View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
OliveJardin
01-05-2015, 11:52 PM
My club has raised it's house fee to $100 (only $20 more and I know it's not extravagant for a large club). But, it really annoyed me because a) I'm starting $100 out gr and b) It's just another indicator that the industry is going down down down. End rant.
audrey_k
01-06-2015, 07:21 AM
I seriously had the worst sleep last night trying to get back on London time from LA time, before I went to sleep I couldn't get through to my bf at all and was annoyed and went to bed. Well I guess he couldn't get through either and after finally falling asleep he began sending me tons of msgs and repeatedly calling saying "I miss you please pick up I've been trying to get through all day my internet has been down...." Very sweet but don't fuck with my sleep dude...
Tsepmet1
01-06-2015, 07:49 AM
The apartment above me is being renovated and they've been loud as fuck since 8:19am. *growl*
KikiGem
01-06-2015, 04:30 PM
My roommate just kicked me out of the kitchen. I thought he was done but he wasn't so he requested that I leave until he's finished. I think he was actually pissed that I even tried to use the kitchen with him in it. I'm just boiling water for pasta! Can't wait to be done with these two loony tunes
whirlerz
01-06-2015, 04:56 PM
Yea so, today was my dental appt. took a cab both ways 40.00 :((cause I took Valium)..it wasn't too bad, but I still have to go back to get crown removed, then again for perm. crown? & it's 60.00 more?
I hate my teeth :(
Naida
01-06-2015, 07:36 PM
Don't feel too bad, whirlerz. My teeth are all jacked up and it's causing me a lot of anxiety since I had to put the work they need on hiatus. It's starting to seriously impact my confidence about going back to work in a couple of months, even more than my weight or slacking on my hair/nails.
I just don't understand my fucking sister.
I'm lazy because I don't want to be responsible for her oldest child 24/7 now that she lives next door? Sorry that I was smart enough to listen when our mother tried talking to us about sex, so I ended up being the one with no kids or STIs when she's had three infections that I know of and pumped out her first kid at sixteen because she let a guy nut in her after hearing from friends that smoking too much pot makes you sterile. I mean, what the fuck?
Give me shit for being out of work? Bitch, how many jobs have you quit the moment you got your first paycheck? When have you ever paid a fucking bill? Last I checked, when we lived together, I paid 2/3 the bills (I was covering our roommate who was out of work because she had a job when I first moved in and was actively looking for another) while you begged for money when bill time rolled around. Those groceries she fucking buys? Food stamps paid for that shit while she lays on her ass and drinks under my mother's roof.
And I swear to all things holy, if she calls me fat one more time, I'm gonna tell her "step your pudgy little ass on a scale." Her shit talking doesn't fool anyone. Even her own friends have been aware since we hit puberty that she's insecure because I was the sister who got the tits and hips. I mean, honestly, how shitty of a person do you have to be for your own friends to call you a "petty, jealous skank" when you tried ripping on the same person for the fifth time that week?
What's most pathetic to me is that you'll start all this fussing, fighting, and screaming directly in front of your children, then use them as an excuse for "I'd kick your ass if I didn't have my kids." Bitch, please. Both of your children are young enough that they wouldn't even notice there was something going on if I dragged you outside while there were cartoons on. Just trying to stroke your own ego because you know I won't actually fight you right now. Better hope your ass either moves the fuck out or learns to shut the fuck up in the next month and a half. If not, the day I get off probation will be the day that I turn on cartoons for the kids inside, calmly tell you to step outside, and proceed to whoopin' your piece of shit trailer trash ass again because you were too stupid to learn your lesson the first time.
Oh, and I'm still pissed about the lack of head.
audrey_k
01-06-2015, 09:34 PM
My boyfriend and I were supposed to host a dinner party his first weekend back-- I've already spent three hours making up the menu and was going to start making each dish so that I'm not making it for the first time on the day of tomorrow. I organized my schedule with work around this thing so I could bake a cake the afternoon before, we've been planning it for over a month.
