View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
lynn2009
01-15-2019, 05:16 PM
People who talk constantly without actually saying anything. Especially my new direct report. Holy shit can that woman ramble on about nothing, she is on par with Trump.
miss.a.p1600
01-15-2019, 09:33 PM
I really loathe some of these coworkers.
One dude is flamboyant closeted gay but trash talks lesbians with “alternative lifestyles”. He annoys me a lot because he is bipolar, has a superiority complex, and never stops talking in meetings.
Another coworker wears the worst wigs and her makeup creases and she is ratchet and overbearing
Then the manager is fake. Kept writing me up for bullshit reasons all while smiling and being fake nice.
Then the bitch at the front desk is a sociopath who talks non stop about herself, is extremely hypocritical, and only for hired because she’s friends with the manager.
WendiStarr
01-16-2019, 10:29 AM
My apartment complex got the bright idea to have a gated enclosure installed around the dumpster. I went to throw my trash out and couldn't get the stupid thing to open. Mr. Dilf couldn't either. Why the heck put a gate around a dumpster that can't be opened? In addition to that the dumpster lid was closed. No way was I bringing the garbage back in to sit in my apartment, stinking it up. I chucked the trash over the enclosure onto the lid of the dumpster. A neighbor did the same because he couldn't get the dumpster's stupid gate enclosure open either. This morning the apartment management put a note on the door saying that they're going to charge a $50 fine for not throwing the garbage in the dumpster. Seriously? Then unlock the stupid thing so people can get to it. Otherwise you're going to end up with a bunch of trash all over the place on top of and outside the dumpster. What's disturbing to me is the fact that they must've opened the trash and went through it to figure out whose garbage it was. I did have junk mail with my name on it in there. I hope they had tons of fun sifting through soiled menstrual products. I've never encountered such ridiculousness in an apartment complex before, as I have in this one.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-16-2019, 11:32 AM
I really loathe some of these coworkers.
One dude is flamboyant closeted gay but trash talks lesbians with “alternative lifestyles”. He annoys me a lot because he is bipolar, has a superiority complex, and never stops talking in meetings.
Another coworker wears the worst wigs and her makeup creases and she is ratchet and overbearing
Then the manager is fake. Kept writing me up for bullshit reasons all while smiling and being fake nice.
Then the bitch at the front desk is a sociopath who talks non stop about herself, is extremely hypocritical, and only for hired because she’s friends with the manager.
I coped with these triggers at work by telling myself that those people at work "are only real at work." I made it work.
I know how awful it is. On the bright side some of these people made me realize how good I have it. Miserable people won't change themselves.
Aurora_Sunset
01-16-2019, 01:13 PM
Finally had to meet bf's ex-wife the other day and it was super awkward. She was civil, but in that SUPER fake, over-the-top, enthusiastic "niceness" sort of way. And I know the only reason she was even "nice" was because her own new bf was there as well. (She originally was trying to insist that my bf meet him one-on-one because she would be more "comfortable" meeting me one-on-one without him present, and I said no way, that's awkward as fuck and unnecessary). She was trying waaay too hard to be all over her new man, in a really show-boaty "omg look at us, we're so HAPPY" kinda way, like she was obviously trying to make bf jealous/show him that she had totally moved on. Her new bf was actually a decent dude, and you could tell the entire thing was making him super uncomfortable, like he could tell she was trying too hard to make her ex jealous...
Based on her claims of other guys she's gone out with since the separation, there's no way she's been seeing this guy for more than a month, but she made this big show out of how happy they were, how well she got along with his kids, how well she got along with his ex-wife, how their kids look similar so no one will even be able to tell they're STEP-siblings (hint hint). And dude sat silent through all of it. Then, near the end, she tries to make this big deal out of announcing that he'll be moving in soon, and suddenly this guy snaps to attention and fucking shuts her ass down like "Oh! No! Well.... not THAT soon. I've got another year before my boy is out of preschool in his area. I'm not gonna leave my baby." And gave her this pointed look, like... you know they had to have had that discussion already, and there was no reason to tell us that he was moving in "soon."
The whole thing just reeked of her desperately trying to tie this guy down after a few weeks, as soon as she found out about me meeting the kids and being a "serious" staple in her ex's life now. And her guy could tell too, making it all the more awkward.
