View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
moneybags
08-29-2020, 06:13 PM
My pathetically desperate neighbor across the street. We live in a more upscale, conservative neighborhood. I moved to this area to avoid the Jerry Springer trailer trash crap but apparently it moved in across the street from me. Seriously, I think she watches by the window all day, looking for any man to show off to. I was out in bf's truck getting a baby toy out. She saw his truck door open and must've thought it was him because she positioned herself near by and bent over with her ass showing. Once she looked over her shoulder and saw it was me she went back inside her house. When bf got in his truck to go to the store, she came back outside right to where he was backing out and resumed her bent over pose and proceeded to moon him. I could see her ass and crotch from behind, everything. What the dumbass probably didn't realize is that my 10 year old daughter was in the passenger seat. I'm ready to report this trashy neighbor to police for indecent exposure. The problem is I don't know if LE would actually even do anything about it or take it seriously because trash neighbor is a white female.
If you had a kid in the car they might. Suburban cops will take it seriously. That's seriously gross. I hope your daughter wasn't paying attention.
miss.a.p1600
08-29-2020, 10:47 PM
I’m trying not to get annoyed by his speech impediment
moneybags
08-30-2020, 12:22 AM
I’m trying not to get annoyed by his speech impediment
I have a hard time with bad communication. I get so annoyed. Of course I try to be nice, but I inside I’m like hurry up I’m busy!
miss.a.p1600
08-30-2020, 08:18 AM
Thank heavens!!!!
I just got my test back
It’s negative
I didn’t tell him I was going to get a test. He heard me leaving in my car when we were on the phone and asked where I was going.
I said “just running out I’ll be back”
I told him later that day that that’s what I was doing and he got a little offended.
I guess I’m not used to giving advanced play-by-play of my activities
I guess I lied?
carmen_b
08-30-2020, 08:38 AM
Wendi ,
This might be such bad sex worker Karma ( maybe so much that I wouldn't lol ) but you could always tell the cops you sense solicitation going on and men who are " coming and going " ect. !
I mean ..... an *actual* sex worker will 99.9% chance not be running around with her pussy hanging out for free ...... so this is just an idea lol .
WendiStarr
09-01-2020, 10:55 AM
^ Good point. Real sex workers would be more low key and not want to attract any attention to themselves at all. I used this. So far LE has drove by once and she has been hiding in her house since. I hope it stays working. Even better would be if she moved out. I talked to another neighbor who said that trashy neighbor is only a renter and "bad news, a rabble-rouser".
My petty annoyance is that my period still hasn't come. It's 2 weeks late. I've had the headaches, hot flashes, nausea, and cramping like I would during, just no blood. I've already ruled out pregnancy. The only thing I can think of is that breastfeeding is causing it to stay away. Ob/gyn said I might have to stop breastfeeding if I want normal periods that come on time, instead of this uncertainty. I feel like I want to feel normal again, yet at the same time I'd feel bad because baby has been breastfed since birth and the few times I've tried giving a bottle, she refused to take the bottle.
whirlerz
09-01-2020, 02:44 PM
Well, this fuckin B that lives by me..
She gave me some soup, (didn't ask/or want it).. then she kept asking me if I ate it (I didn't).
She also gave some to the guy on my floor, he said it was great, I told her that.
Then, she asked me for the bowl back, from the guy(like 4 X's::)), I assured her she'd get it.
He washed it, & I set it by her door.
This morning I get a nasty text, about her dollar store fuckin bowl, don't ever fucking set my bowl on the ground, blah, blah.
I put the soup she gave me, in a paper bowl, washed her Tupperware thing, put it in a plastic bag by her door, which she can SHOVE UP HER ASS!!!
I blocked her, (it says blacklist, they still go thru) so I'm looking for a block app.
& I really don't need this, I been having dermatitis on my eyelids, I just ordered some stuff for it.
I'm really tired, I saw a sign for rent, I may check it out.
Gotta GTFOH!
moneybags
09-01-2020, 03:14 PM
I tell people I am PT as my cover story. I am certified, but with the gyms closed I don’t see much point into building on that side hustle. A lot of people get excited to meet a PT cause they think they’ll get free help. I don’t mind helping my real friends , but most people just want my time for free. I need to set up a Venmo and tell them it’s like 60 hour for health coaching. I was too overwhelmed so I referred him to a friend, but I should get something set up so when someone asks for “help” i can just tell them my hourly rates. I don’t mind helping people, but after years of people taking advantage I have to be careful about who I give my time and energy away to
My annoyance is when people want time and energy for free.
chanzep
09-01-2020, 03:57 PM
[email protected] she sounds crazy
whirlerz
09-01-2020, 04:19 PM
[email protected] she sounds crazy
Aw you're so sweet to bother w/me!