There was originally going to be six of us-- 3 couples, so 3 girls and 3 boys-- and now one of our guests has cancelled because she realized that she has to go to an engagement party. There was originally supposed to only be 4 of us but we invited her and he boyfriend a month ago, I mentioned it to her and that I wasn't really looking forward to it because I've found the girl we originally invited (really hard to write this without saying names) really difficult to get on with, and she suggested it might go easier if she was there since we have become pretty good friends. And now today she realizes she can't come? What's irritating me as well as she's been in contact with my boyfriend and me and telling us completely different things, she told him she didn't care about missing the party and wanted to come to ours and now she told me it would be a really big deal if she didn't go. Like does she seriously think we don't talk about these things? We live together for fuck's sake. Even though he's not back from vacation yet and I returned Monday, we still speak 2x a day on the phone and send about 50 texts. So really? If you say something different to him I'm gonna find out.
Then she told me that her boyfriend is uncomfortable coming because he knows my boyfriend but not the other friend and he thinks they will ignore him and he'll be sitting alone, which I honestly took offense to because my boyfriend would never do that to a guest, he is super sweet and outgoing and friendly and so is his friend, his friend has always been the nicest to me of any of my boyfriend's friends I've met, he's my favorite (just not a fan of his gf). Now she wants us to re-organize the party to the end of the month. My boyfriend is pissed because he doesn't want to have to change the dates with the other couple when he agreed on this months ago and he feels like she's being dishonest and shady because her story has changed and she's told us both different things. I'm pissed because I don't like seeing him upset and hurt and she's supposed to be one of his best friends-- he spent a while upset asking me if I think she just doesn't want to come to his flat and is lying, and anyone who upsets my bf like that I will cut your fucking head off-- and I've organized my fucking schedule and put time into this already.
michele11
01-07-2015, 12:44 AM
Don't feel too bad, whirlerz. My teeth are all jacked up and it's causing me a lot of anxiety since I had to put the work they need on hiatus. It's starting to seriously impact my confidence about going back to work in a couple of months, even more than my weight or slacking on my hair/nails.
I just don't understand my fucking sister.
I'm lazy because I don't want to be responsible for her oldest child 24/7 now that she lives next door? Sorry that I was smart enough to listen when our mother tried talking to us about sex, so I ended up being the one with no kids or STIs when she's had three infections that I know of and pumped out her first kid at sixteen because she let a guy nut in her after hearing from friends that smoking too much pot makes you sterile. I mean, what the fuck?
Give me shit for being out of work? Bitch, how many jobs have you quit the moment you got your first paycheck? When have you ever paid a fucking bill? Last I checked, when we lived together, I paid 2/3 the bills (I was covering our roommate who was out of work because she had a job when I first moved in and was actively looking for another) while you begged for money when bill time rolled around. Those groceries she fucking buys? Food stamps paid for that shit while she lays on her ass and drinks under my mother's roof.
And I swear to all things holy, if she calls me fat one more time, I'm gonna tell her "step your pudgy little ass on a scale." Her shit talking doesn't fool anyone. Even her own friends have been aware since we hit puberty that she's insecure because I was the sister who got the tits and hips. I mean, honestly, how shitty of a person do you have to be for your own friends to call you a "petty, jealous skank" when you tried ripping on the same person for the fifth time that week?
What's most pathetic to me is that you'll start all this fussing, fighting, and screaming directly in front of your children, then use them as an excuse for "I'd kick your ass if I didn't have my kids." Bitch, please. Both of your children are young enough that they wouldn't even notice there was something going on if I dragged you outside while there were cartoons on. Just trying to stroke your own ego because you know I won't actually fight you right now. Better hope your ass either moves the fuck out or learns to shut the fuck up in the next month and a half. If not, the day I get off probation will be the day that I turn on cartoons for the kids inside, calmly tell you to step outside, and proceed to whoopin' your piece of shit trailer trash ass again because you were too stupid to learn your lesson the first time.
