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indiegirl
12-03-2020, 04:21 AM
Checked my messages and homeboy decided to bail for our appointment. My “I’m here” fell on deaf ears. Sometimes I wanna scream at these lunatics. I rushed to get there for YOU!!!! No wonder I need a calm atmosphere at home.

He never came

indiegirl
12-03-2020, 04:38 AM
He decided to respond now. I would like to be upset but I’m not fucking around with a central air system cost. Sorry to blast my crisis lol

LoveyDovey
12-03-2020, 08:08 AM
This is just my opinion, but why do we (women) believe there’s something wrong with us for wanting to do it like the dudes? Guys have the exact same logic and no one looks at Leanardo DiCaprio like he’s some wounded bird cause he dates 24 year old models. If that’s how you feel that’s valid, but I think we as women get brainwashed about we NEED a relationship or there’s something wrong with us. A lot times men are just a waste of time. There’s a lot of good guys, but there’s a lot of bad dudes. Why roll that dice when you can be happy on your own or in a committed relationship. Marriage was designed to be a legal contract. Women were one time property. Yet if you dare say you want to be single forever people treat you like your crazy for not wanting to be in a legal contract forever? WTF to each their own, but just cause I’m better off alone doesn’t mean I’m broken. It means I outsmarted the system

I agree. Why should we be treated like wounded birds when we choose to dodge a bullet and stay single? I'd rather be on my own and thrive then lower myself to be in some sort of relationship where the dude's going to be stupid and abusive. If I'm thriving on my own, why mess that up? I think men's egos can't handle it when someone like me tells them that I'm better off without them.

indiegirl
12-03-2020, 09:29 AM
Wtf. Is happening with raziel! Lord. Got another message from him upset being accused he is not a writer. GO Awway! What am I to do about your bs. I don’t care. This site is my safe place ... raziel can go fuck himself and find a new place. I’m not trying to be hateful but go be stable raziel or fix some shit.

Talked about returning or whatev’s. Return to a new you.

whirlerz
12-03-2020, 10:10 AM
You can report him..

He's a major PIA!

whirlerz
12-03-2020, 10:18 AM
So my hair's super knotty rn, using a spray kid's detangler, I have some pac treatments from Sally's, a protein & hydration.

Almost out of my IGKspray that I love, expensive even on ebay

naomi_doll
12-03-2020, 10:35 AM
I would definitely report him. You've told him already to leave you alone. Messages have the same report triangle at the bottom as posts do.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-03-2020, 11:06 AM
Wtf. Is happening with raziel! Lord. Got another message from him upset being accused he is not a writer. GO Awway! What am I to do about your bs. I don’t care. This site is my safe place ... raziel can go fuck himself and find a new place. I’m not trying to be hateful but go be stable raziel or fix some shit.

Talked about returning or whatev’s. Return to a new you.

Hi there! Please report the message so that we can see it then do something about it. I noticed he hasnt posted since the mellowmutt account was finally pointed. Coincedence maybe... doubt it.

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-03-2020, 01:20 PM
I'm petty annoyed I had some realizations about my mom but I'm the only one who can appreciate these things as everyone else in my family "feels sorry" for her. (Even my dad who was dicked over in so many ways by my mom.)

I really will just have to put her out of my mind.

Aurora_Sunset
12-03-2020, 02:01 PM
I'm so over the stress. I was supposed to enjoy my time off. Instead, I've got insurance and the cleaners to deal with every day; my husband is all stressed out because the new health insurance hasn't been activated yet and his ex is blowing him up bitching from the doctor's office while he's at work - I tried to do it myself, but the website isn't working. And he failed a test today and has to re-take tomorrow.

So, now I'm vicariously stressed out for him, and feel terrible just sitting around while he has a test, his bitchy ex-wife, and the health insurance all hanging over his head while he's stuck at work at a crappy job until midnight.... I wish there was something I could do.

indiegirl
12-03-2020, 02:20 PM
You can report him..

He's a major PIA!

Sorry I just came home from work and exhausted (soooo nap time) ....not sure where or how to report RAZIEL. Hell, maybe we all should. LOL

whirlerz
12-03-2020, 08:02 PM
Well, that's an idea.
Below each post, there's: thank, blog this post, & a tiny triangle w/exclamation point.
Hit that to report a post. It brings up a blank message, you type in what you want to say.

Or email DJoser, the mod for Lounge, (sometimes Bahuba helps out, probably have better luck w/him).

indiegirl
12-04-2020, 02:43 AM
Well, that's an idea.
Below each post, there's: thank, blog this post, & a tiny triangle w/exclamation point.
Hit that to report a post. It brings up a blank message, you type in what you want to say.

