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Naida
03-12-2015, 11:50 AM
Fucking migraines.

michele11
03-12-2015, 01:44 PM
I wonder why so many people enjoy being twats on the internet and constantly start arguments and say something nasty and shitty to everyone Over things that are small and harmless.

I really hope this is not how they interact with people in real life, because if it is they must live a pretty lonely and miserable life because I don't see how anyone can stand being around someone like that.

I don't just mean this site either. It happens everywhere people are able to comment. YouTube, Facebook, instagram, you name it.

You really need to stop looking at the comments on articles and youtube and things. Lol.

xxxGothBarbie
03-12-2015, 02:10 PM
FML I woke up today with yet another dam head cold :/

xxxGothBarbie
03-12-2015, 02:24 PM
Btw extreme hunger and caffeine withdrawal headache. Shitty combo.

Babe don't quit caffefine all together , just wean off it little by little. That's what helped me w/ my headaches *HUGS*

michele11
03-12-2015, 03:03 PM
^ I never got headaches when I stopped caffine. Maybe because it was in energy pills I took?

kaninchen
03-12-2015, 04:04 PM
I'm irrationally annoyed that dates have seeds that must be spat out. WHY can't I just eat them whole? I'm too fucking lazy for this spitting bullshit!

Spinnerette
03-12-2015, 06:12 PM
Lmao right? I can't help it sometimes. Especially when it pops up and it's right in front of my face. Lol

I have (had) the same problem! If any of you ladies use firefox and adblock plus, I can share the script I use that completely removes Youtube comments. It's just a blank white space. It works on certain other sites as well. It's saved me so many headaches over the years. :)

Currently annoyed at one of the lights in the dining room blowing out so now it's dim where I am. Ugh. I'd bring my camming lights out and use those, but then it'd be too warm. Def need a new set-up.

Naida
03-12-2015, 10:21 PM
Not sure if my period has stopped or is trolling. Not sure which would piss me off more.

Aurora_Sunset
03-13-2015, 10:37 AM
I find it irksome that when men choose not to date for long periods of time, people assume it's because they're picky and they become more desirable - the "eligible bachelor" thing. But if a woman chooses not to date for a long period of time, people assume it's not by choice, but because "clearly" no one wants her, and she loses her "value of desirability."

I hate when clients are just "flabbergasted" that "no guy has tried to swoop you up yet." I've lately been responding with "What makes you think guys don't try? I just haven't found anyone I like that much." How sexist-ly presumptuous that I'm single just because no one has tried to take the simple action of asking me "dur dur dur be my girl!" yet.... Women have standards too, ya know...

I would go into more rant-y detail, but that could be the start of an entirely whole different thread lol

Selina M
03-13-2015, 10:48 AM
^ Oh GOD yes that, I HATE when guys at the club ask if I'm single... fucking lose-lose situation with either answer, but I really hate saying yes. If I say yes, it's all that horseshit and astonishment that I'm single, or else they start accusing me of being a liar. Like FUCK OFF dude, do you know how hard it is for sex workers to date? To find a guy who doesn't want us to quit, isn't insecure about it, not gonna be upset that we make more money than him, etc etc etc. And then once we find one that's good in those depts, he has to be compatible in the normal way.

Aurora_Sunset
03-13-2015, 11:23 AM
do you know how hard it is for sex workers to date? To find a guy who doesn't want us to quit, isn't insecure about it, not gonna be upset that we make more money than him, etc etc etc. And then once we find one that's good in those depts, he has to be compatible in the normal way.

Exactly! I think they all assume that we would happily quit the second Prince Charming came along to "save" us. They don't even factor in the idea that we need to find someone who is ok with dating a sex worker, because they think we would just up and quit the second some dude makes goo-goo eyes at us... This becomes very clear with the guys who ask "How has no guy swept you up yet?" without even first asking if I'm single or not... The default assumption is that you would only do sex work while single - and are continuing it only because you're still single... not that a sex worker wants to keep doing sex work and therefore finds it difficult to find someone who is ok with that AND compatible in regular ways as well

xStacey
03-13-2015, 12:51 PM
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Kellydancer
03-13-2015, 08:07 PM
I find it irksome that when men choose not to date for long periods of time, people assume it's because they're picky and they become more desirable - the "eligible bachelor" thing. But if a woman chooses not to date for a long period of time, people assume it's not by choice, but because "clearly" no one wants her, and she loses her "value of desirability."

