View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Genoveve
11-25-2020, 10:03 PM
^^I felt bad for him at first because even though he was obnoxious as hell I felt like he was probably just really lonely and socially awkward and starved for some sort of interaction but now I'm like....oh dear. We have a nut onboard. It's crazy how he thinks that there's a chance I'd communicate with him in PMs or that girls on here will go hang out with him in other girls' cam rooms, especially when his signature says this:
but PM invite me to your camshow and see if I'm not a whale (if we click).
'If we click' LOL typical freeloader.
Genoveve
11-25-2020, 10:42 PM
My annoyance is my hair; it's the longest it's been since childhood--which isn't even that long--and I don't know how chicks do it. Now that it's long it's constantly getting accidentally ripped out, it gets caught in and on everything. And unless I'm on cam I have it all claw-clipped up on top of my head out of my way, if I didn't do that I'd probably be balding from accidentally ripping out so much throughout the entire day.
moneybags
11-26-2020, 03:32 AM
^^I felt bad for him at first because even though he was obnoxious as hell I felt like he was probably just really lonely and socially awkward and starved for some sort of interaction but now I'm like....oh dear. We have a nut onboard. It's crazy how he thinks that there's a chance I'd communicate with him in PMs or that girls on here will go hang out with him in other girls' cam rooms, especially when his signature says this:
but PM invite me to your camshow and see if I'm not a whale (if we click).
'If we click' LOL typical freeloader.
Girl when we learn...lol...I thought the same thing. I’m too fucking nice, but I’m starting to learn. No matter how nice a guy is...don’t trust them! They always have a hidden agenda.
One of my “nice” regs was trying to make me jealous. He messaged me today. And I felt bad, but I was like if he ain’t paying my bills I don’t need to talk to him. I’m really not like that in RL, but YOU have to be a bad bitch because good girls finish last. It’s not that I’m out looking to screw guys over, but if you don’t play the game you end up get played. No money. No attention. Sorry guys the worlds a screwed up place, I’m just doing what I have to do. Like Tupac said, “I never did a crime I didn’t have to do.”
miss.a.p1600
11-26-2020, 06:50 AM
^yeah one of the things o learned on here is even the “nice guys” aren’t so nice (but yet they think they are and walk around with an air of arrogance “I’m so ‘nice’, women still treat me like second class despite being so ‘nice’ - so what a bunch of dumb sluts and whores they are”
So call nice guys have hidden agendas and subconscious expectations just like any other guy
And they turn in you quick if you don’t bow down to them for being so “nice” to you.
indiegirl
11-26-2020, 07:00 AM
Girl when we learn...lol...I thought the same thing. I’m too fucking nice, but I’m starting to learn. No matter how nice a guy is...don’t trust them! They always have a hidden agenda.
One of my “nice” regs was trying to make me jealous. He messaged me today. And I felt bad, but I was like if he ain’t paying my bills I don’t need to talk to him. I’m really not like that in RL, but YOU have to be a bad bitch because good girls finish last. It’s not that I’m out looking to screw guys over, but if you don’t play the game you end up get played. No money. No attention. Sorry guys the worlds a screwed up place, I’m just doing what I have to do. Like Tupac said, “I never did a crime I didn’t have to do.”
Men just need to be put in their place and taught how to treat us. I think we've all fallen for their tactics in the SW world at some time. It's always the straightforward/confident (but nice about it) ladies that make the most. Being too nice got me nowhere at a point other than being taken advantage of lol. Stopped that really quick when I noticed.
Have a regular that decided to try to cross boundaries after seeing him multiple times. I let his messages/calls go on deaf ears. Or the "real dates" requests ....you mean FREE? No.
