View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
whirlerz
07-31-2020, 01:46 PM
What's with all the short shows today!!?? And yesterday! I can't get anyone to stay or last longer than 2 or 3 minutes and I'm not doing anything different!
Cheap-o's!
That's another thing, I changed my po box address, so now I can't work, &it's brand new so it'll be a while before I get anything delivered there, that they actually accept as an address
moneybags
07-31-2020, 07:19 PM
^will your auto insurance cover it?
Im going to invest in some surveillance cams now that you mentioned this
Good thing they didn’t steal anything with you there. Often time thieves stealing will get even more desperate and kill witnesses.
I didn’t have full coverage; my car is only worth a couple grand. I never had anything stolen until recently.
I was working at the hospital years ago and had a patient that got stabbed randomly. Just some nice old guy for no reason. People are nuts and Rona makes people more nutty.
Again, not to fear monger, but I don’t think vanilla people get it. I’d warn people if they’d listen, but they’ll think I’m overreacting. They’ll just have to learn the hard way.
miss.a.p1600
07-31-2020, 08:42 PM
L seemed pissy I didn't call him tonight.....
Well, cotdamit, I am trying to complete some tasks before the deadline and we've already talked twice today.
He was like 'are you mad at me?'
I'm like "no...I've just been trying to complete these important tasks (explains tasks) before the deadline"
He's like "Oh ok well - enjoy your night" then rushes off the phone.
IDK if I should call his ass back or just let him be for tonight.
whirlerz
07-31-2020, 08:54 PM
I would let him be. Sounds clingy /pissy, js.
miss.a.p1600
08-01-2020, 06:43 AM
I woke up out of my sleep to take a piss and then realized I was also hungry af
Now I’m super tired and just want to lay here.
miss.a.p1600
08-01-2020, 09:02 AM
I would let him be. Sounds clingy /pissy, js.
Yeah could be that maybe I’m not clinging to him like he wants and also he said his male friends or associates or whatever told him this is the time to “pull back” so idk it could be the start of his little pull back plan.
Idk.
Whatever though
I honestly think he may be a bit pissy that he got the vibrator and instead of trying it out I just wanted to sleep so I could get ready to hustle in the morning. It’s his fault though because he wanted to sit around and watch a damn movie then try the vibrator. If it was that crucial he should have skipped the movie. And really it shouldn’t even be that crucial as there will be other opportunities if he plays his cards right.
Men!!!!
miss.a.p1600
08-01-2020, 09:47 AM
Yeah could be that maybe I’m not clinging to him like he wants and also he said his male friends or associates or whatever told him this is the time to “pull back” so idk it could be the start of his little pull back plan.
Idk.
Whatever though
I honestly think he may be a bit pissy that he got the vibrator and instead of trying it out I just wanted to sleep so I could get ready to hustle in the morning. It’s his fault though because he wanted to sit around and watch a damn movie then try the vibrator. If it was that crucial he should have skipped the movie. And really it shouldn’t even be that crucial as there will be other opportunities if he plays his cards right.
Men!!!!
nevermind! I’m going into my neurotic phase again.
moneybags
08-01-2020, 03:32 PM
Having issues with financial aid again! Such a pain in the ass. I’ve gotten contradictory answers-which I hate being confused. I can deal with not getting what I want, but when I can’t get straight answer to a simple question I get really frustrated. I’ll have to call them Tuesday to deal with it. I may take a break from spring semester and cam full time. Pay off my loans. I’ve thought about moving. If I could get a scholarship and transfer that would be sweet. There’s just so much uncertainty. I don’t even know if camming full time is good money. Over break, I’m going to cam full time and see what it’s like.
My exam was horrible. I’m straight A student. I did well in A and P1. My A and P 2 teacher just sucks! If feel like she picked random questions which weren’t in the study guide. I still got an A, but I was angry. All the time I spent study felt like a waste of time. I think it’s more important to have questions to make sure students understand the concepts than have students know specific answers. It felt like she just made up questions randomly without thinking about what she told us to study for. Not to mention she barely even lectures. Sigh. Whatever. I’m gonna get an A on this exam and hopefully never see her again.
It just feels like it’s literally been one things after another. I try so hard and it feels like the world is against me. Literally all my hopes and dreams are disintegrating before my eyes and it’s not my fault! I’m sure everyone kinda feels that right now.
