View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
lurkingtitties
10-28-2019, 09:56 AM
^ haha
I find pole classes so weird!
What the eroticism of pole?
Go strip and make cash !!
Weirdest thing ever to pay to pole hahaha!
I mean I totally get the fitness aspect of it! And some pole studios are ran by/geared towards actually entertainers. But yeah when these civilian broads are investing in a whole wardrobe of customized pleasers to perform recitals I don't get it either. I went to a pole class once where they choreographed the floorwork and one of the moves was called Lazy Stripper...so cringey!
miss.a.p1600
10-28-2019, 09:57 AM
I visited my mom and got along fine with her yesterday. Today she's being cunty and asked me how I'm paying my bills. She asked if I'm back to being a porn star slut again and "screwing everyone". She considers webcamming to be the same as porn and prostitution. I swear, every time I try to get along with her she has to start crap with me. She's lucky that I even went and visited her, seeing as how my 6 other siblings want nothing to do with her and refuse to see her. I don't understand why some people want to make things difficult. Smh.
Thats how they be doing here.
EVERYTHING adult Industry related = prostitution/Hoe/Whore
Hell even the thread I created a while back about working a Hooters where people said they thought that was adult industry
people are weird about that
Hecc, I woke up and blinked today = I’m a whore
miss.a.p1600
10-28-2019, 09:58 AM
^ haha
I find pole classes so weird!
What the eroticism of pole?
Go strip and make cash !!
Weirdest thing ever to pay to pole hahaha!
Good way to capitalize off bored curious housemoms n middle aged women going through mid life crisis though (they’d probably be annoying af if they stepped foot in a strip club) lol
WendiStarr
10-28-2019, 11:18 AM
Guys who contact me asking for a menu of services. I'm strictly fbsm. I state this in my ads, adult social media pages, and on my website. I hate people who sit there asking, "What about xyz? Is that available?", "do you do _____(insert whatever sex act)" or "what about fs? is that an option?", "are you fully clothed or nude?", "can you massage my penis?". Why do some of them seem to think it's like Mcdonald's with a menu? Wtf are you, fricking Barney Fife? Either book a damn massage and be done with it or go away. I've got a headache and that's making me irritable today too.
Ifyouseekamy
10-28-2019, 11:54 PM
Good way to capitalize off bored curious housemoms n middle aged women going through mid life crisis though (they’d probably be annoying af if they stepped foot in a strip club) lol
I guess my higher self think, “oh good maybe this will help women become more open minded and less hateful toward strippers” . But statistically speaking 8 out of 10 women who take pole dancing classes are hypocritical bitches. .
my annoying thing: chest colds that wont go away. I’m not sick enough to enjoy guilt free Netflix all day, but I’m sick enough that people look at me like I have Ebola. On that note, I’m going to get some medicine. I usually wait to see if my body will heal naturally, but desperate times call for desperate measures
carmen_b
10-29-2019, 09:39 AM
This is very annoying.
I wish these guys would just GET that the thing to do is simply book smoothly . Book what's in the ad. Smoothly !
Then .... if there is a connection / good vibe maybe AT THAT POINT you might be offered an extended menu OR you might not. You'll find that information out at the meeting. The lady will let you know.
All the being needy at the start gets you is no appointment.
Why don't they understand this ?
I don't see anyone who asks a lot of questions. Period. Lean money time or not.
EDIT TO ADD :
I just checked google voice. Someone asked " what services do you provide ? "
I want to send : " I don't know you moron. Why don't you READ THE AD you found this number on ? "
Guys who contact me asking for a menu of services. I'm strictly fbsm. I state this in my ads, adult social media pages, and on my website. I hate people who sit there asking, "What about xyz? Is that available?", "do you do _____(insert whatever sex act)" or "what about fs? is that an option?", "are you fully clothed or nude?", "can you massage my penis?". Why do some of them seem to think it's like Mcdonald's with a menu? Wtf are you, fricking Barney Fife? Either book a damn massage and be done with it or go away. I've got a headache and that's making me irritable today too.