So upset rn.
I just ordered this mascara, I wanted to do it on 4 payments (it's 50.90:O)..
I got all messed up, I thought they were shipping it to the wrong address, now they canceled the order, so I ordered it directly from the company.. I got 10.00 off for 1st time order, but they added 5.00 on for shipping ::)
I had it sent to my storage, not trusting these idiots here.
I took my big yucca inside, & my 2 cacti, can't trust them outside either , it's cooler & raining anyway
whirlerz
09-02-2020, 02:14 AM
Well, back again.
The electrical went out, in half of my room, the side my a/c unit is on>:(. I tried w/a power strip to plug it in another outlet, nope.>:(
It's not the fuse box either.
I have fans going, but..
Now the maintenance guy's going to have to come in here, my room's a cluster fuck. I've been moving stuff out of the way (somewhat) & trying to straighten up, but eh.
Now I've a headache & I need to go to bed, if I can sleep
kimbe
09-02-2020, 06:09 AM
^
I’m sorry to hear about your housing issues, from living with potential lunatics and tech issues. I’m sure you don’t deserve this!
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-02-2020, 06:12 AM
Well, back again.
The electrical went out, in half of my room, the side my a/c unit is on>:(. I tried w/a power strip to plug it in another outlet, nope.>:(
It's not the fuse box either.
I have fans going, but..
Now the maintenance guy's going to have to come in here, my room's a cluster fuck. I've been moving stuff out of the way (somewhat) & trying to straighten up, but eh.
Now I've a headache & I need to go to bed, if I can sleep
Have you thought about renting from a senior citizen? The often have rooms to spare.....& Despite the stereotype many older people are self-sufficient and have pleasant personalities. Just an idea. They also favor early bedtimes.
whirlerz
09-02-2020, 07:04 AM
Yes, I was talking to one on next door neighbor. com, he wanted a college student.
I don't care who it is just tired of this bs. Thanks..
. Maintenance guy's on his way, at least he was an hour ago
I'm going to go write down the # I saw.
BambiCutie
09-02-2020, 07:59 AM
Being called a fucking dumbass, useless and other names makes me realize just how much this marriage needs to end. I cannot give him what he wants and the depression is so incredibly strong that I can hardly sleep, eat or function properly. I don't want to use him, do things behind his back, but I have reached the point of no return. Plus getting this SM profile fully approved has been an absolute nightmare! (If its not one thing, its another)
I need this account to be approved, but it seems impossible at times. They say that I need to fill out my profile information, but I sincerely doubt that will end in an approval, because with my first account I was able to fill out this information after approval. Now they want every, single thing finished in order to be approved. (Update) Finished the profile quickly, really hope this will be fully approved!
whirlerz
09-02-2020, 08:10 AM
Aw. I hope you can get sorted, hon.
I lived w/that shit, still do (my neighbor). I can & do ignore, + block.
Hope you can get approved.
ravenskyy
09-03-2020, 07:10 AM
First morning shift in awhile. I've been on for like 30 mins and someone has to come into my room on SM and greet me with "Hey *n word*" (with an A). Banned and flipped off, real quick! I'm so tired of being black sometimes.
whirlerz
09-03-2020, 07:09 PM
Some people are so ignorant ^!
The one roomie I was having trouble w/ was kicked out of another house (same landlord) for bothering blacks..
The one guy here, got pissed cause he mentioned the slurs he called them, this guy he told has a 1/2 black son!
I can tell the boy feels uncomfortable around him. He's a doll tho.
I have to be up to take in my car tomorrow @ 6:30am :(
EastCoastDancer01
09-03-2020, 08:45 PM
I tried getting an online spell casting done on this one website (all good stuff!), and the guy who did it sends me my report which is very short, no explanation of how he did the work or pics/proof, nothing...just that he cast it successfully and it went well. He then tells me to private message him about things he saw when he did the work...I just messaged him thanking him for doing the work, and he proceeds to tell me that he got this weird energy and that I have a lot of "darkness and dark energy" surrounding me. That it was really bad, and he wanted to let me know "before it escalates" and that most time I wont even notice it, because it's more than physical. Um, WTF! I did not respond and I'm not going to. Should I report him? I didn't give him any specific identifying information and the website is safe and he cant access any of my info...but he's obviously a scammer and why would he just tell me that without even offering to help and if it's not relevant to what I came to him for?!
moneybags
09-04-2020, 12:26 AM
First morning shift in awhile. I've been on for like 30 mins and someone has to come into my room on SM and greet me with "Hey *n word*" (with an A). Banned and flipped off, real quick! I'm so tired of being black sometimes.
