View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Aurora_Sunset
01-07-2019, 07:12 PM
I don't understand why my credit card minimum payments keep going UP as I'm paying off the cards.... At this point, I'm throwing damn near $1000 a month just at bare minimum payments on multiple cards. I feel like I'll never catch up...
baer45
01-07-2019, 08:02 PM
I don't understand why my credit card minimum payments keep going UP as I'm paying off the cards.... At this point, I'm throwing damn near $1000 a month just at bare minimum payments on multiple cards. I feel like I'll never catch up...
Your minimum payment is calculated base on a fixed percentage of your statement balance. Did you pay off the statement balance every month? Because if you only pay for the minimum balance each month that is never a good idea. Essentially, credit card company wants you to keep a certain amount of balance unpaid, so they can charge you interest. That being said, they also don't want to take too much credit risk. So they will gradually increase your Minimum payment percentage to reduce the risk.
carmen_b
01-07-2019, 09:51 PM
OMG , could this day get ANY weirder ?
( universe don't answer that please )
I saw my BROTHER on TINDER . My ONLY brother who has been in a relationship for 7.5 ish YEARS.
Granted ..... always hated his partner / choice BUT ew ew ew ew ew .
( cringes )
OMG
lynn2009
01-07-2019, 09:53 PM
I don't understand why my credit card minimum payments keep going UP as I'm paying off the cards.... At this point, I'm throwing damn near $1000 a month just at bare minimum payments on multiple cards. I feel like I'll never catch up...
If you only check your minimum payment online, start looking at your monthly statement documents. They are required to give you an explanation of billing each month. If you already look at your statements and don't see this, call and complain.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-07-2019, 10:41 PM
OMG , could this day get ANY weirder ?
( universe don't answer that please )
I saw my BROTHER on TINDER . My ONLY brother who has been in a relationship for 7.5 ish YEARS.
Granted ..... always hated his partner / choice BUT ew ew ew ew ew .
( cringes )
OMG
Don't make judgements, you don't know the whole story. I know plenty of marriages that NEED one of the partners to be getting something somewhere. Life isn't ideal.
I'm just opposed to Tinder because it makes it way too easy for super predatory people to meet unsuspecting people.
carmen_b
01-07-2019, 10:55 PM
^ Oh ..... I'm leaving to alone ..... believe me. I won't " tell on " him or anything but I'm 98% sure it isn't open.
I think he's just being a creep.
^ Agreed with your assessment. I screen pretty carefully but I'm sure many don't and the whole thing is admittedly a little creepy.
Glamourmilf
01-08-2019, 07:49 AM
Remember this chick?
Well, ever since she did that, I have been ignoring her.
Oh, she tries and tries to get my attention. Commenting on my Facebook posts, and texting me ad nauseum.
Bitch, when are you going to realize that I'm DONE with you?
Move on.
But, nooo. She's into abuse.
Yesterday I got a text telling me that she's mailed a present to me, and to let her know when it arrives.
Probably going to be some cheap ass trinket worth a dollar.
Laughable. But, sad too.
The 'gift' arrived yesterday. Just as I predicted, it's a cheap ass bracelet. I looked it up online. Value= $9.:-\
I texted her, to thank her. Only because she kept asking me if I got the package yet.
Bitch even sent it the cheapest way. Regular mail without a tracking number, so it took a while to get here.
Her response was, " I bought it for you last June. But I forgot where I put it during the remodel of my condo."
My birthday was at the beginning of May.
Such a liar.
She only sent it to me now, because I'm ignoring her.::)
WendiStarr
01-09-2019, 02:00 AM
My bladder woke me up to pee and while my migraine appears to be gone, I have some nausea. Yucky feeling.
miss.a.p1600
01-09-2019, 02:49 AM
OMG , could this day get ANY weirder ?
( universe don't answer that please )
I saw my BROTHER on TINDER . My ONLY brother who has been in a relationship for 7.5 ish YEARS.
Granted ..... always hated his partner / choice BUT ew ew ew ew ew .
( cringes )
OMG
If you saw his profile then it’s possible he saw your profile?
