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carmen_b
01-13-2020, 09:57 PM
Club soda and splash of OJ.
Hubby wanted to go out to a couple of bars last night as a date night/last night out for awhile before he started a new schedule and class today for the next few weeks. I was good and stuck to my Dry January. I drank soda and mocktails, but by the end of it, I honestly think I would have felt less crappy with a beer. I had to have consumed SO much sugar with the soda and juices in my drinks. I almost felt drunk and sick off them by the time we got home. I basically stuffed some cheese and popcorn down my throat, even though I was full, to get the sweetness out of my system. I wish there were mocktails that were made of something healthier than juice, soda, and syrups but not just plain water or soda water with lime or boring stuff like that.

lynn2009
01-14-2020, 04:17 PM
My new phone is a year old smartphone model I bought at Target and it's already glitchy. It keeps vibrating like I'm getting a notification but nothing is there and I haaate when the screen viewer rotates and it does that all the time even though I have it set not to.

Aurora_Sunset
01-15-2020, 08:29 AM
I thought I was getting better, but it's like every night, I'm just sick again. Even if I mostly just have drainage all day, by around 7pm, my throat hurts again like it did when I was sick sick. I hydrate all day, so it can't be dehydration. And nothing helps it. Cough drops, gargling with salt water, tea with honey - nothing. It's insane. At 3:30 this morning, I woke myself up hacking my brains out. I couldn't get back to sleep for almost an hour because I kept coughing.

Nothing else goes with it though - no fever, rash, aches, nothing like that. I ran for a full mile yesterday, so obviously my lungs and breathing are fine. This is going on Day 10 of this shit. I'm so done with it.

seashell
01-15-2020, 11:20 AM
I thought I was getting better, but it's like every night, I'm just sick again. Even if I mostly just have drainage all day, by around 7pm, my throat hurts again like it did when I was sick sick. I hydrate all day, so it can't be dehydration. And nothing helps it. Cough drops, gargling with salt water, tea with honey - nothing. It's insane. At 3:30 this morning, I woke myself up hacking my brains out. I couldn't get back to sleep for almost an hour because I kept coughing.

Nothing else goes with it though - no fever, rash, aches, nothing like that. I ran for a full mile yesterday, so obviously my lungs and breathing are fine. This is going on Day 10 of this shit. I'm so done with it.
Have you tried cough syrup, like the kind that coats your throat? You might need something like codeine if you can't sleep because of the coughing. There's also a tea called Throat Coat by the brand Traditional Medicinals, that really helps and is more natural.

Elektra Luxx
01-15-2020, 03:20 PM
My shoulder really hurts and I'm not sure how I hurt it.

WendiStarr
01-15-2020, 03:22 PM
BD felt the need to text me that he's going out to the bar tonight with a friend. Whoopty fucking doo. What's the point of texting to let me know that when you left me a few days ago? To rub it in my face how you get to go out and have carefree fun while I'm stuck at home pregnant with your baby? Asshole.

xxxGothBarbie
01-15-2020, 06:27 PM
I'm beyond infuriated that this hotel's wifi keeps kicking me off ugh
All I'm trying to do is work on both my computers & it's like everytime I try to sign in again it kicks me off, of course the motel clerk is useless *smdh* High speed wifi should be available to everyone at all times these days.

lynn2009
01-16-2020, 11:52 AM
I got called about a job that was full remote and they asked about salary. Instead of using my brain and dodging the question, I answered with around my current salary and she immediately said that wouldn't work. I could cry, I can't believe I blew it so quickly.

carmen_b
01-16-2020, 12:51 PM
^ You could always circle and say " at the time, I didn't factor in the benefit of being remote . What would you think about xyz ? I am VERY interested. "

AChildOfBoredom
01-16-2020, 01:38 PM
(Typically taller) people keep telling me there’s advantages to being as short as I am. I wish I knew what they are already.

Aurora_Sunset
01-16-2020, 06:58 PM
(Typically taller) people keep telling me there’s advantages to being as short as I am. I wish I knew what they are already.

