View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
ravenskyy
12-03-2019, 11:44 AM
No more Tuesdays. Tuesday can fuck off! The week needs to go Sunday, Monday, Monday, Wednesday because Mondays are my money days and Tuesdays are when I have to exercise the little bit of patience and sanity that I have left. No one is even saying Hi! Why be on here then!?!? :banghead:
queenelayliah
12-03-2019, 03:47 PM
My teeth hurt so bad, it hurts just to push down on them using gentle force . My gums have been bleeding so bad, my periodontal disease has been really acting up. But i cant afford the damn near $1000 whole mouth deep cleaning i need.
Also i look so ugly right now. My face is soo fat, my head looks like a tiny boulder on-top of a big boulder aka my body. Sigh.
WendiStarr
12-04-2019, 02:09 AM
Acid reflux. I've already taken the maximum daily allowed amount of Tums. I hate that I just finished my camming shift at 1am, went to bed, and woke up a half hour later with this crap. There's nothing I can take for it since I took the maximum amount already. No more lemonade or oranges for me until this baby is born. I hate this.
Midwest-Mistress
12-04-2019, 11:11 AM
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whirlerz
12-04-2019, 03:22 PM
Acid reflux. I've already taken the maximum daily allowed amount of Tums. I hate that I just finished my camming shift at 1am, went to bed, and woke up a half hour later with this crap. There's nothing I can take for it since I took the maximum amount already. No more lemonade or oranges for me until this baby is born. I hate this.
Wendi. Have you tried sparkling water? I like Gerolsteiner brand, it's at Trader Joe's, Jewel, etc. Ir has minerals, including bicarbonate (baking soda).
Also, TJ"s has papaya /pineapple enzyme chewable stomach settling pills. Or a health store, even some xrug/groceriy stores.
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Have you tried mints, or mint tea?
I live w chronic AR.
Good luck, Mama! :)
whirlerz
12-04-2019, 05:10 PM
So..
My female roomie's been sick, for like 2 weeks now (throwing up).
She thought she had stomach flu, no bc she drinks heavily & has for a long time now.
Today my other roomie said her eyes/skin are yellowish.
We`ve been telling her to go see a doctor, but no.
According to what I read, it says to call 911 if you have those signs.
Yet her bf just sits there & drinks too, doing nothing.
JGB2009
12-04-2019, 06:27 PM
So..
My female roomie's been sick, for like 2 weeks now (throwing up).
She thought she had stomach flu, no bc she drinks heavily & has for a long time now.
Today my other roomie said her eyes/skin are yellowish.
We`ve been telling her to go see a doctor, but no.
According to what I read, it says to call 911 if you have those signs.
Yet her bf just sits there & drinks too, doing nothing.
That doesn't sound good at all.
yaya_cash
12-04-2019, 10:57 PM
I swear people just want to use people up - it passes me off.
Aurora_Sunset
12-05-2019, 10:10 AM
The Myfitnesspal app had an update that really screwed some things up. It's almost impossible to use properly right now. I hope they fix it soon.
Aurora_Sunset
12-05-2019, 10:17 AM
Also, I forgot that going low-carb/keto had the side effect of constantly making my teeth feel grimy like I haven't brushed them in days, even though I just did a couple hours ago. I don't remember how long it took to go away.
Aurora_Sunset
12-05-2019, 11:58 AM
I keep getting calls and voicemails from this company claiming they're calling to collect what I owe for the accident I was involved in. Now they've switched to using "Unknown number" when they call, as though that I will get me to pick up any more....
I'm not avoiding them out of refusal to pay, but I just think it's weird that I have not received any sort of physical bill in the mail. I've never been asked to pay a bill without receiving any sort of copy of said bill, laying out the charges, in an official letter. They're probably legit based on the type of message they leave, but I'm not super keen on just handing money to someone over the phone when I've never seen a breakdown of what they expect me to pay or proof that this is an official company collecting for something legitimate.
I keep thinking about this. 3 months later, and I haven't heard anything else from them. I keep thinking if it was legit, they would never have given up. Bill collectors don't just give up after a month of calling once or twice a week... And they definitely start sending stuff in the mail too, not just making phone calls, and I STILL have yet to see anything in the mail about this.
Part of me wants to believe that it was either a scam in the first place, or it otherwise got settled somewhere and I was just never told, and then there's another part of me that thinks, knowing my luck, in 6 months or something, I'll receive a summons or an arrest warrant for "dodging" this bill or something...