NitaBaby
10-29-2019, 09:50 AM
I was supposed to cam today. Instead it turned into laundry day, clean the house day, buy halloween costumes day, eat a big ass breakfast at Denny's and get sleepy day smh. I can damn near feel the money energy waiting for me on cam. But the only logical time I can get online now is later tonight. And AS I TYPE THIS my sister is making plans to go to Scream World with me today. I flake out every year but said I would go this time.
UGH.
carmen_b
10-29-2019, 09:52 AM
I just want to leave town again to strip. Why do I have to have responsibilities ?
miss.a.p1600
10-29-2019, 10:13 AM
I just want to leave town again to strip. Why do I have to have responsibilities ?
Welcome to the story of my life
WendiStarr
10-30-2019, 06:42 AM
My previous ob/gyn managed to somehow lose all my blood work lab results so I have to go do them all over again. I also have the 1 hour glucose test and I'm dreading it because last time I did it I got nauseous and fainted. I really don't want to be sitting at the hospital in a waiting room for an hour. I know if I pass out they'll make me stay there even longer, ugh.
Glamourmilf
10-31-2019, 07:08 AM
Yesterday was the first day since May that I could be outside (comfortably).
Everyone had parkas, hats, scarves and boots on. Lol!
It was 60. But, after temps being in the 100's, it's quite shocking to the system.
The first day I didn't need to have my ac on.
I made my bed, now I'm laying in it.
Just not used to being inside for six months is all.
Hope I can stick it out.
I'm moving to a state that is even hotter!
Gotta do what you gotta do.
Damn it!
WendiStarr
11-01-2019, 06:17 AM
I am convinced that my upstairs neighbor must be a robot. How in heck does someone make so much noise all night long? I finished camming and got in bed to sleep around 11, I think. She was rolling a bowling ball around and dropping stuff on the floor. I woke up at 1am because she was watching tv really loud and laughing. At 4am she was blow drying her hair or something while dropping stuff on the floor. 8am she let her pet elephant stomp around. Now at 9am it sounds like she's rolling a bowling ball around while running the blow dryer. When does she sleep?!
JGB2009
11-01-2019, 06:31 AM
I am convinced that my upstairs neighbor must be a robot. How in heck does someone make so much noise all night long? I finished camming and got in bed to sleep around 11, I think. She was rolling a bowling ball around and dropping stuff on the floor. I woke up at 1am because she was watching tv really loud and laughing. At 4am she was blow drying her hair or something while dropping stuff on the floor. 8am she let her pet elephant stomp around. Now at 9am it sounds like she's rolling a bowling ball around while running the blow dryer. When does she sleep?!
LMFAO "Pet Elephant", sorry I know that really sux.
Glamourmilf
11-01-2019, 07:51 AM
I am convinced that my upstairs neighbor must be a robot. How in heck does someone make so much noise all night long? I finished camming and got in bed to sleep around 11, I think. She was rolling a bowling ball around and dropping stuff on the floor. I woke up at 1am because she was watching tv really loud and laughing. At 4am she was blow drying her hair or something while dropping stuff on the floor. 8am she let her pet elephant stomp around. Now at 9am it sounds like she's rolling a bowling ball around while running the blow dryer. When does she sleep?!
OMG Wendi, do we have the same neighbor?
I was JUST wondering yesterday when MY neighbors sleep.
I can not believe how annoyingly active and loud they are.
It's an older couple who took over their (weird) daughters lease.
The walls are paper thin. The wife starts talking and banging things from morning until forever.
The husband has some kind of breathing problem, so he never leaves the apt. Hacks up his lungs all day and night.
The pervert follows me around the apt. I'm in the bathroom......So is he.
I'm making something to eat.... He's in the kitchen too.
They leave their door open, and let their viscous dogs sit at the screen to bark all day and night.
