View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
miss.a.p1600
10-05-2019, 10:39 AM
+ 1 ^
I thought I found a good fit ( I was paying a premium $30 an hour for what I thought was reliability ) ...... then she flaked the day before a scheduled clean ( and date that next day ).
Add to that ........ WHY don't American apartment buildings have cleaning as an " add on " option ? I MISS serviced apartments !!!!
A regular cleaning team could just work one large building for example . Anyway ... yeah .... first world bitching at it's finest.
From my knowledge, That’s usually for people who reside in hotels. People who are wealthier will buy out rooms in hotels (or high end condos) and get all the amenities (maid, valet, concierge, etc). That or those budget extended stays but those places usually attract the type of crowd who cant lease apartments because of their financial/legal record.
Although I’m sure if more apartment complex owners were smart they’d add that as an option cause I’m sure there’s a demand for it with people being so busy
Aurora_Sunset
10-05-2019, 02:28 PM
I'm so over it today. 7-year old has actually been really good today, but the 4-year old hasn't been listening worth a crap. It's so embarrassing to be out in public and constantly have to chase her down to physically pull her out of places where she shouldn't be and is in other people's way, or literally pry something out of her hands like she's some goblin that can't understand the words "let go/put it down/give it back." Or having to haul her up off the ground 500 times in one afternoon because she won't stop rubbing her hands in the dirt.
She's also in the "I want it" phase. I don't know how many more times I can hear "But I want it, I want it, I want it, I want it, BUT I WANT IT" before I throw her off the balcony....
(Kidding - I would never keelhaul my stepdaughter over the balcony... but honestly, she'd have it coming lol)
Aurora_Sunset
10-05-2019, 02:29 PM
Also, my internet sucks. It's super annoying on SW because the page will take forever to load. Meanwhile, I'll be typing something, and once it's done loading, I have to stop typing and click back in the box, otherwise, the next key I hit, it backs me out and I have to go back and start all over.
NitaBaby
10-05-2019, 05:07 PM
(Kidding - I would never keelhaul my stepdaughter over the balcony... but honestly, she'd have it coming lol)
I hate how we have to make that disclaimer when talking about kids..because we know that there's a 90% chance that some mommy-policing, over-achieving, pinterest cookies-making asshat is out there judging your struggle and ready to pounce on any inclination that the sun doesn't shine out of their little asses. Sometimes you mean that shit lol.
miss.a.p1600
10-06-2019, 08:43 AM
When people take/share pics of their kids and the kid be looking just ....... like it was raised by wolves and just came in from the Forrest to let their human parents snap a random pic
Like why yo baby got crumbs and drool and spaghetti sauce all over himself? Why is his mouth gaped open like that? Why yo baby look like it just rolled out of bed, but you dressed to the nines?
I mean I understand candid pics and what not but damn their has to be a line
Aurora_Sunset
10-06-2019, 09:06 AM
When people take/share pics of their kids and the kid be looking just ....... like it was raised by wolves and just came in from the Forrest to let their human parents snap a random pic
Like why yo baby got crumbs and drool and spaghetti sauce all over himself? Why is his mouth gaped open like that? Why yo baby look like it just rolled out of bed, but you dressed to the nines?
I mean I understand candid pics and what not but damn their has to be a line
I take all sorts of candid pics of my stepkids with their dad purely because I know that HE will like them. And that, if I don't take them, he'll regret not having more pictures of them when they're older. But those pictures go straight to him or into the vault on my phone lol Only the occasional picture that turns on really good will end up on social media... maybe. I get it - parents always think their kid beautiful and precious no matter what, but not every personally-loved picture needs to be shared with the world. Just like not every similar cat picture of my precious, fluffy buttercups are important to anyone but me lmao
Aurora_Sunset
10-06-2019, 09:14 AM
Crummy sleep schedule strikes again. Woke up around 4:30 and didn't fall back asleep again until after 7. Finally forced myself to get up a little after 10 so I didn't sleep the whole day away, but now feel groggy and less-awake than I did at 6am after lying around for over an hour. I hate this. And I'll hate it even more when I'll have to get up at 7 for class in a couple weeks.
NitaBaby
10-06-2019, 01:11 PM
completely forgot that my period is supposed to start soon. i'm the idiot who agreed to a quickie before getting back on and now i'm cramping out of this world. this man has been known to start my period 15 days early so wtf was i thinking. I really need this Sunday.
