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WendiStarr
07-17-2020, 03:34 PM
^ Oh my God! Girl, you are gorgeous! Your boyfriend is a damn fool! If he can't appreciate what he already has, he needs to go. Throw the whole man away.

My petty annoyance is that I'm pmsing big time and keep eating sweets that BD left here. Why the heck did he have to leave behind 2 different kinds of ice cream, pastries, Hershey's chocolate bars, brownies, and chocolate chip cookies? I lost 25lbs but I fear I'm gonna gain it all back just within these past few days.

Pokahantas
07-17-2020, 03:50 PM
^ Oh my God! Girl, you are gorgeous! Your boyfriend is a damn fool! If he can't appreciate what he already has, he needs to go. Throw the whole man away.

My petty annoyance is that I'm pmsing big time and keep eating sweets that BD left here. Why the heck did he have to leave behind 2 different kinds of ice cream, pastries, Hershey's chocolate bars, brownies, and chocolate chip cookies? I lost 25lbs but I fear I'm gonna gain it all back just within these past few days.

Throw the whole man away is so funny lol thanks for this. I needed to laugh. About the sweets, girl don’t feel guilty. It’s just hormonal it’ll pass. You’ll be okay. I know how you feel though so I can definitely relate. When quarantine first started I was eating like crazy.

moneybags
07-17-2020, 05:05 PM
No good deeds goes unpunished. Was doing a caravan protest and my car overheated.

While I’m waiting for a tow truck this black guy is hitting on me! Then says i must be racist because I won’t talk to him! That’s the patriarchy for you.

I tried. I’m not getting involved in this political bullshit. I care about black people, but I don’t wanna deal with this bullshit. I have my own problems. I need to take care of myself.

xxxGothBarbie
07-17-2020, 07:19 PM
Ugh I've had it with these food places lately! I try starbucks drive thru today & pay $5 for a grande frap & the mfers don't even fill it up all the way like before. I called & complained bc lately I keep getting refinded for their fuck ups but the lasy was like we can make u another one, umm bitch I'm not about to drink that much coffee in a day. She hung up on me.

I've had zero luck in finding a decent room to rent lately so I've been in motels which is literally eating up all those very good days on cam :( I don't feel safe leaving CA right now due to ppl not wearing masks in other lower cost states from what I'm seeing so I dunno what to do anymore. Craigslist is a joke & so are the gypy housing groups on fb.

miss.a.p1600
07-17-2020, 11:45 PM
No good deeds goes unpunished. Was doing a caravan protest and my car overheated.

While I’m waiting for a tow truck this black guy is hitting on me! Then says i must be racist because I won’t talk to him! That’s the patriarchy for you.

I tried. I’m not getting involved in this political bullshit. I care about black people, but I don’t wanna deal with this bullshit. I have my own problems. I need to take care of myself.

Why I think *you* were black?

For some reason I think everyone on here is black

Anyhow that guy seemed like a dick. He’s just one out of 4million+ and not indicative of the race as a whole

Ladycaxe
07-18-2020, 12:25 AM
Why I think *you* were black?

For some reason I think everyone on here is black

Anyhow that guy seemed like a dick. He’s just one out of 4million+ and not indicative of the race as a whole

i'm black ;D

"thank" this post if ur black::)

Ladycaxe
07-18-2020, 12:28 AM
Petty annoyance- boyfriend keeps liking Instagram models pics but never gives me compliments and puts me down with little microaggressions that in the 2 years I’ve been with him have ruined my self-esteem. For example, he told me “you’re just a basic chic” and that IG models are drop dead gorgeous. It was weird for him to say this to me especially since what I look like is how I make money, but I feel so unattractive. So I called him out the other day for liking booty pics and pretty girls photos of girls that are thick with big booties and lighter skin that he actually knows. He seems to have an affinity for this type of beauty. Well he basically attributed me to stripping as the same thing as him liking the photos and I’m like wtf that’s not the same thing. We had a huge argument yesterday about it and he basically told me that I’m a hypocrite to get upset about the likes and I do sex work. I think all this is bothering me because I’ve been in bed all day super depressed because I’m trying to figure out how the heck is he mad at me like wtf did I do? I miss being single. At least I didn’t feel ugly and not good enough. Should I just have said nothing about him liking IG models sexy pics? I never ever been jealous of anything before it just bothered me that he’s spending so much time lusting after these women when he has a whole girlfriend right here. This is what I look like. ATTACH=CONFIG]53273