Their TV is blasting nonstop.
Every night they have their kids come over. More banging and clanging.
I'm home a lot camming, etc.
It's been hell.
Can't wait until one of us moves out.
Aurora_Sunset
11-01-2019, 12:47 PM
Annoyed because the FedEx website says my package was delivered yesterday and apparently it was delivered when I was home. Nope no package was delivered here and I really needed what was inside of this box. Uhg!
Amazon claims they delivered something to my package room, but I can't find it. It's a $40 gift too....
My petty annoyance: Hubby swore he would take care of dishes, trash, and "general cleaning" while I was in school. He's been pretty good until now... He also said he was gonna do laundry this morning before picking up the kids for the weekend - especially since the boy's bed sheets are dirty from a spill awhile ago.
He was wide awake this morning when I left for class and had 5 hours before he had to leave to do anything. I came home after my test to it looking like nothing had happened since I left this morning. Garbage and dirty dishes all over the living room, trash full, dishes in the sink, and the laundry untouched. I'm not bothering with the laundry, because that was the one thing he swore HE would do today, but I refuse to live with/around the other things. It's just annoying, because on days like this, I literally have 30 minutes to myself before that goes away all weekend. I could've used it to workout. Instead, I used 20 minutes of it cleaning all the shit he said he would do. 20 minutes out of my 30 minutes of me-time that I could use to workout feels like a bigger deal than 20 minutes out of his 5 hours of probably watching Netflix and playing video games.
AChildOfBoredom
11-03-2019, 09:23 PM
I really had a need to rub one out today, and it’s been months now, but I just couldn’t for the life of me get people out of the house today.
WendiStarr
11-04-2019, 10:01 AM
Freeloading beggars galore on cam this morning.
Aurora_Sunset
11-04-2019, 02:52 PM
So mad at myself.
I paid bills over the weekend, and I did the math a million times to figure out how much I could pay on a certain credit card. I SWORE I would have enough left after everything for there to be about $60 left in my account. Well, this morning, I get an overdraft notice from the account - I was way off and ended up overdrawing by over $100. Luckily, I have some money set aside in savings so I don't get hit with overdraft fees that I couldn't otherwise pay back and fixed it immediately, but I can't keep touching that money. When I redid the math, I don't know how I could have fucked up so badly because it's obvious that I got it wrong...
So stressed about money. This is one of those days when I miss escorting something fierce...
Glamourmilf
11-04-2019, 06:02 PM
The temps are back up in the 90's again. They will stay there for the entire week.
Blah.:-\
miss.a.p1600
11-04-2019, 07:27 PM
Dude grunting loudly in the gym
NitaBaby
11-05-2019, 05:50 AM
I don't like leaving trash in the house. I always set it right outside of my own front door so that I can take it out later. But every neighbor that I have ever had in this complex (at least 4 people have lived in the unit right next to me) has tried to put THEIR trash inside of mine.
If they were at least stealthy about it and put it all the way in my trash then I wouldn't even notice. But, no. It'll be a diaper sitting right on the top. Or an empty box of light bulbs. Or whatever they felt couldn't fit into their own garbage so they wanted to use mine. Things I either haven't thrown away in months or haven't even bought in years. Just sitting right on top.
I always hurl their garbage at their floor mat before taking my trash out. Don't do that shit. I'm sick of teaching every neighbor this lesson.
miss.a.p1600
11-05-2019, 08:30 AM
So I called this prospective client to set an appointment because she asked for this information. She didn’t remember so I tell her I have the HANDWRITTEN form from her on my desk and list off all the data SHE put down. She continued to insist she never did that etc and that there are soooo many scams.
Okay whatever.
So I tell her I will text the form so she can see for herself HER handwriting.
She refuses then continues on and on and becomes combative and is like “let me tell you something...” so what *I* tell her is that I am ending the call.
Then I promptly hang up in her face.
