View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
WendiStarr
02-16-2019, 06:14 AM
I forgot to shut my burner phone app off for the weekend. A custie felt the need to text twice at 3am and again at 4:27am, about a prostitution bust that occurred at a nearby hotel. Ok, thanks. I already know that all hotels are "hot" around here. No need to wake me up about it, twice.
miss.a.p1600
02-16-2019, 07:45 AM
Just realizing the dude I might be dating looks similar to the abusive low-life dude I dated several years ago but was too blind to leave on the first red flag so I endured months of psychological pain by being with his ass. It wasn’t till I woke up and realized 1. I deserve better 2. This is not normal 3. I gotta get the fuck away from this dude. That situation was a huge mistake.
Can I disconnect the two or will being with this new dude trigger old memories that I am trying to repress?
miss.a.p1600
02-16-2019, 06:28 PM
I thought some of my coworkers would be more open to keeping in touch. Either you can’t really trust who you think you can trust or they are pissed at me for leaving abruptly/leaving them with my workload.
miss.a.p1600
02-16-2019, 08:03 PM
I’ve had half a glass of wine and I’m already very tipsy.
I cried thinking about a lot of things going through my mind right now.
Glamourmilf
02-17-2019, 11:09 AM
Yesterday I drove to a nearby town to get a going away gift ( the only New age shop around), for my gay husband.
While there, in walked Jesus Christ, in the flesh.
This guy was so visually beautiful, he stopped me ( and everyone else) in their tracks.
You should have seen all the women swarming around him.
I realized after I left the store that I forgot to pee, and it was going to be a long drive home.
I walked into a juice place, and guess who was in there?
Jesus Christ.
We started talking, and before you know it, we were sitting together.
He was clearly flirting, wanted my number, etc.
But..............
He let me sit there the entire time without offering me a juice.
He said he's visiting from Idaho, and do I know anyone who will hire him for odd jobs?
Handyman, special needs child care, massage, jewelry making, etc.
He only has a bicycle, though, so how will he get anywhere?
He's totally beta. When he went to hug me goodbye, he said he wanted to hug me tighter, but didn't want to break my sunglasses ( which were on a holder on my chest).
He's also a Scorpio, which is the best sign for sex, and also my weakness.
Back in the day, I would have brought him back home for a fuck.
But, now, that's not going to work.
If he can't even buy me a juice, AND begging for me to ask everyone I know to hire him.
Yeah, no.
He's a hustler.
I respect it. Because I am too.
But, I can't get it up for a dude like that.
I felt nothing when he hugged me.
Yes, sex work has turned me into that girl.
Plus, I'm treated like a Princess every day by my gay husbands. They make me feel cherished and respected.
THAT'S what turns me on.
Can anyone else relate?
Remember this guy?
I immediately told a lady I know about him. I thought she would like him, since they could be twins. They both make the exact same kind of jewelry, are totally into the new age stuff, and are both Scorpios.
She scoffed at the idea, saying that she hates Scorpio men, and would never go near one.
I said that I was only thinking of business, because sexually he was someone I was interested in.
*Cut to getting a text from her the other day, saying she ran into him at the same New Age store that I did.
Coincidence?
Not a chance.::)
Shady bitch. Like a puppet on a string. It's why I never hang out with these needy Cali women anymore. Well, one of the reasons. There are many.
I asked if she was going to get together with him.
She said that he said he couldn't, because he was leaving town soon.
Well, serves you right.
WendiStarr
02-17-2019, 01:17 PM
Because it's cold out my neighbor has been standing and smoking cigarettes in the hallway, right by my door all day. I hate inconsiderate smokers. Not everyone wants to smell that stinky shit! I have an awful headache. She left a bunch of cigarette butts in a nasty cup in the corner by the front main door. She lives by the back door entrance. I'm tempted to take the smelly cigarette cup and put it right in front of her door.
