View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
09-17-2020, 09:38 AM
^ That is so horrible . Can you set a boundary and cut them off ? Because ..... even GOOD money sometimes isn't worth the abuse you know ?
What they are doing is NOT ok.
JGB2009
09-17-2020, 10:00 AM
I'm so fucking tired of racism! I'm tired of working in an industry where white men think it's ok to ask me if I would help them cum, while they call me the n word or any other disgusting racial slur. I'm so sick of it! I just want to be treated equally. Ask to see my tits or ass! Call me a dirty slut! Whatever. I'm so tired of men thinking that it's ok to call me a "monkey" or a "jungle savage". I just want to punch a fucking wall! Or a racist!
And I can't even tell my husband about some of the shit that I put up with, because he's white and these things make him sick. And it's embarrassing! I'm taking the rest of the day off from cam. I'm pretty sure that I'm gonna end up losing my shit on someone, if things don't start getting better.
So sorry to hear all of that. Make boundaries. Be firm and show them who is boss. Plus block who ever is necessary to block.
chanzep
09-17-2020, 10:10 AM
Those men are disgusting and they should shut the fuck up. I hope your day gets better.
whirlerz
09-17-2020, 11:51 AM
Case in point: this a/hole roomie is racist too, he's as fucked as they come..
IDK if it was him or the other guy, left 2 gas stove burner on, (no flame) the house stunk of gas, & dangerous AF.
I texted the maintenance guy about it.
Now he just knocked & asked me for some fucking gloves he'd given me, that I didn't want or ask for!! Don't give me shit I don't want, then ask for it back, M/F>:(!
His pig ass leaves garbage outside the front door, it's like 10 steps to the dumpster! Tonight the animals will rip open the bag, garbage everywhere
He broke the kitchen table, IDK what he was doing to it, one of the legs was turned a bit, could'nt leave it the fuck alone tho.
Now we have no kitchen table.
kimbe
09-17-2020, 01:06 PM
I'm so fucking tired of racism! I'm tired of working in an industry where white men think it's ok to ask me if I would help them cum, while they call me the n word or any other disgusting racial slur. I'm so sick of it! I just want to be treated equally. Ask to see my tits or ass! Call me a dirty slut! Whatever. I'm so tired of men thinking that it's ok to call me a "monkey" or a "jungle savage". I just want to punch a fucking wall! Or a racist!
And I can't even tell my husband about some of the shit that I put up with, because he's white and these things make him sick. And it's embarrassing! I'm taking the rest of the day off from cam. I'm pretty sure that I'm gonna end up losing my shit on someone, if things don't start getting better.
While I'm not surprised, it's of course totally unacceptable that you have to experience this kind of shit.
AChildOfBoredom
09-17-2020, 02:36 PM
van
Something about guys with vans I think isn’t to be trusted
53453
They bought a Chevy Sonic for the equestrian center manager to drive around in. I hope she likes it, as she’s here on a work visa, doesn’t own a car, and takes the car home with her. To give you an idea, the Sonic is replacing a Chevette that she had to use until yesterday. But want me to install a radio in it and there’s really no fucking space for one, unless I take like a TK-8180 or 8360 and install a remote kit and do it that way.
Elle:)
09-17-2020, 04:07 PM
I have a headache and my dogs have been so annoying today.
miss.a.p1600
09-17-2020, 09:39 PM
L is pissing me off
He’s trying to guess what I want for a special holiday.
I told him I had an amazon wish list and he’s like “oh it just sounds like you want some money”
Bruh! Thanks for the guilt
If I wanted money I’d just ask for money. And besides what’s wrong with money as a gift on a holiday?
Like if you want to get me a gift just let me show you exactly what I want and not simply to guess then it be something I don’t like.
I plan on sending my amazon wish list anyways lol
miss.a.p1600
09-18-2020, 06:36 AM
I hate men right now.
First of all isn’t there a male birth control?
Secondly ask 100 men would they take a pill If the side effects include weight gain, mood swings, acne, nausea, etc (the less severe ones that women experience) and I promise you a majority of them will say no.
Their asses should be the ones pumping hormones and dealing with side effects
miss.a.p1600
09-18-2020, 12:14 PM
Part of our “argument” is him getting me some sunglasses from his work.
