View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
NitaBaby
11-23-2019, 06:50 PM
Alright so the skype guy ended up waiting for me so that we could do the show but everything kept freezing and the call dropped (i swear to god) 7 or 8 times. What would have been a $300 show was only $180. he mentioned trying again tomorrow but I wanted that money right now. anything could happen tomorrow. he could forget. i could be too tired or have some sort of an errand to run. he could decide that he doesn't need to spend another 300 on a cam girl. nothing is guaranteed.
Aurora_Sunset
11-23-2019, 07:03 PM
I have to do a second interview for the little part-time gig I applied for. I wanted the job, but at this point, the ridiculousness is almost laughable. I did a phone interview and a first interview. Now, a second in-person one? To clean a car wash 12-16 hours a week for $14/hr? I understand the background check and due diligence since I'll be there alone and obviously need to be trustworthy and able to handle myself on my own, but I just don't know what they could possibly ask or hope to get out of me anymore at this interview that they haven't already asked in-depth the last two times we talked.
I want the job. I will be a good employee. But it's just a part-time side gig for stable cash until I get on my feet... A late night, maintenance job no less. I'm having trouble continuing to act super excited about it or answer their questions as though I plan to be there for the rest of my life. No company wants someone who's going to flake out in 2 months, and it's obviously a necessary job to be done, but like... they gotta know that no one is gonna do it forever when it's not even full-time... right? The majority of their employees are obviously high-schoolers/college kids. Am I supposed to act like this is my dream job or something? I literally told the first interviewer that one of the reasons I went with them was that they were preferable to McDonald's...
whirlerz
11-23-2019, 08:14 PM
I'm upset.. The lady here has bruises on her face this POS actually hit her face>:(
She's leaving tomorrow, damn.
T he other guy that's here wants to beat the crap out him, which I don't blame him.
AChildOfBoredom
11-24-2019, 03:24 PM
My parents are serious about coming here for Christmas. Not that I wouldn’t be happy to see them, but here in the madhouse? Sure, when it was just the Amish girl, my sister, and I, that was one thing. Don’t really know how they’re going to respond to my ‘refugee’ who was thrown out of her home for coming out as a lesbian (or how they’ll react to her and my sister sharing a room) or the Irish woman, who gets pretty rowdy when she gets a mind to. I’m seeing disaster o the horizon.
carmen_b
11-24-2019, 03:37 PM
^ get them a hotel.
NitaBaby
11-24-2019, 06:36 PM
Skype guy came back and messaged me with "see you at six".
That time comes and we chit chat back and forth for a while until I start getting antsy like...are we doing this show or not?
Tell the guy "alright I'm about to get on cam for an hour and call it a day then".
He sends a "make that money girl" gif.
BITCH. I'm going to bed.
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-25-2019, 06:40 AM
^ get them a hotel.
This ^^^^^^^^
Petty annoyance- I'm blowing blood out of my nose since the air is so dry and it's so cold up here. Ugh.
AChildOfBoredom
11-25-2019, 11:59 AM
^ get them a hotel.
Oh, absolutely they’re getting a hotel. But they’ll be spending time here. They’re Mennonites - they’re not going to go out and paint the town.
I was talking about this with my ‘refugee’ last night and of course rather than take it seriously, she says, “I’ll just tell them they don’t need to worry about (my sister) because you’re the one I’d hit on”. Very funny. But, I trust her not to get a case of the jackass like that when my parents are here. I just worry because the initial reaction from my parents when I told them her story was a slightly milder, “you let one of those into your home?!” then immediately shut up about it when both my sister and I were about ready to have it with them over that comment. This girl is family to us, and I won’t be having any of that.
miss.a.p1600
11-25-2019, 01:29 PM
I have to poop and I prefer to only do this at home
WendiStarr
11-25-2019, 04:51 PM
I don't feel like getting on cam tonight. I didn't cam at all yesterday though and I'll be busy from Wednesday, due to the holidays for the rest of this week until next Monday. I don't feel like working but I need to. I'm dragging ass on getting ready.
whirlerz
11-26-2019, 09:09 AM
Reeeeally sick of my place!
