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chanzep
04-02-2019, 04:51 PM
My moods are so bad before my period since stopping bc. My periods are all over the place too. I feel crazy

EastCoastDancer01
04-02-2019, 06:54 PM
I took someone's phone on Sunday and I held it for hostage for $3.00!!!! Woooohooo....

Lol next time someone tries me at the club, I’m gonna do that to them! ��

Jalena
04-02-2019, 07:06 PM
Lol next time someone tries me at the club, I’m gonna do that to them! ��


I find that absolutely hilarious and agree with it in principle, especially if the customer was already being obnoxious ... but I wouldn't recommend it. That could backfire in an ugly way if the customer decides to be shitty about it and accuse you of trying to steal from him.

Nyla19
04-02-2019, 08:09 PM
I find that absolutely hilarious and agree with it in principle, especially if the customer was already being obnoxious ... but I wouldn't recommend it. That could backfire in an ugly way if the customer decides to be shitty about it and accuse you of trying to steal from him.

True! It could, I just know at this certain club I was at on Sunday the dancers run the club and the management backs us. But many clubs I would never do that because I would probably get fired, fined or yelled at. And I think Eastcoastdancer01 is at a place that backs its dancers. But, again, it could totally backfire.

Jalena
04-02-2019, 10:22 PM
True! It could, I just know at this certain club I was at on Sunday the dancers run the club and the management backs us. But many clubs I would never do that because I would probably get fired, fined or yelled at. And I think Eastcoastdancer01 is at a place that backs its dancers. But, again, it could totally backfire.


God bless the clubs that back their dancers! :)


I do have an annoyance, but I am hesitant to share it because I don't want to violate the politics ban. So I will leave it at 'religious people using legislation to force their beliefs on others'.

WendiStarr
04-03-2019, 11:11 AM
LolaNextDoor. I worked for them for 1 day and quit. I don't get why the keep flooding my email with spam from their [email protected] email address, despite having blocked that email address. How are they still getting through? My bf is pissing me off today too. I think men in general disgust me today.

carmen_b
04-03-2019, 11:14 AM
The weather in my city has been annoying ( cold and a little rainy ) the last few days.

whirlerz
04-03-2019, 11:33 AM
It's..Open Troll Season!

Elle:)
04-03-2019, 08:39 PM
My big dog sounded really congested this morning. She may have caught smth while she was boarded.

yaya_cash
04-04-2019, 02:21 AM
Why am I getting approached by these less than desirable guys when I'm dressed nice and am pretty? I don't get it or them--

I already have issues with being more approachable to men because it's like they feel like they're entitled to stare at me without spending on me and choose the next woman to spend with. So annoying. Why I don't like doing stage lately and getting dress nicely and going out.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-04-2019, 07:22 AM
Why am I getting approached by these less than desirable guys when I'm dressed nice and am pretty? I don't get it or them--

I already have issues with being more approachable to men because it's like they feel like they're entitled to stare at me without spending on me and choose the next woman to spend with. So annoying. Why I don't like doing stage lately and getting dress nicely and going out.

They wanna pick your pocket lol.

Petty annoyance today- have to organize garage...don't wanna. Ughhhhhhhh

yaya_cash
04-04-2019, 11:10 AM
They wanna pick your pocket lol.

Petty annoyance today- have to organize garage...don't wanna. Ughhhhhhhh

Oh, I'm talking about these guys I wouldn't be interested in dating, being: unambitous students, working class poor guys, creep-y ones. And some of the other men are just staring at me and don't approach me. And I'm single looking to date men of course whom are desirable. So I'm like WTF (Why am I taking the time to do my hair, make up, dress nicely and investing in expensive beauty-products and apparel if I'm going to get approached by these guys and ignored or just stared at by the others?).

miss.a.p1600
04-04-2019, 12:56 PM
It’s a rainy day and making me want to just sleep.

Would be nice love making weather

But too bad I’m in the midst of singleness right now.

Elektra Luxx
04-04-2019, 02:54 PM
I found a tick crawling on my arm this morning. I treated Ripley (my cat) several weeks ago with PetArmor Plus. You put it on your cats skin and it's supposed to last for a month, but I'm not sure it ever worked. She's never stopped sratching. Help!

Elle:)
04-04-2019, 08:20 PM
I feel like I've gone through 20 moods today.

yaya_cash
04-05-2019, 03:01 AM
Just when I think I am enjoying men they disappoint me.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-05-2019, 06:45 AM
Just when I think I am enjoying men they disappoint me.

