View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
JGB2009
03-04-2020, 05:16 AM
I couldn't sleep last night and maybe got 4 hours of sleep. I feel horrible. All I wanna do is go back to bed.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-04-2020, 05:47 AM
I think the same thing happened when Prince, MJ, and Whitney died. Prob other celebs too.
Groupies with no chill taking pics n trying to capitalize on that moment.
It’s actually symbolic-celebs with hella money who can live lives most only dream of and can buy control over their world. The one thing they can’t buy/control is death (how n when they die) and it is during this time they can be in just a compromising position as the average person
True, that's the only thing celeb money can't influence, post-death privacy matters.
I'm normally not very confident in the common decency of most cops, but there is a higher standard for law enforcement in CA. I know this personally. I think I'm more grossed out by who would want to see those pics in a bar setting. Like, yikes?
miss.a.p1600
03-04-2020, 10:41 AM
^they were willing to risk it all to capture the photos (and possibly sell them to media outlets) before anyone else
I wonder how much money media would pay for that maybe a 100k? Which is probably like only 2 years worth of salary so yeah not worth it long term money wise but mfs making barely minimal wage see a 100k right away they compromise their values being greedy n falling for instant gratification money
That just goes to show .... how easy some people throw their morals out the window/can be bought
JGB2009
03-04-2020, 12:56 PM
Why must u always annoy me............you do realize I will start to pull away...............I don't mind being by myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aurora_Sunset
03-04-2020, 01:37 PM
Can we retire the TV/movie trope of people getting up to give speeches and suddenly being swept away into a rant where they’re clearly relating wherever is going on to their own personal drama? It’s overplayed and super unnatural... I’ve literally never seen or heard of anyone not being able to keep their shit together long enough to give a pre-planned speech or keep things vague when relating personal experiences. It’s so awkward and weird on TV. Can we just have them have their therapeutic “working through the issue” moment at some other point?
indiegirl
03-04-2020, 08:34 PM
Once I've completed my work makeup and it is dead financially I want to just scream for wasting my time... (apparently this week has proven to be dead on the days I want to work but Tuesday was super busy and I wasn't into working that day). So annoyed lol but I reminded myself "everything happens for a reason"
Ifyouseekamy
03-04-2020, 09:22 PM
Once I've completed my work makeup and it is dead financially I want to just scream for wasting my time... (apparently this week has proven to be dead on the days I want to work but Tuesday was super busy and I wasn't into working that day). So annoyed lol but I reminded myself "everything happens for a reason"
Try to stay positive. When work is slow like that and I put effort into my looks “alright well this is contrast to what I want to experience...now let’s focus on what I can do to make this better.” Take pics for social media or something to make the best of it. Easier said than done. That’s not coming from a place of judgement or criticism. It’s been like that a lot lately.
i think my professor is teasing me because he likes me...LOL. It’s so annoying...LOL. At first I was hurt, but then I realized it’s the equivalent to a boy on a playground chasing the girl around...LOL. I really like him too. I like smart men. I don’t like him sexually, but I always vibe with really smart people. I just wish he’d stop teasing me.
Pokahantas
03-04-2020, 10:15 PM
Last two weeks have been so shitty. In a nutshell
Started camming last month made pretty good money after only going on for a few days
Footage was stolen of my live stream and Posted on a tube site that I spent days trying to get removed with MFC sending a notice, I filed a complaint, I sent the tube website messages on their twitter asking nicely to take it down, they would not! Assholes
Called the revenge porn hotline (yes these exist apparently)
Can’t sleep, can’t eat because I’m afraid someone I know will find out
3 years into my PhD and now will be all for nothing once in my career and a video surfaces of me naked doing cum shows
My depression is triggered and I’m suicidal last 2 days, called off my lame vanilla tutor job because I’m too depressed they might fire me
I’m sick of my boyfriend who never has any problems
All I want to do is sleep to escape from all this shit!