Ugh, taking some clothes out just to help me clear up/organize & they smell of cigs>:(, not to mention I have a smoker's cough.
These mofos NEVER leave the house, except to buy beer, cigs, food.
Of course, she didn't leave Sunday (domestic abuse). Her dude has 5 priors for domestic abuse. Also 5 Dui's
She told me. Fine, you want to be a punching bag for a PIG.
I'll talk to landlord as I've previously done, he won't do shit.
The other roomie talked to him about the loud fighting, he was supposed to straighten out PIG, & he was 'gone'.
Which he was hiding, & she spewed out some bullshit to protect him>:(
PS yes, I'm working on GTFO, I want to live in a completely different area
carmen_b
11-26-2019, 09:54 AM
^ Yep, get out as soon as you can.
Sounds terrible / non-productive high drama vibe.
whirlerz
11-26-2019, 04:15 PM
^ Yep, get out as soon as you can.
Sounds terrible / non-productive high drama vibe.
^^^ get out of the state. Go to Wisconsin. You poor thing. I’m so glad my neighbors are all young laid back people. I’ll never live in a cheap place again. I always get stalkers and drama when I lived somewhere low income.
Yea, thanks.. ^
I'm looking @a small air purifier for my bath on ebay.. Sigh more $ to spend for this dump:(
I can't close the bath vent, (where heat/cig smell comes in) it's way stuck/old/painted over.
I used wd40. Nothing. That's the only vent there is, this was a room addition. I also use Ozium spray, open windows (no windows in bath)
Kitchen smells like an old bar (booze & cigs) even tho window's open & ceiling fan going
So, OK bought an air purifier on ebay
WendiStarr
11-27-2019, 08:14 AM
I had a hard time sleeping last night and when I finally did fall sleep, I woke up 2 hours later with heartburn and acid reflux. I took Tums, drank some water, and propped my head up with pillows. It was another hour before I was able to fall back asleep. Because I had drank water, of course I had to wake up to pee. Then daughter's school called. I thought maybe she was sick at school and needed to be picked up but they were just calling to say happy holidays. Thanks but why the hell did you need to call me about that? Then someone called me looking for someone named Stacy. Stacy isn't my real or any of my stage names so I told him wrong number. That same number called me back again and after I swiped down to reject it, he sent me texts calling me Stacy again and asking me why I wasn't answering my phone. I'm running on little sleep and I'm grumpy because I have to fast today. I have gestational diabetes testing. I think it's cruel to make a 7 months pregnant lady starve herself and I'm annoyed that scientists or doctors haven't come out with a better way to test for GD than starving us and making us drink some nasty tasting, nauseating glucose drink. This was a long rant and I'm done now, I promise.
whirlerz
11-27-2019, 04:12 PM
I have acid reflux as well, I drink sparkling water. Hope you feel better, Wendi^
miss.a.p1600
11-29-2019, 03:28 PM
That guy I dated who turned out to be a male THOT is on FB posting pictures of him and his baby talking about some “im blessed and highly favored”
....alrighty then dude
I’m putting his posts on mute
miss.a.p1600
11-29-2019, 06:16 PM
The guy i went on a couple dates with told me he went to a sporting game with a “friend”
Now my mind is like “friend?” “What kind of friend?”
I’m not supposed to be wondering about him like this
He’s supposed to be wondering about me.
I told him I was going out places but I never said “oh I’m going out with a friend”
So is that what we are supposed to do to prove we have social value or something? Is this really necessary? I mean I can lie all day about all the hot rich friends I’m hanging with daily just to spark jealousy but what’s with all the games??
I want him but I hate him right now.
He better watch himself cause I might just connect with a “friend” aka his coworker that I inadvertently hooked up with in the past before I knew this guy worked at the same company
miss.a.p1600
11-29-2019, 07:46 PM
I don’t know if it’s my fears creeping in or just realizing that maybe all that glitters isn’t gold.
Maybe I should just stop communicating with this guy. This is the first day we haven’t text/talked and well maybe this is my out even though i want to be in.
