View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
ScarletKitten
03-02-2015, 07:08 PM
I hate men. I hate it when they try to defend the gender wage gap with the reason that "women contribute less" to the workforce. What the fuck is that shit?! Total bullshit!!! The hardest workers I've ever met were women. They work hard, long hours, AND have to raise kids on top of that. If anything, the men should be paid less, because their contribution to the reproductive process is so small compared to the woman's responsibilities. And all the single mom's have to work twice as hard for half the benefit when raising and paying for a kid alone.
Why can't everyone just get paid based on the job and skills, not based on their genitals? Fuck this planet.
Kellydancer
03-02-2015, 08:24 PM
Yeah, I had a job where I was paid less and it's bullshit. I should have been paid more not less than my male coworkers.
KikiGem
03-02-2015, 08:41 PM
So sick of my brothers stupid music. There is nothing more annoying than hearing repetitive bass through a wall. And stop getting pissy with me when I ask you to turn it off. Its 11 and I've got school tomorrow.
Kellydancer
03-02-2015, 10:26 PM
Strange man again. Last year there was a guy who seemed to want to chat with me and kept offering to buy me things like communion wafers but I declined. Then I would see him and kind of hide so he didnt talk to me. I really don't like chatting at 8:30am on Sunday so I would walk to my room to teach and on days off leave right away. I would still say hi since he was usually a greeter but didn't want him to get the hint I was interested. He backed off to the point it seemed at times he would avoid me. Now it seems he is talking to me again. First off because we never really chatted much I have no idea if he was even interested or I was overreacting. There is always a possibility I hurt his feelings without meaning too and he's not interested in me. Maybe he's married and goes to church by himself. I shouldn't let it get to me since I'm not interested and so far he hasn't asked me out. I googled him and looks like he is 14 years older.
Selina M
03-03-2015, 08:56 AM
My building has been SHAKING, along with the awful noise of a jackhammer and a backhoe hitting concrete, since 7:30 this morning. Fucking office gave me their supervisors phone number, who gave me a canned response of "Ma'am we're allowed to start at 7, sorry for the inconvenience". Motherfucker, I have a migraine now from 5 hours of sleep and the noise. I called the city and the receptionist took down my complaint and says someone will 'get back to me'. Yeah right.
I really hope when I pay my rent later, that they ask me how my first month was, because I'm gonna tell them exactly how it was. No hot water for the first 4 days, all my taps are backwards, bf opened a cupboard and the hinge literally tore off from the frame, now my porch light doesn't work, can't ever find a parking spot because they're all "reserved" and I refuse to pay for one on principle (seriously, wtf, never had a complex that didn't include a covered spot), never any bags for dog shit, and now this goddamn construction for the last week.
tempest666
03-03-2015, 11:56 PM
Looks like Mumbai escorts were really bored.
xxxGothBarbie
03-04-2015, 03:42 AM
Ugh had to deal with THE most creepy annoying group of people in the champange room tonight at work. The one guy (with all the money) bought me & this other broad a room for 30 mins & he had this other bitch with them for the night who was out of control drunk & wouldn't stop grabbing me & the other dancer during the dance. After I politely told her the 1st time not to grab me during the show , she storms off to the other couch with the other guy & dancer and starts talking shit to me in her drunken stupor. She kept telling me to gtfo of the room if "I wasnt gonna have a good time w/ them & stop being a prude" meanwhile, the other dancer was letting them grab her & spank her, etc. I was so appalled that I walked out of the room & told the manager that I wasn't getting paid enough to put up with their abusive bS & that I'm not finishing the time left in the room. Thankfully I wasn't in trouble ,but still we should never have to put up with such behavior from any customer. Not to mention, my club doesn't allow ANY touching whatsoever soooo glad tonight is over.
lynn2009
03-04-2015, 06:52 PM
3 more nights until my own apartment...3 more nights, 3 more nights, 3 more you can do ittttttt
Aurora_Sunset
03-04-2015, 07:19 PM
I want to pinch so many of my friends' heads off. I've been trying to learn coding/programming lately, and it's not easy for me. I've always found it fascinating, but it does take me while to "get it," so I'm only just devoting myself seriously to it now. I'm excited about it, and feel smart when I study for a few hours and understand concepts after a struggle and look back and realize what I can do now that used to be absolute gibberish to me.