Later on that day I’m in this deep urban area and I hear this guy calling up his friend or associate who’s joking around with him and he responds - “n*gga this ain’t no scam”
I wish I could have recorded his voice and replayed that to that delusional old lady.
I try not to let these people rile me up but that lady was so annoyingly delusional and overly suspicious that I just had to quickly get off the phone with her.
miss.a.p1600
11-05-2019, 10:45 AM
These people thought it was a good idea to bring their dog to Starbucks while they eat and drink, the dog shakes and moans with hunger.
Then he keeps telling the dog to be quiet and sit down.
Feed yo damn pet!!
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-06-2019, 03:48 PM
I saw a box of canned food in the dumpster that someone threw in there (it was on the table in the complex as a sort of informal free food box. I'm pretty sure one of the maint guys just was lazy and got rid of it all while doing routine cleaning. & Now it's inedible b/c it's been in freezing temps all day.) That pisses me off, that food could have fed someone for a few days and now it's all wasted.
lynn2009
11-07-2019, 02:23 AM
It is 4:30am and even still the dog wont stop barking. There's a deer in the courtyard he can see that is making him go bonkers and there's still been hallway noise a couple of times since I woke up around 3.
WendiStarr
11-07-2019, 05:24 AM
I forgot to put my phone on silent and some random, unknown number texted my personal cell # at 5:07am with incoherent, off the wall crap. It woke me up and it must be a sw habit but I Googled the number and couldn't find anything other than it was a voip number. I logged in to failbook(facebook) and searched it on there since sometimes you can search cell phone numbers that are connected to a person. I couldn't find anything so I exited the page and decided to just block the number and go back to sleep. I was almost asleep when my mom texted me a "good morning". I wasn't in the mood to talk to her that early. She immediately sent another text about "I know you're up and online. I can see you online on messenger. I don't know why you're ignoring me". I wasn't even online or on failbook at that point. I had just forgotten to sign out of stupid failbook. I hate how failbook shows that people are online even when they are not. I had my phone on silent after that and got a loud weather alert that snow is coming. Wtf? I'm annoyed and want to fall back asleep but so far I can't. I have since powered my phone off so hopefully when I try to sleep again, I won't be bothered by anyone or anything else.
lurkingtitties
11-07-2019, 06:28 AM
So funny that the post above mine is about facebook because I have a petty annoyance with them too! There’s a group I want to join on there that’s related to my field-specifically, a networking group for travelers in my field. I haven’t been able to join yet because they require all the info on your profile to be real. I get the need for it in that kind of a group but damn, I don’t wanna give up my fake name that keeps ppl from finding me unless I want them too! Plus a lot of my old pics on there are scandalous by medical community standards and I’m butthurt about having to take them down.
Wendi I hope you were able to get back to sleep! So important for you and for the baby.
miss.a.p1600
11-07-2019, 07:43 AM
It’s raining; I want to sleep in but I have 3 appointments.
My prospects will buy, my prospects will buy, my prospects will buy .....
Glamourmilf
11-07-2019, 08:11 AM
Why can't I ever get gas without someone begging me for money??>:(
I was starting to pump my gas, when I hear this bitch's voice, " Miss, can I have money for gas?"
I kept my head down, and was non responsive/non reactivate. But, she kept on..."Miss, Miss. Hello?? Miss, can I have money for gas?"
I had just come from a cam room full of beggers, and now this bullshit??
SO not in the mood.
Ever since they took away full service gas stations, I run into this begging bs at every gas station in town.
All I did was leave the house to get gas, and a Starbucks.
Yet, in the short time it took to do so, it made me so pissed that I don't want to go out anymore.
Please world. Just leave me alone!
Elektra Luxx
11-07-2019, 01:15 PM
I've been self conscious all day. I feel like I'm walking funny. Every step I take I can literally feel my hip bones moving. Wobbly hips.
WendiStarr
11-07-2019, 03:12 PM
^Aww, Elektra, you're still sexy though, I bet!