I just foolishly got too wrapped up too quick and I don’t want to be a part of some guys harem of heauxs
I probably should be focusing on my career and making sure I attract guys who are even closer to the criteria
He’s one of the best kissers I’ve had in a long time.
NitaBaby
11-29-2019, 10:29 PM
i hate any (and almost all) new disney movies. always have and always will. We're not talking about the classics, strictly the new stuff. they cram every minute of those things with song after song after song - before you can even give a fuck about the plot you've heard 12 songs about nothing.
i took my girls to the movies today and came to the quick realization that I'm going to have to pay for a fucking disney movie. I've never seen Frozen but Frozen II was the best they had to show right now. That's money I'll never get back. I was so bored it was almost violent. my kids were laying in different angles against my body, trying to find comfortable sleeping positions. I had to pick everybody up and call it quits half thru that stupid shit; when the kids are asking to "go home already" then you know it's pretty bad. GOD, i wanted to be proven wrong. Never again.
When Wreck It Ralph came out I was shocked at how much I didn't hate it. But then they put out shit like Brave, Coco, Princes and The Frog, Moana, Bolt, Wall-e, etc......shoot me in the fucking head.
queenelayliah
11-30-2019, 03:11 AM
So I decided to try dating again since my last relationship ended in 2014/2015. So a few days i matched with a woman on okcupid, who messaged me first saying how nice my ass is. straight out the box we started to be sexual in conversation, she out right stated she wanted to fuck. And im just like ‘okay’ come get this pussy lol. Anyway.
We were talking for a two days and everything was going good. On Thursday i didnt speak with her because of the holiday. So when i woke up on Friday, I decided to get online and say hi. But guess what her messages were gone and shes not in my likes anymore. I do some research on okcupid help forums, to make a long story short she either deleted her profile or she blocked me. If she she blocked me, Im now wondering why and also wondering what i did wrong.
Im not pissy for the rejection, im upset about this whole culture of ghosting people. Was it so hard to say your no longer interested especially if you initiate the conversation? Also is it to much to ask to know what a person did wrong? For example telling someone “hey i dont like how you do ‘xyz’ so i dont wish to continue talking to you goodbye.’ Is that to much to ask for sigh.
seashell
11-30-2019, 08:16 AM
Someone told me off today for having trash bags on my balcony that I hadn't taken out yet. They said something like "it's not that hard to keep your house clean."
Dude... Fuck off. I'm in a foreign country, I have to haul my trash up and down a hill for 20 minutes with asthma because I don't have a car and I have PTSD. I can't drive. I work constantly. I'm dealing with more heavy shit than you can possibly see on the outside. You have no idea what is "easy" for someone else.
Anyway, screw it, I'm hiring a maid. Problem solved, lol.
WendiStarr
11-30-2019, 08:41 AM
I'm annoyed because one of my indy camming whales is bothering me for a show. He knows it's the holidays and that I said I won't be available until Monday because I told him. I don't have privacy right now with it being the weekend with a 10 year old here. Privacy simply does not exist when you have kids. I cannot even close the door to shower without her possibly coming in to ask me a question or standing outside the door, asking me when I'm coming out, lol.
Add to the list, I fell asleep with my glasses on. They cracked right down the middle. Gorilla glue is a temporary fix until I can get a new pair, ugh!
miss.a.p1600
11-30-2019, 09:19 AM
So I decided to try dating again since my last relationship ended in 2014/2015. So a few days i matched with a woman on okcupid, who messaged me first saying how nice my ass is. straight out the box we started to be sexual in conversation, she out right stated she wanted to fuck. And im just like ‘okay’ come get this pussy lol. Anyway.
We were talking for a two days and everything was going good. On Thursday i didnt speak with her because of the holiday. So when i woke up on Friday, I decided to get online and say hi. But guess what her messages were gone and shes not in my likes anymore. I do some research on okcupid help forums, to make a long story short she either deleted her profile or she blocked me. If she she blocked me, Im now wondering why and also wondering what i did wrong.