I hate when clients are just "flabbergasted" that "no guy has tried to swoop you up yet." I've lately been responding with "What makes you think guys don't try? I just haven't found anyone I like that much." How sexist-ly presumptuous that I'm single just because no one has tried to take the simple action of asking me "dur dur dur be my girl!" yet.... Women have standards too, ya know...

I would go into more rant-y detail, but that could be the start of an entirely whole different thread lol

Ugh I know what you mean. I refuse to settle but everyone thinks I am single because I can't find anyone. I could if I lowered my standards. As a result I have people trying to match me up with real winners like baby daddies and criminals then tell me I have no business being picky because I'll be alone. They don't get I prefer that to dating someone with questionable morals. People always assume I wasn't chosen but that's not it. I could have gotten married but either wasn't ready or wasn't sure they were the one.

Glamourmilf
03-13-2015, 11:45 PM
^^^^This! It irks me when i hear it on cam, but when it REALLY bothered me was when I sent a new guy friend/possible bf blind date a mutual pal set up, a sexy pic of me with cleavage, and his response was.."How can you not be married?" Ha! Why, cause i gave huge tits?

Kellydancer
03-13-2015, 11:55 PM
Well, people want to find something wrong with everything I say so fuck it. I'm not in the mood and I no longer have the patience to be polite, so I'm done.

I don't know what happened but that sucks.

Spinnerette
03-14-2015, 01:03 AM
I find it irksome that when men choose not to date for long periods of time, people assume it's because they're picky and they become more desirable - the "eligible bachelor" thing. But if a woman chooses not to date for a long period of time, people assume it's not by choice, but because "clearly" no one wants her, and she loses her "value of desirability."

I hate when clients are just "flabbergasted" that "no guy has tried to swoop you up yet." I've lately been responding with "What makes you think guys don't try? I just haven't found anyone I like that much." How sexist-ly presumptuous that I'm single just because no one has tried to take the simple action of asking me "dur dur dur be my girl!" yet.... Women have standards too, ya know...

I would go into more rant-y detail, but that could be the start of an entirely whole different thread lol

YES. THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. I hate when I get asked if I have a bf on cam and saying no and these plebes do their whole "aw y bb???" song and dance and it's like because I want to be? Is that really so fucking hard to comprehend? All this, "aw you will get older and you will change your mind when you find someone special" shit. NO. NO NO NO. I've NEVER wanted marriage. I've NEVER wanted children (I'm getting sterilized ASAP). So what's the point? And for the first full year that I was seeing my casual sex partner, he'd shit test me all the time in an attempt to trigger whatever jealousy chicks who lie about being OK with physicality only usually have (and on one hand, I can't blame him because I know of too many women who say they're able to separate their feelings from carnality and they're full of shit) and it made me want to wring his neck every time he did it. Like I'm not lying about who I am or what I'm about how dare he.

xStacey
03-14-2015, 06:41 AM
I've been casually seeing the same guy for over a year. We see each other once per week, exchange txt messages quite often, do activities together, exchange gifts on special occasions, we talk and have good sex. We're both happy with how things are.

His friends don't bother him about it, but probably because I am a female, mine always hassle me about my casual relationship. "How's your boyfriend doing? What do you mean he's not your boyfriend? He's YOUR BOYFRIEND. What, a friend?! After over a year, he's more than a friend! Are you in love with him? Is he in love with you? When is it going to become official?"

And they have to say that every freakin time I see them. Not every women wants a relationship, some of them just rather prioritize their education and career above their sentimental life but there is still the mentality that something must be wrong with them.

miss cleo
03-14-2015, 08:19 AM
Assholes coming into my cam room and saying "tell me what a slut you are" ! Go fuck yourself prick I'm a business woman and I can buy and sell your stinking ass, if you call me a slut I will rip your fucking balls off and feed em to you grrrr!

Naida
03-14-2015, 09:03 AM
Internet trolls. That is all.

