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carmen_b
05-25-2020, 07:50 PM
^ If it's a nice plant, post on FB marketplace and sell it.
You'd be surprised. My plants were so sought after when I minimized .

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-26-2020, 04:36 AM
Petty annoyance- I've really enjoyed the site reddit (I love to read just about anything) buttttt it's obvious the site is headed toward just being very monetized (like You Tube) and it takes a lot of fun out of it. I know with the Internet it's easy to find other sites to read but reddit was super cool for a minute. IMO it's too much cross over from the 4 and 8 chan ///btards.

yuck.

seashell
05-26-2020, 05:47 AM
I have to move, and I hate it. On the one hand, I'm going to live with my boyfriend in England for a few months, which is exciting... but on the other hand, I have to leave my house and my dogs in Serbia until I can return. The dogs are in good hands, but... ugh. I just want a long term home, and some stability.

WendiStarr
05-26-2020, 12:40 PM
I have so much that I need to get done, yet I feel so exhausted.

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2020, 03:55 PM
Kind of annoyed by the hypocritical COVID-19 vigilantes

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2020, 04:37 PM
I used to date this guy who turned out to be an arrogant jerk. The only good that came out of it was I learned my worth at the tender age of 18 I was able to continue dating guys with extreme wealth.

He later (many years later) apologized.

Then he had the gall to try to invite himself to my city. Constantly texting me in true typical fuckboi fashion

He claimed he was “100% single”

I guess his dumb ass didn’t realize I could see his baby moms posts with pictures of them looking like a couple that she tagged him in. Like bruh! Even if you hide those posts from me I can see them on her wall.

I’m glad I ignored him. I’m not for play play.

lynn2009
05-26-2020, 04:50 PM
I am going to find out who works at the Maryland Transportation Authority and set their kids on fire. I paid their dumb fucking tolls over a year ago and sent proof of payment but still they sent me a overdue notice warning of collections months ago and I ate shit and paid over three hundred dollars to make this go away because otherwise it would affect my credit before buying a house. Now they sent me another fucking bill for over three hundred dollars!!! What the fuck!!

WendiStarr
05-27-2020, 11:44 AM
Add to my list of problems: no working transportation. As if the current situation with bf in ICU after a heart attack and not being able to visit him because of hospital policy of no visitors due to Covid-19 pandemic isn't bad enough, combined with working from home with no childcare options available. I have no working transportation and Uber and Lyft are both also gone in my area because of stupid Covid. I need a break, universe! Quit sending more hardships and expenses my way!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-27-2020, 12:46 PM
I'm so ready to get back to being around more people that I can look directly in the eyes. It helps when you need to decipher between those who actually give af and the ones who are just opportunistic takers.

WendiStarr
05-28-2020, 08:32 AM
Deleted.

He came back home to us.

miss.a.p1600
05-28-2020, 12:17 PM
I want to just be able to get my sexual needs met without having to worry about the outcome of 'is he using me' 'is he going to call me later' 'is he going to tell people we had sex' 'what am I going to get out of this besides sex'

I need to end my celibacy but now I feel like ranting in the I hate men thread

lurkingtitties
05-28-2020, 12:24 PM
Bf called me from the hospital to say that he's getting out today. I was happy until he said he's going back to his ex's condo and his adult daughter will be there to help care for him. What?! His daughter could stay here but she likes her former step mom and doesn't really like me that much. Right before his heart attack he started acting right again and said he wanted to be a family with me. I saved his life on Monday, but fuck me, right? He claims that he's just going to stay there for a couple days but I don't believe that because he said he won't be able to talk to me when he's there because his ex will get jealous. Why? I love him but I don't have the energy to fight anymore. Whatever. I guess now I can stop worrying about him because he chose to not come home when I would've taken care of him because that's what I do. I've been caring for people my whole life, taking care of kids and adults, and I feel like all I do is get shit on more often than not.

Girl can you stop messing with that loser guy? I wish he died from the heart attack after how he’s treated you. Sorry to be harsh but yo I’m real sick of seeing you go through it with him, over and over and over again. You need to be strong and remove him from your life.