She also tried to be all "Oh, I just want all of us to be one big happy family" but clearly had no real interest in getting to actually know me. She just wanted to sit down with me to say certain things (like bringing up that she doesn't like bf's parents or that he's had a vasectomy, like she thinks he hasn't told me things), and interrogate me about certain questions. Once she got whatever standard answer she was looking for, she just tuned out the rest. I would sometimes try to branch off into a more conversational tone, but she was obviously not interested and not listening anymore.
I guess better all that "showiness" than her being the single, bitter, angry ex that just acts like a bitch. But holy fuck was that awkward.
Aurora_Sunset
01-16-2019, 01:57 PM
I've developed a bump next to my new nose piercing. I really hope it's something I can cure easily with salt soaks and tea tree oil, because I don't want to lose my piercing. :( It doesn't hurt or leak puss or anything so that's a good sign.
AChildOfBoredom
01-17-2019, 04:51 AM
As if we don’t have enough idiot drivers in the road, the State of North Carolina - in their ever infinite wisdom - decided all school buses should be governed at 50 MPH and be allowed on the Interstate during peak traffic hours. What ensues is a complete and utter clusterfuck. I just LOVE being cut off in a T800 by some shithead stuck behind a school bus who figures, “what harm can there be in cutting off an 80,000 lb. vehicle?”.
baer45
01-17-2019, 11:00 AM
I am pissed by the local hospital staffs. I went in to see an eye doctor last October and I had provided my insurance information. Last December I received a bill from the hospital which I called in and tried to resolve it. They were rude to me and told me my insurance decline the claim, and it turned out they filed the claim to the wrong insurance company. (My insurance company has given the clinic optometric service coverage to another insurance company, which the hospital should have known.) And the most ridiculous thing was, after I talked with my insurance company, and the lady told me to ask the hospital to call them from the provider's line. The hospital rudely refused... instead... they recited me a whole paragraph how they should never call the insurance company in this situation. And they also refused to join a conference call with my insurance company while the insurance lady was patiently waiting on the line. I told them the doctor I saw is "within the network" and my insurance will pay if you just talk to my insurance to sort out the mistake. I ended up to have my insurance company to file an internal appeal for authorization and service. What kind of jackass attitude was that? Hospitals are full of assholes.
Today the hospital called me again. They had the same attitude and expected me to pay the bill now.
I asked them: Did you resubmit the claim?
She: we did. Your insurance company declined again. So how are you going to pay for it?
They resubmitted the claim to the wrong insurance company again.
That's when I went into bitch mode.
"No! I am not going to pay for this fucking bill. And I am glad that my insurance company declined a stupid request again. If one of you have a proactive attitude, in this case, you would have your money last year already. Whoever handled this case needs to be fired for lacking of brain cells to comprehend this simple matter and being so discourteous to a patient. Here is a news flash for you guys, if you want the money, call XXX-XXX-XXXX and correct your mistake with my insurance. If you don't call... no money for you. Put that in the first paragraph of your bills collecting policy! "
Then she claimed that she couldn't hear me clearly because of the static sound...
"Of course you do !" I just hung up.
Pissed me off!
Elektra Luxx
01-17-2019, 12:07 PM
^^^
I got pissed off just reading your post. I hope you get things settled. Dealing with insurance matters are a pain in the ass!!!
As for me, I've already blown my diet and exercise plan. Meanwhile bf has lost weight and looks really good. I want to say more, but it's TMI.
seashell
01-17-2019, 02:40 PM
I got scammed by a taxi driver today. He had the nerve to say his car was a "private taxi," and that was why he was charging 5x the normal rate. When I went off on him, he had the nerve to say he didn't understand, after speaking perfect English moments before. He just acted all chipper and played dumb. What a dick.
I usually go far out of my way to call my own taxi/Uber, even at the airport or places it's technically not allowed.
Should have gotten out of the car immediately. I just honestly feel so vulnerable as a girl by herself in a car, with my luggage in the trunk. I even checked the doors to see if I could unlock them or open the window from the inside, and I couldn't. Never ever ever take a random taxi, even if it's lined up next to legit ones in front of an airport/train station/etc. Lesson learned.
Aurora_Sunset
01-17-2019, 08:14 PM
Zero issues with my car since I got it. Cleaned it all up yesterday and finalized all accounts with Uber, Lyft, Door Dash, and Postmates. Was all pumped and ready to go out and earn some extra money tonight. My one fucking safety net for flexible, unscheduled, decent extra money that I’ve been working on.
Fucking car won’t start.
