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NitaBaby
07-24-2019, 02:52 PM
^^Time to make other dinner plans lol. He can be hungry if he wants to.

Jalena
07-24-2019, 02:53 PM
Made a comment today about my not being naturally outgoing, and my mother said 'You just might surprise yourself'

Erm ... NO. After 33 years, I am pretty sure I have this one figured out and am in the best position possible to judge whether or not I am naturally outgoing. Pointing this out did not make her a happy camper.

I hate when she says shit like this. It would be charitable to think that she's just trying to be encouraging, but sometimes I think she really does choose to ignore qualities about me that she doesn't like -- introverted, misanthropic -- and pretend that she scored a kid who actually does have her desired qualities and 'just doesn't realise it yet' So fucking condescending.

Aurora_Sunset
07-24-2019, 03:47 PM
Hubby wanted tacos for dinner. We have almost no food in the house, we made a grocery list this morning.

It's after 5pm, and he shows no signs of going to the store. I have point-blank asked him 4 times if he is still planning to go to the store today or if he's just waiting until tomorrow. I would like to know so that, if he doesn't want to go tonight, I can start making other plans for dinner. Cuz I'm fucking hungry. All I've eaten today is a goddam peach.

He has fucking ignored me every single time. I've made several passive-aggressive comments about him ignoring my question. He dances around my comments with shifty comments about how he's answering me right now... But has steadfastly refused to answer the question about grocery shopping....

WHY?

The fun continues with him agreeing to order Chipotle for delivery. He orders kids' meals for the kids - Kid 1 gets the cheese quesadilla with rice, bean, and chips sides... He literally just orders the kid's quesadilla and picks NO sides for Kid 2... I see this on the order and question it, and he tells me "that's what he wants." Ok, fine....

Now, we just got the order, he opens the one little quesadilla that's on its own and gets super pissy. Storms off and grabs the mac n' cheese to make a side for the kid... I'm like "What's your problem?"

Him: "That's not enough food for him!"
Me: "Well, you literally ordered him NO sides..."
Him: "Well, I thought it would be bigger!"

Well... what did you think a $4 kids meal that USUALLY comes with 3 sides would be like?

I'm done with the 'tude. I poured myself a glass of wine and went to the bedroom lol

WendiStarr
07-24-2019, 04:00 PM
I had a few massage clients today, one after another and all for an hour each. I should've spaced them out further or told some I'd have to schedule a different day because now my lower back is killing me.

miss.a.p1600
07-24-2019, 04:15 PM
For the past week I have been feeling unproductive

Help!

miss.a.p1600
07-24-2019, 06:40 PM
The old dude be doing some dumb shit sometimes.

He said he was having some neck pain for a long time then went to a physical therapist and felt better.

And you know what his ass did?

He said he asked if he could do some planks and started doing planks then fucked himself up again.

In my mind I’m like dude! Wtf!! That type of move is strenuous even for an average person with no injuries.

He will go out and do strenuous manual work, lifting heavy weights etc then complain he’s in pain and hopes he doesn’t have to have surgery.

Like sit yo ass down! And stop doing dumb shit!

NitaBaby
07-25-2019, 11:18 AM
I'm nauseous and have a slight, right-at-the-cusp type of headache. So much for a morning shift. I'm just gonna nap this one off.

carmen_b
07-25-2019, 11:44 AM
I feel like this heat has me house bound. I know it's an emotional trigger ( negative ) trigger for me to be home too much .
I start feeling down if I have more than 1 day 90% at home. I've got to get myself OUT . Luckily, my mom and I have hair appt.'s today. That gives me a need to be out / moving even it's if hot as hell.

WendiStarr
07-26-2019, 11:10 AM
I ordered something online with rush delivery. I checked the tracking through USPS this morning and it showed that not only had it arrived at the local post office but it was "Out for delivery" as of 9:07am. The mailman has already come and gone and no package or mail other than junk ads. Grr!

Glamourmilf
07-26-2019, 02:53 PM
I feel like this heat has me house bound. I know it's an emotional trigger ( negative ) trigger for me to be home too much .
I start feeling down if I have more than 1 day 90% at home. I've got to get myself OUT . Luckily, my mom and I have hair appt.'s today. That gives me a need to be out / moving even it's if hot as hell.