JGB2009
05-28-2020, 12:27 PM
I want to just be able to get my sexual needs met without having to worry about the outcome of 'is he using me' 'is he going to call me later' 'is he going to tell people we had sex' 'what am I going to get out of this besides sex'

I need to end my celibacy but now I feel like ranting in the I hate men thread

My daughters dad told his GF that he was gonna marry her. He only told her that to keep her around. Eventually she dumped him but sometimes I feel like some men will tell you wutever they think you wanna hear just to keep you by their side.

JGB2009
05-28-2020, 12:44 PM
You say I am talking shit. I'm just not happy and you don't wanna hear it or fix it!!!! Fuck you!!!

carmen_b
05-28-2020, 01:49 PM
It's so hot today . I feel like I can't deal with anything outside but I can't sink my whole day. Haha.

I will create a plan to do most errands morn. and sunset now though.

xxxGothBarbie
05-29-2020, 11:01 PM
So I've had this gal pal of mine that I met when I was dancing about 11 years ago. She & I have been close since with an odd 3 or so years of not speaking over some stupid fallout. Anyhoo , I'm super annoyed with her right now bc she messages me & says she wants to send me some makeup she got from her daughter for her birthday (that is brand new & unopened) that she didn't like & has no plans on ever wearing it & so I told her yes I'll gladly take it.

Fast forward 3 days later, I tell her to send it to my relative's address bc I won't be at bf's place anymore after tonight, she then says "um ok, I'll think about it & she'll let me know". Basically just pulled the rug out from underneath me. I hate that shit! Esp when someone is gonna give me something that I know dam well they aren't gonna use & then they pull that shit.

I'm tempted to srsly distance myself once more from her bc of this. Am I being bratty? Ya bc I really wanted it & I don't think it's very prudent to tell someone you're giving them something only to say nah nevermind you can't have it.

Am I wrong to feel so pissed off about it?

JGB2009
05-30-2020, 02:52 AM
Annoyed with being cat called this morning.

miss.a.p1600
05-30-2020, 08:32 AM
^the last time I was catcalled I wanted to rage against the loser who was doing it.

That dusty mf was catcalling while I was with a minor. So I wasn’t sure was he catcalling me or the minor either way I was enraged and disgusted because after ignored him his bitch ass had the gall to say “you could say thank you”

Like bitch! Why tf would I thank your dusty ass for sexual harassment?

Girl if murder was legal I would have murked his ass that day. Fired off several rounds into his disgusting body then looked at my gun and said .......“thank you”

whirlerz
05-30-2020, 12:26 PM
So this guy that lives upstairs saw me coming outside, & seemed like he's trying to dodge me?

Get over yourself, seriously, lol.

On the bright side, I met a neighbor walking by, he's married , but it's nice to have a convo w/not someone from here.

Aurora_Sunset
05-31-2020, 07:46 AM
Girl can you stop messing with that loser guy? I wish he died from the heart attack after how he’s treated you. Sorry to be harsh but yo I’m real sick of seeing you go through it with him, over and over and over again. You need to be strong and remove him from your life.

Agreed. I know you changed this post to saying he came back to you anyway, but he’s just gonna keep pulling this shit. Always does. Has shown no signs of being able to stick to his word instead of flip flopping constantly. You’re such a badass, I hate what this guy does to your life and peace of mind over and over. He may not hit you, but this constant emotional “keeping you on your toes” crap is also abuse.

miss.a.p1600
05-31-2020, 10:10 AM
I think I’ve been in denial. Or well the wool is slowing being pulled from over my eyes

I thought my guy friend I dated in the past .... well we could have re-sparked something but the fact that I’ve been talking to him since NOVEMBER and we’ve only been out once says mostly what I need to know.

I’ve been doing all the reaching out n calling and now I’m done.