I just have to let go and let god and take things one day at a time because it’s all too much right now.
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whirlerz
08-01-2020, 05:43 PM
Money, the last 3 lines of your post says it all!
WendiStarr
08-01-2020, 05:53 PM
I set up the cornhole and bowling game outside, we played one game of each and then it rained for the rest of the day. So much for the games, BBQ, picnic, walk to the park, and s'mores I had planned with the kids.
miss.a.p1600
08-02-2020, 07:17 AM
I was annoyed with L yesterday
Or maybe annoyed with myself for getting too deep with him too fast
The main thing that has kept me from mentally moving forward with him is status and money. I won’t even lie about it. Yes!!! I have gold digger tendencies.
He claims he was going to be preparing for a higher paying career field but has been procrastinating because ..... he’s “comfortable” and doesn’t owe any debt right now.
I wanted to scream!
Because just last night he claims he needed to start locking down n cutting back his spending. Well hope he isn’t surprised when I lockdown my time.
If a dude allows me to out hustle him I consider him lazy af.
whirlerz
08-02-2020, 08:55 AM
Ugh, my friend that helps me, I've been waiting to hear from.
Now this lady in the coach house behind me, just came in w/her guy, I can hear screaming at him thru my ear bids w/music turned UP. BTW, this guy been working 12 hour shifts for the last month.
He has high blood pressure, hope he doesn't have a stroke. I've actually had a mild stroke myself, having let myself be verbally abused for years by a crazy narcissist like her.
Yes, my trauma been set off, shaking like a leaf now
moneybags
08-02-2020, 12:00 PM
So, I’m approaching 30 and apparently that to the ‘mommyjacking” sorts is akin to what the scent of blood is to sharks, where I end up with parents at the equestrian center coming forth with all manner of questions about when will I have children, some even reminded me about the biological clock, etc.
And my own mother decided she wanted a piece of that action. I had to bite my tongue, rather than tell her that dead women don’t rear children.
Anyhow, I feel like this is just the tip of the iceberg, but perhaps I should consider their point of view, and in that OH MY GOD, JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP ALREADY!
It’s everyday sexism and it’s RUDE AF!
My mom got over that real quick. Omg. I can’t imagine having to decide to send kids to school during pandemic! I made a selfless decision to not bring kids in this world. I have an education in early childhood and taught preschool. I love kids, but they aren’t for me.
That’s really the most sexist bullshit ever! One might say those are microaggressions.
No you shouldn’t consider their point of view. Those are rude rude questions that women learn to tolerate being questioned about everything they do or don’t do. Your almost 30! You’re a grown ass woman! You can think for yourself. You don’t need anyones advice or opinions about your personal decisions. It’s none of their business.
miss.a.p1600
08-02-2020, 01:27 PM
Omg I do not want to talk multiple times a day
Once a day is good for me.
And I don’t see how people have sex everyday. L said he wants to be intimate at least 3 times a week...... I’m good with once a week if that
I have shit to do....money making activities, leisure, time alone; homemaking duties, etc.......
miss.a.p1600
08-02-2020, 01:33 PM
L said he wants to tell me something tonight.....
I certainly hope it’s nothing related to having a kid with me, marrying me, fucking condomless, moving in, or confessing that he’s in love with me. And it damn sure as hell better not be that he tested positive for coronavirus because I don’t have time to take care of him nor do I want it cause I have to work.
I probably let him get too much attention too soon. Most guys I only see them once a week in the beginning.
Okay I’ll quit being a mega cunt and get back to being myself
chanzep
08-02-2020, 02:04 PM
I did 2 grocery orders then of course I crave something I did not buy smh. I'm not getting more stuff.
