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AChildOfBoredom
01-26-2019, 02:05 PM
So, there was a dancer I allowed to stay here for a few days because there was a gap between her move out date from her old apartment and her move in date to her current one. And we'd always been friendly. So, a few nights ago, she'd gone out, gotten a little drunk, and I picked her up and took her home. And so I had to help her into her home and into her bedroom, and she proceeded to try getting... friendlier with me. Well, it wasn't much of an effort because she passed out in a few moments, so I just tucked her in, went home, and laughed it off as a drunken fluke.

Last night, she made it clear it wasn't a fluke. I'm not mad at her in any way, I just really don't know how to handle this situation.

DonaDiabla
01-26-2019, 03:30 PM
Having an cold and trying to work sucks! Sure, I made good money this week but I feel that my money would have been better if I was well. I can't wait until this cold is over.:(

carmen_b
01-26-2019, 11:10 PM
So ...... it's bad right if someone takes you off their tinder list ? I'm so new to this I barely know how to use it .

But I assume I wasn't removed just because he already has my # .......

AChildOfBoredom
01-27-2019, 12:36 AM
You have to make it crystal clear that you're not interested, she's making you uncomfortable, & you don't want this happening ever again.
Good luck.

Of all the dancers I've worked with, there are two that I would allow into my home, and she's one of them, and even after that, I still would. I trust her. The last three nights she was here, she slept in my bed because my cat kept wanting to feel up on her the night she slept on the couch, and she didn't try anything then. And even that night, with her being drunk as she was and me being probably in the most vulnerable position she could've had me in, she still didn't try anything without asking for permission, which I just told her, "I don't think we should do this" and then she didn't press it. So, I'm not really uncomfortable with her, just baffled. I've known plenty of lesbians and bisexual women, and they've often told me they hoped I'd bat for the other team, but none of them seemed to get any cues from me to act on it. So, I'm just really wondering if I did something that acted as a cue for her or what? Caught me a little off guard, but she wasn't offensive in any way.


Do like my dad,

“Hey Bubbles - I am not interested right now, but if I change my mind ..... you’ll be the first person I call”

Or just something to the effect that she’s a cool person but just not for you, in that way

I'm waiting for her to come out of the dressing room, and we're supposed to talk about it tonight. I'm kinda in a Denny's sort of mood right now, so perhaps we'll go there and talk.

carmen_b
01-27-2019, 10:45 AM
^ She's probably just attracted and took a risk and went for it. No harm done.

Just gently decline if you don't like women ( or her ) and no worries.

AChildOfBoredom
01-27-2019, 02:31 PM
^She’s the first one who tried getting in my pants in a long time who isn’t in some way repulsive. I’m halfway inclined to think maybe I should.

Anyhow, no harm done. Maybe it’s even a little flattering, considering she knows the things about me which would be likely to be offputing to others.

chanzep
01-27-2019, 04:58 PM
Why is the nail color I got full price at ULTA 2 weeks ago now next to nothing at TJ Maxx grr.

trustfundkiller
01-27-2019, 07:42 PM
Why is the nail color I got full price at ULTA 2 weeks ago now next to nothing at TJ Maxx grr.
Buy the one from TJ Maxx and return the other one to ULTA! I did this with tahini. Paid $7 for it at Whole Foods and saw it going for about $3 at Trader Joe's. I will seldom pass up an opportunity to save money lol.