u r bomb af ! <3___<3:D

Ladycaxe
07-18-2020, 12:30 AM
Ugh I've had it with these food places lately! I try starbucks drive thru today & pay $5 for a grande frap & the mfers don't even fill it up all the way like before. I called & complained bc lately I keep getting refinded for their fuck ups but the lasy was like we can make u another one, umm bitch I'm not about to drink that much coffee in a day. She hung up on me.

I've had zero luck in finding a decent room to rent lately so I've been in motels which is literally eating up all those very good days on cam :( I don't feel safe leaving CA right now due to ppl not wearing masks in other lower cost states from what I'm seeing so I dunno what to do anymore. Craigslist is a joke & so are the gypy housing groups on fb.

why dont u go somewhere cheaper &stay indoors? AZ? Vegas? I think vegas is mandating masks and they might have closed all the bars. IDR.
Ignore if you cant endure desert summer heat x) but you know they'll have some good air conditioning lol

moneybags
07-18-2020, 12:51 AM
Why I think *you* were black?

For some reason I think everyone on here is black

Anyhow that guy seemed like a dick. He’s just one out of 4million+ and not indicative of the race as a whole

So funny. I worked at a mixed club and the black girls said i must have been reincarnated from a black woman. In all seriousness, I love black women. Lol...I should have told that guy I’m into black women, so he’d leave alone. I really do like black men, but the aggressive type.

moneybags
07-18-2020, 12:58 AM
Petty annoyance- boyfriend keeps liking Instagram models pics but never gives me compliments and puts me down with little microaggressions that in the 2 years I’ve been with him have ruined my self-esteem. For example, he told me “you’re just a basic chic” and that IG models are drop dead gorgeous. It was weird for him to say this to me especially since what I look like is how I make money, but I feel so unattractive. So I called him out the other day for liking booty pics and pretty girls photos of girls that are thick with big booties and lighter skin that he actually knows. He seems to have an affinity for this type of beauty. Well he basically attributed me to stripping as the same thing as him liking the photos and I’m like wtf that’s not the same thing. We had a huge argument yesterday about it and he basically told me that I’m a hypocrite to get upset about the likes and I do sex work. I think all this is bothering me because I’ve been in bed all day super depressed because I’m trying to figure out how the heck is he mad at me like wtf did I do? I miss being single. At least I didn’t feel ugly and not good enough. Should I just have said nothing about him liking IG models sexy pics? I never ever been jealous of anything before it just bothered me that he’s spending so much time lusting after these women when he has a whole girlfriend right here. This is what I look like. ATTACH=CONFIG]53273

Is he a rich and handsome guy? It seems guys that have the highest standards for women aren’t shit.

I’d break up with him, but maybe that’s why I’ve been single for 5 years...LOL. Being single and celibate ain’t for the weak. Being independently ain’t easy.

In all seriousness, he seems like an asshat. Most men aren’t shit. I find transactional relationships are the healthiest type of relationship. They get what they want and I get what I want without all the BS. I think healthy, loving relationships are beautiful, but they are hard work.

I’d throw his phone in the toilet next time, or next time he tries to get some tell him to ask one the Instagram models.

Pokahantas
07-18-2020, 06:44 AM
Is he a rich and handsome guy? It seems guys that have the highest standards for women aren’t shit.

I’d break up with him, but maybe that’s why I’ve been single for 5 years...LOL. Being single and celibate ain’t for the weak. Being independently ain’t easy.

In all seriousness, he seems like an asshat. Most men aren’t shit. I find transactional relationships are the healthiest type of relationship. They get what they want and I get what I want without all the BS. I think healthy, loving relationships are beautiful, but they are hard work.

I’d throw his phone in the toilet next time, or next time he tries to get some tell him to ask one the Instagram models.

