View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
AChildOfBoredom
11-08-2020, 02:56 AM
That is something I have to be mindful of, as one of the neighbors has teenage boys. But no, nothing like that.
carmen_b
11-08-2020, 01:35 PM
Omg.
A week of this UTI thing and now another week of treatment.
I had to go back to the Dr. ( yes .... I was THAT person who went and had sex while being treated ) .
They sure don't guide you in these things worth a damn ! No one told me not to !!!
carmen_b
11-08-2020, 01:37 PM
AND I have a cold sore coming on.
Wft my body is betraying me ( or I guess just telling me to slow down ).
Ugh . :(
Thankfully J and I are busy with separate projects the next 3-4 days.
I think it will breeze by.
I'm trying to be positive.
There is totally a joke is here about " two holes down " and hoping that my butt doesn't have problems next lol.
Aurora_Sunset
11-08-2020, 02:34 PM
I'm a little pissy that I texted one of my best friends that I was depressed today and asked if she had any funny videos to cheer me up, and her only response was no, because she's at work. I feel like if I had gotten a similar text from her, which I do often, I would have at least said something like "sorry you're feeling crappy today" or "what's wrong?" even if I knew I couldn't respond until a little later. Felt really dismissive. I feel like this always happens when I reach out. My friends reach out to me all the time and I try really hard to be supportive, and I always tell myself, "You can reach out to your friends. They'll care." But every time I do, I get shit like this. The last time I tried to get emotional support during a depressive day, I literally texted 8 different people, and only one of them even bothered to say anything along the lines of "Sorry to hear that." The rest were completely dismissive and basically told me they didn't have time for me.
I'm also shitty that another one of my best friends didn't bother to wish me happy birthday, even though she's commented on several of my facebook posts regarding celebrating my birthday. But she'll send me some other random messages, yet none of them being anything having to do with "happy birthday!" She usually likes to ignore my birthday on purpose though, so I guess I shouldn't be surprised. It's a weird jealousy thing with her.
lynn2009
11-08-2020, 03:08 PM
I know you're not asking us but here is a puppy refusing to get out of bed: https://i.imgur.com/rseAudF.gifv
whirlerz
11-08-2020, 03:08 PM
AND I have a cold sore coming on.
Wft my body is betraying me ( or I guess just telling me to slow down ).
Ugh . :(
Thankfully J and I are busy with separate projects the next 3-4 days.
I think it will breeze by.
I'm trying to be positive.
There is totally a joke is here about " two holes down " and hoping that my butt doesn't have problems next lol.
Campho-Phenique, for cold sores, tea tree helps too.
Any drug store will have.
I really don't care if ppl like my threads or not.
My feet are so dirty, probably from running around in the yard
JenniferNorth
11-08-2020, 03:25 PM
I'm a little pissy that I texted one of my best friends that I was depressed today and asked if she had any funny videos to cheer me up, and her only response was no, because she's at work. I feel like if I had gotten a similar text from her, which I do often, I would have at least said something like "sorry you're feeling crappy today" or "what's wrong?" even if I knew I couldn't respond until a little later. Felt really dismissive. I feel like this always happens when I reach out. My friends reach out to me all the time and I try really hard to be supportive, and I always tell myself, "You can reach out to your friends. They'll care." But every time I do, I get shit like this. The last time I tried to get emotional support during a depressive day, I literally texted 8 different people, and only one of them even bothered to say anything along the lines of "Sorry to hear that." The rest were completely dismissive and basically told me they didn't have time for me.
I'm also shitty that another one of my best friends didn't bother to wish me happy birthday, even though she's commented on several of my facebook posts regarding celebrating my birthday. But she'll send me some other random messages, yet none of them being anything having to do with "happy birthday!" She usually likes to ignore my birthday on purpose though, so I guess I shouldn't be surprised. It's a weird jealousy thing with her.
Just so you are aware, this is not just you, this shit has happened to me, too. Some asshole friend decided that our friendship was too "one-sided", how, I'm not even sure, and told me to fuck off....in the middle of my divorce. I blocked her cunt ass after that. It's okay, she was a fucking weirdo who was married but had a severely fucked up relationship with her husband (she hated him but wouldn't get divorced, would constantly go off on stupid shit, etc) so I can only assume she was a miserable bitch 24/7. If it makes you feel even the tiniest bit better, I've decided after more than one fiasco to stop having friends, at least at this point in my life. Or maybe it is time for different friends? Just don't feel alone, or like you have to put up with it. I've come to the conclusion life is too short for this bullshit.