Same here. It's hot from June-the end of Oct, and its seriously bumming me out.
I hate being inside A.C 24/7.
When ever I do go out, my car interior is like an oven. Plus, it's a crap shoot as to who will have their a.c. on. My friends never do because they're too cheap! They keep the air off, or set it to 90. Even businesses don't keep their air on. Boggles my mind.:boggled
When I first moved here 3 years ago, everyone that lives here told me that I should look at it as though it was winter back east. That everyone must stay in for 6 months straight there.
Uh, Wrong oh, Mary Lou.
I NEVER, EVER, not for ONE day had to stay inside because it was too cold outside. I used to go out for walks even in the middle of a snowstorm, and blizzard.
Plus,I've been living on the coast for over 30 years. No matter how hot the day is, the night always cools off.
Can't really find any way around it, because I love it here. It's the only negative thing about living in such a harsh environment.:'(

NitaBaby
07-27-2019, 06:28 AM
Welp, that's it for child support. He must have quit another job. God forbid, he continues to pay $75 for three kids.

I also locked my bf out of his PS4 account. Didn't realize that he had 2-step verification so logging him out (to log into my own) created the most annoying problem since he doesn't have that old phone number anymore. It's literally the only "me time" he affords himself and he doesn't let himself get frustrated with a person no matter what. So watching him breathe and sigh while inevitably not figuring it out (then suggesting a movie night) almost made me cry. I was like "I'm so sorry" and he just gave a half smile and said nothing. Kiss on the forehead, pat on the back. I feel really bad right now. Not sure what I'm so upset about since my ex and a game system aren't enough to bring up real tears. But I feel like I ran over someone's dog.

FedEx is now saying that USPS has my package - and they'll be delivering it Monday when FedEx was going to originally deliver it today. Why are you so slow USPS.

I didn't wake up a rich heiress today. That makes 28 years in a row.

WendiStarr
07-27-2019, 07:59 AM
My bf went and drove 4 hours to the other side of the state to tell his daughter that he and her stepmom are splitting. His alleged soon-to-be-ex went too. It makes no sense to me why he'd even bother doing that when he has been with me for the past year. He claims they drove in separate cars but I don't think I believe him. For the past couple weeks she has been trying like hell to get him over to her place, trying to get him to go out to dinner "as friends", calling and playing damsel in distress that needs his help asap, etc. I'm tired of feeling like I'm just on the backburner. I feel like everyone and everything comes before me in his life lately anymore so I will gift him with my absence. It just sucks because I'm pregnant, lonely, and super needy feeling and I have no one to hold me and tell me they love me and that everything's going to be okay.

carmen_b
07-27-2019, 12:57 PM
I feel so lost and agitated.
I'd like to get out of town and head north but I took a background acting job ( on a show I love , ugh ) ! It's " sticking " me here 5-6 more days.
I need a real break ( vacation or working vacation ) from this area.
I think I may a big mistake not making an action plan to get out of town like I said I was going to ( I could travel for three weeks working remotely after Aug. 1 ).
;/

carmen_b
07-27-2019, 01:04 PM
( pms time so expect me here often in the next few days )

I am annoyed with my dating life. Why can't I just HAVE what my ex and I had in 2011 ? This smooth dating life .... see each other every 4-6 days at first ..... a couple times a week after a few weeks ...... 2-3 times a week after 4-5 weeks. I am paranoid I will never have it again.

B saw me about once a week March / April ( long sleepover dates often which helped somewhat ) .
Then he tortured me May and June making me think we would get together geographically.

Mr. Dissapointment came onto the scene mid June .... once a week with all his talk about what a great boyfriend he would be ....... ( followed by a two weeks disappearance / text only thing July 11-25 )

Mr. NY now seems to be holding me at once a week .........

The person I was *thinking* of meeting last night seemed like a high libido match ........ and he couldn't even show up smoothly so he's done.

lurkingtitties
07-27-2019, 02:25 PM
I am paranoid I will never have it again.

I'm going through this right now myself. Yesterday a female friend told me I'm a catch and I realized that while I agree with her logically, in my heart I'm having trouble believing it!

carmen_b
07-27-2019, 03:07 PM
^ Aw. It's certainly tripping me out a bit. I'm so tired right now of it all ( dating but then finding situations that don't segway into substantial ) that I can't do anymore right now. This isn't a vow of celibacy ........ just that I CAN'T put effort out. I can't do any first dates.

