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Ifyouseekamy
06-20-2019, 11:11 PM
^^^ I’ve had the same thing happen. I look visibly anxious which they use an excuse to interrogate me. Not all cops are bad, but unfortunately some of them have issues and instead of protecting and serving they abuse their power.

Glad you didn’t get a ticket.

WendiStarr
06-21-2019, 06:54 AM
Bf and I are staying at a hotel. They have free breakfast. We walked in. I saw bacon and biscuits and gravy and was waiting for this big dude to move. This dude rudely put damn near all of the biscuits and gravy on his plate and the rest of the bacon.

whirlerz
06-21-2019, 08:06 AM
That's shit.. I'd have asked the place for more, explaining if necessary..

We've a new roomie (upstairs). Older guy seems nice, I spoke to him, but.
He fuckin' smokes, this morning I had to open the front door & kitchen window (w/no screen) stunk of cigs.

He drinks too, so hopefully I not a prob.

Edit: I just remembered something that happened @ a restaurant..
I was w/this guy, they had 'all U can eat" chicken or something, there was a huge table of people that just got seated, I think before us..
My friend ordered it, & I got something else.
Well, waitress came back, & said they were out of it..if you offer unlimited _____, how can you run out? I mean, even so, they could sit there & eat who knows how much?
He started making a fuss, & I'd already been served (soup & a beverage).
He grabbed my hand & we walked out of there! Lol.

I know, it's a hotel, but still they should offer some type of substitution, anyway, sorry that happened.

Glamourmilf
06-21-2019, 11:27 AM
I met another gay husband a couple of months ago at my grief group.
Right away, he gets too close. Calling and texting all day, ( even though I told him that I work full time, and have chronic fatigue.)
He's like the 10th person to do this.
He invited me over to lunch at his house after the group. Four hours, mostly listening to him prattle on about his many health problems. He has ADD, so he can't focus on 1 thought for more than a minute.
I get home, and he's texting me, asking if I can call him, because he wants to talk some more! Omg! Nooo!
I tell him I'm exhausted, and need to sleep.
He tells me I'm such a princess.
Whatever.
Now he's in Italy for 3 months, and is video calling me at 6 am my time! My phone is always off, but still? Yikes!
He didn't listen when I told him before he left, that he shouldn't call me so much.
It's not like he's lonely. He's staying with a friend at her Villa, and all her friends are there.
I despise talking on the phone, and texting.
Plus, I dropped my new phone, and the sound goes off when I'm talking on it.
Please, everyone, just​ leave me alone! I'm grieving! It's all I can do to get out of bed every day.
The worst part about this? Nobody ever asks how I'M doing! Even though they all know that there have been lots of trigger days in the last 2 months. Mom's bday, my bday( my dad died on my bday), mother's day, father's day.
I'm in isolation mode, because I have some serious shit I need to take care of.
I'm not even ready to discuss it on here yet.

whirlerz
06-21-2019, 11:34 AM
I couldn't deal w/all that!^

Wishing you all the BEST, dear!^

Aurora_Sunset
06-21-2019, 01:32 PM
Ugh I’ve only barely unpacked the kitchen, and I’m already sick of unpacking for the day. But it’s only 4:30 so I can’t stop yet. My deal with myself for not working today was that I had to at least get most of the master bedroom and living room bookshelves done today. The last time I moved, I packed everything in a day and unpacked in 2 days flat. Why do I feel like I’m having so much more trouble this time around?

miss.a.p1600
06-21-2019, 05:56 PM
Why is it the guys that I want to have sex with are only good for sex?

Glamourmilf
06-21-2019, 06:57 PM
I couldn't deal w/all that!^

Wishing you all the BEST, dear!^

Thank You Whirl.:heartbeat:heartbeat
Yes, you're right about that. It is too much.
My crazy landlady is throwing me out on the street,because in her mind... She thinks I'm too afraid to live here.
She's ONLY doing this because she realizes that she can get more for rent. But, nobody will rent to me, because of the eviction (which is STILL on my credit report).

miss.a.p1600
06-21-2019, 07:27 PM
Can you get legal aid to get the eviction off your records?

Aurora_Sunset
06-21-2019, 08:21 PM
My back and feet are killing me, and I’m maybe only 1/3 of the way through unpacking. Not looking forward to tomorrow.

miss.a.p1600
06-21-2019, 09:42 PM
Why is it the guys that I want to have sex with are only good for sex?