I’m pissed it’s 3am and I can’t go back to sleep. I left work late at night have to turn right back around and be there in the morning and all I think about is work. I’m so annoyed. These birches don’t pay me enough for this shit
seashell
01-09-2019, 10:35 AM
I took my dog to the vet, which is a huge hassle... I don't have a car, so I need a taxi... and immediately after she was given medication, she vomited it on the ride home! Ugh... I guess that means we'll be back soon.
I feel so bad for her. How the heck do you prevent that from happening?
carmen_b
01-09-2019, 02:06 PM
I don't give a DAMN if he saw mine ! Haha. My Tinder profile is classy / lot of bio info about me . I'm actually SINGLE unlike him !
I'm just going to pretend I didn't see it most likely.
If you saw his profile then it’s possible he saw your profile?
carmen_b
01-09-2019, 02:07 PM
This could just be nerves from being at the vet.
Make sure she is drinking well .
I took my dog to the vet, which is a huge hassle... I don't have a car, so I need a taxi... and immediately after she was given medication, she vomited it on the ride home! Ugh... I guess that means we'll be back soon.
I feel so bad for her. How the heck do you prevent that from happening?
carmen_b
01-09-2019, 02:09 PM
^ My Tinder profile did say I would trade hot tea for snuggles haha so he may tease me about that but I'm 99.9% sure he will be glad not to talk about it.
I actually had JUST put that on the top of the bio.
I quickly swiped left on my gross brother haha ( I'm not sure how Tinder works ..... if it shows who have already swiped left or not ).
WendiStarr
01-10-2019, 05:57 AM
Ibuprofen is taking forever to kick in. I feel like I might die of cramps.
Glamourmilf
01-10-2019, 09:27 AM
Even though I love my gay husband ( see my post in the grateful thread), I hate that he can't listen to me!
I know how he is, so I usually just let him ramble on about his gay sexual experiences.
Whenever he asks me about what's been going on in MY world, I now know just to say nothing.
Yesterday, I let him talk for about a half hour straight, while I listened, and ate my lunch.
When it was my turn, he didn't even last 1 minute.
All of a sudden, he HAS to check his text messages, and even starts to yawn.:O
So sorry if I'm THAT boring. But you DID ask me repeatedly to tell you about someone I recently met, didn't you?
All of my gay friends do this.
Ugh!
This random woman walked over, and told me how pretty I was.
He was looking down at his phone, and said, " Thank You".
When he realized she was talking to me, he said to her, " What about me? Don't you think I'M pretty too?"
Big ego much?50867
carmen_b
01-10-2019, 01:19 PM
^ haha
The self absorption trade mark of many gay men.
Do they know this is a stereotype I wonder?
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2019, 07:07 PM
This co-worker starts ranting publicly about how I didn't notify him of a time change of a meeting.
This is one thing I loathe about working in a vanilla office with mfs and their shitty personalities and their superiority complexes.
Like Bruh!!! Unless you attending the meeting, I don't have to notify you of shit!
carmen_b
01-10-2019, 09:15 PM
I’m going to need to be more firm with J
Anything after 8 pm I don’t consider a date, it’s an irritation.
Haha
It’s 9:15 and I’m feeling my agitation go up so I’m going for a drink, ha.
Glamourmilf
01-11-2019, 10:30 AM
^ haha
The self absorption trade mark of many gay men.
Do they know this is a stereotype I wonder?
Actually, I didn't know that they're known for that, until you just mentioned it.
Thank You.
It makes perfect sense.
Looking back, ALL or my gay boys are like this.
Geesh!
Jalena
01-11-2019, 11:10 AM
My mother posts untrue things on FB, and while I think it's just a symptom of her cognitive troubles, it still pisses me off.
Example: We are both part of the same FB group for our particular dog breed. Someone posted a pic the other day of their dog choosing to lay on the tile floor despite having three empty beds to choose from. My mother commented that 'Our girls do this all the time!' 1) We currently only have ONE dog, it's been years since we had more than one and 2) Even when we had multiple dogs, they did NOT choose to completely forego the beds in favour of the tile. Half-on/half-off, maybe, but not one total rejection.
She has also said things like 'We are on our fifth dog' when in fact we have only had four and the current dog is going to be the last.