He also haggled me about being celibate and said he could never have sex with someone who is celibate because it’s like fucking a virgin and he likes women who “already know what to do”. And he said he thought I was a “feminist”

He’s always joking about me making him money like he’s a glorified pimp. And I might have halfway entertained that but don’t pimps provide emotional support and physical protection at the least? Neither of which he’s proven himself capable of.

I joked back and told him if I’m making money then I expect a 5 star dinner when I get off work.

Then he was like if it’s a slow work day you won’t get anything but Burger King. Then pivots the conversation to how I should rub his feet because he deserves it.

I don’t remember him acting like such a bitch when we dated before. Like where the fuck did his masculinity go?

He changed into this guy who expects women to chase him, pamper him, and give him money????!!!??? Which isn’t inherently bad but mf better be providing 100x value in exchange and he doesn’t seem to want to provide anything in return.

Who tf raised this dude? Did Bertha he divorced clip his nuts cause this ain’t it. Now I see why he’s a divorcee. Not someone I’d consider husband material at this point and I’ll let him find that gullible low-self esteem masochist he’s looking for.

I might just go back to my original plan to fuck his friend/coworker.

carmen_b
05-31-2020, 11:12 AM
^ Oh, he sounds super gross.
That whole conversation is a turn off. I'd ignore him.

miss.a.p1600
05-31-2020, 12:22 PM
Thanks carmen #itsdone

I’ve known him for years and we always joke around and he wasnt like this we dated (in fact he paid all of our dates and bought me gifts) but I’m a strong believer that when people joke they are really serious but just want to see how you’ll react.

He’s probably a lost cause now and I’m not wasting any effort.

This is what happens when I go against my own policy of not keeping male friends.

Insert slap my head emoji

JGB2009
05-31-2020, 04:48 PM
Thanks carmen #itsdone

I’ve known him for years and we always joke around and he wasnt like this we dated (in fact he paid all of our dates and bought me gifts) but I’m a strong believer that when people joke they are really serious but just want to see how you’ll react.

He’s probably a lost cause now and I’m not wasting any effort.

This is what happens when I go against my own policy of not keeping male friends.

Insert slap my head emoji

Yup true....I always believe that you gotta watch how people joke. Glad you got rid of him.

moneybags
06-01-2020, 02:03 PM
I think I’ve been in denial. Or well the wool is slowing being pulled from over my eyes

I thought my guy friend I dated in the past .... well we could have re-sparked something but the fact that I’ve been talking to him since NOVEMBER and we’ve only been out once says mostly what I need to know.

I’ve been doing all the reaching out n calling and now I’m done.

He also haggled me about being celibate and said he could never have sex with someone who is celibate because it’s like fucking a virgin and he likes women who “already know what to do”. And he said he thought I was a “feminist”

He’s always joking about me making him money like he’s a glorified pimp. And I might have halfway entertained that but don’t pimps provide emotional support and physical protection at the least? Neither of which he’s proven himself capable of.

I joked back and told him if I’m making money then I expect a 5 star dinner when I get off work.

Then he was like if it’s a slow work day you won’t get anything but Burger King. Then pivots the conversation to how I should rub his feet because he deserves it.

I don’t remember him acting like such a bitch when we dated before. Like where the fuck did his masculinity go?

He changed into this guy who expects women to chase him, pamper him, and give him money????!!!??? Which isn’t inherently bad but mf better be providing 100x value in exchange and he doesn’t seem to want to provide anything in return.

Who tf raised this dude? Did Bertha he divorced clip his nuts cause this ain’t it. Now I see why he’s a divorcee. Not someone I’d consider husband material at this point and I’ll let him find that gullible low-self esteem masochist he’s looking for.

I might just go back to my original plan to fuck his friend/coworker.

There’s nothing wrong wrong with being a feminist. The Webster’s definition is: 1 a theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexs.

“How could it be any more obvious that we still live in a patriarchal world when feminism is still a bad word”? Ellen Page

miss.a.p1600
06-01-2020, 08:22 PM
^^^Thanks y'all.

I told my OTHER guy friend about this and he said only an insecure dude would label a woman who speaks her mind a feminist

And youre right. I don't see anything wrong with being a feminist if that's what a lady believes.