Stop thinking about having sex with me! Just get me off your mind and that will make things a lot easier

Aurora_Sunset
06-22-2019, 08:29 AM
Got hired back part-time at the old job just for the summer, but I've been locked out of the online portal, requiring IT to reset everything. They keep bugging me about some online trainings being overdue, but I cannot get into my online portal until IT is back in the office. Of course, Saturday is the one day they aren't around... I was originally told they were 24/7, but clearly that isn't true.

Glamourmilf
06-22-2019, 10:03 AM
Can you get legal aid to get the eviction off your records?

The only way to get an eviction off my credit report, is to pay the judgement.
Or to die first.
The latter is probably what's going to happen.
My failing health can not go through this again.

seashell
06-22-2019, 11:01 AM
My dog had major poo problems today, and there is poo everywhere. Including my bed. I don't have a washing machine, and I'm pretty sure I pulled a muscle last time I did my laundry by hand. Ughhh

whirlerz
06-22-2019, 11:04 AM
My dog got rejected from two doggy daycares, and I feel really bummed about it. I guess she's too hyperactive.

AW!
Or, they're too picky?

seashell
06-22-2019, 11:11 AM
AW!
Or, they're too picky?

Yeah, I think they're super picky because they're the only doggy daycares in my area. They want pets that are super well trained. My dog is just really little, she follows commands and is very obedient, but sometimes needs patience.

whirlerz
06-22-2019, 11:21 AM
Thank You Whirl.:heartbeat:heartbeat
Yes, you're right about that. It is too much.
My crazy landlady is throwing me out on the street,because in her mind... She thinks I'm too afraid to live here.
She's ONLY doing this because she realizes that she can get more for rent. But, nobody will rent to me, because of the eviction (which is STILL on my credit report).

IM so sorry!
Hope U can get something better!
That's really shitty of her!

carmen_b
06-22-2019, 04:50 PM
It’s funny...
you try to help someone out

Had a dating prospect getting ahead of himself so I tactfully shifted the conversation to “ I’m a traditional type . A drink or dinner invite would be perfect “.

Haha
Why do I even try ?

Aurora_Sunset
06-22-2019, 05:28 PM
I'm irritated that so many people here park in the Visitor spaces. It's not as though there isn't enough open parking for residents. There are a ton of empty spaces on both sides of the building. But people take the 6 visitor spots just because they're slightly closer to the side doors that they use. So if we ever have guests over, they'll have to park way over at another building's visitor parking and hope they have enough. It's not like guests can chance it with the normal spots either. They do NOT fuck around with towing people who don't have parking passes here. I learned that my very first day here, when I walked outside to go to the office and get the parking pass I was promised that day, only to find that I'd already been towed.

The first time I run into an issue with my guests being able to find reasonable parking, I'm complaining to the office.

Glamourmilf
06-23-2019, 09:26 AM
After a long day/week of camming yesterday, I get several urgent messages​ from my neighbor.
The same neighbor I told to never speak to me again. Because everytime she would see me, she'd criticize me.
My hair is too blond, I'm showing too much cleavage, wearing too much bling jewelry, my convertible is a typical LA car, my voice is too sexy. I'm too fat, I have too many things in my apartment. She even commented that it was silly to attend grief groups.
Nobody likes her. Nobody talks to her.
She's​ in the hospital, and needs me to go care for her hyper, pain in the ass dog. Yeah, in 110 degree weather.
Not!:no:
She's desperate, and is now texting that she'll pay me.
I'm sick. I've been having sharp pains in my heart, :brokenheaand I'm having trouble breathing. Probably due to the upcoming homelessness. Same thing happened the last time too.
And remember that girlfriend that didn't even acknowledge the Chanel choker I bought for her birthday last year?
The one who posts selfies nonstop on Facebook and Instagram?
Well..... I never hear from her. Yesterday, I get a text with her wearing the necklace, telling me how much she loves it.
Her birthday is coming up in a few weeks.
Obvious much?::)
And that gay husband is still messaging me at 6 am from Italy. He says, " Is it early there? Lol! I'm in so much pain. My arthritis in my knees hurt so much"....On, and on.
Everyone can just fuck off!!
Because I am NOT AVAILABLE to anyone but myself!

queenelayliah
06-24-2019, 01:46 AM
I just had a client threatened to kill me, this is the first time this has ever happened to me...i think....granted he was a pso customer. But im sooo scared. Like what if he’s serious hacks my stuff and get my address??! Worst of alli cant fight, i dotn own a gun or a knife and my address on file is my address thats on my drivers license aka my parents address. Like of course i blocked him but im still super super fucking nervous and scared.

miss.a.p1600
06-24-2019, 06:11 AM
^ask the site for his info so you can report him to police/file a police report

whirlerz
06-24-2019, 08:26 AM
Glam, I KNOW you will find a place, praying for you hon!