Almost everyone I tell about it downplays it as easy and boring. One friend's girlfriend, right after I started talking about it, went on a rant about how "mind-numbingly easy" programming is, how she used to have a roommate who struggled in his computer science courses, and how easy she thought his coursework was after just glancing at it.... but she thinks "that stuff is soooo boring. Like, why would you ever want to do that?" Last night, I tried to talk about it to two guy friends I haven't seen in awhile and one of them blew it off like "Oh, anyone can learn that shit, easy." And the other started talking about how "boring and simple" development in PHP was...
Like, really? STFU. I don't scoff at how boring I think the shit that they do is. And no, I'm not learning rocket science, but it's not as though programming is the simplest thing to pick up at a professional level over a fucking weekend. Here I am, trying to better myself, and do something that requires more academic brain-power and bring a little more respect, and everyone is still acting as though I'm taking the "easy way out" with this "simple, boring" job training.
And then it makes me super self-conscious cuz I'm sitting here feeling all proud and then everyone's acting like "oh, anyone can do that in 2 minutes." And it makes me doubt myself, like, am I really that stupid? Is it actually that simple for everyone else and I'm just fucking dumb, and everyone is looking at me like I'll never be able to accomplish anything "truly intelligent" cuz I'm an idiot or something?
whirlerz
03-04-2015, 10:04 PM
Aww..I helped my ex study for some kind of computer stuff, I don't remember cause it was a long time ago..that's HARD!
Anyway. I deal w/this cheapie clothing store, they're ok for jeans & some other stuff. They don't have a dressing room, you have 3 wks to return/exchange w/receipt & tags on ONLY. They will NOT budge about this
I bought this pair of high waisted black pants, I should have got the next size up..I have this health issue (not period) w/bloating..&, the pants are a little too snug:( I had to go buy a bunch of jeans in bigger sizes..
I've tried to exchange these pants, they just won't. The tags are on, I don't have the receipt & it's past the date anyway. I asked yesterday if they could get 'em @ another store (they said 1 store had 11 pairs, but none in my size)..sooo I went tonight to that store myself, they didn't have 'em. I got some other stuff & went I went to pay I explained about the pants, & how I wanted a diff. size, she told me she'd call the other stores for me (there's like 23 total)but they were closed already..well fuck! I thought the original store had checked into all this>:(
She gave me a list of the stores w/ph. #'s. but:-\ & I still can't exchange/return the orginal pants:(
SweetJulia
03-04-2015, 10:31 PM
Candy run at midnight in twenty degree weather :(
whirlerz
03-04-2015, 10:36 PM
Candy run at midnight in twenty degree weather :(
I KNOW! I was gonna go get some, but I fixed some oatmeal w/raisins, dates, & walnuts. So that sufficed.
Did light grocery shopping, but AGAIN forgot bottle water:(
~*SwanPrincess*~
03-05-2015, 12:42 AM
I have this one customer who is annoying the shit out of me. He spends a decent amount of $, but when we are done with our VIP he will more or less follow me around the club. Whether I'm sitting at the bar or a table with a different customer, the other guy will interrupt just to say or tell me the most random things, and sometimes will even say things to the guy I am with. I feel like I try to get in a certain groove with guys when I am about to sell dances or VIPS and his interruptions totally throw me off. And when he's leaving he will come over to me and say goodbye like five separate times.
He threw a hissy fit the other night when he found out a bouncer had to walk me to my car and not him.
Besides all of that bullshit he's constantly pressuring me to meet him outside the club, which is definitely not happening.