Or email DJoser, the mod for Lounge, (sometimes Bahuba helps out, probably have better luck w/him).

He even messaged me about his hooker account and talking about it LOL. Unstable at it's finest. Ok thank you. I'm going to report him.

miss.a.p1600
12-04-2020, 05:10 AM
I don't even know if I ever want to get married in the first place. At one point I did. But now I almost feel like, what's the point? Why would I build my life up just to legally attach myself to somebody who could wreck it? I like having the GTFO option with no legal strings attached.. Maybe I'm just hurting from a lot in the past and I'm just not healed enough to start anything new with anyone. I kind of just want to be on my own for a while. If I were to give another guy a chance, he'd have to be hot with a sense of humor, someone who can make me laugh and smile and not be a controlling abusive manipulative douche. And he's got to have his own job/money, be respectful and reciprocating. and I'm not going to date anybody after I've gotten to know them as a friend for a while. that's the other thing too. It's like they'll be cool at first, but then once you start dating them, they switch into dick head mode. I'm so over it.

i thought you had a bf?

Yeah I start questioning the marriage thing too. I feel like it’s a trick for a man (who might not be able to get easy sex) to use your pussy as a 24/7 trampoline

LoveyDovey
12-04-2020, 06:31 AM
i thought you had a bf?

Yeah I start questioning the marriage thing too. I feel like it’s a trick for a man (who might not be able to get easy sex) to use your pussy as a 24/7 trampoline

I do/did have a boyfriend, but I'm really disappointed over the way things are going and am realizing that I have to let him go. He's just been and will probably be a lot of drama. I don't need more trauma in my life. At the point where I feel like being alone is a better option. I just want to build a life for myself by myself and I really don't need a man to come along and screw everything up like they typically do.

There are just too many red flags coming from this guy. And we all know how red flags are not a turn on.

Aurora_Sunset
12-04-2020, 08:45 AM
I hate people who act like everything is a time-critical fucking emergency when it's not. Then, no matter how much you're trying to go on and live your life, you feel the pressure of stopping and fixing things for them NOW - not because you actually think it's important, but to get them to stop fucking harassing you about it. People who just insist that, because they can't get a handle on their own anxiety, that they can't allow anyone else to have any level of peace or calm.

miss.a.p1600
12-04-2020, 08:53 AM
^lol my relatives be doing that.

They’ll text n when you don’t answer within the hour they go on a rampage acting like they’re dying and you should respond instantly. Like some emergency when it’s not. Nevermind the fact the people have lives n work n things to tend to.

Like I appreciate the invite to go places but cotdamn more than 1 hour notice would be splendid

I’m not going to drop everything to cater to them/their needs.

miss.a.p1600
12-04-2020, 08:56 AM
I do/did have a boyfriend, but I'm really disappointed over the way things are going and am realizing that I have to let him go. He's just been and will probably be a lot of drama. I don't need more trauma in my life. At the point where I feel like being alone is a better option. I just want to build a life for myself by myself and I really don't need a man to come along and screw everything up like they typically do.

There are just too many red flags coming from this guy. And we all know how red flags are not a turn on.

sorry to hear about that.

but on the flip side you recognize that before you get tangled up to deep n it’s hard / impossible to leave

i question my relationships like I thought I want marriage and a baby but I want to be absolutely confident it’s with the right man cause I don’t want to be in something long term that’s going to drag me down, decrease my lifestyle, etc.

like I halfway just want to have a harem of friends with benefits n call it a day. But then again from what ladies said about the FWB situation most dudes conveniently leave out the “friends” part.

Soooooo

Maybe just a vibrator and an occasional straight male escort

WendiStarr
12-04-2020, 12:17 PM
I had 2 hours of free time and nothing but endless freeloaders on MFC. Ugh!

carmen_b
12-04-2020, 12:27 PM
I think most longer term type dudes are happy with just a couple times per week.
:)

Most anyway.


i thought you had a bf?

Yeah I start questioning the marriage thing too. I feel like it’s a trick for a man (who might not be able to get easy sex) to use your pussy as a 24/7 trampoline

miss.a.p1600
12-04-2020, 12:53 PM
My friend who hooked me up with the career successful guy said I should never have responded to his texts and to start ghosting him

Now I’m getting the thought he may be slick narcissistic player because she said no the grass is not greener on the other side.

