View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Selina M
02-14-2015, 11:34 AM
^ Ugh how have you not left yet? He sounds like a pig.
Long vent post ahead, sorry:
If one more person gets engaged, I'm going to shank them. Last night my friend called me screaming that she was engaged. 3 months ago she was giving her bf ultimatums because he was living with her and never paying rent, had dropped out of school, was constantly teasing/picking fights with her, etc. We lived with these people and they are CONSTANTLY fighting about the dumbest shit (they legit had a fight because he forgot to get plastic silverware with takeout, despite having real silverware at home). Now suddenly he can afford a ring, and she wants to marry him.
So it made me feel all ugly duckling left out again, that she's out at some fancy restaurant getting engaged and I was at home wearing basketball shorts about to watch Waynes World. Then I went all 27 Dresses and got super upset because all my friends are getting married (to people that are NOT husband material, like brokeass freeloaders.. one even borrowed the $$ from her mom to buy a ring) and my bf and I are absolutely perfect together and he still hasn't done anything about it. Like, has been bullshitting around with various excuses. So we had a huge fight about that, and after we finish fighting, he gets upset and tells me that he was about to buy a ring last night, but wanted to make absolutely sure it was right, so he got me a necklace instead, and that now he has to wait for the friends engagement hoopla to cool down before he can ask me. So now I feel like a dumbass and we're both annoyed at the two of them.
This is all completely fucking stupid and petty, and I'm aware of it, but its like I can't stop. I swear, if I could surgically remove the part of my brain that has decided to go all Basic Bitch Girly and care about this kind of shit, I would do it. This is idiotic.
Kellydancer
02-14-2015, 11:59 AM
Selina, he sounds better than those other guys. While I'd love to get married, I prefer being single over a loser. I hear you on the engaged thing, I've had a string of men who never thought of me as wife material and yet most of them are now married and I'm not. I could have married if I wanted to marry a high school dropout or various other losers and I chose wisely. Look at it this way, many will be divorced not long after marriage and brokenhearted. It does suck hearing about all these engagements though. I don't even attend most weddings anymore because of it. Then again I was never into weddings so it gives me an excuse.
Ugh my computer is broken but at least I have a tablet. However it doesn't have Microsoft and I have a project to do so I have to go to the library, ugh.
The married guy won't leave me alone. He told me again I should take what I can and he means him. Yuck. I've blocked him but he emails me from another email. Tells me he loves me.
xStacey
02-15-2015, 02:35 AM
Why do cabbies always have to make small talk ?
OliveJardin
02-15-2015, 03:14 AM
Ugh I'm sooo disgusted of my so called bf. I hear him in the locked bathroom jerking off w/ his laptop & I'm trying to take a piss. Ugh Seriously?! Soooo grosssss :( I fucking hate him.
^That's so disrespectful and inconsiderate (I mean, we all know men do that *sigh*, but that's just rude and gross). You deserve better!
lynn2009
02-15-2015, 12:38 PM
You guys. Another roommate bitch.
I hear the door close and think he's gone out somewhere and it is a good opportunity to heat up soup for lunch. I put pandora on my computer and head downstairs and I see him in the living room. Grocery bags on the counter tell me the door shut when he got back from the store. I consider turning off my pandora but I don't because he either plays music or tv shows on the tv all the fucking time and it drives me insane and he knows it drives me insane. And I am only going to be 5 minutes anyway. He turns on the tv and BLARES his own music to drown out mine!!! How childish can one person get!! He is in his forties!!!
Naida
02-15-2015, 03:21 PM
I wish this mild stomach bug that's been irritating me for a couple of weeks (not even feeling sick, just mild stomach cramping and having issues going to the bathroom properly and mild nausea every now and then) would fucking go away already. Even though it's no big deal, it makes me feel gross enough to not want to exercise.
Glamourmilf
02-15-2015, 07:37 PM
Im pissy, kinda sad really, that of all of the seven guys who are pursuing me, only 1 text me on Valentines Day! I got one today, i.e. a day later, and one prick who never even mentioned it, and keeps pressuring me to get together, even though he knows i just moved yesterday! I havent slept with any of them.can't even imagine if i had.
xxxGothBarbie
02-15-2015, 09:25 PM
^ Selina I'm moving either mid week or by Monday. It's official. I can't deal w/ his disgusting behavior anymore & just want away from this part of town. Already getting my things packed & ready as of tonight :)
ScarletKitten
02-16-2015, 03:35 AM
^^Good for you, GothBarbie!!! I'm so happy, relieved, and excited for you! Your new life is going to be so much better without him!!!