An annoying cunty lady on cc who was trying to start crap between me and another lady who had nothing at all to do with an issue that I discussed. I know how men think and I know that any man suggesting a hot tub cuddle doesn't have a platonic agenda on his mind. It's just a ploy to get a woman half or totally naked. That's a red flag and that's all I said. Get a damn life, lady! Gosh, I hate civilian women. They're always trying to start drama between people, especially woman vs. woman drama.
chanzep
11-07-2019, 07:20 PM
My water in apartment has been off for hours. They sent the worst email saying they not sure when it will be on. They are so unbothered.
lynn2009
11-07-2019, 10:11 PM
I do not know why I let this one fucking horrible woman at work bother me so much, but I have never dealt with someone so purposefully aggressive, and also fucking stupid at the same time before. It's midnight and I'm fucking tired and all I think about is how sick I am of constantly being the one deferring to her, having to de-escalate and play nice while her language can be down right abusive. I know she has a reputation and does this to everyone but I'm ready to complain to her boss myself. I forwarded her last email to my boss today but my boss didnt answer and is on vacation tomorrow. Anyway this woman I'm talking about is fucking fat and everyone in the building hates her so I'm going to focus on that and try to sleep now.
chanzep
11-07-2019, 10:40 PM
I normally get tired at this time but I'm annoyed grr.
miss.a.p1600
11-08-2019, 02:38 PM
This annoying guy interrupted my work so he could brag about how much money he allegedly makes and all these celebrities he allegedly knows. And how is wife allegedly hasn’t worked in decades.
At one point he’s like “how much money do you think I make?” I’m thinking to myself that anyone who makes significant money will not be asking this. And judging from his looks I though he was homeless and mentally ill
In my mind I’m like “bruh if you ain’t spending any money, introducing me to your network, then this conversation is pointless and I need to get back to my work”
He finally left but I should have ended the convo 3 min in - straight stripper hustler style
ggminx
11-08-2019, 04:03 PM
why can't people answer emails in a timely manner? seriously agitated with the amount of time I have to wait to hear back from real estate agents, attorneys, tax accountant, and the list goes on...so effing irritated today. why tf am i left hanging for days on simple answers
Aurora_Sunset
11-09-2019, 08:37 AM
I feel like the opposite of the current pissy annoyances in this thread regarding sex - I'm the one who's tired with a lower libido and my husband is being all mad about it lol
It's not that we don't have sex, or that I don't want to have more sex, I just don't physically require it as much, so when I've had a long day, waited up for him to get off work just so I could see him and talk to him, and then have only 6 hours left to sleep, sex just isn't high on my priority list over sleep at that point. I'd be much more inclined to put forth the effort as well if he wasn't such a whiny baby about it... He constantly makes jokes/comments about us never having sex anymore/me never touching him anymore. Will make them after he's been home for over an hour and I stayed up just to cuddle with him on the couch, yet in that entire time, he never brought up sex. But oh, now that I'm tired and ready for bed, suddenly he's all upset that we're not having sex - like... why didn't you ask when you got home? "Oh, cuz I was enjoying cuddling." Well... you picked, you prioritized, you can't give me shit for it now.
He'll say he just wants to makeout, and then in the middle of it, try something else, and when I (nicely) stop him, he'll just pout. He's also in the habit of complaining about our lack of sex literally RIGHT AFTER sex, just cuz I'll turn him down for a "round 2," or will try for morning sex right after we had sex the night before, and if I don't want to, suddenly "We never have sex anymore." It's to the point where I just feel like why do I even bother expending the energy when I'm dead-ass tired all the time if the result is gonna be whining and moping anyway? Why bother to touch and makeout if all I'm gonna get is shit because it's not full-on sex? Or bother doing the dog-and-pony show of romping around if 10 hours later, I'm just gonna hear whining about how we aren't immediately having sex again and how that equals us "never having sex?"