Only downside is he told me he got them for free from and the company was about to discard them.
I mentioned to him that I didn’t need to know that because psychologically it lessens the value and he could have just presented them to me without those details if that’s how he got them. He seemed to get offended and said
Oh is it because they were free and I didn’t spend money on them?
I said no. Simply leave some mystery sometimes (I know he doesn’t make a grand salary right now so I appreciate when he spends on me or provides for me in alignment with his budget) I don’t need to know you got it on sale or for free.
I don’t know if he was listening to what I was saying but I’m now noticing his petty remarks about my Amazon wish list that I only mentioned to him when he claimed to not know what I like/what to get me for this upcoming holiday
AChildOfBoredom
09-18-2020, 08:55 PM
Wore a wireless bra when I should’ve worn a sports bra or at least a racerback. With the tow truck job, I normally drive a Freightliner which has air ride suspension, an air rode cab, and an air ride seat. Pretty smooth, all in all. Today I was in a Ford F650, where everything was spring ride. It can dole out quite a beating.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-19-2020, 08:32 AM
Wore a wireless bra when I should’ve worn a sports bra or at least a racerback. With the tow truck job, I normally drive a Freightliner which has air ride suspension, an air rode cab, and an air ride seat. Pretty smooth, all in all. Today I was in a Ford F650, where everything was spring ride. It can dole out quite a beating.
awww owww lol.
Pissy annoyance- my bum gallbladder, why u hurt me so...
WendiStarr
09-19-2020, 08:34 AM
I'm annoyed with Secretary of State, City Clerk, or whoever is fucking up my voter registration. Back in early March I went in person (pandemic hadn't hit area yet) to renew my license, change my address, and I registered to vote too. I distinctly remember filling out the form and handing it to the guy at S.O.S. I figured all was good until back in May when I received a letter from the city clerk about noticing that my address was changed and to call to confirm so that I could have an absentee ballot sent. I called her to tell her that yes, my address had changed and gave her the correct address. She assured me that the ballot would be sent to the correct address. In July I received an application in the mail for voter registration. I checked and sure enough it didn't show me as registered to vote. Then today I received a letter forwarded from my old address to make sure I register to vote. I checked and I'm somehow still not registered to vote, despite doing so in person back in March and mailing an application back in July. Wtf??
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-19-2020, 08:35 AM
I'm annoyed with Secretary of State, City Clerk, or whoever is fucking up my voter registration. Back in early March I went in person (pandemic hadn't hit area yet) to renew my license, change my address, and I registered to vote too. I distinctly remember filling out the form and handing it to the guy at S.O.S. I figured all was good until back in May when I received a letter from the city clerk about noticing that my address was changed and to call to confirm so that I could have an absentee ballot sent. I called her to tell her that yes, my address had changed and gave her the correct address. She assured me that the ballot would be sent to the correct address. In July I received an application in the mail for voter registration. I checked and sure enough it didn't show me as registered to vote.
That happened to me once, years ago. Most likely it's a clerical error.......
chanzep
09-19-2020, 01:57 PM
So my leggings randomly spilt on my ass!. I'm at home but still. They are a large size too.
whirlerz
09-19-2020, 02:14 PM
I think some of them (most?) are cheaply made..I've had a few pairs go bad.^
So, the town gave our landlord citations..for the 2 clunker (non-functional) vehicles the one guy has..
I thought he was going to put 1 in the woods next to our pkg lot, but no..now our lot's full, God ::)forbid anyone comes over, there's NO parking anywhere around here>:( .Not to mention , he has a
3rd vehicle that actually works.
Also, the little house got a citation for something, idk what. $-hungry county.
They (county employees ) wanted to know how many people live in the house I'm in. The lady in the little house told them she didn't know, which was good.
Our landlord assured us that bc of the Covid, we wouldn't be forced out, but I kinda doubt that.;(
Weird guy's still here, staying another week::), Riiiight.
ravenskyy
09-19-2020, 02:17 PM
^ That is so horrible . Can you set a boundary and cut them off ? Because ..... even GOOD money sometimes isn't worth the abuse you know ?
