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whirlerz
05-04-2020, 03:49 PM
^h8 going to the store..

I must go just when it opens, otherwise I get too overwhelmed!

So roomie's hot dad is over, I heard something outside my door (expecting a pkg) & there he is, his mom too.
Pkg isn't here, so TG my other door was opened so I don't have too pass by 'em again :-[

carmen_b
05-04-2020, 04:30 PM
^ I did it right after I wrote that .... like .... lets just get this shit over with haha !!!
It's searing now in a pan then I'll roast it 350ish a couple hours ( it's two small ones v.s. a monster one ).
I hope my meat preparation skills will impress him.
I'm pushing an onion soup mix into it and half way through roasting I'll press a garlic clove and smother it.
I don't like over-done garlic which I why I do that half way.

moneybags
05-05-2020, 11:18 PM
My petty annoyance is my stats professor putting questions on the exam I’m sure we didn’t go over in class. Oh well with this coronvirus I just have to let people off the hook. He probably just didn’t think about what he covered in class. we’re all so stressed with the coronavirus no one is really think well right now LOL. As long as I get an A I’ll get over it. It feels trying to put a puzzle together and one of the puzzles pieces is missing so I can’t finish it. Ugh!

carmen_b
05-06-2020, 01:53 PM
Damn. I just wasted $37 on a student massage from one of those clinic places.
It wasn't a total waste but it was not strong enough at all.
I'm bummed but I was so desperate for a session haha.

I'll try again in a week or so.

JGB2009
05-08-2020, 02:19 PM
Why are you acting funny today? Dumbass!!!!

Staci
05-08-2020, 02:44 PM
I'm pissy because I can't reach an Amazon customer service rep to discuss an order.
They keep telling me they attempted delivery and was unable to deliver and will try again the next business day because business was closed - but it's not a business! It's my home! And Wednesday they said unable to deliver due to a holiday. The only holiday I saw was National No-Diet Day LOL.
And when I track it, it doesn't even show out for delivery.
When I attempt to contact customer service at 1 (888- 280-4331), I hear a recording that due to the virus, you aren't able to talk to customer service at this time, and suggest using chat.
When I use chat, it seems to be automated only allowing you to choose from yes/no answers.
Aren't some of you on here working as customer service reps? Do you know how people are contacting you? If so, I would love to know.
It wasn't a cheap item and I would like to know where it is.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-08-2020, 02:55 PM
I'm pissy because I can't reach an Amazon customer service rep to discuss an order.
They keep telling me they attempted delivery and was unable to deliver and will try again the next business day because business was closed - but it's not a business! It's my home! And Wednesday they said unable to deliver due to a holiday. The only holiday I saw was National No-Diet Day LOL.
And when I track it, it doesn't even show out for delivery.
When I attempt to contact customer service at 1 (888- 280-4331), I hear a recording that due to the virus, you aren't able to talk to customer service at this time, and suggest using chat.
When I use chat, it seems to be automated only allowing you to choose from yes/no answers.
Aren't some of you on here working as customer service reps? Do you know how people are contacting you? If so, I would love to know.
It wasn't a cheap item and I would like to know where it is.

To get around the chat automation you need to select the "no something else" option. When it ask for more details just type in help. I'm testing it out right now. It says an associate will join the chat. In the past when an item was lost in the system or whatever, I just selected an older purchase to bypass the automated responses.

ETA It took six minutes to get an agent. Send me a message and I can possibly explain it a little better.

http://www.camhustlers.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Screenshot_20200508-175654-01-e1588975142166.jpeg

Staci
05-08-2020, 03:11 PM
To get around the chat automation you need to select the "no something else" option.
Oh, thanks so much!:hug:
It is still via Chat, but at least it's with an agent. I'll give that a try.

WendiStarr
05-08-2020, 07:17 PM
^

I'm a customer service representative for Amazon. Our phone system has been sucky lately. It has been hanging up as soon as we answer. To get past the chat robot, type,"I need a representative" or "Something else" when it gets to the item picker. I'm off until Sunday but you can pm if you want to.

