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Elektra Luxx
08-08-2019, 11:02 PM
I'm recovering at home and bored. The bedroom door is closed and locked, so I'm thinking, "I'll try to get myself off". I try a few different things nothing. Then I try a few more different things with my eyes closed and really concentrating for a few more minutes and...nothing. It's weird because I usually have no problem at all getting myself off in just a few minutes. I get bored and stop.

Wait?!! What if my gallbladder was somehow connected to my sex drive?!! And the doctor removed it!!! Maybe I'll take up knitting.


Are you still taking the pain meds? I remember the few times I've had them, it being really hard, if not impossible, to get aroused.


Yes...kinda. I think I dosed myself with one Percocet Sunday morning. It might still be in my system. Usually I'm constantly aroused, but right now I don't feel a thing. Bf could approach me with a full erection and I'd be "Do you mind I'm trying to do my old high school math homework."

Finally!!! But it took me about 30 minutes of eyes closed concentration. It never takes that long. And it was not back-arching, toe-curling like before. My body is still recovering from surgery...I'm guessing.

Plus I'm going to have 4 scars on my tummy. Arrrgghh!!!

seashell
08-09-2019, 04:38 AM
I accidentally spent $100 on the Simple Habit app. All I wanted was a 1 week free trial. WTF!

I think I'm going to keep it, though. Cheaper than therapy.

JGB2009
08-09-2019, 08:02 AM
I am annoyed because my internet keeps going out and they wont be able to fix it until Monday. I have bills to pay and trip I am taking next month. This sucks!!!!!

whirlerz
08-09-2019, 08:31 AM
I didn't get the free lipstick. There was probably a line out the door. At 115 degrees, that was a deal breaker.
Lucky for me, my gay husband received a lip pencil and gloss with a purchase he made on QVC. He gave it to me, along with 2 shadow sticks.
Did you get one?

No, I didn't feel like bothering w/it.. I may order on Sephora, they have a lip w/25. 00 purchase.

Kinda curious about what's going on w/Chicago?
Altho I'm out in the sticks so it may not affect me

chanzep
08-09-2019, 09:55 AM
The thought of moving house is stressing me out. I already gave notice here and found new place. The thought of dealing with my ex is stressing me out too. If I could just hide for 6 months.

JGB2009
08-09-2019, 10:32 AM
This morning I was annoyed with this girl who was a friend on my FB page. I say was cause I blocked her. Shes so racist and flaunts it like no tomorrow. I had enough. Now I don't have to worry about seeing her garbage again!!!!

Glamourmilf
08-09-2019, 10:45 AM
No, I didn't feel like bothering w/it.. I may order on Sephora, they have a lip w/25. 00 purchase.

Kinda curious about what's going on w/Chicago?
Altho I'm out in the sticks so it may not affect me

Its in NWI. In Cicero, they already caught someone about to do it. (I'm trying to screen share, but the app wont do it).
Also, a huge sting is going down at the Westin O'Hare. (she gives the cops photo and phone number, which I'm almost positive I can't share here.)
if you girls aren't on the app called Heaux, I suggest You get on it.
Lots of valuable information on there.

carmen_b
08-09-2019, 11:47 AM
I always trust my intuition. It's hard to think that it led me wrong ( in June when I met J / Mr. Disappointment and kissed him on our first date I had this very strong feeling that " this is home " ). I kept thinking that phrase that night and the following few weeks. I thought it was my intuition speaking to me if that makes sense. I'm not sure why it would lead me to a situation where I was " pulling " at a person for a month to get time with them.

He's trying to see me tonight. I am very hesitant to possibly get let down AGAIN .
I just sent a text saying that if we see each other I am only interested in a relationship not casual dating and seeing each other twice a week minimum when I'm in town.
I said I needed reassurance after not seeing him at all in the July 15-30 range . He didn't offer reassurance .... yet.
Then again .... I do need to drop it on the " you disappeared for two weeks and I hate you " thing if we re-try.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-09-2019, 12:01 PM
I should probably do a thread on this, but for now I'll just post here.

Since I began having my extremely serious medical issues a few years ago, I have been working hard on cutting ties to a lot of my relatives because some of them are financially parasitic and all of them dial up the drama for no reason.

