View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-18-2020, 07:46 AM
Petty annoyance/ first world problems-
Sooo my boyfriend has fallen in love with a McMansion-type house & he found out he can get a loan to buy it. Last night I silently listened to him talk about it. I kept my mouth shut about how much harder my life will be living that far away from the city & also having to chip in on repairs for the house as time goes on.
At the end of it all we're still better off as home owners so I guess I gotta learn to love this place.
chanzep
08-18-2020, 07:18 PM
I just had the worst experience with Wal-Mart \ Door dash . Well the cunty dasher. This bitch called me saying she's coming through the gate . I give her clear instructions to my apartment. 4 mins later she sends me a message that my apartment complex is confusing and she left my stuff outside a random apartment!!. I called her and she answered the phone screamed at me and hung up!!. I was raging I wanted to beat her ass! . My apartment garage is square and I have her landmarks. I always get delivery every week and they find it or tell me to meet them. This bitch actually left my groceries next to random stairs in my apartment complex I had to search for my groceries!!. Lucky I live in Uptown. I had to take the last hour off from my job. Running around my complex looking crazy then had to carry e everything. She also stole my blueberry ice cream the little bitch!. Wal-Mart were great and refund my Icecrem and were very nice. I called Door dash also because I use them a lot and sent them picture of my groceries next to stairs. I can't believe this cheeky little bitch. She actually screamed at me!!.
WendiStarr
08-19-2020, 05:44 AM
computer networking quiz..grr! I failed it twice and have to retake it again. I hate networking, so confusing! I don't like math unless it involves counting money.
miss.a.p1600
08-19-2020, 06:07 PM
I feel like shit cause I didn’t get any work done
whirlerz
08-19-2020, 06:15 PM
Same^!
Also, I have a PayPal dispute..this a/hole seller is dragging it out, supposedly 'reporting me'::) cause I had her bullshit item sent back by a faster delivery..it took weeks to reach my address. Like I violated TOS by doing that? Since it was also mispackaged according to the P.O.
Today, I get an email from PP asking if I want to accept partial reimbursement?
Sure, c***, after I paid an extra 10.00 so you could get back your POS product, don't think so.
I've been writing to eBay about it too, we'll see.
Tomorrow, I'm supposed to hear from PP.
whirlerz
08-19-2020, 07:22 PM
One more thing: this guy upstairs left a bunch of food out on the counter, (uh, roaches we have?:O).
I wrapped up & put everything away +(it sat there for hoursss ).
I can hear him out there now, he'll probably tell his grandma tomorrow, (lady in the house behind me) & she'll pull some more sh** on me behind this:yikes:
WendiStarr
08-20-2020, 07:28 AM
Bf left the damn back door open all night. I didn't even think to check it since normally he's good at locking it. The door to the kitchen was closed so I figured the back door was too. I live in what seems like a safe neighborhood but with all these people being unemployed right now, you never know. Someone on the next street over said that someone had stole all the gas out of her car so there are desperate people out there. That freaked me out. Also, I think bf's nephew brought a cold over here. He was hacking up a storm, which since he was a cigarette smoker I assumed was just from that. Bf is coughing today and my chest feels congested.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-20-2020, 08:25 AM
Petty annoyed at paperwork. Blarghhhhhh
whirlerz
08-20-2020, 03:31 PM
So.
Sorry, 'nother roomie rant...
We got this new guy, basically, he's a PIA..
He moves in, w/all this shit, plops it in the kitchen : I'm talking a large mirror, (laid on the kitchen table ::)), a back & foot massager, various kitchen utensils, etc.
His room is empty, except for his bed. There's a walk in closet in there, but yea just plop it all in the kitchen.::)
He opened the window (it's 85, we've a/c) then he goes out somewhere w/other roomie, I left him a note.
The other roomie goes, "he's getting settled in". ::)
Sure, pal::)
Selina M
08-20-2020, 04:25 PM
I am sooooooo tired of dealing with the unemployment office. They've changed my amount FOUR times now. I finally got it fixed back to the maximum amount on the 8th (after literally 2 months), got 2 weeks of correct payments, and now they randomly changed it back to the minimum again. Because they backpaid me all the money I was owed from the 2 months of wrong payments, now the system thinks I've exhausted 39 weeks worth of the minimum benefit and says "claim exhausted", ergo "no more checks for you".
