View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
03-24-2019, 11:11 AM
No option to travel with him some of the time ?
Bf's stupid new work schedule. I hate it because he's going to be on this work schedule for the next 3 months and he's going to be away from me for a large majority of the time. This means that I better hope for a miracle to happen soon. I'm feeling bummed out.
miss.a.p1600
03-25-2019, 07:46 PM
Regular dating is confusing tf out of me right now.
I just want to scream (and not in a good way)
carmen_b
03-25-2019, 09:31 PM
I don't know how I ended up in a conversation with the ex after swearing I wouldn't even chat for 30 seconds but he made me agitated again due to some things he said about the start of the relationship. My version is that we fell in love quite quickly ( under a few months ) even though we didn't say the words for 5 months . He told me he was " keeping it casual " at the start.
It aggravates me but I realize " repainting " the past is something people sometimes do .
WendiStarr
03-26-2019, 06:51 AM
I started an online class last night and I don't care for the program that they are using for it. The format is so unorganized, messy, confusing, and overwhelming. I prefer Blackboard and am most familiar with that for online courses. I can't even figure out where the heck the assignments are and the instructor isn't responding to emails. Then again, it is only 9:50am so she might be working her main job besides being an online instructor. I don't know but I feel frustrated already. I don't have patience today.
Elle:)
03-26-2019, 08:58 AM
I hate earthquakes.:(
miss.a.p1600
03-26-2019, 12:46 PM
I am so tired and all I want to do is take a nap. The caffeine is not helping
Jalena
03-26-2019, 02:10 PM
My fucking bank account is gaslighting me. I have $1400 missing from my account, and nothing on my statement to show WTF happened to it.
Not only that, but the amounts shown on my statement do not match the amount shown in my account when I last checked it 8 days ago. Even if I had misread it at last check, the numbers don't add up. I also tried twice to make online purchases over the weekend but my debit card was declined. There was plenty of money to cover those purchases, so I know it's not a matter of overdrawing. I was was already having a pretty shitty day, but this newly-discovered mess had so upset that I left the bank without asking them to help fix it, because I could see myself taking my anger out on the poor employees there. I will do it over the phone tonight.
seashell
03-28-2019, 04:12 AM
My dog chewed up the cord for my expensive hair straightener. Sad face.
Elektra Luxx
03-28-2019, 05:50 AM
^^^
My brother's dog chewed on my favorite workout shoes. I feel you.
Aurora_Sunset
03-28-2019, 09:11 AM
After unexpectedly paying a bunch to have my power cut back on, I'm now over $500 behind in various bill payments from last month, and scrambling to Uber my butt off to make rent on Monday (probably will have to pull from my meager, just-starting-to-recover savings). Desperately hoping my tax return that I did over the weekend hits quickly. If that wasn't coming, I wouldn't even know what to do honestly.
It's my own fault for not keeping an eye on the power bill, but I do wish they were like EVERY other company where, when you sign into the website, there's big red letters that tell you your account is overdue. But they never do. Just a homepage with the due date, that you have to even click on to see your balance. So I kept checking it, seeing that the due date wasn't for a "couple weeks" and shutting it out without realizing I had done that several times. I really feel like a failure right now.
whirlerz
03-28-2019, 09:38 AM
Aww, DON't Aurora!!!^^^
Listen:
I went to the Dr, after several years, (was prev. treated by a specialist)..
So, according to my shit insur., I had 2 free visits, then a copay, but, bc he 'coded' ::) it a certain way, I NOW have an $800.00 fucking
[email protected]!:O
Not only that, he put me on this med, & fuck if it didn't make me sicker than hell. Which I too myself off of.
The Dr office/med group::) just so happens to have its own 'payment' svc, to yea I'm paying on a time basis, also I really don't have a huge interest chg, but still..
I forked over 1k this winter on my car, (unnecessarily>:( another thread)
I made 1 payment ahead of schedule, but it still fucking blows!