I petty annoyed myself by re-reading some of the emails and facebook messages I've received from these bitches. Yeah it was aggravating but it reminded me of how lucky I am to be so far away from them, and how important it is that I deprive them of any chance to worm into my life in the future.

I have noticed that in Western culture families seem to feel entitled to harrass women all the way to the end of a woman's life for emotional attention or support - I now cringe when I see feel-good stories online or on TV about "making peace with mom/sister/grandma before she dies". Like, what if that's only half of the story? Everyone wants closure and absolution.....

My boyfriend is blissfully unaware of most of this shit. He was my rock when I was getting wheeled into the ER falling over half dead. I had him and a few lifelong best friends supporting me through all that medical drama. NOT any of the dramaqueen shithead females in my family.

TL ; DR - "don't believe every crying woman or limping dog"

carmen_b
08-09-2019, 12:05 PM
^ You know what you need. If your gut is saying to stay away , you KNOW that it's right.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-09-2019, 01:07 PM
^ You know what you need. If your gut is saying to stay away , you KNOW that it's right.

Oh yeah.

It's been RIDICULOUS though. Right after last Halloween my cousin tried calling to start drama when I was dealing with stomach issues (like puking, IBS issues, being curled up on the couch in pain) and I was extremely rude to her. She earned it. I'm sorry she was having a meltdown right then but it doesn't excuse all the petty shit and abuse lobbed my way for years. Thankfully she got the hint and quit bothering me.

NitaBaby
08-09-2019, 01:09 PM
Each summer I'm impressed with how much more I manage to hate this season. The heat is so overbearing and all-encompassing that I die like an iPhone battery by 4pm. It's only 3:10 now and I'm struggling to keep my eyes open.

I would rather be too cold than be too hot.

Elle:)
08-09-2019, 03:41 PM
My big dog is so, so stupid. She tried to eat a giant wasp while I was walking her. Luckily I never take out without a muzzle, however the wasp got angry and chased us. She had no idea whats going on and I had to yell at her and force her to run. Owning a rescue with behavioral issues is not as rewarding as everyone makes it out to be on Instagram.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-09-2019, 04:17 PM
My big dog is so, so stupid. She tried to eat a giant wasp while I was walking her. Luckily I never take out without a muzzle, however the wasp got angry and chased us. She had no idea whats going on and I had to yell at her and force her to run. Owning a rescue with behavioral issues is not as rewarding as everyone makes it out to be on Instagram.

Honestly this would be a great topic for FB groups and forums for pet rescue- sometimes rescue pets due to weird things due to lack of early good training, or just animals being animals.



On topic my dog totally acted terrible when we ran into a neighbor's toy poodle mix. He was bad and I was red faced with shame. Petty annoyance of the week, I have the worst rescue pup on the block.

whirlerz
08-09-2019, 04:44 PM
My car again, I couldn't roll up my window in time, going into a car wash..(manual roll up windows) bc the handle wouldn't work w/the hatchback down? I drove thru it anyway, I had a big plastic sheet I held up, it wasn't open too much, but yeah the water & soap got in.:( A big piece of skin got torn off my finger in the process of trying to get it rolled up..

I'm planning to write a letter to sales mgr @ dealership (for all the good it will do::)) I want them to show me all the damn things on it, as I was not give a manual, & I asked for one. I
I've just been really busy shifting my stuff around in my storage places, & having problems w/that.

I also talked about how my car locked me out (yes, this's a thing, I read about it happening to other people, 1 lady w/her kid in the car). I have bruises from reaching in to unlock it (it was running, very hot out, & I was panicky. I asked for help, including AAA which took over an hr, & I was able to get it open myself, no thanks to the fucking store that I begged for help to.
Just, really really frustrating, when you can't turn off a back windshield wiper, & a whole bunch of minor
stuff.

Some lady at the one storage asked me if I was working, (meaning using the cart that she wanted) I just said, "Absolutely" & she found another..
No, b*, I'm fucking sitting here for my health, hon.