I’m so sorry. I love black women. If I was a lesbian I would definitely marry a black woman. Fuck racism.
whirlerz
09-04-2020, 05:54 AM
First morning shift in awhile. I've been on for like 30 mins and someone has to come into my room on SM and greet me with "Hey *n word*" (with an A). Banned and flipped off, real quick! I'm so tired of being black sometimes.
You're so Gorj!.
When I cammed (which I now don't), I got shit for being old, I mean really bad sometimes..
My point being, they always find something
whirlerz
09-04-2020, 06:09 AM
Well, it's waay too f'n early, here I am @ the stupid dealership, to get a lousy sun visor put back on (2 roomies did it, but it fell off twice.) Not to mention BIG mouth B talking Loud outside my window @ 5am?
Half blinded driving here. I need an oil change, so that's on too. They don't know if the visors covered under warranty?::)
Of course, I pay for oc. 50.>:(
&, Why doesn't anyone know their co.'s wifi code::)?
Gross men in waiting room, most not in masks? >:(
So I'm outside..
.
Now I have to move, smoker near by>:(
Ooh! Found a cute outdoor deck, no one here but me, no gross men or smokers.
If that lady sucked Dik like she smokes, she'd b $$$}:D
carmen_b
09-05-2020, 10:34 AM
You handled it right !
I tell people I am PT as my cover story. I am certified, but with the gyms closed I don’t see much point into building on that side hustle. A lot of people get excited to meet a PT cause they think they’ll get free help. I don’t mind helping my real friends , but most people just want my time for free. I need to set up a Venmo and tell them it’s like 60 hour for health coaching. I was too overwhelmed so I referred him to a friend, but I should get something set up so when someone asks for “help” i can just tell them my hourly rates. I don’t mind helping people, but after years of people taking advantage I have to be careful about who I give my time and energy away to
My annoyance is when people want time and energy for free.
whirlerz
09-05-2020, 11:33 AM
Well, my 1 FedX order's already @ my storage, (from further origin point::)) the other was enroute (in the general area), supposedly to arrive today, now pushed back to tomorrow? >:(
I want my fancy mascara, damn it!
Selina M
09-05-2020, 10:04 PM
Stupid exam I need to take has 'zones' for registration and rescheduling. It says it's up until 11:59 local time on X day. I just convinced myself to get the damn thing over with and went to register for the one next week at 10 pm local time & the date is gone. Wtf!
This is largely my fault for procrastinating due to fear of not scoring high enough, but still, why have that written as your policy if it's not legit. Fuck me. Guess I have an extra 15 days to drag it out on... right as I'll have to be going back to work and shit...
whirlerz
09-05-2020, 10:37 PM
This IDIOT roomie, drilling some drawer handle in the kitchen (soo important ::)) , slamming cabinet doors, (11pm?) the other guy came out & asked him to do it tomorrow, as it's late..
He said he was almost done, which I told him "No, you're done now , people are going to bed!"
"I didn't look at the time". Well, look, m/f.
Plus he woke me this afternoon (my allergies make me tired) to ask me where some fucking sponges where?? ::)
whirlerz
09-06-2020, 09:25 AM
Fuck fedx. Said my package would be delivered yesterday , now they're saying today?
The storage guy said they usually don't deliver on Sunday, (& especially Labor day tomorrow) it's in the area, out for delivery..
I'm just concerned, the place does have a wide mail slot, but who's to say they won't set it down outside (which they've previously done, at a business addy). PIA
miss.a.p1600
09-06-2020, 11:42 AM
L got really pissy and rushed me off the phone all because I said I had an hour of free time and needed to clean (when in his mind, I should have been seeing him)
Fine. Whatever.
whirlerz
09-06-2020, 12:19 PM
I guess I'm just not meant to get my fancy mascara..
First ordered it thru Violet Grey, a beauty co.
Thought the ship to address was wrong, I said not to ship it there, but they cancelled..
So I put thru an order thru Surratt itself, they gave me 10% off 1st order, shipping fed x, (5.00 charge).
It was to have been delivered yesterday, now, pushed to today.. going to my storage, which the guy there says they very rarely deliver on Sun.
I know it's a holiday, but FFS I got a shipment (different co, same shipper Fedx) it came from further away, it's been there 2 days now!
I called & cancelled the delivery, which can't be guaranteed. Told them if it gets set outside the door,(happened before) I'm not paying for it.
Of course, the company is closed til Tue.
