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Elektra Luxx
01-23-2020, 01:48 PM
I still have a Little through BBBS, and it's still annoying. I haven't even seen her in a month because she was traveling for Christmas, then I was sick for so long then last weekend my car was not drive able. But now my car is fixed and I am still sick but not enough to justify staying home forever. So I texted her yesterday asking if she was free this evening to go out for dinner, and she didn't answer for a long time so I thought maybe I was out of this. But now she just did, so I have to drive to her house, back to where I live for the restaurant, drop her off, back on the same road for 20 minutes for a 4th time. And ruin my no eating out streak to go to this gross chain restaurant.

You need to disconnect from negative relationships. She's eleven? Doesn't matter, she's a rude little bitch. You're doing it out of obligation. A relationship is a two way street and it's not positive for you and she couldn't care less about you. I don't think you should see her anymore.

AChildOfBoredom
01-23-2020, 04:08 PM
I woke up to this disgusting message out of nowhere, "I don't know how to say this without sounding too foreward, but ever since you told me you were pregnant, I've been wanting to pounce on you like a little kitten on a mouse." This came from a guy that I've been platonic friends with for 16 years. I don't know why he'd send me that when I've never felt or indicated any interest in him at all in our 16 years of friendship. Judging by the time it was sent he might have been drunk and horny but that's no excuse. I felt nauseous when I read that so I blocked him.

One more reason to avoid male ‘friends’. I swear, if my old roommate ever turns out that way and does some shit like that, I’ll chop his goddam nuts off. Not that I think he will. But still.

JGB2009
01-23-2020, 09:57 PM
Annoyed how mentally busy you are now. Hopefully you continue to take time to spend with me. If not I am out the door!!!!!

WendiStarr
01-24-2020, 06:13 AM
I have an ob/gyn appointment today and I dread going to them anymore because they always feel the need to get me pissed off and worked up and worried about something. My blood sugar only spiked higher than the "good" range by 1 point 3 weeks ago and by 7 points a couple days ago. I'm sure they'll still bitch though.

carmen_b
01-24-2020, 07:57 PM
The dog and I got kicked out of the cheap AirBnB . Not *kicked* out but guests paying full price are there tonight and tomorrow so we are at the Motel 6 haha.
Damn it. That connection is so damn sweet to get hooked up with . We can go back over there Sunday morning. We hope the universe grants us our wish of them just leaving early ( tomorrow ! ) to get on with their own travel haha.

carmen_b
01-24-2020, 08:01 PM
delete

miss.a.p1600
01-24-2020, 08:09 PM
^75% of them are really stupid

carmen_b
01-24-2020, 08:14 PM
I gave him my demands :
Non smoking
No entanglements with any ex's ( also mentioned I'm fully single offering the same ) .
The living situation was just general research and curiosity ( ok, it's also 90% I want the " yes I live alone " answer ).

Honestly dude. If you are too cheap for dinner just suggest drinks hahahaha. We all know what drink or coffee date mean lol.

miss.a.p1600
01-24-2020, 08:27 PM
I gave him my demands :
Non smoking
No entanglements with any ex's ( also mentioned I'm fully single offering the same ) .
The living situation was just general research and curiosity ( ok, it's also 90% that I only want the " yes I live alone " answer ).

Honestly dude. If you are too cheap for dinner just suggest drinks hahahaha. We all know what drink or coffee date mean lol.

Surprisingly the old dude I met for coffee date turned out to be a fairly generous dude.

If you do a coffee go to Starbucks and order whatever you want - which is damn near as expensive as an actual restaurant meal

miss.a.p1600
01-24-2020, 08:36 PM
I gave him my demands :
Non smoking
No entanglements with any ex's ( also mentioned I'm fully single offering the same ) .
The living situation was just general research and curiosity ( ok, it's also 90% I want the " yes I live alone " answer ).