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-24-2019, 10:23 AM
..This sounds like it belongs in Dollar den but it'll be seen more here.


My boyfriend never took his ex-wife's name off of his primary checking account- so due to an error of hers an autobilled charge for about $400 came out of the account a few days ago. We cannot find a way to reach her about this (she dropped off the face of the planet) so he finally closed down the account to avoid this happening again. His bank had a particular rule about closing a joint account back then (both parties have to come in in person to cancel the account, which wasn't possible back then.) AFAIK once the bank gets her to come in this whole matter will be over.

Word to the wise, if you have a joint account, this can happen to you too. I definitely feel resentful about this (I went without right after his divorce so he could pay his alimony + deal with other expenses left over from the divorce) ……..Yet another reason to have separate checking accounts in relationships lol....

baer45
06-24-2019, 02:12 PM
Just withdraw everything, when the bank can’t charge the fine after a few months, they will close the account for you.

queenelayliah
06-24-2019, 02:57 PM
^ask the site for his info so you can report him to police/file a police report


I can do that? But wouldnt he know it was me? Like dont my information has to go on the police report and cant he get a copy or have a right to know who filed a report against him?

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-24-2019, 03:16 PM
Just withdraw everything, when the bank can’t charge the fine after a few months, they will close the account for you.

I didn't know that, thank you for sharing. I paid a closure fee to US Bank to close an account. I could have let that go. LOL. Well now I know.

miss.a.p1600
06-24-2019, 07:16 PM
I can do that? But wouldnt he know it was me? Like dont my information has to go on the police report and cant he get a copy or have a right to know who filed a report against him?

That's a good question. I'd probably ask a lawyer if I were you because I don't know the laws for certain but I would guess that if you were in fear for your life you could request to have your personal information (like address and full name etc.) redacted from the report. Also sometimes lawyers can show up to court on your behalf so you don't even have to see the defendant in person.

miss.a.p1600
06-24-2019, 07:21 PM
So the young dude that I had categorized as only good for sex is kind of being like emotionally supportive which is a quality I like in men. Though this could be a trick to get sex faster.

Sadly he is a 50/50 type dude - which is definitely not the type of man I want long term.

I have no clue what I am going to do with him. But I need to figure it out quickly before his emotions get involved.

Can someone come make this decision for me???

Actually, I'm sure I'll take the easy route and eventually end up telling him I am too busy working (because that's the type of woman he likes right?) ..... too busy working to pay bills and I can't make time for him.

Either that or we will prob end up just being friends, career buddies, etc.

miss.a.p1600
06-24-2019, 09:41 PM
So just as we move past the issue around Stormy Daniels, this dude allegedly raped some writer....his response (classic gaslighting *allegedly*) = "I've never met her + she's not my type"

Predator pussy grabber allegedly strikes again!

miss.a.p1600
06-24-2019, 09:55 PM
So the young dude that I had categorized as only good for sex is kind of being like emotionally supportive which is a quality I like in men. Though this could be a trick to get sex faster.

Sadly he is a 50/50 type dude - which is definitely not the type of man I want long term.

I have no clue what I am going to do with him. But I need to figure it out quickly before his emotions get involved.

Can someone come make this decision for me???

Actually, I'm sure I'll take the easy route and eventually end up telling him I am too busy working (because that's the type of woman he likes right?) ..... too busy working to pay bills and I can't make time for him.

Either that or we will prob end up just being friends, career buddies, etc.

I was hoping the old dude would have followed up on his suggestion to meet up.

Even though he annoyed the hell out of me sometimes, he would never ask me to pay for dates, he offered for me to live with him and would not expect me to pay him rent and was more generous than most dudes Ive encountered lately.

Did I mess up?