No he’s far from rich lol he’s a security guard and my best friend told me that he’s not even all that attractive and the only thing he has going for him in the looks department is his height. He looks like Suge Knight and has a beer belly. The thing is I was trying to give him a chance although he’s not what I typically go for because he was kind at first and I was tired of the cute guys and their drama but somehow he’s managed to chip away at my self esteem. I agree with you 💯 about transactional relationships. Lol about him wanting sex and telling him to ask the Instagram models he glorifying hahahahahhahahaha. Thanks for your message it really helps.

Pokahantas
07-18-2020, 06:48 AM
u r bomb af ! <3___<3:D

Thank you. It’s so crazy what a man can do to a woman’s self esteem and self worth. Sometimes I wonder if they do it on purpose? Like some kind of game to tear women down or something. It’s so weird and it works too that’s what’s so sad about it.

miss.a.p1600
07-18-2020, 07:46 AM
Petty annoyance- boyfriend keeps liking Instagram models pics but never gives me compliments and puts me down with little microaggressions that in the 2 years I’ve been with him have ruined my self-esteem. For example, he told me “you’re just a basic chic” and that IG models are drop dead gorgeous. It was weird for him to say this to me especially since what I look like is how I make money, but I feel so unattractive. So I called him out the other day for liking booty pics and pretty girls photos of girls that are thick with big booties and lighter skin that he actually knows. He seems to have an affinity for this type of beauty. Well he basically attributed me to stripping as the same thing as him liking the photos and I’m like wtf that’s not the same thing. We had a huge argument yesterday about it and he basically told me that I’m a hypocrite to get upset about the likes and I do sex work. I think all this is bothering me because I’ve been in bed all day super depressed because I’m trying to figure out how the heck is he mad at me like wtf did I do? I miss being single. At least I didn’t feel ugly and not good enough. Should I just have said nothing about him liking IG models sexy pics? I never ever been jealous of anything before it just bothered me that he’s spending so much time lusting after these women when he has a whole girlfriend right here. This is what I look like. ATTACH=CONFIG]53273

awww hell naw!

A good dude would never have the gall to even speak to you like that let alone fix his bony fingers to like another broads pictures.

If he is not lifting you up.....I hate to be the that person but - he gots to go.

Trust me I’ve dealt with ALOT of arrogant/sexist/narcissistic/personality disordered men.

Coming across a good man, you realize quickly when you’re not being treated well.

carmen_b
07-18-2020, 08:42 AM
Poka : I might have you confused with another member but is the dude who drinks too much pop , eats badly , doesn’t work out ?

Why not ditch him for REAL attraction ?
Time to get someone with better habits!
You could give him a warning / concern talk about the bad habits but Im not sure it’s even worth it.
Or just free up your time for other things ?

carmen_b
07-18-2020, 08:46 AM
He also sounds a little off .., like... does he not know 90% of those pictures are heavily posed and THEN retouched ect.?

He is probably catching energy vibes that you are leaving soon ( see what I did there , ha ) .
Maybe he is being weird and nasty because of it.

WendiStarr
07-18-2020, 08:49 AM
I'm aggravated as all fuck today. I checked my bank statement to see that someone made multiple fraudulent purchases every day, multiple times a day since July 13th. I called my bank to dispute the charges and have been transferred to different departments of clueless people. I have been on hold for over an hour now. I hate that my state has every damn thing shut down right now. I can't even go in person to my bank to talk to a real, live person to get this bullshit sorted out because everything is drive-through, online, or phone only. I'm about to go to the damn drive-through. I want to cancel my card and get my money back. I also hate whatever low life loser made these fraudulent charges and hope they die of a painful disease.

xxxGothBarbie
07-18-2020, 04:35 PM
why dont u go somewhere cheaper &stay indoors? AZ? Vegas? I think vegas is mandating masks and they might have closed all the bars. IDR.
Ignore if you cant endure desert summer heat x) but you know they'll have some good air conditioning lol

Bc i hate desert heat & am paranoid about using ac right now due to the virus. Besides i hate Az & Vegas.