WendiStarr
12-05-2019, 12:19 PM
People who treat you like shit and then have the balls to ask to borrow $500 from you. I have a baby on the way and a 10 year old. I've been busting my ass to make and save $ this entire pregnancy and will probably be working up until the day that I give birth. I do not have a husband or wife helping me to pay bills, rent, or share expenses. It's only me here. The nerve of some people!
miss.a.p1600
12-05-2019, 12:29 PM
^yes. Either that or they ask you to do them favors (which cost time or money)
i have a narcissistic ex who expects me to jump when he needs something but when I need something his bitch as is nowhere to be found.
But of course - I’m the mega cunt if the century anytime I refuse to agree to ridiculous demands
xStacey
12-05-2019, 03:42 PM
I'm so sick of privileged kids and there's so many of them in law school. They are always complaining, always tired, always need a vacation because they're working way too hard and never had to pay or work much for anything so they appreciate nothing.
I have a really good friend but she's been getting on my nerves lately. It's been a really hard year for me, my father passed away, broke up with my bf, was sexually harassed at my firm, looking for a new firm, while studying for the bar exams next week, sending tons of applications, while taking care of my mother and working part-time at the club (planning to retire next year).
Whereas my friend who is 30 years old, her only challenge was breaking up with her bf of 1 year relationship this summer and she's so depressed every day, cannot work, cannot focus, cannot study, cannot read, she's always stressed out and anxious, she's doing the bar in 8 months rather than 4 months and there's literally nothing to do except sit at home and watch video clips, until she starts her real 4 months. She doesn't even work, but cannot get anything done, always late in her studies, she doesn't even go out, watch Netflix, or on social medias I have no idea what she does in her time and she's always complaining she's going through a tough time. During law school she was like I feel bad I would really like to work to earn some money to be able to pay my own meals at restaurants (because her parents are still paying for her rent, tuition and even eating out, yoga because she doesn't earn enough to pay for it herself even at 30), then she was like is it shameful to be a law student and work at a cafe? I tried to tell her hum no tons of people do that and I guess it was too shameful so since she wasn't able to find job at a law firm (always finding excuses) she did not work at a cafe and hasn't been working for years. But at the same time she has so many issues in her life she cannot work enough or study well enough to perform as well as she would like to so she's depressed. Seriously I don't know what all these problems she has are, sometimes I just wanna tell her ok you had a break up get over it it's been months and grow up. Even she said it's not normal you're the one who's always comforting me, yeah at least she realizes it, but she keeps sending me emails about how she's feeling unwell etc, etc.
miss.a.p1600
12-05-2019, 04:37 PM
I’m feeling like I’m on drugs or something with this guy. Like I can’t concentrate, I’m waiting around for him to call or text like I’m waiting for a drug dealer, and I’m hoping I can get time to be close to him like I need a hit or something
Maybe I should just focus on work.
No I need to make my work more of a mental priority
whirlerz
12-05-2019, 04:50 PM
My teeth hurt so bad, it hurts just to push down on them using gentle force . My gums have been bleeding so bad, my periodontal disease has been really acting up. But i cant afford the damn near $1000 whole mouth deep cleaning i need.
Also i look so ugly right now. My face is soo fat, my head looks like a tiny boulder on-top of a big boulder aka my body. Sigh.
OK, I have 2 dental insurances, Ameritas (Spirit), which I pay $45.00 month (no waiting period) & Dental Select, which's $27.00 a month.
I have 2 bc I had to have 2 extractions, + getting implants next year. I also need a crown.
. You could try a dental school, you may have to wait awhile.
Good luck, I hate dealing with my teeth!
whirlerz
12-05-2019, 04:55 PM
Good Lord, kitchen smells like a brewery, the 2 alchy's were out there..
The one has hepatitis, I'm worried even tho I've been vaccinated for it:O
whirlerz
12-05-2019, 05:01 PM
Sorry, 1 last thing..
Some HS boys in PA went into the woods looking for, & found a sick deer to torture, really?
I won't go into details but it's bad.
DISGUSTING!