trustfundkiller
01-27-2019, 07:55 PM
I had the most awful flight thanks to this one guy. We're both in the same group to board and he makes a stupid comment about my travel pillow. I smile and I'm nice but I'm looking for the first "out" of the conversation. He keeps engaging me in inane conversation, I pulled out my boarding pass and immediately he jumps to read it and says, "OH! So your name is _______? Wow! That's a really fancy name!" I thought I escaped him on the plane. Wrong. He asks the man next to me if they can trade seats so he can sit by me. I'm thinking, "Omg. He can't be serious." Sure enough, the man agrees. I was looking forward to 5 hours of napping, listening to my podcasts, reading, writing out business ideas, snacking, enjoying being 30,000 feet above everyone and their bullshit but nope. That wouldn't be happening. I even started to read my book and he starts reading it with me! What the fuck. At this point I asked him to buy me wine so at least I was getting free drinks out of the ordeal. Then he made the worst joke of them all. He asked me when I was going to buy him a beer and I laughed and told him I've never bought anything for a man in my life. I probably wouldn't buy a water bottle for a man in the desert. He tried kissing me and it was DISGUSTING. All I did was gasp in horror and say, "WHAT the fuck do you think you're doing?" ...this guy wouldn't get the hint. Even wanted to share an Uber.

yaya_cash
01-27-2019, 08:31 PM
I had the most awful flight thanks to this one guy. We're both in the same group to board and he makes a stupid comment about my travel pillow. I smile and I'm nice but I'm looking for the first "out" of the conversation. He keeps engaging me in inane conversation, I pulled out my boarding pass and immediately he jumps to read it and says, "OH! So your name is _______? Wow! That's a really fancy name!" I thought I escaped him on the plane. Wrong. He asks the man next to me if they can trade seats so he can sit by me. I'm thinking, "Omg. He can't be serious." Sure enough, the man agrees. I was looking forward to 5 hours of napping, listening to my podcasts, reading, writing out business ideas, snacking, enjoying being 30,000 feet above everyone and their bullshit but nope. That wouldn't be happening. I even started to read my book and he starts reading it with me! What the fuck. At this point I asked him to buy me wine so at least I was getting free drinks out of the ordeal. Then he made the worst joke of them all. He asked me when I was going to buy him a beer and I laughed and told him I've never bought anything for a man in my life. I probably wouldn't buy a water bottle for a man in the desert. He tried kissing me and it was DISGUSTING. All I did was gasp in horror and say, "WHAT the fuck do you think you're doing?" ...this guy wouldn't get the hint. Even wanted to share an Uber.

Try requesting a change of seating from the flight attendants because the person next to you is harassing you, while listing example/s as you did here if you already confronted him about bothering you. I usually just say I'm not in the mood to socialize and ignore them.

AChildOfBoredom
01-27-2019, 08:52 PM
I just pull out my pamphlets I saved from the Latter Day Saints. As everyone constantly reminds me, I’m dressed like I’m going to church most of the time anyhow (that Mennonite upbringing… I apparently can strip, but I’m still overcome with guilt if I dress sexy in any way), so I pull it off well.

I think my favorite was when I told one guy, “I’m sorry, but I don’t date outside of my church”. So he said something like, “Okay, I believe. I’ll just go to your church”. So I said to him, “Well, are you sure you’re resolute in your faith? Because you’ll be expected to walk through the pit of vipers”. The fucking color literally drained from his face once I said that!

carmen_b
01-27-2019, 09:36 PM
Get the big noise cancellation headphones and a hoodie or hat you can pull over your eyes for next time. Just " fall " asleep with your gear on ( even if it's just listening to podcasts or something ). I travel a ton and that is my travel bitch face ( eyes covered and ears covered ). The fact is, on busy trips, sometimes the only " you " time is that time in your seat.

If they really press tell him you took a sleeping pill and hope to prevent nausea as you are prone to getting airsick.


I had the most awful flight thanks to this one guy. We're both in the same group to board and he makes a stupid comment about my travel pillow. I smile and I'm nice but I'm looking for the first "out" of the conversation. He keeps engaging me in inane conversation, I pulled out my boarding pass and immediately he jumps to read it and says, "OH! So your name is _______? Wow! That's a really fancy name!" I thought I escaped him on the plane. Wrong. He asks the man next to me if they can trade seats so he can sit by me. I'm thinking, "Omg. He can't be serious." Sure enough, the man agrees. I was looking forward to 5 hours of napping, listening to my podcasts, reading, writing out business ideas, snacking, enjoying being 30,000 feet above everyone and their bullshit but nope. That wouldn't be happening. I even started to read my book and he starts reading it with me! What the fuck. At this point I asked him to buy me wine so at least I was getting free drinks out of the ordeal. Then he made the worst joke of them all. He asked me when I was going to buy him a beer and I laughed and told him I've never bought anything for a man in my life. I probably wouldn't buy a water bottle for a man in the desert. He tried kissing me and it was DISGUSTING. All I did was gasp in horror and say, "WHAT the fuck do you think you're doing?" ...this guy wouldn't get the hint. Even wanted to share an Uber.