Aurora_Sunset
08-02-2020, 03:25 PM
We finally got the clear to close on the fucking house of nightmares on Friday literally one hour before the sellers’ deadline to walk-away. I rode the wave of elation the rest of Friday but since yesterday, have just been absolutely exhausted. Dragging through work, feeling like I’ll pass out while working out, being so tired that my brain feels “drunk” all day. It’s like my body got so used to being constantly stressed for a month straight that once it lost that rush of hormones, I just crashed and can’t function without the stress driving me.
carmen_b
08-02-2020, 07:31 PM
^ omg this just sounded so horrendous ! ;/
Aurora_Sunset
08-03-2020, 12:22 PM
^^Omg it was!! I slept in today, and finally woke up feeling great. But of course, now it's Monday, so paperwork has started up again. By the time I dragged myself out of bed, I had FOUR missed calls from my buyers, asking about the closing disclosure that the lender sent them to sign. Now, the other realtor is calling to ask if we've set a closing date, but ONCE AGAIN, I can't get ahold of the damn loan officer to make sure he received all signed paperwork and passed it along to the title insurance company so we can go ahead and schedule with them. And we have about an hour and a half left in the day to make that call and schedule. I sent him a text about it, and it's been "read," so why he can't just get back to me, I have no idea.
JGB2009
08-03-2020, 06:36 PM
Why would u send me a message saying you have been quiet all day? I informed you that my last message to you was at noon. What did you want me to do, blow up your phone and act desperate all day? We weren't talking about anything important so I thought the conversation was over. What was even the point of the last message to me because all you did was read it and didn't reply back SMH!!!!
whirlerz
08-03-2020, 07:06 PM
Some of the men on here, WTF.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-04-2020, 06:45 AM
Petty rant TL; DR- We found my literal "dream house" but probably won't buy it
So while house shopping we found a late 1970s country home that is so perfect for me. It even triggers deja vu- as a kid I had repeating dreams about a house with paneling exactly like it. I LOVE everything about it ...but due to the amount of fixer up issues and other issues (like my boyfriend hating it lol) it's no go. The price is great too (b/c of the fixxer upper status.)
I'm sad but oh well. Hopefully someone else will buy it and restore it. This experience of finding this place reminded me of the "house" subplot from the movie "Inception" ( don't want to spoil that for someone who hasn't seen the movie.)
miss.a.p1600
08-04-2020, 07:28 AM
I went and got a fresh covid test (it was negative thank goodness) and told L he should have done the same but his bitch ass is saying he would rather go get a shot and take a antibody test by donating blood.
Idiot!!!
I got my results in 1 hour and now he’s going to wait 3 weeks for results all cause he doesn’t want to put a qtip in his nose. What a bitch!!!!
I he gets me sick during his little 3 week wait I’m raging against his ass
WendiStarr
08-04-2020, 10:37 AM
Boyfriend managed to lose his eyeglasses somewhere. He didn't go anywhere. We tore up the house looking for them and still haven't found them. It's annoying because I spent my breaks and lunch break looking for his glasses. I just know that he didn't have them on last night when I gave him a backrub right before we went to sleep. I wish we could find them because he's pissy.
ravenskyy
08-04-2020, 12:57 PM
I really hate dealing with domme customers. I'm not a domme and I never will be if this is the type of bullshit I would have to deal with. I hate men that test my patience, try to challenge me or play stupid mind games. It's bad enough in the vanilla world, but omfg, it's sooooo much worse when I'm dealing with a fetish on top of it! I've been talking to this customer on and off for over a year now and the last several months, he's been different. He makes getting his money more difficult and he ends up pissing me off! No matter what I say or do, it's never right! He always finds a way to turn the conversation sour. He acts like a bratty child all the time and then it's like I have to almost apologize for what I may have said or done wrong.
I thought I was in charge??? So wouldn't that mean that I'M always right??? Am I missing something here???
This is why I don't domme because apparently, I'm terrible at it.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-04-2020, 01:09 PM
I really hate dealing with domme customers. I'm not a domme and I never will be if this is the type of bullshit I would have to deal with. I hate men that test my patience, try to challenge me or play stupid mind games. It's bad enough in the vanilla world, but omfg, it's sooooo much worse when I'm dealing with a fetish on top of it! I've been talking to this customer on and off for over a year now and the last several months, he's been different. He makes getting his money more difficult and he ends up pissing me off! No matter what I say or do, it's never right! He always finds a way to turn the conversation sour. He acts like a bratty child all the time and then it's like I have to almost apologize for what I may have said or done wrong.
I thought I was in charge??? So wouldn't that mean that I'M always right??? Am I missing something here???
This is why I don't domme because apparently, I'm terrible at it.
