View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
08-20-2019, 03:59 PM
^ Aw, thanks for that.
I am confused because I don't see what they feel they have to gain from it. She and I have been close for 9 years but separated now by where we live ( we only see each other a few times a year ). My ex now lives on the East coast. Why not show that support like everyone else did ( we had 12-14 FB friends together that all unfriended him after he announced his " new relationship " ..... the one he promised me he wasn't in ).
I think I know what this is about .... I'm OCD about numbers and dates and he broke up with me on Aug. 22 last year .
I'm going to try to make sure this week has a lot of activity and distractions.
Yes, I think they invited him to ski once ( I don't ski ) and then invited me to dinner last winter . I'm glad everyone else showed support for my side ...... it's just those two.
WendiStarr
08-21-2019, 07:17 AM
I find it annoying how illiterate some men are. In my fbsm ads I can put "NO FS!" and dumbasses will still ask if fs is an option. In my vanilla modeling page, I clearly typed in my bio that I am currently pregnant. I've not done any photo shoots since becoming pregnant so any photos of me are at least 4 months old. Obviously I have a belly right now so they are me, but without the belly. I got a swimsuit modeling offer. I messaged the guy back, wanting to make sure that he read where I said that I'm pregnant. People don't usually request swimsuit modeling of a pregnant model, unless they're shooting fetish/niche stuff, which I'm fine with, but I wanted to make sure that he knew. His response? "Eww" With the vanilla housekeeping, I still get requests for nude photos and fs, just because I'm female, I guess. I also get the douchecanoes who want to chat and ask me personal questions like, "How old are you?", "Are you single?". What the hell are these dudes doing pulling that crap on a website specifically for house cleaning, babysitting, and dog walking? I put on this domestic chores site "Please do not contact me about services unrelated to home or office cleaning." These asshats need to learn how to read instead of using the little head in their pants to think with!
miss.a.p1600
08-21-2019, 08:17 AM
^most people are stupid! Especially on the internet.
I put an ad for people to work on my team and had clear simple steps. 2 STEPS mind you. And they can't even get that right.
In my mind Im like "I remember how much of a go-getter I was when I was job/career searching and when there were clear easy instructions I followed them to ensure my position, why can't you do the same?"
I guess their stupidity and ignorance is disqualifying them right off the bat
lurkingtitties
08-21-2019, 08:57 AM
I got a swimsuit modeling offer. I messaged the guy back, wanting to make sure that he read where I said that I'm pregnant. People don't usually request swimsuit modeling of a pregnant model, unless they're shooting fetish/niche stuff, which I'm fine with, but I wanted to make sure that he knew. His response? "Eww"
wow are you fucking kidding me? I would have ripped that guy a new one. Fucking misogynist manchild scumbag. Ugh!
JenniferNorth
08-21-2019, 05:39 PM
Wendi, that is so vile you are on a totally vanilla site and these pervs are going there, likely looking for women to prey on! OMG sick! I am so sorry you are dealing with that. Some days I really hate people. I too, do not understand why people cannot read or follow basic directions. It pisses me off.
I found out today I need to start a lunch account for my daughter. Every week her private school orders a lunch out, and today she was very upset that she could not have the hot lunch they got (I sent her a packed lunch, her friend got a hot one, and the TA told me about it). UGH. I still have to buy her back to school clothes (still hot where we live so we haven't gone shopping yet) and get her enrolled in tumbling and ballet again. Everything costs so damn much.
I am upset I am not preggo yet. My miscarriage in April left me depressed for a long time. Now my husband's family shit is making it hard to get in the mood for babymaking. I want to scream. I also feel like we go through the motions and I miss the old days of hot sex.
My husband's mom won't talk to her son. She is supposed to take care of her mother, who is telling my husband that she doesn't think MIL will take her for her cancer treatments, because they are early, and MIL likes to sleep late. GMIL is saying that she will have chemo for seven months, every day?? I asked my retired nurse mother and she was like "noooo? I mean that is too much on the body with non-stop treatment". GMIL has very advanced cancer and is over 90. I think it is obvious to the rest of us she will not live that long, but I also think she is getting very confused easily now, and is also afraid of her daughter/MIL.