Ifyouseekamy
03-04-2020, 11:16 PM
Last two weeks have been so shitty. In a nutshell
Started camming last month made pretty good money after only going on for a few days
Footage was stolen of my live stream and Posted on a tube site that I spent days trying to get removed with MFC sending a notice, I filed a complaint, I sent the tube website messages on their twitter asking nicely to take it down, they would not! Assholes
Called the revenge porn hotline (yes these exist apparently)
Can’t sleep, can’t eat because I’m afraid someone I know will find out
3 years into my PhD and now will be all for nothing once in my career and a video surfaces of me naked doing cum shows
My depression is triggered and I’m suicidal last 2 days, called off my lame vanilla tutor job because I’m too depressed they might fire me
I’m sick of my boyfriend who never has any problems
All I want to do is sleep to escape from all this shit!
i’m guessing this from the myonlyfans leak. That’s so crazy.
indiegirl
03-05-2020, 07:28 AM
I use the other bathroom in my house and have 2 roomies using the other one. I'm confused how a roll of toilet paper is always gone every 2 days in their bathroom. I have to pay for it since it is my place but is someone using toilet paper as their bath towel? It is like 16.00 for the thick toilet rolls....SO sick of it.
On top of it I have to clean everything and they get lazy throwing towels around etc. I'm the one cleaning the entire house be respectful.
chanzep
03-05-2020, 10:07 AM
That would annoy me, you should speak to them about this. Maybe get them to get their own toilet paper and make a cleaning schedule.
carmen_b
03-05-2020, 02:44 PM
Out of desperation I went back to my old apartment management place. They really are not too bad.
I want another building to keep the ghost of my ex in the past.
They have a building a little cheaper than that one I gave up in Nov.
I hope they get a unit open soon ( two bedroom ) .
I am getting desparate for privacy and staying with family outside the city center.
I'm trying to wait a couple days v.s. going back to the same building I left haha.
miss.a.p1600
03-05-2020, 04:01 PM
All I want to do is sleep but I have 1 more appointment and a 1.5 hr drive back home
Just FML
Ifyouseekamy
03-06-2020, 06:07 AM
Reading 9 hours of feminist literature and hardly any mention of sex work. There was a brief mention of sex positive feminist and anti-porn feminist. If it doesn’t effect middle class white women it’s not that important.
Pokahantas
03-06-2020, 06:41 AM
Reading 9 hours of feminist literature and hardly any mention of sex work. There was a brief mention of sex positive feminist and anti-porn feminist. If it doesn’t effect middle class white women it’s not that important.
You are so right! I noticed this too.
miss.a.p1600
03-06-2020, 08:21 AM
Lil assmunchers didn’t show up and didn’t call to reschedule/cancel
That’s time I could have been doing something else important
I hope karma punches them in the jugular
All I want to do is sleep but I have 1 more appointment and a 1.5 hr drive back home
Just FML
carmen_b
03-06-2020, 09:23 AM
Right ?!? You can NOT talk feminism and leave sex work out !!!
No !
Reading 9 hours of feminist literature and hardly any mention of sex work. There was a brief mention of sex positive feminist and anti-porn feminist. If it doesn’t effect middle class white women it’s not that important.
WendiStarr
03-06-2020, 02:15 PM
I'm back in my pre-pregnancy jeans since 2 weeks postpartum. I was feeling good about myself until today's postpartum checkup. I only lost 14lbs. I could've swore that the scale said something else but the medical assistant wrote a different number, 16lbs heavier than the number that I saw. I'm back in my size 6 pre-pregnancy size but I feel like a fat cow because of my weight. Also,they're making me wait 30 days before I can get my tubes tied because I'm under 35 and unmarried. They think I might change my mind. Uh, no..my last pregnancy scared the hell out of me with the pre-eclampsia, a life threatening complication. I'm not interested in risking getting that again by having more kids. Just let me tie my damn tubes already.
seashell
03-07-2020, 12:52 PM
Ffs... I moved into a new house 3 days ago, and I still don't have electricity or heating. I brought my dogs and I have no where else to put them, unless I board them. So we're sitting here in the one room where the lights work, in the cold. It's also going to take 7-10 days for wifi.