I’ll have just enough to pay rent with my next paycheck that won’t have any OT on it because there wasn’t any available this month. I had a meltdown in my bf’s car on the way to get Walmart groceries that I had to put on yet another credit card.
I’m so fucking done with everything.
miss.a.p1600
01-17-2019, 10:28 PM
I am tipsy af
And no I do not feel like going to this place to work with these egotistical maniacs tomorrow
I wish I could fake an illness
AChildOfBoredom
01-18-2019, 12:27 AM
Zero issues with my car since I got it. Cleaned it all up yesterday and finalized all accounts with Uber, Lyft, Door Dash, and Postmates. Was all pumped and ready to go out and earn some extra money tonight. My one fucking safety net for flexible, unscheduled, decent extra money that I’ve been working on.
Fucking car won’t start.
I’ll have just enough to pay rent with my next paycheck that won’t have any OT on it because there wasn’t any available this month. I had a meltdown in my bf’s car on the way to get Walmart groceries that I had to put on yet another credit card.
I’m so fucking done with everything.
What does it do? Does it crank? No response from the starter at all?
I'd find the starter relay and take a test light and a back probe (you can use a paper clip for a back probe) to it. You should always have power at the 30 pole, which connects to the fuse for the starter. If not, then your problem is either the fuse, or the wire between the fuse and the relay. You should see power at 86 when the switch is turned to the start position, then you shou be able to put the paper clip into the slot for the 85 pole, clip the test light into that, then probe the 30 pole again. If it lights up, then you know you have ground at the 85, as you should. After that, if you have a length of wire you can use as a test lead, you can jump power between the 30 and the 87 to see if the starter responds. If it does, you have a bad relay. If it doesn't, then the next step would be to see if you have power in the signal wire at the starter solenoid. That'll be the small wire, not the large cables - the solenoid acts as a relay, pulling a switch to let power straight from the battery reach the coil to start the car.
However, if you're getting an intermittent response each time you turn the key to the on position, there's a possibility it may just be a loose connection. So make sure the cable ends are clean and the nut is on tight. Now if you have a two channel lab scope, you can connect that to the positive and negative posts of the starter, and if you see voltage on the ground side, then you know your issue is a grounding issue, but now I'm getting a little ahead of myself.
That is, of course, if the battery isn't the issue. I may have been getting ahead of myself for that entire post.
I know a thing or two about this shit, despite what my femininity and small stature may cause others to think.
As for annoyance...see the time I'm posting this? Yeah, that's because I fell asleep way too early and couldn't get back to sleep.
miss.a.p1600
01-18-2019, 07:44 PM
I’m pissed that I always check this thread first every time I log in......like some weird guilty pleasure
JGB2009
01-18-2019, 07:54 PM
Tomorrow ur ass is gonna be mine!!!!
Femme Fatale
01-18-2019, 08:13 PM
Ahhh wanhhhh ahhhhhh. I need a strong man right now!!!!!!
WendiStarr
01-19-2019, 05:56 AM
I hate when I look in my Twitter feed and see something that looks like child porn. No offense to any ladies of legal age who are flat chested but I don't want to see your nudes, especially when you look underage. It's also disturbing the amount of grown men liking and retweeting that shit, like why the fuck are you attracted to someone who looks like they are 12 years old in physical appearance, sicko? As the mother of a daughter and the oldest of many younger sisters, it creeps me out and pisses me off. I only use Twitter for adult-industry related promotion purposes but I think I'm going to have to put the filter back on now so I can see the warning about nude content and avoid clicking on it, instead of it just being visible right off the bat. Ugh.
miss.a.p1600
01-19-2019, 09:40 AM
I hate that I’m sexually attracted to a married coworker and that I fantasize about him pleasing me all the time when I’m at the office. He not really that hot but something about him. Idk.
He’s a huge player and has many women in the office lusting after him.
I know - a psychological aspect of attraction is social proof which definitely works.
I’ve been avoiding him so my thirst isn’t obvious but yesterday he ended up in the printer room same time as me and so instead of using the copy machine I let him go first. Then he was like “why you running?” (Which made me think of sex). And I’m like “you go ahead cause I need to figure out how to use the fax”. He then helped me figure out how to use fax option.
I love when guys try to be all chivalrous and help solve problems but......
I need a new object of affection so I can get him off my mind.
indiegirl
01-19-2019, 10:05 AM
This mf that looked like the spitting image of the cheeto running our country left a review of "Total butterface. Her face is a 3 but her body is a 10 but I'd probably see her again" Really? Ok, Mr. Spooged-all-over-the-place-as-soon-as-I-got-naked-before-we-even-had-sex. You're just mad that you were a no pump chump.