'We use tranquilisers and white noise' when she was too lazy to tranq the dog this year for New Years since she personally did not hear the next door neighbours doing anything (her words). Right, because the next door neighbours are The Only People In Town Who Do Fireworks. The dog was hiding in her closet, having a shit fit because of the noise, and my mother was basically like 'Oops! Meh, yeah I didn't bother because I didn't hear anything.' She is also mostly deaf in one ear. Not to mention, we have never used any kind of white noise unless you count the TV, which is constantly on anyway completely apart from the dog's needs.
She says a variety of untrue 'anecdotes' as well, just in general, but while those annoy me and my dad, for some reason her FB bs really gets on my nerves. She also is apparently losing whatever sense of humour she had and is quick to get nasty at people on FB who make jokes about things she posts. I read some of her stuff and just feel embarrassed, especially after some people contacted me privately wanting to know WTF her problem is.
JGB2009
01-12-2019, 11:55 AM
Looks like I am getting a cold sore even though I don't feel the usual tingle....Dammit Valtrex here I come!!!
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2019, 12:08 PM
I don’t know what I’m pissy about today. I just like to rant in this thread from time to time.
seashell
01-12-2019, 12:11 PM
Annoyed that I have to move to another country tomorrow. I've been cleaning and packing all day, and still there's no end in sight.
Gonna drink myself silly tonight and hang out with my cute little lover boy.
EastCoastDancer01
01-12-2019, 12:13 PM
There’s this former customer of mine that pisses me off so much...over a year ago I agreed to see him outside (big mistake), and when he’s in my room and doesn’t ‘’have anything’’ for me (ahem), I casually say something like ‘’oh by the way, if you have a donation I’ll take it now, so that it’s all taken care of!’’ And he starts bullshitting with me and tells me right there ‘’you know, I don’t want this to feel too transactional’’...lmfao!!! Those were his exact words. I remind him that I did drive all this way and pay for the hotel and that it’s common courtesy to reimburse and compensate me for my time and efforts. He finally gives me something, but it was like pulling teeth! I totally ignore him after that. But he continued to text me and ask about getting together. I told him sorry I don’t work there or go to that area anymore and he’s like ‘’let’s find a way to get together!’’ That was a year ago. A year later he texts me Happy new year baby and I’ve been thinking about you a lot...I texted him ‘’Um, no. Bye!!!’’ ...what a f*cking loser!!!
carmen_b
01-12-2019, 12:47 PM
^ The Worst worst worst worst !
This kind of behavior is so cringe worthy , it makes me sick.
It’s just attempted theft ( hoping you are stupid ).
EastCoastDancer01
01-12-2019, 01:12 PM
^ The Worst worst worst worst !
This kind of behavior is so cringe worthy , it makes me sick.
It’s just attempted theft ( hoping you are stupid ).
Yes definitely, but he seriously thought I would give it to him for free! From what he told me, he basically wanted someone to hang out and do stuff with like travel, etc, but for free! And with ‘’the possibility of a real relationship’’ LOL! GTFO! That’s why escorts and sugar babies exist, you really think we want you bruh and are gonna give you our time for free?! Lmao
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-12-2019, 03:36 PM
Weird annoyance- I tried a body spray at Bath & Body Works (Cashmere something) and it stunk like root beer when I had just put it on so I was disgusted and refused to buy it.
Now hours later it smells nice and I want to buy the perfume version. I'm slightly annoyed by this. OTOH I don't really need it yet.
carmen_b
01-12-2019, 03:43 PM
^ Sound like one it's better to spritz and just walk through.
yaya_cash
01-12-2019, 06:55 PM
So this guy said I looked like someone’s step-mom and I said, “well if that’s what your into”. And he wanted an hour VIP. Kinda annoying. I’m a really good looking. I don’t look “old” I don’t have any wrinkles or anything. The guy I’m talking to is 25 and he thinks I’m hot and said I looked 27 when we met...lol. I tricked his ass! So annoying just because I look grown guys have to put me down to feel better about themselves. The guy I’m talking to is the most handsome man I have met in my life and he thinks I’m the hottest girl he’s ever met so...that’s saying something. Honestly some guys think 25 is too old. Just because I’m mature doesn’t make me any less hot. I wonder is if I’m carrying around some negativitie energy about that because it feels like I keep hearing that when I’m feeling insecure about myself.