I’ll just leave it alone for now. Last thing I need is some guy requesting my valuable time and my attention when they aren’t going to be giving anything in return. I also don’t want to be with guys who play games and act arrogant and have no empathy and don’t respect women which is pretty much what a typical narcissist would do

carmen_b
12-04-2020, 01:54 PM
Lovey :
Smart girl !
Recognize those red flags and create a better solo plan !

carmen_b
12-04-2020, 01:56 PM
Winter bullshit is kicking my ass.

I have this extensive self care plan but it’s still driving me nuts!

I guess better in this location than my former ( snowy ! ) one from last year.

miss.a.p1600
12-04-2020, 04:47 PM
L gets excited when people mistake his ethnic identity

I’m like you look NOTHING like the ethnicities these clueless people are mistaking you for you look exactly like the ethnicity of your ancestors

moneybags
12-04-2020, 07:22 PM
He even messaged me about his hooker account and talking about it LOL. Unstable at it's finest. Ok thank you. I'm going to report him.

Wow! Yeah I started ignoring him. I try to give guys the benefit of the doubt and assume they are decent human beings, but I need to quit doing that. I think it’s good to be a bit of skeptical of the guys on this forum. Oh well. Another one bites the dust.

My petty annoyance is arguing with people online. It’s always a waste of time arguing with people online. I won’t do it again. Although part of my feminist work is using my voice to call other people out. I’m glad I did, but I hate arguing with people as usually it’s unproductive and everyone’s feelings get hurt. I’m saving my voice for people who matter and ignoring the haters.

indiegirl
12-04-2020, 07:33 PM
I had 2 hours of free time and nothing but endless freeloaders on MFC. Ugh!


Hahaha it's always when being busy guys are miraculously wanting to spend money, but when we have an open schedule you hear crickets. Thought I was getting an appointment and was sent an email "want to share pics?" ......NOOOOO. lol

WendiStarr
12-04-2020, 08:32 PM
Hahaha it's always when being busy guys are miraculously wanting to spend money, but when we have an open schedule you hear crickets. Thought I was getting an appointment and was sent an email "want to share pics?" ......NOOOOO. lol

Yes, that is so true! When I'm busy doing a Pvt show on cam they go nuts blowing me up with PM's, wanting a show. Then on the days when I have no pre-arranged cam show, they claim to be broke, "want to get to know me first", want to ask a million personal questions, and waste my time. Omg, I hate the pics request guys! When I used to do fbsm full-time I had those fuckers annoying me as well, always during the slow times too.

xxxGothBarbie
12-04-2020, 09:10 PM
Yes, that is so true! When I'm busy doing a Pvt show on cam they go nuts blowing me up with PM's, wanting a show. Then on the days when I have no pre-arranged cam show, they claim to be broke, "want to get to know me first", want to ask a million personal questions, and waste my time. Omg, I hate the pics request guys! When I used to do fbsm full-time I had those fuckers annoying me as well, always during the slow times too.

OMG so true haha :P
I've had that happen after not working or being avail for a few weeks at a time they literally have the worst timing.

indiegirl
12-05-2020, 03:54 AM
I hate people who act like everything is a time-critical fucking emergency when it's not. Then, no matter how much you're trying to go on and live your life, you feel the pressure of stopping and fixing things for them NOW - not because you actually think it's important, but to get them to stop fucking harassing you about it. People who just insist that, because they can't get a handle on their own anxiety, that they can't allow anyone else to have any level of peace or calm.

For real!!!!! I show up angry inside to do what they need/want just so they can back off with all the texts. It's always something completely not an emergency and something simple. Picking up a card from someones house is not an emergency in my eyes that needs to be done now.

LoveyDovey
12-05-2020, 08:12 AM
Lovey :
Smart girl !
Recognize those red flags and create a better solo plan !

Thank you. I live in Southern California and I am thinking about moving to Los Angeles to pursue some long-term career goals. I have a gig coming up this week there working on a film set and the director is really cool. I have a feeling he's going to offer me Steady work after the new year because the TV show we worked on last year is picking up. So this is a great time for me to get the f*** and make a fresh start. No boyfriends for a while. I'm over them. This is about me now.

kimbe
12-05-2020, 10:35 AM
You know the feeling of dealing with people that don’t know how to do their stuff?
Well I’m annoyed because when I went for a routine laser hair removal treatment yesterday, I immediately felt the person doing it didn’t have the correct technique. Ok, so the person who have done my treatments for long time is in quarantine so I got a new one. Actually, the clinic texted me and told me my regular technician wasn’t working and gave me the option of either reschedule or have another technician, so that was good service. However I immediately recognized she didn’t do it as thoroughly as the one usually doing it, she was way to quick, she moved the laser too fast! I’ve been doing this for such a long time now so I have a good clue how it’s supposed to be done.
I didn’t feel like telling the person how to do her job, now I’m also annoyed for not telling her.. I debating if I should text my regular technician back and tell her that I’m not satisfied (the treatment becomes far less effective when the laser is moved too fast over the skin).

whirlerz
12-05-2020, 11:03 AM
So, the landlord's here, now someone else who bought the blg (closing next mo.) wants to see my room..not happy.