I swear to god, I am ready to go drinking or something. I feel like my life is full of pissy annoyances right now in every aspect. From money to sex to my fucking In-laws who REFUSE to call us to tell us what is going on, because they want us to PERSONALLY reach out and do all the work, which I find so beyond offensive.
Thanks for letting me vent.
whirlerz
08-21-2019, 06:18 PM
I tried a bunch of new face primers in order to make my makeup look even better and it totally backfired on me. My skin reacted super badly and my whole face is covered with inflamed acne. I feel like I am 12 again.
Ooh, what did you use? Are you by chance allergic?
I bought a primer by Catrice (Ulta, lower priced) I haven't tried it yet, it's a hydrating one.
I know some of them have silicone in them.
Elle:)
08-21-2019, 08:06 PM
Ooh, what did you use? Are you by chance allergic?
Bare minerals prime time, Cover fix water cloud primer, Smashbox photo finish pore and The Ordinary high adherence
NitaBaby
08-22-2019, 06:08 AM
After exercising patience with Skyprivate's support team...and after 8+ months of not even using my account because their system would not accept my updated skype info.....everything is finally fix. But now I can't log in to BolyenModel? I want to reassign my skyprivate account under their studio again but my laptop AND my phone keep giving an error message. UGH.
Glamourmilf
08-22-2019, 08:37 AM
After exercising patience with Skyprivate's support team...and after 8+ months of not even using my account because their system would not accept my updated skype info.....everything is finally fix. But now I can't log in to BolyenModel? I want to reassign my skyprivate account under their studio again but my laptop AND my phone keep giving an error message. UGH.
I've been trying to reach them on Skype. If you hear back, please tell them to check their messages. (Bolyen)
Staci
08-22-2019, 09:45 AM
Bare minerals prime time, Cover fix water cloud primer, Smashbox photo finish pore and The Ordinary high adherence
I found that Bare Minerals makes my face itchy - especially in hot, humid weather. I had to totally give it up.
whirlerz
08-22-2019, 12:39 PM
I found that Bare Minerals makes my face itchy - especially in hot, humid weather. I had to totally give it up.
Yes. I find that stuff way too drying. It's just not for some.
& I've tried it in more than 1 brand so..
Anyway.
Yesterday, my bldg was visited by 2 cops. They were parole officers, according to roomie.
Who were asking about a place for rent, "to help someone out"?::).
There is a room upstairs, however, seems like we're at capacity here, since the guy upstairs has his girlfriend. But, of course not my call to make.
Great, lovely. If that one guy that was kicked out of here comes back I'm out. The crackhead.
I know, time to go, I'm working on it.
I mean, things were just settling down.
We'll see.
Glamourmilf
08-23-2019, 07:31 AM
I met up with one of my gay husbands at Starbucks yesterday after cam.
I was already annoyed because he was late. It was packed and noisy in there. The music was blaring and people were staring.
I probably shouldn't have gone, because I had just completed 25 hours on cam required to get a bonus.
Anyhoo.
When I got home, I get a voicemail, and a follow-up text from gay husband.
He tells me that a guy he's dating has a nephew who just lost his job.
Can I get him a job with the collection agency that I work for? Because he wants a stay at home job.
:O:O:O:O:O
Wait. What?
Why in the world would I do that?
He never even met the nephew, OR has even been to his lover's house. They live a distance away and don't want him to come over.
OMG!
I am SOOOO sick and tired of people using me for what I can do for them!!
*I don't have that job. It's my 'cover' job that I tell people I do!!!
He's my colorist, so I want to be delicate on how I handle this.
I'm going to tell him that they aren't hiring, and are, in fact laying people off. Due to the upcoming recession.
God damn it!!
What ever happened to 2 people getting together without expectations of what they can suck out of each other?
51783
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-23-2019, 08:30 AM
I met up with one of my gay husbands at Starbucks yesterday after cam.
I was already annoyed because he was late. It was packed and noisy in there. The music was blaring and people were staring.
I probably shouldn't have gone, because I had just completed 25 hours on cam required to get a bonus.
Anyhoo.
When I got home, I get a voicemail, and a follow-up text from gay husband.
He tells me that a guy he's dating has a nephew who just lost his job.
Can I get him a job with the collection agency that I work for? Because he wants a stay at home job.
:O:O:O:O:O
Wait. What?
Why in the world would I do that?
