View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
whirlerz
03-12-2020, 09:20 AM
That's mean, Wendi^.
I'm sorry, hun. Sound like jealousy as well.
Hope you're feeling better, & baby & daughter are both doing well..
I was going to try to sell some scrap today, but canned the idea, bc my stomach's off again. I'm going to try for tomorrow.
I had some nice homemade soup from this diner i went to, heated it up & ate it, but then I started in w/chips & a cookie so I'll prob pay for that. :(
I found out this new guy that moved in smokes, I've seen him standing outside, so far it doesn't smell, so we'll see.::)
Regardless, I still want to GTFO out of here.
carmen_b
03-12-2020, 09:29 AM
Might be good to say you retired and are doing a normal job ? I've done it with friends before .
This is abusive so have you considering calling her out on the abuse ?
" Mom, do not be verbally abusive to me anymore. It is not acceptable. I am ok with how I make a living. "
^ Or in your situation would it just make things worse ?
I don't understand my mom. She can go from being nice to suddenly being like one of those jealous, bitter, bitchy women that one typically encounters at vanilla jobs. I already knew she wasn't going to come visit because of her anxiety about driving on the freeway. Last time she took the side streets to avoid the freeway and ended up in rough areas of Detroit. Besides ending up in sketchy areas, driving side streets takes even longer to get here. I live in a nicer suburb of Detroit. I told her that I understood her apprehension of driving here and she started verbally attacking me. Then it turned into she didn't have gas money and how some of us have to actually work for a living. She doesn't see camming, pso, or my vanilla work from home job as a real job. "Some of us don't get to sit on our ass at home, doing nothing but spreading our legs all day to make money", she said. -_-
chanzep
03-12-2020, 09:30 AM
Sorry Wendi, people can be like that.I had to quit my last work from home vanilla job it was stressful as fuck. You couldn't do anything they would take your 1minute in restroom out of your break. 30 secsof doing nothing was too much for tnem. It was crazy.
Pokahantas
03-12-2020, 10:19 AM
I don't understand my mom. She can go from being nice to suddenly being like one of those jealous, bitter, bitchy women that one typically encounters at vanilla jobs. I already knew she wasn't going to come visit because of her anxiety about driving on the freeway. Last time she took the side streets to avoid the freeway and ended up in rough areas of Detroit. Besides ending up in sketchy areas, driving side streets takes even longer to get here. I live in a nicer suburb of Detroit. I told her that I understood her apprehension of driving here and she started verbally attacking me. Then it turned into she didn't have gas money and how some of us have to actually work for a living. She doesn't see camming, pso, or my vanilla work from home job as a real job. "Some of us don't get to sit on our ass at home, doing nothing but spreading our legs all day to make money", she said. -_-
so sorry she said that to you. Don’t let her break you down! Just know that you are amazing 😉 and ignore the negativity.
xxxGothBarbie
03-12-2020, 01:34 PM
I'm sorry Wendi :(
My mom is an abusive bitch as well & has done/said the same things you stated above to me about camming/pso. When I was living in a motel struggling a few years ago, stripping wasn't cutting it anymore & so I asked her for help with money for the motel for a few nights since she had tons of credit cards & was always using them on crap she didn't need and so she flipped out on me calling me a lazy ass drunk who laid in bed all day blah blah. I've never screamed at her like I did until then, and that also opened my eyes that I knew she wasn't a "mother" but a monster. I still get highly angry when I think back on her talking shit to me like that.
She's always hated on my work from home jobs & abilities. She's just jealous bc you have that skill 7 ability to where you CAN work from home & be comfortable. Most people can't & end up resenting otheras out of pure jealousy.
I have read many of your posts that mention her abusing you verbally & I must say it angers me. I think you may need to put some distance there for your own well being for a bit. I know I had to. It def helps.
