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WendiStarr
12-20-2019, 11:23 PM
I completely forgot that anyone could read the camming section. Till one of the guys messaged me. He’s a decent guy so I didn’t freak out about him but the other unsavory ones.

Camming I think should be ladies only. Or men who actually cam

I agree 100% on that. Sometimes the blues read our posts and find our camrooms. I had a blue from here do that and he was being a freeloader, not tipping just begging.

Aurora_Sunset
12-21-2019, 09:30 AM
Our upstairs neighbors flooded their bathtub/bathroom at 4am, and we woke up to water pouring from our ceiling. How the fuck do you manage to do that at 4 in the morning?

Also, Friday nights always have our across-the-hall neighbors yelling their heads off. Every Friday. Like clockwork.

This place was fairly quiet and pleasant when we first moved in, because the buildings weren't very full... Neighbors suck.

JGB2009
12-21-2019, 09:45 AM
Last night when I was with you I tried to discuss what your problem was with me. I tried numerous times. You wait till I am on my way home and text me some BS. That was just stupid. You could have told me this in person. I'm glad I am not around you all of the time because you get on my nerves. I value my alone time and would not have it any other way!!!!!

WendiStarr
12-21-2019, 09:58 AM
Ugh, speaking of annoying neighbors..I hope Big Bertha across the hall leaves soon. She usually leaves on Saturdays and doesn't return until Tuesdays. I don't know what the heck is the meaning of her slamming doors repeatedly and she needs to empty her damn mailbox ffs. It's so full that the mailman didn't close it and whenever it runs out of room, the mailman starts putting her mail in my mailbox. I end up taking it out of my mailbox and putting it in a pile on the floor in front of her front door because I don't want anyone's mail. Someone must've gave UPS a key because he has started piling up packages for everyone right in front of my door. There are seriously 11 of them all stacked up and they are all hers. They've been sitting there for the past 4 days. Get your mail and packages!

lynn2009
12-21-2019, 12:02 PM
Neighbors suck.

Neighbors suck ass, majorly. I am almost wearing noise cancelling headphones when I'm home; hearing other people's tv or guitar or just loud talking through the floor and ceiling drives me fucking insane. I found a lot of beautiful townhouses that are much nicer and more affordable than their single- family home counterparts, but I think I would still buy an 800 square foot house over a bigger townhouse or twin. I can't share walls anymore.

carmen_b
12-21-2019, 12:07 PM
^ I can’t stand hearing people too!

I live at M’s AirBnB 50% of the time and I’m worried about that point when someone actually checks in . I imagine I’ll use my headphones a lot.

carmen_b
12-21-2019, 12:09 PM
Speaking of M ....

Dude it’s only been three weeks.
There still needs to be dating formality here .
Not “ are you dropping by “.
I know what you are asking. :)
Happy to drop by. After a more formal date. Let’s get done up and go out.
Too early for too much at home time.

miss.a.p1600
12-21-2019, 12:19 PM
I should be working but instead I’m in bed

FML!!!

xxxGothBarbie
12-21-2019, 06:16 PM
I just realized the ONLY thing I enjoy about the holidays is the yummy comfort food. Everything else can fuck off! Esp people trying to literally force xmas upon you as in having expectations for me to either do something, make something or whatever. Shit's sooo annoying!

lynn2009
12-21-2019, 07:19 PM
Why are dogs so difficult about their grooming??! Everytime I try to be a good dog mom and take of his fur, teeth or nails properly and in a timely manner he loses his shit. I am taking care of you, dumbass.

carmen_b
12-21-2019, 08:17 PM
***** SEXUAL ASSUALT POSSIBLE TRIGGER WARNING *****

*** Also no quoting please. I'm still gathering my thoughts ********




I may start another thread for this.
I am beginning to suspect my dude of occasionally removing condoms without my knowledge.
The reason I feel this way is that probably 10 times out of 12 or so sexy times ..... he wants me facing away.
I had sex with him every day roughly Dec. 3-8 for about 6 days and nothing seemed really " off " . He just really seemed to like doggie style / knees squished up for a " tight " fit . ( UTI city ..... yup )

Then .... one time ( Dec. 14th ) I was craving face to face intimacy after an anti-biotic round for 5-6 days ( with no sex due to UTI ) .
He freaked out and started kind of raging at me ( instead of just sexing me up face to face ) and that was the main indicator of my suspicions. Now .... looking back I see maybe the behavior was a distraction ( he pounded fists on bed too and I am wondering if it was a visual distraction to get the condom ).
These are some scary thoughts that have been coming up last few days.
I mean .... these thoughts must be coming from *somewhere* you know ? Even at my most paranoid I have never thought anyone was ever doing this before .