Honestly dude. If you are too cheap for dinner just suggest drinks hahahaha. We all know what drink or coffee date mean lol.

That eliminates 80% of the male population that’s out here dating

carmen_b
01-24-2020, 08:36 PM
A non dinner date isn't a deal breaker for me by any means. I get that guys want a " trail " type date sometimes. Something about him bothered me.

I mean .... he asks at 4 p.m. if I am free today. I tell him yes that I'm leaving this spa at 5:30 ( I gave him the name of the resort which should be a hint that he should be on his A game ).
Spa Day = code for being super clean and scrubbed and shaving my whole damn body . Dude is missing out.

I haven't touched a razor since I left M 13 days ago. So I guess it's just a general good thing to get my scrub on anyway hahaha.

miss.a.p1600
01-24-2020, 08:50 PM
^so he asks if you are free that day, you tell him yes, and he doesn’t make action plans?

carmen_b
01-24-2020, 08:54 PM
Yeah. It probably doesn't matter now since I am losing interest but I would have been much more impressed if he want straight to a dinner plan. I bumped my Tinder up to include the 40-50 age range too hoping for more spoiling such as M ( but without the touch of crazy ). My Tinder is heavily filled out ( lots of info + used 8 out of 9 of the photo spots ). It's all there ( face pics , 3/4 length , full body , and two video clips ) .

I guess I expect speed for putting " so much " out there .

miss.a.p1600
01-24-2020, 09:06 PM
He could have been a time wasting dude who wants to text n chat but never meet up. Now this is just me but I only go out with dudes if they plan 48hrs or more in advance.

Older dudes are definitely more likely to spoil cause they feel privileged to be with a pretty young woman and they willing to pay the price for that feeling of youthfulness

carmen_b
01-24-2020, 09:08 PM
^ Normally I prefer the plan ahead 2-4 days thing but I'm in a new area so I am in vacation mode somewhat. Willing to meet today with same day notice or such as tomorrow ( if it were planned today ).

I'm not sugar dating per-say but I guess I am not really traditional dating.
Sort of in the middle is what I'm after.

carmen_b
01-24-2020, 10:48 PM
In other news I got very distracted work wise on this road trip. I haven't worked ( day job stuff ) as much as anticipated. I think I have been more just celebrating being away from M with getting this sunshine I needed so badly. I need to work tomorrow and make sure I get some sales moving.

Aurora_Sunset
01-25-2020, 12:31 PM
I invited a friend to this event I had an extra ticket for. It goes all day but she said she couldn’t get here until 2 because she worked until 1, and could only stay til 5:30. Ok fine. I text her at almost 2, after I park, telling her I’ll wait for her in the parking lot and to let me know if she needs cash cuz I forgot to tell her she’ll need it for parking. She fucking doesn’t text me back for 10 minutes and is all like “I’m still gonna be 20-some minutes! I totally lost track of time!”

Bitch, how did you lose track of time in the mere hour between work and knowing you had to be here? You should have been going home from work, changing, and then getting in your damn car to come here. The fuck do you mean you “lost track of time” until after you were already supposed to be here? The whole fucking reason I invited her today instead of taking my husband tomorrow was because we would’ve only had 2 hours tomorrow. Now she’s pretty much made it that way today too... cuz she’s STILL not here. What’s even the fucking point? The only reason I didn’t just leave and say forget it is because I already paid to park.

seashell
01-25-2020, 12:43 PM
I spent all day cleaning, and my dog just got poop aaaaalllllll over the clean bedsheets.

lynn2009
01-25-2020, 08:13 PM
I am still sick...and I can feel my congestion turning into an ear infection. On at least one side...if not both.

WendiStarr
01-26-2020, 08:15 AM
I passed the pre-eclampsia blood work. Now my ob/gyn has me doing an at home 24 hour pee collection test. I find this super annoying and disgusting having to pee into a big, orange ugly jug every time I have to pee and put it in the fridge afterwards because they said it has to stay refrigerated. Glad I'm not going anywhere today. I'd not want to lug that thing around in public. I don't know why they're bothering with this when I'm giving birth tomorrow anyways.