Right? My husband is 6'5" and I'm 5'0". He constantly complains about being so tall and says "the world isn't made for tall people." Well, maybe not at his height, but it sure as shit isn't made for short people!

miss.a.p1600
01-16-2020, 07:36 PM
Anxiety

I’ve cried so many times the past few months

whirlerz
01-16-2020, 08:14 PM
So far, I've spent over 100. on air purifier, Ozium solid products, decent room spray etc, so alchy roomie constant smoking can be diffused. Too cold to open window(s).
I gave him a solid Ozium for his room, we'll see how long it'll last.
When I use face wipes, there's brown residue after, not makeup eeeww.

He's now sloping up the kitchen, yesterday I stupidly cleaned it, including the stove/oven, + their toilet (I have my own) swept/mopped the kitchen/hall too & hurt my leg in the process.

You know it's bad when your own Mom throws you out (barring, of course, craziness on her part which isn't the case here)

AChildOfBoredom
01-16-2020, 09:58 PM
Right? My husband is 6'5" and I'm 5'0". He constantly complains about being so tall and says "the world isn't made for tall people." Well, maybe not at his height, but it sure as shit isn't made for short people!

It doesn’t help that I seem to encounter abnormally tall women quite frequently. My ‘refugee’ is 5’10”, as is the one dancer I carpool with. Both of my sisters are taller than me. They point out I’m the one who got the metabolism that lets me eat like a horse without gaining weight and the tits.

seashell
01-18-2020, 10:24 AM
I can't stand my neighbors. They keep throwing food onto my porch for my dogs, and sometimes their kids jump into my porch as well, to play with them. It's so scary to see someone literally right outside my bedroom window!

I want to move so bad...

whirlerz
01-18-2020, 11:13 AM
I can't stand my neighbors. They keep throwing food onto my porch for my dogs, and sometimes their kids jump into my porch as well, to play with them. It's so scary to see someone literally right outside my bedroom window!

I want to move so bad...

WORD! ^

So.

Today, was the usual Saturday. My one roomie John, (BTW his Mom passed away Fri only 66).
Other roomie, the drunk heavy smoker decides to antagonize J.
Next thingI hear is loud thump when J. threw drunk down.
J is 6'4 300lbs, other dude is 150, 5'6.
I didn't want J to KILL HIM, so I called the cops, 4 cars showed up.
This's also rent day (weekly) so landlord comes after cops leave.
I told him, I'm sorry but I got scared, had to call cops, & he was fine w/it, but JHC, WTF.
I need to GTFO. I have a few more wks of PT for my neck.
Yipes:O

WendiStarr
01-18-2020, 07:36 PM
The amount of broke asses with zero tokens on MFC tonight and their personal questions "where's your hubby?", "are you married?", "how many kids do you have?", "is this your first?", "where you from?". Shut the fuck up and buy a show. I can't stand the "I just want to get to know you better first bb" shit. I find that being a smartass and mirroring their questions back to them works to shut them up, but most of the time it's better to give no response or else they'll just keep on firing off questions.

lynn2009
01-19-2020, 09:34 AM
I still have a Little through BBBS, and it's still annoying. I haven't even seen her in a month because she was traveling for Christmas, then I was sick for so long then last weekend my car was not drive able. But now my car is fixed and I am still sick but not enough to justify staying home forever. So I texted her yesterday asking if she was free this evening to go out for dinner, and she didn't answer for a long time so I thought maybe I was out of this. But now she just did, so I have to drive to her house, back to where I live for the restaurant, drop her off, back on the same road for 20 minutes for a 4th time. And ruin my no eating out streak to go to this gross chain restaurant.

xStacey
01-19-2020, 11:19 AM
Some people really have no shame. I had a childhood best friend, whom I thought was a great friend until my father passed away in 2019. I also realized how little real friends I had. The guy never asked me a single time how I was doing after my father passed away, and I was in another province, needed to look for a new place for me and my mom that was a 4 1/2 and affordable (around $700-800). He was like oh I am gonna help you, and the next day he says finally the apartment will be mine it's 1.2k a month for a 1 1/2 it will be perfect for you and your mom. I declined and said that wasn't what we were looking for, neither the size of the apartment or the price range and he was like oh if it's you who pays then she doesn't need to know. I was like are you really telling me to lie to my mom when my father just passed away. He wanted to transfer his overexpensive apartment lease to me so he could buy his own condo. Not only was I disgusted he even asked but he even tried multiple times to convince me as if I were losing out on something to refuse his offer!!!! Of course, he never helped me out with anything after I refused, I didn't even ask for any help so he should have just said nothing.