I am seriously contemplating cutting him off as a customer because all of this happens 2 out of 3 shifts I work per week and it's wasting a lot of my time and getting me off focus. I try to be stern about my, "Well, I better get back to work" line, but he clearly isn't getting it :(
amberlly
03-05-2015, 02:11 AM
I have this one customer who is annoying the shit out of me. He spends a decent amount of $, but when we are done with our VIP he will more or less follow me around the club. Whether I'm sitting at the bar or a table with a different customer, the other guy will interrupt just to say or tell me the most random things, and sometimes will even say things to the guy I am with. I feel like I try to get in a certain groove with guys when I am about to sell dances or VIPS and his interruptions totally throw me off. And when he's leaving he will come over to me and say goodbye like five separate times.
He threw a hissy fit the other night when he found out a bouncer had to walk me to my car and not him.
Besides all of that bullshit he's constantly pressuring me to meet him outside the club, which is definitely not happening.
I am seriously contemplating cutting him off as a customer because all of this happens 2 out of 3 shifts I work per week and it's wasting a lot of my time and getting me off focus. I try to be stern about my, "Well, I better get back to work" line, but he clearly isn't getting it :(
What a nut...
My new manager at work is really really annoying. Swaps between intrusive, pushy to overly friendly and then ice cold. Seriously - pick one mood and stick to it
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-05-2015, 07:12 AM
Diet meal fail- oatmeal with skim milk + a tuna sandwich with no mayo= painful lump of food that was stuck in my system the whole day, making me hurt and have terrible gas. UGH so painful
Selina M
03-05-2015, 12:49 PM
Sigh. Car battery is dead (I hope). Bf just biked down to get a new one, but I suspect it may be the starter or alternator. I'm not fixing it if so, car is too old with too many miles and was only planning to drive it until June anyway.
Not sure if I'll be relieved or pissy if it doesn't fix it. Relieved bc I can justify buying a new car that I'm not afraid to drive out of town, and have something pretty and new with bells and whistles (I've never had a car newer than 5 years old)... pissy bc I'll be kinda pressed to buy quickly, since I live too far to take a cab to work, and I really don't like the idea of being under pressure when making a $20k purchase.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-05-2015, 07:12 PM
I was annoyed by a creepy blogger who was bashing on the porn vids of a girl I used to work with (strip club.) Then I laughed b/c I know this girl comes from a rich family & even if she was a "nasty dirty porn slut" as this guy says, she will always be way ahead of him in so many ways. He's a creepy adult vid addict and she's a beautiful girl from a good family. So effff that dude
lynn2009
03-06-2015, 05:54 AM
Why are caffeine headaches so awful :( :( :(
SweetJulia
03-06-2015, 08:51 AM
I have a slow leak in the front drivers' side tire of my new car, which has less than sixteen thousand miles on it. I literally have to put air in every two days.
caramelDip
03-06-2015, 09:32 AM
Since I moved, I can only cam at night. But I keep falling asleep. I feel like shit all day. :( my iron is really low and eating iron rich foods don't help. I guess I'll have to take the pills. They
Make me constipated. :(
lynn2009
03-06-2015, 09:47 AM
I have a slow leak in the front drivers' side tire of my new car, which has less than sixteen thousand miles on it. I literally have to put air in every two days.
That can get patched for super cheap :)
Aurora_Sunset
03-06-2015, 11:46 AM
Since telling one of my regular clients that I'm going to Vegas at the end of this month, he keeps sending me daily "friendly reminder" emails to update my ads to reflect when I'm going to be in Vegas.... As though I'm just that fucking dumb that I would entirely forget to advertise? Thanks dude, I got this...
wednesday86
03-06-2015, 12:35 PM
I want to pinch so many of my friends' heads off. I've been trying to learn coding/programming lately, and it's not easy for me. I've always found it fascinating, but it does take me while to "get it," so I'm only just devoting myself seriously to it now. I'm excited about it, and feel smart when I study for a few hours and understand concepts after a struggle and look back and realize what I can do now that used to be absolute gibberish to me.