Im not pissy for the rejection, im upset about this whole culture of ghosting people. Was it so hard to say your no longer interested especially if you initiate the conversation? Also is it to much to ask to know what a person did wrong? For example telling someone “hey i dont like how you do ‘xyz’ so i dont wish to continue talking to you goodbye.’ Is that to much to ask for sigh.
Some people are just not mature. Mature people will speak their minds in a respectful way.
Sounds like a deadbeat potential date eliminated themselves so consider yourself lucky in that aspect
NitaBaby
11-30-2019, 09:46 AM
Annoyed and I’d rather not get into details. Just..
Other ppls kids annoy the piss out of me. Who raises these little shits.
whirlerz
11-30-2019, 12:34 PM
Lol. ^
Sad part is, they're raising future/present delinquents..
I should know, via my roomie.
He's now pissed cause I won't get up & take him shopping or whatever..
It's a rainy cold Saturday right after the holiday & I aint going anywhere rn. Told him my feet hurt, arthritis true fact
Blasting fucking LOUD music TOO! Shit, I guess I need to add noise canceling headphones to my ever-growing list of shit needed to make this place tolerable! >:(
I ate a pork meal he made last night, BFD!::)
carmen_b
11-30-2019, 12:44 PM
Disaster !
I got the bug to go dance, needed my bag out of storage unit. The damn lock has frozen itself shut. ;/
The unit is my dads . I can't say why I'm there urgently needing this damn bag to get assistance with the lock. Had to let that go ( perks of free storage I guess ).
Took it as a sign to at least wait until tomorrow ..... OR buy a ticket NOW to a warmer location. I thought I might last until Dec. 10 until I completely ran out of patience for winter. I seem near the end of the patience line already.
I seem to keep making location mistakes. I was miserable in Hawaii. Left to come where I am now . Not happy here either . Lol.
I guess what I'm looking for is tropics but NOT memories of my ex ( which is why Hawaii didn't work ).
Also .... i parked my road trip car ( my SUV ) in a location which is now buried in snow. Winter always fucks me. Always . Always. Always. Need a new plan.
whirlerz
11-30-2019, 12:48 PM
Wow is it an outdoor unit? WD40, w/the long staw attached so the lube can go in the lock opening.
That sucks, can someone in storage office help?
carmen_b
11-30-2019, 12:49 PM
^ It's a family member who owns it haha. I just can't be seen desperate to get to my locked in stripper bag haha. I have this one outfit. I already had to disguise what the bag was . Maybe I can buy or borrow shoes. Lol. wtf ? All I wanted was a $500 cash boost in the next two days to take whatever I end up going. Ugh. I think the lock will unfreeze and maybe I can try tomorrow if I want .
Yes, the doors face the outside. I packed my apartment and my giant king size bed into the 8' by 8 ' unit in a tetris game style experiment so I could get out of dodge for the winter. Maybe it's time to just GO but I wanted that little extra cash boost first ...... always .... hahaha.
whirlerz
11-30-2019, 01:15 PM
Oh, ok.
I've had my car door/locks freeze, sometimes even if the car was unlocked!
It'll rain, then the temps drop & yipes.
I've been running out there everyday to pump WD40 in my key hole, & all around the car door. I have a storm door, & the little button you press to open it froze one year!
carmen_b
11-30-2019, 01:20 PM
Thanks for the WD40 advice !! If I go over tomorrow I'll bring a can !
lynn2009
11-30-2019, 08:42 PM
I drove 7 hours today and just now I went to move my car for the night and it was towed already.
whirlerz
12-01-2019, 01:18 AM
Oh NO! ^
I hope you can get it back ok!
Ifyouseekamy
12-01-2019, 08:04 AM
I love my friends. They accept me and love me for who I am-and as someone who works in the adult industry that’s hard to find. My friend started talking to me about her personal savior-I’m like please don’t do this to me. Ive been through so much spiritual abuse I really don’t want to hear anything about Jesus. So I’m sending her love and light and just being thankful she cares about my well-being. As someone whose rights are chipped away in the name of religion I get a little bit prickly when I hear some use the J or G word. She meant well and she talked about it in the I position, so I’m just gonna let it go and know that she meant well.