He never even met the nephew, OR has even been to his lover's house. They live a distance away and don't want him to come over.
OMG!
I am SOOOO sick and tired of people using me for what I can do for them!!
*I don't have that job. It's my 'cover' job that I tell people I do!!!
He's my colorist, so I want to be delicate on how I handle this.
I'm going to tell him that they aren't hiring, and are, in fact laying people off. Due to the upcoming recession.
God damn it!!
What ever happened to 2 people getting together without expectations of what they can suck out of each other?
51783
My advice, join a social club where the activity is about friendly competition, not social networking or using favors from people. (Example- gardening clubs, board games/chess matches, swim teams, leaning to play an instrument...etc.)
My petty annoyance- this morning I had a full on auditory hallucination. YES I am not going to claim there was an paranormal aspect to what I heard. I went to bed last night upset/crying over something important (an anniversary that is coming up) & so this morning I naturally still had that on my mind. I'm glad life is stable enough that I don't have to be quietly freaking out in the break room over this like I would have at my old job lol.
carmen_b
08-23-2019, 09:00 AM
I was using Tinder to advertise as a massage girl ( and then via message dancer ) . It worked really well a couple weekends.
Of course, that account got shut down . ;/
I got a new account going , but it's my real account . I don't want to get it shut down.
I wonder if there are any brilliant work arounds for this ...... I think I would need a new google voice # or new FB to log in ( I only have once of each , real life + sex work life ).
Thought #2 ....... I hate staying up past midnight. It's dinging me as a dancer which is why I need my day time side hustles .
Aurora_Sunset
08-23-2019, 01:02 PM
I'm starting to feel self-conscious every time I contact maintenance for something, because it's been so much since we moved in 2 months ago, but... it's not my fault everything is shitty around here. In the past 2 weeks, the dishwasher tripped off and stopped working, and they had to patch the shower above ours because a leak was starting to come through our ceiling. Now, our water heater isn't working - again.
They always fix things super quickly, which I'm grateful for. I know I shouldn't feel bad - it's not like I'm complaining about stupid stuff like squeaky doors or a dent in the wall. But it feels like that Batman-Joker meme where's he's like "Hi, me again." lol
whirlerz
08-23-2019, 03:07 PM
Anyway.
Yesterday, my bldg was visited by 2 cops. They were parole officers, according to roomie.
Who were asking about a place for rent, "to help someone out"?::).
There is a room upstairs, however, seems like we're at capacity here, since the guy upstairs has his girlfriend. But, of course not my call to make.
Great, lovely.
I know, time to go, I'm working on it.
I mean, things were just settling down.
We'll see.[/QUOTE]
So, now this parolee moved in already.^ The other tenant told me, I didn't ask anything, but not feeling great about it.
Haven't seen the person.:(
I mentioned being afraid (of rape & of course being ripped off) & this one tenant smiled, so did my 'friend'.
Nice.
WendiStarr
08-23-2019, 03:36 PM
The dumpy, overpriced apartment that I moved out of is trying to charge me $50 for a pool gate card and $50 for a laundry card. I never used the pool. I considered it once until I saw the sign saying that it was closed due to somebody pooping in the pool. I also never bothered purchasing a laundry card because it seemed too ridiculous to me to have to pay $20 for a card, just to use a dirty, poorly lit creepy room that had moldy walls and ceilings, smelled like mildew, and had garbage littered all over the floor. I always went to the laundromat instead. I went off on them about their $50 fees because I said it's funny how they are quick to charge people $50 fees over stupid bullshit like this, yet they can't even fix any issues in their apartments for their tenants and have health hazards up the ass with endless water damage on ceilings, and black mold. The dumb bitch in the office said that if I can find the cards, I will get my money back. How can I produce a card that I never had in the first place(the laundry card) and as for the pool gate card, I'm sure that's in my junk drawer. It annoys me that this means I will have to take another trip back to that awful apartment complex to drop it off in person. I would mail it except I feel like they'd be the kind of crooked bastards who would get it in the mail, claim they never received it, and charge me $50 for it anyways. Smh. I highly doubt they're going to give me my deposit back $ back since they love charging fees up the ass.
whirlerz
08-23-2019, 05:46 PM
I was in Walmart & used the self checkout. Big mistake, when I put in a 100.bill & change, it made a weird sound like it was shredding, then shut the fuck down??