LoveyDovey
11-26-2020, 04:00 PM
So pissed! I have 5 housemates. Two of them have been all careless about catching covid, and long story short, 1 of them had covid TWICE and didn't tell us until today. I've felt fine this whole time (I am usually in my room avoiding everyone and I Clorox the bathroom before I use it.) but I had to go get tested today. FUCKING STUPID SELFISH MEN!! The lady at the testing center told me to get details of when he had it and where he got tested, then call the Sheriff and have his ass jailed. None of us here can stand the guy Cuz he is a disrespectful shit, and we've had enough!!! Now my income is going to be impimpacted because of that asshole!! So pissed!!!
indiegirl
11-26-2020, 04:27 PM
Got a late start on this day and took a long nap. Dang it. Hopefully can make money tonight. Some customer asked me what turns me on the most during an appointment. I wanted to respond back "more money"....so badly!!
lurkingtitties
11-26-2020, 05:44 PM
So pissed! I have 5 housemates. Two of them have been all careless about catching covid, and long story short, 1 of them had covid TWICE and didn't tell us until today. I've felt fine this whole time (I am usually in my room avoiding everyone and I Clorox the bathroom before I use it.) but I had to go get tested today. FUCKING STUPID SELFISH MEN!! The lady at the testing center told me to get details of when he had it and where he got tested, then call the Sheriff and have his ass jailed. None of us here can stand the guy Cuz he is a disrespectful shit, and we've had enough!!! Now my income is going to be impimpacted because of that asshole!! So pissed!!!
Nooooooooo! Ugh that’s so shitty of him to not tell you guys! Will they really arrest someone for that in your area? Haha cuz if so I want to move there
whirlerz
11-26-2020, 05:51 PM
So pissed! I have 5 housemates. Two of them have been all careless about catching covid, and long story short, 1 of them had covid TWICE and didn't tell us until today. I've felt fine this whole time (I am usually in my room avoiding everyone and I Clorox the bathroom before I use it.) but I had to go get tested today. FUCKING STUPID SELFISH MEN!! The lady at the testing center told me to get details of when he had it and where he got tested, then call the Sheriff and have his ass jailed. None of us here can stand the guy Cuz he is a disrespectful shit, and we've had enough!!! Now my income is going to be impimpacted because of that asshole!! So pissed!!!
Lovey - so sorry!
I, too, have 5 roomies, TG I have my own bathroom!
I do clean after them, cause they won't, the one guy had knee surgery, so he can't do a lot.
The one guy upstairs, he helps by putting out the full dumpster for pickup, he had to put them back too as the other dude upstairs won't, or the guy on my floor
He's the one I worry about catching Covid, I know he's probably at a family gathering, the knee surgery guy too.
Ugh, stfa from me!.
The guy on my floor, he does deliveries, my income got jacked he was a registered offender, this site I was selling stuff on, kicked me off, they finally let me back on, after weeks of begging & showing I had a different unit # from him.
I hope & pray you'll be fine.
After all the news of people everywhere, young, healthy etc getting sick & dying, I don't get the ignorance out there!
indiegirl
11-26-2020, 07:00 PM
Lovey - so sorry!
I, too, have 5 roomies, TG I have my own bathroom!
I do clean after them, cause they won't, the one guy had knee surgery, so he can't do a lot.
The one guy upstairs, he helps by putting out the full dumpster for pickup, he had to put them back too as the other dude upstairs won't, or the guy on my floor
He's the one I worry about catching Covid, I know he's probably at a family gathering, the knee surgery guy too.
Ugh, stfa from me!.
The guy on my floor, he does deliveries, my income got jacked he was a registered offender, this site I was selling stuff on, kicked me off, they finally let me back on, after weeks of begging & showing I had a different unit # from him.
I hope & pray you'll be fine.
After all the news of people everywhere, young, healthy etc getting sick & dying, I don't get the ignorance out there!
That's terrible he was roaming around with covid TWICE.
The social influencers and celebs in their mansions heading out and throwing parties is what really disgusts me. I feel ashamed to have worked during this pandemic (needed money) and I am not seeing a bunch of people. Most of the time I get grocery delivery or stay home. Hell, I just had a frozen thanksgiving dinner in my room today. I've not seen my roommates once in a mask. Frustrates me because god only knows where they go throughout the day. It's terrifying knowing people are dying out there and being so reckless throwing big gatherings or traveling.
Genoveve
11-26-2020, 07:02 PM
One of my “nice” regs was trying to make me jealous. He messaged me today. And I felt bad, but I was like if he ain’t paying my bills I don’t need to talk to him.