xxxGothBarbie
07-18-2020, 04:38 PM
Asshats nxt door having a small party whilst one of them is coughing the other sneezing in there, blasting their hiphop ugh & prob spreading the virus. The stupidity i swear!

miss.a.p1600
07-18-2020, 05:07 PM
^those nasty jokers! Lol

moneybags
07-18-2020, 05:53 PM
I'm aggravated as all fuck today. I checked my bank statement to see that someone made multiple fraudulent purchases every day, multiple times a day since July 13th. I called my bank to dispute the charges and have been transferred to different departments of clueless people. I have been on hold for over an hour now. I hate that my state has every damn thing shut down right now. I can't even go in person to my bank to talk to a real, live person to get this bullshit sorted out because everything is drive-through, online, or phone only. I'm about to go to the damn drive-through. I want to cancel my card and get my money back. I also hate whatever low life loser made these fraudulent charges and hope they die of a painful disease.

I hate thieves. I feel like if I don’t steal because I do sex work-literally the worst job sometimes-how come other people can’t figure out a way to make a living.

You’ll get it all sorted out eventually, but it’s so stressful right now that stuff like makes me want to snap. I hope you get your money back.

xxxGothBarbie
07-18-2020, 11:00 PM
Pissed at myself for not getting any wine or alcohol for tonight LOL I usually enjoy myself watching online music streaming of my fave night clubs I used to dance at.

Pokahantas
07-19-2020, 01:32 AM
Poka : I might have you confused with another member but is the dude who drinks too much pop , eats badly , doesn’t work out ?

Why not ditch him for REAL attraction ?
Time to get someone with better habits!
You could give him a warning / concern talk about the bad habits but Im not sure it’s even worth it.
Or just free up your time for other things ?

Yes unfortunately, it’s him girl and it’s only gotten worse. I really want to be done with this guy already. I told him this morning that I don’t like how I feel about myself with him and want to be alone but he doesn’t seem to get the message and stays around. Ugh I think I’m too nice. People be running over me taking kindness for weakness. You are so right! All of what you said. Thanks.

Part of it I’m wondering if it’s because I don’t have any family. He’s all I have in a sense and I think he takes advantage of this too. He’s coming over today to talk about things with me and I’m praying that he just leaves me alone for good and respects my decision to move on. So annoyed I let myself get stuck in this crazy mess. Now I’ll need therapy for sure lol.

Pokahantas
07-19-2020, 01:42 AM
He also sounds a little off .., like... does he not know 90% of those pictures are heavily posed and THEN retouched ect.?

He is probably catching energy vibes that you are leaving soon ( see what I did there , ha ) .
Maybe he is being weird and nasty because of it.

I know right because I’ve been very distant and haven’t had sex with him in like a month because I want out. The IG models thing was the last straw.

Pokahantas
07-19-2020, 01:44 AM
Asshats nxt door having a small party whilst one of them is coughing the other sneezing in there, blasting their hiphop ugh & prob spreading the virus. The stupidity i swear!

So sorry you’re going through that. I had neighbors like that before omg so annoying. I used to have to wear earplugs was so ridiculous. Be a Karen on they ass lol

Ladycaxe
07-19-2020, 04:18 AM
Bc i hate desert heat & am paranoid about using ac right now due to the virus. Besides i hate Az & Vegas.

Lol fair enough xD

lurkingtitties
07-19-2020, 08:40 AM
Yes unfortunately, it’s him girl and it’s only gotten worse. I really want to be done with this guy already. I told him this morning that I don’t like how I feel about myself with him and want to be alone but he doesn’t seem to get the message and stays around. Ugh I think I’m too nice. People be running over me taking kindness for weakness. You are so right! All of what you said. Thanks.

Part of it I’m wondering if it’s because I don’t have any family. He’s all I have in a sense and I think he takes advantage of this too. He’s coming over today to talk about things with me and I’m praying that he just leaves me alone for good and respects my decision to move on. So annoyed I let myself get stuck in this crazy mess. Now I’ll need therapy for sure lol.