I’ll never forget these little mini books these church ladies passed out, “Jesus loves strippers”.
WendiStarr
12-01-2019, 08:32 AM
I was supposed to have a paid maternity photo shoot this upcoming week. I'm not going to it now because he sent me a text this morning mentioning that he really likes pregnant bellies and that if "something comes up during the shoot" would I be willing to "do more" with him. Gross! I replied back that my boyfriend accompanies me to all photo shoots and would not be okay with that. He said he decided that he didn't want to work with me anyways because he likes women who are open to more fun during shoots if he's paying them to do a photo shoot and no males are allowed on set(besides the creepy male photographer, of course) because it "gets in the way of the shoot". Eww! Sounds like a typical pervert who wants to get a vulnerable population group of women(pregnant), alone so he can take advantage of them. If he'd have just said that upfront that would've saved a lot of wasted time and I wouldn't have bothered with him. He did have some nice maternity shots in his portfolio with other pregnant models though. It makes me wonder if he pulled that shit with them too and they fell for it or if he just throws his sick ideas out there, hoping that some poor pregnant lady will be desperate enough to take the bait. Ugh! I hate creepy asshole men!
seashell
12-01-2019, 09:11 AM
^Eww... what is it with men, thinking the secret to free/cheap sex is being a creepy photographer. Who started this trend.
miss.a.p1600
12-01-2019, 09:20 AM
I was supposed to have a paid maternity photo shoot this upcoming week. I'm not going to it now because he sent me a text this morning mentioning that he really likes pregnant bellies and that if "something comes up during the shoot" would I be willing to "do more" with him. Gross! I replied back that my boyfriend accompanies me to all photo shoots and would not be okay with that. He said he decided that he didn't want to work with me anyways because he likes women who are open to more fun during shoots if he's paying them to do a photo shoot and no males are allowed on set(besides the creepy male photographer, of course) because it "gets in the way of the shoot". Eww! Sounds like a typical pervert who wants to get a vulnerable population group of women(pregnant), alone so he can take advantage of them. If he'd have just said that upfront that would've saved a lot of wasted time and I wouldn't have bothered with him. He did have some nice maternity shots in his portfolio with other pregnant models though. It makes me wonder if he pulled that shit with them too and they fell for it or if he just throws his sick ideas out there, hoping that some poor pregnant lady will be desperate enough to take the bait. Ugh! I hate creepy asshole men!
Right!
in my younger days my dumb naive ass went to a “photographers” home studio that I think I’d met off craigslist AND his place was kind of in the hood.
Now these all should have been red flags to me but I was sooo trusting and gullible back then.
I randomly mentioned my plans to a guy friend and he offered to go with me. He walked in with me and mean mugged the guy lol then left and came back when the “photo shoot” was over.
That “photographers whole demeanor and mood changed when he knew a guy had my back” Not sure but I could have unknowingly placed myself in a situation to get harmed and thankfully nothing bad happened.....except I never talked to that “photographer” again nor received my photos. So for all I know his ass could have put my pics on a porn/strip club site or something
it was just a bad idea
carmen_b
12-01-2019, 02:20 PM
The creepy photographer ..... a whole other level of creep. Lol
I met one on a dating site.
Too cheap to buy me a drink.
BEAUTIFUL photos , posing , lighting.
A shame since he is a ( talented ) loser. Lol.
JGB2009
12-01-2019, 02:30 PM
Today I wanted a Icee from Burger King so bad but their damn machine was down. I was so mad that I went home.
yaya_cash
12-01-2019, 02:30 PM
Okay, just meet this person and she is already asking me questions, like, how much my rent is, where I shop, who does my hair/make up, etc. What would you think about this?