WendiStarr
10-06-2019, 04:56 PM
Frickin' acid reflux. My belly must've pushed other organs around because I swear I get this crap on a daily basis now. Tums doesn't even work anymore.
carmen_b
10-06-2019, 08:48 PM
This crazy bitched has cock blocked me 2-3 times at least including tonight.
( his sister )
I guess she is out drinking and now he feels obligated to stay at her place to make sure the kids get up or something instead of being done babysitting at 9p.m.
Where is this stupid chick at ? I will go there, grab her dumb ass, and throw her in an uber right away.
I think dudes like this should have a friend they can send. Basically .... whatever stupid reason them failing you is ..... they should send their ( hotter ) friend Bob along with an apology .... " I'm sorry C .... Bob is on his way right now ".
miss.a.p1600
10-06-2019, 10:19 PM
I decided to take up a side gig doing deliveries
Annnnndddd why the fuck - as I’m heading home - did I get a flat tire PLUS it’s raining hard. Worst time to get a flat is at night in the rain.
I understand I could have gotten a flat any random time but for this to happen during the time I’m doing deliveries, the amount of money I make doing this (which isn’t enough), is making me reconsider the whole thing.
Thankfully I made it to a safe well lit place but had to wait HOURS for the roadside assistance. I could have changed the bitch myself by then.
Then the dude has me turn my car around - (on the flat after I told him I did not want to damage my rims) which he claims it wouldn’t - so he won’t have to work in the rain. I’m checking tomorrow and there better not be any damage.
Oh and add to that his ass is inflating the tire and was like “how much psi you got now?” I said 50 then he’s like “how much is it supposed to be?” I said 30.....this trick was literally about to blow up my tire.
*Le Sigh*
I’ve tried not to complain too much lately but I am just a bit perturbed by the contractors with roadside assistance because I never know who they are now how competent they are.
Maybe I should just go back to the club or I wish I could just cam or escort or something hell!
Ifyouseekamy
10-07-2019, 02:43 AM
^^^ Why not cam or strip? Sorry babe. I’ve been having bad luck. Being independent ain’t easy...fuck it gets hard doing everything my damn self.
miss.a.p1600
10-07-2019, 04:14 AM
IKR
I was worried about stripping here locally (having people who know me find out) and thought about the club 2 hours away but then I’d rage if I drive 4 hours round trip only for them to refuse to hire me.
Which led me to the idea of camming but I’m worried about the permanency of being adult entertainment. That’s the pro of stripping is you can do it for however long then when you retire there is no record per say and you could go on to be a teacher for example if you wanted
NitaBaby
10-07-2019, 10:00 AM
I'm not really pissed, but I know someone that is.
So my ex told me that he has been seeing another women, and there has been a relationship shift with us. Hiwever, he still supports me, financially as well. And his girlfriend saw a text message I sent the other night, asking him to call a service to get rid of insect s, and that I need to move. What would you do in this situation, as him or you?
In HIS situation I would have been made it known that I financially support an ex. All of that apologizing and explaining myself after the fact is for the birds.
In HER situation, I'd be over it. I've disappeared on entire boyfriends for less.
yaya_cash
10-07-2019, 11:54 AM
In HIS situation I would have been made it known that I financially support an ex. All of that apologizing and explaining myself after the fact is for the birds.
In HER situation, I'd be over it. I've disappeared on entire boyfriends for less.
His my friend, or just a sugar/splrnda daddy now.
And she does all the work with dealing with him as a girlfriend. I'm just the brat or friend.
NitaBaby
10-07-2019, 12:06 PM
His my friend, or just a sugar/splrnda daddy now.
Too bad for her then. Mad props for keeping that going. I definitely miss the ease of having a sugar daddy sometimes.
Spend his cash, girl.
JGB2009
10-07-2019, 03:34 PM
I show you my Halloween costume and you didn't even comment. Rude ass!!!!
xxxGothBarbie
10-07-2019, 09:35 PM
I'm annoyed AF that since I've been away from my bf for 3 weeks now, he seems more distant sometimes. He texts everyday a few texts here & there but never calls which pisses me off. I totally feel like I'm wasting my time ugh. I'm way too pretty for this shit. whatever I'm gonna just start distancing myself too then.