Wrote them 5 nasty emails, they can kiss my ass;
chanzep
09-06-2020, 02:45 PM
I need a new vacuum because my old one died. I have been reading reviews online and going crazy. I have a cat so I need a good one. These reviews are so conflicting.
whirlerz
09-06-2020, 03:20 PM
I need a new vacuum because my old one died. I have been reading reviews online and going crazy. I have a cat so I need a good one. These reviews are so conflicting.
Yeah, there's always someone who doesn't like something, or maybe they had a bad experience too..
I ordered a pocket knife, it had rave reviews, I however, could not close it, maybe being left handed.. Are you looking on Amazon?
So my neighbor (house behind me) isn't speaking, not a problem, but worried about my mail disappearing, my plants that are outside..
I put in a change of address, to go to my newer po box. I can also put a hold on my mail (last time it didn't go thru, tho, they delivered here any way) .
Just worried cause I have an ebay order for over 100. coming.
WendiStarr
09-06-2020, 03:58 PM
My mom is so damn petty. It annoys me. She starts fights over the most pointless things. I posted a selfie of the kids and I outside in the backyard. She wanted to know who took the picture. I thought it was pretty obvious that I did, judging by the crappy angle that cut my head off in the picture. She thought my boyfriend took the picture. I told her that he was gone, up north until tomorrow(he really is!). She didn't believe me and said that I'm lying and he must be home because there's no way I could've taken that picture myself. Um? Why would I lie and say that he's gone when he's at home? That makes no sense. I think age + menopause is making my mom act even more ridiculous than usual or something.
miss.a.p1600
09-06-2020, 04:37 PM
I’ve been having a rough week (work and otherwise) and I just want to be alone
But it’s the weekend (a holiday weekend) and L is in a pissy mood that I’m not jumping to be with him this holiday/weekend/end of his isolation
I don’t know if this is my fault or his (his for having what seems like kind of high expectations)
chanzep
09-06-2020, 04:49 PM
I thought he has the virus? Anyway put yourself first alone time is essential.
Anyway I think I will get a vacuum on Amazon none of the ones I like are in stock around me. My next place will not have carpet in anywhere apart from in the bedrooms . I hate it!
whirlerz
09-06-2020, 04:53 PM
Ms P. He sounds clingy AF. J/s. Me personally, I need my space
moneybags
09-06-2020, 08:58 PM
I know this is petty annoyances, but I’m angry at the virus being politicized. This shouldn't be a political issue. I made a post, but I deleted. The last thing I want is for there to be in group fighting between us-no bueno. I’m so over it the virus and the politics.
i thought about doing primal scream therapy. Basically you go out in the middle of
no where and yell and scream. Sounds awesome.
miss.a.p1600
09-06-2020, 10:00 PM
Ms P. He sounds clingy AF. J/s. Me personally, I need my space
LOL.....he’s definitely more sentimental n whatnot than me
I thought he has the virus? Anyway put yourself first alone time is essential.
Anyway I think I will get a vacuum on Amazon none of the ones I like are in stock around me. My next place will not have carpet in anywhere apart from in the bedrooms . I hate it!
yeah he’s been in isolation for the recommended time so he’s out now and ..... horny I guess. Which I suppose some people get irritable when they’ve gone x amount of days without sex.
And I’m not really in the mood so .... yeah
Aurora_Sunset
09-07-2020, 03:26 PM
I can't find free weights anywhere. There must be an issue with the supply chain regarding exercise equipment. All Targets/Walmarts are out/bare-bones. And Amazon can't even tell me when they will be in stock.
Jucie
09-07-2020, 03:28 PM
I can't find free weights anywhere. There must be an issue with the supply chain regarding exercise equipment. All Targets/Walmarts are out/bare-bones. And Amazon can't even tell me when they will be in stock.
People are working out at home due to corona..
moneybags
09-08-2020, 10:10 AM
I can't find free weights anywhere. There must be an issue with the supply chain regarding exercise equipment. All Targets/Walmarts are out/bare-bones. And Amazon can't even tell me when they will be in stock.
Try weights you buy online and fill with water. E-bay? Wish?
I'm annoyed at virtue signaling. I've never felt the need to brag about how woke I am. I'm sure I've done it too-unconsciously.
kimbe
09-08-2020, 02:47 PM
Try weights you buy online and fill with water. E-bay? Wish?
Or better, fill them with sand. Makes them heavier without the increased size of an equally heavy weight filled with water.
carmen_b
09-08-2020, 03:15 PM
I'm so full of annoyance today.
I got an email from health insurance saying some sort of form was missing from 2018 ?