I honestly do not know for sure. I often check for a condom ( such as feel for the bottom during ball play ). In the few times I checked with my hand ( maybe 4 out of the 12 times ) it was there .
There are other things too such as no " mess " ..... like ..... if a condom was gone sheets or skin would have more mess and there isn't any. Last time we were together I couldn't see if he had one on in the room after sexy times so I followed him to bathroom . He seemed to have it on and was removing it ( he was not thrilled I followed him ).

I do feel like I'm going a little crazy about this ( I er on the paranoia side with both pregnancy and stds ).
Maybe I just don't trust him enough quite yet to be facing away and hands above me ( hands above is not something he often does but occasionally / dominant in style ). I guess the trust factor isn't there yet for these D / s games at the very least even if it isn't something more insidious. I think I need to turn up the lighting the room somewhat too for more visual reassurance.

It would be a terrible shame if this goes south. He is the only person to sexually satisfy me really for years I'd say . Things fell apart in mid 2017 and 2018 with my long term partner we were not having much sex. Then my dating life was hit and miss with no one really offering a good amount / frequency with sex - he is the only one !

carmen_b
12-21-2019, 09:03 PM
^ Hoping for the best here obviously. I think too it's just some of the stuff he has said ( really wanting another child close in age to his first one who is 3 ) .

I don't know. Maybe I'm going a little crazy here. I did notice another box of condoms he went out and purchased on the nightstand so he is going to get them for us.

miss.a.p1600
12-21-2019, 09:34 PM
^just gotta trust your intuition and do what it tells you to do

Better to err on the side of caution

carmen_b
12-21-2019, 10:07 PM
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carmen_b
12-21-2019, 11:38 PM
Now I am mad at him overall. I referenced that it would be nice to cuddle ( just as a reference , I'm in a work location 90 minutes away ). He didn't say anything.
Then I mentioned " Will you live tomorrow without me bring you your coffee " ? He has always said that he likes it when I do that. Today he was joking about a Keurig and not needing a woman.

Maybe he is mad I'm not there but his project is so emotionally intensive .
I was somewhat timing my departure from the Snow Castle to be now to get away from that intensity ( my own work will be intensive today and tomorrow ). I can't deal with both.

miss.a.p1600
12-22-2019, 04:48 AM
Sorry you feel that way

Sounds like you’re doing what’s right for you and he’s guilt tripping ?

carmen_b
12-22-2019, 10:10 AM
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WendiStarr
12-22-2019, 10:36 AM
^ From everything I've read, be careful with this guy. It sounds like he might be up to something sinister. I have a male relative who baby trapped an (ex) girlfriend who didn't ever want kids, just because he wanted a baby and thought it would be cool to have one. He messed with her birth control pills. The girlfriend was absolutely pissed and miserable and once she gave birth, she left and now he has his baby and she has to pay him child support even though she never wanted the baby and doesn't see the baby at all. He either has to be willing to have sex face to face so that you can see that the condom is on or no sex. The thought occurred to me that he could be poking holes in condoms. Do you have your own condoms? I think you mentioned in a different post getting an IUD put in soon. If so that should help provide some assurance that that doesn't happen to you, but in the mean time that's scary as hell. It would be different if you were both in a serious relationship and agreed to have a baby together, but someone possibly trying to stealth, especially when you haven't been together long and he refused to get STD tested isn't cool.


My petty annoyance today is an indy cam customer who only paid for a 10 minute show trying to go over his time. I set an alarm and turned my cam off once his 10 minutes were up and he started begging me to turn the cam back on because he hadn't cum yet. He said just give him 5 more minutes and he'll cum. Nope, pay me for longer then, dude. I don't do freebies even if it is 5 extra minutes. Time is money.

carmen_b
12-22-2019, 10:41 AM
^ Thanks for your input.
Yes, I'll be doing better visual checks. The condoms we first used were mine but the last 10 or so were his.
I also dug through the garbage last time ( the device was post sex normal looking with the " stuff " inside it ) ..... no way you can share that detail without TMI .