My annoyance today is when a certain someone picks fights with me over the dumbest shit. I never had anybody pick a fight with me over pointless crap. So the toilet paper was folded over in the wrong direction to you..not that big of a deal.

moneybags
05-09-2020, 03:17 AM
Made a little bit of coin. I had a regular who initially was good and then now he thinks we’re friends. I was cool for awhile, but I’m gonna have to talk to him about my time is money and if he wants to talk then we need to go to pvt. nice guy. But nice girls don’t get ahead in life. After an hour of talking to him he says he just wants to go to sleep. Ugh. Dude you know how this works.

wish
05-09-2020, 04:13 AM
I decided I wanted a refund for my trip but 1 of the airlines isn't offering money back so I might as well keep my original trip as scheduled :( I can think of other things to spend that money on

chanzep
05-09-2020, 01:28 PM
I woke up early tired and stayed in bed for 2 hours trying to get back to sleep. Now I'm just exhausted. I hope I can fall asleep for a nap I feel weird.

moneybags
05-09-2020, 08:50 PM
I decided I wanted a refund for my trip but 1 of the airlines isn't offering money back so I might as well keep my original trip as scheduled :( I can think of other things to spend that money on

What airline? assholes

moneybags
05-09-2020, 08:52 PM
I can’t believe we’re 2 months out from the first wave of panic-buying/hoarding and it’s still almost impossible to find toilet paper. I had to try 3 Walmarts, a Kroger, and finally found some at CVS. We all made fun of the people hoarding, and the hoarding is what caused part of the shortage... but now I’m wondering if we should have stocked up more. I truly did not think we’d still be so bad off months later.

I know some of what stress me out more than the virus itself is dealing with people’s irrational reaction to the virus. I found it best to go early in the morning at a less popular store.

Yeah. I was too chill and didn’t stock up or anything. I guess i don’t see TP as a deal breaker. If I get sick not much I can do. So I guess that’s why I didn’t panic. The ER doctors aren’t going to be like, “if only she bought more toilet paper we could have saved her.”

carmen_b
05-10-2020, 02:07 PM
I'm dating a dad with 50% custody and this is day 1 of period.
Guess who *doesn't* have their kid today and will be expecting attention ? Haha.
I can't resist him and will provide regardless. BUT could this timing be more shitty ? Lol.
Like ..... he is kid free on day 1 and 2 of cycle.
I'm kind of wanting to hide honestly.

WendiStarr
05-10-2020, 02:32 PM
Supervisor texting me when I just got off about wanting people to work OT. I was going to work OT today but I'm feeling too tired. I plan on working OT every day except today. Today is Mother's day. I already put 9 hours and I just want to relax and maybe get a nap in if the kids nap. The weather is overcast, rainy, and making me want to sleep.

carmen_b
05-10-2020, 05:36 PM
( deleted , moving on lol )

carmen_b
05-10-2020, 05:38 PM
Oh nope, I do have to mention this also.
I have an issue with J not either grilling me a steak in 5-10 minutes OR buying me one.
Granted .... he would if I asked him. I'm 99.9% sure.

I would like him to read my mind though and send me a picture of it.

WendiStarr
05-11-2020, 03:45 PM
I'm working a 12 hour shift today and I'm ready for this day to be done with. Baby seems to be having tummy issues going on today. BD put the wrong size diaper on her 4 times today and the baby shit all the way up her back and got shit all over the place, since the diaper is too big. I'm getting tired of cleaning up shit on my breaks. I wish he'd deal with it, instead of saying nothing but handing her over to me like that.

Elle:)
05-12-2020, 08:58 PM
I am feeling so fucking trapped.

