View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
01-31-2020, 02:30 PM
I am also embarrassed that I need to use my contacts to try to wrangle a room to rent in Feb. and March.
I am leaning towards that v.s. signing a lease on a place for those two months.
I'm trying to keep costs down v.s. just getting a lease on a nice place alone.
I am staying outside the urban center now and driving 35-45 minutes each way which makes me crazy.
I want to be in the core of the city even if it means a room mate.
I got rid of my other apartment and successfully got rid of the ghost of my ex ( SUCH a mistake to live a year alone in the place we shared ).
I'm really glad I didn't post much on social media when I living with M. I'm hoping it will minimize the " what happened to living up there ? " questions. I don't think people really understand domestic abuse until they have been there. I'm not sure I want to explain it to everyone.
Elektra Luxx
01-31-2020, 02:41 PM
Has anyone ever PMed yourself by accident and got excited because the person you thought you PMed replied so quickly and you go to notifications and then you feel like a dumdass because it's just you? Umm...me neither...just checking.
Emanuelle
01-31-2020, 02:54 PM
I woke up to a Lyft charge that was $250 more than it should have been and their customer service is AWFUL! As soon as I disputed the charge their autoreply said they reviewed the charge and it’s correct. No you didn’t review the charge you liars. So I messaged them again, which is annoying, and this time they actually did review the charge and said “ooopsy! That should have been $9.” No kidding. So they adjust it and tell me my bank account will be credited in 5-7 business days. That’s a long time to wait for money that they mistakenly took from my account, so I asked for a ride credit for my inconvenience. Now they’re ignoring me. I have several hundred rides on my account and a 5star rating. I think that makes me a good customer, not a troublemaker, and I think my request is reasonable. I’m lucky enough to have access to cash any time I need it at work, but if this happened to someone on a budget who had to wait for their next paycheck this is a really shitty way to treat a good, loyal customer. So I’m pissy with Lyft and if I don’t get my ride credit I’m deleting my app. It’s bad when you can’t rely on a company to take care of you when their mistakes have negative consequences for the customer.
lynn2009
01-31-2020, 03:02 PM
I woke up to a Lyft charge that was $250 more than it should have been and their customer service is AWFUL! As soon as I disputed the charge their autoreply said they reviewed the charge and it’s correct. No you didn’t review the charge you liars. So I messaged them again, which is annoying, and this time they actually did review the charge and said “ooopsy! That should have been $9.” No kidding. So they adjust it and tell me my bank account will be credited in 5-7 business days. That’s a long time to wait for money that they mistakenly took from my account, so I asked for a ride credit for my inconvenience. Now they’re ignoring me. I have several hundred rides on my account and a 5star rating. I think that makes me a good customer, not a troublemaker, and I think my request is reasonable. I’m lucky enough to have access to cash any time I need it at work, but if this happened to someone on a budget who had to wait for their next paycheck this is a really shitty way to treat a good, loyal customer. So I’m pissy with Lyft and if I don’t get my ride credit I’m deleting my app. It’s bad when you can’t rely on a company to take care of you when their mistakes have negative consequences for the customer.
Last time I used Lyft, a driver clearly was not paying attention at all while driving and blew through a red light. Nothing happened, thank God, but it is really scary. All they did was offer me a five dollar credit. They are terrible.
PuppyBrat22
01-31-2020, 04:28 PM
I woke up to a Lyft charge that was $250 more than it should have been and their customer service is AWFUL! As soon as I disputed the charge their autoreply said they reviewed the charge and it’s correct. No you didn’t review the charge you liars. So I messaged them again, which is annoying, and this time they actually did review the charge and said “ooopsy! That should have been $9.” No kidding. So they adjust it and tell me my bank account will be credited in 5-7 business days. That’s a long time to wait for money that they mistakenly took from my account, so I asked for a ride credit for my inconvenience. Now they’re ignoring me. I have several hundred rides on my account and a 5star rating. I think that makes me a good customer, not a troublemaker, and I think my request is reasonable. I’m lucky enough to have access to cash any time I need it at work, but if this happened to someone on a budget who had to wait for their next paycheck this is a really shitty way to treat a good, loyal customer. So I’m pissy with Lyft and if I don’t get my ride credit I’m deleting my app. It’s bad when you can’t rely on a company to take care of you when their mistakes have negative consequences for the customer.