Then roomie asks me (in the height of rush hr) to bring him to the store, for flour & oil. Uh, nope.
He left his broken, giant ass monster TV in the hall, which it'll be there a long ass time. He left kitchen a big mess too, the other guy must have drove him

I'm trying to sign in to this weird ass pso system, I emailed her 4 times so Idk if she already fired me or what, since she already threatened to:

My allergies are in full force today, just took benedryl.
& upstairs couple are smoking up a storm which doesn't help

NitaBaby
08-09-2019, 04:50 PM
I just want some Pho. I've been eating like complete shit and I feel like complete shit. Pho with fried tofu was one of my favorite dishes when I was vegan and I'll never stop wanting another bowl. Why does no one do Pho delivery around here?? I can order McDonalds for christ's sake but nothing that's actually good for me.

baer45
08-09-2019, 05:21 PM
I just want some Pho. I've been eating like complete shit and I feel like complete shit. Pho with fried tofu was one of my favorite dishes when I was vegan and I'll never stop wanting another bowl. Why does no one do Pho delivery around here?? I can order McDonalds for christ's sake but nothing that's actually good for me.

I used to think Pho means beef soup.

NitaBaby
08-09-2019, 05:57 PM
I used to think Pho means beef soup.

Doesn't it though? lol My sister is still vegan but she introduced it to me and always asked for "vegan pho" with vegetable broth so I assumed we were making a special order anytime we bought some.

Hmm...I might try it with beef. It just occurred to me that I've never had a normal bowl.

baer45
08-09-2019, 06:14 PM
Doesn't it though? lol My sister is still vegan but she introduced it to me and always asked for "vegan pho" with vegetable broth so I assumed we were making a special order anytime we bought some.

Hmm...I might try it with beef. It just occurred to me that I've never had a normal bowl.

I am not very adventurous. I always order the one with eye round steak, brisket, and tendon.
"Are you guys ready to order?"
"Yes, I would like to have No.46 please!"

Glamourmilf
08-10-2019, 03:58 AM
Each summer I'm impressed with how much more I manage to hate this season. The heat is so overbearing and all-encompassing that I die like an iPhone battery by 4pm. It's only 3:10 now and I'm struggling to keep my eyes open.

I would rather be too cold than be too hot.

Ditto. I'm right there with you.
Thank God for ac, and my Arctic Air.
51710
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WendiStarr
08-10-2019, 05:17 AM
What used to be a good body rub custie went bad fast once he realized that he's never going to get sex from me. He got mad when I told him that I will never have sex with him and started insulting me. I quit seeing him and for the past week he has been saying he's going to send me a virtual gift card. I don't know why he'd even bother when I said that I no longer want to see him anymore. He said that he sent it but when I checked my email and spam, nothing. He has done this twice now. Either send the gift card, asshole or don't. I'd gladly accept a gift card but doesn't change the fact that you tried to break my boundaries by trying to get me to have sex with you. It doesn't mean that I will see you again. Quit clogging up my inbox with your horseshit about how sorry you are and how you want to make it up to me by sending me a gift card. I'm not even going to respond anymore since it seems he must get off on the free email attention and wasting my time. I don't like guys right now.

NitaBaby
08-10-2019, 06:03 AM
It's laundry day.

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chanzep
08-10-2019, 10:17 AM
The tastiest gluten free bread ever gives me terrible wind. Grr. Now the only one I like I need to order online.
1 good thing is about moving is I won't miss the asshole upstairs. He is so nosy blasting music and playing games all the time loud. I will live on top floor in New apartments.

whirlerz
08-10-2019, 10:29 AM
Wow, that's AWESOME!
I, personally, love the top floor.
Have U tried Trader Joe's for the bread?
I remember seeing a lady buying like a cart full of it.

I probably don't have enuf food to last today

carmen_b
08-10-2019, 12:02 PM
I need to work the club tonight and all I want to eat has a strong smell ( I want a gryo or Indian food ) but can’t ruin my breath . :(
Boring food today.
Go crazy on the spices and garlic tomorrow.

JenniferNorth
08-10-2019, 06:08 PM
I'm trying to sign in to this weird ass pso system, I emailed her 4 times so Idk if she already fired me or what, since she already threatened to:

My allergies are in full force today, just took benedryl.
& upstairs couple are smoking up a storm which doesn't help

What PSO company are you working? You can PM me if you'd rather not say. I've had PSO on the brain a ton, but due to impending death in the family, I'm gonna go indy.

I cannot find pics for a couple of girls I want to use for PSO profiles. I know their names, but I can't find of the specific pics I am looking for. It's so annoying. I'll see if I can get my husband to help me. "Hey babe! Can you look up porn for me?"