There was a broken window when I first arrived, that my landlord apparently knew about but hadn't fixed. My dog cut his two front legs on it, had to go to the vet, and now is in a cone and bandages for a week.
I'm extremely grateful for the house, and everything is being worked on... Supposedly... But I feel like most people wouldn't put up with half the shit I deal with on a daily basis. I don't know why I feel like I need to be an immigrant. How do people do this?
Ifyouseekamy
03-07-2020, 06:06 PM
I'm back in my pre-pregnancy jeans since 2 weeks postpartum. I was feeling good about myself until today's postpartum checkup. I only lost 14lbs. I could've swore that the scale said something else but the medical assistant wrote a different number, 16lbs heavier than the number that I saw. I'm back in my size 6 pre-pregnancy size but I feel like a fat cow because of my weight. Also,they're making me wait 30 days before I can get my tubes tied because I'm under 35 and unmarried. They think I might change my mind. Uh, no..my last pregnancy scared the hell out of me with the pre-eclampsia, a life threatening complication. I'm not interested in risking getting that again by having more kids. Just let me tie my damn tubes already.
Sexism in the medical field. Glad you’re healthy
WendiStarr
03-08-2020, 08:30 AM
I'm done with Amazon Prime. They can't even follow through and deliver anything on the guaranteed delivery day. No use wasting money on these services anymore.
NitaBaby
03-08-2020, 08:44 AM
this lil tax refund is taking forever to receive.
JGB2009
03-08-2020, 06:52 PM
I try to discuss me and u. Instead you discuss your job. You didn't tell me I was wrong, so am I right about everything?
carmen_b
03-08-2020, 08:31 PM
I'm having a phase of actually missing my crazy abuser. Ugh.
I mean .... not him ...... but pulling up to his gorgeous house , hitting garage opener ( I loved how it was really fortress looking ), having this huge living space , ugh.
So much sex. Nice meals. Missing my soaks in the huge oval tub with the view.
Bleh.I miss our routine. Coffee in the morning ect.
Within 6 weeks he was horrendous and I evaluated it and determined even with all those perks I HAD to get out ...... just memories perking up. People who haven't been in something like that don't understand that at first they treated you most likely the BEST you have even been treated. Like ..... WHY can't I just have it all without the crazy / abuse ? Time to book more therapy.
Sometimes I feel like I want my perks back ( like maybe I could just go see him for 1-2 weeks and leave well before he turned nuts ). It's not healthy though.
Vyanka
03-08-2020, 09:12 PM
I don't get men. They worry about a contagious cold, but wouldn't think twice about fucking a random person raw.
lynn2009
03-08-2020, 09:24 PM
I don't get men. They worry about a contagious cold, but wouldn't think twice about fucking a random person raw.
They take on very little to none of the risk in unprotected sex. This is biological and not their fault but what I am saying is most of these dumb losers don't care about or respect women.
Vyanka
03-08-2020, 10:08 PM
They take on very little to none of the risk in unprotected sex. This is biological and not their fault but what I am saying is most of these dumb losers don't care about or respect women.
Yes. Agree.
I've seen married men not give a shit getting kissed by a stranger with lip herpes, and chics with herpes sucking raw dick on married men.
I just don't get why the scare of a cold. Lol. Baffling.
miss.a.p1600
03-09-2020, 05:05 AM
I don't get men. They worry about a contagious cold, but wouldn't think twice about fucking a random person raw.
Because most of them are dumb
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-09-2020, 06:25 AM
I'm having a phase of actually missing my crazy abuser. Ugh.
I mean .... not him ...... but pulling up to his gorgeous house , hitting garage opener ( I loved how it was really fortress looking ), having this huge living space , ugh.
So much sex. Nice meals. Missing my soaks in the huge oval tub with the view.
Bleh.I miss our routine. Coffee in the morning ect.
Within 6 weeks he was horrendous and I evaluated it and determined even with all those perks I HAD to get out ...... just memories perking up. People who haven't been in something like that don't understand that at first they treated you most likely the BEST you have even been treated. Like ..... WHY can't I just have it all without the crazy / abuse ? Time to book more therapy.