<3 big hugs
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-12-2020, 03:33 PM
I don't understand my mom. She can go from being nice to suddenly being like one of those jealous, bitter, bitchy women that one typically encounters at vanilla jobs. I already knew she wasn't going to come visit because of her anxiety about driving on the freeway. Last time she took the side streets to avoid the freeway and ended up in rough areas of Detroit. Besides ending up in sketchy areas, driving side streets takes even longer to get here. I live in a nicer suburb of Detroit. I told her that I understood her apprehension of driving here and she started verbally attacking me. Then it turned into she didn't have gas money and how some of us have to actually work for a living. She doesn't see camming, pso, or my vanilla work from home job as a real job. "Some of us don't get to sit on our ass at home, doing nothing but spreading our legs all day to make money", she said. -_-
I have a few female relatives like that. I cut them off. They are retroactively pissed about me exiting the adult industry unscathed- for women who buy into the "Good Girl" trope it's like hot sauce in the eyes to see a "bad girl" waltz through life with full pockets and her sanity intact.
Maybe I don't have right to ask but why would you even want her to visit? I know it's different with kids in the picture.
My petty annoyance- my poor simple boyfriend is freaking out about Corona Virus aka COVID 19 like it's a real threat in our area. (Spoiler alert- it's not.) No wonder this guy was a Jehovah's Witness for 2 decades, something in his personality really responds to fear-based preaching. I feel like a Nurse having to hand-hold him and kowtow to his worries about this crap. Gah.
WendiStarr
03-14-2020, 09:18 AM
I was looking at my bank statement today and noticed a double charge from Netflix, one for $8.99 on the 6th of this month and another for $15.99 on the 12th. I only have a basic account with them so that was a red flag. I called them and they were able to see that an old, cancelled credit card was attached to my account, along with an additional gibberish name and email account of a hacker. It turned out that this has been going on for several months. Somehow the hacker was able to use an old, cancelled card. I don't know how and it pisses me off that my bank didn't notice this and allowed the transactions to go through all this time. After a frustrating 69 minutes, I was able to get Netflix to put a stop to it and just cancel all accounts. I don't trust Netflix anymore and I'm ready to get a new bank.
Aurora_Sunset
03-14-2020, 10:07 AM
Uber-ing ruined today by shitty weather. The shitty weather also had my night-shift part-time gig texting me telling me to come in later than I already do cuz it's gonna be slow, and "they're trying to conserve hours." Like, really? You only give me 12 a week as it is, and I'm the person you need to shave hours off of? Not the highschoolers, living at home, and getting way more hours than me? It's such a late shift already, I almost want to just not go in if I'm gonna go in late - which I know makes no sense as I complain about hours lol
Also, Comcast emailed me about my late bill, which I had legit forgotten about. But their damn bill pay website isn't working probably. Maybe get that shit fixed if you want bills paid...
Midwest-Mistress
03-14-2020, 10:48 AM
So Um obviously first world problems right? Sooooo I woke up yesterday morning @ 5 AM thinking I'd have a head start to the hysteria shit buying & nope. I've been buying Walmart delivery for the past few months & I was left with only a handful of shitty time frames - the later during the day the less they'll have in stock. As time came (I ended up with 7-8Pm drop off time) I noticed all the shit I NEEDED was out of stock.... No Meat, no oats for oatmeal, no batteries - but meat was the biggest factor. So I get a notif that my order will be "45 min late" Which has never happened before & 9 PM comes... 10 PM comes....
I'm working online normal as usual I don't need food now I'm fine, & I didn't mass/bulk buy either but... I go to sleep & get a call @ 7 Am asking if I want to reschedule the time of my groceries & I told them unless I can get my meat then no, said they were completely wiped... Yeah, so I'm going to hike my ass to the local Mexican & Asain Markets today & see if they have any food cause this shit is ridiculous.
Genoveve
03-14-2020, 01:37 PM
Maybe I don't have right to ask but why would you even want her to visit? I know it's different with kids in the picture.
Exactly. The whole purpose of family is that you love each other unconditionally, which means no matter what, so if your family members aren't fulfilling that purpose----then they're not family IMO. So often I see people putting up with toxic family members and they say that they can't just cut them off because since they're family they owe them loyalty---but they obviously don't feel that that same familial loyalty is owed from them to you hence them abusing you so why do you feel like you owe it to them when there's less-than-zero reciprocity?
baer45
03-14-2020, 08:39 PM
They find one Covid 19 case in my city and couldn't connect the case to any known source. That is just great, isn't it?
carmen_b
03-14-2020, 08:57 PM
Ok. Eh. I need to give about $2,000 back of $2500 to a customer for a cancellation ( she had non corona virus emergency circumstance that I verified and I can not keep this $ and feel right about it ).