Now, I'm struggling to move my storage, since the cow town I lived now doubles it, I have to be out by this Sat, even tho Sun's the 31st, bc they're closed, or they'll charge me day by day, again, not a big amount, but if I get out early, I don't get that refunded!
Sorry for the novelette
whirlerz
03-28-2019, 09:45 AM
You know what, fuck all that..
Venezuela's in a total.fucking.blackout..
Htf would I like THAT> nope
Aurora_Sunset
03-28-2019, 09:59 AM
And now the power company is charging me a "security deposit" for having my power disconnected, and I don't get it back unless I pay on time for another 12 months straight... wtf... like "Hey, you obviously have trouble paying your electric bill, so you're gonna have to pay an extra high bill right after an already extra high bill." It's like overdraft fees or fees for having "too little money" at the bank. The fucking cycle of "we're charging you to be poor."
whirlerz
03-28-2019, 10:32 AM
And now the power company is charging me a "security deposit" for having my power disconnected, and I don't get it back unless I pay on time for another 12 months straight... wtf... like "Hey, you obviously have trouble paying your electric bill, so you're gonna have to pay an extra high bill right after an already extra high bill." It's like overdraft fees or fees for having "too little money" at the bank. The fucking cycle of "we're charging you to be poor."
YES!^
That's EXACTLY what they do..
They should pay YOU interest on that$!
trustfundkiller
03-28-2019, 12:14 PM
Stress has been kicking my ass these last couple of weeks. I got sick with a horrible cold that wouldn't go away (it's still hanging on) and I was prescribed steroids and antibiotics just in case it was something more than a cold. I still don't feel 100% but I've missed so much work I'm going to have to power through and deal with it. I've been taking Sudafed too (the real kind that you have to show your driver's license to get) and I hate it. I can see why people use it to make meth because it makes my heart race and makes me feel really jumpy overall, not in a good way.
On the bright side, I've lost 4 lbs from being sick and having no appetite. I'd rather keep the weight and feel good, but you know ...looking for a silver lining.
whirlerz
03-28-2019, 12:39 PM
Stress has been kicking my ass these last couple of weeks. I got sick with a horrible cold that wouldn't go away (it's still hanging on) and I was prescribed steroids and antibiotics just in case it was something more than a cold. I still don't feel 100% but I've missed so much work I'm going to have to power through and deal with it. I've been taking Sudafed too (the real kind that you have to show your driver's license to get) and I hate it. I can see why people use it to make meth because it makes my heart race and makes me feel really jumpy overall, not in a good way.
On the bright side, I've lost 4 lbs from being sick and having no appetite. I'd rather keep the weight and feel good, but you know ...looking for a silver lining.
Do I ever feel this^
Lol, I have & had a lingering sore throat/mini flu, (I got the shot & glad)..
Lost about 5 lbs, (may've gained a bit, but still good) I ALMOST gave away/sold a great pr of blank pants!
I'm just trying to deal w/getting thru my move, from one storage to another. I made a quick trip this morning, & will prob do more tonight
trustfundkiller
03-28-2019, 12:59 PM
Do I ever feel this^
Lol, I have & had a lingering sore throat/mini flu, (I got the shot & glad)..
Lost about 5 lbs, (may've gained a bit, but still good) I ALMOST gave away/sold a great pr of blank pants!
I'm just trying to deal w/getting thru my move, from one storage to another. I made a quick trip this morning, & will prob do more tonight
I hope you feel better soon! There's nothing worse than trying to work and be productive when sick. I'm in the midst of a move too! They say moving is one of the most stressful things you can do and I believe it. I think the stress of moving is why I got sick in the first place and have had such a hard time recovering.
AChildOfBoredom
03-28-2019, 03:15 PM
What is it with guys who, when they know you're single, assume you're starved for attention and get this idea in their heads that showering you with it, even - or perhaps especially - when it's unwanted will make you magically just "come around" to them? Of all the fucking Nice Guy™ routines, I swear I think this one of the most annoying of all of them.