BAHAHA I hated guys like that and the worst part is you can't defend yourself on reviews sometimes and customers will take some guy's review as gods word.
I had one guy livid over an appointment once, wrote a rude review and compared the rest of his encounters towards me in his reviews haha. Like I would be offended over his opinion of me. He referred to the experience as "imagine expecting a full course steak dinner for her price and getting served a bowl of macaroni instead." Then he complained I had to much botox and fillers at the time and I didn't have any done for a year (I have a natural puffer fish face) because I was saving up for the downpayment on my house. The guy was expecting me to be gfe all cuddly when my reviews all said the complete opposite. But he was only looking at the high ratings not at the content in the ratings. Homeboy was surprised! hahaha. Can't be everyone's cup of tea lol!
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-19-2019, 06:39 PM
A lot of current events in the news lately are making me grateful for the American pop culture phenomenon of hot young women dating (usually poor) "bad boys". I see news stories with rich spoiled guys flaunting their poor manners and I feel better when I see how unfuckable it makes them.
I know from experience a lot of these hateful guys put on an act long enough to date a woman and fuck her a few times. NOW that it's a hot topic in the media (male manners) most women can consider whether a guy is being sincere.
carmen_b
01-19-2019, 08:53 PM
My great return to the stripping stage was more of a whimper. Haha.
Eh, I'm not going to stress about it. I drove three hours to get to this damn place.
So far just broke even for the gas, hotel, license fee.
I have my fresh stripper license ( wtf ) and shall return soon. There were just not many customers to choose from and my demographic ( old white guys ) is currently heavily under represented. The one I've found so far at least put my even $ wise for this excursion. Ha.
And Craigslist kept flagging my massage ads and taking them down ( dicks ). That was the back up plan in case I was in the hole. I didn't need the back up but not having it was making me nervous.
WendiStarr
01-20-2019, 05:50 AM
^ Craigslist is flag happy these days. Anything massage, body rub, or certain words get you flagged immediately. Meanwhile the gay community get to keep their m4m glory hole stuff up, as well as the straight guys looking for females with "good plumbing skills" to "drain my clogged pipe" remains posted again and again for weeks.
carmen_b
01-20-2019, 09:53 AM
^ Apparently ! Haha. I didn't realize the " missed connections " section was a place to try for ads. It was hilarious some of the stuff that was up .
The thing I found most funny was people were looking for " tool polishers " hahahaha.
I was being cheap and posting in the freebie sections to see if I'd get a bite but maybe I'll re-try health / beauty and make the ad a super clean " therapeutic massage " read when I'm up here again.
The massage hustle was a bust. I somehow managed to book the grossest hotel in the world . This is a "good ole boys" place . These guys don't need fancy but I wouldn't feel right offering a session with the sad vibe here.
chanzep
01-20-2019, 01:36 PM
It's so quiet on here, used to take me hours to catch up before now it's like 5 mins.
WendiStarr
01-20-2019, 03:18 PM
It's so damn cold today. 7 degrees with a "real feel" of -11. Wtf. I don't like this and my heat decided to not work. It's Sunday so maintenance and apartment staff are not in office. No one is answering our after hours emergency maintenance line and since tomorrow is MLK Jr. day, they won't be back until Tuesday. I'm going to go stay in a hotel in the mean time. You'd think for a $951/month "upscale" (according to them) apartment they'd be on top of their shit.
lynn2009
01-20-2019, 03:39 PM
I'm looking through the schedule for my conference this week and I have two issues:
1. Most meals are included in the cost of attending, but I'm sure the food will suck ass and barely be vegetarian but the fact that they are offering food at all means that I can't get reimbursed for having to get my own stuff.
2. There is a TON of networking breaks built in. Ughhhhhhhhh.
But also, I am traveling with two others who seem disinterested in meeting up in the evenings for dinner, so I am taking a stripper audition dress with me to maybe scout out some cute guys for myself.
seashell
01-21-2019, 10:13 AM
Ugh... this airbnb. First it's impossible to find, they literally have no real address, because this building was probably built illegally. It took me about 30 minutes to find it, hauling around a ton of luggage plus my dog.
Then the lady just came in with some cheese, prosciutto, and wine. It was very thoughtful of her, but after I ate some of the meat, I saw that it was rotting around the edges. WTF! I tried to throw it up immediately, but couldn't do it. Just crossing my fingers that I don't get sick...