Theres a petition about it on http://www.change.org
I also donated a small amount, it's not required tho
WendiStarr
12-05-2019, 05:28 PM
I took the gestational diabetes screening test last Wednesday. I didn't hear anything back so I thought all is well. I got an email 20 minutes ago from the lab, saying that my results were back. I failed the blood sugar test by 36 points. It appears that I have gestational diabetes. My ob/gyn pisses me off because they should've called if I failed. Now I'm really bumming because I'm a sweets lover and it looks like I'm going to have to start living as a diabetic, testing my blood sugar and give up sweets for the rest of this pregnancy. :-(
JGB2009
12-05-2019, 07:41 PM
I took the gestational diabetes screening test last Wednesday. I didn't hear anything back so I thought all is well. I got an email 20 minutes ago from the lab, saying that my results were back. I failed the blood sugar test with . It appears that I have gestational diabetes. My ob/gyn pisses me off because they should've called if I failed. Now I'm really bumming because I'm a sweets lover and it looks like I'm going to have to start living as a diabetic, testing my blood sugar and give up sweets for the rest of this pregnancy. :-(
My last pregnancy I was like that too. What got me through it was the sugar free candy from Russell Stovers. I hated it because I could not have any kind of pasta or bread. At the time I thought I was gonna die. Not really die but I was so mad. I had to redo my whole diet. I still got to eat tacos but I had to leave off the cheese and sour cream. LOL I still got to have chips but it had to be Doritos. I learned all this from Diabetic message boards. Also there is sugar free ice cream at some grocery stores. Anyways let me know if you need any pointers. Good luck.
queenelayliah
12-06-2019, 06:12 AM
I'll receive a summons or an arrest warrant for "dodging" this bill or something...
Can bill collectors really do that?! Because i haven't been able to pay two credit cards for years now and i have their numbers blocked. Now im super worried.
Also one of my pso companies just let me go because i was only making a 13 minute average where they wanted a 20 minute average. Like TF, on a chatline that only pays $0.15. Mmmmm okay.
whirlerz
12-06-2019, 08:55 AM
Can bill collectors really do that?! Because i haven't been able to pay two credit cards for years now and i have their numbers blocked. Now im super worried.
Also one of my pso companies just let me go because i was only making a 13 minute average where they wanted a 20 minute average. Like TF, on a chatline that only pays $0.15. Mmmmm okay.
No, as far as I know they can't. Bill collectors are famous for super shady BS tactics!
I didn't read Aurora original post, but sounds like this BS collection call I've been getting, (BTW, everything 's current w/me).
Ok, call I've gotten as follows: this' s _____, from the county, (she did not say which county) we have your location, we're coming to serve you, if you want to bypass this, call 800 fucking bs to pay some exorbitant $.
It's a recording too.
Pocess servers that serve summons & Co. that hire them DO NOT EVER make these calls! Process serving works by surprise, almost always.
I suggest reading up on this, search engine or nolo.com.
yaya_cash
12-06-2019, 09:28 AM
I swear people just want to use people up - it passes me off.
I just have to be more aware. I don't know why I thought this was going to be anything different from my experiences with people that work at strip clubs. Now I know and learned--
chanzep
12-06-2019, 07:11 PM
So I ate something that upset my stomach last night. Today I'm sick and can't work. I wanted to do a event tonight grr. I have just been napping a lot drinking ginger ale.
whirlerz
12-06-2019, 07:28 PM
Aw. ^ hope you feel better soon, hon.
My tum was upset today too!
Ate some crackers, club soda
JGB2009
12-06-2019, 08:18 PM
I have to cam tonight and I am in such a mood. I just want to go to sleep and not wake up till morning.
yaya_cash
12-07-2019, 02:56 PM
Why can't girls understand that $300 for being in VIP half an hour or an hour for $400 or $500 is not for sexual favors?
seashell
12-08-2019, 06:43 AM
I love my dogs, but they keep discovering new questionable behaviors. My tiny female dog has started mounting my large male dog and frantically humping him. They've also started knocking the apartment intercom phone off the wall, so anyone at the front entrance can hear what's going on in here. God help me...
WendiStarr
12-09-2019, 10:37 AM
Telemarketers and people who call my real phone # with voip numbers. So far I've received calls from out of state numbers and numbers that look oddly similar to my own phone number, with the exception of one or two number differences. I don't know who you are but I'm going to assume that you are a telemarketer or annoying ex so I'm going to block you. I liked it better yesterday. My phone was silent except for people that I actually wanted to hear from.
xxxGothBarbie
12-09-2019, 06:36 PM
Dunno which is more annoying right now.... my asshole bf basically kicking me out right before xmas bc I couldn't give him $300 for rent to share a room with zero privacy where he yelled at me constantly & wouldn't allow me to fucking work OR the shitty overpriced tiny "room" (if u can even call it that) airbnb in the dam ghetto with thin paper thin walls & noisy AF ppl occupying it bc thats all I could find at the last minute for my budget. Ugh I'm sooo making changes come the new year. Mark my fucking word!