TheBrownFox
02-18-2019, 12:29 AM
Because it's cold out my neighbor has been standing and smoking cigarettes in the hallway, right by my door all day. I hate inconsiderate smokers. Not everyone wants to smell that stinky shit! I have an awful headache. She left a bunch of cigarette butts in a nasty cup in the corner by the front main door. She lives by the back door entrance. I'm tempted to take the smelly cigarette cup and put it right in front of her door.
Agreed! My teenage son and I can't stand that shit either. And I will never let anyone come inside my apartment smoking either. That's one thing I'm glad I'll never have to worry about with my boyfriend (Like me, he doesn't drink or smoke).
TheBrownFox
02-18-2019, 12:58 AM
I just had the pleasure of being called a racial slur in chat on NF. I don't participate in raceplay, AT ALL. I usually get a message first, asking if I'm into it, but not this time. Just an unsolicited dick pick, and a message about him getting pleasure from shoving it down my *n word* throat.
White men are really making it difficult for black women to like them. I am open to sooo many things, but that word, isn't one of them.
So I sat there for a minute, looking at this unsolicited dick pic and this disgusting message, trying to decide if I should entertain it (to see if there was any money to be made) or give him a taste of his own medicine.
I chose the latter. :biting:
Sorry you had to experience that. It pisses me off when we get those dudes who think it's okay to say that shit to us, when we've given them NO indication at all that we're okay with it. I don't give a fuck if they're used to doing it with other cam girls...go do it with THEM then. To come into a new chat and assume it's okay to blurt out that shit...not cool at all!
TheBrownFox
02-18-2019, 01:11 AM
I keep getting flyers from a supermarket I've never been to.
I usually order online from Walmart, which I love doing, and is sooo awesome!
But I needed to go to the bank which is across the street, so I figured why not?
I should have known it was going to be bad when I got there and the parking lot was empty.
The store makes you pay 25 cents for a cart. Huh?
You only get it back if you return the cart.:-\ I know they're trying to cut down on having to pay someone to retrieve them, but seriously? How tacky.
I brought my own grocery bags, because here in California, stores charge for bags.
The market was super limited in everything too.
They offer delivery, but for a yearly fee. It's such BS.
Anyhoo, the worse part was that the checker didn't bag my groceries. AND she had major attitude.
So, there I am, over in the corner, lifting my heavy milk, water, etc. To bag it.
By the time I got home, and with more lifting to get my groceries inside, I wrentched my back.
Was down for the rest of the day, on my heating pad.
Screw them!
ALDI grocery store does that 'charges you a quarter to borrow a cart...then get it back when you return it' thing. Also, you have to pay (It's real cheap) to use one of their bags to bag up your groceries...unless you remember to bring your own reusable bag from home.
Glamourmilf
02-18-2019, 10:52 AM
ALDI grocery store does that 'charges you a quarter to borrow a cart...then get it back when you return it' thing. Also, you have to pay (It's real cheap) to use one of their bags to bag up your groceries...unless you remember to bring your own reusable bag from home.
Yep, It was Aldi.
In a later post, I mentioned that I found out Aldi is owned by the brother of Trader Joes owner.
I only spent $20 for a week's worth of groceries, and the food is delicious!
At Trader Joes I usually spend $60-$80.
At regular grocery stores I spend $80-$100
The bring your own bag thing I'm used to, because it's been a law here in CA for several years. It's a pain in the ass, so I just pay the 10 cents per bag, because I can use them for garbage.
I'm still pissed at the fact that the Aldi checker didn't bag my groceries though.
Is that standard? Or was she just being lazy?
PSOcodemonkey
02-18-2019, 11:02 AM
...the Aldi checker didn't bag my groceries though.
Is that standard?
Yes, Aldi is bag your own. One reason they can keep prices low. Most Aldi's have counters along the wall on the other side of checkout where you can bag things.
seashell
02-18-2019, 12:51 PM
When someone texts you, and you don't text them back for several hours.
And then they also wait several hours. Or days.
Guess we're at a stalemate of who can be the bigger dick. I feel kind of bad, but I was really busy that day. And okay fine, I just don't want to talk to you that badly.
Elektra Luxx
02-18-2019, 01:14 PM
I've been coughing for several days. Today I'm laid out in bed...sick! I hate being sick on a day off work!!! Arrrgghh!!!