SweetJulia
02-16-2015, 08:51 AM
Had to get cigarettes in the cold this morning. Not just cold, but the record low-in 111 years. Ever feel the whites of your eyes freeze?
Selina M
02-16-2015, 07:39 PM
Selina, he sounds better than those other guys. While I'd love to get married, I prefer being single over a loser. I hear you on the engaged thing, I've had a string of men who never thought of me as wife material and yet most of them are now married and I'm not. I could have married if I wanted to marry a high school dropout or various other losers and I chose wisely. Look at it this way, many will be divorced not long after marriage and brokenhearted. It does suck hearing about all these engagements though. I don't even attend most weddings anymore because of it. Then again I was never into weddings so it gives me an excuse.
Thanks Kelly :) It's weird because I never gave two shits about a wedding or any of that until I started dating him, and now I am just as bad as any other early 20s girl with a Pinterest. I guess with him the mentality is like, we both screwed up and dated people who were totally awful as a partner for us, and wasted 5 years doing that before we got together... so waiting around anymore is pointless torture in a way.
We came to the conclusion that both of these pairs will probably be divorced within 10 years (that's being generous), and that we are going to still be together... They're both getting married for really stupid reasons that they probably aren't admitting to themselves. I just hate having to keep my mouth shut and be "happy" for them, but if they want to learn it the hard way, that's their deal, and I hope the one that has some assets gets a prenup.
audrey_k
02-17-2015, 08:19 AM
Thanks Kelly :) It's weird because I never gave two shits about a wedding or any of that until I started dating him, and now I am just as bad as any other early 20s girl with a Pinterest. I guess with him the mentality is like, we both screwed up and dated people who were totally awful as a partner for us, and wasted 5 years doing that before we got together... so waiting around anymore is pointless torture in a way.
We came to the conclusion that both of these pairs will probably be divorced within 10 years (that's being generous), and that we are going to still be together... They're both getting married for really stupid reasons that they probably aren't admitting to themselves. I just hate having to keep my mouth shut and be "happy" for them, but if they want to learn it the hard way, that's their deal, and I hope the one that has some assets gets a prenup.
I used to be really anti-marriage until I started dating my boyfriend. I assumed I would get married but in a decade or so. Now I would love to be getting married in a year or so. We've spoken about it and he's told me he does want to marry me, and we're looking for places to move based on them being big enough for 3 people and near schools, but I don't have an engagement ring. I know it's smart to wait until the right time but I hear you, three of our friends are getting married right now, I opened up a wedding invitation this morning we got in the mail, and I was just like ugh, I wish I was making wedding invitations. So I hear you.
I have had the WORST week with electronics. I woke up last Friday and my barely 6 month-old iPhone is freezing and being weird, then totally crashes and is giving me these weird horizontal bars. So I pick up my laptop to do a search for what to do, and what has happened? Sometime during the night in my tossing and turning-ness I threw a pillow off the bed, it hit a glass of water, and spilled all over the laptop. I put it in a box with rice for 72 hours and preyed it would turn back on, but it's dead. I spent almost $2,000 on that computer, and bought it 13 months ago. >:( I had taken a break from stripping the year before and was a broke student and was using the SHITTIEST laptop ever, words cannot describe-- it was the old white Macbook, about 6 yrs old, the keys were damaged and the battery was dead so I used to carry a keyboard and my charge everywhere since the too many letters didn't work and it had to be plugged in to work. When I bought my now-broke laptop I used to just stare at it in awe. I am not working right now and am soooo broke so this is seriously the last thing I need. My bf is hoping that his home insurance will cover it so he's calling today and pretending it's his laptop, we searched through the policy and can't find any reason they wouldn't pay, but it will still take a couple months to go through (although supposedly they will cover up to £2500 for computer damage and £100 deductible). So for now I'm stuck using his laptop which means I have no privacy to go on things like stripperweb. :( The good new is that, although insanely horrible timing, the problem with my iPhone was apparently software related and therefore not my fault, so I got a new phone.
