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whirlerz
12-06-2020, 07:09 PM
So, I asked the one roomie I don't like, if he'd take the dumpsters to the curb, for tomorrow p/u. The one guy just had knee surgery, another cut his hand, & the other one doesn't even shut the shower door so..::)

He said he would, & was already planning to (I wrote everyone a note about it, since last week no one put them out).
I called maintenance guy, he took them & put them w/another blg's trash.

He told me to let him know, if they aren't put up for p/u tomorrow.

Also, I'm so not taking out the kitchen trash, its always heavy AF, + I barely use the fucking kitchen anyway.

LoveyDovey
12-06-2020, 10:34 PM
So, I asked the one roomie I don't like, if he'd take the dumpsters to the curb, for tomorrow p/u. The one guy just had knee surgery, another cut his hand, & the other one doesn't even shut the shower door so..::)

He said he would, & was already planning to (I wrote everyone a note about it, since last week no one put them out).
I called maintenance guy, he took them & put them w/another blg's trash.

He told me to let him know, if they aren't put up for p/u tomorrow.

Also, I'm so not taking out the kitchen trash, its always heavy AF, + I barely use the fucking kitchen anyway.

I hate living with so many guys. 2 of them are cool, one is weird and the other 2 are gross, don't clean, don't do anything.

They must think we are their mommies or something.

kimbe
12-07-2020, 01:25 AM
I hate living with so many guys. 2 of them are cool, one is weird and the other 2 are gross, don't clean, don't do anything.

They must think we are their mommies or something.

Isn't that the basic description of any typical group of men?

xxxGothBarbie
12-07-2020, 04:18 AM
So apparently its my fault that the obese landlady with health problems (that continues to eat junk even if im not here) gets triggered when i bake something & cant control herself and feels the need to bake also *eye fuckin roll* not my fault this bitch cant control her eating habits. Its dec & im gonna bake while im staying temporarily gtfo it omg.

I cant believe the narcissism in this house ugh
Thank you travel ban for keeping me without a hotel to be at right now and dealing with this garbage!

LoveyDovey
12-07-2020, 05:45 AM
Isn't that the basic description of any typical group of men?

Pretty much lol!!

whirlerz
12-07-2020, 06:14 AM
I hate living with so many guys. 2 of them are cool, one is weird and the other 2 are gross, don't clean, don't do anything.

They must think we are their mommies or something.

Yup. Welcome to my World, lol.
TG the one took the dumpsters up, for p/u today. Lol, the maintenance guy toldme to call if they didn't.

I have to really restrain my self from even looking in kitchen , & taking out the (probably) over filled garbage..my neck is hurting from my whiplash.
I stay out of there, I mostly eat sandwiches, or microwave something

The one had his boy take some out over the weekend, which's good, he's 8 now, a strong kid.
He'll still wait for me to take it out, not happening.

Yea, they think we're their moms, boy BYE.

Fuck these men!>:(

LoveyDovey
12-07-2020, 07:16 AM
Whirlerz, wish we lived near each other. I'd team up w you and find our own place to live. We'd never have an overflowing trash can again lol.

AChildOfBoredom
12-07-2020, 08:26 AM
Sometimes I wish I came across as less… girly… than I do. The trucking company on “the other side” opened a new terminal in another state, and our supervisor accepted an offer to run the shop in that one. So, our new supervisor started today. It’s the lead who typically assigns jobs to us, and when the new supervisor first saw me come in, I was wearing a company sweatshirt over a pinafore dress, because that’s just my manner of dress. So he asked me to put together some work orders for him, which I just figured he wasn’t familiar with our shop software and didn’t think anything of it. Our service writers work a 5/8 schedule and start two hours after we do. So I got changed, I build these work orders fir him, and he asks me if supervisors get shop uniforms too (they don’t). So I got those done, went to do the job I was assigned, and maybe an hour later he walks the floor and gets to my bay where I’m changing cutting edges and scarifier teeth on a grader. I look up after I hear footsteps, and I swear this guy’s jaw was about to hit the ground. So he says to me, “Hold up… you’re a tech?!” He thought I was the service writer… I guess I really can’t blame someone who never met or interacted with me before for thinking I was an office girl in an environment like that, but it gets a little frustrating sometimes. The other woman who works on the floor, she’s still feminine, but she’s taller and maybe having the full sleeve tattoo and demeanor she does (she used to be a motorcycle mechanic, and had to deal with some pretty rough sorts doing that job) helps her, it nobody mistakes her for a pencil pusher, even though I actually have a higher tech rating than she does.

miss.a.p1600
12-07-2020, 10:47 AM
One of L's kids went to the mall with him and he was like 'Buy my mom this...."