WendiStarr
05-14-2020, 05:33 AM
I'm hating my vanilla job today. Being cussed out multiple times a day for 11-12 hours a day because an order shipped from China didn't arrive within 2 days sucks. I wish Amazon would just ban all third party sellers from China because it's either complaints on long shipping time, junky items that don't match the listing, or the item is totally wrong. How the heck am I supposed to explain to someone who was expecting face masks why the received a fucking package of black garbage bags instead, or the person who ordered a rocking chair and received a loft bunk bed? Ugh. I'm burning out on customer service vanilla job.

miss.a.p1600
05-14-2020, 08:02 AM
Too bad you can’t hang up on them?

When I sold on amazon (idk I might get back into it soon) I paid extra for amazon customer service just so I wouldn’t have to deal with the plethora of phone psychos

People be getting irate and taking it out in the wrong ways

Aurora_Sunset
05-14-2020, 09:36 AM
I had tentatively finally accepted bio-mom’s friend request on facebook (with a ton of privacy settings) for a few weeks when we were kinda-sorta getting along. But after their most recent slew of BS, I straight-up blocked her and her new husband on Facebook so they can’t keep resending requests. Now, all of a sudden, the dude is trying to follow me on Instagram... I just don’t get it. We CLEARLY don’t want to be friends with them on social media. We don’t HAVE to be social media friends to coexist. What is the fucking obsession??? Get over it and stop trying... According to the kids, they had a huge fight on Mother’s Day, where she took her ring off, gave it to him, and drove off for several hours. How about you worry about yourselves one measly year into your “rock solid” marriage? ::)

carmen_b
05-14-2020, 11:26 AM
^omg
These posts .
I’m getting a taste myself haha.

J co-parents and usually kid trades happen at 11am
Yesterday kid is scheduled to arrive at 8:30.
( very much a chance to ruin our morning haha, she is not a busy person who needs early drops lol )

carmen_b
05-14-2020, 09:46 PM
^ I have a feeling drama is a plenty in my situation because J mentioned yesterday was " interesting " .
The only follow up I got was " it was a strange day, Ill have to tell you about it later ".

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-15-2020, 03:36 PM
I'm so disappointed right now. Someone I helped raise told me he was going out to meet a woman. I asked to see a photo and he's like..Meh, she's like a Miami 7 and maybe a DC 9. When he broke that down for me I wanted to snatch him up and give him the switch! I had never heard that before and it's disgusting. I love him to pieces but he's a six on his best day no matter where he is.

carmen_b
05-15-2020, 03:52 PM
The heat seems a little odd to bitch about since I knew of it when I stayed in the desert.

But .... the heat.


Lol.

xxxGothBarbie
05-19-2020, 09:02 PM
I love it when you live with dirty ass people who leave their own dishes out in the sink to build up yet demand you do yours asap (although there weren't that many). I've been distancing myself from crazy landlady bc she's in a super crazy talkative mood when she gets lonely or bored.... I am so not in the mood to be nice right now! Ugh!

She's only demanding me to do stuff bc I've been avoiding her like crazy, I've noticed that to be a pattern of hers when people here avoid her & want their own space.She's beyond fucking codependant ugh.

Sorry lady, you drive everyone nuts with your jawjacking.

Can't wait to leave here soon! If anything, this living situation has taught me that airbnbs/motels (despite how pricey they are) are soooo worth it to have my private space & peace of mind!

carmen_b
05-19-2020, 09:39 PM
^ Plus they are SUCH a killer good deal right now ! I am noticing AirBnB's around here are all half price of normal ( at least for next few weeks ).
She reminds me of my Hawaii room mate. This older lady I was respectful but not overly friendly with ! Then I would catch her talking shit here and there. I think it was just because I didn't party with her haha. I was in a phase of just cash stacking back then and not very social ! Nothing wrong with those phases !!

miss.a.p1600
05-20-2020, 06:50 AM
I'm so disappointed right now. Someone I helped raise told me he was going out to meet a woman. I asked to see a photo and he's like..Meh, she's like a Miami 7 and maybe a DC 9. When he broke that down for me I wanted to snatch him up and give him the switch! I had never heard that before and it's disgusting. I love him to pieces but he's a six on his best day no matter where he is.

lol! Most dudes are a 6 anyways (remember there was some thread were the forum debated this and damn near every woman said that most men are a 6)

but they expect women to be 8,9, and 10

i suppose it’s human nature to want to qualify and label things but I could also see how this perpetuates objectifying women especially when male dating coaches teach men to alter their behavior/treatment based on what number they rank a woman they’re dealing with.