I also think he's jealous of me because he never got into law since he didn't perform well in his BA and when everything was going well he would make snarky comments like oh I wonder if somebody really could be happy working this much. Then when I talked about the sexual harassment issue at my work place he seemed to find the comments funny. Then instead of saying things a true friend would he said ah you see, it is prestigious and stuff to be a lawyer but you can see what can happen, not that great of a job. LOL. Yeah I don't think my problem is my chosen profession but the firm.

And whenever I asked questions, answers would be days later. I asked him a question about car repairs, took him days to get back to me and then he tried to make small talk with me last night and weeks later brought up oh can you send me pics of the car works you need done, I will ask around. I was like ok (although at this point I lost faith in him and really didn't expect any help whatsoever). Then at 00:30 he sends me a huge message with all the facts etc and a legal question regarding somebody who scammed his mom and the legal recourses LOLLL At past midnight, fuck that, usually I would do that for a friend but I do not like getting used so I'm not even gonna bother replying to that. He also liked to say money is never an issue for his parents (where as my parents are poor) so they can deal with it themselves. Some people really have no shame.

It is really disappointing when people show their true face after over 15 years of friendship.

miss.a.p1600
01-19-2020, 11:57 AM
This is why 99% of the time I do not keep male “friends”


Some people really have no shame. I had a childhood best friend, whom I thought was a great friend until my father passed away in 2019. I also realized how little real friends I had. The guy never asked me a single time how I was doing after my father passed away, and I was in another province, needed to look for a new place for me and my mom that was a 4 1/2 and affordable (around $700-800). He was like oh I am gonna help you, and the next day he says finally the apartment will be mine it's 1.2k a month for a 1 1/2 it will be perfect for you and your mom. I declined and said that wasn't what we were looking for, neither the size of the apartment or the price range and he was like oh if it's you who pays then she doesn't need to know. I was like are you really telling me to lie to my mom when my father just passed away. He wanted to transfer his overexpensive apartment lease to me so he could buy his own condo. Not only was I disgusted he even asked but he even tried multiple times to convince me as if I were losing out on something to refuse his offer!!!! Of course, he never helped me out with anything after I refused, I didn't even ask for any help so he should have just said nothing.

I also think he's jealous of me because he never got into law since he didn't perform well in his BA and when everything was going well he would make snarky comments like oh I wonder if somebody really could be happy working this much. Then when I talked about the sexual harassment issue at my work place he seemed to find the comments funny. Then instead of saying things a true friend would he said ah you see, it is prestigious and stuff to be a lawyer but you can see what can happen, not that great of a job. LOL. Yeah I don't think my problem is my chosen profession but the firm.

And whenever I asked questions, answers would be days later. I asked him a question about car repairs, took him days to get back to me and then he tried to make small talk with me last night and weeks later brought up oh can you send me pics of the car works you need done, I will ask around. I was like ok (although at this point I lost faith in him and really didn't expect any help whatsoever). Then at 00:30 he sends me a huge message with all the facts etc and a legal question regarding somebody who scammed his mom and the legal recourses LOLLL At past midnight, fuck that, usually I would do that for a friend but I do not like getting used so I'm not even gonna bother replying to that. He also liked to say money is never an issue for his parents (where as my parents are poor) so they can deal with it themselves. Some people really have no shame.

It is really disappointing when people show their true face after over 15 years of friendship.