How was he trying to make you jealous? I have zero sympathy for customers who try to play psychological games like that because they always end up being the psychos. Only one kind of guy is going to be that interested in evoking an emotional response from a camgirl he barely knows and will never meet---the crazy kind.
miss.a.p1600
11-26-2020, 08:52 PM
Decided to cook for thanksgiving
Wtf was I thinking
Then L had the gall to ask “what kind of stuffing?” and and his sister gone ask “is the cranberry sauce from fresh cranberries?”
Look bitches. Don’t fucking asking questions unless you buying
All y’all need to fucking know is it’s gone taste good.
Hell!!!! Nosy Mfs!
And no cotdamn it! I’m taking the free and easy way out. Nothing is homemade because who tf has time for that?
Ok so I decided to make jazz up my cranberry sauce and to my surprise my canned cranberry sauce was transformed into a delicacy with a couple of spices plus orange juice n orange zest.
the “stovetop” stuffing tasted good
the mashed potatoes could have had some extra flair.
the turkey was the perfect size but I may have cooked it 20-15min too long
i botched the butterball gravy but thankfully I had an extra packet of McCormick gravy
the pie was good but I’m going to make a homemade crust next time.
indiegirl
11-26-2020, 09:35 PM
“I wanted to bust in you for 1,000k.” ....boyyyyy, I don’t want your nasty shit like that in me. Some repeats never fail to impress me with how they change.
LoveyDovey
11-26-2020, 11:07 PM
That's terrible he was roaming around with covid TWICE.
The social influencers and celebs in their mansions heading out and throwing parties is what really disgusts me. I feel ashamed to have worked during this pandemic (needed money) and I am not seeing a bunch of people. Most of the time I get grocery delivery or stay home. Hell, I just had a frozen thanksgiving dinner in my room today. I've not seen my roommates once in a mask. Frustrates me because god only knows where they go throughout the day. It's terrifying knowing people are dying out there and being so reckless throwing big gatherings or traveling.
No joke! I am fucking livid right now. He is fucking with a native Philly bitch, and she's ready to school this skank!!! Our lives have value! Where's the respect?????
I'm disgusted with the parties too. So not cool.
LoveyDovey
11-26-2020, 11:14 PM
Lovey - so sorry!
I, too, have 5 roomies, TG I have my own bathroom!
I do clean after them, cause they won't, the one guy had knee surgery, so he can't do a lot.
The one guy upstairs, he helps by putting out the full dumpster for pickup, he had to put them back too as the other dude upstairs won't, or the guy on my floor
He's the one I worry about catching Covid, I know he's probably at a family gathering, the knee surgery guy too.
Ugh, stfa from me!.
The guy on my floor, he does deliveries, my income got jacked he was a registered offender, this site I was selling stuff on, kicked me off, they finally let me back on, after weeks of begging & showing I had a different unit # from him.
I hope & pray you'll be fine.
After all the news of people everywhere, young, healthy etc getting sick & dying, I don't get the ignorance out there!
Thank you. I feel fine, thank God. And you are so lucky to have your own bathroom! I wish I did so bad for this very reason. I have to share a bathroom with this trainwreck. He never wears a mask and is like "fuck covid" and leaves his trash everywhere and never cleans up his kitchen crap. We're over it and I want him out. His name is Brian. Brian the Biohazard Skank. Girl I hope your roomiess are being safe. It just sucks when your housemates are literally giving your health and well being the finger. Seriously. Fuck this guy.
I feel you on housemates not pulling their weight. I'm looking for a better living situation. Over it.
Just stay away from everyone.
I hope you stay safe as well.
whirlerz
11-27-2020, 12:04 AM
OMG, we had a nightmare guy named Brian..
I told landlord if he ever comes on this property again, Im taking a bat to him, THEN calling the Sheriff.
He was like, "Fine".::)
I just started back camming, I fell through w/a couple vanilla jobs, going Mon. to try another..these jobs are brutal, camming's no walk in the park of course.
I need also to focus myself outside of here & detach, or lose my shit over idiots, I don't think so!
No, I they're careless AF. Every fucking day, I clean the stove, ( I rarely use it tho) wipe countertops etc.