Tomorrow we have to go see my inlaws. GMIL is terminally ill with cancer. My MIL is terminal too, but she is being a major C U Next Tuesday to us and her own mother. I'm not looking forward to going.

AChildOfBoredom
08-10-2019, 07:02 PM
I. Can't. FUCKING. take the cig smokers upstairs.
Talked to landlord today, (about 6th time).
They don't always go outside to smoke. 2 heavy smokers, it comes down in my bathroom vents. I have 3 air purifiers, doesn't help much.
Rn I have a box fan in bathroom on high in the bathroom.
I spray every so often w/Ozium. Have gone through 5 large cans.
Yesterday, I was spraying in the kirchen, Mr drunk asks if I farted, I said no, cig smell, & it's going in bathroom. "Oh" he says.
I get bullied as well.
I came home w/groceries (stopped buying them now, except a few things). & I opened side door cause it's closer to kitchen, & Mr. Drunk screaming cause, "I'll let in bugs" ::)
But, yesterday they had huge cookout, & door stayed open the whole time, &, that was OK?::)
IF I try to open 1 of the 2 working windows, they then get shut & locked.
The 1 in kitchen hasn't a screen, (I asked landlord to get 1,we'll see )
Then my door gets knocked on, cause Mr wonderful on 1st floor doesn't like that I parked in 'his' space::) even though no assigned parking.
But drunk beeotch can park there jusr fiiine, ty.

Yes, I'm looking..
Most likely gonna go to a hotel.
Im too freaking nice, I get their mail for them, but that stops Rn.
Mr drunk is now on the hard stuff, along with the beer.
Not gonna lie, scared af here. :O

Thank you

Always room for one more.

JenniferNorth
08-10-2019, 07:05 PM
Oh yeah, go to a hotel for sure. That sounds a lot better. At least there you are in control of the situation, as opposed to weird and crazy people you have to live with or around.

NitaBaby
08-11-2019, 06:21 AM
I've been cramping on and off for two wks now and still no period in sight. Come tf on already.

WendiStarr
08-11-2019, 07:32 AM
Baby's Daddy has been messing with my head. He sends good morning texts, tells me that he hopes I have a good day and that he misses me. Then he turns around talking to me about how he's spent the last 3 days with his alleged ex wife and they're going to be going to a marriage counselor to get back together. She still doesn't know about the baby. I wrote her number down and I'm waiting until the right moment to unleash the bombshell. Maybe I will wait until he's born.

NitaBaby
08-11-2019, 07:36 AM
^It's more dramatic if you show up with a huge stomach. But don't listen to me, I'm childish.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-11-2019, 07:43 AM
Baby's Daddy has been messing with my head. He sends good morning texts, tells me that he hopes I have a good day and that he misses me. Then he turns around talking to me about how he's spent the last 3 days with his alleged ex wife and they're going to be going to a marriage counselor to get back together. She still doesn't know about the baby. I wrote her number down and I'm waiting until the right moment to unleash the bombshell. Maybe I will wait until he's born.

Be careful about your safety. Pregnant women are at a high risk of assault from people who aren't as happy about the "bundle of joy".

Also- I kind of wonder if they both planned this...Could it be a sort of way to have a child via surrogate without telling the surrogate the whole story? I do wonder.

Elle:)
08-11-2019, 10:50 AM
Baby's Daddy has been messing with my head. He sends good morning texts, tells me that he hopes I have a good day and that he misses me. Then he turns around talking to me about how he's spent the last 3 days with his alleged ex wife and they're going to be going to a marriage counselor to get back together. She still doesn't know about the baby. I wrote her number down and I'm waiting until the right moment to unleash the bombshell. Maybe I will wait until he's born.


I don't want to offend you but the way this guy is acting is super weird. Does he know that you know that he is seeing other women? I second that you should be careful. He just seems not to treat the way he should treat somebody who is having his baby. If I were you I would pretend that everything is cool until the baby is born and after that slap him with the highest child support demand possible. I would even consult with a lawyer asap. I am sure there is someone who offers free consultations.


My annoyance- my hair is being acting up really bad for the last month and I have no idea what to do. It's been growing super fast(it's always been almost waist length), it's been looking frizzy, it's been tangled, it's been looking dull. It's not been falling or anything like that, just growing and growing unhealthily. I did home masks, haircut, products from Sephora, drugstore products, Whole foods products, professional products nothing has been working. I have a ton of products I will be returning and I hate doing returns. I feel like I am close to having a Britney moment.