One time I had a driver whose back seat was covered in animal hair (I'm allergic but didn't notice until I was already in the car) and dead fleas. After getting out I had to buy allergy medicine and flea treatment because I was so repulsed. I gave him one star and messaged Lyft but they ignored all of my messages and refused to give me a refund or compensate me in any way. I haven't used them since and tbh I'm still pissed.
whirlerz
01-31-2020, 05:53 PM
One time I had a driver whose back seat was covered in animal hair (I'm allergic but didn't notice until I was already in the car) and dead fleas. After getting out I had to buy allergy medicine and flea treatment because I was so repulsed. I gave him one star and messaged Lyft but they ignored all of my messages and refused to give me a refund or compensate me in any way. I haven't used them since and tbh I'm still pissed.
I would contact http:// Bbb. org better business bureau.
Fuck all that.
AChildOfBoredom
01-31-2020, 07:49 PM
I did the Uber and Lyft thing for a while. Don’t intend to get back into it, even though I have a four door car now which isn’t leased.
Aurora_Sunset
02-01-2020, 07:30 AM
The friend I was supposed to have brunch with on Sunday asked if we could move it to next Sunday instead. A part of me kinda wants be like "no bitch" purely because Monday was supposed to be the start of me trying a strict vegan diet as well as another stint of no alcohol for almost 3 months, and the place we're going to probably doesn't have much that's vegan. This was kinda supposed to be my last hurrah of eggs, salmon, butter, bacon, as well as a mimosa or two...
Ugh... not that that's her fault. I guess I can always take myself to brunch this week and indulge. And then be healthy next week. It's just annoying because I thought it would line up perfectly.
miss.a.p1600
02-01-2020, 09:03 AM
I have a meeting at 11
Not too early but damnit I want to lay in bed
I know one thing, these Mfs better be at this appointment if I get out of bed for this
miss.a.p1600
02-01-2020, 09:05 AM
A part of me sexually desires these guys ..... who are no good for me at all (married, play mind games, etc)
Why self why?!?
I had do e everything in my power to restrain myself/come to my senses/use my rational thought ..... and tell their asses “no I will not give you pussy” ..... even though deep down I wanted to have sexual pleasure with them cause I KNEW it would have been good.
Good thing I have good willpower but my mind sees this as an “incomplete” job i need to finish in some way. Like I’m on a mission to attract a very good lover and it’s making me have sexual thoughts all the time.
There have got to be some guys out there who are truly single and do not play mind games
JGB2009
02-01-2020, 10:06 PM
Why are these dumb fucks making me moody on cam tonight. I am not in a good mood and I wanna murder them all.
WendiStarr
02-02-2020, 12:59 AM
My daughter is 2 days old and going through the typical newborn freak out. She has been attached to my boobs nursing all day, it seems. She did allow me 2 hours of sleep but that's it. She wants to be fed constantly. The nurse laughed and said that's normal. I am so exhausted!
JGB2009
02-02-2020, 05:04 AM
When u post a pic of you and a girl and block me from seeing it from one FB profile but forgot to block me from seeing on the other profile. You really thought u were gonna get by with it. She can have you, cause obviously she isn't getting much!!!!! I'm just mad cause I turned down the other guy for ur sorry ass!!!!! Dammit!!!!!
Ifyouseekamy
02-02-2020, 08:12 AM
Well. I’m not sure where to post this. I go to a women’s group to work on my personal development. Sex work is a big part of my life and is WHY I am who I am-good and bad. They’re just supporting me under the guise of thinking I’ll realize the error of my ways. Non sex workers will NEVER support sex working women. I’m still grateful for the group because I learned a lot, but I’m a little disappointed. Lesson learned: you can’t trust non sex working women to be supportive ever. It’s better to just keep a secret. People don’t really want you to be authentic as much as they say they do. Lying protects the innocent.
carmen_b
02-02-2020, 09:40 AM
^ I HATE that attitude and it's why I'm mostly closeted !!