UPDATE , DONE ( cries ) . Haha. I put $1100 of it on credit.
Then , I need to try to work out a " push back the time line situation " with my first day job customer facing travel fears in two weeks to try to save $525 now and get $525 in the summer. If I can get them to " push back the time " instead of out right canceling it's negotiation that can let me keep their retainer for now.
Pokahantas
03-14-2020, 11:41 PM
So tired of people manipulating me. So my bf was supposed to come over today and stay for the weekend so I’m waiting and waiting and don’t here shit. Then at 7 pm he called saying he couldn’t make it that he had to work. So I’m like wtf didn’t you tell me this before even though he told me he was off tonight prior. There’s so many things I wanted to do today that l pushed aside to make time for him and he just never show up. So then he’s like giving me so much excuses. Then he text me saying can he come over in the middle of night and I said no. Now he’s acting like he has such a bad day that he needs me and me not allowing him to come over is like I’m not there for him. Like wtf how is me not wanting him to come by after waiting all day associated with me not being there for him because I won’t let him come over now because he feels guilty? This is a manipulative tactic?
miss.a.p1600
03-15-2020, 07:14 AM
If you have to ask is it manipulative you already know the answer
He’s trying to turn the tables n make you feel guilty (or just confuse tf out of you) thus effectively deflecting from being held accountable for his initial fuck up of failing to keep his word/being unreliable AND treating you like you’re not a priority
Femme Fatale
03-15-2020, 07:25 AM
I’m pissy cause I am boo boo the fool.
*drops mic*
I didn’t get anything done but the necessary.
Pokahantas
03-15-2020, 08:56 AM
If you have to ask is it manipulative you already know the answer
He’s trying to turn the tables n make you feel guilty (or just confuse tf out of you) thus effectively deflecting from being held accountable for his initial fuck up of failing to keep his word/being unreliable AND treating you like you’re not a priority
Thanks so much for this comment. I think you are 100% correct. It’s so crazy that people play mind games like this. You are confirming what I had a feeling he was doing from the start.
whirlerz
03-15-2020, 09:51 AM
I'm just dreading going to the store next..
I'll be ok for the next day or two, my neighbor saw a guy w/30 pkgs of Pampers lol.
I don't need those but damn:-\
Aurora_Sunset
03-15-2020, 10:54 AM
Already dreading and regretting that I work at 9am every day this week after allowing my body to get back on a night owl rhythm.
lynn2009
03-15-2020, 11:30 AM
I think I fucked up the entire front frame of my car by driving too far into this grate/sidewalk thing they do here. I tried to turn the wheel and it got stuck, and I think it pulled the frame out of alignment from that corner where the frame protects the tire. I get to work from home Monday and Tuesday this week, so I am probably going to suck it up and take the car into a PepBoys, so they can fix the frame, the light that is still out and this high whirling noise the car makes too. Ugh. I don't mind paying for professional repairs, having a safe car is important to me, but I hate thinking about how much I get ripped off without knowing it.
Pokahantas
03-15-2020, 07:44 PM
So annoyed by this sugar daddy who likes to send me dirty text messages and pics of his little bitty penis oiled up (that he thinks is big) to me at random times and I can’t stand this shit! I wish I could get paid whenever he sends me these texts. Omg I’m so sick of him but I have to keep him around because he pays my rent sometimes when I can stand being around him. He’s very old and gross and I’m starting to think he has dementia because he forgets that he told me certain things and I have to endorse the checks he gives me for my rent because he’ll mess it up and try to use whiteout to fix it. I feel sorry for him sometimes but he’s a perverted creep. I just keep dragging it on because I won’t let him go anywhere near my vagina but I can sense he’s wanting more. He likes me to just be naked and oil him down (I’m throwing up in my mouth typing this) My life ugh! Jesus! My Gawd! I just wanna finish my doctorate already. omg
xxxGothBarbie
03-15-2020, 11:09 PM
ugh fuck this panic! my walmart grocery delivery was canceled twice today bc they ran out of food. I'm beyond pissed off, they should've pulled those items off shelf at time i placed order & put them in a warehouse until delivery. I am sooo not wanting to go into a store right now since I'm in a higher risk area in the states.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-16-2020, 08:06 AM
Petty annoyed that my boyfriend's squirrelly behavior caused us to miss a couple items we needed at the grocery store. Cooking this week will be lame lol. I keep forgetting his time as a Jehovah's Witness primed his mind to be looking for signs of "The End Times".