And it's not like I've been left to keep the wolves at bay... the shop guys see it and know what's going on, and they've told him, "Look, there's a reason we call her 'Stonewall'. You don't have a snowball's chance in hell", but he just doesn't get the message. I really go well out of my way to not go into Bitch Mode with my coworkers (although technically he isn't one, as the company he works for is separated from the one I do), but he's really trying my fucking patience here.
queenelayliah
03-29-2019, 12:44 AM
My phone keeps blowing up with spam callers and whats worst., they keep switching their numbers so a new number calls me all the time.! I swear if i didnt have this phone number for the last 13 years i would totally get a new one.
seashell
03-29-2019, 02:49 AM
Blocked one of my long time regs today. It feels really good, but really bad at the same time. I worry about him trying to get back at me somehow, since he knows my real name. Ugh.
Edited for a new annoyance... I decided to take a taxi off the street earlier (bad idea), and almost got charged a very overpriced fare by this big creepy smelly fat dude who kept turning all the way around from the front seat to stare at me in the back seat. I waited until he slowed down, told him his rate was overpriced, opened the door, and hopped out. I was about 50% of the way home. People kept staring at me, and I'm not sure if it's because I was dressed nicely, or if my resting bitch face was worse than usual, lol
chanzep
03-29-2019, 03:42 PM
I'm starting to hate my job again. Ugh the vanilla world is stressful.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-29-2019, 07:40 PM
What is it with guys who, when they know you're single, assume you're starved for attention and get this idea in their heads that showering you with it, even - or perhaps especially - when it's unwanted will make you magically just "come around" to them? Of all the fucking Nice Guy™ routines, I swear I think this one of the most annoying of all of them.
And it's not like I've been left to keep the wolves at bay... the shop guys see it and know what's going on, and they've told him, "Look, there's a reason we call her 'Stonewall'. You don't have a snowball's chance in hell", but he just doesn't get the message. I really go well out of my way to not go into Bitch Mode with my coworkers (although technically he isn't one, as the company he works for is separated from the one I do), but he's really trying my fucking patience here.
Hahahah people used to call me "Stonewall." Now they call me Boss.
My petty annoyance for today- dog is too energetic. I am not. No walkie for him for a little while.
AChildOfBoredom
03-30-2019, 12:12 AM
I don't know what to do with my friend who has the husband in hospice. I invited her here and she said she'd come, but I don't really know if there's anything for her here. She can live in the bunk house, but my employer's only job openings require skill sets she doesn't possess, and there aren't any entry level positions which aren't filled right now. Sure, she could work as a stable hand, but that's not going to take care of her and two children. She's never had a job other than the time when she worked in a bicycle repair shop. I had to level with her today and tell her I can't promise her anything except that we'd do our best for her. I'm beginning to feel like we're making a huge mistake here.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-30-2019, 07:21 AM
I don't know what to do with my friend who has the husband in hospice. I invited her here and she said she'd come, but I don't really know if there's anything for her here. She can live in the bunk house, but my employer's only job openings require skill sets she doesn't possess, and there aren't any entry level positions which aren't filled right now. Sure, she could work as a stable hand, but that's not going to take care of her and two children. She's never had a job other than the time when she worked in a bicycle repair shop. I had to level with her today and tell her I can't promise her anything except that we'd do our best for her. I'm beginning to feel like we're making a huge mistake here.
Just respect her judgement.
WendiStarr
03-30-2019, 08:35 AM
I hate my ex, especially when he's on his power trip bullshit. He was supposed to bring my daughter back at 11am. He's pulling some stupid crap about how he's running late because of the rain. It's been lightly sprinkling off and on all morning. I can't stand when he does this crap because it means I have to sit at home waiting.
whirlerz
03-30-2019, 02:57 PM
I don't know what to do with my friend who has the husband in hospice. I invited her here and she said she'd come, but I don't really know if there's anything for her here. She can live in the bunk house, but my employer's only job openings require skill sets she doesn't possess, and there aren't any entry level positions which aren't filled right now. Sure, she could work as a stable hand, but that's not going to take care of her and two children. She's never had a job other than the time when she worked in a bicycle repair shop. I had to level with her today and tell her I can't promise her anything except that we'd do our best for her. I'm beginning to feel like we're making a huge mistake here.