WendiStarr
11-08-2020, 06:42 PM
When people price haggle on shit. Go to a thrift store, Dollar Tree, or Five Below if you only want to pay $5 or less for everything. If I wasn't selling my clothes and stuff to pay for groceries, bills, and such, maybe I wouldn't mind giving stuff away for dirt cheap but this is reality. People want too much for too little.
lynn2009
11-08-2020, 07:27 PM
You would think with an end in sight I could be a bit more tolerant of apartment life but everything is annoying the shit out of me more than ever. Not having parking, hearing the neighbors' screaming, tv, singing to the radio, overfilled dumpsters, my kitchen sink not draining ugh.
xxxGothBarbie
11-08-2020, 08:11 PM
Just so you are aware, this is not just you, this shit has happened to me, too. Some asshole friend decided that our friendship was too "one-sided", how, I'm not even sure, and told me to fuck off....in the middle of my divorce. I blocked her cunt ass after that. It's okay, she was a fucking weirdo who was married but had a severely fucked up relationship with her husband (she hated him but wouldn't get divorced, would constantly go off on stupid shit, etc) so I can only assume she was a miserable bitch 24/7. If it makes you feel even the tiniest bit better, I've decided after more than one fiasco to stop having friends, at least at this point in my life. Or maybe it is time for different friends? Just don't feel alone, or like you have to put up with it. I've come to the conclusion life is too short for this bullshit.
^ This is so me right now too ugh!
I'm srsly getting ready to cut off a few repeat offenders in my life due to them starting to treat me as though I don't matter & are very dismissive of me. I don't get it, if you don't like someone why keep them in your life???
I've started making new friends slowly here & there so thats nice but ya ppl that act pissy towards you for no apparent reason & start to act like they are detatching from you, Im like byyyyye.
My fave though is when you see them constantly on social media posting & or on messenger yet when you try to talk to them on there they have little to nothing to fucking say but they've got sooo much time for other ppl that are toxic AF.
AChildOfBoredom
11-09-2020, 04:24 AM
Still feeling really fucked off about the situation with my sister and S’s friend in group care, and my application being rejected. They want to place her in a nuclear family now, but once she turns 18 (which is less than a year away) and is legally an adult, they’d simply discard her. They say it’s a cruel world, but America is a particularly cruel country. Had I fully realized the extent of it, perhaps I wouldn’t have had a desire to stake a claim in the ‘English’ world. But if that had happened, then what? I can’t be there for all of them, but I was able to be for a few. How would S have fared? I’ll admit, her being a lesbian did make me hesitant. I really don’t have any particular fondness for them. But there was this 15 year-old (at the time) who’d pretty much been abandoned by her entire family and who was staying at an adult shelter which couldn’t facilitate her and was about to turn her over to CPS, so perhaps she’d wind up in the same predicament as this poor girl. Plus S wouldn’t have been there to throw in when we beat up a group of teenagers together. Well, the situation wouldn’t have happened, but that definitely solidified the bond between us. Anyhow, it just really fucks me off. I told her when it came to that point and she was 18 and suddenly not so valuable to the state (not that they really act like she’s of any real value to begin with) that she could stay here until she got on her own two feet.This whole thing just really pisses me off, though. Maybe it’s petty for me to complain about it. I’m not the one being made to feel unwanted, after all.
JenniferNorth
11-09-2020, 03:47 PM
Monday! UGH!!
-Husband ran over a nail-had to get a new tire. We were under a warranty still, so we only paid $15, but it was a PITA
-Daughter has a birthmark on her spine and needs an ultrasound for it, according to her doc. Even though the doc said she's 99.9% sure it's nothing whatsoever, because it's on the spine they need to do the ultrasound
-I got a cheese pizza that has a chicken crust?! So not vegetarian, and therefore I can't eat it.
-No time today to get the holiday lights out and it is supposed to rain tomorrow
-70 degrees outsides but I have to keep our door closed because the fucking white trash downstairs is smoking YET AGAIN.
moneybags
11-10-2020, 02:47 AM
^ This is so me right now too ugh!