Glamourmilf
01-21-2019, 11:13 AM
It's so damn cold today. 7 degrees with a "real feel" of -11. Wtf. I don't like this and my heat decided to not work. It's Sunday so maintenance and apartment staff are not in office. No one is answering our after hours emergency maintenance line and since tomorrow is MLK Jr. day, they won't be back until Tuesday. I'm going to go stay in a hotel in the mean time. You'd think for a $951/month "upscale" (according to them) apartment they'd be on top of their shit.
This is why I told you not to move in there. I had a bad feeling when you told us what they were doing even before you moved in.
I was paying $1700, and there wasn't hot water for over a YEAR! Plus, there were numerous leaks. Including one from the pipes over my car, which damaged my convertible top.
That's the place that evicted me, when I complained.
I've lived in over 20 apartments, and I can honestly say, that landlords suck!
I'm currently dealing with a carbon monoxide leak from my gas wall heater.
Landlord says it's my problem.
Okay.
I know how they are, so I just deal with things myself.
Sad, but landlords don't think of us as humans. Just a mortgage payment.
miss.a.p1600
01-21-2019, 11:14 AM
Guy wanted me to meet him for coffee this am and text me like an hour before he want me to meet him?
Bruh! I’m not doing that last minute.
I suggest another day, Then he’s like what about after work...today?
Le sigh!
This is the problem with the Tinder culture.
miss.a.p1600
01-21-2019, 11:26 AM
I get pissy about dudes I encounter who seem to lack commitment in relationships but what if this is really just a reflection of me and how I don’t like to commit in pretty much multiple areas of my life?
carmen_b
01-21-2019, 12:00 PM
^ Yeah, no same day dates. Sets a lazy standard and is lame.
I just don't have time for same day ( ever ) so I just tell them. Easy.
Selina M
01-21-2019, 08:36 PM
My SIL is kind of a moron. I corrected a cousin, who was doing his redneck "I ain't descended from no monkey!" thing, that we descended from a common ancestor. SIL came at me all sarcastic about "Oh i'm sorry, how do you know that for sure?" I was sarcastic right back and said "Oh, i'm sorry, let me rephrase that, all the prevailing scientific evidence says so, do you feel better now?"
Apparently only she is allowed to be sarcastic. She responded with the tear-face sad emoji & "how the hell do you know that, and no need to be so rude". I must have struck a nerve somewhere.
I liked her the first year or so, but now... eh. It's been slowly becoming apparent that there's a reason she came off as the 'cool, fun sister' before... she's 36 years old w/ a 6 figure job and zero savings + irresponsible as fuck + throws a tantrum or plays victim every time someone tries to correct her. Yeesh.
seashell
01-22-2019, 08:55 AM
I wish it would stop raining.
WendiStarr
01-22-2019, 04:54 PM
I hate when you have plans with someone and they drag shit out. I'm more of the type who if I make dinner plans with someone at 5, by 3 I will have showered, put makeup on, straightened my hair, and picked out an outfit. I like to get done with all that and relax until go time. It frustrates me, people who wait until the last possible minute to get their ass moving, showered, dressed, etc. I hate when I have a reservation for 6pm and I'm stuck waiting on the other person who decided to finally get her ass in the shower at 5:30pm. Something tells me that she's not coming. If I wanted to have dinner with myself I could've just ordered food through doordash and ate alone in the comfort of my home.
carmen_b
01-22-2019, 06:53 PM
^ 15 minute window then feel free to eat ! Fuck em
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2019, 07:22 AM
Sitting here in my car trying to make life decisions like “should I go to work in this oppressive office with these egotistical maniacs I can’t stand”
seashell
01-23-2019, 10:04 AM
Where are all the creepy ass dudes outside my apartment coming from...
Glamourmilf
01-23-2019, 10:50 AM
I wish it would stop raining.
This is how I felt last week. It rained for 4 days straight, which was highly unusual.
By the end of day 4 I had major cabin fever, and was really depressed.