Kellydancer
03-14-2015, 09:14 AM
YES. THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. I hate when I get asked if I have a bf on cam and saying no and these plebes do their whole "aw y bb???" song and dance and it's like because I want to be? Is that really so fucking hard to comprehend? All this, "aw you will get older and you will change your mind when you find someone special" shit. NO. NO NO NO. I've NEVER wanted marriage. I've NEVER wanted children (I'm getting sterilized ASAP). So what's the point? And for the first full year that I was seeing my casual sex partner, he'd shit test me all the time in an attempt to trigger whatever jealousy chicks who lie about being OK with physicality only usually have (and on one hand, I can't blame him because I know of too many women who say they're able to separate their feelings from carnality and they're full of shit) and it made me want to wring his neck every time he did it. Like I'm not lying about who I am or what I'm about how dare he.

I fucking hate the "you'll change your mind" comments about anything. Yes some will change their mind about whatever but others will not. Not everyone wants a family and that is fine. I don't so much get it about having kids anymore but get it about dating dads. When I tell people dads are out I get comments that when the right guy comes along I won't care he has kids. Yes I will because I am a realist and know love doesn't take care of everything. I know how much bother a previous family is and I know I want no part of being a stepmother. People don't respect my my view and always try to match me up because everyone needs someone. People need to mind their business.

michele11
03-14-2015, 03:24 PM
I'm just really sick of the ritual of getting ready every night. It takes 40 min just to blow dry my hair. Ugh. I'm holding off getting in the shower. Whah I don't wanna get ready even though last night was a really good easy night.

michele11
03-14-2015, 03:29 PM
And I've had about 2 -3 hours of sleep the last 3 nights.

xStacey
03-14-2015, 03:48 PM
I'm just really sick of the ritual of getting ready every night. It takes 40 min just to blow dry my hair. Ugh. I'm holding off getting in the shower. Whah I don't wanna get ready even though last night was a really good easy night.

I hate getting ready for work too :(
It takes me a hour and sometimes a little more. In my everyday life it takes me 10-15 mins to get ready.

Spinnerette
03-14-2015, 03:55 PM
I've been casually seeing the same guy for over a year. We see each other once per week, exchange txt messages quite often, do activities together, exchange gifts on special occasions, we talk and have good sex. We're both happy with how things are.

His friends don't bother him about it, but probably because I am a female, mine always hassle me about my casual relationship. "How's your boyfriend doing? What do you mean he's not your boyfriend? He's YOUR BOYFRIEND. What, a friend?! After over a year, he's more than a friend! Are you in love with him? Is he in love with you? When is it going to become official?"

And they have to say that every freakin time I see them. Not every women wants a relationship, some of them just rather prioritize their education and career above their sentimental life but there is still the mentality that something must be wrong with them.

Yes, most women are VERY weird when it comes to the whole casual sex thing. My casual has a story where he went to get his hair cut and the lady barber messed it up ON PURPOSE because she asked him what his dating life looked like and he was honest in saying he was non-monogamous. Like she was high-key trying to get revenge on behalf of myself and the other women he was seeing like we're unaware or something? LMAO! What a bitch. My ex has gone through it with several girls over the course of our separation and he's very honest as well, let's them know up front that he enjoys spending time with them and values their friendship, but that he doesn't want anything "serious". And they've been like, "OK, I'm cool with that". And then they gradually started introducing him to their friends and family, lol. So dumb.

And like what was mentioned back up thread? It's hard enough to find someone who meets the bare minimum of decent human let alone someone who's not going to act like a giant pissbaby about you being a sex worker. For as enlightened as my ex appeared, he still copped an attitude in the very end because "buhuhuhu your toys get more attention than me!". And it's like, you wanna eat this week or your wanna nut? Your choice.

My life is fucked-up right now, but being single makes it all so MUCH easier to deal with and I'm done feeling weird for relishing my oncoming spinsterhood. Nothing wrong with me at all. There's now one more individual on the market for the people who DO want to date/marry to consider and my choice not to reproduce reduces my carbon footprint astronomically. Sounds like a win-win for everyone. Defective my ass.

whirlerz
03-14-2015, 04:55 PM
And I've had about 2 -3 hours of sleep the last 3 nights.