carmen_b
12-01-2019, 02:34 PM
^ Nosy AF
Lol
Aurora_Sunset
12-01-2019, 04:15 PM
Welp, time to call the fucking lawyer again. We knew ex-wife's bid to be "good co-parents" was all an act. All hubby did was tell her that he can't afford play therapy every single week since none of it is covered by insurance - offered to pay his share of every other week, and she's going ballistic, threatening to take his rights away or have her attorney "bill him the rest" of what he doesn't want to pay. 1) he's not offering an unreasonable compromise. She can claim "the doctor says he needs it" all she wants, but this is NOT a medical necessity. 2) anything outside of child support is supposed to be agreed upon - if he doesn't agree to every week, she can't just sign him up and then demand the money. And 3) she has no case for acting like he deserves his rights taken away. He pays his child support, their medical insurance, everything that she's brought up for out-of-pocket expenses, and even voluntarily pays extra every month for the youngest to go to daycare just out the goodness of his heart, even though he knows that legally it's not required. She has no case just because he's saying that an extra $240 a month for voluntary therapy is too much, especially when he's still offering half.
I know she has no standing, but what's really frustrating is that my husband works literally all the fucking time, has no money leftover for himself or us, and she continually talks to him like, and tries to make him feel like, he's a deadbeat who doesn't deserve rights to his kids. Then dip-fuck stepdad chimes in and tries to claim that he does more for the kids than hubby does and pays more for his own kid than he does - motherfucker has a better paying job AND a stipend from the military. STFU.
He's been saying for a year that he thinks their end goal is to try to push him to breaking down and giving up his rights so they don't have to deal with him anymore. And I think he's right. Nothing she does is in the kids' best interest - it's all about her fantasy world and own selfish desires. She's the worst piece of trash I've ever had the displeasure of knowing exists. And it’s extra frustrating knowing the kids idolize mom when she talks shit about us in front of them but we never do that about her or her new husband in front of them.
whirlerz
12-01-2019, 04:31 PM
Today I wanted a Icee from Burger King so bad but their damn machine was down. I was so mad that I went home.
I've seen them @ other places, some Walmart, & gas stations.
yaya_cash
12-01-2019, 09:45 PM
^ Nosy AF
Lol
It's okay - I'll just do the same thing to her now, and work this new relationship so I can get something out of it so I won't feel like I'm being so used.
I feel like you have to treat people accordingly--
carmen_b
12-01-2019, 11:05 PM
^ Yeah, but sounds like shes vibing out your cash flow and ability to spend ..... could be bad intentions.
Or maybe just curious of clothes / salons you like. Be careful .
yaya_cash
12-02-2019, 02:26 AM
^ Yeah, but sounds like shes vibing out your cash flow and ability to spend ..... could be bad intentions.
Or maybe just curious of clothes / salons you like. Be careful .
Thank you.
I'm just so tired of meeting people-- asking me questions so personal within the first days of meeting me; being invasive.
Were supposed to be planning a ho vacation together--
I hope I don't get robbed by her then.
And those aren't the only type of questions she's asking. She's asking how I found my mentor, what my parent/s does, where my parent/s come from, what other places I've lived in, how I found my SD, how much area is where I live, what type of connection
I have with my family, etc. I mean it's like the questions never ends or wanting to know more-- It's like she wants know everything about me.
WendiStarr
12-02-2019, 09:35 AM
Recreational weed use and purchase became legal in my state yesterday so off and on bf/baby's daddy disappeared off of the face of the Earth again. He probably will blow his entire paycheck on the shit so I'm sure he'll come crawling back to me when he's hungry and out of money until Friday. Meanwhile I've been spending my entire paychecks on groceries, bills, rent, and stuff for the kids. It pisses me off that he has a great paying job + military pension, yet he blows it all on weed, beer, motorcycle crap, computer stuff, and who knows what else.
carmen_b
12-02-2019, 10:26 AM
^ Weed ? Lol. Is he 19 ? Hahahah
( I know his is not from your other posts )
omg ..... sometimes I am just amazed at what dudes do.
whirlerz
12-02-2019, 07:37 PM
So, today I had a dentist appt (teeth cleaning) I'd put it off some months, since I had to have 2 extractions, & not sure about my coverage which's ok..
I have to go back (1 small cavity) she was going to do it tomorrow, but she said she has a big appt so next week.
I mean, the time I had was not great, bc, late in the day, traffic & holiday shopping traffic.