I'm srsly getting ready to cut off a few repeat offenders in my life due to them starting to treat me as though I don't matter & are very dismissive of me. I don't get it, if you don't like someone why keep them in your life???
I've started making new friends slowly here & there so thats nice but ya ppl that act pissy towards you for no apparent reason & start to act like they are detatching from you, Im like byyyyye.
My fave though is when you see them constantly on social media posting & or on messenger yet when you try to talk to them on there they have little to nothing to fucking say but they've got sooo much time for other ppl that are toxic AF.
I cut off everyone on social media that didn’t check on me during the pandemic. Bye! I don’t have time for fake friends. So I’m going to plug my group-support group next Monday. It’s just a group where sex workers can talk without being judged. Be there or be square. Just kidding, but this is why I pushed for a support group for sex workers. It’s so hard to have authentic friendships.
My annoyance is living is patriarchal, hierarchical, toxic society. I was born in the wrong time. Can I get a time machine to where men respect women. I’m tired of dealing with everyday sexism.
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2020, 05:50 AM
I realized I’m in a patriarchal society where men have their male privilege when L and I realized that sex (well me not having orgasms is an issue)
Now instead of him fucking listening and DOING what I tell him (ex setting the mood, foreplay for longer than 3 minutes, learning about the clitoris, learning new sex positions, trying sex in new places, exercising, making more money, being open to fetishes) he rushes out to buy me some damn supplements to “cure” me so I can be just as ready as he is.
The shit made me want to rant in the I hate men thread. Their asses always think they are right, think they are entitled to porn level sex without doing barely anything to get it, convince you that “oh men and women should be equal” whilst taking more than 50%, making everything all about themselves, and more annoying male behaviors that show their ignorance and male privilege
We haven’t had sex since.
WendiStarr
11-10-2020, 07:58 AM
A former fbsm client managed to find me on my personal social media account. My personal social media account is on private but the fucker is following me so he can still see my main picture. He also went ahead and searched me on Linkedin and Mylife and fucking friended my mom. Wtf?! This dude is married and got super annoying/obsessive, talking about if his wife died soon he wanted to marry me crap, and wanted to be my "friend" instead of a paying customer, before I quit seeing him. I changed my last name and picture to a ring and put 'happily married!'. I know that's probably going to confuse all of the relatives and friends who know me but I don't care.
indiegirl
11-10-2020, 09:22 AM
I want my gym to reopen but I also don't want to be heavily sweating with a mask on. It feels like breathing into a bag. Apparently the 24 hour fitness near me has a time limit you can use the equipment and there is a line waiting for entrance.... UFC gym has outside workouts. I need to buy my own equipment.
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2020, 09:34 AM
There is a sport mask by underarmour
It’s moisture wicking and braced away from the face
...if mask is required there are some sport ones that make it more bearable
indiegirl
11-10-2020, 09:36 AM
There is a sport mask by underarmour
It’s moisture wicking and braced away from the face
...if mask is required there are some sport ones that make it more bearable
I'm going to look into this mask. Thanks :).
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 09:51 AM
Deleted.
Taking the relationship stuff to a pro counselor instead of ranting on here.
:/
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 10:16 AM
I pictured us getting more serious and ( eventually ) transitioning into living together and maybe getting married / buying a nice home together.
I don't think I can really take another " I'm not ready for this " type of wave of energy from him though. I realized just a few minutes ago I can't deal with him anymore without a professional counselor.
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 10:31 AM
On the other hand I'm kind of amused by the whole thing. He gets LUCKY and finds someone who he has great chemistry with , a flexible schedule ( to fit in easily with his ), AND is great with his kid. I'm able to contribute financially too .
Um .....recognize a killer deal when it is hitting you in the face. Lol.
I'm off to the gym and salon.
Gotta maintain my shit even though I am not sure who exactly I'm maintaining all this for ( ME I guess ).
indiegirl
11-10-2020, 11:16 AM
I'm in a bad mood. I just repaired the plumbing and now have to pay for the heating. I want to scream. UGH!
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 11:25 AM
He checked in today .
I asked him to make the counseling appt. for us.