lynn2009
01-27-2019, 09:58 PM
Try requesting a change of seating from the flight attendants because the person next to you is harassing you, while listing example/s as you did here if you already confronted him about bothering you. I usually just say I'm not in the mood to socialize and ignore them.

I agree, women always feel pressured to just deal with harassment in public and not make a scene. And he was harassing you. Don't be afraid be assertive, asking someone else to switch seats to be closer to you is already crossing the line.

carmen_b
01-27-2019, 10:03 PM
Exhibit #159 from the " ex has lost his mind " files.
Dude leaves for a long distance relationship ( as if that's not stupid enough already ) and then on Sept. 6 signs a ONE YEAR LEASE I guess .
A year. There's so many things I just don't get and this is up there. Why not do 6 months and then hopefully get out of my face on March 1- 6 ?

WendiStarr
01-28-2019, 05:24 AM
Really sharp pain in lower abdomen that woke me up at 1:30am, lasted for 10 minutes, and then went away.

seashell
01-28-2019, 07:00 AM
Turns out I have high risk HPV, and it in fact has been present for several years... ugh. Not the news I was hoping for today.

queenelayliah
01-28-2019, 07:45 AM
My postmamtes account was hacked, these bastards tried three times. Once in florida and twice in California. And last night attempt went through and they used $49 of MY MONEY to buy burger king, BITCH WHAT! I don even use postmamtes on myself. I created the account a while back never ordered anything and accidentally left my card information on file.

After talking to my bank account, i have to have the card closed an dhave a new card sent to me and it will take 7-10 business days to get a new card but i have bills to pay now.! Fuck my life.

seashell
01-28-2019, 07:56 AM
My postmamtes account was hacked, these bastards tried three times. Once in florida and twice in California. And last night attempt went through and they used $49 of MY MONEY to buy burger king, BITCH WHAT! I don even use postmamtes on myself. I created the account a while back never ordered anything and accidentally left my card information on file.

After talking to my bank account, i have to have the card closed an dhave a new card sent to me and it will take 7-10 business days to get a new card but i have bills to pay now.! Fuck my life.

Wtf! I would feel even more violated to know my money was stolen for fast food... wow.

Are you able to write a check, or transfer money directly from your bank account? I know Chase has an online Bill Pay feature.

whirlerz
01-28-2019, 08:10 AM
Well, not the worst, but snowed in today..
I wanted to go make my insurance payment, but will have to do it some other time.
Which reminds me, I prob need to make car/house insurance. Duh!

I know, I will NOT get out of the driveway..I watched this one guy struggle w/a truck, + last time I almost got semi-perm stuck. Since we also have ruts, & its a gravel drive.

I was able to make my phone payment online, saying that cause they used to ask for a 6 digit code, THANK GOD they didn't, payment's made.

WendiStarr
01-28-2019, 08:55 AM
Turns out I have high risk HPV, and it in fact has been present for several years... ugh. Not the news I was hoping for today.

I'm sorry to hear that. It doesn't always turn into cancer though. You can PM if you want to. I had high risk HPV for years.

queenelayliah
01-28-2019, 02:42 PM
Wtf! I would feel even more violated to know my money was stolen for fast food... wow.

Are you able to write a check, or transfer money directly from your bank account? I know Chase has an online Bill Pay feature.