Be strong and let him know it’s over. I know it’s hard, almost all of us have been there before. You got this! Therapy is an excellent idea.

carmen_b
07-19-2020, 09:39 AM
^ Yeah. I mean you could tell him outright you are not comfy with the weight gain and need / deserve a partner with better habits.
Honestly in my life I wish my partner would have told me that in late 2017 - late 2018. I was getting depressed ( but sinking in and not fully realizing it ) and the lack of activity was making me gain weight. My partner was frustrated I'm sure but would then act " off " or suggest these 4-5 mile excursions I wasn't up for.
People who are in bad shape like that kind of need little stuff ( 1-2 mile hikes or walks ) to get started .

He might not even realize the weight / habits is your main frustration.

I feel for ya. I got my shit together in late 2018 ( I've lost about 12-14 pounds which make a huge difference my my frame since my genetics make me gain just in my middle ).

I then ended up dating someone with similar bad habits like you described in fall 2019 which made me angry ( he didn't give me enough sex due to being stuck in a lack of body confidence among other issues ).

Anyway ..... you posted your pics and we can all reassure you here you are absolutely able to find a more fit partner if that's what you want. :)

I now have a fit and high sex drive partner and it's wonderful.

moneybags
07-19-2020, 01:02 PM
No he’s far from rich lol he’s a security guard and my best friend told me that he’s not even all that attractive and the only thing he has going for him in the looks department is his height. He looks like Suge Knight and has a beer belly. The thing is I was trying to give him a chance although he’s not what I typically go for because he was kind at first and I was tired of the cute guys and their drama but somehow he’s managed to chip away at my self esteem. I agree with you �� about transactional relationships. Lol about him wanting sex and telling him to ask the Instagram models he glorifying hahahahahhahahaha. Thanks for your message it really helps.

Yeah he sounds like he's insecure. I don't have family either. It's always made it harder to leave.
Google pineapple support. They have therapist for sex workers. A good therapist can help.

ravenskyy
07-20-2020, 07:35 AM
I got screwed out of unemployment for last week, because the site glitched and messed up some of my answers. So they denied me. I'm fucking pissed! I needed that money and now I have to work 2 jobs this week, to make up for it. I literally want to cry. Today is my first day working my new job and this whole morning has been awful.

BambiCutie
07-20-2020, 10:20 AM
I got screwed out of unemployment for last week, because the site glitched and messed up some of my answers. So they denied me. I'm fucking pissed! I needed that money and now I have to work 2 jobs this week, to make up for it. I literally want to cry. Today is my first day working my new job and this whole morning has been awful.

Write to your State representative (Know that is annoying to hear) and make it loudly known to every, single possible source that you have been a victim of the unemployment glitch.
They have opened a wide spread investigation to this glitch, due to many others being affected by this new system. Tell them in detail your situation and demand answers, as well express how this has greatly affected you.
I am sincerely sorry that you are going through this, as if things could not get any worse with the pandemic. The glitches have been various, from information being leaked, to application answers being switched, claims being denied and delayed that it has became a wide spread issue. Hang in there and don't lose hope, we will get through this year! *hug*

More information:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c48-Tzabvns
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL76p-gj0Ts
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o91sKXmcMZs

Aurora_Sunset
07-20-2020, 12:49 PM
I feel like I need an 8th day of the week just to have a life. I work so much, and then my main day off comes, and I either spend the entire day doing chores/errands; or, if I decide to take some time to myself, I spend the whole time feeling guilty and the next 2 days trying to make up for it. And forget socializing. If I do, then that's a whole separate can of "I didn't get anything done AND I didn't get any alone time this week." But I miss my friends. By the time I feel caught up on everything and fully recharged, I just work again the next day... The cycle never ends.

Also, we're now 2 weeks past the day my buyers were supposed to close their house. The loan officer swore to me at the beginning of the month that we would absolutely not be delayed more than 2 weeks. The last time we spoke was Thursday and he told me to plan for Tuesday or Wednesday. He didn't answer my calls all weekend. Now, it's Monday, and I've called this mf'er 5 times since 9am, and he won't take or return my calls. Or my buyers' calls. Everyone is pissed as shit, and I just want this nightmare to be over. I cannot believe this guy. I'm about to lose my mind. I WILL be blowing his fucking phone up at 9pm tonight if he still isn't getting back to me. People need to know what the hell is going on, and everyone is tired of his excuses that it's all the lender's fault and he "doesn't know anything." Bullcrap.