I'd also be a lot less annoyed if he didn't turn it into some self-deprecating comment about himself and his body (which has nothing to do with it), or worse, every time, start asking if I'm "bored of him" or "getting attention from someone else." I'm so sick of this conversation... If I was unhappy, I would Step 1) tell him, and Step 2) if nothing got better or had any hope of getting better, leave. I'm not the type to go out looking for "someone else" to fill a "void." I'd rather be alone than deal with that mess. I don't NEED someone, and you'd think he'd fucking know me well enough by now to get that through his head. It doesn't do the conversation about our sex life any favors when he's low-key accusing me of cheating on him just because we haven't had sex in a whole 3 days, as though that couldn't possibly have anything to do with long days in work/class and completely different sleep schedules...
If he just brought up the topic sometime other than right after I put in the effort to please him and talked maturely and matter-of-factly about his needs and desires for closeness without throwing some shade in there about how "maybe I'm getting it somewhere else," I'd be a lot more open to talking about it. But when he acts like a mopey child who can't appreciate anything he DOES get or accuses me of random crap, I don't really feel like rewarding that with jumping on his dick... Last night, we ended our makeout session on opposite sides of the bed because I was sick of his BS.
Aurora_Sunset
11-09-2019, 10:01 AM
Dragged myself out of bed and across town for a study session for the real estate exam. I’ve had 3 different people tell me it’s at noon. The flyer says it’s at noon. I walk in at 11:50 and no one else is here, and the one guy in the office tells me it’s at 1. Wtf? Why is it randomly at 1 now? Now I get to sit and wait for a fucking hour when I dreaded being here for the 3 hours in the first place. I’m just effing tired.
carmen_b
11-09-2019, 10:58 AM
Hahahaha. Yeah, people with money don't tell strangers they have it. Omg
This annoying guy interrupted my work so he could brag about how much money he allegedly makes and all these celebrities he allegedly knows. And how is wife allegedly hasn’t worked in decades.
At one point he’s like “how much money do you think I make?” I’m thinking to myself that anyone who makes significant money will not be asking this. And judging from his looks I though he was homeless and mentally ill
In my mind I’m like “bruh if you ain’t spending any money, introducing me to your network, then this conversation is pointless and I need to get back to my work”
He finally left but I should have ended the convo 3 min in - straight stripper hustler style
carmen_b
11-09-2019, 11:00 AM
Is there anything you guys can delegate or hire out to make more couple time ?
He doesn't seem to approaching it in an ideal way. Ideal would be something like " lets plan dinner Friday , I arranged xyz for us and also took task xyz off your list to make more time for us " .............. but things are not always ideal.
Unless I'm reading it wrong ..... he gets sex every 3-4 days ? That's pretty decent for a married couple really.
I feel like the opposite of the current pissy annoyances in this thread regarding sex - I'm the one who's tired with a lower libido and my husband is being all mad about it lol
It's not that we don't have sex, or that I don't want to have more sex, I just don't physically require it as much, so when I've had a long day, waited up for him to get off work just so I could see him and talk to him, and then have only 6 hours left to sleep, sex just isn't high on my priority list over sleep at that point. I'd be much more inclined to put forth the effort as well if he wasn't such a whiny baby about it... He constantly makes jokes/comments about us never having sex anymore/me never touching him anymore. Will make them after he's been home for over an hour and I stayed up just to cuddle with him on the couch, yet in that entire time, he never brought up sex. But oh, now that I'm tired and ready for bed, suddenly he's all upset that we're not having sex - like... why didn't you ask when you got home? "Oh, cuz I was enjoying cuddling." Well... you picked, you prioritized, you can't give me shit for it now.