He was probably saying you look like that hot second wife. :)
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2019, 09:56 PM
Sometimes I think of the past sex I had and how I should have received oral pleasure all those times instead
carmen_b
01-12-2019, 10:39 PM
^ I JUST found this author on VICE who openly talks about rarely having sex , never giving BJ's, and her main thing is having guys go down on her. I am just loving everything she writes about.
carmen_b
01-12-2019, 10:41 PM
So ... I'll admit .... I don't really understand J's job. He is a PHD researcher ( phd candidate ) done in 5 months or so.
He gets paid for this right ? I know his project is funded but is this a thing where he is really poor right now or do they make " average " money?
seashell
01-13-2019, 08:45 AM
^One of the guys I dated recently is a PhD guy. He gets paid with grants, so it's like a large sum of money that he has to make last throughout his research period. He had to budget really well. I don't think the money tends to be very good.
My petty annoyance is that holy fuck, my new airbnb is FREEZING. I chose a cheap place, because it had stellar reviews. I'm literally wearing a parka in bed under all the blankets right now. Sigh.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-13-2019, 09:19 AM
My petty annoyance is that holy fuck, my new airbnb is FREEZING. I chose a cheap place, because it had stellar reviews. I'm literally wearing a parka in bed under all the blankets right now. Sigh.
Ha people in Montana do that all the time (limit heat in the house during winter.) Those heat bills add up!
Pissy annoyance- didn't sleep well last night. Need to do so much today. I'm annoyed I can't write some emails I wanted to write but the have to wait till Monday.
Aurora_Sunset
01-13-2019, 11:33 AM
Uber is being a pain in the ass. I created a profile on there a year ago with my old car, but never used it because I decided I didn't trust that car and all its problems. Now I put in a new vehicle and they decided they need ALL my info again, including my background check, even though it's still the same profile and I'm still the same person, just a different car. Now this morning, I got an email that I had to go back and re-input my SSN cuz they couldn't find me to do a background check on with the name, birthdate, and SSN I provided. Fucking what? Hopefully I just fat-fingered the numbers or something... So stupid.
And of course, I've been talking about picking up Uber, Lyft, Doordash, and such for the last few months, and we've had a mild-as-fuck winter... until yesterday, the day after I finally sat down and signed up for everything. Now we have 8 inches of snow...
carmen_b
01-13-2019, 12:02 PM
^ I do door dash here and there.
I usually just do two orders at peak lunch time ( gets me / dog out of house ) and then I figure that’s my budget to go where I want to eat ( within reason since just two drops isn’t a huge dining budget ).
It’s almost all the money I need for food and I HATE food prep.
carmen_b
01-13-2019, 12:03 PM
Totally agree on Uber
I tried to set it up and never finished it . I shoukd though this week.
My city is getting a ton of travelers in 5-6 days through Jan.
AChildOfBoredom
01-13-2019, 12:42 PM
I have to decide if I’m going to stick with Uber and Lyft. If I do, I have go through the inspection process again, since I traded the car I used for it in.
carmen_b
01-13-2019, 03:53 PM
^ It's such hassle to sign up, haha !
carmen_b
01-13-2019, 03:56 PM
Could I just have a general WHINE fest about all dancer licensing requirements ? Ha.
The city I'm IN requires one, the state north of here requires one, south requires one. UGH !!!!!
Dancing should be instant cash and NO PAPERWORK. Bleh.
If I don't CLOSE some sales this week for the day job .... I have truly got to get back at it . I'm going to come up SHORT if I don't craft a plan quick for a side hustle.
miss.a.p1600
01-13-2019, 06:33 PM
So my coworker decides to call me on my cell. We all have our cell numbers posted because working at this mf is like being on call. He notices I have a certain type of phone and when I respond to his texts he keeps asking like why is my texts not registering as this specific type of message cause of my phone.