I do have one dude I'm not totally pissed at ( he's allowed the once a week plan because it's still very early only a month in ).

I'm easy to please too ( one of my dudes loved the excuse that he was " busy " ) . I would have been ok with just twice a week like he SUGGESTED two weeks ago and then just didn't DO.
I can't figure it out ( non smoker, solid income earner , have work / life balance , no kids , willing to travel , live alone in an urban center with tons of things to do, home owner / rental property ). There isn't much I can do in terms of better PR. I am " all natural " but I don't live in an area where enhancements are the norm.

In a way ....... this is a GIFT from the Universe. I keep wanting to do extended travel. No one is holding me back now.

miss.a.p1600
07-27-2019, 09:00 PM
I completely regret letting young dudenconvince me to add him as friends on Facebook

Now I can see all his damn attention seeking thirst traps

This dude is the epitome of male thot

I’m going to mute his posts

Then he’s posting pics of his baby n shit like #mixedbaby and I’m so glad my baby has“good” hair. In my mind I’m like dude sorry to disappoint you but you with your colorist attitude but you have a dark skin baby with kinky hair

*eyeroll*

I can’t believe I gave this assclown the time of day

Glamourmilf
07-28-2019, 04:28 AM
My bf went and drove 4 hours to the other side of the state to tell his daughter that he and her stepmom are splitting. His alleged soon-to-be-ex went too. It makes no sense to me why he'd even bother doing that when he has been with me for the past year. He claims they drove in separate cars but I don't think I believe him. For the past couple weeks she has been trying like hell to get him over to her place, trying to get him to go out to dinner "as friends", calling and playing damsel in distress that needs his help asap, etc. I'm tired of feeling like I'm just on the backburner. I feel like everyone and everything comes before me in his life lately anymore so I will gift him with my absence. It just sucks because I'm pregnant, lonely, and super needy feeling and I have no one to hold me and tell me they love me and that everything's going to be okay.

My heart is always breaking for you Wendi when I read your posts.:brokenhea
I think that you are such a kind and generous person.
But, I think you get the short end of the stick, and are taken advantage of, because of the choices you make.
How do I know?
I know because I WAS you. Many, many moons ago.
Wish that you were my daughter, so I could save you from making the same mistakes I've made.
I know we all have our own paths to lead.
But, damn. It's painful to watch a friend suffer, when you want to intervene.

Elektra Luxx
07-28-2019, 04:36 AM
Today is Bf's birthday and I promised him butt sex. Ugghh!

TMI Trigger Warning:


Ever since, I've been getting weird sensations in that area.

WendiStarr
07-28-2019, 09:18 AM
I heard a water noise coming from my bathroom and saw that indeed, water was coming from my bathroom ceiling. I had to go and get a bucket because my bathroom floor was getting soaked. Fed up, I went upstairs and knocked on trustfundian's door. Apparently he flooded his bathroom in an attempt to thaw a whole frozen chicken in his bathtub. He said he fell asleep and forgot to shut the water off. Who the !%*& does that? Idiot!

AChildOfBoredom
07-28-2019, 06:35 PM
When it rains it pours. As if I didn’t have enough on my mind with recent happenings, now more (albeit unrelated) shit got piled on Friday. Which, it was simple enough to just walk away from it, but the others involved just don’t seem intent on giving it a rest, no matter how much I ignore them.

Glamourmilf
07-29-2019, 07:20 AM
So now we can't even go to garlic festivals without being killed?
>:(
Pretty sure I'm heading towards full on hermit/shut-in mode.:-\
It's all too much for me.
This world is broken, and I don't think it's going to turn itself around.

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2019, 11:27 AM
I am a little salty this guy I competed against won.

I think it was favoritism.

They voted for him to win the exact same thing he won last week. Wtf?!?

My presentation was clearly better. But you know what if they like dry ass presentations and they have biases then why even try??? Ugh!!!

#annoyed

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2019, 05:12 PM
Listening to dry conversation

#killmenow!

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2019, 05:31 PM
Males acting too thirsty

#gagme

NitaBaby
07-30-2019, 06:40 AM
I absolutely have to work this week. And I hate "having" to do anything.

WendiStarr
07-30-2019, 08:04 AM
Nausea has made a comeback today and I don't feel like eating, yet I have to or else it'll get worse.