Relationships move in arcs and waves. Women have to make themselves leave dysfunctional relationships when the lows are too, well, low.
My petty annoyance for today- my dog is acting weird due to some work related arguments I've been having with my boyfriend. I wish we had put this dog down months ago. He's blind and handicapped & only alive because my boyfriend cannot do hard goodbyes well. So this poor dog has to linger in sickness and pain until my boyfriend can handle a trip to the vet to put him down. Ugh. I hate weak mindedness in people.
Aurora_Sunset
03-09-2020, 07:28 AM
I am super low on money right now - I could have worked Saturday and really SHOULD have considering all the bills I'm behind on. But I started to feel really bad that every time the kids are over, I'm working. So I stayed home. I spent damn near all day with the 4-year old. We did every single craft together that she asked for. We went to the store and bought a huge stack of kids books and I read her whatever she wanted whenever she came to me. She complained that all her stuffed animals were at home, so I let her borrow some of mine (even though the ones I keep as an adult are typically sentimental and not stuff I really want to let a child play with). She even went into my stuff, found something with My Little Pony imprinted on it, and instead of scolding her for going through people's things without permission and just taking shit, like I usually do, I just told her she could have it. Even took her back to bed at 1am Saturday night when she got up after I got home from work dead tired. Nothing crazy, but I felt good about how present, and kinda patient, I was this weekend.
So what does she do? Goes home yesterday and tells her mother that she doesn't like me because I "punch and hit her all the time." Bitch called my husband up to ask him about it. When he told her of course I don't do that, I could hear her over the phone like "Okaaay, just checking..." No, cunt, you were just trying to start shit. Because otherwise, you would have taken 30 seconds to ask your daughter, "Is that really true? Or are you just telling a story? Because that's a really serious thing to say if it's not true, and we shouldn't joke about things like that. So, are you being honest? Does she really do that? Or you were just playing around?" And then maybe taken an ounce of common sense to realize that the 4-year old, who I'm sure was randomly focusing on something else while she babbled this and didn't seem at all distressed, has no bruises, cuts, scrapes or anything anywhere on her from all the times I supposedly "beat her ass" all the time...
It made me so mad. Like, why the fuck did I bother to stay home and try to be a good stepparent if they're just gonna go home and say shit like that to the duo of cunts that are going to use it as fuel to talk more shit about me around the kids? My husband tried to laugh it off and tell me it's not a big deal. That the kids have fun when they're over, and that's all that matters, and they probably just say stuff like that because mom and stepdad can't be adults and keep their fucking mouths shut around the kids, so they know they don't like us, and they feel like they have to tell narcissistic Mommy Dearest what she wants to hear. I know that, deep down, but it still stings. They already hate us and talk shit about us in front of the kids, and harass my husband weekly as though everything he does is wrong and NOTHING they ever do is wrong because they're so perfect. Then they grill the kids about every little thing they do over here, making it obvious that they don't want them to have fun, and they CLEARLY get off on the idea that the kids don't want to come to our place, to the point where the 8 year old never tells them anything fun we do and just says we "did nothing all day" when mom asks, and now she's got the 4-year old telling her I'm some abusive monster so that mommy can feel superior and be told that she's the best and the favorite.
Then they go to the kids' therapy and I'm sure spin stories about how negligent and mean we are because we "never do anything with the kids" and "they say they don't like us because we're abusive even if the physical abuse isn't true, but oooooh who knows??" Even that "nothing" all day was probably 6 hours out of the house, dropping $200 on a festival, buying them shit, buying them food, stopping by the store, getting them a new toy, and then going to the park. And I'm such a "monster" because I played with them ALL weekend, whatever they wanted to do. But no one will ever hear about that... Until the kids get to the age where it's just ingrained in them that we're horrible and they hate us, even if they don't know why, just because their mom has perpetuated all this shit-talking at their house and they were too young to remember everything we really did with and for them. Meanwhile, my husband and I are actual adults about encouraging them to say nice things about their mom and stepdad and make things for them, and tell them how nice whatever they do for them is. So I also have to deal with "My mommy is so great! I love her so much!" Or, even better... "Mommy would buy it for me! I wanna go back to Mommy's!" While the cunt prods her children into saying horrible, untrue things about me...