Lastly, I hate being the only person in my building who doesn't work during the day because it means I have to let the mailmen in every day and they are dumb as shit. First of the all the door is unlocked most of the day so they don't even need to buzz me, but when they do, I can't just buzz them in, I have to pick up the phone and speak to them and usually end up walking away from the buzzer back into the living room 3x as they keep fucking up opening a door (how hard is it really?) and I have to come back and buzz them in again. I have a piece of paper posted to my door telling them just to leave the mail at the door, but 80% of the time they still ring the bell anyway and want to hand it to me in person.
kaninchen
02-17-2015, 09:25 AM
Had to get cigarettes in the cold this morning. Not just cold, but the record low-in 111 years. Ever feel the whites of your eyes freeze?
OMG, that's terrible. I hate cold weather. Come visit me, it's in the 70s here!
It was really hot and windy last week and a bunch of my violets died, though. :(
whirlerz
02-17-2015, 04:52 PM
OMG, that's terrible. I hate cold weather. Come visit me, it's in the 70s here!
It was really hot and windy last week and a bunch of my violets died, though. :(
Yea. Pretty freakin' cold here, as well. Good thing I don't know where you live, I'd totally show up!^
Sorry bout your flowers..aww.
I seem to be getting more spots on my face. :(
NightGoddess
02-18-2015, 03:09 PM
There's this guy who is supposed to come and fix my car today who won't tell me when he is coming!!!! He keeps saying "when I'm done with this I'll let you know". Well, GIVE ME A TIME FRAME, YOU BUTT WIPE. BAD BUSINESS, DUDE. I am in sales, you are lucky you are the only maintenance guy I know who will come to me, because if I could move my car, I would not have called you! I'd rather pay $1000 to get it fixed WHEN I WANT as opposed to $300 waiting for your finnicky ass! I've been waiting for 3 hours!!! Are you a businessman or NOT? Do you want repeat business? Because this is NOT how you get repeat business.
You do realize, I hope, that you will be working on my car well into the night at this rate?? I need it by tomorrow, so you'd better hurry your slow ass up with the contact.
OliveJardin
02-19-2015, 02:26 AM
I'm one week post op and I need to have another surgery to correct my left breast. I'm in the 3% that this happens to apparently, it's pretty unlucky.
I am grateful that the surgeon picked it up and is correcting it free of charge. Oh well, I just needed to vent about it.
MyButter
02-19-2015, 05:25 AM
I'm one week post op and I need to have another surgery to correct my left breast. I'm in the 3% that this happens to apparently, it's pretty unlucky.
I am grateful that the surgeon picked it up and is correcting it free of charge. Oh well, I just needed to vent about it.
Oh no, I'm sorry you have to go through surgery again :(
SweetJulia
02-19-2015, 08:56 AM
I so hate men right now.
SweetJulia
02-19-2015, 06:32 PM
I broke up with my boyfriend today. I'd be sadder if there weren't ten guys dying to take his place.
Selina M
02-19-2015, 08:54 PM
I am enrolled in 6 credits and it's on a staggered schedule, and tuition is due 10 days before each class starts. I paid 3 credits worth of tuition, intending for it to apply towards the class that starts on Monday... they didn't apply it that way and just dropped me from the class. Now I have to call and argue with them and hope they still filled out my enrollment verification for my loan servicer to show as half-time, so I can defer payments on my loans.
Fuckity fuck fuck.
Kellydancer
02-19-2015, 09:43 PM
Thanks Kelly :) It's weird because I never gave two shits about a wedding or any of that until I started dating him, and now I am just as bad as any other early 20s girl with a Pinterest. I guess with him the mentality is like, we both screwed up and dated people who were totally awful as a partner for us, and wasted 5 years doing that before we got together... so waiting around anymore is pointless torture in a way.
We came to the conclusion that both of these pairs will probably be divorced within 10 years (that's being generous), and that we are going to still be together... They're both getting married for really stupid reasons that they probably aren't admitting to themselves. I just hate having to keep my mouth shut and be "happy" for them, but if they want to learn it the hard way, that's their deal, and I hope the one that has some assets gets a prenup.