It's actually normal for these guys to get bratty, they get off on angering a Domme (and they do this to lots of women anyways.) It's why I quit dealing with subs, they are sooooooooooooooooo mentally draining. More power to women who make it work for them, but I felt like it wasn't worth it.
carmen_b
08-04-2020, 01:12 PM
^ Agreed. A true sub will let the lady lead and happily pay .
A pest will argue and waste energy with " oh that isn't right " whine whine whine.
Maybe you should cut him off. :)
carmen_b
08-04-2020, 01:13 PM
If he really wants a session restructure the rules to having you lead and he will NOT speak about " corrections " ect. to your sessions !
Explain that if he interupts your flow with whining there will simply be no sessions.
miss.a.p1600
08-04-2020, 07:39 PM
My experience with a sub was that some of them are a blend of dominant and submissive.
My submissive guy had submissive tendencies in that he like me to humiliate him (penis size, berate him for liking financial domination, etc) but he still had limits and a certain way he liked to be dominated - and he wasn’t afraid to speak his mind.
For example I noticed that I couldn’t just call him an ugly obese disgusting trailer trash sleezeball. I had to call him loser, weak, pay pig, my financial slave, etc.
Also a couple times I was at a loss for words and so I’d just be quiet waiting for him to say something so it ended up being me “ignoring” him while he continued to pay me. I noticed he liked it but not as much as the more interactive financial domination tactics.
I do think there are many facets to domination and it’s about finding what part(s) of it the sub likes. So in this aspect, the sub has to “lead” you in a sense to help you discover what types of things they like. But as mentioned above, make a limit to how much leading they do so they don’t end up being in the dominant role too much during the time you’re together.
Some subs respond to gentle correction while other may need “tough love” correction.
Idk. Just my experience from my short time in financial domination
miss.a.p1600
08-05-2020, 07:49 AM
I woke up at 1230a and couldn’t go back to sleep until like 2ish
Now I’m waking up late and feeling like “fuck work”
My place looks like a level 5 hurricane came through and I can’t leave the place like this nor can I work like this.
I gotta get my life together
chanzep
08-05-2020, 09:15 AM
I know the feeling.
whirlerz
08-05-2020, 10:23 AM
I woke up at 1230a and couldn’t go back to sleep until like 2ish
Now I’m waking up late and feeling like “fuck work”
My place looks like a level 5 hurricane came through and I can’t leave the place like this nor can I work like this.
I gotta get my life together
I know the feeling.
....
Yep^
So, yesterday I get an email w/a link to pay for my storage, after today there's a 25.00 late fee.. I go to pay, then I see it's 7 fucking $ more, not a lot, but still.
I got 0 notification on this, I been w/this dump for years & have yet to miss a payment.
There was also a huge puddle of water I front of my unit
They sent notice to my old address, where I haven't been for 7 years ::)
They gave this one bitch a 'senior discount' ::) she's not even a senior, definitely a cunt tho.
Waiting to hear back only been 3 hours now::)
carmen_b
08-05-2020, 11:08 AM
I'm kind of sad that J and his ex opted for home schooling for their 7 year old daughter .
I know for germ risk it's probably best to do mid Aug. - mid Sept. at least until the state starts to see a heavier decline .
BUT .... it's so hard on kids to stay at home and J tries to save $ by not having a sitter there ( he works from home ) . It just wears him out trying to assist with school and get his own work done.
I respect their decision it's just a general " why can't things just normalize NOW " type of whine.
whirlerz
08-05-2020, 04:31 PM
Ha, so I called the district mgr of my storage, myself!
I got my discount, too!
TG the online payment took, so I didn't have to talk to the store's a/holes again.
Now I'm waiting to hear about my eBay case, this B's supposedly 'reporting me'::) for violating TOS, cause I asked her for the extra $ for her pkg I sent back priority???
It's in FL, so I didn't want it delayed another 2 week like I waited
whirlerz
08-05-2020, 04:35 PM
I really hate dealing with domme customers. I'm not a domme and I never will be if this is the type of bullshit I would have to deal with. I hate men that test my patience, try to challenge me or play stupid mind games. It's bad enough in the vanilla world, but omfg, it's sooooo much worse when I'm dealing with a fetish on top of it! I've been talking to this customer on and off for over a year now and the last several months, he's been different. He makes getting his money more difficult and he ends up pissing me off! No matter what I say or do, it's never right! He always finds a way to turn the conversation sour. He acts like a bratty child all the time and then it's like I have to almost apologize for what I may have said or done wrong.