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2020, 10:14 AM
I spent all day cleaning, and my dog just got poop aaaaalllllll over the clean bedsheets.

I would lose my shit ... pun intended

Not abusive or anything but just make me want to not have pets cause I’m not good at poop cleanups which is the number one reason I don’t have them

Other people’s pets love me. Playing with a pet for a good hour per month is as far as I go

JGB2009
01-26-2020, 12:19 PM
I passed the pre-eclampsia blood work. Now my ob/gyn has me doing an at home 24 hour pee collection test. I find this super annoying and disgusting having to pee into a big, orange ugly jug every time I have to pee and put it in the fridge afterwards because they said it has to stay refrigerated. Glad I'm not going anywhere today. I'd not want to lug that thing around in public. I don't know why they're bothering with this when I'm giving birth tomorrow anyways.

I had to do that with my first kid. Actually I had to do it twice in that pregnancy. It looks like a big ass plastic gas can. I remember having to carry it to the lab at the hospital. It felt weird. Any who best of luck and good luck on ur delivery tomorrow.

whirlerz
01-26-2020, 12:39 PM
Good Luck, Wendi! God Bless Mama!

So.
House's been quiet, the one guy, John's out of town for his mom's funeral..
The drinker, Dave's at his moms house doing work, returning tomorrow I guess..

Now, this new guy moved in, his grandmother, (BTW the one who stole 50.00 check from me). He lived w/her in the little house out back, but had gf over. A Lot.
He (& his visiting gf) brought in a bunch of stuff & are cooking.
I noticed he left the stove top dirty, (more than once) I'm so not cleaning up after any of these people!!

I clean Johns rabbit cage,(I agreed to while he's gone) fed her (on my dime) >:(.
She eats a lot of greens, & I have to go shopping in a bit for more.

I have Irritable Bowel, & had a HUGE attack from the big fight last week.. Had to be on a diet of plain noodles & crackers, all week, & I sure AF don't need to be sick after all this!
The house's temporarily 'aired out' from Dave's heavy-duty cig smoking. Yes, I have air purifiers, Ozium, (they have a solid now)

Oh, & I told the landlord yesterday that Dave's been much better, & he's actually OK when NOT DRINKING ..
He said to avoid him when he's bad, yea sure pal::)Ed

xStacey
01-26-2020, 05:30 PM
New 18 yo girl is hot but really annoying. She’s making money and still always complaining it’s slow etc. First week she made 3k so she thought she would make 3k every week for 2 years because her goal is to leave in 2 years. She still made a couple hundreds last night but kept complaining because she wants $500-700 every single night, and this week although still good wasnt 3k like the first week lol

AChildOfBoredom
01-26-2020, 07:12 PM
New 18 yo girl is hot but really annoying. She’s making money and still always complaining it’s slow etc. First week she made 3k so she thought she would make 3k every week for 2 years because her goal is to leave in 2 years. She still made a couple hundreds last night but kept complaining because she wants $500-700 every single night, and this week although still good wasnt 3k like the first week lol

It happens. Makes me glad I didn’t start until I was 23 and had some guidance and more realistic expectations. I don’t know how critical I’d be… I’m sure I’d find her annoying, but at 18 I was on that train that didn’t seem like it was stopping anytime soon, as well.

Aurora_Sunset
01-27-2020, 08:10 AM
A friend who has been trying to plan something with me, reached out again last week, and at the end of the message, asked if I just wasn't feeling very social lately. I responded honestly that I had not been feeling super social. But then went on to offer that this week, we could meet for coffee/breakfast on Monday (today) or tomorrow for dinner. I never got any response to that. I can pretty much guarantee that he'll never get back to me, and then in another month, he'll reach out again and when I bring this up, he'll passive-aggressively respond that I had told him I wasn't feeling social so he decided to just leave me alone...