When I start to feel bad about being single I think about all the couples I know divorced. I'd rather never marry then end up married and divorced and alone anyway. I won't lie though, I am terrified of ending up alone. I blame myself though because for a few years I didn't date and when I reconnected with an ex is when I seriously considered marriage. When it failed I was devastated because I feared being alone, especially when I did online and it seemed all that was left was rejects. I have a crush on someone and we become more and more bonded to the point we tell each other everything but hasn't gone past friendship. His mom really likes me and he acts like he does but doesn't do anything, which may or may not be related to the fact he joined AA to quit drinking. Then there is the married man who claims he's in love with me, ugh. Or the much younger man who wants a FWB. So as of now my choices are an alcoholic I like and enjoy being with, being the mistress of a married man or casual sex with a younger man. I've thought of doing online one more time but know I'll probably end with the assorted losers, like the men who are abusive or cheaters or freaks. Then again maybe I was meant to be alone to do my own thing. The positive thing about being single is not answering to anyone.
wednesday86
02-20-2015, 11:22 AM
I am not going to Ireland anymore. I'm saving every penny I can so that we can move the second my class is over. Yesterday I got home from school and was greeted by my father in law yelling at my husband and I like children because the bath tub (that he doesn't use) wasn't clean enough. I do clean the bathroom, but I've been working and/or in class all week. In fact I'm the only one that does despite the fact that I use it the least. I'm mostly pissed at my husband about it for A) Never helping clean it and B) getting us into this fucking situation in the first place. I am almost 30 years old and I'm getting in trouble ??!!! Are you fucking kidding me?????!!
lynn2009
02-20-2015, 12:25 PM
I am enrolled in 6 credits and it's on a staggered schedule, and tuition is due 10 days before each class starts. I paid 3 credits worth of tuition, intending for it to apply towards the class that starts on Monday... they didn't apply it that way and just dropped me from the class. Now I have to call and argue with them and hope they still filled out my enrollment verification for my loan servicer to show as half-time, so I can defer payments on my loans.
Fuckity fuck fuck.
Really hope you get this sorted out! Bursar offices are so difficult.
WendiStarr
02-20-2015, 04:48 PM
I hate this cold arctic weather. Enough already, mother nature! I hate webcam companies who are grimy crooks and take large percentages of your profits. I hate webcam companies who fail to send out a paycheck after you spent several hours over the course of 2 weeks camming and earning money for their greasy scam site. I can't stand stalkerish/creepy clients. I seriously have one who texts or calls me every day, asking to come and see me. There's no way possible that any guy can afford that every day unless he's Bill Gates or something and besides, the guy always gives me that,"Eww, gross" feeling whenever I see him. *shudders*
Tsepmet1
02-20-2015, 05:35 PM
My cat.
My fucking cat.
Every time I've tried to get online today, she has started yeowling and pawing at the door. Every. Single. Time. She has been following me around all day, tripping me, and got her fat-ass stuck behind the washing machine. WHAT WAS SHE EVEN DOING IN THERE?!
Ughhghghgvhhggvfsnfbeoebrueb.
whirlerz
02-20-2015, 07:20 PM
So, I got confirm. that my dental plan is added on..it was supposed to have been done from the outset. I had to mail in another money order for it, in addition to the previous money order I mailed for my health insur. & do some other errands. Really still pissed that I had to make 2 round trips for some bullshit that was supposed have already been taken care of.
Then, b/c the crappy Target near me didn't have my phone card, I had to make another haul to one that did. On the way there, 3 different cars completely cut me off in succession, by suddenly jumping into my lane. Good thing I stay very alert @ the wheel.
SweetJulia
02-21-2015, 05:31 AM
My cat.
My fucking cat.
Every time I've tried to get online today, she has started yeowling and pawing at the door. Every. Single. Time. She has been following me around all day, tripping me, and got her fat-ass stuck behind the washing machine. WHAT WAS SHE EVEN DOING IN THERE?!
Ughhghghgvhhggvfsnfbeoebrueb.
Mine got wedged behind the toilet last week.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-21-2015, 10:13 AM
I ran into a girl I used to dance with (we both worked at the same club for a few years.) For some bizarre reason she looked really upset when she saw me....I think it's because when I knew her she was a very immature gossipy idiot and she must have assumed I had talked shit about her too. I pretended not to notice because I was talking to a guy about a wedding he attended recently & was more interested in that convo than looking at her miserable face.