Elektra Luxx
02-18-2019, 01:18 PM
And how does an indoor cat get fleas?!! *she says as she scratches her hip*
TheBrownFox
02-18-2019, 03:06 PM
Yes, Aldi is bag your own. One reason they can keep prices low. Most Aldi's have counters along the wall on the other side of checkout where you can bag things.
I think Save-A-Lot is a bag your own groceries store too? I went to one for the first time last summer, and when I thought the cashier was gonna bag them, she looked at me and said "You've never shopped here before, have you?" *eye roll* Lol.
yaya_cash
02-18-2019, 03:43 PM
I'd confront her and mention that she left her cigarette rubbish in the hallway And smells. And see that she doesn't continue to smoke in the hall. I don't like feeling uncomfortable in my home or move sooner.
yaya_cash
02-18-2019, 03:46 PM
Yes, Aldi is bag your own. One reason they can keep prices low. Most Aldi's have counters along the wall on the other side of checkout where you can bag things.
Some people bring their own bags to carry groceries with like in Europe.
ravenskyy
02-19-2019, 09:08 AM
I haven't been able to find a club, no matter how hard I try, so I'm pretty sure that I won't be able to go back to dancing, until I move out of this trash state. By that time, I will have moved on with my life and dancing won't make sense for me anymore. It's so depressing knowing that I'm being held back from doing what I love, because I have the "audacity" to be black. I know that's the reason why I'm being given the run around at all these places. I had no issues on the east coast. I should have never moved here!
SuperJa
02-19-2019, 10:57 AM
The best eyelash glue I've ever used came included with a pack of eyelashes, so I'll never be able to buy it separately, and they were a pack from a discount store so I might not even stumble across the lashes again. They are only okay though unfortunately.
Glamourmilf
02-19-2019, 11:13 AM
Every straight guy is sending me photos of himself with his tounge hanging out.
50988
Is this a trend now?
Did I oversleep and miss something?
50989
If so, stop the train, I want to get off.
Why are they DOING this? Are tongue pix the new dick pix?
Make it stop!!
Grosses me out to the max.:yuck:
I mean, WHO do they think they are? Albert Einstein? GTFO!
50990
miss.a.p1600
02-19-2019, 12:22 PM
Every straight guy is sending me photos of himself with his tounge hanging out.
Is this a trend now?
Did I oversleep and miss something?
If so, stop the train, I want to get off.
Why?
Make it stop!!
Grosses me out to the max.:yuck:
I’d text him back like....what that mouf do? lol but I have a dark sense of humor.
miss.a.p1600
02-19-2019, 12:23 PM
It’s dark gloomy cold rainy and I feel zero motivation rn
Fml!!!
chanzep
02-19-2019, 05:18 PM
Having Gastritis sucks. I can't drink any of the tea in my house because it's green or has citrus in it.I have a lot too. I am waiting for tea I can drink from Amazon, I got 2 delivery today and I thought the second one would have my tea but it was nail top coat grr. I tracked my tea and it's on the other side of the country grr.
xxxGothBarbie
02-19-2019, 05:28 PM
I fucking HATE winter time & constant rain! Ugh *eyeroll* It's causing this apartment to be crazy chilly even with the windows down. The only good thing about winter is getting to wear my cute faux fur coats.
chanzep
02-19-2019, 07:17 PM
Omg the cookies I ordered are not gluten free. I can't eat them now with this jacked up stomach! Im so annoyed.
Glamourmilf
02-19-2019, 09:41 PM
I’d text him back like....what that mouf do? lol but I have a dark sense of humor.
:P:rotfl::rotfl: Good one!