They've been in here like 3x's already, they're outside now or walking thru the house, Idk.

Fucking Creepy AF.

Sitting on my bed watching, while they bs around outside in the yard..

Actually, just went in my bathroom & locked the door.

Our current landlord doesn't wear a mask either.

He left my damn door unlocked, the couple upstairs is in the kitchen (right next door) I don't want the door swinging open so I locked it.

TF

Lol, nothing, didn't come back? Another time? Idk

Jucie
12-05-2020, 11:12 AM
@kimbe
I’d let her know, maybe you’ll get a discount next time :)

indiegirl
12-05-2020, 11:13 AM
You know the feeling of dealing with people that don’t know how to do their stuff?
Well I’m annoyed because when I went for a routine laser hair removal treatment yesterday, I immediately felt the person doing it didn’t have the correct technique. Ok, so the person who have done my treatments for long time is in quarantine so I got a new one. Actually, the clinic texted me and told me my regular technician wasn’t working and gave me the option of either reschedule or have another technician, so that was good service. However I immediately recognized she didn’t do it as thoroughly as the one usually doing it, she was way to quick, she moved the laser too fast! I’ve been doing this for such a long time now so I have a good clue how it’s supposed to be done.
I didn’t feel like telling the person how to do her job, now I’m also annoyed for not telling her.. I debating if I should text my regular technician back and tell her that I’m not satisfied (the treatment becomes far less effective when the laser is moved too fast over the skin).

Yeah I would bring it up. You are spending your money for the right treatment. I used to do 60 bucks a week (sometimes twice) on endermologie and when they hired someone new I had to address my needs because she was not good at all being brand new (sucks being assertive with what you need when someone is so nice to you but this is our hard earned money. She became my favorite when she got more experience out of all of them lol! We maintained some sorta friendship.)

miss.a.p1600
12-05-2020, 11:14 AM
My friend who hooked me up with the career successful guy said I should never have responded to his texts and to start ghosting him

Now I’m getting the thought he may be slick narcissistic player because she said no the grass is not greener on the other side.

I’ll just leave it alone for now. Last thing I need is some guy requesting my valuable time and my attention when they aren’t going to be giving anything in return. I also don’t want to be with guys who play games and act arrogant and have no empathy and don’t respect women which is pretty much what a typical narcissist would do

he’s texting me pics today of himself jet setting to all these places

kimbe
12-05-2020, 11:21 AM
Yeah, you’re right, it really sucks, it’s freaking expensive! >:(. At least I should expect them to know what they’re doing.
I’ve decided I’ll text her right away just to get it out of mind.

Edit: I texted her and she replied immediately and I was offered next session for free! That’s like 100+ bucks saved :thumbsup:

Genoveve
12-05-2020, 05:36 PM
Wtf. Is happening with raziel! Lord. Got another message from him upset being accused he is not a writer. GO Awway! What am I to do about your bs. I don’t care. This site is my safe place ... raziel can go fuck himself and find a new place. I’m not trying to be hateful but go be stable raziel or fix some shit.

Talked about returning or whatev’s. Return to a new you.

Good lord he is psycho. I never understand how people like this don't understand how awful they come off to other people, but I guess you'd need a rational mind to perceive such things....

....

My annoyance is the power company; they've been doing rolling blackouts during extreme fire conditions for the last two years, but during this week's they didn't do rolling ones---they just cut everyone's power, and I didn't have any for almost 48 hours and there's still some places that haven't had it restored yet. The fire conditions only lasted for 12 hours but apparently they had to do tons of inspections on the lines before they could be powered back on. They also didn't say when the power would be cut, we just knew when the wind event was coming via the weather stations and the power company had a map of areas that could *potentially* be cut(they all ended up being cut). I was fine because there was hardly anything in my fridge to go bad and all of the stuff in my freezer stayed frozen(and because I make my own schedule and could charge my phone at my friend's house), but I saw tons of people on twitter who lost all of their groceries and didn't have money to replace them or eat out, people who work from home or had to take exams from home that were screwed...etc. A total shit show.