WendiStarr
06-02-2020, 10:54 AM
Supervisor threatened to fire me because I hung up on an angry customer who was yelling and swearing at me. There was no way to calm him down. His account was flagged for fraudulent behavior and he wouldn't or couldn't verify anything on his account. He wasn't listening to me and just kept on firing off cuss words, saying that he needed to make an order now. Just fire me already. I'm so done with this customer service job.

AChildOfBoredom
06-02-2020, 04:17 PM
I know I said “mace” in an earlier post, but the smell makes it clear it was high concentration OC - pepper spray, much stronger than what everyday people can purchase. Aside from being a bit fucked off over having it used on me and then being blindsided when I was doing nothing at all to merit it, we took a friend’s car there and the smell is still lingering in it in spite of a lot of Febreeze and scrubbing, and taking the clothes I wore that night to the laundromat and running it through a couple times (because I was NOT washing that with the rest of the laundry) still hasn’t gotten it out of my clothes, plus when I showered that night, I caught it again as it washed out of my hair… I still went back the next night and the night after… it takes more than that to make me quit… but I’m more than just a little fucked off about the whole thing.

kamiliam
06-02-2020, 04:53 PM
Why I am not protesting...logistically 53178

miss.a.p1600
06-02-2020, 04:57 PM
^bruh! I’m sorry but this is funny .... although I don’t think I’d be laughing if I were her though

I can’t imagine my clit being indirectly maced

Makes me cringe just thinking about it

chanzep
06-02-2020, 08:20 PM
Supervisor threatened to fire me because I hung up on an angry customer who was yelling and swearing at me. There was no way to calm him down. His account was flagged for fraudulent behavior and he wouldn't or couldn't verify anything on his account. He wasn't listening to me and just kept on firing off cuss words, saying that he needed to make an order now. Just fire me already. I'm so done with this customer service job.

This was literally me when I did that job. Apart from being at home job is very stressful.

moneybags
06-03-2020, 02:43 AM
^^^ and they say sex work is degrading?

I’m getting my Covid-19 test. I don’t wanna, but I know i should do my part since even people not showing symptoms should be tested. Anyone got the test yet?

miss.a.p1600
06-03-2020, 01:36 PM
Them shits free? How often can you get a test?

Speaking of Covid tests I haven’t gotten an std test in a min (I’ve been celibate for almost 4 years now) but it wouldn’t hurt to get one anyways just cause incubation and asymptomatic

That would suck ass if someone was positive for std AND Covid

And yeah! I’m also on the phones for work. Occasionally I’ll get irate people. I hang up on their ass too. But I do give them a chance “look Bob is this a bad time?” if they say no and keep on talking that ying yang I say “Bob! I’m going to disconnect the call now!” Then hang up.

Some of them try to call back cause their ego is like “damn can’t believe I wasn’t able to lash out and I can’t believe they hung up on me”

I usually never answer because most times they’ll keep popping off.

I also don’t tolerate people rudely interrupting/talking over me.

Mfs think I’m going to be emotionally abused by strangers on the phone.....not today satan!

moneybags
06-03-2020, 02:48 PM
Them shits free? How often can you get a test?

Speaking of Covid tests I haven’t gotten an std test in a min (I’ve been celibate for almost 4 years now) but it wouldn’t hurt to get one anyways just cause incubation and asymptomatic

That would suck ass if someone was positive for std AND Covid

And yeah! I’m also on the phones for work. Occasionally I’ll get irate people. I hang up on their ass too. But I do give them a chance “look Bob is this a bad time?” if they say no and keep on talking that ying yang I say “Bob! I’m going to disconnect the call now!” Then hang up.

Some of them try to call back cause their ego is like “damn can’t believe I wasn’t able to lash out and I can’t believe they hung up on me”

I usually never answer because most times they’ll keep popping off.

I also don’t tolerate people rudely interrupting/talking over me.

Mfs think I’m going to be emotionally abused by strangers on the phone.....not today satan!