I certainly hope he is not up to anything creepy but it's scary to not feel 100% about it .
I went to a rape center last night and had a swab done / stored and a case log started just in case I need to do anything with it later.

It's that " main " freak out ( Dec. 14 ) that has me very worried. Like ....... WHY when I asked was it SO important to not have sex face to face? I think we ended up fighting about it and not continuing the sex ( had sex for like 5-6 seconds him behind me before the fight ). I am glad I did ( some ) physical checks but wish I would have checked physically every time ( which is something I should not have to worry about ! ). At the time of the fight I was just pissed about not being offered face to face / skin to skin intimacy . I didn't even THINK about condom stuff or the potential of being misled until a few days ago.

He just overall at first didn't give me the reassurance of being careful ( that someone like me needs ).
I feel upset with myself sometimes because I am drawn to his upper scale lifestyle and being a key part of it .
We are a great personality fit and enjoy each other day to day ( we have spent blocks of times like 5-6 days at a time together ). I do have these doubts though. It's just so DAMN unfortunate because ALL my dating stories of 2019 kind of have this " he doesn't give me enough time " theme except for him. Things feel " right " with him on so many levels except for this.

Aurora_Sunset
12-22-2019, 11:07 AM
Even if he wasn't doing anything nefarious, I think it's absolutely bizarre that he would freak out so much to the point of arguing just because you wanted to have sex face-to-face. Have you ever had more intimate, face-to-face sex? Or does he have some weird hangup about it?

carmen_b
12-22-2019, 11:11 AM
Definitely a hang up about it / or a strong preference.
I wanted to talk openly about it a week ago. I asked questions about the preference and he was shutting down about it.

We start facing together and do the normal kissing foreplay stuff obviously but I'd say 10 out of 12 times he prefers doggie style.
That actually might be a deal breaker in it's own way ( even if there isn't something else ) if he won't meet me 50/50 on it.

It isn't like he is " closed " off sexually either ..... we say each others names a lot ..... lots of " talk " in the moment . He is really skilled lover which makes it hard to walk away also . I am not sure why but in 2019 before him I kept just striking out from a sexual perspective. I was never getting enough sex from the people I was seeing and it was constantly disappointing .

Aurora_Sunset
12-22-2019, 11:15 AM
Agreed. Even if he isn't doing something shady, the fact that he refuses to compromise on it, or even talk with you more about why he has this hangup, is weird and not something you can deal with forever. Sounds like some kind of psychological hangup or just pure selfishness in his sexual preferences vs. his partner's.

carmen_b
12-22-2019, 11:18 AM
^ Something to think about.
I think what actually got me started on the " have I been stealthed ? " train of thought was some googling about " why partner prefers sex facing away " .

Trust me .... I " get " doggy ( he most likely likes the visual of seeing things going on ). I just need variation and some reassurance .

He isn't a selfish lover. I think I average 3-5 big O's for each one of his. ;)

carmen_b
12-22-2019, 10:22 PM
I got my period today.
This is a relief.
It doesn't mean it was all in my head ( still could have been something ) but a relief .

AChildOfBoredom
12-23-2019, 02:07 PM
It wasn’t my ‘refugee’ my parents were targeting. They’re still wary of her, but she’s making a good impression on them and a maybe even winning them over. No, it was me.

“We’re worried that you’re 29 and still not married and have no children”. FFS. Of course, I don’t dare tell them I have no intention of having any… even telling ‘English’ acquaintances - especially those with children of their own - kicks off a tirade of mommyjacking, as if I can’t figure the fuck out what I want in life. Just… shut… up.

They’re out and about with my sister, my friend from the community, her children, and the Amish girl. I had to go into work today.

Selina M
12-23-2019, 02:19 PM
Why are dogs so difficult about their grooming??! Everytime I try to be a good dog mom and take of his fur, teeth or nails properly and in a timely manner he loses his shit. I am taking care of you, dumbass.

I feel you. One of mine refuses to have his nails cut, we tried with 3 people last time & he drew blood scratching one of them in his panic (and we were still unsuccessful). He allows you to brush him, for a whopping 30 seconds, if you're holding his collar with the other hand, and he gives you the suspicious side eye the whole time. Silly dog walks around looking like a mess, like I don't care about his grooming...