I would engage, but none of these guys are hot. :-\
baer45
02-19-2019, 10:48 PM
Shouldn’t have gone to social dance tonight. It’s boring as hell. Watch Netflix on bed is so much better.
yaya_cash
02-20-2019, 06:09 AM
I got "dumped" because I like being taken care. Sounds like the person can't afford me, even though they're still paying for me. And because I don't have friends anymore or don't go out very much since a lot of envy, jealousy and racist treatment I've came across in my experience. So I'm pretty cynical about people and don't like being around people much. I can't change that--
Oh, well. I can't wait to be in an environment that works better for me. Because this just isnt it. 2 more months left--
WendiStarr
02-20-2019, 11:09 AM
EM and the way they allow anyone to post your pictures and info on that site. Asshats who leave negative reviews for no reason. I had no problems with that guy so I don't know why he'd leave a review like that. A long time reg gave me his screen name and password so I logged in, read the asshat's other reviews, and seen that he seems to leave only negative reviews. I wish there was a way to delete such reviews because now I have a bad rating, thanks to him.
I didn't want to make another pissy post today so I'll add to this one. Boy, some custies sure are dumb, especially the married ones! I had an outcall appointment to a wealthy neighborhood. This dude was giving me a hard time about wearing a condom. He tried to say he can't stay hard if he has a condom on. I happened to have a female condom with me so I said that I will wear a condom instead then if he doesn't want to. He said he wasn't going to be able to get hard unless he could feel me "bareback". I said I'm not going to risk STDs or pregnancy. His response? He'll pay me child support for the next 18 years if it means he gets to have sex with me at least once a week. Needless to say he got nothing but a costly 2 hours of blueballs. Men are that stupid, that they are willing to risk their lives, DNA, and marriage for a piece of pussy.
SugarCookies
02-20-2019, 02:57 PM
That jealous regular keeps trying to contact me even though I no longer work at that club and made it clear I was no longer keeping in touch with customers at this moment. I’m not responding to his emails and messages, but he keeps trying. I guess he’s probably one of those guys who can’t seperate strip club from real life. I’m not your friend, damn it.
PrincessfromHell
02-20-2019, 03:03 PM
I had sex with the guy who is obviously addicted to porn (Karma, aren't you a bitch?!). That was by far the worst sex I have ever tried to have. That was terrible. You know when guy has no clue of wtf he is doing, but trying to recreate the juicy visuals, and...this crap they are trying to go for: I don't lick assholes, I don't like anal with some guy I don't know for xyz months, no you cannot cum on my face, no I am not hard to cum, you just SUCK at sex moron...I don't bother to fake my orgasms, I respect my fellow females too much to keep feeding the egos of useless lovers.
ah shall we not forget about: let's find a girl for a threesome. Me: hire professional. Him: I want both girls to want it. Life is not a damn porn movie. OMFG.
The guy is in his 40s, and you know my 1st bf did a better job during our first time.
I am in deep shock. These men should never get laid for free I swear.
whirlerz
02-20-2019, 04:12 PM
Soo..>:(
This morning I hear some guy yelling my room's name I walk out to the kitchen & some random-ass guy's standing there, he asked where ___'s room was..
Since he was already in the house I told him..
He apologized for disturbing me
But.What.the.actual.Fuck???
Glad he wasn't a burglar/rapist::):O
chanzep
02-20-2019, 06:36 PM
That is scary how did he get in
TheBrownFox
02-20-2019, 07:10 PM
I fucking HATE winter time & constant rain! Ugh *eyeroll* It's causing this apartment to be crazy chilly even with the windows down. The only good thing about winter is getting to wear my cute faux fur coats.
I hate winter with a passion. The only good thing about this miserable-ass time of year (besides being with family for Christmas) is that I unexpectedly had a fantastic Valentine's Day this year.
Schools were closed today because of the fucking snow. These kids will probably be in school 'til June 21 at this rate, with all the snow days they're using up. And the back and forth of the Maryland weather's got me fucked up. I've gone through so many rolls of toilet paper blowing my nose, and my throat itches. I was getting ready to walk to a nearby restaurant for some hot food, and then saw on their Facebook page that they decided to close early. So I had some Wendy's delivered to me from DoorDash.