Oh, and I'm still pissed about the lack of head.
Sounds kinda like my sister minus the kids. I would usually be going to bed now but I have to leave to fly out in a few hours. Ugh. I got in bed at 10pm. Finally fell asleep and my moms calling (her husbands going to take me to the airport() then calls back like 20 min later when I was almost asllep( you need to give him money). Yeah, know I alwys do. She was bitching because she didn't wanna take me and why couldn't I park there? Um She's taken me like twice in 2 years. I'm also gonna get my period today or tomorrow, I'm getting cramps. Ugh. I'm going to have to go right to the hotel and get ready and audition. And my hair extensions didn't come in so I have to make due with crap ones. I hate flying out early! But time difference and clubs close 3 hours earlier. This is going to be fun.
michele11
01-07-2015, 12:46 AM
Oh yeah and why couldn't my sister bring me?!? She doesn't work. Instead of my mom causing me more stress yesterday because she didn't want to drive me car. When i got it 8 months ago she had no problem and I refused and took a shuttle.
michele11
01-07-2015, 02:47 AM
Ugh. I did get my period ad have diaharrea. Lovely. I don't feel like going. I wish it was somewhere I knew and know what to expect. Got 10 min.
audrey_k
01-07-2015, 11:09 AM
I've signed up for all these post-graduate evenings to hear different universities in London speak about their programmes... and they all conflict with my work schedule. There's so many of them I feel like I can't even take off time from work to go to them.
MissAdriana
01-07-2015, 12:58 PM
OMG audrey I can stand flaky "friends"! Is the dude so insecure he can't be around 5 other people where he may be ignored for 5 seconds while the attention is on someone else?! For crying out loud grow the fuck up. People man. So selfish
I'm currently dealing with friends who want to hangout but require all the plans go through me. Instead of just talking to each other and figuring it out for some reason I must be the one to organize it and set the date etc like wtf, we're all friends? Fucking talk to each other! I've gotta go to walmart for the 3rd time this week to return something. It seems everything I fucking buy is defective in some way or another. It's freezing out like -20 which means a hundred layers of clothes and as much as I love shopping I would much rather stay the fuck inside
audrey_k
01-07-2015, 01:18 PM
OMG audrey I can stand flaky "friends"! Is the dude so insecure he can't be around 5 other people where he may be ignored for 5 seconds while the attention is on someone else?! For crying out loud grow the fuck up. People man. So selfish
It's ridiculous but this is not the first time he's done something like this, they were supposed to go to a mutual friend''s NYE party that we were invited to (but couldn't go because we're both out of town) but ended up not going because he didn't want to be with people he didn't know. I'm an introvert so I get being stressed around other people, but honestly it's why it pisses me off even more. Being around huge groups of people I know can even be stressful for me so being thrown into a party with 20+ people I don't know but are friends of my bf is my version of hell, but I've done it a dozen times because it's important for him to go and how am I going to get to know anyone if I don't just suck it up and go? Now it's not so bad because I know these people, but it sucked in the beginning. It's part of being in a relationship with somebody, it's your responsibility to try and get on with their friends. And I don't understand what's so stressful about a dinner with 6 people? This is also why my bf feels like she's lying because I told him maybe she had told him the party wasn't a big deal before she found out her bf didn't want to come, and now she's using the party as an excuse not to come-- to which he responded "so they're going to go to a huge engagement party where he doesn't know anyone? yeah that sounds much less stressful for him" to which I didn't really know what to say.
I don't really know what's going on with them because we haven't had a fallout or anything, and she loves coming over to our place and does all the time. Her bf and her have been super on and off for years and he's emotionally abusive and a bit of a deadbeat so my bf can't stand him and I'm wondering if he just doesn't want to be around my bf for that reason. Either way, we're adults and you've been friends for almost two decades, just be honest and don't make us play guessing games by telling us two completely different things.