Dont forget putting down the boric acid for roaches.
I get & distribute the mail, the one guy had surgery so I help him.
Last yr, he got really sick. I told him before that to get a flu shot, but no.
We thought he might have had covid then, he tested negative.
The other guy cant be arsed to do anything, except make/leave a mess.
Why should I get his mail?
Im getting a mini fridge w/separate freezer, so I use the kitchen less. I have one now, but it doesn't have a separate freezer.
I hope you find a much better place, best to US!
moneybags
11-27-2020, 02:38 AM
That's terrible he was roaming around with covid TWICE.
The social influencers and celebs in their mansions heading out and throwing parties is what really disgusts me. I feel ashamed to have worked during this pandemic (needed money) and I am not seeing a bunch of people. Most of the time I get grocery delivery or stay home. Hell, I just had a frozen thanksgiving dinner in my room today. I've not seen my roommates once in a mask. Frustrates me because god only knows where they go throughout the day. It's terrifying knowing people are dying out there and being so reckless throwing big gatherings or traveling.
My best friend went to the hospital today because of it. She has asthma though, but still she’s never had to go to the hospital multiple times for a common cold.
It really pissed me off this cheap regular messaged me out of the blue and had the balls to text me and say “Are you too scared to come back to the club?” Shame on anyone who doesn't take the pandemic seriously. WTF is wrong with people that they can’t meet the bare minimum requirements for being a decent human being. I wish it only infected the dumbasses that didn’t take it seriously, but that’s not infectious diseases work.
I totally get girls need to work and that’s not who I’m talking about or people that are managing the risk the best they can. We’ve all been put in an impossible situation by our incompetent leaders. It’s the people who are acting like three year olds and acting out that I’m disgusted by.
Treat the virus with the respect it deserves.
WendiStarr
11-27-2020, 09:32 AM
Former fbsm regular reached out and tried to set up a fbsm, under the guise of wanting to help me out with some extra Christmas cash. I told him that I'm retired from that for now and have no idea when or if I'll ever return to fbsm. I directed him to NF and said he could buy goodies there or call me there. Our state is shut down for fucks sake! I'm not going to waste my money on paying for a babysitter and a hotel room, just so I can earn nothing after paying for both. Even if I got a dumpy motel room, I'd only earn $20 after expenses. He got all butthurt that I'm not going to tell him what city I live in or let him come to my house. Pandemic must be causing some men to have brain damage or something because who the heck would risk doing fbsm in their house with their kids there? Idiot. He sent me a link to a craigslist ad of some very young looking girl who he said he was going to see instead and "give her a good Christmas" because she's willing to do fbsm and bbfs. I'm hoping that that turns out to be an undercover LE. If it's not then it might be a desperate sw doing survival escorting because she put her rates at $20/hour for fbsm and $50 bbfs. If that's not LE then I feel bad that trash men are taking advantage of someone in hard times that appears to be survival escorting.
carmen_b
11-27-2020, 03:56 PM
^ Ew.
Of course he can’t just buy what you ARE offering.
Maybe block time for that one.
LoveyDovey
11-27-2020, 07:30 PM
So Biohazard Brian is out in 2 weeks. Landlord gave him notice a few weeks ago bc we're tired of his shit. Waiting for my covid test results but I feel fine so I am being cautiously optimistic.
xxxGothBarbie
11-28-2020, 03:53 AM
Pms & Beyond stressed on trying to find a cheap clean & non roommate situation to live in for awhile. Ugh hate feeling this emotional.
LoveyDovey
11-28-2020, 05:01 AM
Pms & Beyond stressed on trying to find a cheap clean & non roommate situation to live in for awhile. Ugh hate feeling this emotional.
I am right there with you. It's. 4 am here and I woke up to my housemate's blaring music. Apparently he thinks this is a great time for a party. Idk how many people he has over now. These ppl I live with think I am making a bigger deal about covid than necessary. I so miss having my own place. Good luck in your search. Some of us just do better without dumb, annoying housemates.
whirlerz
11-28-2020, 10:40 AM
I . Some of us just do better without dumb, annoying housemates.