TL ; DR - ignoring people works
Spinnerette
02-21-2015, 08:52 PM
(posting here because this IS very agitating to me, that it seems great and that's EXACTLY why I have to take a closer look because I've never gotten so much as a parking ticket and I'm not risking a prostitution charge)
I want to post a thread in other work asking if anyone has any experience with this hostess gig I ran across on Craigslist (I know, I know, judge me). It seems like it could be exactly what I'm looking for as an alternative to stripping (I'm based out of Missouri for the time being so yeah), but something feels off. I think with how private it all is. I was only 3 minutes into the recording where the manager is describing the job and I was like, "This is some Eyes Wide Shut shit, isn't it??" Because of that vibe, as far it being ~top secret wee-woo-wee~ I feel funny about posting specific details out on an open forum. You know, in case it all turns out to be legit. I don't want to compromise the operation or whatever. It's basically a high-end gentleman's club that serves wine and offers full body massages (he swears there's no sex happening and he backs up the legality of the whole thing by saying that tips aren't allowed because allowing tips takes it over into raid territory?)
If I were younger and dumber, I'd just pursue it all like wheeee, but that's what the internet is for, research. So I don't have to make quite as many stupid mistakes as I used to. The bulk of my adult career is digital so these things stymie me. If there's anyone with some insight/more common sense than me, please feel free to burst my bubble!
ScarletKitten
02-22-2015, 03:45 AM
I am not going to Ireland anymore. I'm saving every penny I can so that we can move the second my class is over. Yesterday I got home from school and was greeted by my father in law yelling at my husband and I like children because the bath tub (that he doesn't use) wasn't clean enough. I do clean the bathroom, but I've been working and/or in class all week. In fact I'm the only one that does despite the fact that I use it the least. I'm mostly pissed at my husband about it for A) Never helping clean it and B) getting us into this fucking situation in the first place. I am almost 30 years old and I'm getting in trouble ??!!! Are you fucking kidding me?????!!
Your father-in-law is a fucking asshole. To hell with him. Get the fuck outta there, girl! I'm getting the fuck outta my town too. FUCK this place!
I live in a concrete, soul-sucking prison hell. I'm moving out of this state, far away from here. I'm not even going to tell my family (except my brother) that I'm moving. I'm just going to disappear. MWHAHAHAHAH!
MyButter
02-22-2015, 05:59 AM
I accidentally ripped my 110 year old silk painting when I was putting it in a new frame. Then I tried to piece it back together and a chunk of it disintegrated:(
Spinnerette
02-22-2015, 09:20 AM
I good enough to fuck for free (DROVES), but when it comes to pay for play, all of a sudden I'm an ogre. Life is so fair to me. /s
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2015, 11:10 AM
(posting here because this IS very agitating to me, that it seems great and that's EXACTLY why I have to take a closer look because I've never gotten so much as a parking ticket and I'm not risking a prostitution charge)
I want to post a thread in other work asking if anyone has any experience with this hostess gig I ran across on Craigslist (I know, I know, judge me). It seems like it could be exactly what I'm looking for as an alternative to stripping (I'm based out of Missouri for the time being so yeah), but something feels off. I think with how private it all is. I was only 3 minutes into the recording where the manager is describing the job and I was like, "This is some Eyes Wide Shut shit, isn't it??" Because of that vibe, as far it being ~top secret wee-woo-wee~ I feel funny about posting specific details out on an open forum. You know, in case it all turns out to be legit. I don't want to compromise the operation or whatever. It's basically a high-end gentleman's club that serves wine and offers full body massages (he swears there's no sex happening and he backs up the legality of the whole thing by saying that tips aren't allowed because allowing tips takes it over into raid territory?)
If I were younger and dumber, I'd just pursue it all like wheeee, but that's what the internet is for, research. So I don't have to make quite as many stupid mistakes as I used to. The bulk of my adult career is digital so these things stymie me. If there's anyone with some insight/more common sense than me, please feel free to burst my bubble!
Most likely it's what was called "white slavery" back in the day. You will be solicited to discuss in person some activities that could be as lame as being a harem call girl in the Middle East...to being a "human toilet" fetish worker (google that yourself, it's pretty awful.)
There have been urban legends about white girls getting kidnapped from Urban areas in the US and sold to overseas brothels. In fact one Hollywood actress claims she broke out of a "casting call" that seemed so sketchy she panicked and crawled out of a bathroom window.