Hetero men are endless wells of disappointments. Wait till they hit Prostate Problems age....

miss.a.p1600
04-05-2019, 06:51 AM
Just when I think I am enjoying men they disappoint me.

I know the feeling unfortunately

miss.a.p1600
04-05-2019, 07:51 AM
I’m tired!!!! Just want to sleep all day.

My sleep cycle is off. I wish I could just sleep till 10:30 then work from like 8 to midnight

Aurora_Sunset
04-05-2019, 09:04 AM
I'm annoyed by my fiance's mopey attitude today after getting his paycheck. First of all, he has twice as much health insurance plus several hundred dollars in child support taken out of his check every month, and he still ends up with what I make with way less up-front expenses and usually more overtime. Like, oh you get paid enough to "only" have as much leftover as I do after working my ass off? Poor thing....

Then he complains about how he'll never get ahead because of continuous lawyer fees. The thing is... he pays a total of $500 a month to his attorney. That's not insignificant, but also keep in mind that he contributes to no set household bills. He helps with groceries, pays his own bills like his car payment and insurance, and pays for his kids' activities and food when they're here. But he doesn't help with rent, utilities, pet expenses... I've even covered his phone bill for the past 3 months because every time it comes up by the end of the month, he's negative in his account.

That's honestly fine, because I told him to just focus on himself and getting himself back to some sort of financial footing after moving in, because I obviously lived here alone before him, so I can handle this place and its expenses - for now. But we're supposed to be moving into a bigger and more expensive place in a few months that he swears he's gonna start paying half of. Yet, every month I hear the soliloquy about how "if only I hadn't had to give my attorney that $500, I'd be totally fine," and I just stare at him, wondering what he thinks his share of rent and bills in the new apartment is going to be, even if he doesn't have attorney fees at that point - because it's gonna be $500 or more.... And if he can't handle giving that to his attorney every month, I'm curious how he thinks he'll have it to give to rent and bills??? We need to sit down and have a chat about that.

Aurora_Sunset
04-05-2019, 09:11 AM
Could it be he sent it by mistake?

I considered that, but I honestly doubt it. We haven't had a facebook conversation in over a year, so it's not as though my name should be anywhere near the top of his chat box. I also feel like he's the kind of person to say something if he did that - like, "oops, sorry, that was supposed to go to my friend so-and-so with the same first name."

I don't put it past him to do some random shit like this... He did similar crap 6-7 months after we broke up, where he would just text me something random and start a "casual" conversation about a TV show or something. I think he gets tipsy from time and time, and tries to reach out in a "benign" way just to get some validation and feel as though I don't hate him, because then he can pretend like all the psycho shit he did after we broke up is water under the bridge and he doesn't have to feel like a creepy stalker anymore.

It basically fits his MO of every fight we ever had: He acts batshit crazy, it damages me mentally, but once he decides he's done acting out, he decides it's all done and over with. He's not mad anymore, so everything should be back to normal. He sweeps his crazy shit under the rug, shrugs his shoulders and says "that's the past now," and then acts totally normal... then, if I'm not over whatever he did/said and hold a grudge, I'm the bitch who just "sees the worst in him" and "refuses to let the past go." And "why can't I just move on" when he's trying to so hard to be normal?

miss.a.p1600
04-05-2019, 09:19 AM
I assume at some point when things balance out, the attorney will not be needed monthly. And also he could get his child support adjusted lower to reflect his actual income it shouldn’t be more than 20%, negotiate interest and back pay if there is any.

A lot of it is mindset. Sometimes people think how can I cut back (which is a good way to think) but also important is how can I earn more in the most efficient way.

You seem like a kind generous partner to your significant other.

Aurora_Sunset
04-05-2019, 09:22 AM
I'm annoyed by my fiance's mopey attitude today after getting his paycheck. First of all, he has twice as much health insurance plus several hundred dollars in child support taken out of his check every month, and he still ends up with what I make with way less up-front expenses and usually more overtime. Like, oh you get paid enough to "only" have as much leftover as I do after working my ass off? Poor thing....

Then he complains about how he'll never get ahead because of continuous lawyer fees. The thing is... he pays a total of $500 a month to his attorney. That's not insignificant, but also keep in mind that he contributes to no set household bills. He helps with groceries, pays his own bills like his car payment and insurance, and pays for his kids' activities and food when they're here. But he doesn't help with rent, utilities, pet expenses... I've even covered his phone bill for the past 3 months because every time it comes up by the end of the month, he's negative in his account.