This whole topic would make another interesting thread

And also he probably was nonchalant about the woman so he wouldn’t be too excited about his date ;)

carmen_b
05-20-2020, 09:20 AM
^ Same ! I'm willing to BET that you put these two side by side and HE would be getting the WAY better deal.

I'm sure Phat would have mentioned if he made really good $$ because we all know that extends your looks up two notches . Haha.

carmen_b
05-20-2020, 10:52 AM
Ok Lovely
At least I have secured the property up North for J and I on Friday.
Then my family has decided they will come on Saturday. Lol. We are talking 4 adults and 2 kids at least in addition to me and J .

This is a two bedroom.
Ok ....... I learned a lesson from last time !
Booking J and I a resort hotel nearby !!!

WendiStarr
05-21-2020, 10:46 AM
I want it to be 4pm already. This vanilla work day is a never-ending nightmare of calls from angry customers today. I have a headache and I'm trying to keep from cussing someone out right back at them.

whirlerz
05-21-2020, 11:09 AM
So today I go to Trader Joe's, already a damn line, that store (closest to me) is tiny. + a long check out wait.

So I go to Aldi's, & I don't need a lot so I'm bringing a box in, to put groceries in.

I get stopped by a worker lady, she said I'd have to box up my stuff outside, I got a little pissed but didn't say anything, other than look grumpy..

Some old lady started lecturing me::), "honey it's been all over the news, bla blah".
I told her I don't watch it, & don't shame me! >:(

Pokahantas
05-21-2020, 11:21 AM
So, I’ve been with my bf for a little over a year and it’s been cool but I’m annoyed by some things. The quarantine revealed a lot because we’ve been spending more time together because he’s out of work right now because of covid. He does security and there’s no work available. He went from working every day to nothing. He’s not a freeloader type but it’s annoying to see a man sleep all day and then complain about no work. Another annoyance is that he’s not brushing his teeth every day. I never noticed this before. He had bad morning breath but I just attributed it to that and just tried to ignore it. Well he just spent three days at my apartment and his breath was kicking my ass. On the last day it was unbearable! And he wouldn’t go home. I was so annoyed. When I first met him I smelled a stinch but thought maybe he was having a bad day or something. I’ve tried to overlook it but I’m starting to think he may have a serious hygiene issue. In addition to not brushing his teeth for three days I also noticed he only took one shower the entire time he was at my house. He was in my room sleeping and why room smelled like hot breath and ass. I really want to say something but don’t know how. It really turned off this last time and I just couldn’t believe he felt so comfy just talking in my face with stank breath. He even tried to have sex with me. When he finally left I had to change all my linens and febreeze my pillows as it left a stale smell like hot dog water and musty balls. The smell made me crazy. I am honestly really over this guy because he slept well into the day and kept drinking up all my damn juice. I don’t know why the juice situation annoyed me because he pays for things but it did. Like how are you laying up with your gf all stank? Omg I can’t take this shit no more! I don’t want to hurt him. He told me that if we broke up he would be devastated. I’ve been ghosting him since yesterday. I’m one of those people who are too nice and find it difficult to just say look your hygiene is turning me off. Any ideas??? Help!

