View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
JenniferNorth
06-14-2019, 12:09 PM
Pissed the F off.
Friend of mine and I always message each other. Told friend M that I would be busy and stuff the next few days, don't be shocked if I'm not on to message much etc. Message every morning saying "hi how are you blah blah this is my day blah blah, lots of work, feeling tired (but not going into tons of detail or anything horrible) okay, I hope all is well and you have a good day, feel free to message me". That sounds fine right?
Got message today friend has NOT been feeling good. Okay. And they don't want to "wake up to 10 million messages about venting! And their fucking world is about to combust! And they cannot keep work/relationship/anything going right" and blah blah blah. And vaguebook posts directed at me for being all negative.
Okay???? Bitch, I asked how you are doing and stuff. What???? I don't understand. If those messages someone make you jump to the point where you have bigger problems relating to your relationship and work and stuff (I have NO control over their work, just wished them to have a good work day and stuff), then IDK. It's NOT fucking ME.
I am so beyond offended right fucking now. I legit just informed them I'd be super busy and I minded my own business trying to tend to work for a few days. This person knows I'm not feeling good right now, I've been depressed since my fucking miscarriage and in general like YOU KNOW WHAT. I have done a LOT for you in terms of trying to be a good friend and shit. I mean, I don't appreciate lashing out because your work sucks, your other aspects of life suck or something, you are spiraling out of control, and somehow me mentioning in a message that I'm tired or whatever is being negative???! I cannot even. I cannot.
I'm mad now. Messaged back like um okay sorry??? Like confused. And M saw and never responded, so I know it's directed at me and they think I should be sorry. The nerve to fucking tell me our friendship is one-sided when I've gotten on the phone with you when you are having multiple relationship issues. Um NO. I took time out of my day to talk to you cause you needed it and shit. Whatever.
Sometimes I think I am better off with no fucking friends because I don't have time for you to get mad at me over some imagined fucking slight. Legit, when my issues involve working through depression and all these other fucking things in life...I don't know. I don't have time for you to come at me because "too many messages" and "negative" when it's always been like this and shit. Go fix your fucking life, if one tiny little movement I make bothers you that much. Because it's not me. It's fucking not.
(If anyone has any words of wisdom, feel free, otherwise just venting. I know venting is safe here at least....LOL)
miss.a.p1600
06-14-2019, 01:38 PM
The young dude keeps asking me for pictures
I am annoyed
Is it unreasonable to not want to constantly send pictures? Like regular pictures.
I just don’t feel like doing the shit.
Even though they are regular non nude non sext pictures I still feel like he should be paying for the beauty his eyes will capture. Not to mention pictures last forever and he may send/show to his little friends.
I don’t even let my social media friends see this magnificent beauty. Why should I put the effort to be brag material for you for zero payoff?
seashell
06-14-2019, 02:30 PM
I want fake nails, but I hate taking the time to get them done.
seashell
06-14-2019, 11:00 PM
Also, I thought it would be nice to join some childfree groups on Facebook, because I'm 30 with no kids. YIKES. Some of these groups are like a cult founded on dead baby jokes.
Is there a middle ground community somewhere for women who are just kinda "meh" about having kids? It's looking a little lonely out there.
whirlerz
06-15-2019, 06:04 AM
That's utterly disgusting..^
JenniferNorth
06-15-2019, 06:45 AM
Agree. Why must everything be so extreme these days?? (The groups, I think Seashell is perfectly normal if she doesn't want kids).
Sooooo after following up with my husband about this issue with friend from yesterday, I have blocked the messenger program from my computer. I'm basically awaiting a message faulting ME for her mood or something of that nature. And regardless, THIS bullshit has made me realize I shouldn't have to put up with it. I shouldn't. I read SW threads, watched my favorite TV series on Prime to relax, and resolved to set new work goals, work on my other projects I have had on the back burner for FOREVER, and spend more time with my husband/child/pets/mom and brother. I should just focus on money and family, and forget about someone who wants to make up problems over nothing but her own inabilities to manage her shit so she turns it into someone else's fault. It's just time to move on. Now I remember why I don't really like to have friends. Be there for my shit, fuck you if you cause one inconvenience.
miss.a.p1600
06-15-2019, 08:55 AM
I’ve had a couple of rude prospects lately. I just interrupt them and tell them “this obviously is not a good time for you, have a great day” then hang up in their faces
Just like walking off from the annoying club customers mid sentence
It’s really sad some people are so miserable in their lives that their only coping skills is to harass strangers.
whirlerz
06-15-2019, 10:32 AM
Right?^
I reeeeally want these soft ginger cookies, but that store is a cluster fuck rn. Not to mention the lines
Whole food piss me of, I filled out their (way overly extensive) survey to let them know.