Yea! OMG w/the music! TG that's not the case here, I'd go insane ugh
So, the house Im in is sold.. closing's Jan.5th..
Not sure what to make of it, I hope they don't raise the rent.
The present landlord said the new owner is taking photos of our rooms, ? He said my room looks ok, I want to make it better, for myself.
But, kinda pissed, Im starting (I hope, its a try out to see how I do) a new job so I really just want to relax now/:O
whirlerz
11-28-2020, 10:48 AM
So Biohazard Brian is out in 2 weeks. Landlord gave him notice a few weeks ago bc we're tired of his shit. Waiting for my covid test results but I feel fine so I am being cautiously optimistic.
Yay, GREAT news! Good luck, I know you'll be fine
chanzep
11-28-2020, 11:43 AM
So I left out some broccoli last night eww. My apartment stinks. I have bleached kitchen but smell is lingering in bedroom and bathroom. I have Windows open and will bleach everywhere I can smh. Horrible smell.
whirlerz
11-28-2020, 11:49 AM
So I left out some broccoli last night eww. My apartment stinks. I have bleached kitchen but smell is lingering in bedroom and bathroom. I have Windows open and will bleach everywhere I can smh. Horrible smell.
Get urself a can of Ozium!
Walmart has the best price, or any auto supply or gas station has, comes in a mini size too.
Best thing ever for any smells , it actually purifies the air. The original scent has a clean citrus scent
indiegirl
11-28-2020, 11:54 AM
Get urself a can of Ozium!
Walmart has the best price, or any auto supply or gas station has, comes in a mini size too.
Best thing ever for any smells , it actually purifies the air. The original scent has a clean citrus scent
Is the ozium safe around pets? It has good reviews on amazon.
lynn2009
11-28-2020, 01:04 PM
I am right there with you. It's. 4 am here and I woke up to my housemate's blaring music. Apparently he thinks this is a great time for a party. Idk how many people he has over now. These ppl I live with think I am making a bigger deal about covid than necessary. I so miss having my own place. Good luck in your search. Some of us just do better without dumb, annoying housemates.
My downstairs neighbor has been really bad this week too.
My dog has developed a poop encrusted bottom. I've been cleaning it a bit day to day but I finally got fed up and cleaned him up I hope properly with a full bag of baby wipes today. I thought he was going to bite me. But I had to, poor guy could hardly get new poop out.
Genoveve
11-28-2020, 01:13 PM
^^^If I notice poop crust on my dog's bottom I cut it off with scissors(my dog has no problem being groomed though).
chanzep
11-28-2020, 01:38 PM
So some people in opposite building in apartment leave their dog in balcony all the time and it barks. It has been going on for months. It's annoying but I feel sorry for dog. At 1st I was not sure which apartment but I found out. I spoke to office today they said lots of people complaining and they have some long process they have to do. They said they called animal people but they need calls from residents. I'm wondering what will happen if I call. I don't want the noise or dog to suffer. Dog is out there all night sometimes.
Genoveve
11-28-2020, 02:27 PM
^^My dog came from a balcony. My friend's friend's neighbor had her on a small apartment balcony for like 9 years. Never potty-trained, never taken for walks, had to go to the bathroom on old towels they kept on the balcony. She gets to go everywhere now though:
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lynn2009
11-28-2020, 02:33 PM
^^^If I notice poop crust on my dog's bottom I cut it off with scissors(my dog has no problem being groomed though).
Mine hates everything. He likes being loved on but won't let me brush his teeth or fur, clip his nails or anything. Idk what kind of magic they work at his groomer but once I tried to get his nails done at the vet while we were already there and even they gave up. They brought him back out early with sedation meds to try again.
LoveyDovey
11-28-2020, 07:00 PM
Yay, GREAT news! Good luck, I know you'll be fine
My covid test came back negative. Thank God!!!
moneybags
11-29-2020, 01:22 AM
^^^Yay!
My pissy annoyance having to wait and see when it comes to important matters. I hate waiting to hear back from people. Literally if I went to hell that would be the perfect way to torture me is to make me wait by phone for important information.
indiegirl
11-29-2020, 01:27 AM
Mine hates everything. He likes being loved on but won't let me brush his teeth or fur, clip his nails or anything. Idk what kind of magic they work at his groomer but once I tried to get his nails done at the vet while we were already there and even they gave up. They brought him back out early with sedation meds to try again.