xxxGothBarbie
05-21-2020, 01:48 PM
So, I’ve been with my bf for a little over a year and it’s been cool but I’m annoyed by some things. The quarantine revealed a lot because we’ve been spending more time together because he’s out of work right now because of covid. He does security and there’s no work available. He went from working every day to nothing. He’s not a freeloader type but it’s annoying to see a man sleep all day and then complain about no work. Another annoyance is that he’s not brushing his teeth every day. I never noticed this before. He had bad morning breath but I just attributed it to that and just tried to ignore it. Well he just spent three days at my apartment and his breath was kicking my ass. On the last day it was unbearable! And he wouldn’t go home. I was so annoyed. When I first met him I smelled a stinch but thought maybe he was having a bad day or something. I’ve tried to overlook it but I’m starting to think he may have a serious hygiene issue. In addition to not brushing his teeth for three days I also noticed he only took one shower the entire time he was at my house. He was in my room sleeping and why room smelled like hot breath and ass. I really want to say something but don’t know how. It really turned off this last time and I just couldn’t believe he felt so comfy just talking in my face with stank breath. He even tried to have sex with me. When he finally left I had to change all my linens and febreeze my pillows as it left a stale smell like hot dog water and musty balls. The smell made me crazy. I am honestly really over this guy because he slept well into the day and kept drinking up all my damn juice. I don’t know why the juice situation annoyed me because he pays for things but it did. Like how are you laying up with your gf all stank? Omg I can’t take this shit no more! I don’t want to hurt him. He told me that if we broke up he would be devastated. I’ve been ghosting him since yesterday. I’m one of those people who are too nice and find it difficult to just say look your hygiene is turning me off. Any ideas??? Help!

No baby, you're not alone LOL I'm right there with you trust me.
My situation is reversed & I'm staying with my bf until hopefully no longer than next week. I def need my own space again ugh! Be grateful you have your own place. Seriously my gypsy soul is a bit miffed at myself for not having a sanctuary to rest in during these times & away from people , esp boyfriends. Maybe try taking some space from each other for awhile. Sometimes that helps, if not, then you know the answer <3
Good luck!

Pokahantas
05-21-2020, 02:02 PM
No baby, you're not alone LOL I'm right there with you trust me.
My situation is reversed & I'm staying with my bf until hopefully no longer than next week. I def need my own space again ugh! Be grateful you have your own place. Seriously my gypsy soul is a bit miffed at myself for not having a sanctuary to rest in during these times & away from people , esp boyfriends. Maybe try taking some space from each other for awhile. Sometimes that helps, if not, then you know the answer <3
Good luck!

thanks for your reply. It lets me know I’m not alone in this. Yes I think I will take your advice and put some space between us. Good luck with getting out of that situation. I can only imagine what you’re going through. Hang in there luv.

whirlerz
05-22-2020, 09:41 AM
Poke^ I would NOT be able to handle that, that's so gross & unsanitary. I would tell him, that's up to you tho. U said you're distancing a bit so that's good.

So ok long rant ahead..

I roommate w/5 people (6 cause the one guy has his girlfriend over a lot, they're cool tho)

So, that's stressful enough, but behind my separate entrance is a little house, this lady has her family over constantly.
Which is fine, but they throw loud (VERY) drunken parties, last night they were out til 2am, she stopped the [email protected] 12am, but I could still hear loud talking.

I mean, I had my a/c on, (which drowns out most all noise), white noise machine, & ear plugs or ear buds w/music.

Yes, I could still hear them..>:(
This will definitely be repeated, probably on a nightIy basis, I can't talk to her, the landlord is no help either.


I obviously can't make a move rn.
I'm working on getting rid of stuff so I can be ready when the time comes.
Just hard, ya know? I know there's worse off, it's just frustrating af.
I just ignore, but damn!

I'm going to look at Airbnb & hotel rooms for the weekend.
So yeah, it's an idea, but $ cause other people are assholes

Thanks for reading.

carmen_b
05-22-2020, 12:46 PM
Poka : I was going to suggest something like just announcing what you are doing for body upkeep like inviting him to go walking .
For day to day stuff ( if you even want to save this thing ) I'd just say something like " lets shower / brush before we snuggle, we've been out all day ".
I mean ..... it's not right what he is doing. You might have to hit the point HARD .

It seems like you are done though from your posts. My suggestions are if you even want to attempt a save on it.