What they are doing is NOT ok.
Boundaries have been set for awhile now. The problem is that these men don't respect them. My ads say "No raceplay!", and I'm clear that I will block you if you ask, and they STILL ask. 2020 has made this whole issue soooooo much worse. I feel like I'm getting asked for this more often now. Ugh. I hate this planet.
My petty annoyance for today is credit scores. No matter what I do, I can't get those bitches to move up. 1 point here and there. That's it! I'm doing everything right and nothings working. I've had debt removed and my freaking scores dropped. Like how!? Why!? >:(
Elektra Luxx
09-19-2020, 03:18 PM
My face and my chest are breaking out and I'm not sure why. I've got this one painful cyst like zit on my chest and it hurts. I'm not even sure why I'm breaking out.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-20-2020, 07:08 AM
So my leggings randomly spilt on my ass!. I'm at home but still. They are a large size too.
Ugh terrible.
My petty annoyance- have to grocery shop tonight, ugh.
miss.a.p1600
09-20-2020, 08:30 AM
Ok so I had sex with L with a mask on lol.
He was in isolation recently and I’m on self quarantine right now so rather than wait till after my quarantine/possible isolation then wait even more after my period he suggested do it now but wear a mask.
Only downside is ..... it’s awkward as hell. You can’t kiss and he kept trying to gaze into my eyes n shit
The good thing is ...... you have an excuse not to give head not to kiss if you don’t like it.
Elektra Luxx
09-20-2020, 10:05 AM
I hate group projects, I just want this next week of group project + presentation (oh god I'm dreading the fact that I have to present this shit, I don't have the ability to single handedly fix all of it before the deadline) to be over already.
I always dreaded group projects because there was always at least one person who didn't pull their weight.
Elektra Luxx
09-20-2020, 02:34 PM
Another annoyance. I just went to the store to cash in on a gift coupon that was sent to me in the mail it was for some chocolate. It turns out when I got there the coupon was for another store in the same chain so I ended up buying the damn chocolate at full price, but what bothers me even more is the cashier asking when I tried using the coupon/gift card whether it was mine or if I found it in the store. Wtf? What kind of question is that?
That's frickin rude! I hate rude people.
indiegirl
09-20-2020, 09:32 PM
Ok so I had sex with L with a mask on lol.
He was in isolation recently and I’m on self quarantine right now so rather than wait till after my quarantine/possible isolation then wait even more after my period he suggested do it now but wear a mask.
Only downside is ..... it’s awkward as hell. You can’t kiss and he kept trying to gaze into my eyes n shit
The good thing is ...... you have an excuse not to give head not to kiss if you don’t like it.
Oh god. This is bringing me flashbacks of having sex with someone while they were wearing TWO masks a month ago. Needless to say, I was not turned on. haha.
Tried to go in for the kiss and remembered he was wearing masks. Felt so robotic.
WendiStarr
09-21-2020, 07:04 AM
When guys slide in to your messages on your vanilla social media account, asking for a picture of you. I do not post bikini or otherwise sexy pictures at all on my vanilla account. I get annoyed on my camgirl account when they ask for pictures because there's already tons of teaser pictures on there. If they want to see more, they have to buy it. But my vanilla account? I prefer to keep my vanilla account tame because I'm using it to promote my vanilla side business. I wasn't expecting to be bothered with that crap on there, too. Gtfoh!
BambiCutie
09-21-2020, 10:44 AM
This woman contacts me about something I'm selling asking if I would be willing to donate.
I respond "Sure, but I need the donation website to confirm or a receipt of past donation." (Others have done so with no problem)
She sends me some woman's work page for sales and I ask once again, "I need a donation website to confirm or a receipt of past donation."
Claims she doesn't have the receipt and thinks that I feel she is a scammer (Well now that you mentioned it..::)) and wishes me well selling.
30 minutes pass and she messages me again whining about how she provided me information and how I just needed to contact her.
(Again..repeating the same thing) "I apologize, but I need the donation website to confirm or a receipt of past donation."