I honestly believe it...There are plenty of cases of women just being kidnapped & abused by random creeps...it would not surprise me to see a white female kidnapped and tossed in a shipping container. Sadly since the fall of the Soviet Union...trafficked Eastern European girls have replaced "white girls" as victims of this kind of crime.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2015, 11:12 AM
I good enough to fuck for free (DROVES), but when it comes to pay for play, all of a sudden I'm an ogre. Life is so fair to me. /s
Uggghhh I know the feels.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2015, 11:34 AM
I accidentally ripped my 110 year old silk painting when I was putting it in a new frame. Then I tried to piece it back together and a chunk of it disintegrated:(
I felt this way when I accidentally destroyed some vintage shoes from the 1920s. Worst feeling ever.
Spinnerette
02-22-2015, 11:50 AM
Most likely it's what was called "white slavery" back in the day. You will be solicited to discuss in person some activities that could be as lame as being a harem call girl in the Middle East...to being a "human toilet" fetish worker (google that yourself, it's pretty awful.)
There have been urban legends about white girls getting kidnapped from Urban areas in the US and sold to overseas brothels. In fact one Hollywood actress claims she broke out of a "casting call" that seemed so sketchy she panicked and crawled out of a bathroom window.
I honestly believe it...There are plenty of cases of women just being kidnapped & abused by random creeps...it would not surprise me to see a white female kidnapped and tossed in a shipping container. Sadly since the fall of the Soviet Union...trafficked Eastern European girls have replaced "white girls" as victims of this kind of crime.
Being trafficked is like one of my top fears (it's why even though I could afford to, I haven't taken any trips overseas yet. I need a proper escort/guardian). I was looking up pictures of Thailand and there was a graphic photo result of a woman not much younger than me who was raped and then bludgeoned to death with her male companion on one of the resort beaches there. Nope. Gonna trust my gut on this one and passssss~.
Spinnerette
02-22-2015, 12:22 PM
Uggghhh I know the feels.
It's so annoying. I wish SDs would just be upfront about what they're looking for instead of thinking the default for who they get contacted by is going to be exactly what they envision. You want a busty blonde? Say that shit! Save me some time (and my feelingssss, lol).
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2015, 12:49 PM
Being trafficked is like one of my top fears (it's why even though I could afford to, I haven't taken any trips overseas yet. I need a proper escort/guardian). I was looking up pictures of Thailand and there was a graphic photo result of a woman not much younger than me who was raped and then bludgeoned to death with her male companion on one of the resort beaches there. Nope. Gonna trust my gut on this one and passssss~.
Yeah on reddit there's plenty of nightmare fuel stories about white girls vacationing overseas & having scary encounters when out & about alone...or when their "guy" or friends are not around. I have travelled a lot but was always very careful & usually looked like "a local" so I didn't get the kinds of negative attention that some women do in foreign places...
One of the great things about the Internet age is people are easier to track by GPS, by fb log-ins and other tech related footprints. Thank Goodness for that.
BTW interestingly, it was not always women getting kidnapped for slavery- white men were kidnapped from the West Coast to work on Asian boats, and in China, local women would facilitate the trafficking of Chinese girls to the West Coast of the U.S. The history of all this is is very grim. Humans are the most dangerous animal on the planet...
xStacey
02-23-2015, 02:25 PM
Cheap customers are so annoying ugh. I have an app for work that I use to text my customers and I only give that fake number to a few regulars. My paying customers who tip me well only text me to confirm appointments or to ask about the next time I work when zi change my schedule. I don't like to chit chat by txt msgs, they get it and otherwise don't bother me (except the occasional happy xmas, happy new year...).
But the cheap ones are constantly in need of attention and keep spamming my phone. There's a regular I have who never tips and i'm starting to hate him he's soo annoying but I'm keeping him because he's an easy customer, he usually just wants to cuddle and doesn't even want dances. He just texted me again to invite me to an Astrophysics night ugh.
Last time I saw him, when we were cuddling he said : "I should just invite you to my place to cuddle instead, it'll be much cheaper too". -_-" Then he said : see how much I like you, I am willing to pay just to be next to you.
Why do cheap customers always try to make you feel bad about taking their money? He's starting to remind me of another creepy reg I had to drop who would tell me stuff like : You know, I have to work 2 entire days to spend one hour with you...
kortneykay
02-23-2015, 03:58 PM
SM is really annoying me lately. I've done good by them in the past and since I joined a DP studio I feel like they've taken the rug from under me and its frustrating. ALL of us will get money. Me, the studio, and SM first of all. I mean, is that so bad? I feel like they're hurting everyone involved including themselves. If I don't sell no one eats!