My work and the earnings from the sex industry are valuable to me .
I don't like that vibe of " oh it's a mistake and she will learn and get " better " things going later.
I have had to do that though ( pretend I retired ect. to get approval back from a couple people ).
They will NOT change their minds usually.
I also think there is this attitude that sex work is the " easy " way or " cheating " in life .
The reality is that this work in often very hard work ( as we know ) but those who haven't been there don't understand.
carmen_b
02-02-2020, 10:22 AM
I am pretty sure M took like 4 pairs of dirty undies.
Loser. I can sell those in the club for $50. Hahahaha.
whirlerz
02-02-2020, 12:48 PM
Shit.
Just came home from a nice outing, the woman in the little house behind me has her huge outdoor cooker going, it's windy AF!>:(
Which's blowing directly into my room, despite the fact I've 3 air purifiers going, it's overFucking powering!
My allergies are already in overdrive as it is! >:(
Thanks, B! & u couldn't have put that giant ass POS a few feet downwind?
Ifyouseekamy
02-02-2020, 09:36 PM
^ I HATE that attitude and it's why I'm mostly closeted !!
My work and the earnings from the sex industry are valuable to me .
I don't like that vibe of " oh it's a mistake and she will learn and get " better " things going later.
I have had to do that though ( pretend I retired ect. to get approval back from a couple people ).
They will NOT change their minds usually.
I also think there is this attitude that sex work is the " easy " way or " cheating " in life .
The reality is that this work in often very hard work ( as we know ) but those who haven't been there don't understand.
Thanks, I’m just gonna take what I like and leave the rest from the group. She probably has her sexual issues. I was really polite about it. I was just saying I live in the Midwest where women are especially oppressed and I want to start a a women’s empowerment group. She’s done a whole bunch of supper groups and she totally bit at me for even asking. My plate is full, so I was just asking how I should start I don’t even have the time or energy right now. She in a very passive aggressive way said because I’m a dancer I couldn’t do it. I had no business trying to help women because I’m a stripper. Fuck! I’m trying to not take it personally. I’ll never trust a non sex worker with my business again. She acted so non judgmental in the beginning, but I guess she showed her true colors. She has helped me with my personal training business, but it was kinda with the “oh your victim and you need help getting out, so I’ll support you with that.” Supporting women with their own sexual agency was asking too much. I super low key brought it up. I wasn’t being political or overly aggressive, but I must have triggered her unresolved issues. I think it’s called counter transference.
lynn2009
02-02-2020, 10:20 PM
I never 100 percent got over my cold, but it's been very mild the last week. Except today it's getting bad again. I am not sure what I did so wrong in a past life to deserve this.
Aurora_Sunset
02-03-2020, 09:49 AM
I have major period hormones right now. Yesterday, I cried in my car cuz I couldn’t get the crepes I wanted for breakfast. Like, for 15 minutes... Then I cried during a Super Bowl commercial last night. Then today, I had to go back to sleep for an extra hour after initially getting up, because I’m just exhausted even though I got a decent 8 hours of sleep. After I first got up, I went for a run and passed a blanket on the sidewalk that a homeless person is usually wrapped up in and I cried at that too.
seashell
02-04-2020, 03:48 AM
Thanks, I’m just gonna take what I like and leave the rest from the group. She probably has her sexual issues. I was really polite about it. I was just saying I live in the Midwest where women are especially oppressed and I want to start a a women’s empowerment group. She’s done a whole bunch of supper groups and she totally bit at me for even asking. My plate is full, so I was just asking how I should start I don’t even have the time or energy right now. She in a very passive aggressive way said because I’m a dancer I couldn’t do it. I had no business trying to help women because I’m a stripper. Fuck! I’m trying to not take it personally. I’ll never trust a non sex worker with my business again. She acted so non judgmental in the beginning, but I guess she showed her true colors. She has helped me with my personal training business, but it was kinda with the “oh your victim and you need help getting out, so I’ll support you with that.” Supporting women with their own sexual agency was asking too much. I super low key brought it up. I wasn’t being political or overly aggressive, but I must have triggered her unresolved issues. I think it’s called counter transference.