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2020, 12:04 PM
L is getting an mri and his ass is acting like he's getting damn brain surgery.
I'm supposed to go check on him after this and I'm certain he's going to milk this for every second of attention
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 12:07 PM
^ You seem like you've totally had it with him.
If we lived in the same area we could hit some country clubs and troll together hahahaha.
xxxGothBarbie
11-10-2020, 01:41 PM
Finally got maintnce ppl to turn on my heater & since it's gas I'm totally paranoid about carbon monoxide poisoning ugh
I don't smell gas just the burning smell a bit from heater (which I assume is normal when it hasn't been used in a while?) I have the window open just in case.
I wish I weren't so damn paranoid about stuff constantly~
moneybags
11-10-2020, 02:40 PM
^^^ why don’t you get a carbon monoxide detector. I had a crazy roommate who left the gas on, so I finally invested in one just so I felt better.
At miss.p.a you sound a lot like how I feel. I enjoy sex, but I don’t do well with needy men. Your telling him how to make you happy. Most guys don’t get the luxury of that. A lot of women play these games where they make men guess what makes them happy. There’s no excuse. That’s exactly why I can’t be in a relationship. They sound good in theory, but the reality is men stress me out and drain me.
xxxGothBarbie
11-10-2020, 05:37 PM
^^^ why don’t you get a carbon monoxide detector. I had a crazy roommate who left the gas on, so I finally invested in one just so I felt better.
At miss.p.a you sound a lot like how I feel. I enjoy sex, but I don’t do well with needy men. Your telling him how to make you happy. Most guys don’t get the luxury of that. A lot of women play these games where they make men guess what makes them happy. There’s no excuse. That’s exactly why I can’t be in a relationship. They sound good in theory, but the reality is men stress me out and drain me.
Well theres one above the bed in here, it's both a smoke & carbon monoxide detector so fingers crossed it works.
queenelayliah
11-10-2020, 06:29 PM
My pissy annoyances:
1) A job I applied to and did 30 minutes of assessments for, I think is a scam. They want my full legal name, address, last 4 of ssn and my bday to do paperwork. BUT he wants me to send it via a non secured email, not fill out the paper work myself. :thinking:? I check out the job recruiting company they say they work for, and it has hell of spelling errors everywhere, everyone that works there is Indian (not saying in a racist way just like a overseas scam type thing)., the reviews left for this recruiting company seem fake and the company they’re suppose to be hiring for I can’t find on google or google maps. But yet its suppose to be in my city. Mmmmm yeah no a scam. I’m not falling for it.
2) I made less than $200 since November started. It has been deadly slow in the pso world for me and do you know what my fucking phone had the nerve to do?!
NOT alert me for 4 calls from NF! 4 calls I missed, that could have been money in my bank account. Sigh. Sometimes I wonder if I have selective hearing or my phone is broken. Lol
indiegirl
11-10-2020, 06:40 PM
My pissy annoyances:
1) A job I applied to and did 30 minutes of assessments for, I think is a scam. They want my full legal name, address, last 4 of ssn and my bday to do paperwork. BUT he wants me to send it via a non secured email, not fill out the paper work myself. :thinking:? I check out the job recruiting company they say they work for, and it has hell of spelling errors everywhere, everyone that works there is Indian (not saying in a racist way just like a overseas scam type thing)., the reviews left for this recruiting company seem fake and the company they’re suppose to be hiring for I can’t find on google or google maps. But yet its suppose to be in my city. Mmmmm yeah no a scam. I’m not falling for it.
2) I made less than $200 since November started. It has been deadly slow in the pso world for me and do you know what my fucking phone had the nerve to do?!
NOT alert me for 4 calls from NF! 4 calls I missed, that could have been money in my bank account. Sigh. Sometimes I wonder if I have selective hearing or my phone is broken. Lol
Yeah I'd be careful with what you put online. Make sure it is legit because some want your information :). I learned the hard way. I was told by social security that some guy in Vegas is also tied to my SSN. I still haven't gotten it removed or been able to. I recall applying for a loan years ago when I wanted to take a break from working in my very early 20's.
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2020, 08:14 PM
^ You seem like you've totally had it with him.
If we lived in the same area we could hit some country clubs and troll together hahahaha.