Almost everyone I tell about it downplays it as easy and boring. One friend's girlfriend, right after I started talking about it, went on a rant about how "mind-numbingly easy" programming is, how she used to have a roommate who struggled in his computer science courses, and how easy she thought his coursework was after just glancing at it.... but she thinks "that stuff is soooo boring. Like, why would you ever want to do that?" Last night, I tried to talk about it to two guy friends I haven't seen in awhile and one of them blew it off like "Oh, anyone can learn that shit, easy." And the other started talking about how "boring and simple" development in PHP was...
Like, really? STFU. I don't scoff at how boring I think the shit that they do is. And no, I'm not learning rocket science, but it's not as though programming is the simplest thing to pick up at a professional level over a fucking weekend. Here I am, trying to better myself, and do something that requires more academic brain-power and bring a little more respect, and everyone is still acting as though I'm taking the "easy way out" with this "simple, boring" job training.
And then it makes me super self-conscious cuz I'm sitting here feeling all proud and then everyone's acting like "oh, anyone can do that in 2 minutes." And it makes me doubt myself, like, am I really that stupid? Is it actually that simple for everyone else and I'm just fucking dumb, and everyone is looking at me like I'll never be able to accomplish anything "truly intelligent" cuz I'm an idiot or something?
Umm if it's so "boring and simple" why aren't THEY doing and why do programmers make $60k + salaries at entry level??? I know a little programming and it's definitely not easy and I know I'm a smart girl. It's very similar to learning a language--basically that's what coding is. I aced Mandarin Chinese and I still think programming is harder. Stick with it...there's a huge need for front end development. I see ads for it all the time. The only reason I'm not still pursuing it is because I want to focus on my dream career in biological anthropology, but I'm definitely going to keep taking programming classes so it can be my fall back.
wednesday86
03-06-2015, 12:37 PM
Anyway today I'm annoyed because out of freakin nowhere two giant zits popped up on my face last night, and I have to go to my husband's company party tonight. WTF is this? I never break out! I hope there aren't pictures.......
michele11
03-06-2015, 03:35 PM
I really need to get those things for the bottom of my shoes so their not slippery. Last night I was flying down the stairs and went right down on my knee. It was funny. Like I was super human. this guy got up to help me and I just popped back up so fast. the one bouncer saw and mad a shit face. Like yeah dude The stairs are wood and I've seen tons of girls fall. Always at the begining of a damn trip. Now my knee is all skinned and hurts like hell!
lynn2009
03-07-2015, 06:47 AM
I've ended up moving 3 trips of carloads of shit, moving up and down 2 and then 3 flights of stairs by myself. I should be grateful that the weather was decent and even though I had to pay for parking, there was convenient parking close by, but I'm not, I'm so cranky and my shoulder won't quit with this intense stabbing pain. And my dad will be here in about an hour to move all the big furniture so there's still so much left, by the time he gets here we'll definitely have to pay to use the lot again instead of street parking. And then I have to do the final cleaning of my old place.
zoezoebelle
03-07-2015, 06:14 PM
I bought a pre-made pie crust in a metal tin, and decided to use it to make a quiche. 10 minutes in the oven and I decide to check on it, and notice something strange: there's a piece of plastic and another piece of metal... Oh shit, there were two of them stuck together and I just wasted one. I scrambled around to find something to pull it out of the oven with, started to move it and realised I filled it way to the brim. Fuck it, I'm just going to leave it there.
whirlerz
03-07-2015, 10:18 PM
I really need to get those things for the bottom of my shoes so their not slippery. Last night I was flying down the stairs and went right down on my knee. It was funny. Like I was super human. this guy got up to help me and I just popped back up so fast. the one bouncer saw and mad a shit face. Like yeah dude The stairs are wood and I've seen tons of girls fall. Always at the begining of a damn trip. Now my knee is all skinned and hurts like hell!
Well, you better ice it girl! Also try a hot bath w/epsom salts..
Me: Well, I 'met' (spoke online only) to this guy. He seems ok, but he's texted me, "how's ur night" the last 2 nights...10:30 pm. I really don't care for that, this late @ nite. I didn't answer him last night.
Fucking clueless..