I am just happy it was only that amount and im able to have it refuned to me. Could you imagine if they tried spending all of the money in my account i would be screwed. So apparently my bank said as long as the merchant use it as a ach payment it should go through, which im confused about because my card number is the account number its one of those banks, so if the card is cancelled isnt the account cancelled as well? Mmmmm sounds liek this rep didnt know what he was talking about. I swear if i get a return fee from one of my bills they better pay for it, (wont happen but still).

AChildOfBoredom
01-28-2019, 02:57 PM
My postmamtes account was hacked, these bastards tried three times. Once in florida and twice in California. And last night attempt went through and they used $49 of MY MONEY to buy burger king, BITCH WHAT! I don even use postmamtes on myself. I created the account a while back never ordered anything and accidentally left my card information on file.

After talking to my bank account, i have to have the card closed an dhave a new card sent to me and it will take 7-10 business days to get a new card but i have bills to pay now.! Fuck my life.

That happened to me, too! They didn’t get anything out of it, though. Any app or site which stores CC info, I get a gift card and use that, then just put money on that whenever I make a purchase. I feel like Postmates has had a big data breach and they’re not being up front about it, because I know three other people it happened to.

m1nx
01-28-2019, 10:54 PM
delete.

queenelayliah
01-29-2019, 12:17 AM
I cant even pay myself this week because of the whole postmates issue. Im have my shit set up for weekly pay and now im going have to wait damn near 2 weeks to get my money, sigh.

queenelayliah
01-29-2019, 01:12 AM
So turns out i was right!

I cant pay my bills and any bill paid with ach will bounce. So now i will occur a rejected payment fee and a late fee from 4 different vendors. These fees are easily about to be $200-$300! Or i can call each vendor and ask for a stop payment which will STILL COST A FEE! I will be paying atleast $150.

I asked these stupid fucking people if the payments would go through before they locked my account. Lets just pray that when they open in 7 more hours i can get them to un lock my account.

carmen_b
01-29-2019, 09:26 AM
Aw. The slower days can be so hit or miss. When you catch a good one, they are just amazing ( elbow room / less people to deal with ).
Petty annoyance: I come in on a Monday looking like I’m here on a Friday and ppl that look like they rolled out of bed are sharking and loitering around 1 or 2 customers.

seashell
01-29-2019, 09:37 AM
Ohhh my freaking god. I'm only writing this here because I feel comfortable with you ladies and have nowhere else to vent this.

I just found out yesterday that I have high risk HPV, and now today I got a phone call from a guy I was dating on and off for the past 6 months, saying he tested positive for chlamydia. ?!?! What the actual fuck. I know he didn't get it from me, because my recent tests came back negative for it, but we slept together after that test was done. UGH. I am so beyond frustrated, now I have to get tested AGAIN, in yet another foreign country, and wait for the results.

And I just slept with a new guy two days ago, that I'm really seriously interested in, and now I might need to tell him about this. Fuuuuck my life.

SugarCookies
01-29-2019, 02:20 PM
2018 was weird and I was hoping 2019 would be much better, but this month made this year a weird start for me.

I was waiting on my period the first two weeks of this months. I wore those ultra thin pantiliners at work and slept over towels to prevent any accidents. Yet my period never came. I took three pregnancy tests all which came back postitive. At the same time I got struck with all-day-sickness. Nauseous 24/7 for 12 days straight as of today. The only thing I can stomach eating is plain wheat bread, grapes, watermelon, oranges, and plain baked potatoes. Tired all the time. I went 25 minutes out of town last week and halfway back home I had to stop at a public park parking lot to take a nap. My husband and I had agreed that if any unexpected accidents happened that we would keep the baby, but now he changed his mind. He advised me to get an abortion as he believes we aren’t in a comfortable living situation to raise a child. We are renting a room, I don’t have enough money saved up, and he wasted 80% of his savings when he got sick and went to the hospital last year. I don’t like the thought of getting an abortion if I’m healthy and the baby is likely to be as well, but he’s right. I already went to the obgyn and got a shot, I’m supposed to come in again later this week for an abortion pill. I’m upset that the first time I got pregnant was unexpected and had to end like this.