I guess he felt jealous or something when, earlier that same day, L showed him a gift he had gotten me for Christmas

WendiStarr
12-07-2020, 12:42 PM
Package delays. Yes, I understand that due to pandemic there's increased online shopping causing delays blah blah blah, but I placed an order 2 months ago. The package arrived in my city on December 1st from IL. Why would it leave my city and state to go to FL, OH, IL, KY, TN, and back here in MI again but this time delayed due to "extenuating circumstances", whatever the heck that means. When I called the shipping carrier, they claimed not to have the package. That package contains several of my oldest daughter's Christmas presents. I'm done with Christmas shopping online or shipping anything, for that matter. Shipped someone a present 2 weeks ago and I still see "Usps awaiting shipment". Wtfh?!

On an unrelated note, it looks like Raziel/mellowmutt/whatever other personas he has created made another account. This time he's going by danni192

JessaJade
12-07-2020, 12:50 PM
^Yeah, I think there are even more than 3 'Raziels' too. It's so weird.

carmen_b
12-07-2020, 01:18 PM
( collective stares all around )

Like ..... how DO WE FINALLY flush this turd ?!?

Lol

I bet $1000 he is the dude in the club who brings $25 - $40 in and stays for 6 hours hahahah.

lurkingtitties
12-07-2020, 03:13 PM
( collective stares all around )

Like ..... how DO WE FINALLY flush this turd ?!?

Lol

I bet $1000 he is the dude in the club who brings $25 - $40 in an stays for like 6 hours hhahahah.

Yeah, and he probably talks shit to the 19 year old new girls about how all the serious hustlers are stuck up.

wish
12-07-2020, 08:01 PM
@wendystar I have a similar experience. I purchased a watch on a Monday morning then noticed I forgot to use the code to save $20. There was no cancelation option so I repurchase the watch and call to cancel the first watch. They shipped the first watch while I was on the phone with them instead of canceling it and I know this because the second watch didn't ship til the next day.

AChildOfBoredom
12-08-2020, 02:21 AM
I don’t know how many ‘Raziels’ there are. I just know that the rest of the forum seems to be mostly spam bots and Raziel arguing with somebody - whether himself or not, I don’t know - anymore.

And I really wish they could do these hay deliveries during banker hours. Or else train someone from the equestrian center to use the integrated toolcarrier so that I don’t have to be the one here at 3 in the morning to offload these trucks.

JGB2009
12-08-2020, 09:58 AM
I HATE men who think all woman squirt. I hate men who give off a creepy vibe. I am describing some nasty fuck I just did a show for.....gross!!!!

indiegirl
12-08-2020, 10:31 AM
( collective stares all around )

Like ..... how DO WE FINALLY flush this turd ?!?

Lol

I bet $1000 he is the dude in the club who brings $25 - $40 in and stays for 6 hours hahahah.

Lol those guys at the club that have only 25-40 bucks ALWAYSSSS make you work for your money with wanting long conversation and everything as if he was spending 3-400.

This is how I feel with cheap/free men when I'm on the clock bahahaha: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owNO5s3eln4

carmen_b
12-08-2020, 11:34 AM
Just put down something and pee if he has $$$!
Hahaha
I HATE men who think all woman squirt. I hate men who give off a creepy vibe. I am describing some nasty fuck I just did a show for.....gross!!!!

seashell
12-08-2020, 12:00 PM
My petty annoyance is the constant questioning if I should go back to sex work. I miss that cash. I miss feeling hot. Honestly, with vanilla life, something just feels like it's missing. You know?

LoveyDovey
12-08-2020, 01:53 PM
I HATE men who think all woman squirt. I hate men who give off a creepy vibe. I am describing some nasty fuck I just did a show for.....gross!!!!

Women aren't lemons. What is wrong with men??

AChildOfBoredom
12-08-2020, 02:15 PM
Women aren't lemons. What is wrong with men??