AChildOfBoredom
01-19-2020, 06:06 PM
Some people really have no shame. I had a childhood best friend, whom I thought was a great friend until my father passed away in 2019. I also realized how little real friends I had. The guy never asked me a single time how I was doing after my father passed away, and I was in another province, needed to look for a new place for me and my mom that was a 4 1/2 and affordable (around $700-800). He was like oh I am gonna help you, and the next day he says finally the apartment will be mine it's 1.2k a month for a 1 1/2 it will be perfect for you and your mom. I declined and said that wasn't what we were looking for, neither the size of the apartment or the price range and he was like oh if it's you who pays then she doesn't need to know. I was like are you really telling me to lie to my mom when my father just passed away. He wanted to transfer his overexpensive apartment lease to me so he could buy his own condo. Not only was I disgusted he even asked but he even tried multiple times to convince me as if I were losing out on something to refuse his offer!!!! Of course, he never helped me out with anything after I refused, I didn't even ask for any help so he should have just said nothing.

I also think he's jealous of me because he never got into law since he didn't perform well in his BA and when everything was going well he would make snarky comments like oh I wonder if somebody really could be happy working this much. Then when I talked about the sexual harassment issue at my work place he seemed to find the comments funny. Then instead of saying things a true friend would he said ah you see, it is prestigious and stuff to be a lawyer but you can see what can happen, not that great of a job. LOL. Yeah I don't think my problem is my chosen profession but the firm.

And whenever I asked questions, answers would be days later. I asked him a question about car repairs, took him days to get back to me and then he tried to make small talk with me last night and weeks later brought up oh can you send me pics of the car works you need done, I will ask around. I was like ok (although at this point I lost faith in him and really didn't expect any help whatsoever). Then at 00:30 he sends me a huge message with all the facts etc and a legal question regarding somebody who scammed his mom and the legal recourses LOLLL At past midnight, fuck that, usually I would do that for a friend but I do not like getting used so I'm not even gonna bother replying to that. He also liked to say money is never an issue for his parents (where as my parents are poor) so they can deal with it themselves. Some people really have no shame.

It is really disappointing when people show their true face after over 15 years of friendship.


This is exactly why I'm so huge on self-sufficiency and I (proverbially) beat that notion into the heads of my 'refugee' and my younger sister alike. I'm of the mindset that I should NEVER allow myself to become dependent on anyone else. I know how to do my own car repairs (moreso than most guys, at that), I've worked my ass off to get to where I am. I made careful investment choices, I saved up the down payment, I bought this house. Nobody else can lay claim to it, and I won't allow them to. Should I get to a point where I get seriously involved with someone and they try jointly taking money out against my house.... not fucking happening.


And that's why I tell these two, "It's especially important for women to be able to be independent, and not be in a position where they're vulnerable to being strung along, financially abused, or any of that". I certainly don't want them to be like me in any other way, but I hope they at least take that to heart.

JGB2009
01-19-2020, 09:58 PM
Don't get all relaxed with me and start thinking you got it all made with me!!!!

Ifyouseekamy
01-20-2020, 04:33 AM
My brow lady burned my skin! Ouch!

lynn2009
01-20-2020, 12:00 PM
I still have a Little through BBBS, and it's still annoying. I haven't even seen her in a month because she was traveling for Christmas, then I was sick for so long then last weekend my car was not drive able. But now my car is fixed and I am still sick but not enough to justify staying home forever. So I texted her yesterday asking if she was free this evening to go out for dinner, and she didn't answer for a long time so I thought maybe I was out of this. But now she just did, so I have to drive to her house, back to where I live for the restaurant, drop her off, back on the same road for 20 minutes for a 4th time. And ruin my no eating out streak to go to this gross chain restaurant.

I don't think I am willing to do this anymore. Last night she was on her phone more than ever, I wouldn't be surprised if she sent or received hundreds of texts between 6-7:30 pm.

xStacey
01-20-2020, 02:10 PM
This is exactly why I'm so huge on self-sufficiency and I (proverbially) beat that notion into the heads of my 'refugee' and my younger sister alike. I'm of the mindset that I should NEVER allow myself to become dependent on anyone else. I know how to do my own car repairs (moreso than most guys, at that), I've worked my ass off to get to where I am. I made careful investment choices, I saved up the down payment, I bought this house. Nobody else can lay claim to it, and I won't allow them to. Should I get to a point where I get seriously involved with someone and they try jointly taking money out against my house.... not fucking happening.