SweetJulia
01-07-2015, 06:08 PM
I've spent the whole day running errands in eleven degree weather. But now, I'm warm with my obese cat snuggled up to me purring with his paw on my shoulder :)
Naida
01-07-2015, 07:20 PM
This cold weather is making my ankles hurt. But at least I got a few good nuts in today.
Vyanka
01-07-2015, 07:43 PM
This fkn sucks. I went to my sister in law's friend's sugar waxing salon for a Brazilian, & there is still hair in a lot of places. On top of that, my landing strip is crooked. Ugh. I wanted a nice sexy kitty for my Friday night date. Looks like I gotta shave that ridiculous strip.
That place had a 5 star rating with lots of good reviews. *sigh*
Aniela
01-08-2015, 12:00 PM
My recruiter is such a fk stick. He was supposed to come down to KW to meet w/ me … after three days of txting & calling him, & getting no answer, he waits til I leave a vm saying I am actually there waiting to get the time+place to meet b4 saying 'oh sry had to change the date' Bugger stands me up when I go to meet him & stands me up when he says he will come to meet me. :banghead:
I'm starting to think of him as P.O. Jębiesz Jeże.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-08-2015, 12:01 PM
I am annoyed that one of my co-workers who I thought was cool with me is really a bitch. More specifically, whenever I park next to her in the employee lot she acts weird for that shift (I have a nice car I paid for with stripping/escorting money & she drives a hand me down Chevy from her mom since she goes to college & can't afford a new car.)
It makes me hate her. She must be shitty inside if something as lame as a car gets under her skin. Guess I'm glad I know how she really is now.
whirlerz
01-08-2015, 12:26 PM
I'm here to say..except for a full mouth xray, to make sure there's no more pending probs.I am DONE w/my teeth.!!!
I'll have spent like close to 4k out of pocket (still now owing about 1500.)..
I'm supposed to go bk to the one problem dentist for a crown removal..she was able to fix the filling w/the old crown in place, TG. &, she actually asked me if I wanted novocaine? I know the nerves are dead, b/c of the root canals, but I told her it was bothering me!>:( TG, also I had a valium to take!
Forget going bk, as far as I'm concerned, it can wait til I have more $/or a vanilla job w/benefits.
MyButter
01-08-2015, 01:26 PM
^ Yay! Congrats, whirlerz!
KikiGem
01-08-2015, 03:27 PM
Whirlerz, I'm glad to hear you're done with your teeth! My mom has a few cracked crowns, along with many other watch zones, but she doesn't want to get them fixed yet because of all the money it costs. I need to get braces back on the top teeth (at least) so I think my whole family is also looking at a very high dental bill this year.
My annoyances include sex and bananas. Every time I buy bananas lately, I always buy the greenish firm ones but they go mushy, yellow with brown spots the very next day!
And sex... it's just.. so... disappointing lately. Ugh. The young 20-something ones are usually selfish, and the older ones (30+) seem to think they're so good that they don't need to listen to any instruction from me. Both scenarios leave me ignored and beyond unsatisfied. I wish Santa gave me a gigolo for Cmas... lol!
audrey_k
01-08-2015, 04:02 PM
I'm here to say..except for a full mouth xray, to make sure there's no more pending probs.I am DONE w/my teeth.!!!
I'll have spent like close to 4k out of pocket (still now owing about 1500.)..
I'm supposed to go bk to the one problem dentist for a crown removal..she was able to fix the filling w/the old crown in place, TG. &, she actually asked me if I wanted novocaine? I know the nerves are dead, b/c of the root canals, but I told her it was bothering me!>:( TG, also I had a valium to take!
Forget going bk, as far as I'm concerned, it can wait til I have more $/or a vanilla job w/benefits.
That's awesome! I have to get cavity taken care of this month and have been putting it off since I got back. I have a really intense fear of the dentist from a horrible experience I had as a child and hate going.