JGB2009
02-20-2019, 07:28 PM
I am so annoyed with my child's father. He gets to file taxes for her this year and when I gave him her social security number he was asking was that really her number because the court gave him something different. Like WTF!!!! As much as I don't like him I gave him the right number and I think he was trying to start shit with me. I wish his dick would just fall off!!!!!
whirlerz
02-20-2019, 08:09 PM
That is scary how did he get in
There's a side entrance, it only goes to the kitchen/other bathroom, but you could also go by our rooms, which are usually locked.
I'm going to.talk to landlord in person about it
chanzep
02-20-2019, 08:31 PM
Yes you should.
whirlerz
02-20-2019, 10:19 PM
I will, but he won't do shit.
He'll talk to him, but he doesn't listen or care.
Thanks for listening
Jalena
02-20-2019, 11:18 PM
So a FB acquaintance posted this meme today. 'If you have to hurt others in order to make yourself feel powerful, you are an extremely weak individual.' He likes to wax poetic about compassion, understanding, tolerance ...
This is the same guy who throws Love emojis to his friends who shit-talk and call names to anyone who disagrees with or questions his posts, no matter how polite the dissenters are about it.
I hate virtue-signalling hypocritical pansy bitches.
AChildOfBoredom
02-21-2019, 06:35 AM
I will, but he won't do shit.
He'll talk to him, but he doesn't listen or care.
Thanks for listening
Every time you talk about your living arrangements, I literally see the words, "GET OUT, QUICK!" scrolling in front of my face. Really makes me appreciate the four roommates that I had in the past. Granted, the one male roommate I had was a bit of a lunatic, but he was always mindful and respectful of other two of us who lived there, and would never have had his friends randomly show up like that without giving us a heads up about it first. Maybe I got a little overly attached... I felt abandoned when they moved out. Guess I never really considered that they were going to move on at some point. I think to this day, it makes me reluctant not to keep myself detached from others. I kept my next two roommates (both women) at arm's length after that. Then I realized one day, "Hey... I can afford a house". Everyone here will move on at some point, too. It was still emotional for me when my very first 'refugee' shipped off to Boot Camp for the Navy, but I was prepared to accept it.
But, for now, I think my annoyance is my neighbors.. namely, their two teenage boys, whose bedroom windows face my house. I see those creepy little fuckers constantly looking out their windows at us, especially with three teenagers living in this house. So it makes me especially mindful of ensuring the blinds are closed, which irritates me, because sometimes I like to just sit and stare out the window. Sometimes I daydream, sometimes I wonder about people from my past and what they're doing now, sometimes I think about the war, sometimes it's just a means to keep me from feeling imprisoned within these walls of myself. Having to be so diligent about keeping the blinds closed impedes that.
miss.a.p1600
02-21-2019, 07:48 AM
So a FB acquaintance posted this meme today. 'If you have to hurt others in order to make yourself feel powerful, you are an extremely weak individual.' He likes to wax poetic about compassion, understanding, tolerance ...
This is the same guy who throws Love emojis to his friends who shit-talk and call names to anyone who disagrees with or questions his posts, no matter how polite the dissenters are about it.
I hate virtue-signalling hypocritical pansy bitches.
Lol I have no idea why this made me chuckle
Most people don’t realize how hypocritical they can be/are. They say something dumb, forget they said that, say something contradictory, then you you bring up their conflicting ideas they get defensive go into denial then try to rationalize their bs
miss.a.p1600
02-21-2019, 07:50 AM
Every time you talk about your living arrangements, I literally see the words, "GET OUT, QUICK!" scrolling in front of my face. Really makes me appreciate the four roommates that I had in the past. Granted, the one male roommate I had was a bit of a lunatic, but he was always mindful and respectful of other two of us who lived there, and would never have had his friends randomly show up like that without giving us a heads up about it first. Maybe I got a little overly attached... I felt abandoned when they moved out. Guess I never really considered that they were going to move on at some point. I think to this day, it makes me reluctant not to keep myself detached from others. I kept my next two roommates (both women) at arm's length after that. Then I realized one day, "Hey... I can afford a house". Everyone here will move on at some point, too. It was still emotional for me when my very first 'refugee' shipped off to Boot Camp for the Navy, but I was prepared to accept it.