He keeps pressing and asking
Like bruh! I am a private person and I really don’t trust every Tom dick and Harry to have my real cell number so I gave y’all a virtual number but I don’t want to be bitchy and rude but you keep pressing like cotdamn! Quit asking all these questions ffs!
miss.a.p1600
01-13-2019, 06:38 PM
^ I JUST found this author on VICE who openly talks about rarely having sex , never giving BJ's, and her main thing is having guys go down on her. I am just loving everything she writes about.
What’s her name?
Yeah sometimes (at least in my mind) it’s really better that way cause once dude stick their member in you it’s like most of them act like they conquered you or something but you riding their face/them getting down on their knees to please you is like you conquering THEM. They can’t trash talk you to their friends cause ..... shit they’re meeting your needs. And not having to provide reciprocal bj - even better!!!
Only thing is gotta be crystal clear with these dudes off top - like “look Bob, Ima let you experience the pleasure of drinking from this glorious fountain, but just so you know you are pleasing me today .... with your tongue only”
Cause some dudes might go crazy if they think their oral work was leading to fucking....and their dick gets rejected
carmen_b
01-13-2019, 08:00 PM
^ I honestly think you'd be fine with this request.
J and I had a great time a few days ago ( fingering and tounge only ) .
Honestly ....... I feel like I felt such POWER from sitting on his face and having him BEG me to stay. It was fantastic.
Of course that's from my perspective but he has been sending texts the last 3 days to the tune of " bucket list item xyz was crossed off with you " and " I have wanted to experience that for years " ......... so he seemed to have a good time.
I almost wish he'd take it up a notch and send something to the tune of " how may I serve you next goddess ?"
I'd eat it up.
WendiStarr
01-13-2019, 10:23 PM
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Jalena
01-14-2019, 10:07 AM
This lingering cough from a cold I got in the final days of December -- I have been feeling better for a week, but the coughing is constant! I want to try the club closer to home (about 30min drive instead of 45+) but I don't want to start while my voice is still raw and I am struggling to talk around my coughing.
WendiStarr
01-14-2019, 02:01 PM
My burner phone app has been acting up. I missed a text from whale. By the time I responded I realized afterwards that he was likely at work and may have been busy with clients by then. Oops. Sorry, whale. :-/
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-15-2019, 06:15 AM
My burner phone app has been acting up. I missed a text from whale. By the time I responded I realized afterwards that he was likely at work and may have been busy with clients by then. Oops. Sorry, whale. :-/
Honestly sometimes being out of reach helps with sugar arrangements. Those guys tend to stay interested when it takes longer to get replies from women they're into.....
WendiStarr
01-15-2019, 11:47 AM
I had a platonic cuddle client this morning. He spent most of the cuddle session time complaining about his girlfriend. I felt like falling asleep, listening to him complain about how she's not affectionate with him anymore, doesn't appreciate anything he does, etc. That is, until out of nowhere he kissed me. It was a wet, disgusting, drooly kind of kiss. Yuck! I told him to please never do that again. He apologized and I left shortly after because his hour was up. He proceeded to text me about the kiss, saying that it was an amazing kiss and that that kiss made him realize that he has feelings for me. Dude, what? I've only seen him as a platonic cuddle client maybe 4 times within the past 6 months. I don't want to deal with any desperate and confused dudes right now. I'll take the loss. I blocked his number.
baer45
01-15-2019, 12:27 PM
Netflix increases its price again.
carmen_b
01-15-2019, 02:06 PM
Well part of the mystery is solved about why she doesn't like him. Haha.
I had a platonic cuddle client this morning. He spent most of the cuddle session time complaining about his girlfriend. I felt like falling asleep, listening to him complain about how she's not affectionate with him anymore, doesn't appreciate anything he does, etc. That is, until out of nowhere he kissed me. It was a wet, disgusting, drooly kind of kiss. Yuck! I told him to please never do that again. He apologized and I left shortly after because his hour was up. He proceeded to text me about the kiss, saying that it was an amazing kiss and that that kiss made him realize that he has feelings for me. Dude, what? I've only seen him as a platonic cuddle client maybe 4 times within the past 6 months. I don't want to deal with any desperate and confused dudes right now. I'll take the loss. I blocked his number.