Hope you're doin' great, Michele..
Which brings me to: I am beyond sick of this rachet-ass motel, yesterday, after having to get up for a 7:45 am test @ the hospital, I kept on all day, w/barely a nap. I was also dealing w/a swollen eye/eyelid from a damn spider bite.
Then, some jackasses check in next to me, & start making a LOT of noise, obviously partying.
I called the desk, the lady said she'd 'try to doing something', in the meantime, I head to the office in person & all the lights/electricity goes out. The desk clerk said she called them & they don't answer the room phone. She also said 'security' hasn't shown up yet?::)
The cops show up, talk to them & leave.
After like an hour of somewhat quiet, they start back up again, & I call the cops myself..they bang on the door for over 15 min/w/o them answering.
This morning they wake me up again, which I needed to get up anyway. But I told the (different) front desk lady about all this, she said she will not renew their stay. I mean yea, great glad you're finally throwing them out, after they blow you (& the cops off) & keep giving them more chances>:(
I parked my car in a different area in case they're still here. Who knows, even if they're not some more a/holes can come in start the same crap. Now that it's spring, all the b/s starts here.
Definitely seriously considering a road trip, I can swing it this time w/o a lot of stress, I just have to plan carefully & make some $.
Also, I busted my ass @ my storage, they (mgt/workers) were kinda watching me, can ANYONE seriously leave me the f* alone?

xStacey
03-15-2015, 03:42 AM
... regulars who fall in love with you and then start resenting you when they realize they will never have you. They start making comments trying to make you feel ashamed and guilty about your job.

I saw one of my body rub regular today (who never tips and often forgets one or two $20 bill because he "doesn't remember the price"). At the end of the massage, after his happy ending and shower he tells me "I left the money on the counter over there. You know, I really don't like the money part, it makes what we're doing so filthy."

audrey_k
03-15-2015, 09:26 AM
I hate being hungover. Everytime I have a god-awful hangover like this, I say I will never get this drunk again. And then a month or so later... bam. I can't even stand up without feeling like someone is taking a crowbar to my head.

Also, I drunkenly left my phone at my boyfriend's friend's place. It's a two and a half hour round trip there and I barely know these people and really don't feel like going over there alone to pick up my phone, or even wasting my afternoon tomorrow going over there at all. Ugh.

Selina M
03-15-2015, 01:25 PM
Omfg. So I ran a $200 blood test on my horse to prove he didn't need a specific shot (one that can potentially kill them if you give it when they don't need it), so that I could go to a particular stable. All fine and dandy, ok, let me arrange to move him.

I just went to get my stall picked, and I cannot believe the waiver they just handed me. 14 motherfucking pages long. They want a "security deposit" like it's an apartment. It also includes things like "The facilities may not be maintained, there may be dangerous conditions, and it is not our duty to let riders know." What in the fuck? It's like their only interest is not getting sued, they don't give a shit if anyone actually gets hurt. They want me to fill out where I work, my supervisors name, in what capacity... SERIOUSLY? None of your business!

Gives me a really bad taste in my mouth and I will not be going there after all. Makes me mad I spent the $200 on that test, and haven't brought him down bc I had to wait on the results for it, when the other stables don't require that shot to begin with. -___-

Kellydancer
03-15-2015, 04:45 PM
Okay two annoyances today, only one directly affects me.

1. There is a girl I've taken under my wing. She has issues and I'm like the big sister she never had. I'm even her confirmation sponsor (like a godparent). Anyway she is suicidal and you have to be careful with what you say. She has these girls who make fun if her and bully her online. One was especially vicious and the victim tried to kill herself. She was critical but has been upgraded to fair. Why are so many people assholes to those already suffering?

2. I was involved with the creation of a charity to help military. The military is big for me because I feel vets and other serving are often not taken care of. Long story short, they wanted to put together a PR/events/advertising group and I volunteered to help with this. Oh no, they tell me they don't need my help. Instead, they put together a group consisting of a bunch of idiots who know nothing about any of this. Then they complain they can't make or get the name out. Well duh you turned down the person who actually worked in this field who has a minor in it, but instead got people who never attended college to run the committee then you wonder why you can't get the name out? Your loss and nope I won't offer again. I know it goes back to the point they hate my one male friend and basically chose him over them. I chose him because they put me on the spot and wasn't taking sides in their war until they bashed him.

michele11
03-15-2015, 07:18 PM
I hate getting ready for work too :(
It takes me a hour and sometimes a little more. In my everyday life it takes me 10-15 mins to get ready.
Lol. That's why in between trips I take a full shower and do my hair about once a week. I only wear lipstick when I'm off and my hair up in a pony tail. It's so exhausting 2 and a half hours a night. I feel lile I should be getting paid. Lol.

xStacey
03-15-2015, 07:29 PM
Lol. That's why in between trips I take a full shower and do my hair about once a week. I only wear lipstick when I'm off and my hair up in a pony tail. It's so exhausting 2 and a half hours a night. I feel lile I should be getting paid. Lol.