I had to wait awhile for a Mgr, then the machine had to be opened up w/2 keys, bill had tb dug out, then verified, phew!, ::)
Whole process took about 1/2hr..
The one lady told me the bill must've been crumpled, nope, crisp & brand new.
Jeez>:(
Aurora_Sunset
08-24-2019, 05:39 AM
I always sleep like shit the first night the kids are over. Maybe by the second night I'm just too tired to care? Idk, but Friday nights always suck.
I don't really fall asleep in the first place, because I know - KNOW - that the 4 year old will come whimpering into our bedroom 3 hours after her bedtime, almost on the dot. Husband keeps saying he's putting a stop to it, but he's rarely the one to wake up - I am. And I'm done marching her back to her room, because even when he does wake up, 50% of the time, he says he's "too tired" to follow through on it, so why waste my time and energy on something that isn't consistent? Like last night. She crawls in between us and starts kicking me off the bed. I'm just about to get up and move to the couch, so he finally does something - which is to move her to the other side of him. Well, cool, she's not kicking me, but we still have 3 people in a bed that barely fits the 2 of us, so I'm still not comfortable. Barely fall asleep when hubby decides he can't sleep lying down cuz his sinuses are bothering him, so after inviting the 4 year old to bed, he wiggles out and goes to the living room for the rest of the night, which results in her immediately moving over and taking up the entire rest of the bed and bicycle-kicking me in the kidneys without a barrier.
Then, she wakes up right as I'm falling back asleep again and goes tearing down the hall looking for daddy. So I get up and shut the door. Maybe some peace and quiet at 5am? Nope, because as soon as I'm falling back asleep again, she comes back in the bedroom just to make a lap, leave the fucking door wide open and then flip on the bathroom light and loudly declare she needs to go potty...
Get up and shut it again. Almost asleep again when the door is opened again and now the 4 year old is playing Barbies on my bed... while I'm obviously still trying to sleep. I have to start practically yelling at her to get out and go play in the living room for husband to hear and come get her, and ONLY then, will she listen and get the hell out. But you know 30 minutes later, she'll open that fucking door again, push the Barbie car in here, and loudly demand to know why I'm still "sleeping..."
I know she's a toddler, but by 4, I expect a certain awareness of boundaries, personal space, and LISTENING that she just doesn't possess to any capacity, and it's starting to wear on me. We've talked about it multiple times, but every time I try to follow a plan to change the behaviors, he ends up caving and feeling bad for being "mean." It's been 8 months of me saying she needs to learn to stay in her own room now, and 2 months of him "trying to change it," with no change whatsoever. I know my expectations are contrary to the way they raised their kids - with this open-door policy where they're always allowed in the adults' bedroom and bed, but I'm not about that life. I'm not trying to be mean when she gets all confused and asks "Why am I not allowed to be in your room?" because that's what she's used to, but I don't think it should be considered that "terrible" to expect a reasonable degree of privacy when it's not like they're infants who need constant supervision and help. I don't even tell her she can't be in here - just NOT WHEN I'M SLEEPING.
Then, when I finally pull myself out of bed and just instantly get dressed and say I'm going out to Uber if I can't sleep, he gets all pouty and butthurt that I'm leaving early in the morning. Like, would it be better if I sat here, clearly tired and grumpy as hell and just glared at all 3 of you for the fact that I got 3 hours of sleep total in 45-minute chunks?
#notakidperson Not a huge fan of them at this age.
miss.a.p1600
08-24-2019, 08:17 AM
I’m trying to get gas and this mf comes running out his booth to tell me I’m “going the wrong way it’s one way direction”
In my mind I’m like look heaux I’m not waiting in these long ass lines plus hardly anyone has their gas tank on passenger side
NitaBaby
08-24-2019, 09:32 AM
Just finished season 2 of The Handmaid's Tale and I am officially over June's shit. I want to shake her. I get why she's staying but now I'm mad. You don't know how long their trip will be for or how long they'll need to be lowkey...how is the baby supposed to fucking eat.
Glamourmilf
08-25-2019, 09:52 AM
My advice, join a social club where the activity is about friendly competition, not social networking or using favors from people. (Example- gardening clubs, board games/chess matches, swim teams, leaning to play an instrument...etc.)
Thank You very much for that great suggestion.