I don't understand why I've put up with abuse for this long off & on. My mom must've really fucked me up beyond my understanding. I'm so embarrassed to even admit this is my shitty life right now *facepalm*
Glamourmilf
12-10-2019, 08:41 AM
I'm so upset that, in order to continue working as a cam girl in California, I need to become an employee who works full time. ( New law AB5) minimum wage ( blech).
30-40 hours on live stream, is equivalent to dancing on stage 24/7.
What's worse, is that I'm willing to do it, rather than deal with the hassle of escorting.
I put up an ad for escort as soon as I knew about being unemployed as of Jan 1. ( Not a lot of notice):'(
The very first inquiry came from some Arab, wanting to fly me out to Dubai.::)
Fake!!!
I'm so upset that I could cry! Or punch walls. Or both.
lynn2009
12-10-2019, 10:28 AM
This is probably a character flaw, but I get so impatient with stupid questions. I still need a stupid dog walker, and over the summer a retired guy offered to do it. I recently contacted him to see if he was sill interested and he was, so we are making plans to meet at the dog park. He lives in the same neighborhood as me, and the dog park is not even a ten minute drive away. He says "So you have to drive there for the dogs to socialize with other dogs? There are no dog parks within walking distance?" Like, tf is your issue with driving ten minutes? And then OBVIOUSLY there is not a closer one or we would go there. Fucking idiot.
carmen_b
12-10-2019, 06:34 PM
^ Im repulsed by stupid questions too. I’m a project manager so it honestly is a good character quirk to have. Since I won’t tolerate time wasting I build really clean / fast teams.
AChildOfBoredom
12-10-2019, 08:17 PM
The creepy photographer
Is there any other kind?
This is why I just don’t do photo shoots.
lynn2009
12-10-2019, 09:31 PM
^ Im repulsed by stupid questions too. I’m a project manager so it honestly is a good character quirk to have. Since I won’t tolerate time wasting I build really clean / fast teams.
God bless you haha, I could never do it. Being everyone's POC sounds like hell. I have so many work pet peeves, I won't get into it all...
Aurora_Sunset
12-11-2019, 09:13 AM
1. I hate our printer. I just changed the black ink cartridge, but it refuses to print my BLACK AND WHITE document just because the color cartridges are out... wtf? And it's not one cartridge - it has the 3 separate ones. Just for note: this printer was not MY choice lol
2. I'm trying to scrounge up some transcription jobs online. I know the beginner jobs pay peanuts, pretty much, but it'll be nice extra income for days when the weather is too crappy to Uber over the winter. And hopefully, it could lead to higher paying work to eventually replace Uber entirely. The first one I did, I rocked it. So I did another one, and it was way harder. I took almost 4 hours to transcribe 16 minutes of audio that they intentionally know is "poor quality." I think I did pretty well, but some stuff in the end threw me. I'm gonna be so pissed if I don't pass and that was just a huge waste of time... Especially since these places never tell you exactly what you did wrong.
3. I hate having to choose between sleep and productivity. It's like I either get up early and have enough time to be reasonably productive during the day, or I try to catch up on sleep, but then wake up feeling rushed and stressed all day. Why can't I have time for both? I just want a few more hours in the day...
Staci
12-11-2019, 09:47 AM
1. I hate our printer. I just changed the black ink cartridge, but it refuses to print my BLACK AND WHITE document just because the color cartridges are out... wtf? And it's not one cartridge - it has the 3 separate ones.
I have a Brother printer and encountered the same issue (ie: wouldn't even print a black and white document when any color ink cartridge was low).
I googled and watched a YouTube video that demonstrated how to put a piece of black electrical tape on a certain section of the cartridge. Doing that fools the sensor into believing that the cartridge is full, and also extends the life of the cartridge by using the last of the ink.
You might want to google your model and see if you can find similar hacks.
carmen_b
12-11-2019, 12:33 PM
I feel like if I reveal sex work history my new partner will be on " high alert " . Does it really even matter if I don't reveal ? I'm rarely working these days anyway .