Yeah it’s like he has this good side and good qualities that are overshadowed by his flaws (he complains about money because he doesn’t make enough but is in denial about it, make a lot of excuses why he can’t do something (like exercise or make more money), and occasionally gets clingy, sometimes he dresses like a grandpa, and ..... I’m not exactly thrilled to have sex with him because of this
Then it’s like he made it hard to up n leave because he is frequently professing how he wants things to work out and he loves me or what not. And like running pre-guilt trips.
Idk wtf I’m gonna do. I don’t want to hurt him but I refuse to enter in a marital relationship with a guy who is not accomplishing his financial goals and setting the bar higher each interval.
When I had that pregnancy scare last month all I could think about was how he could not afford to raise a baby to my standards. Right now him and his ex cannot afford to raise their kids they way they want cause they both work outside the home.
Maybe things will change. If he took this damn higher paying job his cousin practically gift wrapped for him. But nooooooo. In his delusional mind frame “I’m good because I don’t owe any bill collectors”.
He’s a kind hearted person but if I’m honest I wish he were more ambitious, more open minded, and less stubborn on certain issues.
miss.a.p1600
11-10-2020, 08:24 PM
^I guess you shouldn’t rant about your partner
But I’m just ...... at the end of my patience
I’m not going to nag or complain anymore. (Well I’ll try)
I’m just going improve myself so much and start attracting what I want
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 08:31 PM
Yeah, mine was the craziest rant ( see above ) but ...... I feel he is going back when he gave me his word two weeks ago that we would be sleeping next to each other 4-5 days out of the week.
Like .... I am ready to just come and pack everything when he is working from his home office tomorrow but he doesn't see this as a " code red " at all despite me asking for a counseling appt. today. I feel like I need a third party there but I honestly don't know if it will do anything.
I think we are taking similar strategies. I'm upgrading my living situation ect. with or without him . I'm here at his place now after my yoga class kind of waiting for her ( 8 year old ) to go to bed . How do you even start this conversation ? I sometimes feel like I wish I would have just packed all my things two months ago and ditched him ( not even went to get him at the airport ) in Montana. When I look back ....... I haven't been happy in two months.
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 08:40 PM
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trustfundkiller
11-11-2020, 12:17 PM
I don't know why I haven't had a period in two months but it's freaking me out. I know I'm not pregnant, because I haven't had sex since my last period. Irregular periods are normal for me but I don't think I've ever gone this long. I'm sure the stress of worrying about it is delaying it even more.
moneybags
11-11-2020, 02:29 PM
^^^dont know what to tell you. Hope everything is okay.
So I know not everyone from the suburbs is like this, but this is why I moved out from the suburbs. They are so judgedmental of single women who don’t have kids. Funny thing this guy was complaining about being married with kids. Your wife doesn’t blow you enough and your kids drain your bank accaccount...lol. I’m free as bird. You hate your life. I know I shouldn’t let it bother me, but that’s how people are around here of anyone that has an alternative lifestyle and it’s soooo annoying. I’m not judging you. Don’t judge me. If he only knew I was cam model. OMG! Which I don’t tell people from the burbs anything personal cause that’s usually what I get. Oh well. I only have to go out there for business. Obviously someone told him he had no other choice, but to settle down.
indiegirl
11-11-2020, 03:17 PM
Bitch mood day. The heater guy is charging me 500 bucks. I'm not happy financially over this.
lynn2009
11-11-2020, 03:30 PM
I hate my job so much sometimes.
indiegirl
11-11-2020, 04:16 PM
Bitch mood day. The heater guy is charging me 500 bucks. I'm not happy financially over this.
Wanna scream. This went from a heating fix to a carbon monoxide situation. He had this scanner and everything which was too high on the CO2 level. Can't believe I was living in this house with such a high CO2 level. I am now buying more heaters after paying for this heating situation. Not pleased.
moneybags
11-11-2020, 08:27 PM
I really can’t stand people from here. I’m still livid. I hate being a women in the Midwest. I hate it! Men have no respect for women-it’s everywhere but certainly it’s more overt here. As soon as I get my nursing degree I’m moving. Funny thing when I quit entertaining them they sure are butt hurt. I’m no longer entertaining this guy. I don’t hate men, but I hate their shitty behavior. This why I’m single.