STOP FUCKING WITH MY SHIT!!!
This system is awful. The FL governor admitted theirs was set up to make it difficult & frustrating so people would give up. I swear ours is too. I understand now. It depresses me to think about calling. The reps are either outright rude or vaguely accusing you of lying.
The whole thing is just absurd when I think about it. The difference I'm owed is a measly $120 a week. They are making it THIS difficult over $120 a week. I would rather work 2-3 hours and make my own damn $120 than sit on the phone for even a half hour waiting for someone to bullshit me around.
moneybags
08-20-2020, 05:27 PM
^^^I think they want to make it hard. Like life isnt already hard enough.
My petty annoyance is posting a gym selfie with a mask and gloves in my fitness group and people making political commentary. . Just trying to make light of a bad situation. I’m just not engaging with any negativity anymore.
yaya_cash
08-20-2020, 06:38 PM
I feel like shit cause I didn’t get any work done
Well, feeling like sh-- can help you GET MOTIVATED to get stuff done.
AChildOfBoredom
08-20-2020, 06:43 PM
Before leaving work today, I swung by the equestrian center to talk to one of the girls there, and we grabbed some cookies to give to the horses. One of them had his head sticking out of the stall, and when I walked up to the stall, he turned his head suddenly and slammed me right in the boob. Still fucking hurts.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-21-2020, 07:03 AM
I've gone through a variety of feelings after discovering the extreme personality conversion that Jenna Jameson has gone through. She went from being an adult industry advocate to .....a conspiracy theory nut.
I kind of feel bad for her. OTOH I don't know her so I don't dwell on it.
whirlerz
08-21-2020, 10:19 AM
So the weirdo new roomie was outside just now, he starts talking to me, asked me what I'm doing.. I said I have a lower back pain, he asked if I wanted a massage???>:( I said, I'm seeing a Dr.
I had to go sit in my car to get away from him!
He's young, like 30's, no car, not working?
Problem(s), and/or alcohol etc.
Lest you think I'm judgmental, that same room, (& the house here, generally) has produced exactly that type of person
F. O. H.
whirlerz
08-21-2020, 12:29 PM
I've gone through a variety of feelings after discovering the extreme personality conversion that Jenna Jameson has gone through. She went from being an adult industry advocate to .....a conspiracy theory nut.
I kind of feel bad for her. OTOH I don't know her so I don't dwell on it.
Yeah, she was Soo gorj, I watched a documentary about her. Read her book
Too many tatts, weird beliefs.
She was on MFC
lynn2009
08-22-2020, 09:05 AM
People who have the right of way at an intersection but waive you through first to be polite or whatever are dumber than a literal pile of dog shit.
Genoveve
08-22-2020, 02:38 PM
People who have the right of way at an intersection but waive you through first to be polite or whatever are dumber than a literal pile of dog shit.
If it eases your ire, there's a multitude of reasons for why people may do that, some of them being for your sake. It could be because they're having car trouble, it could be because they have someone following them in another car and they don't want you to get in between and separate them, it could be because they have a tendency to drive slower and they'd rather you be in front of them....etc. If I am looking for a new address that I've never been to before I will have people go in front of me so I can drive slower as I look with no pressure. What annoys me is when the people in front of you at an intersection arrive at the stops at the same time and no one knows who was technically first so they just sit there. Like someone has to take the initiative and just go. If I'm up at an intersection and the two(or three) cars who got there before me are confused about who was first and just sitting there waiting for the other go I just hit the gas and leave them there even though it wasn't my turn. They can keep sitting there and thinking about it if they want.
whirlerz
08-22-2020, 06:20 PM
So, this clerk at the gas station, (I know her, I gave her a ride home one night after work) starts fucking verbally degrading me because of the mask I wore..
It's a dark blue cotton thong, it's clean, , it's easy to put on just to run in the store (I've had N95 masks snap on me, in the store). It's comfortable & stays on well
Shes just a PRUDE. I'm going to make one out of my shocking pink bra. What. A. B! FOH
miss.a.p1600
08-22-2020, 08:22 PM
L taking a shower.
I hope he takes a long time so I can read stripperwebs
miss.a.p1600
08-24-2020, 06:05 AM
L said I had to leave my vibrator at his place because he didn’t want me using it by myself without him and using it too often making it hard for him to please me.