Pokahantas
05-22-2020, 01:54 PM
Poka : I was going to suggest something like just announcing what you are doing for body upkeep like inviting him to go walking .
For day to day stuff ( if you even want to save this thing ) I'd just say something like " lets shower / brush before we snuggle, we've been out all day ".
I mean ..... it's not right what he is doing. You might have to hit the point HARD .

It seems like you are done though from your posts. My suggestions are if you even want to attempt a save on it.

is so crazy that we have to tell a grown man to have better hygiene. Like who is raising these dudes? Thanks for the advice. I think I will have to just be blunt about it. To be honest I’m really turned off at this point. Yikes!

Pokahantas
05-22-2020, 01:58 PM
No baby, you're not alone LOL I'm right there with you trust me.
My situation is reversed & I'm staying with my bf until hopefully no longer than next week. I def need my own space again ugh! Be grateful you have your own place. Seriously my gypsy soul is a bit miffed at myself for not having a sanctuary to rest in during these times & away from people , esp boyfriends. Maybe try taking some space from each other for awhile. Sometimes that helps, if not, then you know the answer <3
Good luck!

Have you tried Airbnb? At least you can get away from your bf with cheaper than hotel prices.

xxxGothBarbie
05-22-2020, 03:25 PM
Have you tried Airbnb? At least you can get away from your bf with cheaper than hotel prices.

Ya I'm waiting for a piece of important mail to arrive here before I go. I'm in CA so my plan is to drive out of state so I can cam again & find cheaper airbnbs bc honestly the prices here aren't much cheaper than before. PPl are def trying to be greedy in terms of the pandemic sadly so they're racking up prices.

miss.a.p1600
05-23-2020, 06:44 PM
So, I’ve been with my bf for a little over a year and it’s been cool but I’m annoyed by some things. The quarantine revealed a lot because we’ve been spending more time together because he’s out of work right now because of covid. He does security and there’s no work available. He went from working every day to nothing. He’s not a freeloader type but it’s annoying to see a man sleep all day and then complain about no work. Another annoyance is that he’s not brushing his teeth every day. I never noticed this before. He had bad morning breath but I just attributed it to that and just tried to ignore it. Well he just spent three days at my apartment and his breath was kicking my ass. On the last day it was unbearable! And he wouldn’t go home. I was so annoyed. When I first met him I smelled a stinch but thought maybe he was having a bad day or something. I’ve tried to overlook it but I’m starting to think he may have a serious hygiene issue. In addition to not brushing his teeth for three days I also noticed he only took one shower the entire time he was at my house. He was in my room sleeping and why room smelled like hot breath and ass. I really want to say something but don’t know how. It really turned off this last time and I just couldn’t believe he felt so comfy just talking in my face with stank breath. He even tried to have sex with me. When he finally left I had to change all my linens and febreeze my pillows as it left a stale smell like hot dog water and musty balls. The smell made me crazy. I am honestly really over this guy because he slept well into the day and kept drinking up all my damn juice. I don’t know why the juice situation annoyed me because he pays for things but it did. Like how are you laying up with your gf all stank? Omg I can’t take this shit no more! I don’t want to hurt him. He told me that if we broke up he would be devastated. I’ve been ghosting him since yesterday. I’m one of those people who are too nice and find it difficult to just say look your hygiene is turning me off. Any ideas??? Help!

Just tell him!

“Hey Bob id LOVE to feel your sexy lips on mine BUT last time we kissed I noticed your breath wasn’t as fresh” or however you want to say it.

Maybe brush your teeth/shower together and make it a fun intimate task you’re both doing with each other

If he tries to get mad at you just tell him you’re concerned about his health.

I feel ya girl. I dated a guy who tried to eat my pussy in the morning before he brushed his teeth. I was half asleep and I didn’t realize it until afterwards.....later on in the week when I ended up going to the doctor with a yeast infection

So yeah if you know their hygiene isn’t good - take sexual activity off the table (because YOUR health is more important than their petty hygiene nuances)

miss.a.p1600
05-23-2020, 06:52 PM
is so crazy that we have to tell a grown man to have better hygiene. Like who is raising these dudes? Thanks for the advice. I think I will have to just be blunt about it. To be honest I’m really turned off at this point. Yikes!