SweetJulia
02-23-2015, 11:09 PM
Day damn two of endo cramps ladies,day damn two. Anyone know a doctor willing to do a hysterectomy for vodka and cam shows?
SweetJulia
02-23-2015, 11:09 PM
Cheap customers are so annoying ugh. I have an app for work that I use to text my customers and I only give that fake number to a few regulars. My paying customers who tip me well only text me to confirm appointments or to ask about the next time I work when zi change my schedule. I don't like to chit chat by txt msgs, they get it and otherwise don't bother me (except the occasional happy xmas, happy new year...).
But the cheap ones are constantly in need of attention and keep spamming my phone. There's a regular I have who never tips and i'm starting to hate him he's soo annoying but I'm keeping him because he's an easy customer, he usually just wants to cuddle and doesn't even want dances. He just texted me again to invite me to an Astrophysics night ugh.
Last time I saw him, when we were cuddling he said : "I should just invite you to my place to cuddle instead, it'll be much cheaper too". -_-" Then he said : see how much I like you, I am willing to pay just to be next to you.
Why do cheap customers always try to make you feel bad about taking their money? He's starting to remind me of another creepy reg I had to drop who would tell me stuff like : You know, I have to work 2 entire days to spend one hour with you...
Can you tell me what app?
kaninchen
02-23-2015, 11:14 PM
Everything is difficult and I would like to stay in bed for the next three months.
xxxGothBarbie
02-23-2015, 11:32 PM
Ugh so today I'm talking to "my friend" about dancing in Denver & she says how well she did over there & how she knows the mnger that allowed her to come back & work a few days while in town blah blah but when i asked if there was a chance i could come there to work at that particular club she said that she had shown him my full body pic (which I texted her) and said he looked at it & said no. Ok , I understand how some places might want tiny bitches only BUT she's not that tiny & has (very visable) cellulite all over her ass. She then says to me that we can always make plans to come back in a couple of months after we both get back on "our A game" to which she said she'll take me jogging, etc to tone up more. She then said there were a few girls working there that she was suprised to see bc they were "big boned" & big like a linebacker type build & said they reminded her of me. Call me crazy but she's prob one of the very few dancer "friends" that's ever said something like that to me. I'm taking it as a rude passive aggressive insult... Am I crazy to think that way?
xxxGothBarbie
02-23-2015, 11:39 PM
Another thing I'm feeling pissy about mostly: Since moving out of bf's house having to live in hotels , I'm having to move to a different one every 3-4 days bc it's cheaper somewhere else I booked online & not having enough to pay for a solid week all at once is a pain in the ass. Ugh I know others have told me to relocate & move elsewhere BUT I don't fucking want to! I'm so happy & comfortable in my beach town. After everything that's happened with me over the last 3 months, I'm too tired from all of the stress to just uproot & go someplace I may or may not like. Not to mention but I don't have enough $$ saved to just "gamble" with getting hired or not. I'll be so glad to just jump out the window from the second story inside this living hell :/
kaninchen
02-24-2015, 09:25 AM
^ Rude all the way. There's no way you can respectfully tell a woman she's in any shape way or form reminiscent of a linebacker unless she actually is a hardcore athlete. Is this lady really your friend? Sounds like a frenemy remark.
If you like your beach town that much, you should stay! I thought you should move on because it sounded like a source of negativity between the dude you were dating and the shitty club situation. But if you're happy with the town, that's great. Plus I don't think anyone here would fault you for moving if you're not ready to.
Ugh, I know I still lived on the beach. As soon as I graduate I'm moving back to the sea like:
http://media.giphy.com/media/421uwcrHeQ6KA/giphy.gif
whirlerz
02-24-2015, 10:47 AM
Everything is difficult and I would like to stay in bed for the next three months.
Yes, yes, &..YES^!
Me: so I had raging allergies last nite:(. I'm also looking @, & have a shopping cart going for stuff for my arm, & hands (carpal tunnel/muscle probs.)
Selina M
02-24-2015, 11:25 AM
Know it all bitches. Know it all bitches. Know it all bitches.
xStacey
02-24-2015, 12:37 PM
Can you tell me what app?
It's called textPlus it's free and amazing :)
zoezoebelle
02-24-2015, 05:14 PM
I'm hungry and it's dinner time but I don't want to get up and make food. Might keep sneaking individual Oreos indefinitely.