I guess he doesn’t realize I can just use my hands or the shower head
Idk what to think about this. I guess he sort of has a point. For years I’ve been getting the job done myself. So whenever I’m with I guy it’s hard for me to relax and let them please me because only the bonafide freaks know what to do and usually those are players who have plowed through LOTS of women
But I still don’t like having to leave my vibrator like it’s forbidden access to when he decides ‘we’ can use it.
Grrrrrrrr
WendiStarr
08-24-2020, 07:11 AM
Timewasting men. Why oh why is the universe sending me all bored, broke, horny losers during the limited time I have available to cam? I'm beyond fed up with the free preview seekers and ones looking to chat about their lame ass fetishes for free. What used to be my best regular who would send $ is being a broke, timewasting p.o.s.
miss.a.p1600
08-24-2020, 08:35 AM
He has absolutely no right to do that, I think he is way too insecure and it borders on being unhealthy controlling.
Yeah I think I may put my foot down. Especially since I paid for it, that mine to do what I please. I donÂ’t think heÂ’s abusive controlling but yeah I do think heÂ’s insecure about me leaving him if he can’t please me sexually and so he’s trying to control this particular issue.
Why do some men act like this about a damn piece of metal?
What if the “forbidden” vibrator was the reason things ended between us.
I do think he would like to get me “dickmatized” over him lol! But I’ve never been dickmatized and honestly I’d take financial security over good dick any day.
carmen_b
08-24-2020, 06:40 PM
I'm so tired today. :(
I hope J isn't mad.
I only was at his place 1-2 hours and then went to my house sit to be alone ( I'm just pms-ing and miserable ).
We had a nice three day weekend and I just felt like I needed my own space so much and left him and daughter to themselves . Sometimes I feel guilty doing that because he has been so inclusive with me. His daughter is very sweet but it's impossible to work there . I know he has less productive days when she is there by carefully arranging his schedule for it but I couldn't spare many business hours today.
I just hope he makes this transition ok . My day job is getting busier. This person he knew only working like 20-30 hours a week is not really who I am.
This is bringing on an identity crisis because with my bills so low I actually *can* work part time right now but I feel like discussing that with anyone is not right. People can put their own personal biases on it and then your time can get claimed right away before YOU can even think about what you'd like!
miss.a.p1600
08-24-2020, 08:06 PM
L asked me if there was anything he could do better.
This was my chance to be honest about how I loathe when he acts extra cheap and when he makes this huge deal about not being able to please me sexually because I haven’t had a vaginal nor clitoral orgasm with him (aside from that one time with my vibrator)
I bitched out and didn’t tell the truth because I didn’t know how to express myself in a way that wouldn’t hurt his feelings.
AChildOfBoredom
08-25-2020, 02:45 AM
Having to wake up too fucking early in the morning. I should be used to it… I grew up on a farm, after all. I still hates it.
carmen_b
08-25-2020, 08:03 AM
Well I feel a lot better. :)
I think I just have one of those personalities that needs alone time.
Sometimes a 24 hour stretch of it can reset my attitude.
yaya_cash
08-25-2020, 02:05 PM
My step dad is so weird. He offered to pay my insurance. And then, I said I wanted to wait till I get other stuff taken care. Now he seems he doesn't want to do that anymore since I brought it up, again. I think he's being cheap. And he's all looking, staring, glancing at me. I try to just treat him like any cheap guy I deal with.
My mother acts like such a pickle, sometimes
miss.a.p1600
08-25-2020, 02:08 PM
I want a coffee n some weed but I know I’ll be up all damn night if I do this
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-25-2020, 07:07 PM
I want a coffee n some weed but I know I’ll be up all damn night if I do this
Man o man that sounds like an odd combo. Toking and coffee. I've never done that.
miss.a.p1600
08-25-2020, 09:37 PM
Man o man that sounds like an odd combo. Toking and coffee. I've never done that.
Hahaha - yeah I’m a weirdo
Every time I got my first batch of weed I’d grab a Rockstar sugar free energy drink then smoke whilst drinking some Rockstar and be up till 3am (or even longer .... a couple times I pulled 24+ hrs)
The rationale = very similar to why kids do whatever they can to stay up as long as they can - so they won’t miss anything. I felt like I had this nonstop flow of “genius” ideas when I would get high and didn’t want to stop the flow of creativity by going to sleep.