I thought I was in charge??? So wouldn't that mean that I'M always right??? Am I missing something here???
This is why I don't domme because apparently, I'm terrible at it.
No.
I once did vids for this guy, for pay, he'd make me wait & ask repeatedly, (begging) for my $.
Fuck all that.
WendiStarr
08-05-2020, 05:47 PM
I did so terrible on today's quiz. It's like no matter what the material just wouldn't stick in my head. I had to leave my class half way through to take my baby to her 6 month check-up. Nobody was at the pediatrician's office(no patients) and the doctor was on lunch break so she wasn't even there on time. As a result I missed 3 hours of class. I took such terrible notes earlier too. Ugh, I need to focus and study harder because this program I'm in is accelerated and there's no self-paced learning. I miss the old style of online classes so bad!
miss.a.p1600
08-05-2020, 08:52 PM
L saying that he needs to “get back on track” because he hasn’t been saving money.
Well mf! Start making more money!!!!!
Then you can comfortably take me out on these things called dates because I’m not going to keep spending time with you if you don’t get your cheapness in check and fast.
moneybags
08-06-2020, 12:09 AM
I did so terrible on today's quiz. It's like no matter what the material just wouldn't stick in my head. I had to leave my class half way through to take my baby to her 6 month check-up. Nobody was at the pediatrician's office(no patients) and the doctor was on lunch break so she wasn't even there on time. As a result I missed 3 hours of class. I took such terrible notes earlier too. Ugh, I need to focus and study harder because this program I'm in is accelerated and there's no self-paced learning. I miss the old style of online classes so bad!
I feel for you. You probably can’t focus because of stress. I don’t know how they expect students to study when the world is bat shit crazy. It’s like trying to go to school in war zone. I understand life has to go on, but I don’t think it’s possible to perform well academically under the circumstances of our time. I bombed my final exam. I still passed the class, but it was sooooo hard! It was the same thing. I would sit down to study and my thoughts were just racing. I kept have to rewind the class the get the information into my skull. I don’t do well with information crammed into a short session-I dont think anyone does. I dunno what to tell you because I just had to push through it; i didn’t have any other choice. Good luck. Take care of yourself.
whirlerz
08-06-2020, 09:49 AM
L saying that he needs to “get back on track” because he hasn’t been saving money.
Well mf! Start making more money!!!!!
Then you can comfortably take me out on these things called dates because I’m not going to keep spending time with you if you don’t get your cheapness in check and fast.
I'm gonna stick my, 02c, & say, U don't sound happy w/this dude, on several levels. J/s
miss.a.p1600
08-06-2020, 10:13 AM
I'm gonna stick my, 02c, & say, U don't sound happy w/this dude, on several levels. J/s
Honestly I’m not happy with his income/class levels.
And technically that could change IF he’s willing to improve. But long-term if he stays where he’s at I’m not sure if it would be a dealbreaker because I do have financial goals and I’m not sure I want to be the breadwinner
Everything else about him I do like. Hes the ideal guy (treats me how a woman deserves to be treated) just minus the financial wealth.
I’m just having a bit of cognitive dissonance because I realize I have to either change my views on hypergamy/gold digging or keep my views and ditch the guy who has been treating me very well. His only crime is his job isn’t good enough.
It just seems like I’ll find wealthy guys who are players n assholes or marriage material type guys who are working class.
Damn can’t a lady have a guy with wealth AND be marriage material???
whirlerz
08-06-2020, 10:36 AM
I won't quote the whole thing, but a big iffy sitch to your sentence. There's the rub
Keep him in rotation, keeping ur options open? Idk.
Anyway, there's a guy here, has 2 non running cars, + 1 working.
The city's threatening to tow, what does landlord do?
Cuts a clearing in the woods next to lot, to 'hide' them. So far, just barely enough to hide 1.
Other vehicle is an extra tall, large work van.