This being my first deal, I literally want to quit real estate and never touch another transaction again.

Aurora_Sunset
07-20-2020, 01:00 PM
I've been sleeping so horribly lately. I know I go into a sleep debt on the second day of my "work week" because I work both jobs and only get 4-5 hours. Then, it's like I never catch up, because there's too much to do in life to either go to bed super early or sleep in past 9am. (And even that late, and I feel guilty and "lazy). Stress with everything on top of it, and I just think I "feel" tired/depressed even when physically I'm not, because I just don't want to go to work/talk to anyone/do anything that needs to be done.

I'm especially depressed because I was really banking on this house closing and then using that commission check to take us on a nice 3-day vacation this summer. And now that's not gonna happen. Even when it (god-willing, someday) closes, I'll have to use the money for other things, and hubby is out of PTO at work to take any time off for us to do anything. We haven't had a vacation in over a year, since we went out west with my family and got married last April. Nothing is really even open anyway, because of rolling-back all the reopenings that were supposed to happen by now. I just want a life again. All I do is work and hate everything.

Aurora_Sunset
07-20-2020, 01:02 PM
Also, I need to stop drinking. Like, for real. I feel like I've just reached the age where my body can't handle it without putting me out of commission the entire next day. I feel even worse about myself after I spend the evening drinking. I really want to purchase this program called "One Year No Beer," and I'm on their email list. But the 365-day challenge costs almost $300 that I don't have. I know I don't need a program to stop drinking - I've certainly gone long stretches before. I just would feel better and more supported if I had something to read and focus on for it every day instead of the vague promises that I make in my head.

xxxGothBarbie
07-20-2020, 07:14 PM
These annoying ass ppl next room over from me have not checked out yet & are soooo obnoxious! Apparently they drink all day everyday & party with one another bc the same group has been over here since Fri night ugh. They blast their stupid music , their tv & are in & out of their room constantly to smoke standing close to my open window I use for fresh air. I slam it everytime hoping they'll get the hint to fuck off. One of the girls apparently has drunken fights with her drunk bf at 2 am bc he kept partying after she pleads him to stop *eyeroll*

They're younger prob early mid 20s max and so of course they feel entitled to party with no masks on, doing as they please with no regards to anyone else staying here. This is a nice hotel too btw.

I check out of here tmrw & may just do airbnbs from here on out as they can be alot cheaper.

miss.a.p1600
07-20-2020, 08:49 PM
Also, I need to stop drinking. Like, for real. I feel like I've just reached the age where my body can't handle it without putting me out of commission the entire next day. I feel even worse about myself after I spend the evening drinking. I really want to purchase this program called "One Year No Beer," and I'm on their email list. But the 365-day challenge costs almost $300 that I don't have. I know I don't need a program to stop drinking - I've certainly gone long stretches before. I just would feel better and more supported if I had something to read and focus on for it every day instead of the vague promises that I make in my head.

same.

i was barely tipsy of wine when I got an alert that my heart rate was elevated. next day I felt all dehydrated n had migraine

Damn you liquor!

I might just go back to significantly cutting out alcohol

Pokahantas
07-20-2020, 11:31 PM
Yeah he sounds like he's insecure. I don't have family either. It's always made it harder to leave.
Google pineapple support. They have therapist for sex workers. A good therapist can help.

Thanks a lot I’ll definitely check it out. You’re so kind :).

Pokahantas
07-20-2020, 11:37 PM
^ Yeah. I mean you could tell him outright you are not comfy with the weight gain and need / deserve a partner with better habits.
Honestly in my life I wish my partner would have told me that in late 2017 - late 2018. I was getting depressed ( but sinking in and not fully realizing it ) and the lack of activity was making me gain weight. My partner was frustrated I'm sure but would then act " off " or suggest these 4-5 mile excursions I wasn't up for.
People who are in bad shape like that kind of need little stuff ( 1-2 mile hikes or walks ) to get started .