Can I come down there? :)
AChildOfBoredom
03-30-2019, 10:18 PM
Just respect her judgement.
My problem isn't respecting her judgment, it's that I feel like I was giving false hope. Her options really aren't fantastic, though. It's not like she has another option which has the potential to turn out better. I'm just worried. Her oldest is seven, and she barely speaks any English, and I'm under the impression that her youngest doesn't speak any at all. Which is how my parents did me, though I suppose it was fortunate they realized their folly before my sister was born.
Can I come down there? :)
Well, I certainly think it would be a better alternative than your current roommate situation, although I worry that you might be too normal compared to the rest of us... we're quite the collection of misfits here. On the bright side, if you're into styling your hair, we have someone here who's quite good at it, and does it for funsies. You'll notice everyone here has some sort of braid in their hair, and you can guess why. Her masterwork thus far.. she gave the Amish girl a rope braided bun, and it looks amazing. So, there are perks to living here.
whirlerz
03-30-2019, 11:04 PM
Well, I certainly think it would be a better alternative than your current roommate situation, although I worry that you might be too normal compared to the rest of us... we're quite the collection of misfits here. On the bright side, if you're into styling your hair, we have someone here who's quite good at it, and does it for funsies. You'll notice everyone here has some sort of braid in their hair, and you can guess why. Her masterwork thus far.. she gave the Amish girl a rope braided bun, and it looks amazing. So, there are perks to living here.
Nah, I'm really not that normal!
Sounds fun, I love farms!
Now:
Yipes, so the goon upstair's been gone..but he's baack.
W/girlfriend & her 1 yr old, I guess the 5 yr old is somewhere else?
And, they're having..fun. Loudly.
I'm not really tired, but disgusted.
I do have the white noise machine cranked up, rain sounds atm.
His mom was over this morn, & I think she tried to wave, but I bolted out.
AChildOfBoredom
03-30-2019, 11:14 PM
Nah, I'm really not that normal!
Sounds fun, I love farms!
Well, we live in a house in the city limits. The bunkhouse my friend and her children will end up staying in is where my vanilla job is. Something of a cross between a farm and a ranch... the guy's family were ranchers in Texas, so he tried to duplicate it here in North Carolina.
whirlerz
03-30-2019, 11:23 PM
Sounds great..
Better than the house from Hell, like here..
I've actually spent a couple nights (2 separate times) in a tiny, 60's Airstream trailer. Parked in a driveway.
Ugh, very hard minimal mattress, pretty minimal water as well. An airbnb 'special'::)
The people were very nice tho
AChildOfBoredom
03-30-2019, 11:45 PM
Yeah, I've thought about either doing AirBnB or just straight up renting a new space. I have two people who rent from me now... the Irish woman and another woman who rents basically a closet so she'll have a place to receive mail because she's always traveling. It's just enough space for a bed and a dresser, and she'll use the shared bathroom. Which is how she wants it. So, I've thought about converting the space above the garage into a living space or maybe putting one of those 'tiny houses' in the backyard and getting it connected properly to the water, sewage, and electricity. But I'm also wary of an influx of random strangers just coming and going, and I also have to consider how that can affect others in this house. Especially my older 'refugee', who has a history of being horribly abused, and has a lot of timidity in the presence of strangers because of it.
whirlerz
03-31-2019, 12:19 AM
Well, Mr Goofball is now cooking a pizza, I smelled something burning, but it's the leftover scraps from other stuff in the oven. (Nice)
I opened the kitchen window (no screen).
I'll have to keep watch, so that it doesnt' totally burn to a crisp.
Maint. guy had told me there was a fire, a couple yrs ago due to a drunk cooking.
Btw I keep a 4lb box of baking soda (we also have a fire extinguisher), but it's half gone, due to drug cooking.