That's honestly fine, because I told him to just focus on himself and getting himself back to some sort of financial footing after moving in, because I obviously lived here alone before him, so I can handle this place and its expenses - for now. But we're supposed to be moving into a bigger and more expensive place in a few months that he swears he's gonna start paying half of. Yet, every month I hear the soliloquy about how "if only I hadn't had to give my attorney that $500, I'd be totally fine," and I just stare at him, wondering what he thinks his share of rent and bills in the new apartment is going to be, even if he doesn't have attorney fees at that point - because it's gonna be $500 or more.... And if he can't handle giving that to his attorney every month, I'm curious how he thinks he'll have it to give to rent and bills??? We need to sit down and have a chat about that.

This also brings me to being pissed off at cunt ex-wife though, because she pulled some shit and claimed both kids on her tax return in January, when she knows damn well she's only allowed to claim one. She apparently thought she could just get away with it and screw him out of 2k, but that's not how that works. He can file with IRS through the mail, proving with his court document that he's entitled to claim his son, and she'll be hit with penalties. But he needs his kids' birth certificates to prove it, and she's stonewalling on giving him copies cuz she knows she fucked up. He has a good attorney who isn't gonna let this stand and WILL get copies of their birth certificates and social security cards, because he's entitled to those anyway, and will get his proper tax return as well as force her to pay back the money she wasn't supposed to get. But if she and her attorney continue to drag things out, it could be August before he sees his return...

He was supposed to get over 4k back, which would have put him right with his attorney, helped with moving expenses, and paid back everything he currently owes me. If she wasn't such a manipulative cunt, he would've already had that money back and we'd be ok right now. Still need to have a conversation about his monthly income/expenses after that return runs out, but at least everything about moving wouldn't be stressfully falling to me because he's missing the money he planned to use for the extra expense.

And now she's hounding him about $1500 he needs to pay to pay his part of their son's tutoring expenses. It's obnoxious, because 1) a 7 year old doesn't need a fucking $50/hr tutor for basic-ass math and reading, 2) we know it's her rich parents paying for "her" half, not her, and 3) I feel inclined to tell her that she'll get her money for that when he gets his tax return... Fuck her.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-06-2019, 06:30 AM
I considered that, but I honestly doubt it. We haven't had a facebook conversation in over a year, so it's not as though my name should be anywhere near the top of his chat box. I also feel like he's the kind of person to say something if he did that - like, "oops, sorry, that was supposed to go to my friend so-and-so with the same first name."

I don't put it past him to do some random shit like this... He did similar crap 6-7 months after we broke up, where he would just text me something random and start a "casual" conversation about a TV show or something. I think he gets tipsy from time and time, and tries to reach out in a "benign" way just to get some validation and feel as though I don't hate him, because then he can pretend like all the psycho shit he did after we broke up is water under the bridge and he doesn't have to feel like a creepy stalker anymore.

It basically fits his MO of every fight we ever had: He acts batshit crazy, it damages me mentally, but once he decides he's done acting out, he decides it's all done and over with. He's not mad anymore, so everything should be back to normal. He sweeps his crazy shit under the rug, shrugs his shoulders and says "that's the past now," and then acts totally normal... then, if I'm not over whatever he did/said and hold a grudge, I'm the bitch who just "sees the worst in him" and "refuses to let the past go." And "why can't I just move on" when he's trying to so hard to be normal?

Oh yeah that does happen. Guys with emotional problems reach out for validation. It's copping a "I still got it!" moment.

Can you block him on all platforms?

My annoyance- my boyfriend. Within the next 3 months I'm going to know whether we're going to stay together or not. He was never cut out to run a business for himself. My man is Peter Pan, ha ha.

whirlerz
04-06-2019, 09:20 AM
Hetero men are endless wells of disappointments.....

This quote is Pure Gold! :)

carmen_b
04-06-2019, 09:32 AM
Any chance of a transfer to mediation instead ( if he and they ex are both spending $500 a month in lawyers it may start looking more appealing ).
I'm annoyed by my fiance's mopey attitude today after getting his paycheck. First of all, he has twice as much health insurance plus several hundred dollars in child support taken out of his check every month, and he still ends up with what I make with way less up-front expenses and usually more overtime. Like, oh you get paid enough to "only" have as much leftover as I do after working my ass off? Poor thing....