She then claims that the organization doesn't provide public information to protect people, same goes for receipts. (/:O Not True)
Then she tells me the contact info is her friend who has been through (Sob). Then tells me her relative is an officer. (Obvious Threat and Intimidation :rotfl:)
I thank her for their services and apologize for her frustration then repeat "I need the donation website to confirm or a receipt of past donation."
She then goes off on me and says "I don't think your apology is sincere, obviously this info is private and blah, blah, my friend is, blah, blah, Officer, wah, wah, wah!! You don't need this info!" (::))
*BLOCK*
There is no getting through to thick headed people, who don't take to rules and conditions very well.
Also didn't appreciate her sleigh attempt to threaten and intimidate, in order to get her way.
This is the definition of a KAREN, that make working customer service miserable!
They don't know when to SHUT THE FUCK UP!
Also want to say that I have nothing against officers and look very highly to them and those that serve this Country.
However, I do not appreciate being threatened or intimidated and my Domme/Bitchy side comes out very quickly if people pull this shit.
You may as well throw yourself on the floor of a grocery store and cry about not getting what you want, because it won't work with me.
WendiStarr
09-21-2020, 06:20 PM
I'm having a bad anxiety attack out of nowhere and instead of trying to help me or make me feel better, boyfriend is yelling at me. If this isn't a clear sign that we don't need to be together I don't know what is.
He ended up apologizing after I left the room and gave him the silent treatment.
chanzep
09-21-2020, 06:43 PM
That's horrible Wendi, I know the feeling and it's the worst.
yaya_cash
09-21-2020, 08:07 PM
No, it's mine - in my name, and he threatened to disable it because I haven't been using it and there isn't insurance on it. (I was waiting for him to put it on since he offered before.)
I'm thinking I need to stay away from him, and I'm not even his wife and he's not taking care of / providing for me. So I don't know what he's deal is and seemingly being aggressive / controlling-
Update:
He's resentful of me-
moneybags
09-22-2020, 04:48 PM
I'm super stressed out. I got a squirting dildo that doesn't squirt. I had to call the store and they said no returns. Which I understand, but I literally called the next day and I didn't use it. I wanted to make sure it worked before getting on cam and it didn't. Anyways, I was just pissed the store I bought my dildo wasn't more helpful. I hate getting bad customer service. Not many things make me lose my shit like piss poor customer service.
I'm too stressed out. It's just the straw that broke the camels back today. In the grand scheme of things it's nothing to get pissy about.
Aurora_Sunset
09-22-2020, 04:50 PM
Over a month into Whole30. Nightshades aren't forbidden on the diet, but I cut them for the first 30 days anyway because I suspected a sensitivity to them. And when I say "sensitivity," I just thought they would make me bloat.
Turns out, upon testing, that they are wholly responsible for the chest rash I've always had, the acne that wouldn't go away, my perpetual excess mucus production - in addition to mild diarrhea and a nauseated/anxious feeling after eating too many in one sitting.
This whole damn time, the ONE food I was most looking forward to post-diet was FRENCH FRIES. But I guess fuck me and the nightshade intolerance I just discovered after almost 32 years of life. -_- On the one hand, I am thrilled to discover that I can have clear skin and an unplugged sinus, but this sucks. I like all the foods in that family.
miss.a.p1600
09-22-2020, 08:36 PM
L is pissing me off saying he now has to take his kids extra days
Like bruh! Just pay the Bertha broad some child support and let her do it.
WendiStarr
09-23-2020, 09:29 AM
never mind
whirlerz
09-24-2020, 01:06 PM
Aw, what hun?^
So.
Bitch lady in the little house behind me..
The one roomie owed me $, I know he got a check (he told me)..so I asked him for it back, I have to pay 158.for license plate sticker (more if I get it from currency exchange).
She had been.bitching & moaning about 3.lousy.$'s. he owes her, so I put it in an envelope & gave to her man to give her.
I told roomie about it..
Well, she decided to bitch me out about it, bc it's her BUSINESS, & 'I shouldn't get involved'::)
I told her I was just trying to be helpful, he ,& I were busy cleaning up,.+ He told me he forgot, he's been out of work, trying to get MRI etc.
What.the.actual.fuck???
Bitch, don't ever talk to me again, EVER!!!
I told her, sorry, bye, have a nice day.