Fuck these places.
JenniferNorth
06-15-2019, 11:33 AM
OMG, now I see what Miss P and Whirlez mean about blues invading other threads. UGH.
miss.a.p1600
06-15-2019, 11:49 AM
Yes girl!
Attention seeking trolling at its finest
Welcome to ‘forum adventures featuring Troll Bundy’
JenniferNorth
06-15-2019, 11:54 AM
YES! This was a non-lounge topic, and I think some of those topics should be helpful comments only.
LOL @ Troll Bundy.
whirlerz
06-15-2019, 12:06 PM
Haha, I posted a couple cute things, I'm sure they won't think so tho!
Edit:
He's (they're) a fly buzzing around, after a while U get used to
carmen_b
06-15-2019, 03:22 PM
I am EXHAUSTED .
I made a mistake at my day job / need to spend energy fixing it now . Need to pack for a trip.
Vanilla life is hard. Where is my new dance outfit and whiskey and coke ? Lol. Wait, that's next week. Ugh.
WendiStarr
06-15-2019, 05:37 PM
I was planning on going up north with my daughter to my grandma's cottage for 4th of July as I have for the past 4 years now. My brother told me today that he and my niece are going too. That was fine with me until he mentioned that my sister-in-law will be coming. I cannot stand that woman! Two years ago she had come up with my brother when my daughter and I were there and was annoying as hell. All she did was sit around in the cabin drinking beer and complain about how bored she was. She refused to go boating, didn't want to go down to the beach and swim, didn't want to go walking in the nearby woods, didn't want to go sightseeing, and freaked out about how she hates animals whenever a bird, squirrel, or deer showed up(keep in mind, the cabin is located in the woods and my grandma has lots of bird feeders because birdwatching is one of her hobbies, along with gardening and flowers, which attracts deer). All she was interested in was checking out the bars. I ended up leaving two days early that time because I was tired of hearing my annoying sister-in-law's bitching. That and she got sloppy drunk and was stumbling around the cabin, puking everywhere but the toilet and laughing about it while my poor grandma and brother were cleaning up after her. I hate that my 4th of July tradition will be broken and I feel bad for my grandma that she will have to deal with that crap again. I know she won't be thrilled about my sister-in-law being there since she's not a fan of my brother's wife either.
miss.a.p1600
06-16-2019, 09:30 AM
I still feel tipsy
whirlerz
06-16-2019, 10:37 AM
My neighbors just now fired up their giant-ass garbage can grill..
Not only that but they are using it way too close to my door, now my room stinks of starter fluid.>:(
I just turned in my ac & crappy air purifier.
I like to have my door open but no.
IDK where my Ozium spray is either, to get rid of the smell, now I have a headache!
Note It's better now, but I can hear her screaming @ him, yipes.
Which has the super LOUD as tb heard over the ac
miss.a.p1600
06-16-2019, 02:35 PM
Omg dude baby crying in background.
Then he’s like oh i just fed the baby so it just wants attention. In my mind I’m like you either need to burp the kid, change it’s diaper, put it to sleep,
Like dude get off the phone and take care of yo damn baby.
baer45
06-16-2019, 02:40 PM
I had food poisoning on Last Friday. I spent most of the night on the toilet. All my muscles were hurting and I only had two hours of sleep. Stayed in bed all day Saturday and eventually got help Sunday morning. Took some pills, muscle pain went away.
Just had my first bowl of soup and a slice of bread within 30 hours besides water. I am gaining my strength back, I can feel it. That's always a good sign.
miss.a.p1600
06-16-2019, 04:21 PM
I had food poisoning once for inadvertently eating meat that was “on sale” aka expired.
Felt like shit for a good 24 hours or so
Hope you feel better
miss.a.p1600
06-16-2019, 04:26 PM
Young dude was overly persistent about wanting to hang out today.
I just realistically could not because a plethora of reasons. House messy as hell, other plans, not in the mood to be up under a dude rn
And Mainly cause he wanted to come to my house. To “watch movies”
Like dude, first of all we both know what you trying to do. So why would I put myself in that position?
JenniferNorth
06-16-2019, 05:08 PM
LOL OMG to "watch movies" how dumb does he think you are??! We all know what that's code for, you don't even have to be experienced to know what's gonna happen!
carmen_b
06-16-2019, 07:19 PM
Damn . So lonely.