Then he complains about how he'll never get ahead because of continuous lawyer fees. The thing is... he pays a total of $500 a month to his attorney. That's not insignificant, but also keep in mind that he contributes to no set household bills. He helps with groceries, pays his own bills like his car payment and insurance, and pays for his kids' activities and food when they're here. But he doesn't help with rent, utilities, pet expenses... I've even covered his phone bill for the past 3 months because every time it comes up by the end of the month, he's negative in his account.

That's honestly fine, because I told him to just focus on himself and getting himself back to some sort of financial footing after moving in, because I obviously lived here alone before him, so I can handle this place and its expenses - for now. But we're supposed to be moving into a bigger and more expensive place in a few months that he swears he's gonna start paying half of. Yet, every month I hear the soliloquy about how "if only I hadn't had to give my attorney that $500, I'd be totally fine," and I just stare at him, wondering what he thinks his share of rent and bills in the new apartment is going to be, even if he doesn't have attorney fees at that point - because it's gonna be $500 or more.... And if he can't handle giving that to his attorney every month, I'm curious how he thinks he'll have it to give to rent and bills??? We need to sit down and have a chat about that.

JGB2009
04-06-2019, 11:24 AM
I am annoyed cause me and my friend got into a small disagreement last night over the phone. Today I give him a message on FB but he hasn't read it. Totally not like him but I think the damn FB app is glitching saying he is online but I don't think he really is. Reason I say that is when I try to call him on the app it wont connect. Everyone else does so could I be right? By the end of today or tomorrow I am hoping I know what the deal is but until then I am annoyed.

WendiStarr
04-06-2019, 02:19 PM
I hate that I'm stuck in limbo. I've decided that I'm not going to test unless I get to day 50. If this month was another failure I'd rather just bleed already and get it over with.

whirlerz
04-06-2019, 09:25 PM
I hope you feel better very soon, Wendi!

Well, I'm @ air bnb, & this lady just informed me that I shouldn't shut my bedroom door & the bathroom door all the way, cause the opening/shutting of the doors when I get up to.pee bothers her, & "she's super light sleeper"!?::)
What.the.actual fuck
I can't fucking help it if I have to get up & piss many times, not my fault, sorry!!;D
Came here to get away from the b.s. @ my place, to.put up w/what, this crap?
+ I was sick earlier too. I told her I was having a hard time rn.
Cold af. in the house here, btw, wearing my jacket to bed
I should have left earlier today.

SuperJa
04-06-2019, 10:16 PM
Wtf ^^

I too am a light sleeper but since I'm also an adult I just wear earplugs... Some people just enjoy being difficult I think

whirlerz
04-07-2019, 07:25 AM
Thanks. If she dealt w/ 1/100th of the crap I deal e/on a daily basis, she'd melt down.

Going to leave soon.

miss.a.p1600
04-07-2019, 12:13 PM
I should be out tacking some goals or enjoying the day

Instead I am in bed reading stripper webs.

WendiStarr
04-07-2019, 12:44 PM
Well, it looks like another failure on Clomid. I'm spotting which more than likely means the monthly curse is on the way. :( 2 failures and I've already decided that I'm going to take a break from putting myself through this hell for a few months.

chanzep
04-07-2019, 01:17 PM
I hope you feel better.
Looking for vanilla work is depressing. I need to find something quick because I almost quit yesterday. My manager is a bitch.

Selina M
04-07-2019, 08:50 PM
DJ whines that no girls want to work Sunday. A club manager jumps in and they start insinuating girls are either lazy or stupid/leaving money on the floor.

I say hey, ever think maybe they have families they wanna spend time with? Or that they budgeted their work hours so they could take off whatever damn day they wanted? And that maybe the club should incentivize Sunday beyond just the usual gamble of making money if they're so desperate?

"Sounds like you're having a bad day."

Yep. Please continue to treat us like overemotional children.

Y'all stupid club owners want girls to do as you wish, then pay us an hourly and let us keep our tips, none of that California scam. Jackasses.

Jalena
04-08-2019, 09:59 AM
Don't accuse me of a non-existent logical fallacy when I call you on your circular logic, then throw an ad hominem against my cited sources because they told you things you don't want to hear.

carmen_b
04-08-2019, 12:05 PM
Lame. If they need girls so bad, have a " sign up " a few days ahead for free or $5 house fee on Sunday and the girls can trade off that perk. Cap it at 3-4 girls or something if it's a terribly slow day so it's not miserable for everyone. They really don't think to do this ? Haha. It's not that complicated.
And that maybe the club should incentivize Sunday beyond just the usual gamble of making money if they're so desperate?