JGB2009
10-08-2019, 04:12 AM
I'm annoyed AF that since I've been away from my bf for 3 weeks now, he seems more distant sometimes. He texts everyday a few texts here & there but never calls which pisses me off. I totally feel like I'm wasting my time ugh. I'm way too pretty for this shit. whatever I'm gonna just start distancing myself too then.
I don't blame you at all.
WendiStarr
10-08-2019, 08:56 AM
^ That's the best option in those cases. Some guys will expect you to be going nuts blowing up their phone with texts and calls. Once you're not, if he cares he will reach out to try to find out why. If he doesn't then you have your answer that he was putting distance because he wanted to break up without coming right out and saying it. Some guys are cowards like that.
My pissy annoyance is that I overdid it on the garlic sauce yesterday. Garlic is a pretty powerful killer of bacteria and viruses and it's been causing tummy problems.
lynn2009
10-08-2019, 05:29 PM
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carmen_b
10-08-2019, 08:06 PM
Mental health stuggles .....
Waking up angry most days.
I begin each with coffee + deep breathing + well organized to do list .
After a few more days my schedule should lighten up plus I'll be buying some ridiculous treat for myself which should give me a lift.
I can't decide what ......I am in survival mode and feel like I can't " see out " right now.
xxxGothBarbie
10-08-2019, 08:38 PM
^ That's the best option in those cases. Some guys will expect you to be going nuts blowing up their phone with texts and calls. Once you're not, if he cares he will reach out to try to find out why. If he doesn't then you have your answer that he was putting distance because he wanted to break up without coming right out and saying it. Some guys are cowards like that.
My pissy annoyance is that I overdid it on the garlic sauce yesterday. Garlic is a pretty powerful killer of bacteria and viruses and it's been causing tummy problems.
Ya I totally agree. I flipped out on him last night in text & while eating lunch today he responded with how he's been sendingmsgs but apparently they didn't go thru whatever lol. I've been more quiet since & I'm going on a trip tm & haven't told him yet lol . He needs to miss me.
Ifyouseekamy
10-08-2019, 11:37 PM
Mental health stuggles .....
Waking up angry most days.
I begin each with coffee + deep breathing + well organized to do list .
After a few more days my schedule should lighten up plus I'll be buying some ridiculous treat for myself which should give me a lift.
I can't decide what ......I am in survival mode and feel like I can't " see out " right now.
I totally feel you Carmen. Sending healing vibes your way. This too shall pass. Take really good care of yourself.
my rant. My professor is sooo annoying. She has very annoying voice and overall annoying way of lecturing. She starts her math problems and then she screws up the problem. I spend about half my time in class watching her struggle figuring out her own math problems. I’m just gonna have to laugh at her throughout her lecture or I’m just gonna get frustrated as hell and be pissy. She’s probably just trying to a little extra cash teaching this online course, but she isn’t very good. Oh well. Live and live I guess.
Elektra Luxx
10-09-2019, 01:45 AM
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Exactly! There's never a enough x's in porn these days.
chanzep
10-09-2019, 07:52 AM
PMS and my annoying supervisor at work do not mix.
miss.a.p1600
10-09-2019, 08:04 AM
I got an interview with this company.
Then the supervisor is like “you’ll be on call, drive up to an hour to see clients, take clients to appointments, etc”
In my mind I’m thinking the pay BETTER be good for that.
Then I mentioned I wanted to make sure I could be available for family. Some of the jobs have you working like corporate “slaves” running your self into the ground with low pay and no free time.
THEN the supervisor was like oh what church to you attend and how offer do you go and how long have you been a member? I find it interesting people connect church attendance with virtuous because I know plenty of people who go to church regularly but are devils in human form.
Not sure if I’ll get a second interview but if I do ima need to know that salary tho
seashell
10-09-2019, 11:03 AM
Why am I so prone to disaster? About 10 minutes before I was supposed to leave for a date, I accidentally cut my thumb super deep with a razor that was in my travel bag. It was bleeding profusely and took about 30 minutes to finally stop. Ugh... I feel bad, but I had to cancel. It was a girl I had been really looking forward to meeting.
miss.a.p1600
10-09-2019, 11:23 AM
^well from my past experience cancelling dates. Mfs be assuming you’re canceling on purpose. At least dudes be thinking like that.