Long post disclaimer. Just getting stuff off my chest. I don’t expect anyone to read the whole thing.

Our governor said anyone who wants to get tested can get tested. We log on to a website and it tells us if we qualify and where to go. I believe the cares act is footing the testing bill. I won’t get tested again unless I really need to, but they say the key to reopening safety is EVERYONE getting tested and wearing masks.

Anyways back on the topic of testing, maybe call the state health department and seeing what there testing guidelines are and how to get tested. Yes, I don’t have casual sex so I haven’t even had a full STD panel since my last partner. I really don’t need it, but it feels good to get a clean bill of health.

On the topic of customer service, I try to always be kind no matter how pissed I am. There’s only a few times I’ve been bitchy with a customer service rep. I try always starting the convo, “could you please help me?”, even if I’m fucking irate. Most of the time my grievance is with THE MAN not the person on the phone, so I try to not take it out on them.

Mask rant- I wish people would wear their mask. My dean sent out a letter explaining if everyone wears mask and social distance we can reopen safety. I’ve heard my friends from overseas beg us Americans to wear masks. I can’t believe people bought up sanitizer and toilet paper, but it’s too much to wear a mask!!! The other day these girls forced themselves in the elevator without masks on before I could get out-ugh. I’m just trying to focus on what I can control because otherwise I’ll drive myself insane!

miss.a.p1600
06-03-2020, 03:11 PM
We have a surge in cases here so they probably going to start mandating masks in public.

itsnightlight
06-03-2020, 03:24 PM
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moneybags
06-03-2020, 06:09 PM
Delete if not allowed as it's a sensitive topic right now:

My big from my co ed community service fraternity is posting a whole bunch of black lives matter stuff, BUT she stood up for racist members of the fraternity who made fun of me for being biracial, talked shit about black people, and said super racist things about native americans when it came to the Columbus Status being taken down. She was called out and then eventually blocked since she had no justification for her racist behavior.

Also in general: organizations that are posting the black squares or making BLM hashtags and pictures, but are actually racist af and are using it as a trend. For example, the Washington Redskins: https://twitter.com/Redskins/status/1267918269798850563

I think there’s some people who

1) may in the past have said racist things and are trying to make amends-which is awesome!
2) Then there’s people who are now supporting the cause because it’s popular,
to virtue signal, or to make money off the movement

I had a guy in my weight lifting group preach about how we all need to do our part. I was like I’ve been doing my part since I can remember. So for some white dude to preach everyone needs to their part- it’s annoying AF. I’ve been woke for awhile and I just silently did what I could do. I did it because it’s the right thing to do is to treat all human beings like human beings-duh.

Like when people wake up to the fact sex work is work. I bet the same people who judged us harshly will be posting all hoe they support sex workers and businesses like Victoria secret and Sephora will be using #sexworkiswork to make money not because they actually care about sex workers.

I get it. Hopefully his heart is in the right place and he’s not just doing it to look good.

As far as not the not talking politics-I think that’s why things are messed up. We need to learn how to talk about important issues in a healthy way. We swept in under the rug and now we have to deal with the problems we didn’t want to talk about!

xxxGothBarbie
06-03-2020, 11:39 PM
So why in the hell I'm talking to that "friend" of mine that I complained about the other day that promised me her unused makeup she didn't want then said nevermind?! UGH I felt bad so I started talking to her again & BAM all she seems to wanna talk about is her problems & whats goin on in her life regarding a certain guy she's had this weird on/off crush on for the last 12 years despite her being fucking married!

I tried to insert a few things going on in mine & I even asked her to do a tarot reading for me bc she mentioned doing one for herself & how accurate it was & what do ya know.... Nada for me, even after she told me she would. I'm seriously starting to think she's honestly self centered or just fucking with my head bc she's bored in the midwest.

Another thing I've realized I need to do is take a much needed serious break from forums & social media in general. All I seem to get is negativity & condescending remarks anytime I ask a question , so ya...... break time!

carmen_b
06-04-2020, 09:22 AM
^ She sounds like a bit of a nut. Haha.