And that's why I tell these two, "It's especially important for women to be able to be independent, and not be in a position where they're vulnerable to being strung along, financially abused, or any of that". I certainly don't want them to be like me in any other way, but I hope they at least take that to heart.

I am the same. I have always been very self-sufficient, and always prioritized myself, work and money over everything else. My family immigrated to Canada during the genocide in their country and always told me there are no friends or family in life, only you, your parents and money. Over time, as my life situation got better, I tried to invest more time in a relationship, in friendships, as it is supposed to be more important than work and money LOL. Until tragedy strikes again, and I realize that when we hit rock bottom, we are alone, and only hard work and money gets us out of it. I will be focusing on my career, my goals and dreams. People can say that I will end up unhappy, miserable, old and single if they want but when you have nothing, not many people are there for you. People who keep talking about love winning over everything or that relationships are more important yada yada never experienced true misery.

It will take a lot for me to want to get into a serious relationship or to get married. I don’t want to get married either because in Quebec everything you make or own after marriage is automatically 50/50. I might not be romantic but I am logical. People like to judge, I will let them be.

Congratulations for your house and investments. Very wise and smart :)

As for the car, I never needed it where I live and inherited it, I will learn to do everything myself too. I hate depending on anyone but myself!!!!!!!

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-20-2020, 06:20 PM
I am the same. I have always been very self-sufficient, and always prioritized myself, work and money over everything else. My family immigrated to Canada during the genocide in their country and always told me there are no friends or family in life, only you, your parents and money.

This is so heavy but it's true.

My pissy annoyance- I'm mad at myself for not appreciating my improved health b/c I weigh an extra 10 lbs. Like I'm hitting the gym now but I am disappointed to be mad at the extra weight...I'm just delighted I'm not in agonizing pain.

carmen_b
01-20-2020, 08:57 PM
I don't think there is anything wrong with explaining the process to her again and suggesting 30-45 minute phone breaks intermixed with each of you using phones for 10 minutes or something like that. I would feel very taken advantage of. The way you describe it makes it sounds like a mans version of a " nightmare " date almost where the woman is just on her phone constantly.
I don't think I am willing to do this anymore. Last night she was on her phone more than ever, I wouldn't be surprised if she sent or received hundreds of texts between 6-7:30 pm.

lynn2009
01-20-2020, 09:46 PM
I don't think there is anything wrong with explaining the process to her again and suggesting 30-45 minute phone breaks intermixed with each of you using phones for 10 minutes or something like that. I would feel very taken advantage of. The way you describe it makes it sounds like a mans version of a " nightmare " date almost where the woman is just on her phone constantly.

I mean she is 11 though, isn't that old enough to know how rude this is? We went to dumb Red Lobster and the bill was still almost 70 dollars after tip. Her meal was 20 and she barely ate anything after drinking two full sodas while we were waiting and then didn't take the leftovers home. I know she's just a kid but geez. I am fried by the weekends lately and I hate wasting so much time with this.

JGB2009
01-20-2020, 10:31 PM
I told you my concerns but I don't think I will see any change. Maybe I am wrong but time will only tell.

chanzep
01-20-2020, 10:33 PM
xStacey that guy is not a friend fuck him.

chanzep
01-20-2020, 10:35 PM
I should of listened to myself and not went out on Saturday. Now I have stomach flu eww I hate being around people.

carmen_b
01-20-2020, 10:56 PM
More text gems from M lol

" I spent $150 on dinner and I can't even get laid without an argument ! "

( that was totally his fault for what it was worth )
I'm not biting on that one.

Ifyouseekamy
01-21-2020, 02:24 AM
This is so heavy but it's true.