I haven’t been able to work either due to my never ending nausea and fatigue. I’m just stuck at home having lazy days. My regulars have been asking for me and I’ve lied saying that I’m busy looking for a new side job. Though it’s not completely a lie. I live in California and after this whole Dynamex thing I don’t think I can last anymore. So once I’m back to normal again I will need to search for another job.


Last rant. I recently became fed up with one of my regulars. Little old guy was demanding and immature. Comes into the club and expects me to only spend my time with him and ignore everyone else. He would get mad if he saw me talking to other customers. When he got up to use the restroom, another customer who had his eye on me came up to ask me what other days I’m working as he would like to spend time and get dances with me. Regular comes back while I’m still telling the other guy what days and time I usually work. Regular stares down the other guy and smashes his table, and soon as he sits down again yells at me “go talk to him! I can tell you’d rather be with him than me.” If I’m with another customer the moment he walks in, sometimes he purposely came nearby to bump into me and when I finally got to him he’d ask why I didn’t leave the other guy for him, or “I bet he doesn’t give you as much money as I do”.
Regular would tip very well but I hardly got dances out of him because he specifically wanted to finger me or lick my pussy during a dance. A few times he did agree to dances but even then he wouldn’t behave and I had to be on ninja mode the whole dance. I also dislike the way he would talk shit about the thicker and chubbier dances to me. I’m also confused what he saw in me since I’m not skinny either. The few times he would tip other girls they happened to be petite waifs.
I did a few OTC meetups with him a while back which I do regret now because it pushed him to be more demanding. Those OTCs consisted of meeting up at big malls, eat first, shop, part ways and go home. Soon enough he expected me to go to his house or get a hotel room expecting extras even though I firmly told him from the beginning that I won’t ever do that. He’d say “I got you all this stuff I’ve been good to you, now you have to be good to me!!!111”. He would also complain about how we don’t hang out enough and demanded to see me OTC more often than just once every two weeks. Sorry not sorry, I already told you there’s never going to be any sex, and I don’t have have time to do meetups often. Plus he knew I was married. I feel stupid for agreeing to those few meetings. I was naive trying to keep his money coming in. If he wants to pay for a date and sex so bad then he should just seek an escort or SB, they’re more likely to offer him the services he truly wants.

lynn2009
01-29-2019, 05:22 PM
Derek's parents didn't contact me around Christmas and I didn't contact them, and I thought that was the end of things with us. Then his dad texted me earlier in January insisting I visit soon, or they could meet me somewhere half way. Then same thing a couple weeks later. I'm at a loss about this, cause I don't like them all that much and I don't think they are too fond of me either. But today I finally recommended a town half way between us. And then a restaurant, and idk if they wanted to get lunch or dinner so I didn't pick a time. His dad finally asked me for times I'm available and I don't know why this question is annoying me so much. Like YOU MUST KNOW by now that I literally never do anything. FFS. I am free ALL DAY like I'm sure they are expecting JUST PICK A TIME. I can't stand when the dumbest shit takes forever and ever because no one will pick something or everyone's trying to be all polite and not inconvenience anyone else when obviously no one cares.

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-29-2019, 06:11 PM
My dog almost got maimed or killed by a bigger aggressive dog. THANKFULLY the owner of the big dog has had a lot of experience with this kind of confrontation so he grabbed his dog and I grabbed mine once it was safe to do so.

To make it all worse my dog slipped out of his collar and tried to go after the bigger dog once big dog and owner went out the door. Like, ugh I would have died if he had slipped out of his collar while we were separating the two and continued to provoke the bigger dog.

& My dog obviously has no idea of how close he came to being hurt. He was sad he wasn't allowed to be around the large mean dog. That's how dumb he is.

miss.a.p1600
01-29-2019, 09:14 PM
I am doing my best not to hate the manager at work.

She is a nosey, annoying, petty, hypocritical, raggedy ass, shaped like a refrigerator assed b*tch!