"Sounds like you're having a bad day."

.

Selina M
04-08-2019, 01:01 PM
^ I'm sure it has but God forbid they do anything to drive business that doesn't immediately line their own pockets.
I resent how every time a club wants girls to come in, they shame us for not wanting to work. It's like they think if we don't live at the club we are dumb for leaving money... it's called work/life balance. I notice none of these managers or djs have spouses, they just don't get it.

WendiStarr
04-08-2019, 02:23 PM
Frickin' period started full force complete with awful cramps, nausea, and headache. I'm not looking forward to dealing with this tomorrow, where I'll be the only female in a sausage fest computer/office job. I do have my own little office though.

whirlerz
04-08-2019, 03:43 PM
Literally shaking rn.
Today some guy walked in the side entrance, ( I have my own entrance in the back)
I was in the kitchen, & scurried back to my room.
Then I hear a lound, banging knock on my door on the kitchen side..
I yelled "who is it" no one answered.
I walked in kitchen, some guy was leaving, I asked who he was, he said he was here for ____ (upstairs problem child)
I walked outside this guy had a really nice super fancy car?
I just saw problem w/ the other upstairs guy who was coming in w/him?
Just have weird vibe about all this.
I guess I'll have to find a hotel. :(

Update< He's LEAVING!!!:yes::yes::thumbsup:

chanzep
04-08-2019, 09:47 PM
Omg that is so scary. Stay safe.

carmen_b
04-08-2019, 09:55 PM
I'm so sick. I met my family in a location about 5 hours from here and was sick on arrival. Nothing horrible just a bad cold. I have been sick since Friday eve .
Fingers crossed for improvement tomorrow.

Glamourmilf
04-09-2019, 06:41 AM
Who calls someone at 9 a.m. on a Monday morning to chat?
Or any morning, for that matter?
Almost everyone I know, that's who.
As if I'm up, sitting by the phone, doing nothing.
OMG, it's beyond annoying!
Nobody works, but me it seems.
They all know I work, so what's the deal?
Oh, you just don't care.
Got it.
I must talk to, oh, I don't know, 500 or MORE men during my cam shift. I'm burnt out on small talk!!!
This is why my phone is off all the time.
Mini rant over.
Thanks for listening.
51190

WendiStarr
04-09-2019, 10:05 AM
I'm hating the phone at work today. So many robocallers and non talkers. Also, the owner is on vacation but he has called like 7 times already to talk to one of the guys. They all have their own phones. It's just noone likes to answer them, especially now that I'm here. I find the pornbot crap annoying too. No, we don't want to click on a link to see sexy ladies available for sex!

Elektra Luxx
04-09-2019, 01:54 PM
So yesterday me and bf we're in bed and naked. We're kissing, grabbing, rubbing and I get him ready to go and I'm ready to...get...it...on! He's on his back and I'm about to go in for the kill and his phone rings...and he answers it. It's his mom. Sigh! That killed it. And NOOoo, I don't know why he answered it and didn't ask.

Aurora_Sunset
04-09-2019, 01:59 PM
I’ve been trying to job search but I just got depressed and unmotivated the last couple days. I make more here than I ever have at any other vanilla job, which isn’t saying much, but I’m not qualified to do anything else without more school which I have no money or time (or desire) for. The way I see it at this point is, I’ve hated every vanilla job I’ve ever had. I’ve never been paid well. Management sucks everywhere so I can’t imagine even a different company in the same industry would be any better. Even if I went somewhere else, I would be just as unhappy, work just as much, and make just as little money. So what’s the point?

Elektra Luxx
04-09-2019, 02:10 PM
^^^
Are you considering going back to SW, would bf be okay with that?

carmen_b
04-09-2019, 03:09 PM
Another complaint about the Aussie ( haha ). I should do a disclaimer because I really do enjoy the hell out of him when we are together.
I've been gone for 4 days, he knows I'm sick, and has asked about 3 times about going to the Basketball game today ( normally I'd be down for that ! ).

Does no one bring chicken soup to sick people anymore ?

EDIT : No soup...... but he more than made up for it in " other ways " . Haha.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-09-2019, 03:44 PM
Boyfriend has stomach flu and it's a slightly annoying situation. He's happy being waited on hand and foot ….but what's annoying me is he has never memorized the basic rules of getting through a bout with flu. (Kind of a normal social thing in Snow Belt states.)

Elle:)
04-09-2019, 04:30 PM
I have a runny nose and can't stop sneezing.