2 and a half hour!! :wide-eyed

Selina M
03-15-2015, 10:07 PM
@Kara, I am starting to agree about the hating and being bashed for giving advice on this board. I'm starting to develop a list of members that make me give my screen the stink eye upon seeing they've posted.

Just bc you're older and been in the game longer than some of us, does not make you the be-all-end-all of knowledge, nor does it give you an excuse to have a piss poor attitude.

Spinnerette
03-16-2015, 04:46 AM
I am in the deepest of shits right now and in order to save myself, I was figuring that now would be a great time to put my big girl panties on and actually work to capacity. I'm talking sun up to sundown (but probably longer because I have some guaranteed network rates to collect on) because there's absolutely no way I can put in such an effort and not have anything to show for it and I need every single cent I can get. Only problem is, my brothers keep shifting their schedules around arbitrarily and I'm not "out" to them (and I never plan to be) so how I'm going to pull this off without them overhearing me is like...ugh. The bedrooms are right next door to each other, and at current, one of them has decided he's either taking today off or doing a late start? He's usually showered and out the door by now, but even then, when he comes back is a mix of 9 or noon or 8 at night. I never know when. This also fucks with when I can get into the bathroom to get ready myself.

And I'm trying to burn myself out on long hours mainly so that I can FINALLY get my own place and I be as naked and as loud as I want? Whyyyyy is my life like this?

zoezoebelle
03-16-2015, 12:45 PM
A nice boy bought me a pizza and now I have way too much food in the fridge to eat by myself. x3

kaninchen
03-16-2015, 02:37 PM
I try really hard to not to ever call women bitches because, in general, I think it's a stupid misogynistic word.

But, I really want to use that word right now, so I'm going to. One of my professors is being a huge BITCH and it's very frustrating! When I first stopped going to class this quarter because of mental health issues, I told her honestly about my panic attacks and even the fact that I'd been unable to work, but she made it clear that she thought I was lazy/lying/whining/etc. She side-eyed me as though she thought I had truthfully just been smoking weed and cutting class for funsies.

Now I've sent her multiple e-mails (to the account on her website and syllabus) about meeting with her to figure out a solution to the situation and she hasn't responded to any of them. I need her signature on some forms so I can complete the work next quarter. Wtf is up with this bitch?! Ugh!

whirlerz
03-16-2015, 04:37 PM
So yea, got behind on my sleep over the wk end, thanks to some A-holes..1. I nearly got in an accident, 2. overdrawn @ the bank.
Also, they need to stop printing 100.00 bills, since basically no one will take them, or, if they do, they don't have change for 'em. Case in point, @ the Dr's office, a 60. co-pay, they didn't have change, & the assistant asked me to 'go downstairs & get change'. Do I work there? No.>:(

xxxGothBarbie
03-16-2015, 11:37 PM
blah I wish I could get past this lethargic state I've been in lately bc I've bought hair color to touch up my roots & go back brassy ombre on the ends but each day I've gotten up I'm constantly procrastanating on my shit :/

audrey_k
03-17-2015, 08:05 AM
After getting my phone back yesterday it has completely crashed. UGH! Fucking iPhones are such crap. My phone crashed a month ago, I lost tons of data, had to wait days to get an appointment, they told me is was either a software/hardware issue, and gave me a new phone. Now a month later this one has crashed too, yesterday it kept restarting itself and giving me a blue screen, my bf told me to install the update and this morning I wake up almost at noon wondering why my alarm hasn't gone off to look and see that now it won't even turn on at all. There are no appointments for 3 days so I had to argue with someone to get one tomorrow, but it means I have to get up super early and rush to a meeting afterward, and I don't have a phone for today so no one can reach me in regards to jobs, which for temp agencies, come and go pretty fast. Grrrr.