Yea, I shouldn't have given him my # either :(
Naida
03-08-2015, 04:43 AM
My cat is missing, I just started my period literally five minutes before posting this, and I'm stressed the fuck out about going back to work. I'm so emotionally ready but not actually prepared.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-08-2015, 08:00 AM
OH MY GOD ladies, I did my last day at the restaurant & I can honestly say this sports bar was full of more catty, immature women than any strip club I have ever worked at. I feel bad b/c one of my favorite people in the world is still stuck there with all those sad miserable women. (I had to take a job with better pay for financial reasons.)
The statement that strip clubs just contain the same aspects of most workplaces, just magnified, is so true. I think I actually met crazier, dumber people at this place than any strip bar. Fack!!!!
Tsepmet1
03-08-2015, 08:05 AM
They smoke in the bars in my new location and I cannot stand it. It is so disgusting.
michele11
03-08-2015, 03:16 PM
I wanted to go have crab at my favorite place but they don't get the kind i like in until next week. And I've only worked 16 shifts in 5 months an I'm mad I didn't get here monday so I could of worked an extra day. I've had no sleep and need to scrub off my self tanner. I won't even be able to enjoy my next two days off. I'll be obsessing about all the money I'm missing!
michele11
03-08-2015, 03:23 PM
Oh, but I am having fun submitting flavors for the lays contest. I had some good ones I wrote down but that's 8 hours away and I can't remember all of them.:(. I wanna know how they know who you are because they don't ask your name. I was looking at some of the flavors and was like wtf are people thinking. Smores. All common shit. Mine are unique. I can't believe something as simple as mc and cheese won last year.
Glamourmilf
03-09-2015, 01:33 AM
Im feeling pissy because every damn day my roommate pulls another 'bait and switch' with the amenities being not wht she promised them to be when I moved in last month....t
That, and the fact that this town thinks it's still 1983, is making me soooo HOMESICK,HOMESICK, HOMESICK!! Omg! Im so homesick and pissed that I moved all the way out here just to save money.
Selina M
03-09-2015, 11:20 AM
Oh, but I am having fun submitting flavors for the lays contest. I had some good ones I wrote down but that's 8 hours away and I can't remember all of them.:(. I wanna know how they know who you are because they don't ask your name. I was looking at some of the flavors and was like wtf are people thinking. Smores. All common shit. Mine are unique. I can't believe something as simple as mc and cheese won last year.
I think cappuccino won once.. blargh!
What happens if multiple people submit a flavor? Who gets the prize?
Naida
03-09-2015, 11:22 AM
Motherfucker, I told you I would have her call you back. That is NOT an invitation to show up uninvited!
michele11
03-09-2015, 02:44 PM
I think cappuccino won once.. blargh!
What happens if multiple people submit a flavor? Who gets the prize?
I don't know I guess who submits it first. I created 10 last night. Ha. I was on a role. I was looking through and a woman created the same one as me but I called it cool tsakani and hers was just tsakani. Mac and cheese won cause I saw it yesterday at wallmart and it said last years winner on it. They all sucked last year. Mango salsa( I through away) and I never waste snacks. So everyone is doing different mac and cheese ( like homestyle) or adding bacon. No originiality. I'm going to do more later. i was a creative machine last night. You have to think of what tastes good on a potato. Some people think of crap. beer. I can't even drink beer it's so nasty to me. Maybe I should do a vodka one . Come on. I did some pretty good ones then looked at the amount of ( how many would eat this flavor) and got discouraged when I saw gross ones getting like 300 yeses.
michele11
03-09-2015, 02:53 PM
I went to the bank to deposit money and sorry i have a lot of cash and the cars started piling up and I dropped my ATM card and didn't realize until like an hour later. then I din't have my I.D. on me to get a temporary. Soooo I have to go back tomorrow. And my self tanner still looks like crap and the hot water doesn't last long ( like in hotels) so I can take a hot hour soak and I didn't get to tan today since by then I realized my card was missing. glad I have vanderpump rules reunion tonight to watch and yeah all kinds of out of state cars today when i was out.