My pissy annoyance- I'm mad at myself for not appreciating my improved health b/c I weigh an extra 10 lbs. Like I'm hitting the gym now but I am disappointed to be mad at the extra weight...I'm just delighted I'm not in agonizing pain.

omg! I’m so happy your feel a little better!

Ifyouseekamy
01-21-2020, 02:32 AM
I am the same. I have always been very self-sufficient, and always prioritized myself, work and money over everything else. My family immigrated to Canada during the genocide in their country and always told me there are no friends or family in life, only you, your parents and money. Over time, as my life situation got better, I tried to invest more time in a relationship, in friendships, as it is supposed to be more important than work and money LOL. Until tragedy strikes again, and I realize that when we hit rock bottom, we are alone, and only hard work and money gets us out of it. I will be focusing on my career, my goals and dreams. People can say that I will end up unhappy, miserable, old and single if they want but when you have nothing, not many people are there for you. People who keep talking about love winning over everything or that relationships are more important yada yada never experienced true misery.

It will take a lot for me to want to get into a serious relationship or to get married. I don’t want to get married either because in Quebec everything you make or own after marriage is automatically 50/50. I might not be romantic but I am logical. People like to judge, I will let them be.

Congratulations for your house and investments. Very wise and smart :)

As for the car, I never needed it where I live and inherited it, I will learn to do everything myself too. I hate depending on anyone but myself!!!!!!!

That’s validating. I feel exactly the same way. People judge me, but I’ve just learned the hard way that me, myself, and I is all I got.

queenelayliah
01-21-2020, 04:19 AM
So i was searching online to see if wordpress allows adult content blogs. Came across a thread about blogs, porn & etc., anyway. Look at this little fucking gem i founded online.

“Yeah I had one on Blogger for the longest time. I joined a fan club of this model on a cam site. I used camstudio to record her recorded shows from my pc. Then heavily edited them to block out the naughty bits. Then I posted them on youtube, with a link redirecting to a cam site I was pushing. I made about $500 a week and didn't have to do much. I only stopped cause the actual model bitched to streamray about the youtube videos and not wanting her family to see that. Which I thought was rather funny, cause in her cams profile, she posts her real first and last name. How very anonymous of her.”

^Like really what the fuck!?

And the username was a girl name so it could have been a girl. I doubt it but still.

seashell
01-21-2020, 04:45 AM
^Omg... Some people are such trash...

But for what it's worth, Wordpress.com took down my adult site, even though I had no nude or explicit content, just some femdom blog posts and links to my cam sites.

I tried to argue with them about it, and they just emailed me a couple of times saying they could take down any site for any reason. It happened after FOSTA/SESTA.

You can still use Wordpress tools of course, but you have to find a different host.

WendiStarr
01-21-2020, 09:50 AM
My mom pissed me off earlier, asking me if I'm still working, saying I shouldn't be working anymore as far along as I am. I've seen women in vanilla jobs work up until they give birth. Sometimes you do what you have to do. I'm not working because I WANT to work. I'm working because I HAVE to work! I'm about to be a single mom of 2 soon. BD chose the coward's way out by totally going m.i.a. so I have to make sure that I have enough $ saved up to get us by(until the court tracks his ass down for child support). So far I think I've been doing a decent job of surviving and no, no amount of being nice to a man, giving him sex, catering to him, cooking him food, doing laundry for him, etc will guarantee that a man will stay around if he's too selfish and immature to appreciate what he had. I'm tired of hearing that too.

On another note I hate when indy cam/Skype customers suddenly think that they are entitled to free shows once I've done a couple shows for them and they have my Skype id. I have 3 of them doing that today. Stop calling me on Skype! I'm not ever going to answer unless you pay first.

miss.a.p1600
01-21-2020, 10:43 AM
This woman brought her bad ass bay bay kid to McDonald’s (this is not the one with a play area).

And the kid keeps running off from her, crying, playing with chairs, running around.

And she keeps calling his name over and over again.