Last dude I canceled on due to medical issue - He never initiated anything anymore.
I watched several of those Corey Wayne videos, that smug looking pickup/“dating coach” and he said if a girl cancels she is lying about the reason and also if she cancels never to initiate dates, to only offer “in-home” dates lol, and to make the woman initiate
miss.a.p1600
10-09-2019, 02:03 PM
Mental health stuggles .....
Waking up angry most days.
I begin each with coffee + deep breathing + well organized to do list .
After a few more days my schedule should lighten up plus I'll be buying some ridiculous treat for myself which should give me a lift.
I can't decide what ......I am in survival mode and feel like I can't " see out " right now.
Similar.
Ive been vanilla hustling past couple days and would kill to just shake a lil ass then watch 4x the money come in. I may just start doing some as discreet as possible online adult work...at least till I can get these vanilla gigs up gaining more financial traction
Today i just wanted to not do shit - I could feel myself feeling less motivated and less hopeful, and kept procrastinating but with sunlight and some exercise and a good quality meal - I may be back to myself
inhad to indulge in some Krispy Kreme to make myself feel better
miss.a.p1600
10-09-2019, 02:07 PM
Since I took these gigs delivering I feel like this
Elderly and handicapped and Uber wealthy - I don’t mind
Lazy ass college males - bruh wtf get off your ass and do this yourself
Maybe I need to check my attitude idk
carmen_b
10-09-2019, 05:53 PM
^ I've done food delivery as a side hustle. It IS totally creepy how the most able seem to use it. I thought it was going to all offices and old people too - it isn't !
NitaBaby
10-09-2019, 06:37 PM
when that pill kicks in, there's no stopping it. i don't even wanna get this money from a cmd guy. i just wanna sleep.
queenelayliah
10-10-2019, 01:41 AM
I feel like the damn phone sex world is crashing down on me at the same damn time. 1) Nf which use to be my bread & butter, is now fucking dying, 2) ttm is now overly pressuring models not to miss calls. Get this I had a total of 8 calls in 7 days and I missed 2 calls! And I'm being threatened with possible account closure because those 2 calls make up “25% of all calls im the last 7 days”. 3) ct is now requiring 10 hours a week or you will be fired & and I'm just thinking that's illegal. Your not allowed to do this to independent contractors but hey its the sex industry no one gives a fuck about us, right?
Only two phone sex companies have been treating me right. But I can’t live off just these two. So hoping nf picks back up and i can some how do 10 hours on ct chat line without wanting to pull my hair out.
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-10-2019, 06:59 AM
I was all excited to try Oikos Triple Zero Blended Greek Yogurt b/c it is non fat and has no sugar, but it's pretty vile.
WendiStarr
10-10-2019, 07:44 AM
It makes me sad the amount of pet ads I see on Craigslist. It's always "found this cat and can't keep it because my kid is allergic" or "4 year old cat needs a new home. We recently got a dog and it doesn't get along with our cat" or puppies or adult dogs for $300-800 rehoming fees. Why the hell do these idiots even have pets in the first place? I don't like greedy breeders. Even worse are the "free to a good home" ads. It's a known fact that any free small animal will be used for bait for dogfighting purposes or fed to giant pet snakes. I remember seeing an ad on there before that someone made saying that they had a hungry boa and would accept any unwanted small animals for it. I hate some humans so bad.
miss.a.p1600
10-10-2019, 08:37 AM
^agreed
My mom had gotten a dog from animal shelter I think and bruh why they give HER a dog is beyond me. My mom works 12 hour shifts and would leave the dog in her small ass home by itself for the 14 hours
Wtf!?!
Then she would complain about it’s behavior
I’m like well obviously you had no business getting a dog you couldn’t take care of
Either she lied on the application about her work hours or they are just that desperate to find homes for the pets they don’t care about the details. Idk
miss.a.p1600
10-10-2019, 08:45 AM
Sometimes I feel like disappearing
Not like killing myself of anything but like Just ditching almost every single adult obligation and starting over somewhere else where no one knows me and I can have a life do-over
miss.a.p1600
10-11-2019, 05:11 AM
^thanks hon! I totally appreciate your input. You have good points.
Sometimes I make rash decisions cause I am stressed and can’t think straight
miss.a.p1600
10-11-2019, 05:22 AM
If I am totally honest with myself
I wonder if I made a mistake? Or was the dude being insensible?