AChildOfBoredom
07-30-2019, 02:43 PM
The funeral was today. Trying to stay positive, but it’s difficult. Now my sister’s wondering what the miniature medal rack I wore is (she doesn’t know I was in the military) and what all of this is about, whose funeral did I go to, who they were to me, etc. I feel bad about all the things I kept her in the dark about, but I also feel it was necessary to do so.

carmen_b
07-30-2019, 02:56 PM
Also .... it's been no fun ending this experiment of being more sexually open.
I do get attached when I bring sex in.
Probably back to the " sex is only for boyfriends " plan.

JenniferNorth
07-30-2019, 03:27 PM
I am so frustrated with vanilla work. One of my good paying vanilla jobs folded. Whatever. Editors for another one are for some reason giving feedback that is non-constructive and I feel like I cannot work that job too much, because it seems as though the editors want to try and get certain people fired. I'm looking at reapplying to some old jobs, but everything is moving slooooow and I'm not holding my breath.

I have to move away from writing for other people. It's almost like they don't want you to make a living from it.

carmen_b
07-30-2019, 03:47 PM
^ I'm frustrated with my vanilla work too. Just sheer boredom. It's hard sometimes.

miss.a.p1600
07-30-2019, 05:22 PM
I’m experiencing stress and I am feeling like I don’t know what to do. Petty annoyance posting is not enough. Maybe I need a therapist or a hug or something

I want to rant, scream, throw shit around, and more

baer45
07-30-2019, 06:21 PM
I’m experiencing stress and I am feeling like I don’t know what to do. Petty annoyance posting is not enough. Maybe I need a therapist or a hug or something

I want to rant, scream, throw shit around, and more

Have you tried boxing?

miss.a.p1600
07-30-2019, 07:56 PM
^^^hmmm I have not but that sounds like a good idea! Thanks for suggesting.

miss.a.p1600
07-31-2019, 03:14 AM
The old dude saying he wants to “sleep with me”

And how I feel about it

https://www.instagram.com/p/BkyfgfSh3QV/?igshid=1rn1a78wthusq

JenniferNorth
07-31-2019, 07:01 AM
I'd been holding back from posting this, but what the fuck. This has been on my mind for days. Sunday we went to see husbands GMA who is dying of cancer. No one bothered to tell us until we called. MIL is trying to keep us away, basically. MIL was off screwing around with some dude (an ex husband to be exact) and making up stories about how she wasn't. Her mother was left home alone.

Anyway, we went to visit GMA and shockingly, MIL was there (back early). MIL and hubby got into a yelling match. GMA kept telling them to please stop fighting. They were scaring her and our four year old daughter, but I don't blame husband for yelling, since his mother was trying to hide the health situation and didn't call or send a card for our daughter's birthday. MIL accuses me of pulling an R. Kelly on my husband, and luring/forcing him to be away from family (I have not done anything like that, but I have said I don't want to be around certain people. These people in question were MILs ex inlaws who don't like her anyway, but she had to reach for something). I told MIL "F you!" and she THREW GMAs fucking WALKER at me.

I wasn't hurt. I grabbed my daughter and we went to GMAs room with GMA, who wasn't trying to get the fuck away from the situation. She also threatened my husband how she was going to put a domestic on his record so he couldn't go into law enforcement (she doesn't want him in school or having any type of a career). Anyway, the fighting stopped after he said she'd never see us again. Then she wanted to be best friends, come to our home, be with daughter etc etc. I have never wanted to get the fuck out of someone's home SO FAST in my life. We are basically waiting for his GMA to pass and then never going back there again. I don't want daughter going back there anymore, or to the funeral.

I had to get this off my chest. My anxiety went to fucking 11 with this crazy bitch and it has stayed that way so far this week.

EDIT: I should add we are cutting ties once GMA passes. My husband doesn't like his mother or her fucking bullshit.

SnuffleUffleGrass
07-31-2019, 07:11 AM
I'd been holding back from posting this, but what the fuck. This has been on my mind for days. Sunday we went to see husbands GMA who is dying of cancer. No one bothered to tell us until we called. MIL is trying to keep us away, basically. MIL was off screwing around with some dude (an ex husband to be exact) and making up stories about how she wasn't. Her mother was left home alone.