I'm also annoyed that all the edible glitter I ordered on the 30th still hasn't shipped.

naomi_doll
12-05-2020, 09:34 PM
Hi there! Please report the message so that we can see it then do something about it. I noticed he hasnt posted since the mellowmutt account was finally pointed. Coincedence maybe... doubt it.

Is mellowmutt unbanned? And Raziel is allowed to constantly comment about indiegirl in almost every thread after she has said he harasses her in messages?

indiegirl
12-05-2020, 09:43 PM
Is mellowmutt unbanned? And Raziel is allowed to constantly comment about indiegirl in almost every thread after she has said he harasses her in messages?

I was told he was on a 3 day ban for mellowmutt and Raziel was given a warning or something? It was said he would be banned if they saw the same IP Address.

naomi_doll
12-05-2020, 10:19 PM
If you are cool with it, then I’ll leave it alone but it would make me uncomfortable. Hopefully he’ll chill out.

indiegirl
12-05-2020, 10:30 PM
If you are cool with it, then I’ll leave it alone but it would make me uncomfortable. Hopefully he’ll chill out.

I'm hoping he keeps it all together. Geez he's annoying. I'm reporting him again if he gets out of hand LOL. He crossed the line with his female account pretending he was an escort. Already a frowned upon job by many and him saying he was barebacking was enough for me. I was thoroughly done but his personal messages are ridiculously enough as well.

kamiliam
12-05-2020, 11:14 PM
I mean he probably has another female account, but he left me alone after a quick ghost on my part. Never out of line just so needy. No time for that.

moneybags
12-06-2020, 02:48 AM
I was told he was on a 3 day ban for mellowmutt and Raziel was given a warning or something? It was said he would be banned if they saw the same IP Address.

Oh that’s why you’re not allowed to have two accounts. Makes sense now.

I put him on my ignore list. This is our safe space. We have to deal with needy guys on the clock. Nope. Not on my free time. Ain’t nobody got time for that.

whirlerz
12-06-2020, 07:24 AM
Getting real F'n tired of his ass, I don't see that he banned at all
Edit oh the mellow dog one?

I use a VPN ( not on phone) so if he does that can hide IP

miss.a.p1600
12-06-2020, 09:02 AM
^lol! What I’ve learned from my past raging against trolls such as resident sociopath is to ignore tf out of them.

When you try to put them in their place it makes it easy to be seen like you’re stooping to their level and then their slick ass can play victim

Don’t even give them the attention they are thirsty n desperate for.

Much better to report them to moderators then they be looking real dumb when they get banned.

whirlerz
12-06-2020, 10:30 AM
Well, I just reported his post, to my reply , 1st world problem

What.a.whiney.ass

I love what slopoke put.

Aurora_Sunset
12-06-2020, 01:21 PM
This is truly petty, but I'm so sad my 2-week quarantine is ending and I have to go back to work tomorrow. I'm not even being eased back into going back to work, just thrown into a 77-hour week tomorrow. I just feel so robbed of what I thought would be a nice, solid 2 weeks to focus on myself, and instead, ended up being 4 days and then a week of insurance/fire bullshit. I thought I would go back feeling refreshed and maybe even a little bored by now, but the last 10 days have been such a blur, I barely remember them.

I'm trying to mentally prepare today by finally cleaning up and putting things away/organizing our hotel suite to make it feel like a real apartment that we're living in since we'll be here for at least another month. I just know my soul is going to die a little when I have to wake up early, in the dark, to an alarm tomorrow and when I walk in the doors of that fucking warehouse...

I literally have that feeling right now that you get at the end of a vacation - when you're packing up to go home and you're happy you had a vacation, but so not ready for it to end, and the impending return to reality is so heart-wrenching lol

Aurora_Sunset
12-06-2020, 01:30 PM
And I started my period today, so I'll go into a busy week of work with that loveliness to deal with. Seems fitting, I guess lol

Aurora_Sunset
12-06-2020, 01:31 PM
Also, I need to go to the grocery store - mostly for non-food things like pet supplies and toilet paper. So, because it's all expensive, unexciting stuff, I have no motivation to go.

Aurora_Sunset
12-06-2020, 03:25 PM
I did the 7 day free trial of HBOmax this past week just to watch more episodes of The Flight Attendant, but discovered that they have sooo many of my favorite shows and movies on there. I cancelled the subscription today, as planned, because it’s just not worth it to pay right now when I’ll have no time for TV. But I wish I could.