He'll say he just wants to makeout, and then in the middle of it, try something else, and when I (nicely) stop him, he'll just pout. He's also in the habit of complaining about our lack of sex literally RIGHT AFTER sex, just cuz I'll turn him down for a "round 2," or will try for morning sex right after we had sex the night before, and if I don't want to, suddenly "We never have sex anymore." It's to the point where I just feel like why do I even bother expending the energy when I'm dead-ass tired all the time if the result is gonna be whining and moping anyway? Why bother to touch and makeout if all I'm gonna get is shit because it's not full-on sex? Or bother doing the dog-and-pony show of romping around if 10 hours later, I'm just gonna hear whining about how we aren't immediately having sex again and how that equals us "never having sex?"
I'd also be a lot less annoyed if he didn't turn it into some self-deprecating comment about himself and his body (which has nothing to do with it), or worse, every time, start asking if I'm "bored of him" or "getting attention from someone else." I'm so sick of this conversation... If I was unhappy, I would Step 1) tell him, and Step 2) if nothing got better or had any hope of getting better, leave. I'm not the type to go out looking for "someone else" to fill a "void." I'd rather be alone than deal with that mess. I don't NEED someone, and you'd think he'd fucking know me well enough by now to get that through his head. It doesn't do the conversation about our sex life any favors when he's low-key accusing me of cheating on him just because we haven't had sex in a whole 3 days, as though that couldn't possibly have anything to do with long days in work/class and completely different sleep schedules...
If he just brought up the topic sometime other than right after I put in the effort to please him and talked maturely and matter-of-factly about his needs and desires for closeness without throwing some shade in there about how "maybe I'm getting it somewhere else," I'd be a lot more open to talking about it. But when he acts like a mopey child who can't appreciate anything he DOES get or accuses me of random crap, I don't really feel like rewarding that with jumping on his dick... Last night, we ended our makeout session on opposite sides of the bed because I was sick of his BS.
carmen_b
11-09-2019, 11:09 AM
Well I'm in Hawaii and it's a fucking disaster so far . I know it'll only improve from here. I felt so constrained and miserable on the flight and then was hit by these vivid memories of my former partner ( who was a normal and wonderful partner for 4 years on this island ) picking me up at the airport on all my other trips. Walking out ...... it just seemed like he would BE there.
Anyway ... I didn't expect to react strongly leaving the airport. I took an over priced taxi and tried to be quiet while I cried. Now this morning I'm mad about wasting $25 extra on the taxi v.s. the shared shuttle but it's a drop in the bucket.
It was *probably* a bad idea to come.
At the time I booked it ( a week ago ), I didn't really have this information that I would react so strongly and see him EVERYWHERE here. I feel like I can't walk a block without getting hit by waves of anger.
lurkingtitties
11-09-2019, 12:52 PM
^^Maybe you needed to feel those feelings to be able to heal.
carmen_b
11-09-2019, 04:43 PM
^ Im not happy but today is dedicated to my clients so I’ll get through for them.
May catch a flight out tomorrow ( which will be that cost plus missing some money I’d make if I can / could last 7 more days here.
It’s driving me crazy trying to calculate the cost of leaving.
Im just so depleted , blah. At least the rental car is nice. :/
WendiStarr
11-10-2019, 06:49 AM
My daughter was grumpy last night, complaining of a headache, stuffy nose, and cough. She insisted on sleeping in my bed, halfway on top of me all night. I had put Vick's on her but the poor girl woke me up several times throughout the night, coughing. Now today I have sinus pressure, stuffy nose and my chest feels weird.
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2019, 07:32 AM
I know how you feel aurora
Well kinda since this guy was just a dating partner not a husband but the issue was quite similar
The old guy I used to date would ruin a perfectly good date by nagging and complaining about how he wants to be “intimate” and “be with me everyday” (aka fuck everyday). I felt like he wasn’t being appreciative of what was going well and his insecurities or something were starting to creep in.
Like I get that people have to express their needs but it comes off as whiny and nagging which made me more annoyed and less likely to do that.
I felt like the environment for sex has to 1. Have the mood set and 2. Has to unfold naturally.