Laylalust
01-08-2015, 04:15 PM
I have been bed-ridden for almost a week. I worked my first shift at the club in almost a month this last Friday night. It wasn't a bad shift, I made my $ goal and I was on my game and pretty pleased with myself for staying on the floor and hustling all night. I came home and passed out. Well, I feel like I'm being punished for something because ever since that shift my body has completely freaked out on me. Granted, that was the first shift in a month and I haven't exercised very much, but the two days following that shift I was in such horrible physical pain that I could barely move. My limbs were aching from all of the polework and lapdances I gave. I threw myself into working that night without stretching or preparing my body in any way. Not even 1200 mg of ibuprofen helped the pain, nor smoking weed. I was aching so bad that every move I made was excruciating; I could barely crawl up and down the stairs. My darling boyfriend rubbed me down as much as he was able and I just stayed as still as possible. A hot bath with epsom salts finally relieved the pain but I was still sore on Sunday, essentially ruining my weekend. On Monday I returned to my day job and I could tell I was on the verge of getting sick. I had different body aches this time...the feverish ones. I returned to work on Tuesday (day job is M-f, 8-5) but they sent me home and I've literally been in bed since. I had to call in both yesterday and today because I'm so ill. Terrible congestion, sore throat, low fever, body aches, sneezing and coughing. It's truly wretched. Luckily I have an absolutely wonderful BF...he has seriously been caring for me this whole week through all of these various maladies.
I totally blame the club for all of this. Of course I should have probably not thrown myself into physical activity so hard when I haven't been stretching or exercising at all, but I was just trying to be a good stripper! I worked so hard for that money I made and now I feel like I'm being punished and I'm LOSING money because I had to call into my regular job and I don't think I have any PTO left. And I am just so SICK, probably from all of the disgusting customers and their germs and their saliva and their wretchedness. I signed up to work on Saturday night and now I don't want to go because I don't want to be exposed to all that filth again when I obviously have a weakened immune system. I was already talked to last Friday about calling off so much but seriously, fuck them. I don't NEED to dance. It's supplemental for me and I have no obligation to them. I will work when I want to work and call off if I don't feel like going in! I just am honestly shocked at how hard my body took working just one night shift. I know that viruses are going around this time of year but this all happened consecutively after my shift at the stupid club. I swear to god the next dude who tries to kiss me or touch me or get their disgusting bacteria on me next time I work I will PUNCH IN THE FACE.
HoolaTwister
01-09-2015, 08:57 AM
I'm extremely mad and disappointed that my friend seems to only be my friend when she needs to vent about her abusive boyfriend or when he dumps her. Then we are cool. But as soon as he comes back she has zero time for me and acts super catty and out of character. Wtf?! Next time he betters her and tells her to F off, I'm not going to spend hours with her comforting her and being there. Ugh!!
Glamourmilf
01-09-2015, 10:41 AM
^^ That happens to me as well. I'm usually a very patient person, and listen, but lately I feel so used.
I must move by feb 1st, have to work 3 jobs, pack, find a place to live., and NOBODY understands me when I say I can't talk or play right now because of it! My phone starts ringing/texts at 5 a.m., and doesn't stop till way past 10 p.m.
I guess they figure I'll answer one of those times.
I hate people now! I'm down on my luck financially, and nobody even offers to help, even though nobody works and could easily help me.
They are always around when the money is flowing, though. they are sooo self-centered self-involved.::)
I'm DONE!!!
Not answering my phone anymore, till they take the hint, and leave me the fuck alone!!
michele11
01-09-2015, 02:27 PM
I'm at a club and I sold 4 vip rooms my first night. The guy freaked out and all of a suddn didn't want tp pay( granted this was at 4 hours. I got free house tickets. I go in last night and the lady manager yells at me and wants them back saying he only paid me and not the club. I wouldn't have come so late with tip out so high I told her and she said" well you can go home", And you can't drink unless a guy is in vip and buys champagne or wine. Fuck that place! All the girls walk around in tbacks and bras and after stage walk aroud without tops for ever. And they all do 10 dollar dances. It's suppose to be no contact but their all over the guys. I thought about leaving and saying fuck you! But I'm going somwhere else tonight I made like 10 dollars after tipping and cab. If It's like that everywhere I'm leaving. Also the guy tipped the vip girl 300 and they were after me to tip her. The fucken lady says you made 1300. And yes I get more than 300 an hour for my vips. that's half hour. Fuck them!