Haha some dogs act like they're about to be waterboarded when you're just trying to take care of them. 4 people had to hold my large dog down just to clip his toenails while he cried. Petsmart wanted to sedate him with a veterinarian and I don't want a drugged up dog every time he needs his nails trimmed. He's such a big baby lol. They're nails! Hate going to the groomers lol. I went to this small asian owned business and now help hold him down for his 'moment' The joys of owning a pit bull lol.
lurkingtitties
11-29-2020, 06:30 AM
My dog totally acts like he’s about to be water boarded when I give him a bath!
lynn2009
11-29-2020, 10:22 AM
My dog totally acts like he’s about to be water boarded when I give him a bath!
Mine actually does let me give him baths which I need to do every two weeks or so because he has very strong dog instincts and rolls around on garbage or dead animals a lot before he needs a haircut. He also gets scared at the groomer and wants to be held after we park. He's such a baby.
He didn't strain to poo today so I'm going to call that solid dog parenting.
WendiStarr
11-29-2020, 06:05 PM
Stupid ass medicaid and Amazon. Back in late March I received a letter from DHS that my health insurance/medicaid would be ending since I had given birth in January. Women always automatically get kicked off at 2 months postpartum anyways so it was just whatever. I started working that seasonal job at Amazon the 2nd week in April. I checked my mail today (didn't bother checking it sooner due to holiday)and I got a letter from DHS, saying that I failed to report my income to them and threatening to send a subpoena to gain access to my bank accounts if I don't provide pay stubs, hours worked, etc with Amazon. Well, the Amazon job ended back in July. I cannot access ADP because it directs me to call Amazon. Amazon's HR seems to be based overseas with people who barely comprehend the English language. They weren't able to help me. This is all so dumb because I didn't know I still had Medicaid insurance, otherwise I would've reported the income to them. It's not like I made a huge amount of money. I have had little to no income for a few months now. I'm already in a situation where I'm trying to just survive. My fear is that even though I have no substantial income, they're going to find the escape savings, decide they want to use it to pay the hospital bill from giving birth, and take everything.
chanzep
11-29-2020, 06:21 PM
Omg that's terrible you did not work there for long. I hope you are able to sort this out.
lynn2009
11-29-2020, 06:25 PM
I hate when people try to play off obvious statements like it is a revolutionary thought and they are so unique and a great thinker. Like fuck cancer or the kardashians are sooo shallow or Christmas is so commercialized these days. Like ok Aristotle thanks for enlightening us with your brilliance. We never would have gotten there without you.
Aurora_Sunset
11-30-2020, 09:25 AM
I was really trying to enjoy my quarantine and had a nice little setup in the bedroom. But 4 days in - the night before Thanksgiving - our apartment building had a big fire. The main power box downstairs exploded. It was terrifying. The Red Cross put us in a hotel and fed us for Thanksgiving, and now renter's insurance has us in a suite. But we won't get back into our place for over a month because it has no power. Luckily, the fire department got there super quickly and contained it, but because the backside of our unit backs up to the wall that caught fire, there was a lot of smoke damage to our furniture. We're hoping insurance just agrees to replace at least our mattresses.
We have the option to just terminate our lease and move, but when I looked over our budget yesterday, I just got more stressed out at the fact that we just do not make enough money to upgrade to a 3-bedroom apartment (which bio-mom is insisting on whenever we move), unless it's in a super shitty part of town and a complex with terrible reviews. I also just don't know how/when we would have time to move. When I go back to work, I'll be on 70+ hour weeks all month, and can't pack at night after work, with no power. I can't get into the building without an appointment anyway, because it's all boarded up. So I'll have to come up with the money to hire a service. I know insurance will pay us back, but I have to pay them in the first place.
The really scary thing about that explosion was that the box is right by the door that we use every day. We walk directly past it all the time. And I looked back at the time that I called 911 - if I hadn't been quarantined, I would've been leaving for my second job right around the time it happened. That explosion would've killed me, or whoever, if they had been walking in or out when it happened.