WendiStarr
03-16-2020, 12:58 PM
I had to cancel my doctor's appointment to set a date for tubal ligation. BD has the only vehicle and I don't have anyone to babysit for me anyways. My 10 year old said she doesn't feel comfortable being home alone yet, let alone to babysit her baby sister. I didn't want to attempt to Uber with kids. I'm not sure how an Uber driver would react to me having to install a baby car seat in their car. That's time consuming and I don't think any Uber driver would have that kind of patience and for me, having to deal with that twice would be a pain in the ass. My doctor's office sent an email this morning about limiting guests that accompany patients to 1 maximum. I'm not sure if that rule would apply to kids or not. I'm also annoyed at my bank. They only will refund fraudulent charges that were made within the past 60 days. They couldn't give me an answer as to how or why someone was allowed to continually make charges to an old card that I cancelled last year. I said that it should have raised a red flag to them that something was up. They said that if I want all my money back, I should call Netflix to resolve it but Netflix said they couldn't do anything, that I would have to have my bank fix the issue.
miss.a.p1600
03-16-2020, 07:00 PM
I get annoyed by people crunching food....like why is your mouth acoustics so loud I can hear you crunching from a few feet away?
I also get grossed out by hearing people pissing, pooping, and farting....public bathroom stalls are gross to me
chanzep
03-16-2020, 09:18 PM
Indeed.com is annoying as fuck.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-17-2020, 03:02 PM
Petty but hilarious annoyance- my downstairs neighbor's son is throwing a huge tantum and he's hitting the walls and floor so hard I can hear thumping. Ahhhhh kids.
I don't even remember having the energy to tantrum that hard.....
Pokahantas
03-17-2020, 03:12 PM
I’m so over the Coronavirus I feel like I’m losing my mind! People hoarding food and supplies I just want to scream!!!!!!
lynn2009
03-17-2020, 06:36 PM
I’m so over the Coronavirus I feel like I’m losing my mind! People hoarding food and supplies I just want to scream!!!!!!
I'm getting really fed up too. On ABC news, there was a physician whose hospital is having them wear the same face mask for a week straight, the storage is so bad. People are fucking idiots.
Nerissa
03-17-2020, 06:50 PM
I’m so over the Coronavirus I feel like I’m losing my mind! People hoarding food and supplies I just want to scream!!!!!!
Saaame here. This is getting ridiculous. I understand the need to be safe and know it's the right call to be closing stuff down, but I'm still going so stir crazy. I never knew I could stress so much about being bored that it can give you a migraine, which I'm still currently enduring. :<
Pokahantas
03-17-2020, 07:00 PM
I'm getting really fed up too. On ABC news, there was a physician whose hospital is having them wear the same face mask for a week straight, the storage is so bad. People are fucking idiots.
omg that’s so awful and sad
Pokahantas
03-17-2020, 07:01 PM
Saaame here. This is getting ridiculous. I understand the need to be safe and know it's the right call to be closing stuff down, but I'm still going so stir crazy. I never knew I could stress so much about being bored that it can give you a migraine, which I'm still currently enduring. :<
i agree. Same here. My dogs and cat are like you’re still home wtf.
moneybags
03-17-2020, 07:45 PM
I’m so pissy. One of the websites isn’t accepting my paperwork. Im just mad and stressed. I appreciate they got back to me. I’m just mad at the whole situation. Trying to not get worked up over it. My lawyer is looking at some creative things. They want paperwork that doesn’t exist. One day at a time. I’m just gonna work on another site until I can figure things out. I was doing really good on it. I just need to focus on working the sites that accept my paperwork. I was doing good for a newbie.
naomi_doll
03-17-2020, 07:53 PM
I’m so pissy. One of the websites isn’t accepting my paperwork. Im just mad and stressed. I appreciate they got back to me. I’m just mad at the while situation. Trying to not get worked up over it. My lawyer is looking at some creative things. They want paperwork that doesn’t exist. One day at a time. I’m just gonna work on another site until I can figure things out. I was doing really good on it. I need to look at some non token sites. Those token sites can kiss my ass.