JGB2009
08-11-2019, 11:41 AM
I'm not sure but I think someone on my FB page gave out one of my pics to the person who stalks me. My page is locked up so I have no idea what is going on. FB is the only place that picture is posted at. I am so angry!!!

Elle:)
08-11-2019, 11:56 AM
I have ton of things to do today but I am so tired. I got like 3 hours of sleep last night.

whirlerz
08-12-2019, 10:10 AM
Idk. What.thefuck. roomie cooked, but TG I found my Ozium spray! I need 2 buy stock in the Co. >:(
I need, GIANT, QUADRUPILE SIZE CAN.
THE CIG SMOKE SMELLS BETTER
We no longer have a stove fan, & will never get another!
He buys (on his free acct, pea pod) Idk where their stuff is from!
I already had my box fan aimed at the door.

I guess my next purchase wb a Vornado air purifier, ($100.) even though I have 3 right now.

SO. GROSS, TOTALLY LOST MY APPETITE!

whirlerz
08-12-2019, 10:22 AM
Be careful about your safety. Pregnant women are at a high risk of assault from people who aren't as happy about the "bundle of joy".

Also- I kind of wonder if they both planned this...Could it be a sort of way to have a child via surrogate without telling the surrogate the whole story? I do wonder.

Yes, sorry to say, I get a very bad feeling about this, pls be
careful!

whirlerz
08-12-2019, 10:24 AM
OK, now this person from a phone Co, called me which I wanted.
HOWEVER, I'm stressed the fuck out now, so I'll be watching movies till whenever>:(

Vyanka
08-12-2019, 10:47 AM
I hate being lied to. Such a shitty feeling. Whether it's big or small.. ugh. Hate ppl today.

miss.a.p1600
08-12-2019, 11:42 AM
Went out of my way to see a gynecologist I liked and used in the past.

He apparently left the group practice (and cushy luxury office he was in) to go solo. His new office is decent but not as luxurious and his clientele is ..... shall we say - low class.

And for the longest time he would send holiday cards with pics of him and his dogs and now he has a kid.

And he looks a lot older.

Im shocked by these changes and wondering if I should change doctors

kamiliam
08-12-2019, 11:44 AM
Yes, sorry to say, I get a very bad feeling about this, pls be
careful!

Agreed. Please be keeping receipts of all his nonsense

miss.a.p1600
08-12-2019, 01:40 PM
Baby's Daddy has been messing with my head. He sends good morning texts, tells me that he hopes I have a good day and that he misses me. Then he turns around talking to me about how he's spent the last 3 days with his alleged ex wife and they're going to be going to a marriage counselor to get back together. She still doesn't know about the baby. I wrote her number down and I'm waiting until the right moment to unleash the bombshell. Maybe I will wait until he's born.

Agreed with Snuffle

Slowpoke posted some ridiculous law in Texas where married people can kill their spouses lovers and get away with it. Some states condone that type of violence. And you said the broad knows where you live?!?

It’s better to hit Bertha and the lowdown dude in the pocketbook/wallet.

Don’t get mad, get money (for your kid of course)!

He’s going back to Bertha (which I figured when you said he was lying talking about going out of state with alleged ex wife in two cars to allegedly tell their step daughter they were divorcing and all the time he was spending doing whatever he wanted to do) so now you go consult with the top lawyer on getting child support.

Staci
08-12-2019, 01:58 PM
He’s going back to Bertha (which I figured when you said he was lying talking about going out of state with alleged ex wife in two cars to allegedly tell their step daughter they were divorcing and all the time he was spending doing whatever he wanted to do) so now you go consult with the top lawyer on getting child support.

Hopefully he won't try to take custody of the baby once born. I know that my ex tried using the fact that I was a PSO against me in our divorce/child custody hearing. Even though it is legal sex work, my attorney said that being a PSO could prejudice the judge against me. Thank goodness we were able to reach an agreement mid-trial and it wasn't left to the judge to decide.

This guy may try to use your sex work against you too if he and his wife decide they want custody.

Hopefully nothing like that will happen.

carmen_b
08-12-2019, 02:09 PM
I am having an internal melt down today over great debates ( basically the debate of having a life or hitting $ goals this month ).
They seem so at ODDS with each other this month in particular.