Anyway, we went to visit GMA and shockingly, MIL was there (back early). MIL and hubby got into a yelling match. GMA kept telling them to please stop fighting. They were scaring her and our four year old daughter, but I don't blame husband for yelling, since his mother was trying to hide the health situation and didn't call or send a card for our daughter's birthday. MIL accuses me of pulling an R. Kelly on my husband, and luring/forcing him to be away from family (I have not done anything like that, but I have said I don't want to be around certain people. These people in question were MILs ex inlaws who don't like her anyway, but she had to reach for something). I told MIL "F you!" and she THREW GMAs fucking WALKER at me.

I wasn't hurt. I grabbed my daughter and we went to GMAs room with GMA, who wasn't trying to get the fuck away from the situation. She also threatened my husband how she was going to put a domestic on his record so he couldn't go into law enforcement (she doesn't want him in school or having any type of a career). Anyway, the fighting stopped after he said she'd never see us again. Then she wanted to be best friends, come to our home, be with daughter etc etc. I have never wanted to get the fuck out of someone's home SO FAST in my life. We are basically waiting for his GMA to pass and then never going back there again. I don't want daughter going back there anymore, or to the funeral.

I had to get this off my chest. My anxiety went to fucking 11 with this crazy bitch and it has stayed that way so far this week.

EDIT: I should add we are cutting ties once GMA passes. My husband doesn't like his mother or her fucking bullshit.

I'm glad you shared.


I had a bunch of family events like this last fall and I try not to dwell on them.....It was an extension of DECADES of dysfunction with certain people in my family and in laws.

Luckily in the US law enforcement sides with the sane people in these cases.....I hope you'll look at your legal options of keeping these people at a safe distance.

miss.a.p1600
07-31-2019, 07:40 AM
I saw a cut toddler walking around and the old dude was like “cute baby huh?”

Then he’s like “we’d have a cute baby” and I’m thinking any baby I have is going to be cute because it’s going to take after me in the looks department

I said well babies cost a lot of effort, energy, time, and MONEY!

Then he’s like well no I’d rather just be a granddad because my body is worn down.

Boy bye!!! My womb is waiting for at least 1 more kid before the time runs out and I need a guy with a high fertility

This might be a deal breaker.

carmen_b
07-31-2019, 05:50 PM
Totally full blown sick. Not PMS cramps like I was thinking. Either flu or food poisoning. ;(

miss.a.p1600
07-31-2019, 09:34 PM
Sitting on the plane next to this chubby broad shouldered overweight man huffing and puffing taking up my airspace n leaning into my personal space.

Lose some weight bitch!

WendiStarr
08-01-2019, 05:12 AM
Sinus/allergy problems. My head hurts, itchy nose, itchy throat, sinus pressure, and I keep sneezing. Ob/gyn said I can't take anything for it right now but can use saline nasal spray. I feel absolutely miserable and bf flew out of state today and will be gone for the next 6 days.

Also, my text messaging app on my phone decided to quit working, right after my bf texted me to ask me how
I'm doing. My mom sent a text after him. Each time I tried to respond, the message app crashed. I hate when that happens because nobody answers phone calls anymore. Everyone texts instead. I tried a soft and hard reset, clearing the cache, and tried disabling and enabling the stupid app, and nothing. I was able to send a text but no idea if it even went through because neither one responded so I'm wondering if the text even went through. I hate technology sometimes.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-01-2019, 08:09 AM
...chronic illness....the biggest Petty annoyance in my life......

Selina M
08-01-2019, 04:47 PM
WHY THE FUCK IS THERE AN AUTOMATIC TIME-OUT ON AN APPLICATION SITE?!?!?!?!

Why is there no warning!? No option to click "I'm still working"?! Even my fucking bank's website gives me that option.

I just spent 30 minutes writing a secondary essay and it literally booted me off, just "Your session is timed out, byyyyyyye". Thank God I had saved the essay before that but still, fuck! This was the longest of 5 and I was on a roll and had like, 200 more characters to be done with it.

Piece of shit fucking schools. They should all be forced to apply to each other and see just how shitty their sites are. $50k/student/year in tuition, yet they're using archaic websites that look like a 13 year old coded them...

NitaBaby
08-01-2019, 05:41 PM
You came over wayyyy too many times this week, dude. As my sister, you should know that I only answered BECAUSE you're my sister. Now you're outside knocking and you're going to be outside knocking until one of us dies. These pop ups end today.

carmen_b
08-01-2019, 06:10 PM
Damn it. This stomach bug / food poisoning has made me miss my favorite TV cowboy today. ;(
I had a job and was going to be on set ( most likely in view of him ). Damn it. It almost makes me cry.