I went grocery shopping afterward, then to a restaurant, they have great soup I take out. A van was pulled up in front, I was going to pull in front of it, I just run it & out to get it. Out comes a lady w/a baby, then her mother or somebody, I slowly inched up, & this kid runs right out in front of my car, of course not looking..
I was screaming cause I was fucking scared, the grandma or whoever started screaming @ me & said "I'm gonna fuck you up". Ok, B, what/ev::):O.
I didn't argue or say anything else, cause I try to stay out of that shit.
Then I decide to take a different route home, BIG mistake.
Traffic is gridlock for miles, there's strip malls, a Target & Walmart, I thought a bad accident? Special shopping deals? Then I see traffic rerouted, & further rerouted, & still further rerouted??
Turns out, many miles away, a train sensor malfunctions all.the.train.gates are down, no trains can get through, & MUCH TRAFFIC is being rerouted.
I call the cops (non-emergency) & no answer.
Things are SO BAD, people in cars a filling up deserted business parks, not know WTF to go, traffic on busy streets usually moving normally, is crawling/and/or stopped.
I almost had to piss in a parking lot, TG, I found an open door to a Dr's building, w/an open john.
I get a hold of the cops, they explained all this, & said I just have to look up a way home. The train co. has been informed & is 'on the way', but it's unknown when they'll get to it or fix it::)
I start down one of the streets, years ago I lived around there, & I see the name of my town. I find a familiar street just past the train tracks, head down it, & go home.
A normal 1 hr drive, that took 3.FUCKING.HOURS>:(
I saw my 1 roomie who lives w/abuse a/hole, they both drink & smoke (cigs) heavily.
She looks bad, she's been sick (throwing up) for weeks now:O?
I, & the other roomie here, told her to go to the Dr, which she likely won't. Her a/hole bf won't take her either. Me & the other guy were saying we wish we had contact # for her family, she has 5 adult kids & a cousin that's out in this area.
So, Idk, I hope she'll be ok.
Damn.
lynn2009
12-02-2019, 09:02 PM
I check on the dog I found in September occasionally and he must have been adopted and then returned to the shelter. The website says he's been at the shelter since Nov. 29, 2019, which is not when I dropped him off. Poor guy. I wish I was buying my house and could adopt a second dog.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-03-2019, 10:53 AM
Welp, time to call the fucking lawyer again. We knew ex-wife's bid to be "good co-parents" was all an act. All hubby did was tell her that he can't afford play therapy every single week since none of it is covered by insurance - offered to pay his share of every other week, and she's going ballistic, threatening to take his rights away or have her attorney "bill him the rest" of what he doesn't want to pay. 1) he's not offering an unreasonable compromise. She can claim "the doctor says he needs it" all she wants, but this is NOT a medical necessity. 2) anything outside of child support is supposed to be agreed upon - if he doesn't agree to every week, she can't just sign him up and then demand the money. And 3) she has no case for acting like he deserves his rights taken away. He pays his child support, their medical insurance, everything that she's brought up for out-of-pocket expenses, and even voluntarily pays extra every month for the youngest to go to daycare just out the goodness of his heart, even though he knows that legally it's not required. She has no case just because he's saying that an extra $240 a month for voluntary therapy is too much, especially when he's still offering half.
I know she has no standing, but what's really frustrating is that my husband works literally all the fucking time, has no money leftover for himself or us, and she continually talks to him like, and tries to make him feel like, he's a deadbeat who doesn't deserve rights to his kids. Then dip-fuck stepdad chimes in and tries to claim that he does more for the kids than hubby does and pays more for his own kid than he does - motherfucker has a better paying job AND a stipend from the military. STFU.
He's been saying for a year that he thinks their end goal is to try to push him to breaking down and giving up his rights so they don't have to deal with him anymore. And I think he's right. Nothing she does is in the kids' best interest - it's all about her fantasy world and own selfish desires. She's the worst piece of trash I've ever had the displeasure of knowing exists. And it’s extra frustrating knowing the kids idolize mom when she talks shit about us in front of them but we never do that about her or her new husband in front of them.
My mom did all of this to my dad. Sorry you're going through it.