The last time I was in the club ( a few days ago ) I was nearing a meltdown . It was an internal one thankfully. I ended up making just enough to cover my hotel and leaving which is embarrassing ( to be " that girl " giving up on the game early in the night which is basically just wasting time ). Oh well. It's not often I do that and I just felt so strongly in that moment that I couldn't talk to these dudes for one more minute. Plus the night was " bad " and I wasn't the only one giving up on it. It was almost a miracle I held it together to even pay for the hotel cost and club fees.

One of my vanilla business websites is down. Malware. WTF ? I pay someone for this . ;/

Anyway .... I'm sure there is more lol but I'll end this here.
Basically .... I need $500 more by the 15th to stay on track with $ but I'm tired AF.
I hate to admit it but I hope the day job rustles that cash up ..... I kind of do not want to be in the club aug. 13/14. I have other things I want to do !

WendiStarr
08-12-2019, 03:23 PM
I hate how all these people know that I'm moving this week and are trying to make plans to hang out this week. Yes, we can hang out if you'd like to come over and help me pack and get the place ready to move. I'm moving this week. I'm almost packed and ready but still need to fill in the holes from nails and such. I went ahead and hired professional movers so that's -$300, which I'm not happy about but I need reliable help that will actually show up. I don't want to be like last time where 15 friends and relatives promised to show up and on the day of, only my brother and a friend with a hernia and bad back were the only 2 who came through.

whirlerz
08-12-2019, 03:52 PM
Don't laugh
Well, I feel like 1 dumb ass __..

This roomie, he bought a brand new flat screen tv, an X box, & whatever else..
He just asked me for a ride the other day, & I said no (he has no car). He just went off w/the guy upstairs, wh/ev
Meanwhile, I like a jerk gave him rides, $ for laundry, actual coffee, laundry soap, bought him a coffeemaker..little stuff but still
Last week, @ the last minute, he asks me to help w/the Pea pod delivery, (groceries), so yea I let the guy in (the side door stays mostly unlocked tho) tipped him, & put his shit away! He had a therapy session (injury for the lawsuit)

THE FUCK IS WRONG w/me, seriously??
He must've gotten some $ from his lawsuit, I mean good for him, but I'm just pissed @myself for letting me be used like this:'(

I feel like taking it back (coffeemaker) & giving it to Good will or somewhere, yeah maybe that's ignorant:-[:'(

AChildOfBoredom
08-12-2019, 05:40 PM
I let the Irish woman use my car last night, but she left the parking lights on (totally unnecessary for her to turn them on manually, by the way), and she drained the battery. So I had to drive this massive pickup today, which was fine for going to work, but I had to run errands afterwards. I live in a city, and this isn’t the ideal city vehicle.

NitaBaby
08-12-2019, 06:21 PM
I don't know what's wrong with me. Maybe I've been eating worse than i thought. I'm so tired that i can feel my heart beating if i stand up, like I'm running instead of walking. I don't want to move. I don't want to think. I'm nauseous asf. I gotta pee like im 9 months pregnant. Something's wrong with me. I'm going to sleep.

WendiStarr
08-12-2019, 07:10 PM
^ You sound like you're pregnant. Take a test?

miss.a.p1600
08-12-2019, 10:48 PM
Hopefully he won't try to take custody of the baby once born. I know that my ex tried using the fact that I was a PSO against me in our divorce/child custody hearing. Even though it is legal sex work, my attorney said that being a PSO could prejudice the judge against me. Thank goodness we were able to reach an agreement mid-trial and it wasn't left to the judge to decide.

This guy may try to use your sex work against you too if he and his wife decide they want custody.

Hopefully nothing like that will happen.


True dat.

It’s Best to try mediation first and most lawyers will never suggest it cause they love to litigate and get more money for themselves

but like you say hopefully things stay peaceful and agreeable without lawyers.

Also unless the dude is a monk then 9 times out of ten he got some skeletons that could affect his custody as well. If you don’t know any - hire private investigator to trail him around or deep cybersearch and you’ll find some dirt to prove the dude is unfit for custody. Ijs

Move to another state or the opposite side of the same state - for work of course - (before the dude files any legal papers) And then breastfeed as long as possible lol!