EVERY time I come to this location I miss Mr. Tall like crazy. Damn it. I swear I will NEVER find another dude as hot as him.
I should ask him for permission to post a pic here temporarily. Lol.
I should have had sex with him when I had the chance .
miss.a.p1600
06-16-2019, 08:10 PM
Girl if you need some sex we can trade places.
I’m trying really hard to resist temptations of the flesh over here lol!
And that would be hot - we should have a thread to post pics of dudes who are attracted to us. So ladies can see what we working with. A brag thread of sorts. Maybe we can post their face blurred out and delete it after 24hrs. Idk.
carmen_b
06-16-2019, 08:45 PM
I'm not after just sex. ;)
I do want a real connection ( leading towards relationship ). I can get casual sex really easily. I can't even consider it honestly without considering charging. I don't know how women do it. So basically I just suffer when I'm super horny. I always get emotionally attached when I bring sexuality in.
miss.a.p1600
06-16-2019, 09:00 PM
Ohhhh! Gotcha
I started my period today ..... thank heavens it didn’t start yesterday when I was on my date. That would have been embarrassing if I bled all over myself on first date
Aurora_Sunset
06-17-2019, 11:45 AM
This move has been a nightmare so far. After spending 12 hours moving on Saturday, we discover we have no hot water at the new place. The issue is that the water heater keeps tripping. Every few hours we check the breaker box and find it off again. We can get about 2 minutes of hot water at time. Maintenance from the sister property came yesterday and basically told us they had no idea where our water heater was located and disappeared.... Maintenance here told me today they’d be back over in an hour... 3 hours ago. Oh yeah, and our AC constantly runs without getting below 76 degrees, and my fucking car got towed this morning because they weren’t going to give us parking passes until today. I had to go get it, and the towing company didn’t want to release it to me because my name isn’t on the registration... I was just lucky that my parents are in the process of turning the car over to me and I had the title at home. But it still requires another 40 minute round trip to go back for it. And now my car is fucking filthy from being pulled through the muddy tow lot.
This was supposed to be the last move for 2-3 years until we could get a house and it’s already looking horribly unpromising.
whirlerz
06-17-2019, 12:04 PM
Aw, :(!
Damn Aurora, what an F'n nightmare!^
Hope it gets better sorted out soon!
Hugs
baer45
06-17-2019, 01:00 PM
This move has been a nightmare so far. After spending 12 hours moving on Saturday, we discover we have no hot water at the new place. The issue is that the water heater keeps tripping. Every few hours we check the breaker box and find it off again. We can get about 2 minutes of hot water at time. Maintenance from the sister property came yesterday and basically told us they had no idea where our water heater was located and disappeared.... Maintenance here told me today they’d be back over in an hour... 3 hours ago. Oh yeah, and our AC constantly runs without getting below 76 degrees, and my fucking car got towed this morning because they weren’t going to give us parking passes until today. I had to go get it, and the towing company didn’t want to release it to me because my name isn’t on the registration... I was just lucky that my parents are in the process of turning the car over to me and I had the title at home. But it still requires another 40 minute round trip to go back for it. And now my car is fucking filthy from being pulled through the muddy tow lot.
This was supposed to be the last move for 2-3 years until we could get a house and it’s already looking horribly unpromising.
That's terrible. I know for sure about a few facts:
1) towing company has the worst kind of people you can find in the neighborhood.
2) utility company will screw you up with their super inconvenient schedule. your emergency means nothing to them.
3) breaker box. I wish I know how to figure that one out. I've never had. especially the plugs, they trip all the time, and I don't know where to reset it. Pushing that little button won't do anything. why? it feels like electricians keep it for repeating business.
Hang on there!
miss.a.p1600
06-17-2019, 01:10 PM
I think I’m going to have to hit pause on this young dude
whirlerz
06-17-2019, 02:04 PM
Some jackass decided to (or had to)stop, in front of my car, right before I made it all the way thru the intersection.
Mind you, red light camera.
I beeped as I was going thru, (had the yellow @ that point) so I damn well better not have a ticket!
Just a little bit of my car was sticking out.
miss.a.p1600
06-17-2019, 05:11 PM
The young dude is sending me pics of him half ass naked (well his shirt is off) while he is working out.
What an attention-seeker! I mean his body looks decent and all but I am not enticed by the appetites of the flesh like that.
I wish I could text back and say "Put yo damn clothes on!" or "Did you skip leg day?" just to fuck with him
miss.a.p1600
06-17-2019, 07:46 PM
He is calling me pet names. Is it too early for that?
miss.a.p1600
06-17-2019, 09:20 PM
I guess I am going to have to be really honest with myself. I don’t know how this would work long term and I don’t believe I could put in the effort for something I’m not going to get a return of investment.