A person nagging is like an instant pussy dryer
Aurora_Sunset
11-10-2019, 09:16 AM
I felt like he wasn’t being appreciative of what was going well and his insecurities or something were starting to creep in.
A person nagging is like an instant pussy dryer
Exactly! I'm not against people expressing their disappointments or needs, but there are better times and ways to do it. Like "Hey, you've gone to bed early every night this week, is everything ok? Ok, well, I miss you and would appreciate if we could carve out more time for us in the next couple days." Or something like that. But it's just annoying when people insist on bringing up all their displeasures only during the times that you're trying to make up up for your absence or have a good time. I have a friend who used to do this allll the time - we wouldn't hang out for awhile, and when I would finally find the time, all he'd do is complain about how he never sees me and basically what a negligent friend I am that I turned him down other times before then... it made me not want to hang out with him anymore.
Like, don't complain about lack of sex right after sex, or that we never spend time together right in the middle of a night that I'm trying to make special... Maybe it feels to them like it's the only time they have you cornered to voice the complaints, but it just comes off unappreciative and like nothing you do is "good enough" so why bother?
The insecurity thing drives me crazy too... I hate when people constantly make their insecurities my problem. I can only do so much within reason to quell insecurity and make someone feel loved. I can't be over-the-top "on" all the time to the point of sacrificing MY life just to try to soothe someone's black hole of insecurity, because it never works anyway and is exhausting. My ex was the worst about that shit... He pretty much killed the rest of my tolerance for that crap.
Aurora_Sunset
11-10-2019, 09:32 AM
Ex-wife just hit us with over $300 in bills that she's been fucking sitting on. I hate when she does this.
I get that my husband owes it for childcare stuff, but she needs to be more on top of her shit. She has 2 options: add stuff up throughout the year and then hand it over at tax time and get paid out of his tax return, or submit bills on a month-by-month basis as they come. I'm tired of her in-between bullshit, where she sits on shit for 3 months and then suddenly hands it all over at once and is like "Oh yeah, you now have 15 days to pay me back for ALL of this." No - get your fucking shit together and hand them over in smaller increments so we can pay as it comes, or wait for tax season. We don't just have an extra $300 lying around all at once.
I love how she obviously doesn't need the money if she's willing to fuck around so long about handing over bills, because we know her mommy and daddy pay for everything, but then the second she finally gets around to it, she acts like a loan shark or like she's starving and about to be put out on the street if we don't clear out our bank account to pay her back within the next 3 days.
She also continues to absolutely refuse to acknowledge that their bill split is NOT 50/50, it's 46/54. He has to argue with her every. fucking. time that he doesn't owe whatever number she initially comes up with, because he DOESN'T PAY 50%. He pays 46%. Not to be petty over the seemingly minor difference, but it adds up over time. If we just handed over 50% of everything without arguing about it, we'd end up paying well over $1000 a year in stuff he's not technically on the hook for. He already pays more than he "needs" to for increased bills this year just out of fairness and kindness. And she continues to act like an entitled brat, squeezing every penny out of us that she can while living in her mortgage-free house with her parents just down the street doing 90% of "her" child-raising... Tired of her crap.
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2019, 12:13 PM
Ask the lawyer.
He should have 30 days to reimburse AND she should send him the receipt within 30 days of her paying it. If these stipulations are not met then he should not be required to pay it.
Also he can request a modification in child support if he is not able to meet the obligations
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2019, 12:18 PM
Lol @ the only time they have you cornered to voice complaints
That’s so true
Also I have a relative who will bring up grievances at the worst times cause in her mind “I have to get this out NOW”
Like sometimes timing is more important
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2019, 12:28 PM
As soon as the neighbor leaves his dog starts barking non stop
If this mf don’t come get his damn dog......
I think this dog has some kind of separation anxiety. Either that or he needs to pay for a dog sitter to come walk this dog and give it attention while he works.
He works long hours too so it shouldn’t be left alone this long