& now my room smells like burnt pizza.
A* shut the window, which I opened.
+ used the Ozium.
WendiStarr
03-31-2019, 05:42 AM
I was enjoying the "warmer" 50 degree weather and no snow and ice. Why in the blue ass hell did it have to get freezing out again and frickin' snow? I'm so over snow, ice, and cold weather.
Also, cramps that start up 5 days or so before you're even due to start can fuck the hell off right now!
whirlerz
03-31-2019, 12:33 PM
Wow, that is hot..
Honestly, I'd almost rather the cold.
AChildOfBoredom
03-31-2019, 01:31 PM
I’ve got that stupid “Surfin’ Bird” stuck in my head and it won’t go away.
Elektra Luxx
03-31-2019, 02:45 PM
I have one wild hair in almost the exact same place on both of upper arms. Wonder that means I'm going to get hairy arms? I wonder if bf sees them and he thinks "Wow!, she's hairy!"
whirlerz
04-01-2019, 01:28 AM
Well the roomie strikes again..
Woke me up @2am, made a whole bunch of noise, brought some random guy in who.left soon after..
They were getting LOUD in the kitchen too, I asked them to be quiet, he goes, "O, sorry" which obviously he doesn't GAF. High AF, walking around with 1 shoe on.
Tomorrow I'll call the landlord, & he won't do shit either so..
Update~ called landlord, no v.mail, no answer. Nice>:(
seashell
04-01-2019, 01:39 AM
I have to move in 10 days, and I wish I could fast forward to the point at which the hard part is done, everything worked out, and I'm happily in my new place. Right now there's so much to worry about, and I can feel the anxiety creeping up.
Glamourmilf
04-01-2019, 09:36 AM
I'm really pissy that my gay husbands are so self centered.
They only talk about their needs and problems, and never check in with me to see how I'm doing.
One of my husbands is in Italy. We did a video call, so he could show me all around. I really don't give a shit about Italy, but whatever.
I asked him if he could take a look at my yard, and suggest ways to improve it the next time we spoke.
We set up a time, and he messaged me that he couldn't because he had to work on his blog. Blew me off for that?
His blog? Seriously? He's wealthy and retired.
I messaged him that I was feeling down, because it was my deceased dad's birthday.
Nothing. No response. We MET at a grief group!
My other gay husband who lives here, knew about my shingles.
He never checked in on me.
I got a text last week, alerting me that he was going to see the doctor, and would tell me how it went.
Bitch, I don't care now!!
His birthday was Friday, and I just wasn't feeling it.
I'm not a hypocrite, so all I did was sent him a birthday text.
I'm soooo over everyone.
EastCoastDancer01
04-01-2019, 09:58 AM
Last night at work I’m dancing on stage and the grumpy, miserable cook who was also bartending took forever to give these loser guys their change. So when I went up to them for tips they weren’t able to tip me...I tell the cook again to give the guys their change so I can get my stage tip! He finally does but I’m off the stage at that point. So I go up to the guy off stage and I’m like ‘’hey hun, would like to tip me now?’’ after I see he got a bunch of singles. And he goes ‘’uh, can you wait a second?’’ and then proceeds to count his money...what a fcking douchebag! I stand by for another second and nothing, so I just storm away. There’s nothing more I hate than cheap asses and time wasters!!
WendiStarr
04-01-2019, 01:56 PM
I have this terrible headache but I had to go get some groceries. While there I was suddenly hit by a wave of nausea. Luckily there was a cashier with no one in line so I went to her and paid for my stuff so I could get the heck home. Once out in the parking lot I stood out there dry heaving, certain that I was going to get sick. I was able to get it together long enough to get home and started dry heaving again. It's a dreaded hormone headache, I'm afraid. I almost wish that I would just puke so that maybe the feeling would go away. Frickin' annoying.
carmen_b
04-01-2019, 02:58 PM
I have to make time this week to go to the DMV to take my ex-partner off the title to our shared ( soon to be mine ) SUV.