Of course it means a threat of price increase. I honestly don't even understand what they need ( I imagine I probably need to pay a tax penalty or something ....I don't think I had insurance that year ).
It's an ongoing goal / ongoing issue it seems to keep myself insured and I guess the struggle is continuing as always.
carmen_b
09-08-2020, 03:22 PM
NO QUOTING PLEASE MAY REMOVE MOST LATER.
I took a 1/2 tab of acid last Sunday and I really enjoyed myself in J's pool BUT then I had a very dark visualization occur .
I saw myself really clearly at the bottom of a well drowning and my ex was just staring down at me from the top of the well. It was very scary . I know I still carry anger at him for abandoning me AND for not really helping me much when I was depressed. I realized during the trip though that he isn't a mental health pro and probably may have been " too close " himself to assist much. I don't think he realized what bad shape I was in and I didn't either until MUCH later ( like a year after he left ).
I was also experiencing some frustration because I felt " outside my body " during the SEX ! Like ....I know I got my pussy licked really well and came but I kind of spaced off and don't remember the sex that much which I feel sad about now lol.
I guess one upside was that the day seemed to streeeettcccchhh out . It really did feel like about 2-3 days in the 12 hour span of Noon to Midnight. It kind of occurred to me though that I didn't really *want* to take it. It was more like J was hinting about it and I just didn't know how else to suggest we fill that Sunday which is kind of just sad. I don't feel like he indulges too much overall ( only once a month ) but it might be time for a couple months off entirely for me.
carmen_b
09-08-2020, 03:46 PM
^ I think I will return to therapy to go over some of these things.
I just can't seem to fully let things go in regards to that relationship ending. I felt like I gave up so much to hold it together ( mainly travel which I guess I can still do since I still have the $$ for ) . Then I just get dumped aside. ;/
I might need a therapy " refresh "
whirlerz
09-08-2020, 05:14 PM
Try weights you buy online and fill with water. E-bay? Wish?
Aurora, try Goodwill, or thrift shop? I'm on next door neighbor. com, they sell stuff like that there, as well as other stuff.
Or ebay.
miss.a.p1600
09-08-2020, 06:43 PM
LOL.....he’s definitely more sentimental n whatnot than me
yeah he’s been in isolation for the recommended time so he’s out now and ..... horny I guess. Which I suppose some people get irritable when they’ve gone x amount of days without sex.
And I’m not really in the mood so .... yeah
so L is not acting all pissy like he was before.
idk if that means he called up one of his exes and got some from them or not.
i don’t know why I care n if I should be pissed or if I should thank the alleged broad for taking the pressure off me.
ravenskyy
09-09-2020, 08:49 AM
I was part of a FB sex worker group. Won't be making that mistake again. Holy shit, people can be so fucked up to you for no reason.
I offered this woman advice and she did nothing but be stank towards me and acted like she was better than me. And SHE asked for the advice. Then she tried to make it seem like I was upset about the topic and tried to make me out to be the bad guy.
Omfg. I've never dealt with such a manipulative, narcissistic c*nt before. Just wow. Her behavior? Not Normal! Fucking psycho!
On top of that, she was the page Admin! Nope. Left that group reeeaaal quick! Lmfao
WendiStarr
09-09-2020, 09:00 AM
The vanilla covid-tracing job. The trainer/supervisor said we'd be off on that day, while the other trainer sent a message that we we were required to work 4 hours on Monday morning. Because I didn't work the 4 hours on Monday that I didn't know about, they decided to lock me out for the rest of the week so that I can't work this week, as punishment. I don't understand vanilla employers and their bs. I'm an independent contractor, not even an employee and they claimed we could make our own schedule and work whenever we want to, as long as it's no more than 25 hours. I'm thinking I should keep looking for another vanilla job in the mean time.
chanzep
09-09-2020, 09:15 AM
I was going to apply for that job but forgot in the end. I do need a new job all these work from home call centers are bs .
I just got my Hoover vacuum from Amazon and it doesn't pick up!. I am so annoyed $200 for nothing. I called Hoover and they were like take it to a service center!. No thanks that's long. I called Amazon and UPS will pick it up. I am so disappointed this model has great reviews smh. My last vacuum was cheap and lasted 2 years in tempted to get another one.
carmen_b
09-09-2020, 09:24 AM
I thought I had a 2nd house on my house sit schedule. :/
I heard it was closing this weekend but now it’s mid week and I haven’t heard anything. It’s very nice so I obviously want to stay but also I’m worried because I need to photograph and list on vrbo for the owners and have no updates on it. I don't want to be a pest but I need to know that timing to hold open for the project.