As much as I complain about this being the ' land of perpetual sun'. I had to remind myself that I don't thrive in anything but.
chanzep
01-23-2019, 03:03 PM
My company is annoying. They won't approve a off day unpaid for me to go have my endocoposy, they said I can swap my day off!, No I need my day off too!. I have been sick since the beginning of December!. I worked all the time in December doing OT on my days off probably why I'm still sick!. In the end they were like just call off SMH!. no compassion
chanzep
01-23-2019, 03:05 PM
Customers are horrible today too. Screaming at me. Thank God I work from home. I don't need to walk out of another job. I need to chill because this job is ok otherwise. Grr
Spicecake
01-23-2019, 11:43 PM
My whale showed up last night when I had called out. He basically complained about a dancer I consider a “friend” being all over him. I’m so tempted to drag her on my next shift but I don’t want to get fired ugh. I want to dog walk her up the stairs.
lilylilylily
01-24-2019, 12:33 AM
I wouldn't say anything..at least you have the satisfaction of knowing the jokes on her cause it didnt work, he was even complaining about it
AChildOfBoredom
01-24-2019, 03:17 AM
Woke up too early, no point going back to sleep. On top of that, I'm feeling a bit horny, but of course I have no fucking privacy to act on it, so my best hope is that I'll be tasked to do something at work that'll allow me to get away long enough to take care of it. And yes, it WILL linger that long, and then some.
WendiStarr
01-24-2019, 01:01 PM
I have no energy today and my body hurts, nose is stuffy, but at the same time I'm horny. What gives.
miss.a.p1600
01-24-2019, 04:47 PM
I had an interview at another company.
On one hand I think they would hire me and it would be about 5-10k increase in salary.
I also want to throw the middle finger up to the egotistical manager who kept writing me up knowing that I was trying to get promoted. I want to leave at the worst time just so she can get her get her just desserts
On the down side, it looks like a smaller company, I would have to travel 90% of the time and no they are not providing a company car.
Idk what I’m going to do if I get the position
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-25-2019, 08:32 AM
I had an interview at another company.
On one hand I think they would hire me and it would be about 5-10k increase in salary.
I also want to throw the middle finger up to the egotistical manager who kept writing me up knowing that I was trying to get promoted. I want to leave at the worst time just so she can get her get her just desserts
On the down side, it looks like a smaller company, I would have to travel 90% of the time and no they are not providing a company car.
Idk what I’m going to do if I get the position
Don't work jobs where they require travel with no company car. Even with mileage comp the wear and tear on your personal vehicle will exceed the money they pay.
Glamourmilf
01-25-2019, 09:54 AM
I'm pissed, ( but more sad, actually) that my favorite gay husband is moving to Italy in a couple of weeks.:'(
I went over to his house yesterday for a visit.
He's just so 'everything' a real man could be, and I'm going to miss him terribly.:'(
Kind, attentive, generous, extremely handsome, wealthy beyond belief, smart.
We met at a grief group, so I feel an extra deep connection, because we've shared very intimate details about that which others don't know about. He's become like a brother to me, and I'm really going to miss that.
He said we can Skype, but, obviously it's not going to be the same.
Damn it!
50901
Glamourmilf
01-26-2019, 07:46 AM
Right after I wrote that, ^^, I turned on my phone.
There was a text from that weird guy I mentioned ( the one who came up to me at the park, and wanted me to have his baby).
He comes on strong, then disappears. It's bizarre.
Yesterday, his message said, " I thought we were going to see each other a lot."
Huh?:O:O
I tried to, but each time I text him back to make plans, he ghosts for a few weeks.
This has been the pattern with men for a l-o-n-g time. It happens with my girlfriends too!
If I didn't hang out with gay guys, I would never know that it's a ' straight man problem', and I'd think that there's something wrong with ME ( and my girlfriends).
My gay guys date, and NEVER have this weird behavior happen to them.
It's so disgusting and discouraging.
But, it is what it is.
WendiStarr
01-26-2019, 11:13 AM
I'm in cry baby mode and I don't know why. I was watching a tv show. A song started playing and I started bawling. I've never even heard the song before. It's too early for PMS and I'm feeling weepy and cramping. Ugh. I don't know wtf is wrong with me today. I better not be starting my period super early. I'm only on CD 19.
Aurora_Sunset
01-26-2019, 11:30 AM
I wouldn't say anything..at least you have the satisfaction of knowing the jokes on her cause it didnt work, he was even complaining about it
Plus, who knows how "true" it even is. Could he have been trying to "get back" at you for not being there by trying to stir up drama and make it seem like other girls were "all over him" when you weren't around? When maybe, all she did was say "Hi - so-and-so isn't here tonight, would you like to dance with me? No? Ok, see you later." Men will always exaggerate, especially if he was pissy that you weren't around to entertain him.