That's really awful of her. Sounds like she's super repressed, and lacking in self awareness to see how hypocritical her actions are. It's like people are afraid to hold up a mirror to themselves and see how judgmental they're being... if they had to admit that sex work/being a sexually empowered woman wasn't such a bad thing, it would turn their world upside down.
My petty annoyance is that I'm super sleepy, and had the most emotionally intense weekend that I don't know how to process... but now it's time to get back to normal life, pick up my dogs from the pet hotel, run errands, and work... Sigh.
WendiStarr
02-04-2020, 07:11 AM
Petty annoyance today is sleep deprivation. All these relatives and friends want to come meet the baby but I'm not interested unless they're going to watch her so I can take a nap, shower, and/or bring food so I don't have to deal with cooking. I just can't catch a break here. I can't pee without holding baby in one hand and trying to wipe myself with the other hand. Don't ask when I last washed my hair because I don't even know anymore. I went through 5 days in the hospital of feeling like some drugged up mess, hooked up to IVs and machines, feeling like I wasn't human anymore to this sleep deprived mess.
miss.a.p1600
02-04-2020, 12:46 PM
Self get motivated! Sitting around eating ice cream n watch dr Phil is a complete waste of time
PuppyBrat22
02-04-2020, 01:40 PM
Got piled on in a FB group because some dude shared a child porn link and I didn't get a screenshot of it before he deleted it, so everyone accused me of being a liar and being sexist towards men for bringing it up without proof. Like, I understand wanting proof because that's a super serious issue, but why the fuck would I make something like that up? Literally what would I even have to gain by that? I'm trying not to let it get to me but being accused of lying when I'm just trying to protect people (there are minors in that group) really fucking stings. And I know they're going to post it outside the group and spin it to make me seem like I'm bitter and I fucking hate people.
Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2020, 02:14 PM
1) I’m on floor duty at work but forgot that they still have my old cell number for transferring calls. The second I stepped away to use the printer, I saw a call coming in on my personal cell number through my Fitbit but ignored it, not thinking about that. Just now, the receptionist asked if I got the call she sent to me 30 minutes ago. Fuck me... Nope my dumbass keeps missing things. I need to switch everything over to my business phone so I can hear it and take it seriously.
2) An old client just found me on Facebook and sent a message: Do you remember me? Uh yeah motherfucker but I’m not sure why you’d think I’d talk to you. He didn’t even book with me in the last 2 or 3 years I was active. What makes men think this shit is appropriate?
whirlerz
02-04-2020, 04:42 PM
So kinda petty jealousy on my part..
I went to get hair done today, I needed both a root touch up (I think he did a 'mini' TU) + a few foils by my face.
I got really annoyed that he kept using the products I was using on the next customer, making me wait & not putting the other styling product back, talking to her non-stop.
It's DIY for styling/drying unless you pay like 50.+ extra. (which includes a cut, but I can do that)
Also, he didn't ask me how I liked my hair.
Kinda pissed & I didn't tip him or shampoo girl.
Although, I bought him a nice gift thru Amazon had it previously sent there.
FUCK that place>:(
lynn2009
02-04-2020, 05:39 PM
...........
Ifyouseekamy
02-04-2020, 07:04 PM
Fuck! I was taking a stats exam and the room next door was playing music and laughing. I had a panic attack! I was like oh my god I’m gonna flunk stats and end up homeless! I took a deep break and did some LOA stuff and just did the best I could. I’m bringing ear plugs next time. That was ridiculous! He better grade on a curve. I hope I at least got a passing grade. Not to mention none of the homework in my math labs goes along with his lectures. I studied for hours and it was irrelevant to what was on the exam. I’m just gonna have to listen to his lecture and not bother reading the book because it was contradictory and just made me more confused! Agh!
miss.a.p1600
02-05-2020, 07:50 AM
Got a tub of ice cream 2 days ago
It’s almost gone.