Because what I seem to be encountering lately is opposite of my true long-term desires

Or maybe its me and I need to discover something about myself that will help me move closer to what I want

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-25-2019, 07:40 AM
I know I always complain about the singer Chris Brown but- I cannot believe another woman got pregnant by him. I hate harping on the idea that women are a huge part of enabling abusive and evil men...But in this case yes! Why would any reasonable woman choose to have a kid with a person so unstable he might not be alive by the time her kid is halfway grown?

WendiStarr
06-25-2019, 08:12 AM
I have a terrible sinus headache and stuffy nose but can't take anything for it.

Glamourmilf
06-25-2019, 10:09 AM
Glam, I KNOW you will find a place, praying for you hon!

Thanks Whirl, but sadly, I won't.
My rent is the lowest in the area.
Not only would it be double for rent at a new place. They also require that I show 3× the rent in income. Camming doesn't pay that.
The main point is.... I don't WANT to move!! Why should I have to? I didn't do anything wrong!!
Besides, my health is not well enough to go through this again.
Landlady just kicked out an elderly woman. Why? Because her granddaughter was playing in the parking lot. OMG!
The only defense I have right now is prayer.
And the fact that I insisted on a lease. Everyone else is on month to month.
I have until December. That's another reason I want to escort again.
I need a stash of money to at least get into an Airbnb or hotel.
Argh! Just kill me now.

miss.a.p1600
06-25-2019, 12:23 PM
I know I always complain about the singer Chris Brown but- I cannot believe another woman got pregnant by him. I hate harping on the idea that women are a huge part of enabling abusive and evil men...But in this case yes! Why would any reasonable woman choose to have a kid with a person so unstable he might not be alive by the time her kid is halfway grown?

MONEY!!!!

If they are gonna get their ass beat --- they'd rather take that L by a rich dude than a broke dude, sue him, then wipe their tear with fresh 100's

If he's not alive by the time the kid is grown, even better.....good life insurance/money stacked then she could find another hopefully better man

Also sometimes just being associated with rich n famous can elevate ones economic status....Look at Karruche - no one knew her until CB, then after they broke up she was able to date other rich men, get some media clout (which hopefully she parlayed into money), etc She was wise to leave his ass but money and fame will cloud a social climbers judgement

NitaBaby
06-25-2019, 03:47 PM
Not sure what's up with me lately but I just wanna join the circus and lose everybody's number. Then i JUST called my bf by my kids' dads name on accident. Not completely awful considering the fact that he IS my kids dad and his name might pop up but that was still hella embarassing. Fuck today.

miss.a.p1600
06-25-2019, 06:42 PM
I keep procrastinating on buying groceries so I can save money

Then I am forced to forage for food at expensive restaurants

miss.a.p1600
06-25-2019, 09:17 PM
Stripperwebs take the wheel!!!

The young dude asked me how I feel about him and ....... cotdamn it! why did I tell him what he wanted to hear instead of the hard truth I'm thinking

Then he claims he's not dating other people because he's interested in seeing where things go with me. In my mind I'm like bruh please date other people!

miss.a.p1600
06-25-2019, 10:40 PM
Why the young dude hem me up for my social media accounts????

Motherfucker!

I reluctantly gave him my Facebook, added him as “friend”, then added him to my restricted list

He was like damn! You don’t post any content.

I had to make up some reasons why I had no content so he wouldn’t be suspicious about me added him on restriction list

Then he asked for my ig

Which is private. I don’t know if I’ll accept the request because it’s not like you can segment your followers like you can on Facebook. And if i don’t want him to see my content anymore I have to block him.

And what if he posts comments like lovey dovey comments acting like a bf or something and fucks up my entire harem?

What have I done?!?

This is why I hate social media and I hate him right now too.

WendiStarr
06-26-2019, 04:55 AM
It's only 7:55 am and it's already 85 in my apartment. I was wondering why I woke up all sweaty and gross feeling and headache again. I mean, I am pregnant so gross feeling (nausea) is common first thing in the morning for me but apparently my fan died. I had it on and it's no longer working. I don't feel like going anywhere but I'm going to have to go out to the store and buy another fan or two.

seashell
06-26-2019, 05:39 AM
It's only 7:55 am and it's already 85 in my apartment. I was wondering why I woke up all sweaty and gross feeling and headache again. I mean, I am pregnant so gross feeling (nausea) is common first thing in the morning for me but apparently my fan died. I had it on and it's no longer working. I don't feel like going anywhere but I'm going to have to go out to the store and buy another fan or two.