Btw, it was her mouth that partially caused our/her blg to get a violation!
C*NT.
JEEEZ:O
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-25-2020, 02:09 AM
Petty annoyance- painful bruises from moving boxes and furniture around. I also busted my toenail trying to dismantle my computer desk. Ow
WendiStarr
09-25-2020, 06:14 AM
I woke up to a news article about my best friend of 30 years. Apparently she and her teenage daughter were caught trying to smuggle drugs in to prison. I feel angry and sad. I haven't talked to her in a year. The last I did talk to her, I was trying to get her to move in with me, hoping I could get her off the drugs. I'm a Pisces and have a habit of trying to save people. In her mugshot she looks like meth has gotten to her. She's likely to spend many years in prison since she is a repeat offender and makes me sad that her daughter has already learned a life of crime. I feel bad for her 4 other kids and hope that relatives take them in because foster care isn't a good place for children.
Also, I made a grocery order for pickup. My boyfriend jumped on the opportunity to pick it up but came back without the groceries. He forgot, yet had no trouble remembering to buy his weed. Smh! Now I'm on hold with customer service to see if I can pick them up at a later time or get a refund.
miss.a.p1600
09-25-2020, 06:57 AM
^thats unfortunate
reminds me of this documentary series I saw on YouTube about the streetwalker/drug addict. Pretty lady in her 20's or 30's but you could tell life was going to hit her hard because her mom was a streetwalker also and looked rough af.
Sad to see family dynamics play out in a way that pulls them deeper into a state of despair
whirlerz
09-25-2020, 11:09 AM
Wendi, I'm like you, I always try to be helpful..
I asked the one roomie on my floor, to ask guy upstairs to please move at least one of his (non-running ) trucks back into the woods, since the B is going to call the city/cops/who/ev to get them towed, or get him in trouble
He's already talked to landlord, so no.:(
We have a new guy moving in, so again w/the parking concerns
Daniellaa
09-26-2020, 12:45 AM
Taco Bell got rid of their Mexican Pizza whattttttt?????!?? I'm pissed I loved that stupid thing I've been eating it my whole life.
Selina M
09-26-2020, 12:56 AM
My SO recently got back into guns and I really, really hate it.
It was supposed to be just one pistol for self defense. I figured ok, a few hundred bucks. No, it had to be an $800 tricked out version. Then a revolver appeared. Now every other day it feels like a new package shows up. I don't understand why it is so interesting to buy grip modules and weights and optics? Never mind how freakin' expensive it is.
The worst part is that we discovered my dog is absolutely terrified of them. Someone must have done something before I adopted him. You can't pull a slide back or take them apart without him shaking and cowering on top of the couch. It makes me so sad to see him like that :(
WendiStarr
09-26-2020, 08:28 AM
My boyfriend bought some street weed from his friend and it was laced with something(he thinks Adderall). Weed is legal in our state so I don't get why he didn't just buy it from a dispensary instead if he's gonna smoke that shit at all. He's on a ton of heart meds so he doesn't need to be doing that. He has been having chest pains off and on all day and won't go to the hospital. I can't relax today. I keep thinking that any minute I'm going to have to call 911 for him.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-26-2020, 08:30 AM
This woman contacts me about something I'm selling asking if I would be willing to donate.
I respond "Sure, but I need the donation website to confirm or a receipt of past donation." (Others have done so with no problem)
She sends me some woman's work page for sales and I ask once again, "I need a donation website to confirm or a receipt of past donation."
Claims she doesn't have the receipt and thinks that I feel she is a scammer (Well now that you mentioned it..::)) and wishes me well selling.
30 minutes pass and she messages me again whining about how she provided me information and how I just needed to contact her.
(Again..repeating the same thing) "I apologize, but I need the donation website to confirm or a receipt of past donation."
She then claims that the organization doesn't provide public information to protect people, same goes for receipts. (/:O Not True)
Then she tells me the contact info is her friend who has been through (Sob). Then tells me her relative is an officer. (Obvious Threat and Intimidation :rotfl:)
I thank her for their services and apologize for her frustration then repeat "I need the donation website to confirm or a receipt of past donation."