He might not even realize the weight / habits is your main frustration.

I feel for ya. I got my shit together in late 2018 ( I've lost about 12-14 pounds which make a huge difference my my frame since my genetics make me gain just in my middle ).

I then ended up dating someone with similar bad habits like you described in fall 2019 which made me angry ( he didn't give me enough sex due to being stuck in a lack of body confidence among other issues ).

Anyway ..... you posted your pics and we can all reassure you here you are absolutely able to find a more fit partner if that's what you want. :)

I now have a fit and high sex drive partner and it's wonderful.

Thanks so much for the advice! Wow that’s great girl. Your story is so inspiring. You deserve that fit high sex drive partner! Live your best life 😉.

SnuffleUffleGrass
07-21-2020, 01:37 AM
A totally sleepless night thanks to way too much caffiene yesterday. ugh

JGB2009
07-21-2020, 12:40 PM
I came home a whole day late from my vacation due to the fact that my plane was late which caused me to have to wait 15 hours for the next plane. Mind you I was only an hour away from home and I had not slept in over 24 hours. The whole ordeal really sucked ass but I am sure it could have been worse.

moneybags
07-21-2020, 02:28 PM
A totally sleepless night thanks to way too much caffiene yesterday. ugh
Feel you I’ve learned the hard way to not drink prework out too late.

queenelayliah
07-21-2020, 09:19 PM
Pissy rant. Called up a PSO company that was hiring and she’s going on & on about how great her company is. An how other companies are ripping off the girls by making them work certain hours & shifts. After 30 minutes of her talking about this & that. I then tell her I will be able to put in 40 hours per week and” she’s goes well theres 168 hours in a week in you will be missing calls & i dont need someone giving so little time and all of this other bullshit.”

So I’m just like okay.

So since I know, shes been working for 15 years I thought I would ask for a tip since she was about to send me some reading material to develop my talking skills. Since it seemed like she wanted me to have my phone on all day long. I was about to ask how do you sleep & what do you tell your girls when they get sleepy and if I can take calls even when I sleep & go back to sleep. Would she allow this because I know some companies wont. But before I could even finish my sentence. She states in the middle of my sentence in the most rudest fucking voice “I got to go. You’re not right for this industry and hangs up the phone on me .”

I understand business needs but damn, like excuse me. Were you not just talking about how this rip off companies like niteflirt tell their independent contractors how to work & when to work and how all of that is illegal. But yet here you are doing the same thing. I hate hypocrites! That made me so pissed for a sec.

But im going to take that as a warning sign from God that I didn’t need to work for that woman.

miss.a.p1600
07-22-2020, 12:28 AM
A totally sleepless night thanks to way too much caffiene yesterday. ugh

same.

my clients gave me coke.

now I’m wired af at 227a with only 3 hrs of sleep.

who needs blow when you can stay up with an ice cold Coca Cola

miss.a.p1600
07-22-2020, 12:31 AM
My dude thinks that buying me wine is helping me relax n open up.

All I want is some weed. THAT helps me open up n relax

He’s totally against drugs. (Nevermind that I think liquor is a drug)

Le sigh!!!!!

WendiStarr
07-22-2020, 06:15 AM
It has been over a month now and S.O.S. hasn't sent me a sticker in the mail to apply over my license, since I renewed it back in March and then unexpectedly moved in April. All my mail is being forwarded from my old address except the absentee ballot application. My old address has a locked mailbox and I had to turn the key in once I moved out, so am I supposed to drive over there every day to bother the new resident, asking if they have it? I spoke to the city clerk and she said it's going to be sent to my old address since that's the address that I'm registered to vote at. I told her that I moved and to send it to my current address. I gave her my current address and she ok and hung up. Like everything around here these days, the city clerk's office is closed and is phone or online only so I can't go there in person to sort this out. I find it odd that my last vanilla job still hasn't sent a pre-paid label and box in the mail to return their company equipment. You'd think they'd be on that shit because I guesstimated that the value of their equipment is near the $2000 range. I'm going to be pissed if I have to return it all back on my own dime and it's looking like I may have to because nobody's giving me any answers. I don't want to be receiving any bill or collections for that.

carmen_b
07-22-2020, 09:21 AM
Don’t you hate it when you are not sure how mad at your partner to be ? J got stressed about his family popping up for a visit . His first reaction seemed to be that I leave instead of doing our normal routine . Normally we work from computers remotely and also take turns with his daughter from like 10:30-4:30 on work days M - F . It’s a lovely easy routine. He only has her 50% of the time and does today.