I guess I'm not revealing. I don't think it's right to at this time.
miss.a.p1600
12-11-2019, 01:04 PM
No. I would not.
Especially if he’ll never find out. Some shit you just take to the grave cause most dudes can’t handle that kind of truth
carmen_b
12-11-2019, 01:53 PM
^ Exactly.
I feel fine about it. As I was transitioning out I was thinking of just going no disclosure here on out anyway.
miss.a.p1600
12-11-2019, 03:54 PM
That same thought came to my head as well.
Like should I ever disclose my past adult work and be all honest n whatnot
Then I was like “nah! What they ass don’t know can’t hurt em” lol.....
I’m sure they have minor stuff they’d never disclose - IF they knew you’d never find out
carmen_b
12-11-2019, 03:57 PM
I never want another fight about it.
Ever. Ever. Ever.
carmen_b
12-11-2019, 03:59 PM
I loaned my Mac cord ( precious !) in a coffee shop. Now I can hear this bitch and her friend cackling over everyone else ( I have audio issues and can’t run my Pandora here and pop noise cancellation headphones on , the WiFi isn’t fast enough ).
Screw me for being a nice person. Going to get it , haha.
Im exploring new coffee shops and building faves. This is not going to be a repeat.
WendiStarr
12-11-2019, 04:20 PM
Consumer Energy. Where the heck do they get off on raising their rates? My bill has doubled since last month. I thought that they were just heating but apparently they are electric too? What the heck is DTE energy for then? I thought that they were electric. I guess I don't understand how these utility companies operate, other than charging ridiculously high fees.
Adding to this post since I don't want to make more than 1 post in a day in this thread. I had a new platonic cuddle client. He was nice, tall, decent looking, and is a Physician's Assistant in the ICU at the nearby hospital. Everything seemed fine during the cuddle session. It's after the cuddle session when things got weird. I read his message afterwards but didn't respond. He got all butt hurt that I had read it without responding right away and sent a message to me about how he felt a connection and wanted to take me out on a date but if I was going to ignore him, then fine. I just didn't expect someone with that kind of job to act that way. He could probably easily afford and get himself a young, non-pregnant sugar baby. Why go after a 7 and a half months pregnant lady for a date? Bizarre.
trustfundkiller
12-11-2019, 06:34 PM
I feel like if I reveal sex work history my new partner will be on " high alert " . Does it really even matter if I don't reveal ? I'm rarely working these days anyway .
I guess I'm not revealing. I don't think it's right to at this time.
From my experience they will always use it against you when shit goes sour. I've had the same thoughts. On one hand, I would feel like I'm lying about something that has been a huge part of my life. On the other hand, I really do think a lot of guys can't handle it. On some level it changes they way they see you.
miss.a.p1600
12-11-2019, 09:03 PM
I never want another fight about it.
Ever. Ever. Ever.
You already know lol!
mfs act cool about it one moment then throw it in your face at some later date
one time a guy I was dating found out i smoked weed.
Next thing I know his as comes out of nowhere with a platter of weed and some blunts like “let’s smoke together” ... I’m like “bruh wtf you doing?” Cause he wasn’t a smoker.
Then weeks later he threw it in my face when it was something I didn’t get around to doing he was like “your ass is probably high that’s why”
i thought to myself that 1) he’s a complete asshole and 2) he was better off not knowing
seashell
12-12-2019, 10:39 AM
^This is one reason I'm happy to be single. They often start out being "open-minded"... until some disagreement comes up. Then their true feelings come out.
My petty annoyance is that my lover boy broke my shower curtain rod. Then he tried to fix it, and put it up about an inch from the ceiling. It looks like my shower curtain is levitating two feet from the ground. He definitely owes me a favor now. lol
carmen_b
12-12-2019, 12:05 PM
^ An oral favor. Lol
carmen_b
12-12-2019, 12:06 PM
M,
Get internet at your house.
Seriously wtf ?!? Lol
I know you are eccentric but you are thinking of having AirBnB guests. You need internet.
Duh. I need it !
lynn2009
12-12-2019, 12:14 PM
^ Exactly.
I feel fine about it. As I was transitioning out I was thinking of just going no disclosure here on out anyway.
I am all about that lie of omission until the day I die. Ruined so many potential relationships, I wish I could go back and slap myself.