I hope she leaves and takes this kid to a play area or something.

seashell
01-21-2020, 10:47 AM
Neither of my two potential future homes are going to work out... ughhh. Back to square one.

carmen_b
01-21-2020, 11:38 AM
^ ah bummer. Something wrong with both of them ?

seashell
01-21-2020, 12:24 PM
^ ah bummer. Something wrong with both of them ?
One changed their mind about my dogs, and the other one doesn't have a fence for the dogs. :(

These places were pretty affordable, but I think I'm going to have to double my budget. I'm so desperate lol

carmen_b
01-21-2020, 01:34 PM
^ Aw, maybe you can circle and offer a touch more + bigger deposit for the dogs if they haven't found a renter in a few days ? Landlords love fast moving applicants. That is how I ended up letting my own renters have a dog haha .

AChildOfBoredom
01-21-2020, 07:05 PM
I am the same. I have always been very self-sufficient, and always prioritized myself, work and money over everything else. My family immigrated to Canada during the genocide in their country and always told me there are no friends or family in life, only you, your parents and money. Over time, as my life situation got better, I tried to invest more time in a relationship, in friendships, as it is supposed to be more important than work and money LOL. Until tragedy strikes again, and I realize that when we hit rock bottom, we are alone, and only hard work and money gets us out of it. I will be focusing on my career, my goals and dreams. People can say that I will end up unhappy, miserable, old and single if they want but when you have nothing, not many people are there for you. People who keep talking about love winning over everything or that relationships are more important yada yada never experienced true misery.

It will take a lot for me to want to get into a serious relationship or to get married. I don’t want to get married either because in Quebec everything you make or own after marriage is automatically 50/50. I might not be romantic but I am logical. People like to judge, I will let them be.

Congratulations for your house and investments. Very wise and smart :)

As for the car, I never needed it where I live and inherited it, I will learn to do everything myself too. I hate depending on anyone but myself!!!!!!!

I remember hearing a song on the radio... can't think of who the artist once, even though I did look It up. "Where Have All the Cowboys Gone". Listening to the lyrics, that'll never be me. This house is like that 'island of misfit toys' from Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer. We're all a bunch of misfits here. My 'refugee' has a very independent spirit, so with her it's more a matter of just leading her to making the right decisions about finances, health, etc. I suppose it's really my sister and the Amish girl who need it more than anyone. My sister and I both come from a Mennonite family. She wanted to spend Rumspringa with me, and she protested at first, but I told her, if she's going to be here, she's going to stay in school (typically, after Grade 8, that's it). Now she's looking at going to college. I was the first on the Mennonite side of my family (as I do have English relatives) to have a college degree. Which, I quite literally paid for that in blood. If my sister goes, I'll make it happen. It won't be the Ivy League, but she's aiming to be the second. Whether she goes back to that way of life or not is up to her, but she at least has the opportunity to try the English life on for size. My parents don't like it, but they really can't object - least of all, my mother, who came from an Amish community and did the same before marrying into a Mennonite family and joining the church. And also passed any genes pertaining to height to my sisters, and excluded me from that.


The Amish girl... she's adjusting. She needs to develop a rougher edge, but probably not the way it happened for me. I've known too many people who've gotten in relationships with narcissists (and neither role was exclusive to one gender) to not do everything I can to try to prevent it from happening to them. I do care about them just slightly, after all.


Re: car repairs, a good place to start would be the manuals from Chilton or Haynes for whatever year, make, and model of vehicle it is. That's a start point to leaning the basics, and then from there you can move on to an actual shop manual (just be wary in buying one, because sellers who have those love to gouge you on the price). And you can get basic, inexpensive tools. Here, we have Harbor Freight. At one point, I was told the name of the closest equivalent in Canada, but I can't remember off the top of my head. I just wish poutine was a thing here.


Electrical diagnosis can be a pain in the ass, especially if it's a newer vehicle. Things that used to be mechanical or connected by mechanical linkages are run off a series of nodes (computers) that are interconnected via a CAN BUS network. I believe light duty vehicles still use SAE J1587 and J1708 communications protocols... on the heavy duty and heavy equipment side after 2017, they ditched the 1587 and 1708 in favor of using J1939 exclusively, which allowed them to use the nine pin RP1210 interface rather than to have to switch to a conventional OBD port.