It makes me want to give up and just not deal with it anymore. Like I should just go work whenever the kids are over. They might bitch about how I'm not around, but at least they can't go home and tell their fucking mother that I HIT them.
miss.a.p1600
03-09-2020, 08:13 AM
^all i can say is wow....
That’s tough cause since they are so little and acting like that it’s obvious they’re being negatively influenced by their other parent/family.
seashell
03-09-2020, 08:46 AM
@Aurora - That is super frustrating! I'm sorry, I hope things get easier with regard to the kids. They are totally the mouthpieces of their parents... just know that they do love their time with you. <3
carmen_b
03-09-2020, 10:31 AM
I woke up just raging in anger with dudes from the weekend.
They didn't really do anything. That is exactly the problem ! Lol.
So my Monday so far is : wake up and get distracted from work for 2.5 hours so far over D and Mr. NY both not offering sex on Sat. or Sun. ! Mr. NY was working both those days and D has only known me 9 days in person. I know this doesn't make logical sense. I will try to pull it together and focus.
I could have been in my dancer town 5 days instead but I thought staying in my own city for last week and giving some time to my personal life would yield some sort of result.
This is the personal life equivalent and sitting on a motel bed in your dancer town counting the cash and being like " damn it, I made 1/3- 1/2 what I hoped for !!! ".
lynn2009
03-09-2020, 01:37 PM
It makes me want to give up and just not deal with it anymore. Like I should just go work whenever the kids are over. They might bitch about how I'm not around, but at least they can't go home and tell their fucking mother that I HIT them.
No one would blame you, honestly. I would be really upset if after all that effort and money, not only does it go unappreciated but she's being accusatory about something so serious. Four is old enough to know better.
chanzep
03-09-2020, 03:55 PM
Just got a rejection email from a vanilla job. Grr I hate the vanilla job process. It was after second interview which was the same as the first but with a different person. I had feelings g at the end of it smh.
whirlerz
03-09-2020, 04:36 PM
Just got a rejection email from a vanilla job. Grr I hate the vanilla job process. It was after second interview which was the same as the first but with a different person. I had feelings g at the end of it smh.
Aw, I'm sorry hun! I know there's something better for you dear.!
whirlerz
03-09-2020, 04:47 PM
So, I'm beyond sick of where I live, nothing new bout that..
Yesterday, it was unusually nice weather, this guy upstairs (who's nice & I feed him sandwiches) got 2 visitors, which he rarely does.
They parked behind this B's car, I saw it, but then they started talking to me, + I had a piece of cake for him, that I wanted them to take it upstairs to him, got distracted about it. .
Well, in a few seconds I hear the B screaming about a black car which was the dude's guests..
I ran in the house, & said I'd get it taken care of, she continued to wail like it's the next meltdown.. FFS!>:(::)
I. AM SO glad sm finally verified my mailing address, so 1. I don't have to worry about having any checks come here w/her thieving ass, & 2. Her guy always runs out to the mailbox, which I dgaf, but want 0 to do w/them! :O
Don't get me started on the other slobs here::)
carmen_b
03-09-2020, 05:02 PM
New plan !
NOTHING for either of them!
My hints were pretty clear. Either could have gotten back in good graces today ( Mon.)!!
Can’t a girl just drop a hint and get fucked anymore ?
I guess not . Next time I will go with a formal engraved invitation : “ Dear Sir, your dick is requested at 7pm Tuesday March 10th “
Wax Seal
Delivery by pigeon
I woke up just raging in anger with dudes from the weekend.
They didn't really do anything. That is exactly the problem ! Lol.
So my Monday so far is : wake up and get distracted from work for 2.5 hours so far over D and Mr. NY both not offering sex on Sat. or Sun. ! Mr. NY was working both those days and D has only known me 9 days in person. I know this doesn't make logical sense. I will try to pull it together and focus.
I could have been in my dancer town 5 days instead but I thought staying in my own city for last week and giving some time to my personal life would yield some sort of result.