Same, I keep waking up because of the heat. I need to get my AC repaired. For now, I just have a standing fan on 24/7, lol.

JGB2009
06-26-2019, 07:02 AM
Why the young dude hem me up for my social media accounts????

Motherfucker!

I reluctantly gave him my Facebook, added him as “friend”, then added him to my restricted list

He was like damn! You don’t post any content.

I had to make up some reasons why I had no content so he wouldn’t be suspicious about me added him on restriction list

Then he asked for my ig

Which is private. I don’t know if I’ll accept the request because it’s not like you can segment your followers like you can on Facebook. And if i don’t want him to see my content anymore I have to block him.

And what if he posts comments like lovey dovey comments acting like a bf or something and fucks up my entire harem?

What have I done?!?

This is why I hate social media and I hate him right now too.

LOL I didn't know you could add someone to a restricted list. I must learn how to do that.

miss.a.p1600
06-26-2019, 07:08 AM
Yes on Facebook you can create lists, add people to those lists, then when you post you can chose which lists see which posts.

Restricted list is basically a glorified “friend” who can only see your public posts https://m.facebook.com/help/206571136073851?helpref=hc_fnav

https://m.facebook.com/help/204604196335128/

Glamourmilf
06-26-2019, 10:32 AM
It's only 7:55 am and it's already 85 in my apartment. I was wondering why I woke up all sweaty and gross feeling and headache again. I mean, I am pregnant so gross feeling (nausea) is common first thing in the morning for me but apparently my fan died. I had it on and it's no longer working. I don't feel like going anywhere but I'm going to have to go out to the store and buy another fan or two.


Same, I keep waking up because of the heat. I need to get my AC repaired. For now, I just have a standing fan on 24/7, lol.

Arctic Air. It's over 105 where I live. All fans do is blow around hot air.
With my Arctic Air it's always 74 or cooler.
Walmart and bed bath and beyond sells them for $20 .51527

whirlerz
06-26-2019, 02:08 PM
Well, I'm thankful to have a place to live, buuut..
This old man just moved upstairs.
He smokes, a lot, inside.
Now his girlfriend is here, he told me that she's visiting for a week.::)
Except, my other neighbor said she saw them moving dressers & stuff.
Last night they were sitting out front drinking::)?

Then there's the other guy on my floor, who never takes out the garbage, altho he causes 95% + of it. I've been taking it out, cause I hate that, disgusting! Not to mention he never wipes any of the kitchen surfaces, leaves dishes in the sink (as of now, since Sun.)
His excuse wb surgery (2 mo.ago) but he takes out his own garbage in his room, & plays outside w/his kid. He also has people helping him, which I have also, but done w/that!

From all the rain, we have ants, but I don't want anything else.

Thanks a lot for letting me vent!

I'm going to write the landlord a note, altho I previously mentioned all this before::)

Bad headache from last week tooth extraction.
I don't want to keep taking pills

baer45
06-26-2019, 10:04 PM
I am so tired of people who can’t let go a disagreement. I spent 30 mins to answer someone’s questions and I can see why she disagreed. But just because you don’t like my answers doesn’t mean I didn’t give you answers. When I said, forget it, let’s drop it. I meant it. Drop the subject and attitude once for all. Then I forgot the name of a restaurant, she said you are so bend out of shape, you can’t even say the name of the restaurant right. She just couldn’t let it go.

Elektra Luxx
06-27-2019, 02:04 AM
^^^
...and I'm not going to drop it until you say the name of the restaurant! And it wasn't 30 minutes it was 28 minutes! And how about YOU just drop you're attitude!

baer45
06-27-2019, 06:33 AM
^^^
...and I'm not going to drop it until you say the name of the restaurant! And it wasn't 30 minutes it was 28 minutes! And how about YOU just drop you're attitude!

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Elektra Luxx
06-27-2019, 09:25 AM
I rescued my younger sister this morning. Her car battery was dead and needed a jump. So we went to buy some jumper cables at an auto parts store. The guy that helped us was very nice, but the other guy at the counter acted really shifty, conspicuous and creepy, and stared at us whole time we were buying the cable. I couldn't wait to get out of there. I felt violated and like I needed a shower. Yuck! *shuddering* Bleh!

miss.a.p1600
06-27-2019, 09:41 AM
Young dude is probably stalking my social media accounts.

I hate myself for bringing it up and adding him to my Facebook