Naida
03-09-2015, 04:29 PM
I am never again letting someone else buy tampons for me. Going through these bitches like skittles because they're supers and not super pluses. My kingdom for a Mooncup, or just to have fucking Mirena already.
audrey_k
03-09-2015, 08:13 PM
I'm so frustrated right now. I've been planning to apply to graduate school for the last few months-- my plan originally was to wait until September 2016 but I changed my mind-- and as I've been reaching out to get funding, since I don't have enough in savings to pay for the whole year up front anymore after being out of work, I find out that despite having a British passport and living here for a year, I do not qualify as a 'home' student but instead qualify as an overseas student. The university told me I could apply anyway and they would look at my application closer just to make sure, but there's like a 5% chance at this point of that happening. The disadvantage of being a home student? My tuition goes from $10,000 a year to almost $27,000, and I no longer qualify for any governmental student loan. I would have to apply for a regular loan that I'll need to start paying back immediately and interest will begin immediately as well. I honestly don't even think if I was able to handle that it would be an option, since I have no proof of income to show any banks and my boyfriend can't even cosign for me right now as he's just about to negotiate a mortgage and it would greatly affect the rate he gets.
I am so disappointed by this, I have to wait 3 years to be considered a home student, which means I can't go until 2017. I don't want to waste the next two and a half years of my life doing nothing, my degree program is 4 years minimum and that means I will be beginning my career in my early 30s now, when I was hoping to be done with graduate school before the age of 29. The amount of money I have to come up with I do not think I could earn stripping by then as London is completely dead during the summer and I'm unwilling to go back to escorting, even for this. I really don't know what to do. I know that we have similar laws in the US, but I've always heard that qualifying for residency in a state means living there for 1 year, not 3? And seriously, please explain to me why I as a British citizen have to pay the same as a non-citizen and can't even qualify for a proper educational loan? I feel like we definitely give those to international students in the US, and don't almost triple the cost of tuition for them.
I swear, if it was not for my boyfriend I would already be back in the US. I am getting so frustrated with British-ness (no offence to any Brits who read this).
xxxGothBarbie
03-09-2015, 11:25 PM
I'm pissy bc I feel empty & lost for whatever reason. Also, getting freaked the fuck out bc this hotel living is getting expensive & I'm unable to really save any money (even on my good nights). Im unsure as to where else I'd actually wanna move to :( No one has answered my many CL ads for a room to rent that isn't ridic or within my standards.
Laylalust
03-10-2015, 07:51 AM
I love when my day starts off with my bf going into yet another fit of rage because he can't find his beanie/watch/keys/wallet and he has to yell and whine and OVERREACT like he always fucking does, completely ruining my morning. And then he finds what he was looking for and becomes humble and expects me to be all loving towards him but instead I have a pit of tension and stress in my stomach from his raging and can't wait for him to just leave for work so I can be alone in peace. I need to smoke to calm down before it's even 8 am, thanks to him. This bullshit is getting very old. It's not the first day I've wished I lived by myself, with my cats. I really wish he would calm the fuck down and stop ruining everything with his rages and his inability to just cope with mild frustrations in life.
ETA I'm still seething over this. He did the same thing on Sunday. He was screaming and crying because he couldn't find a form he states he filed away somewhere and then couldn't locate. I tried to comfort him to no avail; he insisted on throwing a tantrum because "the world is against him" and everything is a conspiracy to ruin him, instead of just the simple fact that he can't keep track of his belongings because he's disorganized. He apologized to me yesterday for his behavior Sunday in a very nice manner, and then he repeats the same shit this morning. It's so frustrating. And god forbid I say anything to him about it because that will just set him off in a defensive rage directed at ME. And then I go onto Facebook and he has all of these friends who just adore him and think he's the most talented, amazing, greatest person ever. Little do they know that behind closed doors he's a big baby who can't control his emotions. It's fucking asinine and it makes me miserable because I'm extremely sensitive to others' emotions and they flood me and become my emotions. And now we're in this small apartment and I can't get away from it unless I leave the apartment. And then he wonders why I don't want to have sex anymore. Maybe because throwing temper tantrums when things don't go your way like a baby is EXTREMELY unattractive??! Be a fucking man.