So your accelerator pedal, for example... on older vehicles, there'll be a linkage to the throttle body, and it'll mechanically manipulate the throttle. Now, the pedal is an electronic switch which sends a sine wave signal to the engine ECM (the computer which controls the engine), and the ECM will decipher that and command the throttle to a certain position. Troubleshooting that really isn't a DIY thing... if you have a high end oscilloscope, you could use one channel to read the pedal output and another to read the input at the corresponding ECM pin, and If they don't match up, then you know you have a problem in your harness somewhere. That might be a little bit beyond beginner level. But things like spark plugs and such, different matter. So I pass what I'm able on to these three, though I doubt they'll be doing what I do for a living, so I need to make the effort to be cognizant that they'll have a limit.

queenelayliah
01-22-2020, 05:57 AM
^Omg... Some people are such trash...

But for what it's worth, Wordpress.com took down my adult site, even though I had no nude or explicit content, just some femdom blog posts and links to my cam sites.

I tried to argue with them about it, and they just emailed me a couple of times saying they could take down any site for any reason. It happened after FOSTA/SESTA.

You can still use Wordpress tools of course, but you have to find a different host.

Thanks for the tip, I researched that as well. I decided to go with dreamhost for hosting. Now I’m just stuck on if I want to create a blog to link my phone sex character to or create a sm whitelabel.

xStacey
01-22-2020, 12:03 PM
xStacey that guy is not a friend fuck him.

Ah I forgot to add, during the funerals, he came late, wore jogging pants, when I told him to wear a white button shirt and black pants like in our tradition. Then during the funerals he asked me if my dad had life insurance i said no he said oh I will tell my parents they must buy. Oh and btw I am buying a condo. Who the fuck acts like that in a friend’s father funeral. You’re right he’s not a friend. Sad it took over 14 years to discover.

xStacey
01-22-2020, 12:30 PM
Fuck I took the subway to return 2 piece of clothing worth $200 total and realized when I got out of the train that I forgot the bag!!!!!!!!!! Now I’m downtown for nothing and lost $200 plus a beautiful limited edition bag. Must be karma for when I used to shoplift as a teen grrrrrrr. I’m tired and must sleep more

chanzep
01-22-2020, 06:04 PM
Oh no sounds like a bad day, I hope you feel better after some rest. That guy is horrible ugh how dare he act like that so rude.

AChildOfBoredom
01-23-2020, 03:46 AM
There were supposed to be three trucks delivering hay today, so I woke up much too early in order to accommodate them. Except only one showed up on time. One showed up a few minutes after the first one left, so I’m not so irritated with him. But, I have to sit and wait for the third one to show up, because if they have to wait on us, they expect detention pay. But it doesn’t work the other way around. So I’m sitting here in a front end loader with nothing better to do and playing on my iPad. At least the stereo in this one connects to Bluetooth, so I can listen to music or watch Netflix and play it over the stereo, at least. Can’t do anything in the shop, because at least two people need to present at all times, so I could’ve just stayed on the clock and taken a nap until it was time to get up and go to work again. Nope. #3 fucked my plans up.

seashell
01-23-2020, 04:05 AM
There's construction at my apartment, and my dogs have been barking all day. It's getting in the way of my work, and the neighbors are probably going to complain to my landlord. Ugh...

I want to take them to doggy day care so I can have the house to myself, for work... but I don't have a car, my period just started, and I was vomiting all morning. I can't walk them all the way there right now. Maybe tomorrow.

WendiStarr
01-23-2020, 09:54 AM
I woke up to this disgusting message out of nowhere, "I don't know how to say this without sounding too foreward, but ever since you told me you were pregnant, I've been wanting to pounce on you like a little kitten on a mouse." This came from a guy that I've been platonic friends with for 16 years. I don't know why he'd send me that when I've never felt or indicated any interest in him at all in our 16 years of friendship. Judging by the time it was sent he might have been drunk and horny but that's no excuse. I felt nauseous when I read that so I blocked him.