I am totally down with doing that, and could see how that would be a great way to meet people.
I belong to a couple of photography groups, which are great.
I just started video conferencing with a woman who teaches marketing skills ( which will be helpful with my second artistic endeavor).
The woman who runs it and I just lost our beloved mothers. We bonded instantly.
The real issue for me, is that I'm not really looking for friends to hang out with.
Camming is so 'people' intensive, that, for an introvert like me, it's enough interaction with humans.
Does that make any kind of sense?
I had to step back and look at the fact that I don't enjoy myself when I'm engaged in small talk or drama.
Which is all done usually in a brightly lit, noisy environment.
Perhaps if I was completely retired, (like most people that I meet), it would be different.
I'm a loner.
People are always finding excuses to talk to me when I'm out.
So, I'm never really alone, or lonely.
whirlerz
08-25-2019, 11:03 AM
Damn it!
WHY'D I have to get a good look @my hot neighbor..
Now I want some of that 4 myself..
But, thats a big drama no, involving self w/co-neighbor (we have same landlord :()
Aurora_Sunset
08-26-2019, 07:35 AM
My husband's ex-wife's new husband has now tried sending us Facebook friend requests like 5 times now in the past couple months. He just keeps re-sending them... Like, we're ignoring you on purpose, moron.
It's one thing for them to try to send the initial friend request, but we don't have to be fucking facebook friends if we don't want to. Why is so goddam important to him?
I already know the guy is this up-his-own-ass, control freak with a penchant for childish fake-number phone "pranks." And now he thinks he's gonna bully us into being his facebook friend by just constantly sending the friend request... Fuck off.
NitaBaby
08-26-2019, 07:39 AM
My husband's ex-wife's new husband has now tried sending us Facebook friend requests like 5 times now in the past couple months. He just keeps re-sending them... Like, we're ignoring you on purpose, moron.
It's one thing for them to try to send the initial friend request, but we don't have to be fucking facebook friends if we don't want to. Why is so goddam important to him?
I already know the guy is this up-his-own-ass, control freak with a penchant for childish fake-number phone "pranks." And now he thinks he's gonna bully us into being his facebook friend by just constantly sending the friend request... Fuck off.
My next step would be to block him. That sounds annoying.
carmen_b
08-26-2019, 09:49 AM
^ Block them both Aurora. What good is staying in touch ( I mean beyond having to deal with then exchanging the kids )?
Then it just becomes an inauthentic war posting photos to show who is " happier ".
carmen_b
08-26-2019, 09:50 AM
Damn it.
Day job is 90% mobile during Sept.
WHY did I have to take a piece in person ( it's a 5 hour drive , 7 hour job , then 5 hour drive back ). It's Sept. 13
Sept. 13 is DINGING my ability to travel for a WHOLE month but I already told the client it would be me . Sending another team member would be bad form at this point. ;/
NitaBaby
08-26-2019, 02:01 PM
Ima need my child to pay attention.
If her 6 year old sister can hear it every time they call for walkers than why can't she. The whole point of having them as walkers is so I can drive up 10 minutes before school lets out and still get them before they dismiss car riders. Versus having to sit in that long ass car line an hour and a half early just to be one of the first parents there. Purpose defeated if i have to keep walking into the school and searching for you because you aren't paying attention when they ask walkers to go to their designated area. The principle knows me well now and it's clear that it's not any of the school officials fault. She's just not taking it seriously.
Cool. This happens again tomorrow then I've already told her that she might as well go straight to bed. Like, c'mon already. School has been in session for a whole week now. We come back after looking for you for 20 minutes and the car is all hot again. This isn't amusing.
carmen_b
08-26-2019, 05:31 PM
I'm having a hard time balancing stripping and the day job.
I got a day job customer who may purchase ( my commission is $661 on purchase and $661in 14- 30 days ) .
I trudged through getting the contract ready at 5 p.m.
The old me would have had it done and sent at 9:01 a.m.
Now a million questions later ( ok, maybe more like 10-12 back and forth questions ) ...... and I might get a sale .
I get like this ( listless for day job stuff ) after dancer trips sometimes.
My last one wasn't even particularly brag worthy ......................
UPDATE : ^ They bought ! Yeah ! At least takes some pressure off what I need from the club this week.
I guess it *IS* good to do both.