I've been using my old phone that I used for escorting in the meantime, and I've already gotten several messages from people trying to book. Most are from old clients, but some are from new. I've deleted everything from my website, but now I see my details have been posted on numerous other websites that I've never even heard of. Not that it matters since my face is blurred and there's no personal details that connect to me, but it's fucking annoying. And my old clients are disgusting, I responded "sorry I'm retired now" to their msgs and they've responded with shit like "can't you make an exception? two hours and I'll make it worth your while xxx" ha! trust me there is nothing you could do to make me cheat on my amazing bf, you're disgusting.

Aurora_Sunset
03-17-2015, 08:25 AM
Omg... if anyone ever needs a reason to never give out their phone number to SC customers - here ya go:

I worked at a little dive in town about 3 years ago. I had this guy buy a decent amount of dances from me ONE night, he asked for my number so I gave it to him since he'd been a good customer, but then every time he came back after that, he tried to get me to agree to hanging out with him OTC and when I wouldn't, he'd play the little bullshit game of spending a bunch of money on some other girl, trying to make me "beg" for his attention or something... Idk, pathetic. So I simply never spoke to him again. I quit that club shortly after. Again... with him only spending about $300 on me ONE night.

This guy has seriously been texting me every few months for the past 3 YEARS! It's usually just "hey" from a number I don't know after I've lost his number, and when I ask who it is, they say "Terry" and I'm like "omg, shit..." I've tried ignoring him or telling him bluntly to stop texting me, and he called me a bitch. I've tried twice now to tell him he had the wrong number, and the first time he argued and didn't believe me; the second time I got a guy friend of mine to send him dick pics and talk shit to him for awhile. Even then, he obnoxiously made stupid little comments back about "knowing that Aurora would suck that good" :O As though he fucking knows? He thinks he talking to a total stranger and he's STILL making up "macho" shit, claiming that I've hooked up with him? Are you shitting me?

And now, he fucking texted me again at 2am! "You working?" Uhhh.... not for the past 3 years you fucktarded creepy dipshit! Are you fucking kidding me right now? Talk about creeper status.

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-17-2015, 06:07 PM
Omg... if anyone ever needs a reason to never give out their phone number to SC customers - here ya go:

I worked at a little dive in town about 3 years ago. I had this guy buy a decent amount of dances from me ONE night, he asked for my number so I gave it to him since he'd been a good customer, but then every time he came back after that, he tried to get me to agree to hanging out with him OTC and when I wouldn't, he'd play the little bullshit game of spending a bunch of money on some other girl, trying to make me "beg" for his attention or something... Idk, pathetic. So I simply never spoke to him again. I quit that club shortly after. Again... with him only spending about $300 on me ONE night.

This guy has seriously been texting me every few months for the past 3 YEARS! It's usually just "hey" from a number I don't know after I've lost his number, and when I ask who it is, they say "Terry" and I'm like "omg, shit..." I've tried ignoring him or telling him bluntly to stop texting me, and he called me a bitch. I've tried twice now to tell him he had the wrong number, and the first time he argued and didn't believe me; the second time I got a guy friend of mine to send him dick pics and talk shit to him for awhile. Even then, he obnoxiously made stupid little comments back about "knowing that Aurora would suck that good" :O As though he fucking knows? He thinks he talking to a total stranger and he's STILL making up "macho" shit, claiming that I've hooked up with him? Are you shitting me?

And now, he fucking texted me again at 2am! "You working?" Uhhh.... not for the past 3 years you fucktarded creepy dipshit! Are you fucking kidding me right now? Talk about creeper status.

One of my old dancer friends had a guy follow her across a couple states (from Minnesota to Montana.) She traveled with her boyfriend and had a pistol on her so I guess she wasn't too worried, but she caught on to the guy really quick (she recognized him.)

I know people loooove to shame adult industry workers about how we "ask for it" when guys stalk us....but I've witnessed guys stalking women who really never did anything to provoke the guy. Some people are just unstable and sick in the head.

xxxGothBarbie
03-17-2015, 09:10 PM
So sick of posting on here just to get rude feedback from negative nancy's ugh *sdmh*
I'm just SO fucking sick of know it alls~ Just sayin......

OliveJardin
03-18-2015, 12:48 AM
My anxiety has been bad lately and if I mention it people they just brush it off as stress or make comments like, "you're too well adjusted", "but you're so centered" or "stable" or "normal". I'm too embarrassed to go back to a Doctor about it, because last time mine wrote down the name of a self help book and basically told me meds or a referral would be "unnecessary" sent me on my way. "Normal" people go through ups and downs just like "abnormal" people ::(. It's such a shame, there are so many good campaigns raising awareness about depression and anxiety, trying to erase the stigma, that you would think people would be less ignorant about it.

amberlly
03-18-2015, 06:39 AM
Im working on a school assignments. The same shit I did last term and the term before that. Im so over it.