Aniela
01-09-2015, 06:45 PM
It's all I can do right now not to txt my ex & tell him AGAIN that I want my stuff back. I asked him 6mo ago, b4 the shit hit the fan, & I asked him again 10 days ago last time he talked. IDGAF abt his excuses, he's been blowing me off for 6 damn months. I'm shipping in 3wks & I want it back. Gonna get on his ass again if it's not here by Tuesday.
Naida
01-09-2015, 11:40 PM
I'm here to say..except for a full mouth xray, to make sure there's no more pending probs.I am DONE w/my teeth.!!!
I'll have spent like close to 4k out of pocket (still now owing about 1500.)..
I'm supposed to go bk to the one problem dentist for a crown removal..she was able to fix the filling w/the old crown in place, TG. &, she actually asked me if I wanted novocaine? I know the nerves are dead, b/c of the root canals, but I told her it was bothering me!>:( TG, also I had a valium to take!
Forget going bk, as far as I'm concerned, it can wait til I have more $/or a vanilla job w/benefits.
I'm glad you're pretty much done, hun! I still have a loooong road, including an implant because my own PoS crown damaged a healthy wisdom tooth (which grew in perfectly after the extraction of a molar ruined by bad habits in my youth) to the point of needing an extraction. Fuck my life, but thank all things holy I'll be dancing again in two months and will be able to afford/manage appointments.
I'm fucking pissed that Aunt Flo decided to show up right at the tail end of being sick, with dysmenorrhea in tow. Fuck being female some days.
SweetJulia
01-10-2015, 06:24 AM
Fuck Cleveland, fuck six degree weather, and fuck my frozen eyebrows.
Christina2013
01-10-2015, 07:26 AM
Did you come to Phoenix?
I'm at a club and I sold 4 vip rooms my first night. The guy freaked out and all of a suddn didn't want tp pay( granted this was at 4 hours. I got free house tickets. I go in last night and the lady manager yells at me and wants them back saying he only paid me and not the club. I wouldn't have come so late with tip out so high I told her and she said" well you can go home", And you can't drink unless a guy is in vip and buys champagne or wine. Fuck that place! All the girls walk around in tbacks and bras and after stage walk aroud without tops for ever. And they all do 10 dollar dances. It's suppose to be no contact but their all over the guys. I thought about leaving and saying fuck you! But I'm going somwhere else tonight I made like 10 dollars after tipping and cab. If It's like that everywhere I'm leaving. Also the guy tipped the vip girl 300 and they were after me to tip her. The fucken lady says you made 1300. And yes I get more than 300 an hour for my vips. that's half hour. Fuck them!
whirlerz
01-10-2015, 09:13 AM
Fuck Cleveland, fuck six degree weather, and fuck my frozen eyebrows.
Right? Talking to a trucker, I feel for them driving in this weather, ugh. Supposed to warm a bit this coming wk, w/a few still frozen days..
Having some weird lock issue w/my car (which's been ongoing). Prob. end up taking it in, but w/forking out for my teeth I've been avoiding it
lol1337a
01-10-2015, 10:05 PM
Not so petty, but coming straight from a gender-neutral erring transwoman's funeral, just wanna scream,
Sex is not gender, sex and gender aren't binary, even having a gender isn't a given, OMFG world just stop it.
lol1337a
01-11-2015, 01:53 AM
^^If you aren't an experienced hitchhiker please do some research at least. Not going to tell you not to do it, but be safe etc. Plus you said you were trying to stop posting, and if you go silent before you get home we'll never know. Good luck/hugs.