I think I have come up with an idea ..... just dance Thurs. / Fri .
I will work three solid 8.5 hour work blocks Mon - Wed to fully focus , then work day stuff just a couple hours Thurs. / Fri. before the club .
I *think* the plan would allow a semi - normal weekend ( Sat. off after 2:30 off factoring sleeping in and driving back and Sun. off entire day ).
Just feeling the struggle. My club is three hours away.
lynn2009
08-26-2019, 06:20 PM
I tried to make vegan pad Thai at home and it turned out like shit.
Elektra Luxx
08-26-2019, 09:19 PM
I tried to make vegan pad Thai at home and it turned out like shit.
You could say "it didn't turn out very good."
Aurora_Sunset
08-27-2019, 08:01 AM
Sick with a shitty head cold. 4-year old had it. Then husband, who swore the other day that it was his "allergies." It wasn't. Because now I have it. The only bright spot is that I know it was only kinda bad congestion for a couple days, then it starts clearing up. Just sucks that of course my worst 2 days of it are on the 2 days I'm working 12-hour shifts.
WendiStarr
08-27-2019, 08:31 AM
I'm highly annoyed that somebody used my first and last name and city name, as well as a vanilla screen name that I normally go by to create an account on some website called pixocuddle.club. Whoever did it posted a picture of a naked female porn star as my profile picture. I contacted the website, letting them know that someone created that pretending to be me and asking them to please remove it. They didn't respond back and it's been almost a week. Ugh! I've been applying to vanilla jobs. What if a future vanilla employer Googles my name and finds that? It pisses me off and I wish I knew how to hack so that I could take that down.
Update: I talked with a lawyer friend who told me what to say to them. It worked! They took it down within an hour.
whirlerz
08-27-2019, 09:13 AM
That sucks Wendi!
I'm on tumbler, &, they had something about this, don't remember the content tho.
I can try to search for it.
Anyway I'm so pissed @roomie, I was talking about the rape post &, well let's just say he's not exactly on our side.>:(
Glamourmilf
08-27-2019, 09:18 AM
My neighbors need to either be more quiet, or move.
After a grueling week on cam, which continued yesterday, they start their b.s.
Their non stop noise making started at 7 am, and continued until well after midnight.
Banging cabinet doors, running the garbage disposal every few minutes, hammering into the wall well after 11 pm.
It's enough all ready.
Get a freaking JOB!!
DO something with your life!
Go out!
chanzep
08-27-2019, 11:52 AM
I'm so sad , nobody is getting back to me and I need advice !
My moving is going wrong. I was supposed to originally move yesterday I had to change it until Friday. My new apartment is giving me off vibes. I was trying to make a payment last week. The payment system down !. They said as long as I paid by yesterday all is well. They said payment systems would be fixed by yesterday and they would call me.
Yesterday they did not call me I called them. They did not apologize and sent they would send me email link for payment. They did not!.
Today I call them and some guy answer I ask him what's going on and said the moving process is stressing me out. He starts talking over me and says the apartment changed management last week! . Only 1 person remains, he sounds like he laughing at me. He said they will send me email link, I asked who new manager was and said I would like to talk to them, he puts me in hold then hangs up!
I call back and speak to another person who said manager is busy , they said they will email me link then they say system still down. They say I can pay when I move in I say how they say hopefully system is working or I can go get a money order!.
I am having doubts to move in here now. I have had other doubts. I even asked current apartment if I could get a new lease .there is a new manager here who is a bitch . She got mad because on moving out notice I expressed his happy I was with upstairs neighbors. Who have moved. She tried to offer me a short lease and discourage me to stay here because head office saw what I wrote and she got in trouble she said! So unprofessional .
Im.not sure what to do I have to decide today. This move is also expensive.
I'm so fed up of having nobody to talk to.
New apartment is in a another city. I am fed up of this 1 but new complex office are bothering me. A few weeks ago phone lines were down a whole weekend. I need a efficient place to live grr.
Glamourmilf
08-28-2019, 05:52 AM
^^I feel everything you are going through on a cellular level, because I've been there over 25x
Moving is stressful enough as it is. The added b.s. and glitches make it even worse.
In hindsight, I realized the saying, "How you start is how you end" to be so accurate.
If it were me, I would cancel the lease, put my things in storage.