Gotta love the whole " oh, I'm after this dude even though hubby is my partner " vibe lol.

moneybags
06-05-2020, 01:33 PM
I’ve been using my coping skills to be more assertive with annoying people and I’m doing better at not enmeshing and reacting to annoying people. I was little bit bitchy, but I feel like people mistake my kindness for weakness, so sometimes the boss bitch in me comes out to handle shit. I’m doing better at not letting annoying people bring my vibes now.

I’m using all my conflict resolutions skills today...Jesus! I’m glad those years in couples counseling is helping me now. “What I’m hearing you say....” When I start saying that phrase I’m irate and that’s my go line.

yaya_cash
06-06-2020, 04:39 PM
I may have 2 more teeth cavities since I haven't been taking care of myself (so much) and been depressed these last few years. And I have invested a lot of funding elsewhere, I'm afraid that I can't afford to invest in to getting my teeth fixed right now, with everything else-- :(

whirlerz
06-06-2020, 04:55 PM
I may have 2 more teeth cavities since I haven't been taking care of myself (so much) and been depressed these last few years. And I have invested a lot of funding elsewhere, I'm afraid that I can't afford to invest in to getting my teeth fixed right now, with everything else-- :(


Can you go to a dental college, or a college where they have practicing students?

There's 2 in my area, they both have great recommendations, but they get booked fast, w/long wait list.. Although I got an appt almost immediately, bc of a cancelation.

My regular dentist gave me a list of places that can help.
Good luck! In the meantime, get a flouride rinse & use it.
I also use a floss holder, it helps, looks like a fork w/o tines.

WendiStarr
06-06-2020, 07:15 PM
I was annoyed by an unusual panhandler earlier. I stopped at 711 to get something to drink. I noticed a lady standing
outside by the door. She asked me for money. I only had a $5 bill on me because I don't usually carry cash these days and was only planning on buying a vitamin water. I told her sorry, but I don't have any extra cash right now. Someone else gave her some money. I guess she was asking everyone because a guy in front of me, talking to the store clerk mentioned being bothered by that lady. He said he gave her $10 and she asked him if that's all he had for her. The store clerk said that lady had been hanging out there for at least a half hour, a lot of customers had complained about her, and he was going to talk to her. She came back over to me and asked me again for money,as I was leaving the store. The store clerk came outside and told her that she can't be standing outside, bothering customers. She got into the driver's seat of a red mustang that was parked by the entrance and seriously started yelling at me out the window to give her money now. I get that times are tough but geez! I don't like obnoxious panhandlers. I got the heck out of there.

whirlerz
06-07-2020, 09:04 AM
Yaya_cash, best to you, dear, I know how that is, & hope you can get it done for yourself!

Wendi I just got 4 of these53184

It's LOUD, has flashing light too.

Me:
So, now the couple upstairs (btw, it's a room supposed to be for 1 person only) , the guy has his gf over, which Idc, but they're leaving their crap all over the kitchen counter, including a large dirty pan from like a week ago.

The girl has a deep chest cough, I'm older w/some heath issues so concerned about that too.

moneybags
06-07-2020, 02:48 PM
Everything that could go wrong is going wrong and it’s not my fault either. I need to stop taking people at face value and just assume they really don’t have a fucking clue what they are doing or what they are talking about. That way when shit hits the fan I won’t be as surprised by it.

I’m going to stay positive and not let it bring my down.