I just can't BELIEVE I need to waste another 90 minutes on him, omg!
Sheesh. After what he did he should have given me this car too but out of exhaustion I somehow agreed to buy it for 2k ( I do genuinely need it for out of town jobs and it's well worth double that ). I gave him $200. I'm going to have to borrow some from my parents. I just never fully adjusted to paying full rent without sharing a place with someone in the last 6 months. I'm making it ..... but it's tight every week which is so embarrassing. I just hate any interaction . I guess some ex's will just never be able to get along and that seems to be us. I just can't forgive him for leaving / lying to me in the process.
carmen_b
04-01-2019, 08:51 PM
Why are bodies so high maintence ?
At least my nails look great. Thanks expensive Shellac lady.
I'm behind on everything else though it seems :
Work outs
tanning
facial
hair needs trim and color probably ( my red faded out , after having it the blonde looks boring )
Aurora_Sunset
04-01-2019, 09:53 PM
Ex sent me something on facebook tonight... I don't want to open it right now and potentially start a conversation. All I can see without opening it is that he sent a video and then a laughing face. No idea what the video is, or why he would suddenly reach out in this way now, after not speaking at all since August/October. I know there's a way to mark messages as still "Unread" when you're on desktop facebook, but for some reason I'm having trouble remembering where it is tonight, so I'm not even gonna touch it yet. So fucking random... Why? I don't wanna talk to him all friendly-like all of a sudden. He's spent the last few months still having me blocked from seeing anything on his facebook and ignoring me getting engaged. But suddenly want to share a funny video like we're friends still? o.O The fuck?
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-02-2019, 07:11 AM
Ex sent me something on facebook tonight... I don't want to open it right now and potentially start a conversation. All I can see without opening it is that he sent a video and then a laughing face. No idea what the video is, or why he would suddenly reach out in this way now, after not speaking at all since August/October. I know there's a way to mark messages as still "Unread" when you're on desktop facebook, but for some reason I'm having trouble remembering where it is tonight, so I'm not even gonna touch it yet. So fucking random... Why? I don't wanna talk to him all friendly-like all of a sudden. He's spent the last few months still having me blocked from seeing anything on his facebook and ignoring me getting engaged. But suddenly want to share a funny video like we're friends still? o.O The fuck?
Could it be he sent it by mistake?
Nyla19
04-02-2019, 09:23 AM
Last night at work I’m dancing on stage and the grumpy, miserable cook who was also bartending took forever to give these loser guys their change. So when I went up to them for tips they weren’t able to tip me...I tell the cook again to give the guys their change so I can get my stage tip! He finally does but I’m off the stage at that point. So I go up to the guy off stage and I’m like ‘’hey hun, would like to tip me now?’’ after I see he got a bunch of singles. And he goes ‘’uh, can you wait a second?’’ and then proceeds to count his money...what a fcking douchebag! I stand by for another second and nothing, so I just storm away. There’s nothing more I hate than cheap asses and time wasters!!
I took someone's phone on Sunday and I held it for hostage for $3.00!!!! Woooohooo....
Nyla19
04-02-2019, 09:24 AM
I took someone's phone on Sunday and I held it for hostage for $3.00!!!! Woooohooo....
And he was so nasty... Ugh!!!! I'd rather have just backhanded him.
WendiStarr
04-02-2019, 09:53 AM
I have to go to the bank but it's cold out and I'm nauseous, crampy, bitchy feeling, and don't feel like doing anything.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-02-2019, 09:56 AM
I have to go to the bank but it's cold out and I'm nauseous, crampy, bitchy feeling, and don't feel like doing anything.
Awwww, feel better.
Petty annoyance- dog won't sit still to be groomed so he has the equivalent of a kid's shitty home haircut. Damn disobedient little jerk.....
yaya_cash
04-02-2019, 04:45 PM
Awwww, feel better.
Petty annoyance- dog won't sit still to be groomed so he has the equivalent of a kid's shitty home haircut. Damn disobedient little jerk.....
Hahaaaa You're funny.