Girl, please get on streamate. I know you've got the street smarts to do well. Sites like streamate, cams, and imlive are going to be much closer to your usual hustle. And remember as always, get the money first.
indiegirl
03-18-2020, 11:38 AM
So annoyed on the days when I want to work it's dead STILL as of last week and when I don't (the day before) I get flooded with texts and emails. WHY?!?! I wasn't planning on working for a while but I spent enough money on doomsday products plus car insurance and mortgage is due on the first. Just trying to prepare for a potential lockdown.
lynn2009
03-18-2020, 12:52 PM
I am giving up and looking into dog overnight training camps that cost a fortune. I called one place and this front desk girl had the most obnoxiously perky voice, listening to her exhausted me.
indiegirl
03-18-2020, 01:02 PM
I am giving up and looking into dog overnight training camps that cost a fortune. I called one place and this front desk girl had the most obnoxiously perky voice, listening to her exhausted me.
What breed? I have spent $$,$$$ on them total only to have them return the same. Have/had an aggressive dog. Brandon Fouche is the dog king. No training but owner training. He also did phone calls with a woman at my moms hospital she worked at. Helped a lot.
lynn2009
03-18-2020, 01:14 PM
What breed? I have spent $$,$$$ on them total only to have them return the same. Have/had an aggressive dog. Brandon Fouche is the dog king. No training but owner training. He also did phone calls with a woman at my moms hospital she worked at. Helped a lot.
He's a Russell and Yorkie mix. I had some adoption regret when I got him, then we were good after about a month but it is coming back. I don't want to give him back or anything but I really wish he was easier. But I am so I frustrated lately, like he needs a lot of exercise which would be fine but we can't go on a nice, long walk. It is a straight hour of his dumb barking, pulling and losing his God damn mind. The training camps are crazy expensive, I've gotten multiple quotes for 2,500 to 3,000. Which would be fine but I'm afraid of getting him back in the same state, like you said.
indiegirl
03-18-2020, 03:29 PM
What breed? I have spent $$,$$$ on them total only to have them return the same. Have/had an aggressive dog. Brandon Fouche is the dog king. No training but owner training. He also did phone calls with a woman at my moms hospital she worked at. Helped a lot.
Dog camps don't do shit. I learned that financially. The above was better.
miss.a.p1600
03-18-2020, 03:33 PM
trying to stay positive but people freaking out is causing me to slightly freak out.....
I need a break from this but everywhere I go I am reminded of the worldwide panic attack
indiegirl
03-18-2020, 03:45 PM
What breed? I have spent $$,$$$ on them total only to have them return the same. Have/had an aggressive dog. Brandon Fouche is the dog king. No training but owner training. He also did phone calls with a woman at my moms hospital she worked at. Helped a lot.
One high rated company returned their dogs (even small poodle types) with shock collars (super expensive collars) ...This was a new york place and I went all over for a good one and ended up with a dog being shocked and feeling bad. Brandon Fouche laid it out easy. He's in LA. I'd give him a call. He does phone sessions too. One of mine is a pit bull (typically works with aggressive dogs) but works with any dog, with any habit he can teach you about. Such an amazing man. Never met a trainer as smart as him.
whirlerz
03-18-2020, 04:20 PM
Major Guilt! Narcissist roomie
Well, this morning I lost a temporary crown, (it fell out, I put it aside, & later had rough time finding it).
Irritable bowel acting up too
Can't go to dentist til 4/1..I need a root canal, nice:(
Yesterday I went shopping, I got roomie an orange juice, + bedding material for his son's rabbit..
Then, he ask me to get cough syrup, after my previously getting him some? He drank it all, not supposed to:O
After my therapy, then I met w/my friend, I came home, was playing w/his kid, he wanted me to go the store??
Was giving 10.00, which's nothing, to buy the kid snacks.
He's super picky eater, & not everything 's on the shelves.
I'd agreed earlier to take him to the hospital, I said I'd drop him off & pick him up, but not wait, which he was fine with..
My tooth' s OK sometimes, I have to use this stuff & fix it till I can get to the dentist. I have to clean it & fuck w/it. I drank something cold, spilled it all over cause of the pain!