He is a really really good kisser but I do feel like this situation would only lean more towards sexual and now if I could just get some head one time and call it a day I would proceed.
How am I going to end it? I have to do it in the next several days.
JGB2009
06-17-2019, 11:01 PM
Butt hurt cause I didn't tell u Happy Fathers day.....whatever you are not my priority!!! Go be a baby and pout in the corner somewhere!!!!
JenniferNorth
06-18-2019, 05:02 AM
Friend I have been bitching about messaged me last night. Know why? Her and her BF broke up. OH. So now my "energy" is okay and shit? IDK. I was nice and said I was sorry etc but I'm still taking a step back. I get her life is hectic and I do not wish that for her but girl, prioritize! Some 21 y/o dick isn't worth that when you got bigger things to worry about! This was the same dude that wanted to meet in his car and stuff so not shocked things ended this way.
Glamourmilf
06-18-2019, 08:05 AM
The young dude is sending me pics of him half ass naked (well his shirt is off) while he is working out.
What an attention-seeker! I mean his body looks decent and all but I am not enticed by the appetites of the flesh like that.
I wish I could text back and say "Put yo damn clothes on!" or "Did you skip leg day?" just to fuck with him
Or you could text back, " Why don't You pump up the muscle that REALLY counts?":rotfl:
It's a line I always used when the bodybuilders at Gold's gym used to get too ' full' of themselves.
WendiStarr
06-18-2019, 08:32 AM
I really wish I could just not work today, sleep all day instead, and bring in the $$ anyways. I feel like such crap today. I'm hungry and nauseous at the same time. I guess if I get sick while working at least I'll have a good reason.
Aurora_Sunset
06-18-2019, 08:54 AM
Hubby SWEARS he put my laptop cord in the nightstand drawer when we were moving but nothing is in there. I’ve asked repeatedly if he maybe thought that’s what he was going to do but then wandered away and ended up throwing it in an open box instead. He is absolutely adamant that he put it in that drawer... Well, where the fuck would it just magically go? I’m going digging through boxes today, and when I inevitably find it in some random box, he’ll probably be like “oh yeeeeah now I remember... I did do that...” -_- Meanwhile, I have to do everything on my phone.
miss.a.p1600
06-18-2019, 03:40 PM
Or you could text back, " Why don't You pump up the muscle that REALLY counts?":rotfl:
It's a line I always used when the bodybuilders at Gold's gym used to get too ' full' of themselves.
That is hilarious!!!
This dude is a total attention-seeker
He just sent me videos of himself working out (with his shirt off of course) that he probably uploaded on snapchat, instagram, yt, and any other attention-seeking media site
*Edit: Now he is talking about how he went to strip club but told the dancers he didn't want to waste money on women shaking their ass.......wow!!! SMDH......*Le sigh*
seashell
06-19-2019, 06:09 AM
My dog got rejected from two doggy daycares, and I feel really bummed about it. I guess she's too hyperactive.
miss.a.p1600
06-19-2019, 07:46 AM
Must get to work and stop procrastinating
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-19-2019, 07:52 AM
Hubby SWEARS he put my laptop cord in the nightstand drawer when we were moving but nothing is in there. I’ve asked repeatedly if he maybe thought that’s what he was going to do but then wandered away and ended up throwing it in an open box instead. He is absolutely adamant that he put it in that drawer... Well, where the fuck would it just magically go? I’m going digging through boxes today, and when I inevitably find it in some random box, he’ll probably be like “oh yeeeeah now I remember... I did do that...” -_- Meanwhile, I have to do everything on my phone.
To be fair I lost a very expensive HDMI cord that I really needed to find. Gah I am still mad at myself. Protip- tape those cords to devices or appliances.
Aurora_Sunset
06-19-2019, 08:34 AM
Stepkids are staying the night and I really don’t want them to... it wouldn’t be so bad if the new apartment was set up properly at this point, but it’s not. We have no AC and no hot water to wash off when we sweat all day. We’ve unpacked very little because of all the issues, and it just being too damn hot to do anything inside. The kids are also impatient and whining about not having real beds or internet in their room yet, which won’t happen for about a week still. Considering we told them that, I don’t know why they asked to stay overnight anyway. But of course, we’re loathe to tell the ex-wife about the lack of hot water or AC right off the bat cuz she’ll throw a bitch fit about us moving into an uninhabitable place, so misery in the smelly heat with whining kids it is...
miss.a.p1600
06-19-2019, 08:50 AM
LOL!!!