I left the house since hinted at it. So I’m not meeting his dad who is here Noon to 2pm ( who is a trump supporter and conservative crazy nazi type ). I still wanted to meet him.

I cut my family trip short by a day to get back to him faster. I think his behavior is treating me like a sex doll and not a partner ( his parents are aware of me through social media ).
I think he’s in the wrong for how he acted even though he invited me to dinner tonight with his mom.

carmen_b
07-22-2020, 09:41 AM
The sex last night after none for 4 nights was so hot . :)
So hot .
I’m going to hurt myself as much as proving a point. Ugh.

carmen_b
07-22-2020, 12:38 PM
I was too tired to leave town so at a hotel and will just try to have a nice day. I have a feeling he will apologize. He is disclosing more now of his dads crazy ( I guess he was caught in hate crime stuff against gay people ). Like ... beating up gay guys 20 years ago.

I think it’s very obvious his dad is bisexual .
It’s always the one pointing a finger ...

I feel for J being hit with trauma today. He told his dad last week that he wasn’t allowed in the house for supporting Trump . I hope he doesn’t bend on what he said.

Maybe he was trying to spare me more than hide me.

ravenskyy
07-22-2020, 12:43 PM
Training for my new job is a pain in the ass. I hate it. The managers are moving way too quickly and I'm getting overwhelmed.

*MAJOR VENT SESSION AHEAD!*

I've been turning on my cam sites again and I'm getting old customers adding me with new accounts. I hate when someone that I have blocked, tries to be slick and add me with a new account. I'm not stupid! I remember each and every one of the fuckers that have pissed me off in the past. I'm great at holding grudges lol I told this one time wasting bastard, to pay me an additional fee on top of my show fee, if he was seriously sorry for treating poorly. He declined. *Blocked* I don't need your money asshole. And I can't stand when they use the whole "We have fun together" or "We like each other", type shit to make me feel bad for being mad at them. NO! I don't like you. You're an entitled, selfish, disrespectful piece of shit! I don't like the majority of these people and I especially don't "enjoy" giving them shows when they make the entire process painful. UGH!!!!!!!

Sorry, but omfg! I literally want to scream today. I have 100% admitted to myself that camming is NOT for me, but I have nothing else! And thanks to Covid, I'm even more stuck.

JGB2009
07-22-2020, 12:52 PM
Training for my new job is a pain in the ass. I hate it. The managers are moving way too quickly and I'm getting overwhelmed.

*MAJOR VENT SESSION AHEAD!*

I've been turning on my cam sites again and I'm getting old customers adding me with new accounts. I hate when someone that I have blocked, tries to be slick and add me with a new account. I'm not stupid! I remember each and every one of the fuckers that have pissed me off in the past. I'm great at holding grudges lol I told this one time wasting bastard, to pay me an additional fee on top of my show fee, if he was seriously sorry for treating poorly. He declined. *Blocked* I don't need your money asshole. And I can't stand when they use the whole "We have fun together" or "We like each other", type shit to make me feel bad for being mad at them. NO! I don't like you. You're an entitled, selfish, disrespectful piece of shit! I don't like the majority of these people and I especially don't "enjoy" giving them shows when they make the entire process painful. UGH!!!!!!!

Sorry, but omfg! I literally want to scream today. I have 100% admitted to myself that camming is NOT for me, but I have nothing else! And thanks to Covid, I'm even more stuck.

I have had customers like that and I block them too. Sorry that your having such a bad day. Hopefully soon things will look up for you :)

carmen_b
07-22-2020, 01:03 PM
Raven : good for you for tracking and blocking the time wasters !!
So essential in ALL facets of sex work !!
I still have spreadsheets of time wasters numbers spanning 4 cities hahaha !