She then goes off on me and says "I don't think your apology is sincere, obviously this info is private and blah, blah, my friend is, blah, blah, Officer, wah, wah, wah!! You don't need this info!" (::))
*BLOCK*
There is no getting through to thick headed people, who don't take to rules and conditions very well.
Also didn't appreciate her sleigh attempt to threaten and intimidate, in order to get her way.
This is the definition of a KAREN, that make working customer service miserable!
They don't know when to SHUT THE FUCK UP!
Also want to say that I have nothing against officers and look very highly to them and those that serve this Country.
However, I do not appreciate being threatened or intimidated and my Domme/Bitchy side comes out very quickly if people pull this shit.
You may as well throw yourself on the floor of a grocery store and cry about not getting what you want, because it won't work with me.
Well said!!! That lady is such a Karen.
LoveyDovey
09-26-2020, 08:55 AM
Since my club closed, I have been collecting unemployment/working as a grocery delivery person. My job rn is to go to Target/etc. and shop and deliver to people. My question is...
WHY ARE ENTIRE FAMILIES GOING OUT TOGETHER. TO GO SHOPPING??? WHAT PART OF "PANDEMIC" DON'T THEY UNDERSTAND??? I mean if I collected enough $ from unemployment, I'd be happy to keep my ass home. But no, I have to go out and do this to make ends meet, and these fucktard idiot morons who can't just send ONE PERSON to the store to go shopping are making it unsafe for ppl like me who have very limited options as far as earning income goes.
I'm not talking about single parents who *have* to go to the store with their kids BC they can't afford grocery delivery and they have nobody to watch their kids. I'm talking about how ENTIRE FAMILIES are going in and superspreading the virus because they can't keep their asses in the car or at home while one designated individual does the shoppinig. It's fucking infuriating!!! Every time I see these entire families waddling around Target, I give them all the stink-eye.
whirlerz
09-26-2020, 09:23 AM
1st off, LD, sooo gr8 to see U back on here!!!:hyper:
This's why I rarely go to big box stores, I also try to go early when stores first open..
Then, there's those who don't wear masks, ugh
LoveyDovey
09-26-2020, 01:33 PM
^^Thanks whirlerz! Haven't been here for a while. Glad to see you again!
I try to shop early and later in the day. Mid day the stores are too crowded and I can't do my job safely. That's when I go home, smoke a bowl, and take a nap
Selina M
09-26-2020, 01:47 PM
My boyfriend bought some street weed from his friend and it was laced with something(he thinks Adderall). Weed is legal in our state so I don't get why he didn't just buy it from a dispensary instead if he's gonna smoke that shit at all. He's on a ton of heart meds so he doesn't need to be doing that. He has been having chest pains off and on all day and won't go to the hospital. I can't relax today. I keep thinking that any minute I'm going to have to call 911 for him.
I don't mean to downplay your concern but are you sure he's not just having a panic attack? Even longtime smokers sometimes get them randomly from new stuff. You're totally right that he should have just gone to a dispensary so he knew exactly what strain he was getting. That's like, half the appeal of a dispensary, getting to literally pick out exactly what you want :D
Weed isn't generally the most profitable illicit drug to sell so I don't see why anybody would make it less profitable by wasting their pills to lace it...
WendiStarr
09-26-2020, 03:12 PM
^ I'm not sure. It's possible. He has been awake since 5am Friday though. He smoked it last night before bed and has been wide awake, jittery, and active since. He said it feels just like Adderall. He had a heart attack back in May so any mention of chest pain gets me worried.
LoveyDovey
09-27-2020, 02:09 PM
I hate it when people lie to me. Do they think I'm stupid? Don't they realize how transparent they are?
yaya_cash
09-27-2020, 04:25 PM
Update:
He's resentful of me-
We had a good talk, he's doing a little better with he's behavior.
WendiStarr
09-29-2020, 04:26 PM
I don't like when people lie to me when it's so obvious. If you say that you went out to buy a printer when you actually went out to go to a bar, receipts don't lie. I found the receipt with his name on it. I swear I feel like I'm raising a 61 year old teenager.
carmen_b
09-29-2020, 04:48 PM
^ A printer ? Lol.