This is the personal life equivalent and sitting on a motel bed in your dancer town counting the cash and being like " damn it, I made 1/3- 1/2 what I hoped for !!! ".
Aurora_Sunset
03-09-2020, 09:31 PM
I've been trying to apply to an online TEFL job, and was invited to move forward in the process, except that my computer specs I sent them didn't meet their requirements. So they asked if I had another computer I could use. I had originally used the specs from my work laptop since it's newer, but it's also quite cheap and tiny so I sent along the specs for my regular laptop, which is much better. They STILL said it didn't meet the requirements, but refuse to tell me HOW.
I tried to google their requirements, and they don't post what they actually are. There is a thread at the bottom of one of their pages where someone listed off their specs and asked if they would qualify, and the company straight-up replied that the "computer requirements are a case-by-case basis. Send a screenshot and we'll let you know." WTF do you mean it's a "case-by-case" basis?? You either have standards or you fucking don't. How the fuck are COMPUTER SPECS a case-by-case basis type of thing? You should know what works and what doesn't. What you require or can live without. These are black and white numbers. What in the hell?
chanzep
03-09-2020, 11:03 PM
That's weird most companies tell you. how annoying. I miss the days of going for a audition and just getting the job.
WendiStarr
03-10-2020, 06:05 AM
**TMI Warning**
Either I am one of those unlucky women whose period returns early, despite exclusively breastfeeding or something worse is going on. I've been having heavy red bleeding, cramps, and nausea. I'm waiting to hear back from ob/gyn on what I should do. I'm sitting here worried that they're going to readmit me to the hospital. That's my worst fear right now, just in time for my birthday tomorrow. :(
Pokahantas
03-10-2020, 10:05 AM
I got some new makeup, some sexy perfume, and feeling excited......till I realized I don’t really have anywhere to go.
Lol I do that too
Nerissa
03-10-2020, 08:47 PM
Corona virus officially confirmed in my area. Fan-fuckin-tastic.
Futterwacken
03-10-2020, 11:52 PM
^^ Mine too, I haven't even thought about going in to dance because ew :(
Vyanka
03-11-2020, 05:34 AM
Corona virus officially confirmed in my area. Fan-fuckin-tastic.
I can't wait til this is over! My club has been kinda empty and when you get a decent customer, holy shit!!!! :O
:-X:banghead::bomb::grumpy:
whirlerz
03-11-2020, 10:07 AM
Ooh, where do I start?
Guy upstairs, (that I feed) decides to move - rearrange his room @ 2 AM??? Not the 1st time far from it!
Left note on his truck. PIG.
The other thing leaves his freakin' garbage & dishes in the sink:yikes:
Pokahantas
03-11-2020, 10:29 AM
Best thing to do is camming right now to protect you from coronavirus and not making money in the club.
xxxGothBarbie
03-11-2020, 06:09 PM
Ya I'm soooo ready to go kick it in NYC for spring /summer & can't bc of the virus outbreak. I'm not risking my health for travel & it sucks :(
Wish the hell they'd get this shit under control for once so we can all relax again ugh
It's literally making people crazy
seashell
03-12-2020, 08:42 AM
I slept on my arm weirdly, and it's been totally out of whack for a few days. I feel like I've tried everything to fix it... massaging... stretching... might need a professional if this doesn't go away
WendiStarr
03-12-2020, 08:53 AM
I don't understand my mom. She can go from being nice to suddenly being like one of those jealous, bitter, bitchy women that one typically encounters at vanilla jobs. I already knew she wasn't going to come visit because of her anxiety about driving on the freeway. Last time she took the side streets to avoid the freeway and ended up in rough areas of Detroit. Besides ending up in sketchy areas, driving side streets takes even longer to get here. I live in a nicer suburb of Detroit. I told her that I understood her apprehension of driving here and she started verbally attacking me. Then it turned into she didn't have gas money and how some of us have to actually work for a living. She doesn't see camming, pso, or my vanilla work from home job as a real job. "Some of us don't get to sit on our ass at home, doing nothing but spreading our legs all day to make money", she said. -_-