Aurora_Sunset
11-30-2020, 09:25 AM
Then, bio-mom pissed me off even more last night, because the kids wanted to Facetime to see "their room" at the hotel. And the first words out of her mouth were "They have to share a bed?" as though they don't end up cuddling in the same bed every damn night anyway... And wtf do you expect? It's a fucking hotel. There's only so much space. And then the kids are like "No TV?" And then asking if we're gonna buy a PS5, and oh, they hung out with their stepbrother's mom that day and she has a fancy new car, blah blah blah. I know the kids don't get it... but it was still exceptionally annoying on a day that I was just stressing out about money and literally our entire living situation. And clearly, their mother isn't over there, explaining to them the seriousness of being displaced from your home by a fire, and how things are gonna be a little tough for awhile, and Christmas might not be huge this year - no. Instead, the bitch is on the phone telling us that they want technology and a Kindle this year because their stepbrother has one. Yeah, ok, let me get right the fuck on that... Heinous, spoiled bitch, raising little clueless, spoiled children. It drives me crazy.
carmen_b
11-30-2020, 09:28 AM
^ Dude these kids can share a damn room in the new place.
Be firm with her. :(
Lame !
miss.a.p1600
11-30-2020, 09:30 AM
I was really trying to enjoy my quarantine and had a nice little setup in the bedroom. But 4 days in - the night before Thanksgiving - our apartment building had a big fire. The main power box downstairs exploded. It was terrifying. The Red Cross put us in a hotel and fed us for Thanksgiving, and now renter's insurance has us in a suite. But we won't get back into our place for over a month because it has no power. Luckily, the fire department got there super quickly and contained it, but because the backside of our unit backs up to the wall that caught fire, there was a lot of smoke damage to our furniture. We're hoping insurance just agrees to replace at least our mattresses.
We have the option to just terminate our lease and move, but when I looked over our budget yesterday, I just got more stressed out at the fact that we just do not make enough money to upgrade to a 3-bedroom apartment (which bio-mom is insisting on whenever we move), unless it's in a super shitty part of town and a complex with terrible reviews. I also just don't know how/when we would have time to move. When I go back to work, I'll be on 70+ hour weeks all month, and can't pack at night after work, with no power. I can't get into the building without an appointment anyway, because it's all boarded up. So I'll have to come up with the money to hire a service. I know insurance will pay us back, but I have to pay them in the first place.
The really scary thing about that explosion was that the box is right by the door that we use every day. We walk directly past it all the time. And I looked back at the time that I called 911 - if I hadn't been quarantined, I would've been leaving for my second job right around the time it happened. That explosion would've killed me, or whoever, if they had been walking in or out when it happened.
Its a good thing you have renters insurance, and that y'all are okay.
do you and your husband have life insurance as well?
miss.a.p1600
11-30-2020, 09:32 AM
Then, bio-mom pissed me off even more last night, because the kids wanted to Facetime to see "their room" at the hotel. And the first words out of her mouth were "They have to share a bed?" as though they don't end up cuddling in the same bed every damn night anyway... And wtf do you expect? It's a fucking hotel. There's only so much space. And then the kids are like "No TV?" And then asking if we're gonna buy a PS5, and oh, they hung out with their stepbrother's mom that day and she has a fancy new car, blah blah blah. I know the kids don't get it... but it was still exceptionally annoying on a day that I was just stressing out about money and literally our entire living situation. And clearly, their mother isn't over there, explaining to them the seriousness of being displaced from your home by a fire, and how things are gonna be a little tough for awhile, and Christmas might not be huge this year - no. Instead, the bitch is on the phone telling us that they want technology and a Kindle this year because their stepbrother has one. Yeah, ok, let me get right the fuck on that... Heinous, spoiled bitch, raising little clueless, spoiled children. It drives me crazy.
Making me rethink this whole stepmom thing......Lol! I am not sure I'm cut out for it
Aurora_Sunset
11-30-2020, 09:44 AM
Yes, thank god for renter's insurance. My husband has life insurance through work, but I don't.