I’ll admit that I’ve dealt with shitty men in the past and didn’t know how to apply boundaries, ask for what I wanted, and gave too freely.
The old dude had his quirks but was it really that bad?
He had a nice house that looked similar to my dream house, I’ve never had any guy ask me to live with them until him, and maybe my life would be a little easier with a partner and not having to take care of all these expenses on my own.
If Anna Nicole could finesse that horny 85 year old man then why couldn’t I do this?
Do I make my life harder or isn’t it just that sometimes things just happen/don’t happen for whatever reason?
Glamourmilf
10-11-2019, 07:19 AM
All great points in the above posts.
I'm really tired of lying about my camming job. And struggling.
Anyhoo. My petty annoyance is that my last cam show of the night was with a guy who had the ugliest penis.
It curved down, and was really skinny.
As he was proudly stroking it, all I could think of was how painful that would be to fuck.
Has anyone ever seen one of these in person? If so, ... what did you do??
Ouch! I SWEAR my uterus has been cramping ever since.
Yucko:yuck:
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WendiStarr
10-11-2019, 07:35 AM
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kimbe
10-11-2019, 11:38 AM
IKR
I was worried about stripping here locally (having people who know me find out) and thought about the club 2 hours away but then I’d rage if I drive 4 hours round trip only for them to refuse to hire me.
Guess that’s a small place issue!? When I "danced" here in Vegas, I’m sure most of my neighbors didn’t realize what I was doing! In their eyes, I’ve always been "the tanned fitness girl" anyway, I don’t think they noticed my late night shifts since I’ve never have had a normal time schedule LOL ;)
Elektra Luxx
10-11-2019, 01:42 PM
It's 54 F° today and I'm freezing my ass off! I know I said I was "sooo" ready for some cold weather, but it waa in the 90's a couple days ago.
This is probably a beautiful day for y'all up North. Sorry, but down here people are pulling out their jackets.
lynn2009
10-11-2019, 02:24 PM
It's 54 F° today and I'm freezing my ass off! I know I said I was "sooo" ready for some cold weather, but it waa in the 90's a couple days ago.
This is probably a beautiful day for y'all up North. Sorry, but down here people are pulling out their jackets.
I loooove this kind of weather!
NitaBaby
10-11-2019, 02:28 PM
I loooove this kind of weather!
I don't know where everyone else is but here in hot ass Texas everybody I know is LOVING it lol. I've been in shorts and spaghetti straps all day, windows down in the car. The chill feels amazing.
lynn2009
10-11-2019, 07:17 PM
I was rear ended at a stop light last year in August and the same thing happened tonight. People are fucking such self absorbed fucking morons around here. My poor little doggie was so scared, when I got back in the car he plopped down right on me and wouldnt move at all even when I went to put on my seat belt.
carmen_b
10-11-2019, 09:20 PM
Ew.
Creeptastic.
I'm out on a business trip and updated Insta ( for the brand ) , I noticed that my ex of 7 years ( the one that left me last Aug. ) had liked a post a few hours ago ( I'm in a photo ) .
He is blocked in all my personal media . I don't know enough about IG to block him from this ista account but will figure it out later.
Yuck. ;(
lurkingtitties
10-12-2019, 05:17 AM
^trouble in paradise on his end maybe?
Lynn I’m sorry for your dog! I sometimes think about how traumatizing it would be for my dog if we ever got in an accident while he was in the car. I hope your bud can get past it.
Last night I had a petty realization when I was drifting off to sleep. Next year when I finish my education and leave my safe little backwoods hippie state to see the world...I will probably have to start getting drug tested as a condition of employment. Laaaaaaaame!
carmen_b
10-12-2019, 09:44 AM
^ Could be .
I fought SO hard to get feeling decent again . My life improved a lot in late June when I got the dog full time instead of trading weekly and knew he had moved to the East Coast ( instead of him living in the building NEXT DOOR Sept. - late June. ) ! I was trying to move on and would still see him weekly / see his car around ( barf ! ).
I feel good about this plan and would like to keep the country divided in territory along the Mississippi .
I look at his presence ect. as poison now ( I was so depressed ) .
It would be incredible ego validation to know his little plan to run off didn't work out like he has hoped but I don't think it would go anywhere.