I wish they understood English sometimes so we could tell them to chill!

chanzep
12-23-2019, 08:46 PM
I have hardly been on here. My seasonal vanilla gig is exhausting. Vanilla co workers mostly crazy just a few nice ones. Only the seasonal are cool . The regular are crazy . I am so tired all the time. I have been invited to spend Christmas with others . Feels like hard work.

miss.a.p1600
12-23-2019, 09:07 PM
After I showed a prospective client how she could save money with a product this bitch said to set another day/time to meet. I drive out of my way, only to have her reschedule again tells her “receptionist” I should call her then she blocks my number.

I really hate when people don’t have the strength to say what they really mean and when they waste my time.

Well bitch if you want to keep paying extra $60 a month for next 15 years that’s on you and you’ll get your just deserts for wasting my time

WendiStarr
12-24-2019, 01:21 AM
It figures that my pso lines on NF would be silent all day until I had just fallen asleep. I forgot to turn my ringer off so it woke me up. I answered and dude hung up. I hurried up, logged in to my NF account, and set it to Away-Not taking calls and he somehow managed to get a call through again after I had changed it. I answered it and he hung up again. Thanks, fucker for waking me up and earning me $5.32!

Aurora_Sunset
12-24-2019, 11:08 AM
I don't know what my dipshit older cat's problem is lately. She's been wary and growly toward the new cat since we brought him home, but after a few days, seemed to be more or less comfortable around him. Would kinda growl if he got super in her space, but existed normally together.

The last few days now, she has been super scared of him, running terrified if he is so much as within her line of sight. This has resulted in her being super weird about not coming out of our bedroom unless forced. To the point where I don't think she's eating or drinking unless I take her out to her food bowl. She constantly stands at the door when I'm in there, looking at me like she's hungry, but she won't leave. When she finally does eat, she throws up most of it right after because she eats too fast.

I don't think she's sick, because she wants to eat and drink, and does so ravenously if I take her out to the bowls. But she is so scared of the new cat that she won't overcome it to feed herself. I've never known an animal that is so damn stubborn that they would rather starve themselves than at least try to bolt to the food dish.

I don't know what to do... It's not like the new cat is mean to her. He's a big loveable goof. He's never done a damn thing to her. She's more comfortable with the big young cat that pounces on her all the time than she is with the goofy cat that just kinda wanders around existing...

I think I'll have to close her out of the rooms the next few days so she's forced to exist in the living room/kitchen. I had to do that when I very first got her and she was scared of the apartment.

Aurora_Sunset
12-24-2019, 03:36 PM
I feel like a jerk, because we did Christmas with the kids this morning, and now they're upset that we won't let them take home most of the toys and stuff we bought them. Normally, I would have, but bio-mom threw a big ol' bitch-fit this past week about how they were "missing a bunch of toys from their house" and demanding we return everything they had ever brought over and kept here. It's not as though we kept their stuff on purpose - they always choose what they want to leave here. They're the kids' toys, ffs, not hers.

But fine. We've bought them lots of stuff this past year, and every single time they've taken something back to HER house, I've never seen those toys again. So fuck it. If we're not going to be allowed to let them choose to leave "their" stuff here, then everything we buy them needs to stay here. How else are they supposed to have their own stash of stuff at our place?

So, now I'm the asshole, because the 4-year old wants to take her slippers I bought for her home because "she doesn't have slippers at home." But I know that as soon as they go to that house, she won't ever have slippers here again either. So...

miss.a.p1600
12-24-2019, 07:08 PM
One of my family members is extremely neurotic

She claims wearing fragrances will cause her to have pneumonia

I get people dousing themselves in fragrance but some light perfume?! Cut the dramatics!!! Nothing is wrong with you but your untreated undiagnosed mental illness

WendiStarr
12-25-2019, 07:58 AM
The acid reflux and Braxton Hicks contractions are awful this morning. Tums quit working and I want to just lay back down and sleep this away.

AChildOfBoredom
12-26-2019, 09:27 PM
FUCK! FUCK! FUCK!

My mother was in my room talking to me today and I’d forgotten to close the closet. I think she saw my uniforms from the Army hanging on there. I REALLY don’t want to have to explain that or why I left them completely in the dark about it.

I would rather they found out that I stripped than find that out.