Nevermind the fact that I gave him days, times, and activities that I was willing to do. I meant my statement more to be honest about how I had been feeling lately and so he would understand that I haven't been bad at communication because I just didn't care about him, but because I just wasn't feeling very chatty. But he'll take it the other way, because that's what he does, and he'll deliberately not make plans this week because he wants to be a butthurt baby about it.

And fuck it, I'm just gonna let him. I get so tired of him asking for honest responses, and then always using them to crucify himself and ignore anything else I say, and then blame our deteriorating friendship entirely on me. I don't have time for this shit in my life anymore in 2020.

lynn2009
01-27-2020, 08:25 PM
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WendiStarr
01-28-2020, 04:22 AM
My idiot ob/gyn messed up and forgot to schedule the induction with the hospital yesterday. I was so pissed because I had my mom stay the night at my place on Sunday night and take the day off on Monday so she could be with me. I was a nervous wreck all weekend. I showed up at 1pm like they told me to and they did an ultrasound and made me wait an hour and a half for a fetal non-stress test. Everything went well with both of those and didn't warrant an emergency admission. Then there was more waiting. By 4:30pm I was told that doctor forgot to schedule the induction and was sent home. They said I am scheduled for Wednesday at 8pm. I'm pissed because I just want to get this over with and have my baby here safely. I'm tired of worrying about gestational diabetes and blood testing and high blood pressure. Also, because I was supposed to be induced yesterday everybody has been blowing up my phone, asking for pictures of the baby and asking if they could come visit.

seashell
01-28-2020, 07:12 AM
I only got two hours of sleep last night, and I'm feeling it.

AChildOfBoredom
01-28-2020, 03:57 PM
There's one rider at the equestrian center... she can hear, but she's mute. As is, I'm the only employee on hand who is fluent in sign language, so, whenever she comes in for a block of equestrian instruction, they have me on hand... while she can hear the instructor just fine, but they can't communicate. So, I'll get pulled off of whatever I'm doing to accommodate her. They expected me to shower, tidy up, and put on an equestrian center uniform when she's here, but that's not happening, so I'll be out there in my grungy shop uniform with a two way radio clipped to my belt and a speaker mic with the cord going across my back and the mic clipped to my shirt. And they do what they can to keep her happy, especially as her family are generous contributors to the equestrian program (although the center itself isn't, the riding program is a nonprofit, and they do give a lot of scholarships and such to those who otherwise wouldn't be able to afford it). So, if she wants to hang out and chat for a bit afterwards, then I am to do exactly that. And she always does. Meanwhile, I've got a job to do, and this keeps me from doing it. Granted, I'm getting paid the same, but this prevents me from being able to do any quick bay work or service calls, because she only needs to give two hours notification before arriving if it's a date and time when I'm scheduled to work. And I really wish they'd find someone else fluent in ASL to hire.

But my annoyance isn't that... it's with myself. Because it makes me feel incredibly selfish that I feel that way, and I feel like I SHOULD be more understanding. After all, how many people is she really going to have that she can just talk to?

Aurora_Sunset
01-28-2020, 08:41 PM
My idiot ob/gyn messed up and forgot to schedule the induction with the hospital yesterday. I was so pissed because I had my mom stay the night at my place on Sunday night and take the day off on Monday so she could be with me. I was a nervous wreck all weekend. I showed up at 1pm like they told me to and they did an ultrasound and made me wait an hour and a half for a fetal non-stress test. Everything went well with both of those and didn't warrant an emergency admission. Then there was more waiting. By 4:30pm I was told that doctor forgot to schedule the induction and was sent home. They said I am scheduled for Wednesday at 8pm. I'm pissed because I just want to get this over with and have my baby here safely. I'm tired of worrying about gestational diabetes and blood testing and high blood pressure. Also, because I was supposed to be induced yesterday everybody has been blowing up my phone, asking for pictures of the baby and asking if they could come visit.