I would stay at an Airbnb until I found a place I'm comfortable with renting.
Is that an option that you would consider?
On a somewhat related note.
A buddy of mine is always bugging me to buy a house. How it would be a great investment.
Even though I've explained that I don't want the responsibility/ maintenance/ high taxes of one.
I've listened to him bitch for 10 years about things breaking down. How he hates his house because of it. How much money he's always dropping on repairs.
Now, he's selling it.
He tells me that he needs to make 100 thousand profit for it to be worth it.
Bitch, just saving that amount each week for the last 10 years would have been easier!
He makes 10 grand a month, and his expenses are only half of that.
Get off of my back about how I should buy a house.
Not going to happen.
If I took out a mortgage now, I'd be 90 when it's paid off!
Provided I never get sick, or something happens to my ability to make the payments.
WendiStarr
08-28-2019, 06:13 AM
**TMI warning* My tummy started cramping really bad this morning. I went potty and when I wiped, I saw bright red blood. I started freaking out until I realized that it was coming from backside. I have hemorrhoids, I'm guessing. I have an Ob/gyn appointment today anyways, but man, seeing blood is unsettling.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-28-2019, 06:57 AM
**TMI warning* My tummy started cramping really bad this morning. I went potty and when I wiped, I saw bright red blood. I started freaking out until I realized that it was coming from backside. I have hemorrhoids, I'm guessing. I have an Ob/gyn appointment today anyways, but man, seeing blood is unsettling.
Ask for prescription strength cream- it's way better than over the counter cream for roids.
JGB2009
08-28-2019, 09:38 AM
Dumb ass prick......my emotions are so fucked up!!!!
miss.a.p1600
08-28-2019, 10:29 AM
Anyone want to trade families?
Aurora_Sunset
08-28-2019, 12:09 PM
I think today is worse than yesterday... I almost wish I was still stuffed up, because today is the day where everything is running and draining out - constantly sneezing, dripping, and blowing my nose every 2 minutes. There's a yummy visual for ya'll. lol
Aurora_Sunset
08-28-2019, 12:24 PM
I'm getting really irritated with the new vanilla job that both me and husband were supposed to start. When we couldn't get into the June training class, we were confident we'd know something concrete by the end of August because I figured the latest we would start the next round would be September. And still so far, no real information. We still get emails every other week, saying we're still on the waiting list, and something about once a month asking us to reply that we're still interested.
I'm starting to get seriously annoyed that my "short summer break" from fulltime employment has turned into this chasm of uncertainty with Uber money, no medical insurance, and not being to tell friends or family any definitive schedule when they want to plan things ahead of time for fall, cuz who fucking knows if I'll be employed/training by then or not.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-28-2019, 12:30 PM
I'm getting really irritated with the new vanilla job that both me and husband were supposed to start. When we couldn't get into the June training class, we were confident we'd know something concrete by the end of August because I figured the latest we would start the next round would be September. And still so far, no real information. We still get emails every other week, saying we're still on the waiting list, and something about once a month asking us to reply that we're still interested.
I'm starting to get seriously annoyed that my "short summer break" from fulltime employment has turned into this chasm of uncertainty with Uber money, no medical insurance, and not being to tell friends or family any definitive schedule when they want to plan things ahead of time for fall, cuz who fucking knows if I'll be employed/training by then or not.
Have you looked at dispatcher jobs? You can PM me if you don't want to discuss this on here.....
miss.a.p1600
08-28-2019, 01:34 PM
my sole fin Dom client usually calls in once a month....I haven't heard from him in a couple months...hope he's okay
and when he comes back, his wallet will be making up for lost time.
WendiStarr
08-28-2019, 01:50 PM
Today was the last straw with my Ob/gyn. She managed to somehow get my blood test results switched with someone else. I know my blood type and the results that she had were not accurate. I also know that I did have exposure to chickenpox before, when this bogus doctor tried to tell me that I should be careful because she could tell from my blood tests that I've never been exposed to chickenpox and had no immunity to it. As a matter of fact I came down with it the night before my mom's wedding and she still got married. I walked down the aisle as the flower girl, covered in chickenpox, itching and scratching up a storm. I remember this because she called up people before the wedding and said not to show up unless they'd had chickenpox before because my brother and I both had it. She tried saying that the blood work came back that I had hypothyroid. After all that she took my blood pressure and was like,"Oh, 140/80! You have high blood pressure? Are you on medication for it?" At that point, I was so pissed that I was shaking and ready to punch her lights out. No, as a matter of fact I normally have low blood pressure but when I have someone telling me a bunch of stuff at once that I know is bullshit/inaccurate, yeah my bp is going to shoot up. How do some of these doctors even manage to get their licenses?