WendiStarr
12-27-2019, 12:59 PM
My anxiety was off the charts today and my BP was high. I had to do pre-eclampsia blood work again, even though I just had that blood work done 2 weeks ago and everything was fine. I'm hoping I pass it again because I have enough issues. BD was angry at me like I'm purposely making myself have problems. I'm not. I'm just having a difficult time relaxing and I can't take anxiety meds because no ob/gyn will prescribe them to a pregnant woman. He seriously started crying and said he misses his alleged ex wife (who I found out he's still legally married to). I'm over here just worried about something bad happening to me or the baby or baby being born too soon. I just need to make it through the next 6 weeks at least.

queenelayliah
12-27-2019, 06:21 PM
My pissy rant:
1) upstairs neighbor loud as fuck, i can hear him piss what the fuck. I have been living here 3 years now & that never happened.

2) Haven’t been on the site in 20 days and the first thought that came to mind is I wonder if anyone on the site missed me And now im embarrassed that i even thought it.

3) i had my first English language client but the site take 100% of the first payment, so for that hour of teaching i would have gotten $0.

4) Phone sex has been down and I’m $700 short on bills. I dont even have tax money for year 2019 because its been sooooooo fucking slow this year. Its hard to put aside tax money when your short on rent & can be evicted.

queenelayliah
12-27-2019, 06:24 PM
^ oh also i had to quit 1 of my pso sites because they were tripping when it came to the new stupid rules they started for $0.15 per minute. Get the fuck out if here.

lynn2009
12-27-2019, 08:13 PM
People who feel the need to tell other people about how much they hate people because that is a funny and trendy thing to say these days. I'm pretty sure if you actually hated people that much you wouldn't have started such a stupid conversation with me.

whirlerz
12-27-2019, 10:51 PM
^ oh also i had to quit 1 of my pso sites because they were tripping when it came to the new stupid rules they started for $0.15 per minute. Get the fuck out if here.

IKR?!

OMG, I almost had a freaking heart failure!

Stupidly, I tried to help (yet again!) Asshole roomie, I put this rental on my card.. Come to find out there's $150.cancel fee, BUT. That was a mistake, I will get the whole 343.00 back. Thank God!

Sheesh, maybe I'll learn my lesson now:-[

Vyanka
12-27-2019, 11:51 PM
Wow I just can’t believe how misogynistic some men are in our era still!!!!!! There was a classmate at the bar school I got along with until we hung out today with friends we totally disagree with everything regarding life choices, career and relationship issues. To be honest, the guy is not very good looking and I really doubt he gets laid a lot... He likes timid, pure and « virginal women » who are innocent and it would turn him off a woman who asks for his number... And he thinks if a woman has more than 2-3 partner in her life she’s a whore... but that a man can sleep with 50 women or more if he wants because he earned it. I know no one in my life even the women who do not sleep around who slept with only 2-3 men in her life wtf even my friend who did not get laid for 3 yrs slept with more men than that.

And he was like a woman who has a lot of sexual experience you can just feel it and you know it vs a woman who is pure. And he was like oh xstacey you do not have to argue with me about numbers I have a pretty good idea of your numbers and btw I think you have high chances of getting divorced.

He also talks about women getting uglier starting 27 and whose value decline in their 30s, and that me and my friend we should date while we are still at our prime because it will get harder after bc I do not seem like a happy person WTF and he cannot believe I could be happy single (whereas he’s had no one since forever). And he said you are arguing with me obviously bc you are unhappy with your relationship status wtf I have never felt this good in my life without any man. And that when we are in our 30-40s our tits sag and we lose value but men their value keep growing. And that a woman who slept with 10 guys + is a hoe who cannot raise children. Wooooow.

He is also arabic and muslim, I am not racist but oh goddddd now I remember why I do not hang out with them and even my arabic friends hate muslim men.

Ah he also said women with lots of partner you just know it it’s written hoe all over their forehead. Lmao I don’t even want to know his opinion of me, especially since my ex used to say I smell like sex even when clothed and with all those years of experience in sex work Hahahaha I must be a degenerate hoe like she calls them.

Oh, he also said ambition and intellect are not things I value in a woman. Omggg so misogynistic.

I seriously hope that dude gets played out by a ruthless gold digger.

Ifyouseekamy
12-28-2019, 04:14 AM
Bad customer service. I called and repeatedly ask the sales clerk if they had what I wanted in stock. Made her repeat it back to me. I drove out there and they didn’t have it!

Aurora_Sunset
12-28-2019, 07:28 AM
I'm so sick of not being able to sleep properly.

