pouty !!
WendiStarr
01-07-2019, 11:20 AM
I'm feeling off today with hot flashes, dull cramps off and on, and a serious case of Sahara desert vag. I never have dryness problems. I must be getting ready to come on. Can I please just go back to sleep for the rest of the day?
carmen_b
01-07-2019, 12:59 PM
I stupidly let my self care routine slip ..... and surprise .... I feel like shit.
I've got a 50 min. massage booked today and then one Wednesday.
I'm not really sure why I went so lean on body work in Dec. ( self punishment / busy / cheapness combo I think ).
EDIT : Good lord, he was fine as hell and did a great job. ;)
Booked another session with him 7 days from now ( the 80 min. one ) and took myself to the Olive Garden. Gotta treat yo' self right !!
AChildOfBoredom
01-07-2019, 02:40 PM
So I managed to get electrocuted today. Nothing bad, it was very brief. But still…
Elektra Luxx
01-07-2019, 03:09 PM
I need to find some higher quality food for my kitten. She must be having some tummy problems because she's got bad gas. PeeEeewww!!!
seashell
01-07-2019, 05:30 PM
So I managed to get electrocuted today. Nothing bad, it was very brief. But still…
Oh my god, that's so scary! I'm glad you're okay!
AChildOfBoredom
01-07-2019, 06:40 PM
^ thanks. I picked up an extension cord to move it, and wasn’t aware that the shielding was missing.
carmen_b
01-07-2019, 06:51 PM
OMG , I logged into my online dating account for the first time in 5-6 days and who pops up in the " Will Respond " section other than the TEACHER from November .
The tall one I was obsessed with who offered ZERO physical affection.
I hope he can feel my waves of raging hatred flying up from my neighboorhood to his !
I should write to the website. No one is LESS responsive than him. Something is wrong with their algorithm .