xxxGothBarbie
03-11-2015, 03:05 AM
I love when my day starts off with my bf going into yet another fit of rage because he can't find his beanie/watch/keys/wallet and he has to yell and whine and OVERREACT like he always fucking does, completely ruining my morning. And then he finds what he was looking for and becomes humble and expects me to be all loving towards him but instead I have a pit of tension and stress in my stomach from his raging and can't wait for him to just leave for work so I can be alone in peace. I need to smoke to calm down before it's even 8 am, thanks to him. This bullshit is getting very old. It's not the first day I've wished I lived by myself, with my cats. I really wish he would calm the fuck down and stop ruining everything with his rages and his inability to just cope with mild frustrations in life.
ETA I'm still seething over this. He did the same thing on Sunday. He was screaming and crying because he couldn't find a form he states he filed away somewhere and then couldn't locate. I tried to comfort him to no avail; he insisted on throwing a tantrum because "the world is against him" and everything is a conspiracy to ruin him, instead of just the simple fact that he can't keep track of his belongings because he's disorganized. He apologized to me yesterday for his behavior Sunday in a very nice manner, and then he repeats the same shit this morning. It's so frustrating. And god forbid I say anything to him about it because that will just set him off in a defensive rage directed at ME. And then I go onto Facebook and he has all of these friends who just adore him and think he's the most talented, amazing, greatest person ever. Little do they know that behind closed doors he's a big baby who can't control his emotions. It's fucking asinine and it makes me miserable because I'm extremely sensitive to others' emotions and they flood me and become my emotions. And now we're in this small apartment and I can't get away from it unless I leave the apartment. And then he wonders why I don't want to have sex anymore. Maybe because throwing temper tantrums when things don't go your way like a baby is EXTREMELY unattractive??! Be a fucking man.
omg! Are we dating the same guy?! My bf who I'm trying to cut off does this same shit & blames the world for his own fuck ups. He even tries to blame me for making him sick when I don't answer his texts or calls. He's seriously emotionally unstable not to mention mentally unstable as well. UGH I'm soooo glad I moved out of his parent's home bc his mommy would do everything for him & he was also a mad core alcoholic which just added to the flavor bleh. I hope you can get away from him asap bc his outbursts & negative energies WILL bring you down constantly & I'm not joking in the least when I say this.
Selina M
03-11-2015, 10:10 AM
I love when my day starts off with my bf going into yet another fit of rage because he can't find his beanie/watch/keys/wallet and he has to yell and whine and OVERREACT like he always fucking does, completely ruining my morning. And then he finds what he was looking for and becomes humble and expects me to be all loving towards him but instead I have a pit of tension and stress in my stomach from his raging and can't wait for him to just leave for work so I can be alone in peace. I need to smoke to calm down before it's even 8 am, thanks to him. This bullshit is getting very old. It's not the first day I've wished I lived by myself, with my cats. I really wish he would calm the fuck down and stop ruining everything with his rages and his inability to just cope with mild frustrations in life.
ETA I'm still seething over this. He did the same thing on Sunday. He was screaming and crying because he couldn't find a form he states he filed away somewhere and then couldn't locate. I tried to comfort him to no avail; he insisted on throwing a tantrum because "the world is against him" and everything is a conspiracy to ruin him, instead of just the simple fact that he can't keep track of his belongings because he's disorganized. He apologized to me yesterday for his behavior Sunday in a very nice manner, and then he repeats the same shit this morning. It's so frustrating. And god forbid I say anything to him about it because that will just set him off in a defensive rage directed at ME. And then I go onto Facebook and he has all of these friends who just adore him and think he's the most talented, amazing, greatest person ever. Little do they know that behind closed doors he's a big baby who can't control his emotions. It's fucking asinine and it makes me miserable because I'm extremely sensitive to others' emotions and they flood me and become my emotions. And now we're in this small apartment and I can't get away from it unless I leave the apartment. And then he wonders why I don't want to have sex anymore. Maybe because throwing temper tantrums when things don't go your way like a baby is EXTREMELY unattractive??! Be a fucking man.