God, it just seems like you've dealt with a parade of incompetence with your medical providers during this pregnancy.

miss.a.p1600
01-28-2020, 11:50 PM
I agreed to take this job at 4:20 am

Wtf was I thinking

I ended up talking to this guy for like 3 damn hours when k should have been sleeping

Now I can’t figure out if I should get 2 hours of sleep of stay awake

Just FML!

PuppyBrat22
01-28-2020, 11:53 PM
Asked a weight loss support group for support on my weight loss goals since my family was judging me. Instead got told by almost everyone that I shouldn't lose weight and they wished they were my size. Like wtf, I'm in a weight loss group for a reason, why tf would you tell me not to lose weight???

seashell
01-29-2020, 07:37 AM
^I've experienced that before, too. People get really insecure when they realize that even someone who they think is already at their goal weight, wants to improve themselves. I don't know what your motivation is, but if you say that you want to be healthier/feel better, people might respond differently.

My petty annoyance is that my landlord wants to come inspect my apartment. In all honesty, I do have one extra dog that is not supposed to be here. The first dog was having separation anxiety and eating the apartment. Now things are much better, but I do feel bad for breaking the rules, and I'll definitely owe some good $$$ at the end of this lease... >_>

Aurora_Sunset
01-29-2020, 09:36 AM
I literally scheduled my entire afternoon around this online training I was told I had to do. But it really has no relevance to me...

ravenskyy
01-29-2020, 09:44 AM
^I've experienced that before, too. People get really insecure when they realize that even someone who they think is already at their goal weight, wants to improve themselves. I don't know what your motivation is, but if you say that you want to be healthier/feel better, people might respond differently.

My petty annoyance is that my landlord wants to come inspect my apartment. In all honesty, I do have one extra dog that is not supposed to be here. The first dog was having separation anxiety and eating the apartment. Now things are much better, but I do feel bad for breaking the rules, and I'll definitely owe some good $$$ at the end of this lease... >_>

Hide the dog. My cats aren't on my lease and I already have a plan to hide them, if need be. lol

Aurora_Sunset
01-29-2020, 10:36 AM
Weirdly tired the last couple of days. It's really getting in the way of trying to wake up earlier and be more productive. I have been allowing myself to sleep in past my desired wake up time, but I'm still hella tired in the afternoon. Not just mentally, I just seriously drag ass and struggle to stay awake. Not sure why... I've been eating pretty well, drinking a ton of water, and exercising. I tried to take some iron and B12 supplements yesterday to see if that would help, but I'm still on the struggle-bus today. I wonder if maybe my period is coming.

seashell
01-29-2020, 12:19 PM
Hide the dog. My cats aren't on my lease and I already have a plan to hide them, if need be. lol

Yeah, I think I will put the dogs in daycare for a few days until the landlord visits, lol. Glad I'm not the only one! XD

lynn2009
01-29-2020, 12:59 PM
Yeah, I think I will put the dogs in daycare for a few days until the landlord visits, lol. Glad I'm not the only one! XD

You can get an emotional support animal letter from a doctor & your apartment owners or managers can't charge you fees or put any other restrictions on what you get (eg, dog size). That's what I did for my pooch, or else I would have had to pay 500 deposit non refundable and an extra 50/month. Total bullshit.

PuppyBrat22
01-29-2020, 01:51 PM
^I've experienced that before, too. People get really insecure when they realize that even someone who they think is already at their goal weight, wants to improve themselves. I don't know what your motivation is, but if you say that you want to be healthier/feel better, people might respond differently.