But, for now, I think my annoyance is my neighbors.. namely, their two teenage boys, whose bedroom windows face my house. I see those creepy little fuckers constantly looking out their windows at us, especially with three teenagers living in this house. So it makes me especially mindful of ensuring the blinds are closed, which irritates me, because sometimes I like to just sit and stare out the window. Sometimes I daydream, sometimes I wonder about people from my past and what they're doing now, sometimes I think about the war, sometimes it's just a means to keep me from feeling imprisoned within these walls of myself. Having to be so diligent about keeping the blinds closed impedes that.
You could try the window film that makes it hard for people to see inside your place but you can see out
https://www.twowaymirrors.com/two-way-mirror-film/
Jalena
02-21-2019, 09:02 AM
You could try the window film that makes it hard for people to see inside your place but you can see out
Or she could post up in the window with a paintball gun and give the prying little fuckers something to peep about.
LOL in this current climate I do realise what a horrible idea that would probably be but that was my first thought on reading her post.
Glamourmilf
02-21-2019, 11:21 AM
I've been noticing rows and rows of Easter merchandise everywhere, since the end of January.
I thought maybe Easter is earlier than usual this year.
Nope.
It's not until April 21.
Why? Oh why? :(
Here we go again.
It's not even St Patrick's Day yet.50995
Violethollywood
02-21-2019, 04:11 PM
lately ive been getting a lot of customers wanting my number or whatsapp etc bc they're obviously too broke to talk to me and it pisses me off! like mother fucker! i dont come to your job and try to jew you down or make you work for free you ignorant fuck! GRRR! cheap assholes.
AChildOfBoredom
02-21-2019, 06:01 PM
Or she could post up in the window with a paintball gun and give the prying little fuckers something to peep about.
LOL in this current climate I do realise what a horrible idea that would probably be but that was my first thought on reading her post.
If I really get a case of the ass about it, I have very powerful flashlights and laser pointers at my disposal. Although I try not to be too shitty of a person, I have my limitations, especially when it comes to creepy little fuckers.
I've been noticing rows and rows of Easter merchandise everywhere, since the end of January.
I thought maybe Easter is earlier than usual this year.
Nope.
It's not until April 21.
Why? Oh why? :(
Here we go again.
It's not even St Patrick's Day yet.
The same reason I saw Valentine's Day stuff on New Year's Day, the same reason I saw Christmas stuff immediately after Halloween, etc. They gotta milk that cash cow the best they can.
Though I do wish they'd start selling fireworks for 4th of July much earlier than they do. Here, there really aren't any fireworks stores, but they'll set up little pop up tents and such around 4th of July to sell fireworks (even if the selection they offer isn't the greatest). Otherwise, you have to drive to South Carolina. So, you can go to South Of the Border right at the state line on I95 and pay their jacked up prices, or go further into the state.
carmen_b
02-21-2019, 08:58 PM
I am SO tired ! I did a really cool project lately but just feel so " meh " right now. The finished product won't be out for two weeks which seems like forever and I'm so tired. Pout.
It was so damn cold where we went so all these fun moments were just interrupted by sheer discomfort.
SugarCookies
02-21-2019, 09:14 PM
This is too personal and heavy however it's been bugging me so much. I really regret getting the abortion. Deep down I didn't want to go through with it but was pretty much pressured into it by my husband's words that we don't have any money and claiming the child would grow up miserable. It's not like we're in extreme poverty, he just wants a "nice house" before the babies come. What money did this save me? I'm overcome by grief and anger that's affected me to the point where I've been having trouble going back to work. I could go back to my previous club but I don't want to face anyone I know. Now instead of spending thousands on baby necessities, I'll be spending thousands on counseling and therapy.
chanzep
02-21-2019, 10:00 PM
Aww I'm sorry, it is not a easy thing to go through, I have been through it too. Get the counselling it does help. pm e if you need to talk.
chanzep
02-21-2019, 10:02 PM
Having Gastritis and pms is not fun. I was craving junk hard today and cannot eat it. I am missing chocolate so much. Grr I want fried chicken to .