JGB2009
12-28-2019, 08:33 AM
Misplaced the notebook that I normally write down all my confirmations for paying bills.

carmen_b
12-28-2019, 01:20 PM
Sometimes I'm good at protecting my time. Other times .... not so much.
My sister somehow wrangled me during Sat. evening ( missing club income now ). ;/
Ok ..... protecting Sunday - Tues. FOR SURE .
I feel like my savings is just dwindling due to people encroaching on my time so I need a refresh on protecting it.

miss.a.p1600
12-28-2019, 04:12 PM
^i know the feeling

Aurora_Sunset
12-28-2019, 05:04 PM
I miss my Planet Fitness in my old city that was 24/7. The ones here advertise as “24 hours” but that only applies to 7am Sunday through 7pm Friday. They close early Friday and Saturday nights. Fine if they don’t want to be open ALL night, but 7pm? Seriously?

What’s really annoying is that for the next month, I’ve specifically designed my schedule to where I work one job until 6 and another job starts at 8 in Saturday’s. Both jobs and the gym are all in the same area, so I thought it would be perfect to go get a workout in rather than drive all the way home and then back out again. Now, I can go for under an hour, and that still leaves me with an hour to kill somewhere in a parking lot...

miss.a.p1600
12-28-2019, 09:15 PM
Troll city in T minus 11 hours

Aurora_Sunset
12-29-2019, 08:32 AM
This is extremely petty lol but we live right next to a church. Their Sunday service obviously starts at 10:30 (or is supposed to) because they ring the bell around that time every Sunday. But what's annoying is that it's never AT 10:30. They're always either 3-4 minutes early or 3-4 minutes late. I just feel like I expect a church bell to be more precise.

Aurora_Sunset
12-29-2019, 12:09 PM
I feel like a jerk, because we did Christmas with the kids this morning, and now they're upset that we won't let them take home most of the toys and stuff we bought them. Normally, I would have, but bio-mom threw a big ol' bitch-fit this past week about how they were "missing a bunch of toys from their house" and demanding we return everything they had ever brought over and kept here. It's not as though we kept their stuff on purpose - they always choose what they want to leave here. They're the kids' toys, ffs, not hers.

But fine. We've bought them lots of stuff this past year, and every single time they've taken something back to HER house, I've never seen those toys again. So fuck it. If we're not going to be allowed to let them choose to leave "their" stuff here, then everything we buy them needs to stay here. How else are they supposed to have their own stash of stuff at our place?

So, now I'm the asshole, because the 4-year old wants to take her slippers I bought for her home because "she doesn't have slippers at home." But I know that as soon as they go to that house, she won't ever have slippers here again either. So...

Today, they were packing up and hubby said that "she wants the Nintendo Switch brought back to her house" (which I told him to keep here last week). I threw my own fit and basically said fuck her, why would we do that? HE bought that Switch last Christmas. He buys all the games for it. He's the one who bought a new connector cable to the TV after they lost the original at their place 10 months ago and never replaced it. Fuck her. She wants to throw her weight around and be a mega-cunt about "her" stuff, then why the fuck would she get to say where the expensive Switch that HE bought goes? It SHOULD stay over here. She's contributed jackshit to it. It's not hers.

He originally left it behind, then called me 10 minutes later asking if I could bring it down to the car because they were turning around for it...

I don't know if he called her and got into a fight about it and caved, or if it was because the kid was whining and he felt bad depriving him. Which, I guess, the latter, I understand... but I'm still pissed about it. I just hate her fucking bullying and entitled-ass, hypocritical demands.

I avoid her like the plague, because I know that if I'm forced to get into a pissing match with her, I'm going to be a huge bitch about it. Hubby gets flustered and shuts down when he argues with her. Trust me - I won't. And she won't fucking like it.

lynn2009
12-29-2019, 04:51 PM
I feel you. One of mine refuses to have his nails cut, we tried with 3 people last time & he drew blood scratching one of them in his panic (and we were still unsuccessful). He allows you to brush him, for a whopping 30 seconds, if you're holding his collar with the other hand, and he gives you the suspicious side eye the whole time. Silly dog walks around looking like a mess, like I don't care about his grooming...

I wish they understood English sometimes so we could tell them to chill!

I tried to do my dog's nails again after writing that and it ended with me locking myself in the bedroom because I was so frustrated with his hysterics, I was ready to kick him. I spend a god damn fortune on my dog, and all I wanted was to cut his nails myself instead of having to pay for that the rest of my life but I probably made it worse. He'll probably need to be sedated at the vet now.