Absolutely disgusting, maybe illegal?
kimbe
08-06-2020, 11:44 AM
I’m annoyed at Facebook and I’m annoyed at myself for posting this selfie the other day that got me into a seven days ban...
miss.a.p1600
08-06-2020, 12:49 PM
I won't quote the whole thing, but a big iffy sitch to your sentence. There's the rub
Keep him in rotation, keeping ur options open? Idk.
Anyway, there's a guy here, has 2 non running cars, + 1 working.
The city's threatening to tow, what does landlord do?
Cuts a clearing in the woods next to lot, to 'hide' them. So far, just barely enough to hide 1.
Other vehicle is an extra tall, large work van.
you have a point
If I keep the lines of communication open for other more wealthier men it won’t count as “cheating” if it’s for work then that is my loophole.
And yeah they do that here if a car is broken down and just sitting around for a lengthy period of time then it gets a tow notice
JGB2009
08-07-2020, 07:35 AM
Yesterday my phone had a mind of its own and dialed my daughters dad. I freaked out and clicked the end button. He text me back rudely asking me what did I want. I responded back saying my phone accidentally dialed him. I could tell he didn't believe me. Yea I really wanted to dial your number and hang up smh.
whirlerz
08-07-2020, 07:50 AM
Yesterday my phone had a mind of its own and dialed my daughters dad. I freaked out and clicked the end button. He text me back rudely asking me what did I want. I responded back saying my phone accidentally dialed him. I could tell he didn't believe me. Yea I really wanted to dial your number and hang up smh.
Hate that shit!
Once, I dialed my work #, I misdialed by 1 number & some B called me, I told her I didn't call her, she goes, "I guess my call ID lied::)"
So I Heard talking outside, it's my landlord & some guy (btw wearing a neon yellow shirt, matching head covering, & mask (like a wrestler)?
I thought he was looking at the vacant room, but landlord selling the whole place?
Just texted & called my friend about it , no answer.
Nice>:(
WendiStarr
08-07-2020, 07:55 AM
Former SD emailed me to ask me how I'm doing financially. I told him I've been struggling lately, which is only partially true. His response? Completely ignore what I said and ask about assistance resources for his current SD. Not my problem. He or she can figure that out on their own. Google it, jackass! I'm not going to bother responding to his emails anymore. He used to send gift cards or money. He has no beneficial purpose in my life anymore.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-07-2020, 09:34 AM
Didn't get to sleep till 2 AM due to working out late and Intermittent Fasting. The older I get the more I hate insomnia, if I had a more standard lifestyle that issue could be life threatening.
Aurora_Sunset
08-07-2020, 10:02 AM
A friend texted me that one of her dogs was pregnant and asked if I was interested in a free puppy come November. I was gonna say no anyway, cuz there’s no way we have the space, money, or time for a dog, but before I could even respond, she texts *free puppy dependent on litter size. Like... okay, so what? I’m bottom of the list if you “run out?” Just like a few months ago, she was making cloth masks and asked if I wanted any, I said yes, and a few weeks later she asked if I still wanted them. After I said yes, she hemmed and hawed about how she doesn’t have many and she was prioritizing giving them to “people who work around people all day,” as though, at the time, I didn’t work on a fucking ambulance??? And she never sent me any lol So I can only imagine getting excited and planning to get a dog, just to have her be all “Oh well, we didn’t have that many and we gave them all to other people.”
Why bother offering if the offer isn’t real?
miss.a.p1600
08-07-2020, 12:42 PM
So I guess either the plan B worked or I was just pregnant in my mind.
Either way I’m pissy because now I’m cramping, tired, and PMSing
L wants to hang out with me and I really just want to be alone and sleep all day.
I was afraid I’d bleed all over his bed so I insisted I sleep alone last night so I could be “period neurotic” by myself
Selina M
08-07-2020, 03:40 PM
This is super mean but every time I read the FB group for one of my clubs, I realize why people think strippers are morons. Most of those girls really are. There's like, 2 of them who can string a coherent sentence together (and ironically, they're the ones who act dumb as bricks in the club).
I feel like they are intentionally choosing to be stupid too, as soon as I try to explain anything to them they shut down and basically stick their fingers in their ears.
Also inspired by those girls: if you are so broke that your apartment is threatening to evict you, why are you going out to eat at nice steakhouses? Wtf?