The actor looks different when he isn't done up as this particular character.
I feel like getting this eye candy in person would have made my week. ;(

( NO QUOTING AS I'LL NEED TO REMOVE LATER FOR PRIVACY PLEASE )

NitaBaby
08-02-2019, 08:44 AM
I was next in line at Burger King trying to decide what I was going to bite into first when I got a bank notification that a bill had paid itself. I'm so hurt. This cereal tastes extra irritating compared to the Whopper w/cheese that I was about to dive into. Fuck cap'n crunch.

carmen_b
08-02-2019, 01:22 PM
NO flowers and SICK.
Mad at Mr. NY for this ( and kind of mad at B too who claims he still has feelings ). Do a flower order then you idiot. Ugh !
Both of you go suck a dick !

WendiStarr
08-02-2019, 03:46 PM
One of the places called my bf today to tell him that our application is approved. I was excited as heck about having the housing issue sorted out because my current lease at my nightmare of an apartment ends in 4 weeks. The problem now is that bf lied and told them that I'm a full-time college student since he only put his income info on the application but left out mine. Now they want a transcript for proof that I'm a college student. Obviously I don't have one. Wtf! Hopefully they don't change their minds and say we can't move in now because I don't have proof that I'm in school. Can't I just say that I'm independently studying using free resources since that's pretty much what I have been doing? Just when I thought that I could relax, now I have another fucking thing to stress about. Bf's monthly income is 6 times the monthly rent. I don't have any previous evictions but he has one. I've never paid any rent or bills late in all my years of living on my own. My credit score isn't that great but bf's is. I have enough to pay the first several months of rent upfront if needed. I just don't frickin' understand why this place creates so many roadblocks. They interrogated me about all this yesterday, asking about our relationship, etc and I thought for sure they were going to reject our application so it came as a bit of a surprise when they called him to say that we are approved. Of course now they threw yet another obstacle with this shit.

NitaBaby
08-02-2019, 04:29 PM
^^ No way in hell they should need all of that - especially AFTER saying that you're already approved. Again, this is AFTER being approved? Wild. Anyway, I'd probably sign up for a free class held by an actual college (I live in Texas and Lone Star College offers such things online here (http://www.lonestar.edu/leisure-learning.htm)) and call it a damn day. Bam. You're a full-time college student.

Edited To Add: The link is actually kind of cumbersome for anyone who hasn't attended this college before so I'll also drop a link to other colleges that offer free classes with a degree or certificate to be expected at completion: 10 Best Free Online Certifications & Courses [2019] (https://digitaldefynd.com/best-free-certification-course-training-online/)

You may not be able to provide an official transcript or anything like that but most colleges at least email an "acceptance letter" or have something you can pull from their dashboard to prove that you're a student. Hope it helps?

whirlerz
08-02-2019, 04:39 PM
I. Can't. FUCKING. take the cig smokers upstairs.
Talked to landlord today, (about 6th time).
They don't always go outside to smoke. 2 heavy smokers, it comes down in my bathroom vents. I have 3 air purifiers, doesn't help much.
Rn I have a box fan in bathroom on high in the bathroom.
I spray every so often w/Ozium. Have gone through 5 large cans.
Yesterday, I was spraying in the kirchen, Mr drunk asks if I farted, I said no, cig smell, & it's going in bathroom. "Oh" he says.
I get bullied as well.
I came home w/groceries (stopped buying them now, except a few things). & I opened side door cause it's closer to kitchen, & Mr. Drunk screaming cause, "I'll let in bugs" ::)
But, yesterday they had huge cookout, & door stayed open the whole time, &, that was OK?::)
IF I try to open 1 of the 2 working windows, they then get shut & locked.
The 1 in kitchen hasn't a screen, (I asked landlord to get 1,we'll see )
Then my door gets knocked on, cause Mr wonderful on 1st floor doesn't like that I parked in 'his' space::) even though no assigned parking.
But drunk beeotch can park there jusr fiiine, ty.

Yes, I'm looking..
Most likely gonna go to a hotel.
Im too freaking nice, I get their mail for them, but that stops Rn.
Mr drunk is now on the hard stuff, along with the beer.
Not gonna lie, scared af here. :O

Thank you