I feel like a heifer
miss.a.p1600
02-05-2020, 09:36 AM
Feeling like I don’t know what to do
carmen_b
02-05-2020, 03:53 PM
I have body hair and a three week bush. This is what 23 days of celibacy plus a dancing break gets you I guess.
miss.a.p1600
02-05-2020, 07:04 PM
I have body hair and a three week bush. This is what 23 days of celibacy plus a dancing break gets you I guess.
Well my legs look like Sasquatch and my bikini area - let’s just say no dude has seen that area in over a year so I felt no need to wax. Though I probably should just to get back into the habit and keep the area sparse
I did trim things down though.
I’ll trade your 3 weeks any day.
Ifyouseekamy
02-05-2020, 08:52 PM
I have body hair and a three week bush. This is what 23 days of celibacy plus a dancing break gets you I guess.
I feel you. I hardly ever shave if I don’t have to.
xxxGothBarbie
02-05-2020, 10:01 PM
Annoyed AF that my friend's cats are in heat at the same time & has been hard to take cam calls bc they get so dam loud.
Annoyed AF that while I'm visiting a friend of mine, my mom expects me to come to her (30 something miles away) instead of just asking me to meet her someplace closer to my location for dinner. I honestly wasn't even gonna tell anyone (family wise ) I was visiting bc I'm not feeling social & they get weird if I don't see them when Im visiting. ugh.
I can't wait to bounce out of here after the weekend
queenelayliah
02-06-2020, 12:44 AM
My daughter is 2 days old and going through the typical newborn freak out. She has been attached to my boobs nursing all day, it seems. She did allow me 2 hours of sleep but that's it. She wants to be fed constantly. The nurse laughed and said that's normal. I am so exhausted!
Ahhh you had your baby wendi? Congratulations! I hope the delivery went well & your baby is healthy.
Ifyouseekamy
02-06-2020, 02:31 AM
Ahhh you had your baby wendi? Congratulations! I hope the delivery went well & your baby is healthy.
congratulations! Enjoy your time with your new baby!
WendiStarr
02-06-2020, 06:22 PM
BD has once again pulled his shit. He stayed with me those 5 days I was in the hospital and everything seemed to be going well. Then today he came home from work with flowers, tells me thank you for making such a beautiful baby, and drops the bomb on me that he's leaving again. He handed me $125 and said it's towards child support. So, just like that..gone again. He had the nerve to say that he has had to deal with losing everything while I have everything. Really? I hate men! Done with them.
miss.a.p1600
02-06-2020, 08:18 PM
^drop a bomb right back and hit him with those court papers from juvenile court.
carmen_b
02-07-2020, 12:17 PM
Every dude I've dealt with in civilian life seems to be castrated and cowering.
WHERE are the balls on these dudes ? I am not interested in anyone who can't make a move and am bored.
I feel ready to start up again ( 4 weeks away from M on Monday ). I had a break.
I just don't see anyone in the horizon I will " break " my break for !
On the plus side I bought my own NBA ticket to a great game in a few days + have concert tix in 5-6 days. I am just realizing there is no one to give that 2nd ticket too and I just don't care haha. I'll just give it away at the door.
NitaBaby
02-07-2020, 04:24 PM
I've been using my WeVibe wrong, like a whole dumbass, this entire time. I was making my StripChat profile info and saw that they offer a discount code for the Kiiroo toys. My lovense died a painful death a year ago and I never replaced it. And the WeVibe isn't compatible with StripChat so.....I decided to use the discount code.
ANYWAY.
On the Kiiroo website is does the whole "this is how we're better than our competitors" grid and it had the Kiiroo Esca2 listed as "wearable" and the toy that I have (the WeVibe sync) wasn't one of the toys that are "wearable".