He sounds a little like my friend's husband, total lack of ability to cope with "the real world". Anger management sounds like it would help him out... but that's bullshit that you have to deal with his temper tantrums.
Selina M
03-11-2015, 01:30 PM
People who fucking say they'll do something to help you out, and then back out at the last minute.
Thanks, bf's dad. I missed 2 shifts of work looking at cars, shopping around for a good deal, and spent $400 on a rental car for the week, only for you to change your mind about co-signing. If you hadn't fucking offered in the first place, I could have spent the $125 to fix my POS car, not got the rental, not missed work, and just waited until I have my credit cards paid off, and gotten a good interest rate by myself. But no, now I'm somewhere between $800-$1000 down from where I should be. Fucking awesome.
I should have just gotten the POS fixed anyway and skipped the rental, but me and the mechanic were assuming it was something much more expensive than a corroded battery cable, and didn't see the point if I was gonna get a new car. Surprise, surprise, just a cable.
Aurora_Sunset
03-11-2015, 07:49 PM
I am getting so insanely sick of all the stupid little pop up ads on youtube. I could understand when they started putting short ads at the beginning of videos, or even that one little bottom-screen popup a few seconds into the video, but holy shit - you literally cannot get through a 4 minute video these days without at least 10 different fuckers popping up all over the screen! It's starting to remind me of this:
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Like, Christ, I get it they need to have ad revenue coming in, but the entire point is that you're trying to watch a fucking video - you can't do that with the screen entirely covered in pop ups! >:(
HoolaTwister
03-11-2015, 07:55 PM
I'm super annoyed when I read comments on this board that are so blatantly racist, not to mention stupid, and it's just fine and dandy. I legit just read a comment on how "white women don't suffer as much as blah blah" Really?? Go f yourself. If I made a blanket statement about any other race it would not be ok, correct? Not that I would be dumb enough to make a blanket statement like that.
Ugh. Maybe I'm getting my period lol
simone87
03-11-2015, 08:34 PM
one of my male friends ( who is a fuckwit anyways, so idk why i care so much) is busy pouting and acting all hurt because i cancelled on him. my depression was kicking in and i just wasn't feeling like walking a mile to my car in the cold and the dark and then drive 30 minutes to wander around with him. i didn't stand him up, i told him ahead of time…does that make me a bad person? so ridiculous!!
ScarletKitten
03-12-2015, 12:03 AM
I am getting so insanely sick of all the stupid little pop up ads on youtube. I could understand when they started putting short ads at the beginning of videos, or even that one little bottom-screen popup a few seconds into the video, but holy shit - you literally cannot get through a 4 minute video these days without at least 10 different fuckers popping up all over the screen! It's starting to remind me of this:
40975
Like, Christ, I get it they need to have ad revenue coming in, but the entire point is that you're trying to watch a fucking video - you can't do that with the screen entirely covered in pop ups! >:(
There's an easy way to solve this!!! I watch youtube videos with NO ads, EVER!
Do you use Firefox? If so, just download the "Adblocker" add-on for firefox. If you use Google chrome, I'm sure there is also an add-on for blocking ads on youtube and other sites.
PM me if you need help with this so as to not threadjack. :)
Spinnerette
03-12-2015, 06:58 AM
It's petty in that I can't even tell why it bothers me so much outside of the fact that it's NAIVE AS ALL HELL: all these dumb-ass posts that cross my social media accounts with silly relationship "goals". They all want to wear matching outfits or share a bag of chips after sex. I'm just like...shut up. I don't know how anyone sees that as cute, I see it as sad and short-sighted. I've shared entire meals while in the buff with casual sexual partners. Upgrade the "goals" to something you can't do with just any ol' body, my god.