Self: find the good, think positive, smile and nod

Oh and I do not want to go to work tomorrow.

WendiStarr
01-30-2019, 04:53 AM
Woke up with bad sinus pain

whirlerz
01-30-2019, 10:16 AM
Woke up with bad sinus pain

Have you tried the nasal spray, Sinus Plumber? I live by it. Amazon.
I also use daily, the saline nasal spray.

xStacey
01-31-2019, 08:46 PM
I'm so pissed off and wondering why I decided to pursue a graduate degree and to send a sixth year in University when I already have my law degree and a great paying job waiting for me. I am fed up of studying, it's so much work, so many hours for free. I am not enjoying University anymore, studying so many hours, all nighters on fictional cases, to answer exam questions and essays, spending my weekends doing sex work instead of relaxing, spending time with people I like and hobbies. I do not even have any incentive to do extracurriculars which is even more free work since I already have my career lined up. This year is really eye opening and I need to move on. Thank god I graduate again in 10 weeks.

miss.a.p1600
01-31-2019, 11:25 PM
I would give my left tit to quit this place and live on the beach in wealth

I don’t feel good, I used all my sick days (being at this place is literally making me sick, I don’t like the neurotic manager or the little front desk thot, and I want to lay in bed and read stripper webs not perform what feels like corporate “slavery”

WendiStarr
02-01-2019, 08:25 AM
I hate when whales cancel. I was looking forward to a nice dinner tonight, among other things. I'm also annoyed by the fact that Protonmail doesn't have a block function and their spam filter sucks. I have an obnoxious and persistent, timewasting asshat who refused to screen, but gave me a reference from a provider who said that she never met up with him because he refused to be screened but continued to email her questions(like he has been doing to me), and so I refused to see him. I told him to please stop contacting me. Protonmail's spam filter randomly stops working and his emails go through to my inbox. I wish they had a block option so I wouldn't even have to see this idiot's name in my inbox or spam at all. Grr! I'm going to keep pressing delete every time I see his name. It's super annoying because he's clogging up my inbox with his timewasting bullshit.

naomi_doll
02-01-2019, 09:28 AM
I hate when whales cancel. I was looking forward to a nice dinner tonight, among other things. I'm also annoyed by the fact that Protonmail doesn't have a block function and their spam filter sucks. I have an obnoxious and persistent, timewasting asshat who refused to screen, but gave me a reference from a provider who said that she never met up with him because he refused to be screened but continued to email her questions(like he has been doing to me), and so I refused to see him. I told him to please stop contacting me. Protonmail's spam filter randomly stops working and his emails go through to my inbox. I wish they had a block option so I wouldn't even have to see this idiot's name in my inbox or spam at all. Grr! I'm going to keep pressing delete every time I see his name. It's super annoying because he's clogging up my inbox with his timewasting bullshit.

You can set up a custom filter based on his email address to have it marked read and go straight into the trash. I've had to do that before.

Glamourmilf
02-01-2019, 10:18 AM
Yesterday I drove to a nearby town to get a going away gift ( the only New age shop around), for my gay husband.
While there, in walked Jesus Christ, in the flesh.
This guy was so visually beautiful, he stopped me ( and everyone else) in their tracks.
You should have seen all the women swarming around him.
I realized after I left the store that I forgot to pee, and it was going to be a long drive home.
I walked into a juice place, and guess who was in there?
Jesus Christ.
We started talking, and before you know it, we were sitting together.
He was clearly flirting, wanted my number, etc.
But..............
He let me sit there the entire time without offering me a juice.
He said he's visiting from Idaho, and do I know anyone who will hire him for odd jobs?
Handyman, special needs child care, massage, jewelry making, etc.
He only has a bicycle, though, so how will he get anywhere?
He's totally beta. When he went to hug me goodbye, he said he wanted to hug me tighter, but didn't want to break my sunglasses ( which were on a holder on my chest).
He's also a Scorpio, which is the best sign for sex, and also my weakness.
Back in the day, I would have brought him back home for a fuck.
But, now, that's not going to work.
If he can't even buy me a juice, AND begging for me to ask everyone I know to hire him.
Yeah, no.
He's a hustler.
I respect it. Because I am too.
But, I can't get it up for a dude like that.
I felt nothing when he hugged me.
Yes, sex work has turned me into that girl.
Plus, I'm treated like a Princess every day by my gay husbands. They make me feel cherished and respected.
THAT'S what turns me on.
Can anyone else relate?

whirlerz
02-01-2019, 10:31 AM
Lol.
Sounds like the dudes where I live..