I'm sure being a stepmom isn't terrible if the bio-mom isn't crazy and spoiled. It's moreso her spoiled cluelessness that gets to me a lot. A lot her "bitchiness" is just entitled, spoiled cluelessness from never having to "adult" for herself or go through hard times financially, because her parents are very wealthy and have always coddled her. So she constantly just expects and demands things of us that we literally can't do, and judges us and turns the kids against us if we say we can't provide a 5-star life in every single regard. I understand she "wants the best for her kids," but she is completely disconnected from the reality that not everyone has a rich mommy and daddy to run to for everything that they can't afford themselves. If her house burned down, they would just be at her parents' with them going out and replacing everything, I'm sure. They'd probably even buy her ass a new house, just like they bought the one she lives in now.... Anyway... I'm ranting... lol
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-30-2020, 02:27 PM
I was really trying to enjoy my quarantine and had a nice little setup in the bedroom. But 4 days in - the night before Thanksgiving - our apartment building had a big fire. The main power box downstairs exploded. It was terrifying. The Red Cross put us in a hotel and fed us for Thanksgiving, and now renter's insurance has us in a suite. But we won't get back into our place for over a month because it has no power. Luckily, the fire department got there super quickly and contained it, but because the backside of our unit backs up to the wall that caught fire, there was a lot of smoke damage to our furniture. We're hoping insurance just agrees to replace at least our mattresses.
We have the option to just terminate our lease and move, but when I looked over our budget yesterday, I just got more stressed out at the fact that we just do not make enough money to upgrade to a 3-bedroom apartment (which bio-mom is insisting on whenever we move), unless it's in a super shitty part of town and a complex with terrible reviews. I also just don't know how/when we would have time to move. When I go back to work, I'll be on 70+ hour weeks all month, and can't pack at night after work, with no power. I can't get into the building without an appointment anyway, because it's all boarded up. So I'll have to come up with the money to hire a service. I know insurance will pay us back, but I have to pay them in the first place.
The really scary thing about that explosion was that the box is right by the door that we use every day. We walk directly past it all the time. And I looked back at the time that I called 911 - if I hadn't been quarantined, I would've been leaving for my second job right around the time it happened. That explosion would've killed me, or whoever, if they had been walking in or out when it happened.
Glad you're okay!
BTW check out the apartment complexes yourself- our last place had a lot of bad reviews but our experience was good.
My apartment building caught fire and I was shocked at how toxic the smoke is from a building fire- it was a scary experience.
miss.a.p1600
11-30-2020, 04:12 PM
Yes, thank god for renter's insurance. My husband has life insurance through work, but I don't.
I'm sure being a stepmom isn't terrible if the bio-mom isn't crazy and spoiled. It's moreso her spoiled cluelessness that gets to me a lot. A lot her "bitchiness" is just entitled, spoiled cluelessness from never having to "adult" for herself or go through hard times financially, because her parents are very wealthy and have always coddled her. So she constantly just expects and demands things of us that we literally can't do, and judges us and turns the kids against us if we say we can't provide a 5-star life in every single regard. I understand she "wants the best for her kids," but she is completely disconnected from the reality that not everyone has a rich mommy and daddy to run to for everything that they can't afford themselves. If her house burned down, they would just be at her parents' with them going out and replacing everything, I'm sure. They'd probably even buy her ass a new house, just like they bought the one she lives in now.... Anyway... I'm ranting... lol
well does seem a bit domineering that she can provide that but pokes her nose in y’all’s business. She should pay him extra in child support if she wants it done her way.
and I’m all for trust funds n what not but even the sensible wealthy people art their kids up for self sufficiency at some point.
if she really looked cold n hard shed realizes she is no different than the people she judges. If her parents hadn’t set up the trust fund she would be in the exact same place most likely
N you might want to look at insurance on yourself especially if you think medical expenses from a severe disability would cause financial strain and if you think he’ll struggle financially right away without your income.
Genoveve
11-30-2020, 07:29 PM
Looks like Raziel has created his (at least)third alter ego on here and this time it’s a super honest extras girl.
carmen_b
11-30-2020, 07:37 PM
wtf ? hahahaha