Sorry. I’m really livid. This happens on a daily basis.
carmen_b
11-12-2020, 09:56 AM
Word. I'm a small business owner and hate it half the time hahaha which is such a weird spot in conversation.
It's a lot of work to pretend you don't hate what you do half the time !
It's pretty bad for networking purposes to be honest.
I like meeting other business owners where we let our hair down and bitch and are honest about the good and bad. :)
[QUOTE=lynn2009;3194998]I hate my job so much sometimes.[/QUOTE
carmen_b
11-12-2020, 09:59 AM
When you say entertaining ..... like dating without pay or pay for play ?
I'm curious what this guy did lol but I guess it doesn't matter. There are really so many ways to piss a woman off ! Haha
I really can’t stand people from here. I’m still livid. I hate being a women in the Midwest. I hate it! Men have no respect for women-it’s everywhere but certainly it’s more overt here. As soon as I get my nursing degree I’m moving. Funny thing when I quit entertaining them they sure are butt hurt. I’m no longer entertaining this guy. I don’t hate men, but I hate their shitty behavior. This why I’m single.
Sorry. I’m really livid. This happens on a daily basis.
JenniferNorth
11-12-2020, 11:19 AM
I'm tired of certain blues coming into our threads. I don't mind if they shoot the shit in the lounge about random stuff like movies, what's up in the world and so on, but it gets annoying when they come into life support or sex-worker specific threads. In this case it's not even that they have experience in what is being discussed (which I would be totally fine with if they were just being empathetic or something, but not the case here), just gotta drop their two cents in!
carmen_b
11-12-2020, 11:22 AM
^ I don't listen to them. Haha.
They always seem to have issues too . One that really got on my nerves was like " Oh, I'd reject a woman for having intimacy fast " or some bullshit.
Take your issues and go. Hahahaha.
naomi_doll
11-12-2020, 11:27 AM
I'm tired of certain blues coming into our threads. I don't mind if they shoot the shit in the lounge about random stuff like movies, what's up in the world and so on, but it gets annoying when they come into life support or sex-worker specific threads. In this case it's not even that they have experience in what is being discussed (which I would be totally fine with if they were just being empathetic or something, but not the case here), just gotta drop their two cents in!
Yeah and their advice is so bad in those threads. Someone could really get hurt taking it but their dumb feelings are more important so they double down when you correct them ::)
JenniferNorth
11-12-2020, 11:27 AM
^ YES!! Like if you need to be so annoying, stay on the blue side.
LOL at intimacy too fast. Really?! What if something good came of it-still gonna reject it then? LOL boy, bye.
Covid needs to be over so some of these dudes can go back to having a life again.
ETA: Naomi Doll, I really think life support should be another ladies-only type thread. I'd hate for girls to ask for advice or something there and get the bad advice some of the blues dish out.
indiegirl
11-12-2020, 12:10 PM
Yeah and their advice is so bad in those threads. Someone could really get hurt taking it but their dumb feelings are more important so they double down when you correct them ::)
Feel the same. I'd prefer this site not having men on it sometimes. I just wanna talk amongst SW's.
whirlerz
11-12-2020, 02:17 PM
[QUOTE=JenniferNorth;3195120]I'm tired of certain blues coming into our threads. I don't mind if they shoot the shit in the lounge about random stuff like movies, what's up in the world and so on, but it gets annoying when they come into life support or sex-worker specific threads. In this case it's not even that they have experience in what is being discussed (which I would be totally fine with if they were just being empathetic or something, but not the case here), just gotta drop their two cents in![/QUOTE
Glad this brought up!^
Ffs on nearly everything, I was trying to lighten things up in there, when some turned on me for politcs..FIne, ok, but what about the MANY OTHER ones by others, especially the men. Lol.
Aurora_Sunset
11-12-2020, 03:22 PM
It is so completely STUPID what a large hold gas station pumps put on your card. I couldn't pump gas with fucking $88 in my checking account because of "insufficient funds?" Are you fucking kidding me?
Genoveve
11-12-2020, 03:26 PM
^^That happened to me before. You can go inside and use your debit card but you'll have to guestimate how much you'll need(if you're bad at math like me and have no idea what size your tank is).