I loved staying up late at night when everyone was sleeping because I didn’t have any distractions whatsoever from the outside world.
Both the energy drink n the coffee have caffeine.
Kind of similar to people who drink liquor n snort coke. I never got the appeal of snorting coke. To me it felt like drinking an energy drink. So I just stick with my Rockstars. Maybe I didn’t snort enough lol
An upper to balance out the downer so to speak.
lurkingtitties
08-26-2020, 05:22 AM
Man o man that sounds like an odd combo. Toking and coffee. I've never done that.
Really? That combo was my go to before shifts at the club.
AChildOfBoredom
08-26-2020, 04:02 PM
“The Grizz” has been my mentor here from day one. I found out this morning that he’s retiring in a month. Which, I’m happy for him. I really am. As I should be. But I’m also really upset, and I didn’t do a stellar job in concealing it. I don’t feel like I have any right to be, which only makes it worse.
So yeah, I’m annoyed with myself for being such a child about this.
whirlerz
08-26-2020, 05:48 PM
Today the maintenance guy gave me an old camera & monitor to use, since Troll fucking tenant is walking around (he was seen on a Ring door bell neighbor has).
I also bought 2 signs, "24 hr security cameras in use"
Now, this fucker is smoking a nasty pipe, it's in house, as my bathroom has a vent, + stinks up the house too.
My neighbor told maintenance guy about him walking around.
I just texted him, & emailed landlord. I also told him about him hitting on me again, AND the girl upstairs.
PIG
We'll see probably won't do shit
AChildOfBoredom
08-26-2020, 07:10 PM
Maybe add a few of these signs?
https://libraryeuroparl.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/eprs-aag-542163-apmb-convention.png?w=300&h=199
WendiStarr
08-27-2020, 04:05 PM
I spent all this time cooking a nice dinner even though I didn't feel like it because it's 92 degrees and humid as heck outside and I'm irritable and pmsing. Bf was supposed to go pick up a boat engine 40 minutes away and come back home. I heard from him earlier and he said he made it to the place where he's picking up the engine and will call me when he was on the way home. His phone is going straight to voicemail now. I see that he didn't bring his phone charger or heart meds with him. It worries me because it's super hot out today and he has a heart condition. He should've been home almost 3 hours ago. Ugh. I feel like I need gps tracker on him and one of those Life Alert buttons.
Also, baby girl has started screeching whenever she doesn't get her way. She shrieked the entire time I was cooking because I put her in her high chair instead of holding her or putting her in the baby carrier sling. I didn't want to risk holding her while cooking and have her end up getting hurt.
miss.a.p1600
08-28-2020, 08:06 AM
Cotdamn it! I was supposed to meet a client in-home but now since L just got his positive coronavirus test - I’m going to have to redo that meeting to a virtual.
I feel fine but still I don’t want to create any unnecessary risks all for the sake of money. I’d rather wait till after I get a test tomorrow to have peace of mind before meet in person.
I don’t want to alarm my prospective clients so I don’t know if I should tell them the real reason I’m waiting to virtual meeting or just make something up?
kimbe
08-28-2020, 01:16 PM
I don’t want to alarm my prospective clients so I don’t know if I should tell them the real reason I’m waiting to virtual meeting or just make something up?
I would't tell them, as long as you get a negative test before you actually meet them, you're good. :)
miss.a.p1600
08-28-2020, 01:21 PM
^Yeah I don't think I'm going to mention the real reason because I think it will freak them out. And if I don't have it (I don't have any symptoms), then I may be oversharing. I guess I'll tell them I got stuck in traffic at another meeting 2 hours away or something and need meet remotely to stay on schedule.
I'm not able to get a test today (my meeting with them is today) I have to wait until tomorrow
miss.a.p1600
08-28-2020, 05:50 PM
^ maybe
But
If he pays for it (the title is in his name) then .... no, it is what it is
lynn2009
08-28-2020, 07:20 PM
It looks like the house I lost didn't sell for much more than my escalation clause went up to. Fucking assholes!!! It was much closer than I thought. :'( I didn't get expect to find out the selling price until closing but the listing was already updated.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-29-2020, 05:10 AM
It looks like the house I lost didn't sell for much more than my escalation clause went up to. Fucking assholes!!! It was much closer than I thought. :'( I didn't get expect to find out the selling price until closing but the listing was already updated.
awwww. Sorry that happened.