Give em some candy/popsicles and some video games or have them play outside till they burn off so much energy they cant move their lips......won't hear a peep out them lol!
Worst case scenario - send em off to summer camp during your visitation times voila!
WendiStarr
06-19-2019, 09:15 AM
^^ Is there a wavepool or beach near you or a park with a playground(depending on their ages)? Sometimes I take my daughter to a park and tell her,"You're in your natural habitat. Run free!" With a beach or pool, most of those type of places have showers there that you can all shower afterwards.
My pissy annoyance today..my boobs. They feel huge and heavy and my nipples are hard for no reason. Of course this is going to make bf want to touch them even more so I'm avoiding him right now.
carmen_b
06-19-2019, 12:11 PM
I think maybe I will finally learn my lesson this time. I said I would NOT come to this ( very hot ) location at all June - Aug.
Here I am ..... miserable. Haha. The weather got me again .
I need to put CLIENTS in my car in 5 hours. It is currently set up to CAMP out of omg .
I will need to drag all that stuff out , go vacuum in this heat , and put my set up back together tonight tomorrow. ;(
Also .... I hired my friend M to do a piece of this job today. If I didn't trust him, I wouldn't have done it. The job peice will be just fine.
I hope we get along. We only have an hour or so of time after the job which will be good. I don't think I have forgiven him yet for BAITING me ( we are in similar industries so got talking candidly about earnings goals and our costs of living ). I disclosed my overall goals / current costs of living. He called me greedy and then tried to cover it as a joke. I might have to talk to him about it because that happened over 2 months ago and I have been mad about it since. We have only hung out once in that time ( a couple weeks ago for a couple hours ). I think he knows what he did but I'm not entirely sure. I also sometimes feel guilty too because he doesn't know I offset slow weeks with stripping.
Update : M did a great job . We didn't have the talk yet about why I was mad for two months. Maybe I will just let it go. If he does anything like again I'll just put my foot down and explain that I don't need to defend my choices to put in the extra time / work harder / achieve what I want. Seems like it shouldn't have to be explained though ? Personally I found it triggering and sexist. No one tells men they " shouldn't " want to achieve.
Ifyouseekamy
06-19-2019, 08:22 PM
Can’t stand domesticated women-well girls. This girl in my nursing class was saying some rude things to the instructor. I’ve never got into a fight, but sometimes I think I am spoiled. Because girls at the club think twice before being rude. In the club-you you think twice about saying some that might get your ass beat. This privileged white girl was being so rude to the instructor. Which she laughed off. Obviously, I didn’t say anything-it wasn’t my place. I gave her side-eye and ignored her. I’m here to learn not to make friends. She was trying talk to me like we’re friends later. Nope.
If you knew me at work I’m the kindest soul to dancers-they are my tribe. Oddly, I act like an alpha female around other people outside of the club. I guess cause I don’t want people taking advantage of my kindness. I probably come off as very intimidating. Also, I know if these people found out about my past they’d be complete bitches and dicks. I love humanity, but I hate people.
You can take the stripper out of the club, but you can’t take the club out of the stripper.
WendiStarr
06-20-2019, 11:03 AM
Bf got me all excited about a mini vacation with swimming. We were supposed to leave at noon. He's been dragging his ass. I was up and showered by 10:30am. It took him 2 hours just to finally take a shower because he was watching tv. Now he's watching tv again. His "I'll be ready to leave in 10 minutes" has turned into an hour with ass parked on couch.
miss.a.p1600
06-20-2019, 07:29 PM
I need my ass kicked because I am having a hard time ending it but if I don't do it soon it will be hard to do it later....
EastCoastDancer01
06-20-2019, 10:57 PM
I got pulled over today by a cop in an area I’ve never been to. I made a wrong turn and needed to turn around. I do and he flashes his lights on my car for me to pull over. I pull over as quick as I can on the side of a road which I have no idea is actually where oncoming traffic comes out of...there are no ‘’do not enter’’ signs or anything! He was the nastiest motherfer I have ever dealt with!! I was visibly scared and nervous and told him I’m not familiar with the roads and have never been here before and didn’t know that’s where cars come out from. He berates me and tries to accuse me of being under the influence which I clearly wasn’t...I showed him my eyes which were crystal clear. He blocks incoming traffic and let’s me do a u-turn and leave but not without making me feel like shit for it. But I got away and didn’t get a ticket! I’m still kind of shaken over it though, that was scary! Men like that trigger me because I’ve dealt with those types in the past unfortunately