Tsepmet1
01-11-2015, 07:13 AM
Went to a club last night that I used to love working in. They changed their VIP prices so the dancer only gets $140 for a half hour! WAT?!
I'm just not willing to work for that cheap. Especially when I'm paying house, valet, manager fee, dj, housemom, and EACH floor host.
I rented an apartment here as of 2/15, thinking that this club would be fine and the money would be like it used to (in 2013), but now I'm worried.
Selina M
01-11-2015, 10:31 AM
We're trying to show our apt so I can get someone to take over my part of the lease, and my roommate is SO not cooperating.
"I have a friend who wants to check it out" a week ago, and "We're shooting for this weekend". It's Sunday morning. I have seen nor heard none of this friend. I put out an ad and have someone who wants to come in like 2 hours; I told roommate that yesterday and now he's disappeared. This is after he bitched at me that "If you thought you were going to pull this, you shouldn't have signed the lease". PULL THIS? Excuse me? I didn't know in November when I resigned that in 2 months bf and I would both get better opportunities in another city. He makes it sound like I was plotting it. Not sure if he's just pissed that his rent will go up a little, but even if it does it's still $150 cheaper than when he lived alone, plus he gets to split utilities. And I get the feeling he might pull what a former roommate of mine did, where she was unavailable to meet people all the time and nobody was good enough, because if she dragged it on until the next month, she got the place to herself with me paying half the rent for another month.
Grrrrrrrrrrr.
audrey_k
01-11-2015, 12:28 PM
I've spent all afternoon cleaning my apartment before my bf gets back home tomorrow to avoid an argument about how it's not clean enough. He asked if I wanted to cleaner to come the day before he gets back and I said no, have no idea why I said that cause this sucks.
But what really sucks is living with a clean freak. I've enjoyed so much leaving clothes on the ground and not washing the dishes right after and whatnot. Ugh.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-11-2015, 12:35 PM
Well, the hitch hiking would be a last resort but I will definitely do my research. :) thanks for being so sweet and being concerned :)
I said I wanted to stop posting because I was frustrated by a thread but sw is a useful site in many ways so I will probably stick around.
Please text someone if you do hitchhike. For years me and another girl from this site who also traveled would trade daily texts to check in with eachother and have an emergency call-back set up. I guess you could call it "Stripper Battle Buddies."
Tsepmet1
01-11-2015, 01:20 PM
So this is probably dumb, but I'll vent here.
So I started back dancing last night at a club I haven't been to in about two years. I've been camming during the day while husband is at work, so I'm pretty much on a day schedule. Besides the fact that I haven't been dancing, I was dragging ass because I was tired. It wasn't actually a big deal, because I went in just to secure my job, make sure the club was still clean, had traffic, etc., so I just kind of lazed around, trying to get myself back into my groove.
So this dancer comes up to me and begins giving me pointers on how to make money. Great. Because I *obviously* had no idea what I was doing. /sarcasm. Besides all of the things mentioned above, I'm a "work smarter, not harder" kind of dancer. I stalk my prey. I dig my claws into my prey. I'm not a "wannadancewannadancewannadance" kind of girl. Then she says, "don't you have anything else to wear?" I'm wearing a red cocktail-esque dress. My favorite money-making dress. "Customers would look at you so much differently in a bra and panty set!" Bless her heart for trying to help, but A. I did not ask for her help. B. I don't want her help. C. I probably make more money than her.
I asked her where else she had danced, and she named off a couple of in-area clubs, so I "politely" told her that I had been doing this for almost 8 years and I know what I'm doing.
Ugh. I much prefer it when the house dancers ignore me. /rant
audrey_k
01-11-2015, 01:38 PM
I'm trying to find a good pole dancing studio (that's not a million miles away from where I live) to begin taking classes next month. I need to start working out and I know I'll actually go to these classes cause I missing pole dancing so much.