I remember an ex coworker who said when he was out of work he was depressed af.

Most men’s self worth is tied to their ability to provide at least for themselves and when they are out of work they can’t even do that. He *might* be experiencing slight depression which is manifesting through not caring about things they used to care about (ex. hygiene n grooming rituals) OR has he always been like that and you never realized cause he wasn’t around you as much as he is now?

moneybags
05-23-2020, 10:40 PM
Someone was rude AF to me. There’s no excuse for it. I’ve been through hell and back and I don’t work my shit out on other people. I wish people would chill out. Pandemic or not no reason to be a dick. Whatever.

WendiStarr
05-24-2020, 01:37 PM
Netflix needs to get rid of that stupid loud noise upon launching it. I got off work, just got the baby to sleep, figured I'd relax and watch Netflix and then that obnoxious bastard made that loud 'duh dun' noise and woke baby back up.

xxxGothBarbie
05-25-2020, 01:03 AM
Annoyed AF that elder land lady always seems to want me to move my car out of the driveway either a day before she leaves to go somewhere or a few hours beforehand which annoys the hell out of me. Why not ask me to move it right when she's ready to leave?!? I've always had zero issues moving it when she leaves. Why is it literally a crucial thing for me to have to move long before she needs to leave?! I don't understand ppl ugh.
I'd also like to add that I srsly think she hears us in the kitchen & purposefully comes out of her room to join us in there EVERYTIME we are in there, I kid you not *eyeroll*.
The tension has been bad around here lately due to us not having any space here in this house. I literally feel like she tries to come into the kitchen just to try & talk to us so we can listen to her problems (that I dgaf about). I usually get pissy & storm out of the kitchen when I hear her coming in & wait until she leaves but sometimes she'll just linger in there almost waiting for us to come back in there. So annoying!

I think I'm srsly gonna throw a party for myself the min I get into my airbnb or hotel after this situation ends VERY soon.

Wouldn't that annoy any of you?

moneybags
05-25-2020, 01:35 AM
^^^ People are crazy. Who knows what issues she has? Have you tired talking to her. I don’t want to get in any fights with my loved ones during the pandemic, so I’m using the observe, not absorb technique. After the pandemic, I’m setting my foot down. I don’t want to rock the boat since everyone is on edge as it is. Sounds like your handling it well. I live alone. I literally would not cope with anyone in my space. I’d just lock myself in my room. I’ve done it before with a bad roommate situation.

carmen_b
05-25-2020, 06:20 PM
^ Reading this stuff makes me realize I was lucky AF to live alone during quarantine ( other then getting kicked out by paying guests on the house sitting adventure a couple times ).

I am in such a funk today!
I tried to get an 80 minute massage today and the therapist miscalculated the time.
I noticed she ended at like 57-60 min. She realized what she did and told the front desk who only charged me for 50 min. but I really wanted the time to zone. Weird.

I think it bothered since the overall vibe right now of no one can ever linger in any place . Like ..... it is so much more locked down and creepy than the desert where I was.

So ..... the cycle continues ..... coffee to go ..... food in the car ..... can't sit in anywhere.
PAY for 80 min. to rest and get pushed out 20 min. early.

lynn2009
05-25-2020, 07:23 PM
I've been thinking about getting some plants for ages and decided to finally get some yesterday at Home Depot. Being brilliant, I didn't do any research on what I got until they were already home and repotted. I posted on the NextDoor app today to give one away because it needs full sun and my balcony is 80% shaded. Anyway I asked the first woman who messaged me if she could pick it up tonight and around 8 she replied no, because it was too dark to see the roads. I mean if you are already settled in for the night and don't want to go out, fine, bit really telling me it is too dark? Geez, if only there was a way to see in the dark, like with lights?? Is that a thing?? Maybe I am missing something. And 8pm is not even that dark here. Grow up lady.