I guess he didn't like that I didn't go to the store, he asked the guy upstairs & I guess he did it + dropped him at the hospital? Idk.
The kid was knocking at my door, I know he wanted me to play, but I just wasn't up to it:'(
What a mess
lynn2009
03-18-2020, 06:03 PM
Brandon Fouche laid it out easy. He's in LA. I'd give him a call. He does phone sessions too. One of mine is a pit bull (typically works with aggressive dogs) but works with any dog, with any habit he can teach you about. Such an amazing man. Never met a trainer as smart as him.
Thanks, I will check him out. I feel much better overall. I thought the dog park would be closed but I took my little monster anyway so we could walk the neighborhood. The dog park was open and he played really nicely with another dog so I didn't have to walk him very far.
But now I have a new pissy annoyance which is that jerks keep buying the houses that I want.
xxxGothBarbie
03-18-2020, 08:51 PM
I am so ready for this panedemic to be over with already! I hate being locked in 24/7 :( I can watch movies & work a bit but I feel like a dam prisoner. My sleep schedule is starting to become that of a vampire again lol ugh
On the good side, my rat & I are bonding more & I'm teaching him new stuff whereas before I never took the time :)
carmen_b
03-18-2020, 10:20 PM
^ I know. It's hard right ?
I find that " outings " still help. Like .... going to Starbucks still and getting the drink to go or sitting outside somewhere.
Or getting a take out and eating it outside somewhere. I got out today and did the coffee thing + walked the dog and it helped.
In my state, I think we are looking as possibly 11 more days of closures of all public spaces . That is IF things go well ? I am hoping they somehow reduce it to 7 ! I'm trying to have a good attitude though. I might road trip this out and burn 5-6 days that way.
WendiStarr
03-19-2020, 10:33 AM
^
I feel ya on the lock down feeling. I was already stuck in house because of having a baby and not wanting to risk getting her sick with all the nastiness going around. Now with stupid coronavirus in my state it's even worse. I'm on 7 weeks of being cooped up. The weather is too cold and rainy to go out to a park or else I would. Also, I have a terrible headache.
BambiCutie
03-19-2020, 11:36 AM
Ugh, this job I am working with is not logging my hours/minutes worked and it just records my previous hour from yesterday.
This job is such a scam.. >:( Makes me miss the hustle of camming than working this vanilla shit show.
Aurora_Sunset
03-19-2020, 06:09 PM
The hospitals around here are starting to discharge as many people as possible tonight to make room for virus cases. I got off work right as they made the call, but hubby was asked to stay longer. He should have been home 4 hours ago... He’s going on hour 16 of work after being up at 4am. I got us food but am waiting for him to be home so we can eat together.
I guess I’m not really “pissy,” just sad.
Aurora_Sunset
03-20-2020, 07:17 AM
Stepdaughter has been given a “preliminary diagnosis” of the virus by her pediatrician due to symptoms. The kids’ stupid cunt ass mother is still insisting on sending them over this weekend. My husband was like “doesn’t she need to be quarantined?” and her response was “well, she’ll just be quarantined at your place.” THAT’S NOT HOW THAT WORKS, YOU STUPID BITCH. It means she doesn’t fucking leave where she is to go come in contact with ANYONE that has not been exposed! She is such a fucking cunt. I can’t even believe she exists.
Midwest-Mistress
03-20-2020, 07:54 AM
Just had to block a chick on another forum because every time I had an advice asking thread she always wanted to do backhanded advice bullshit & I'm not here for it... Like *insert half ass 'advice'* *insert 'how they never have a problem with what I'm asking about'* *ends with more watered down bullshit advice* I can tell the difference from authentic constructive advice & someone waiting to say some snarky shit. I'm over it. BLOCKED.
seashell
03-20-2020, 08:12 AM
@indiegirl
That is a good idea, about the dog training phone calls! I need someone to train me as a dog owner, lmao.
I was just coming here to complain about my dogs, too >_> My little one keeps barking at my neighbor, who shares a yard with me. I want to be able to leave her out there to run and play, but she keeps trying to bite his ankles. It's funny, but at the same time... it's really not!
Then my other dog is running around in a cone... embarrassing. lmao