But it honestly makes my blood boil when I see descriptions like "nothing seedy is going on here" "professionals only" "this is an art, not a sex thing" I get you what to differentiate yourself from a strip club but I think most people get that. I've worked in strip clubs for half a decade and never felt like I was doing anything "seedy" and certainly considered myself a "professional."
michele11
01-11-2015, 06:15 PM
^^If you aren't an experienced hitchhiker please do some research at least. Not going to tell you not to do it, but be safe etc. Plus you said you were trying to stop posting, and if you go silent before you get home we'll never know. Good luck/hugs.
I won't let her do that.
michele11
01-11-2015, 06:33 PM
They all walk around like that in the town I'm currently in. I'm the only idiot waking around in a gown. Never was a problem anywhere else but that's what guys like here!! I can't wait to get the fuck outta here!
audrey_k
01-12-2015, 01:43 AM
Starting a new job today and could barely sleep for more than a few hours. I've tried to go back to bed so many times and it's not working.
On the plus side, I've got hours to spare so at least I can wear proper make up and cook a proper breakfast on my first day.
Tsepmet1
01-12-2015, 06:46 AM
Someone please tell me why in the fuck manager tipout exists.
Kellydancer
01-12-2015, 10:47 AM
Hospital people can go to hell. My mom got rushed to the hospital on Thursday and has been there since. She was told yesterday that she would get released so my dad called me and I went with him to the hospital. I hadn't eaten that day and didn't get much sleep (3 hours)but was told it would be soon. We get there at 11am, only to be told the doctor would release her soon. By 5pm he still hadn't shown up, I went home and my dad told me he decided she wasn't ready. The staff would rather goof around and instead of doing their job were surfing the web at work. Then today the hospital called my dad and said my mom would be released very soon, he rushed there at 9am and is STILL there.
Jagoffs.
simone87
01-12-2015, 11:00 AM
haven't been on here lately, so i have so many!!
1) finally got up the courage to go audition at a little club across the street after a month and a half of dragging my feet..did the stupid mandatory amateur night, only to hear them say " well, come back for a few more amateur nights and then we'll talk". granted amateur night is 4 days a week, but i'm feeling messed around with..its like i did my time, why can't i just have a regular schedule?? is it a brush off?
2) my normally chill, quiet, really well-behaved kid utterly lost his shit.. it scared me so bad yesterday i started crying , wondering what has been going on that would make him act like that ( i think it has something to do with his dad). he was getting hysterical, i've never seen him like that in his life. but after her saw me crying he immediately calmed down and stopped. i'm really hoping that doesn't happen again.
michele11
01-12-2015, 08:09 PM
Someone please tell me why in the fuck manager tipout exists.
Exactly. Because you know it's our job to pay the staff because the club is too cheap too! I was offered a manging job at a club. 500 a week. Yeah, I'll jump right on that. And have you noticed most managers are losers who couldn't get hired elsewhere...
Selina M
01-12-2015, 08:25 PM
^ My manager drives a tricked out Infiniti, and one of the DJs has a brand new lifted F-150 and spends his shift googling ideas for remodeling his house. They make ridiculous money for not doing a whole lot of anything.
michele11
01-12-2015, 08:54 PM
My ex manages at the top club in tampa and makes about 500 a week. All the Vcg clubs they do too. Now Gm that's another thing. Also I know broke dancers driving mercedes. Djs make more than us.In most clubs I work.
Selina M
01-12-2015, 09:14 PM
Yeah, he's the assistant GM so I imagine his salary is pretty decent, plus he makes min $10/girl and we run between 10 and 30 girls a day... that times 5 days a week is pretty good. The lower tier managers don't make shit though.
DJs are always gonna make a nice chunk of change. My bf just got hired to DJ at a dive out here and I'm sure he'll start to catch up to me in earnings as he gets better shifts with more girls/customers on...
Tsepmet1
01-12-2015, 09:31 PM
My ex manages at the top club in tampa and makes about 500 a week.
That's the asshole I'm required to tip.