WendiStarr
06-07-2020, 02:57 PM
My head hurts. I've cried too much today and I want to go to sleep but I still have to work until 8:30pm.

lynn2009
06-07-2020, 03:45 PM
I found two loose pitbulls in front of my building today coming back from the store. I thought they were deer at first, as they were both that color brown. They were friendly and came up to me when I called them. I ran inside to drop off my stuff and dumped a whole bucket of treats into one of those Starbucks delivery bags because I was booshie today and had Starbucks delivered. Anyway I found them again quickly outside. There was one boy who needs to be neutered and a smaller dog, a girl, who looked like she had just had puppies. They looked healthy enough but I figured they were bred then dumped because neither one had tags and only the boy had a collar at all. I could not leave them unattended so I called 911 for animal control (the main animal control office/line was closed) and was going to wait outside with them until someone came and use the treats to keep them near me, even though the boy dog was not taking the treats. The apartment complex manager had seen me and came back outside with two leashes and we were able to leash them. She called the park police and they were sending someone to pick up the dogs. Eventually they walked us over to this small park next to the apartment complex and their owners saw us.

I wish their owners hadn't seen us and we had been able to get the dogs to the county shelter as the county shelters here are no kill and take pretty good care of the dogs. They were both sweet and really well behaved and their owners obviously are not responsible dog owners. I'm sure the dogs were not microchipped and maybe their owners would have bothered to call the shelter, but they could have been neutered and then adopted out to better owners. Anyway I got their names and they are Cinnamon and Simba.

I saw the boy dog out by himself again today. How hard is it to keep your dog inside???

Aurora_Sunset
06-08-2020, 07:14 AM
I was annoyed by an unusual panhandler earlier. I stopped at 711 to get something to drink. I noticed a lady standing
outside by the door. She asked me for money. I only had a $5 bill on me because I don't usually carry cash these days and was only planning on buying a vitamin water. I told her sorry, but I don't have any extra cash right now. Someone else gave her some money. I guess she was asking everyone because a guy in front of me, talking to the store clerk mentioned being bothered by that lady. He said he gave her $10 and she asked him if that's all he had for her. The store clerk said that lady had been hanging out there for at least a half hour, a lot of customers had complained about her, and he was going to talk to her. She came back over to me and asked me again for money,as I was leaving the store. The store clerk came outside and told her that she can't be standing outside, bothering customers. She got into the driver's seat of a red mustang that was parked by the entrance and seriously started yelling at me out the window to give her money now. I get that times are tough but geez! I don't like obnoxious panhandlers. I got the heck out of there.


A few weeks ago, hubby and I were stopped outside a store by a guy asking for money to take a cab or Uber home. My husband gave him $5, and instead of saying 'thank you' or anything, all he did was go into a rant about how it was going to be "at least $10." Husband got annoyed, and was like, "Do you not want it then? If you don't want it, you can give it back." Changed his tone real quick, and then just started babbling nonsense about the military and how "they" have cameras on him at all times... Idk...

I don't hate on people being out asking for money if they truly need it. We all have to do what we have to do. But the entitlement from a lot of them the last few years... Like, it's fine to ask strangers for money, but they are in no way obligated to do so. And if they do, they aren't required to give you the entire amount that you ask for or claim you need for something specific. If you need more, ask more people. You don't harass a stranger who parted with their money for someone they don't know, and act ungrateful and demanding of more. It's crap like that that makes people not want to talk to the homeless or people asking for money at all.

whirlerz
06-08-2020, 12:37 PM
There's a post online, on next door neighbor.com about a long time guy that does this.. He asks for 17.00 cause his car 'broke down'::)

Sometimes he asks for rides, too, the one guy was giving him a ride & he wouldn't get out of the car, he finally gave him 20.00.

I guess the cops know about him, during this time they don't arrest petty thieves.

Any way, get one of the Siren key chains (SD Siren) they are ear splitting, flash lights too. Scroll up to my reply to Wendi about her thief.
. Good luck, stay safe.

whirlerz
06-08-2020, 12:44 PM
Yaya_cash, best to you, dear, I know how that is, & hope you can get it done for yourself!

Wendi I just got 4 of these53184

It's LOUD, has flashing light too.

Me:
So, now the couple upstairs (btw, it's a room supposed to be for 1 person only) , the guy has his gf over, which Idc, but they're leaving their crap all over the kitchen counter, including a large dirty pan from like a week ago.

The girl has a deep chest cough, I'm older w/some heath issues so concerned about that too.

Here's what I'm talking about^