I've been sticking a non-wearable toy up my vagina ....and then I've been mad that the damn thing doesn't work. How the entire fuck do you use it then?? lmao oh my god.
Just for visuals sake:
52727
52728
I actually remember Sha saying that she has to just put hers inside her panties and let the tightness of her underwear hold it against her clit for the vibe to work. Putting it in doesn't do anything.
Now I'm wondering....you know how some panties have like a little "pocket" inside? Am I supposed to put the vibe in there? God, I'm lost.
52729
miss.a.p1600
02-07-2020, 05:45 PM
Every dude I've dealt with in civilian life seems to be castrated and cowering.
WHERE are the balls on these dudes ? I am not interested in anyone who can't make a move and am bored.
I feel ready to start up again ( 4 weeks away from M on Monday ). I had a break.
I just don't see anyone in the horizon I will " break " my break for !
On the plus side I bought my own NBA ticket to a great game in a few days + have concert tix in 5-6 days. I am just realizing there is no one to give that 2nd ticket too and I just don't care haha. I'll just give it away at the door.
Girl I be feeling you on that.
It's like 'damn motherfuckers! Y'all gone man up or do I have to do your job for you?"
"And if I have to do your job, ima treat you like a straight bitch AND make you pay me for my extensive efforts!"
I've been short of throwing myself at my billiards guy....
And remember its been about 2 months since I started back interacting with him again
He is obviously moving way too slow or else we could have possibly been fucked by now
whirlerz
02-07-2020, 07:05 PM
BD has once again pulled his shit. He stayed with me those 5 days I was in the hospital and everything seemed to be going well. Then today he came home from work with flowers, tells me thank you for making such a beautiful baby, and drops the bomb on me that he's leaving again. He handed me $125 and said it's towards child support. So, just like that..gone again. He had the nerve to say that he has had to deal with losing everything while I have everything. Really? I hate men! Done with them.
Aw. Hugs, Wendi:-*
So me : maintenance guy brings another bag of rock salt, like the 3rd 25 lb bag! ::)
FFS, we're not in Alaska over here! & dammit, we needed some garbage bags>:(
whirlerz
02-08-2020, 11:20 AM
Some of the men on here have a little too much time on their hands today..>:(
JGB2009
02-08-2020, 01:42 PM
Don't try to start a conversation with me through text and abandon the conversation with someone else who is more important. I was being polite by responding back.....but u on the other hand have no manners!!!! Forget you!!!!
whirlerz
02-08-2020, 02:07 PM
So, just now the alchy who smokes like a chimney came back:yuck:
I could literally smell him 6 ft away.
Concerned now.
Time for prayer
seashell
02-08-2020, 04:27 PM
I'm so fed up with my current living situation, it's eating away at my ability to work. My dogs are always barking during cam shows, because my apartment is so loud/busy. My wifi often goes out, and I'll drop calls. Sometimes the electricity goes out. I can't even do laundry and cook at the same time, because my power goes out. Fuuuuck.
whirlerz
02-08-2020, 04:31 PM
.....
miss.a.p1600
02-09-2020, 07:16 AM
I’m hungry
And I wish a plate of Belgian waffles drizzled with real, warm maple syrup; sprinkled with powdered sugar; topped with chopped nuts, fresh strawberries, and a dollop of whipped cream
Also with a side of thick cut bacon and cage free eggs.
Mmmmm
I have none of those ingredients right now. And I am too thrifty to drive to/pay my favorite restaurant.
So I’ll just be envisioning this perfect brunch
carmen_b
02-09-2020, 11:51 AM
A day job client is reminding me of a club client who either doesn't know what they want or is pretending not to know to drag time out ......
Haha.
We are in a third variation of the contract ( yes, third ! ) .
Cross y'alls fingers that this third time is THE charm. If it is, I will make $600 today which will help life tremendously.
Elektra Luxx
02-09-2020, 01:11 PM
I spent the day at Fiesta Texas yesterday and walked for what seemed like miles. I'm glad I wore walking shoes, but the soles of my feet still really hurt.