My petty annoyance is that my landlord wants to come inspect my apartment. In all honesty, I do have one extra dog that is not supposed to be here. The first dog was having separation anxiety and eating the apartment. Now things are much better, but I do feel bad for breaking the rules, and I'll definitely owe some good $$$ at the end of this lease... >_>

Honestly my motivations are purely aesthetic and have 0 to do with health, but they still have no right to interrogate me on my reasons or discredit my goals. I shouldn't have to lie to get people to respect my wishes and it sucks because the group claims to be "judgement free."

Also agreeing that you should hide the dog. If you have a friend, send the dog to them for the day of the inspection. Fuck the rules, you're doing it to help your other dog feel better and keep your apartment from getting even more damaged.

JGB2009
01-29-2020, 07:42 PM
I could easily sleep away how i feel right now. I am in such a mood.

miss.a.p1600
01-30-2020, 06:47 AM
I have an early morning meeting

Just kill me now!!!!

Aurora_Sunset
01-30-2020, 09:56 AM
Getting really sick of my main part time job dicking around with the schedule and constantly getting rid of more and more part time shifts even though they were the ones who promoted part time status so hard for so many people for years. It’s at the point where I don’t know if I’ll be able to work decently past the middle of February.

I get that it’s part time, but still - part time people depend on those 12-20 hours a week for at least part of their income every month. You can’t just take that away and think I won’t feel the sudden loss of $1000 a month... It’s especially infuriating because they say they have a requirement for hours to work to maintain part time status but there aren’t nearly enough openings on the schedule in advance for all the part time people to meet those standards...

PuppyBrat22
01-30-2020, 04:42 PM
My roommate and his girlfriend keep smoking weed while I'm in the house and it gives me a splitting headache even when I block the door and spray the room. I can't even focus on my schoolwork because I'm so dizzy and my head hurts but they won't stop and since he's paying all the bills (I'm disabled but haven't gotten on disability yet, and had to quit dancing for a while to get my health more stable) I can't do anything about it.

JGB2009
01-30-2020, 05:34 PM
Your give false hope and happiness!!!!

whirlerz
01-30-2020, 05:47 PM
My roommate and his girlfriend keep smoking weed while I'm in the house and it gives me a splitting headache even when I block the door and spray the room. I can't even focus on my schoolwork because I'm so dizzy and my head hurts but they won't stop and since he's paying all the bills (I'm disabled but haven't gotten on disability yet, and had to quit dancing for a while to get my health more stable) I can't do anything about it.

I feel your pain!
Ugh!
I have a cig smoker (HEAVY)
What I do: Ozium spray, & they now have a solid product too.
Also I use an air purifier
Open windows (but people do shut 'em) Hth, a little.

OK so my roomie came back, I cared for his (sons) rabbit (mostly fed her, but let her out of the cage).

However, he left NO FOOD or $!
I didn't want her to be hungry..

Then he borrowed a backpack, I had to tape a note on his door, Idk if he went to work or not.
Infuriating! >:(5

lynn2009
01-30-2020, 08:44 PM
Any company that calls, texts and emails me at the exact same moment is absolutely not getting another dollar from me, ever.

miss.a.p1600
01-31-2020, 01:36 PM
My neighbor is annoying

He’s constantly screaming “touchdown!” when watching sports, singing loudly and horribly to his loud music, and yelling at his bad assed bay bay kids

whirlerz
01-31-2020, 02:20 PM
So, we have this stove..

For some reason (left handed?) I can't get the baking racks back in the oven part, I'd taken 'em out cause NO ONE cleans it after using..

I'd already well pre heated it, I got the one rack in @the very top, but it's not in right, loose/crooked. For some reason, broiler part wasn't working>:(

I got chicken wings cooking, hopefully they'll turn out OK, & the one guy won't need to use it after me.
UGH. Embarrassed:-[

Edit: I took 'em out, I guess they're cooked, put in microwave too, they're covered w/foil.

carmen_b
01-31-2020, 02:25 PM
I feel angry that M " wasted " half of my winter.
I knew taking a risk on a new person was just that ..... a risk.
I am just sad the risk didn't work and it wasted my time.