My slight petty annoyance- so we didn't get the place we wanted, BUT a property with more land, and with a BRAND NEW septic system. See, when you get older the superficial things about a house mean less and you start caring about how new the roof or septic system is. Those are the "grown up" concerns about a house to buy. lol
(I'm going to make the best of this situation, maybe redo the paint inside. I missed my calling as a house painter, it's one of my favorite things to do...)
miss.a.p1600
08-29-2020, 11:15 AM
Y’all I can’t right now.
L just went out to get some damn fries. Wtf?!?
He said I was making him “feel bad” for going out. He thinks wearing an N95 mask is going to make it better.
Mf!!!! You’re supposed to be on no less than 10 day quarantine
All because he doesn’t want to have to tip people to deliver.
His lackadaisical approach is probably how he got it in the first place. He went to the mall to get me a dress and I think that’s how he got it. Either that or the nail shop before our date.
Either way.
I’m going to have to be more forceful about the issue. He’s probably going to hate me for sounding like a bitchy drill Sargent but oh well.
Y’all this prime example of how mfs be out here sick with coronavirus, ignoring a quarantine, yet thinking Their fine to go out in public.
I wish we had a corona task enforcement that could test people and arrest them on site if they are out in public knowing they have it. I’m trying not to be a bitch but L should be arrested right now. I’m going to say he’s just ignorant and the providers either didn’t inform him of the quarantine or he didn’t read it or he’s just assuming “I’m fine I’ll just wear an n95”
chanzep
08-29-2020, 11:21 AM
Oh wow that would make me think twice about him.
Not staying in with COVID
Not tipping is a joke I couldn't.
I would be mad at him too.
miss.a.p1600
08-29-2020, 11:49 AM
Then he had the nice audacity to ask if I wanted him to bring me some of the fries.
Bruh!!! NO!!!.... You have a contagious virus and I want nothing until you have passed your quarantine period
miss.a.p1600
08-29-2020, 11:50 AM
Oh wow that would make me think twice about him.
Not staying in with COVID
Not tipping is a joke I couldn't.
I would be mad at him too.
Yeah I’m going to be more forceful about it when I talk to him tonight.
He said he would be hurt if me or his kids got infected because of him but I think his desire to get fries (he used to be overweight so maybe a strong food urge) is overriding his rational thinking.
I think he’s a bit ignorant about it too. Like a physician or someone should have informed him what to do after you test positive.
I’ll report back after my domineering
miss.a.p1600
08-29-2020, 11:56 AM
Thank heavens!!!!
I just got my test back
It’s negative
WendiStarr
08-29-2020, 12:01 PM
My pathetically desperate neighbor across the street. We live in a more upscale, conservative neighborhood. I moved to this area to avoid the Jerry Springer trailer trash crap but apparently it moved in across the street from me. Seriously, I think she watches by the window all day, looking for any man to show off to. I was out in bf's truck getting a baby toy out. She saw his truck door open and must've thought it was him because she positioned herself near by and bent over with her ass showing. Once she looked over her shoulder and saw it was me she went back inside her house. When bf got in his truck to go to the store, she came back outside right to where he was backing out and resumed her bent over pose and proceeded to moon him. I could see her ass and crotch from behind, everything. What the dumbass probably didn't realize is that my 10 year old daughter was in the passenger seat. I'm ready to report this trashy neighbor to police for indecent exposure. The problem is I don't know if LE would actually even do anything about it or take it seriously because trash neighbor is a white female.
miss.a.p1600
08-29-2020, 01:32 PM
^yeah if it’s low class they’ll take it seriously
But probably only with some discreetly taken evidence for hard proof
whirlerz
08-29-2020, 03:30 PM
Nasty^
My neighbor yells at me the other day, I was laying on my camp cot in the yard, my shorts rode up a bit.
They weren't super short, + I have undies on WTF.
She wanted me to go to a party w/her, her man's working. Told her my allergies bothering me, they are, but, uh, the pandemic?
Any way, I don't feel like being 'on' w/a bunch of people I don't know
Thanks