I think the fact he didn't offer you anything was a turn off, @ least for me it would be!
For me, that's embarrassing as well, you're gonna take up space somewhere & not buy? I met a guy off a site that did that @ a coffee place.
He had a good job & own home too.
I had to block him on the site, he kept after me
Ugh

I once got tossed out of a dive bar, for not ordering liquor (was already buzzed).

carmen_b
02-01-2019, 10:42 AM
I can't remember my user and password for my fake FB account and there is someone I want to spy on. Haha.

carmen_b
02-01-2019, 10:45 AM
I can totally relate. Haha. Yes, would be a turn off. Damn. Have his # ? i'll be idaho. I may be able to put him to " use " . Haha . But seriously .... if he turned you off like that .... probably same reaction here.

I am SO turned off right now with Beta Type guys. I have my reasons ( dealing with one for the last 4 weeks is the reason ). Ugh. Shudders with grossness.


Yesterday I drove to a nearby town to get a going away gift ( the only New age shop around), for my gay husband.
While there, in walked Jesus Christ, in the flesh.
This guy was so visually beautiful, he stopped me ( and everyone else) in their tracks.
You should have seen all the women swarming around him.
I realized after I left the store that I forgot to pee, and it was going to be a long drive home.
I walked into a juice place, and guess who was in there?
Jesus Christ.
We started talking, and before you know it, we were sitting together.
He was clearly flirting, wanted my number, etc.
But..............
He let me sit there the entire time without offering me a juice.
He said he's visiting from Idaho, and do I know anyone who will hire him for odd jobs?
Handyman, special needs child care, massage, jewelry making, etc.
He only has a bicycle, though, so how will he get anywhere?
He's totally beta. When he went to hug me goodbye, he said he wanted to hug me tighter, but didn't want to break my sunglasses ( which were on a holder on my chest).
He's also a Scorpio, which is the best sign for sex, and also my weakness.
Back in the day, I would have brought him back home for a fuck.
But, now, that's not going to work.
If he can't even buy me a juice, AND begging for me to ask everyone I know to hire him.
Yeah, no.
He's a hustler.
I respect it. Because I am too.
But, I can't get it up for a dude like that.
I felt nothing when he hugged me.
Yes, sex work has turned me into that girl.
Plus, I'm treated like a Princess every day by my gay husbands. They make me feel cherished and respected.
THAT'S what turns me on.
Can anyone else relate?

seashell
02-01-2019, 11:24 AM
My airbnb host wants me to pay $6 for her to just WASH my laundry. Not even dry it. I'd have to hang out my wet clothes on the balcony in the rain. >_>

I'll just be over here washing my socks in the sink with shampoo.

carmen_b
02-01-2019, 11:32 AM
^ Haha. There's got to be a laundry nearby ? Yeah, totally just wash undies and socks in sink and do re-wears. Ha.

carmen_b
02-01-2019, 12:50 PM
I’m pissy and annoyed at myself for being lazy.
I want to get to a WARM city to dance but the prospect of a 6-9 hour drive is so miserable.

miss.a.p1600
02-01-2019, 09:10 PM
This bitch ass mf at the vanilla workplace calls himself cc-ing the egotistical manager in an email about me doing a task late. I’ll tell all you mfs in this email chain rn if I’m sick, unlike you, I care about my health and will use my days off, I will do the task when it get to that mf.

I see the stunt you are trying to pull.

You and the manager and can CC these nuts in your mouth!!!