Naida
03-18-2015, 07:36 AM
I really, really want to make things work with this new guy but I'm still super hung up on one of my friends. I love this guy immensely, have for five years and probably always will. I don't feel like I can sever and run from five years of love, trust, and being there for each other through the ups and downs as friends.

BarbieNYC
03-18-2015, 08:35 AM
Dang you guys have some serious stuff and right now I'm just annoyed that my Colombian neighbors cook with so much seasoning it makes me ask my boyfriend if one of our neighbors is shitting with the window open.

seriously, I love ethnic food as much as the next person and I understand that smelling cooking from all parts of the world in the hallways is part of new york apartment living. But dang when it's strong enough to permeate into my apartment and onto my clothes, sheets, and blankets from across the hall, I've seriously gotta wonder what the fuck they're making in there.

Colombian boyfriend says it smells delicious. Makes me terrified of what he expects from my cooking.

seriously how much Sazon Goya seasoning does one need?!

Aurora_Sunset
03-18-2015, 03:00 PM
A friend of mine moved about an hour away 5 months ago. We haven't hung out since and he occasionally messages me on facebook or gets up my ass about it over the phone. At the end of January, we got in an argument because he texted me claiming that he had left me 3 voicemails in the previous 2 weeks and was getting pissed that I wasn't responding to them. I scoured my phone, and I didn't even have any missed calls from him in over a month, let alone voicemails. I told him this and he still pissily claimed that he was totally leaving voicemails to get a hold of me and how shitty it was of me to ignore them and make it awkward for him... so I was like "Well, I haven't gotten any voicemails, so, sorry..."

Now I just talked to him and he's claiming that in the past month, he's been in town every week and that every time, he texts me 3 days ahead of time and the day of to let me know he's coming/here. I told him I have gotten no such texts, and he's still insisting that this happens every week and that I just never respond.

I don't know who in the hell dude is texting and leaving voicemails for, but it's sure as shit not me! lol Getting a little sick of being guilt-tripped about what a bad friend I am because I'm not responding to the mysterious messages that don't exist.

kaninchen
03-18-2015, 04:19 PM
Dang you guys have some serious stuff and right now I'm just annoyed that my Colombian neighbors cook with so much seasoning it makes me ask my boyfriend if one of our neighbors is shitting with the window open.

seriously, I love ethnic food as much as the next person and I understand that smelling cooking from all parts of the world in the hallways is part of new york apartment living. But dang when it's strong enough to permeate into my apartment and onto my clothes, sheets, and blankets from across the hall, I've seriously gotta wonder what the fuck they're making in there.

Colombian boyfriend says it smells delicious. Makes me terrified of what he expects from my cooking.

seriously how much Sazon Goya seasoning does one need?!

OMG, my heart goes out to you, I know exactly how annoying that can be. I once had a roommate who would eat multiple raw onions at a time, sliced and rolled in Tajin. I love onions and I love Mexican food, but it made the house smell like barfed-up onion sewage. Not yummy!

xxxGothBarbie
03-18-2015, 07:28 PM
I hate going out to do things during the day. Esp going to the grocery store or Target where these people allow let fucking kids to run amok thru the aisles while I'm trying to shop. Ugh I seriously hate kids!

Vyanka
03-18-2015, 08:23 PM
This stupid period is making me so emo. I wanna cry but don't know what to cry about. Sounds silly. Lol. I can't cry for no reason. Ugh. Hate this.

Also. I'm really digging Mr. Monster Cockasaurus former model. Ugh. That man is sexy. Hottest body I've ever seen in my life. Ugh. Christ. Life is good. Lol.

xStacey
03-18-2015, 08:48 PM
This stupid period is making me so emo. I wanna cry but don't know what to cry about. Sounds silly. Lol. I can't cry for no reason. Ugh. Hate this.

Also. I'm really digging Mr. Monster Cockasaurus former model. Ugh. That man is sexy. Hottest body I've ever seen in my life. Ugh. Christ. Life is good. Lol.

... ;D