Elektra Luxx
08-28-2019, 03:05 PM
I kid around with my co-workers all the time in a inappropriate way so I guess I opened myself to this. I hang with two guy co-workers in particular. One kids around but is still respectful the other inappropriate one is okay most of the time, but insists on following me when I walk up the stairs and pretends to grab my butt. I don't smoke, but I join these two often for a smoke break. Today I say "Anyone have an unfiltered cigarette?" The inappropriate one says "my dick is unfiltered!" I ignore him, but he keeps saying it over and over like I didn't hear him and is laughing because he knows I'm ignoring him. The respectful one says "she's ignoring you." I really get along with the inappropriate one. He makes me laugh all time and he has been very kind, but he can be such an asshole sometimes.
lynn2009
08-28-2019, 05:57 PM
I kid around with my co-workers all the time in a inappropriate way so I guess I opened myself to this. I hang with two guy co-workers in particular. One kids around but is still respectful the other inappropriate one is okay most of the time, but insists on following me when I walk up the stairs and pretends to grab my butt. I don't smoke, but I join these two often for a smoke break. Today I say "Anyone have an unfiltered cigarette?" The inappropriate one says "my dick is unfiltered!" I ignore him, but he keeps saying it over and over like I didn't hear him and is laughing because he knows I'm ignoring him. The respectful one says "she's ignoring you." I really get along with the inappropriate one. He makes me laugh all time and he has been very kind, but he can be such an asshole sometimes.
Fucking ew (him, not you).
Mine:
1. People who can't stay in their own lane when multiple lanes of traffic are turning left at the same time.
2. One woman I work with, she is such an unbearable asshole about EVERYTHING.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-29-2019, 06:39 AM
Today was the last straw with my Ob/gyn. She managed to somehow get my blood test results switched with someone else. I know my blood type and the results that she had were not accurate. I also know that I did have exposure to chickenpox before, when this bogus doctor tried to tell me that I should be careful because she could tell from my blood tests that I've never been exposed to chickenpox and had no immunity to it. As a matter of fact I came down with it the night before my mom's wedding and she still got married. I walked down the aisle as the flower girl, covered in chickenpox, itching and scratching up a storm. I remember this because she called up people before the wedding and said not to show up unless they'd had chickenpox before because my brother and I both had it. She tried saying that the blood work came back that I had hypothyroid. After all that she took my blood pressure and was like,"Oh, 140/80! You have high blood pressure? Are you on medication for it?" At that point, I was so pissed that I was shaking and ready to punch her lights out. No, as a matter of fact I normally have low blood pressure but when I have someone telling me a bunch of stuff at once that I know is bullshit/inaccurate, yeah my bp is going to shoot up. How do some of these doctors even manage to get their licenses?
She must be a Physician's Assistant.
Sorry that happened.
Glamourmilf
08-29-2019, 08:23 AM
I was invited to join a ladies only day yesterday.
Reluctantly I agreed to go.
I really can't stand one of the bitches who's here visiting from LA. But, I love my friend who put it together.
Right away the LA bitch places herself next to me at the pool we went to.
She said the opposite of everything I was saying.:-\
I was having such a shitty time. My friend, who was sitting on the other side of me, was talking really fast, nonstop.
Kill me now!
I broke away from the group, went over to eat by myself under the water misters ( it was an annoying 112 degrees out).
I immediately felt better.
Well, THAT lasted 2 minutes. The towel girl comes over and starts blabbing to me.
I came home, headachy and drained to the max.
I tried to cam, but only lasted a half hour. Couldn't even speak.
I'm so done with trying to be social.
I never have a good time. Ever.
Hopefully in a couple of weeks, it will be cool enough to do what I love the most.
Go for long walks, and drives with my convertible top down, blasting my favorite tunes.
I'm pissed that I live in a place where it's too hot to go out for 4 months.
I chose it. Now it's up to me to change it.