Glamourmilf
02-02-2019, 10:49 AM
Lol.
Sounds like the dudes where I live..

I think the fact he didn't offer you anything was a turn off, @ least for me it would be!
For me, that's embarrassing as well, you're gonna take up space somewhere & not buy? I met a guy off a site that did that @ a coffee place.
He had a good job & own home too.
I had to block him on the site, he kept after me
Ugh

I once got tossed out of a dive bar, for not ordering liquor (was already buzzed).

Exactly. I am willing to bet that this guy gets the royal treatment wherever he goes, because of the way he looks. If this were in LA, it would be different. Everyone is gorgeous there. Lol! But, here and probably most of the US, most people aren't that attractive, so when you see someone great looking, it's a WOW factor.


I can totally relate. Haha. Yes, would be a turn off. Damn. Have his # ? i'll be idaho. I may be able to put him to " use " . Haha . But seriously .... if he turned you off like that .... probably same reaction here.

I am SO turned off right now with Beta Type guys. I have my reasons ( dealing with one for the last 4 weeks is the reason ). Ugh. Shudders with grossness.
May I ask why you don't like beta men?
I've never had one.
* You can have his number.
But, if anything ever happened to you ( he could be a Ted Bundy type, you never know.) I wouldn't be able to live with myself.

Jalena
02-02-2019, 11:02 AM
It's very nearly time to give up my favourite bikini.

I bought it for dancing in I think 2010 or 2011 so it's had a good long life. It was always one of my absolute favourite dance outfits and also had enough coverage to wear as a normal 'civilian' swimsuit. It's this gorgeous red-wine colour and I glammed it up by sewing on these rhinestone straps that I re-purposed from a broken pair of heels.

But now the elastic in the bra is largely gone, and there are a few threadbare spots that look ready to start unravelling any time now. I will take off the rhinestone straps and keep them to bling out something else, but I am truly sorry to see this bikini go. Can't seem to find a similar one online to replace it.

AChildOfBoredom
02-02-2019, 11:41 AM
Can anyone else relate?

We must encounter very different types of gay men. My first (female) roommate was a bit of a hag, so I knew all her gay friends. They were terrified of our other roommate, even though he wasn't bothered by them in the least. They started keeping me at arm's length.. well, I can't pin it down to one event. First, we found ourselves at odds over them using the word "hooha" (which I won't even use, and really don't want to hear from someone who isn't equipped with one). I think what really did it was when one of them said to me something like, "Girl, if I was straight, I would spank that ass and tell you to call me Harambe". So I said to him, "And you would likewise suffer a similar fate to Harambe". According to others who were there, I made it sound so dark that he's scared to talk to me now. Que, sera sera. I have no issues with gay men, I just don't feel any particular affinity or fascination with them, and I place the same boundaries on them that I do on straight men.

whirlerz
02-02-2019, 09:10 PM
Sooo..

Guy is upstairs boffing his gf, w/her 5 year old son present, btw, it's a single room.
It sounds like 2 water buffaloes bowling (he's like 6ft+, 300 lbs)

Also, his other girlfriend's car is in the lot, Idk if she's here or not, she has a 1 yr old. Sometimes the present one watches this baby?

Earlier, I heard knocking, I went to look, gf standing outside the downstairs bathroom door, holding the 5yr old, knocking & telling Mr. wonderful, "you're breaking my heart".

Also, there's been a bag of garbage from an order of take out, I'd bet the rent it's Mr W.'s. It was a little too close to my parked car, before I went out, so I tossed it beside the side entrance (I have my own entrance).
TG, it was gone when I came home, sat there for days.

I can't make this sh** up, seriously

AChildOfBoredom
02-02-2019, 09:59 PM
It sounds like 2 water buffaloes bowling (he's like 6ft+, 300 lbs)

Oh, fuck I hope I’m drunk enough to forget this. That put some images in my head that… let’s just say I definitely won’t be in the mood to masturbate tonight. Or perhaps ever again.