Were you hoping for that to be summed up in one or two sentences? Because that would be very optimistic.

whirlerz
12-08-2020, 02:23 PM
Well, I'm still trying to bury r___ in lounge :)

moneybags
12-08-2020, 03:20 PM
A lot of guys on here are essentially getting free entertainment/therapy. (A few are legit).
I don’t think most guys have bad intentions, but nevertheless their unconsciousness is exhausting to deal with. I’m not doing other people’s emotional work or emotional care taking- go see a therapist or hire a coach! I posted a rant earlier, but I don’t wanna be negative. I’ll just try ignore them. It’s annoying when people don’t mind their own business. I feel like a lot guys come here and get off by being in our personal business.
I’m pretty boring not sure why people are always up in my business virtually or IRL?

It is what it is. I don’t expect privacy or to be completely vulnerable on the internet. Still annoying though.

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-08-2020, 03:30 PM
Women aren't lemons. What is wrong with men??;D

OMG that is so funny.

Petty annoyance today- chapped lips

chanzep
12-08-2020, 06:05 PM
So my power went out for last 2and a half hours. I went to Costco with my neighbor. I had a cake in the oven now ruined. My shift was suppose to start when I got back. I called job to let them know and they had a attiude. They told me log in when Power comes back. The same people who cut 3 out of 5 shifts last week. Yes sure I'm rushing in.Power finally back in but I'm starving so going to make food and watch football . Maybe I will pop in later.

xxxGothBarbie
12-08-2020, 08:47 PM
Maybe I'm just being petty but I don't think so. So I've been on decent terms with my mom for a the past year & recently I've asked her to please send me some xmas cookies from the popular (only decent bakery in town) bc I've been craving them and they would make me happy, to which she said sure no problem. OK, it's been over 3 weeks now since I've asked & I even reminded her a day ago & shes like ok ya I can do that. Yet she never asked for the address or even texted me whether or not she was gonna do it.

I've def noticed a pattern here where it seems that my needs aren't important (the cookies) for example bc ever since I was a kid , she's always seemed to put whatever I want or desire on the backburner & just never put it as a priority. It's really fucking bothering me lately & I so wanna just be an asshole & send her a text saying never mind , you should've just told me no if you weren't even planning on doing it in the first place. Pisses me off bc if it were my sister (the golden child) asking or as she does more so "demanding" them , they'd def be sent in a heartbeat.

Should I say something? Or just forget it? I've been feeling reeaaly resentful of her lately despite our getting along. I just feel angry & pissy bc of it.

wish
12-08-2020, 08:56 PM
Maybe I'm just being petty but I don't think so. So I've been on decent terms with my mom for a the past year & recently I've asked her to please send me some xmas cookies from the popular (only decent bakery in town) bc I've been craving them and they would make me happy, to which she said sure no problem. OK, it's been over 3 weeks now since I've asked & I even reminded her a day ago & shes like ok ya I can do that. Yet she never asked for the address or even texted me whether or not she was gonna do it.

I've def noticed a pattern here where it seems that my needs aren't important (the cookies) for example bc ever since I was a kid , she's always seemed to put whatever I want or desire on the backburner & just never put it as a priority. It's really fucking bothering me lately & I so wanna just be an asshole & send her a text saying never mind , you should've just told me no if you weren't even planning on doing it in the first place. Pisses me off bc if it were my sister (the golden child) asking or as she does more so "demanding" them , they'd def be sent in a heartbeat.

Should I say something? Or just forget it? I've been feeling reeaaly resentful of her lately despite our getting along. I just feel angry & pissy bc of it.
I don't know your mom but as my kid gets older I find myself doing things like saving things for special occasions. If my adult asked me for something this close to the holidays it would be shipped as a gift. I don't know if that sounds anything like your mom but its a thought. After all 3 weeks ago was very close to Thanksgiving so idk.

xxxGothBarbie
12-08-2020, 09:34 PM
I don't know your mom but as my kid gets older I find myself doing things like saving things for special occasions. If my adult asked me for something this close to the holidays it would be shipped as a gift. I don't know if that sounds anything like your mom but its a thought. After all 3 weeks ago was very close to Thanksgiving so idk.


I get what you're saying. She usually sends something for xmas with my gift if I ask her but I rarely ask her for anything anymore. All I'm saying is that she treats my sister alot better & literally gives in to her demands moreso than anyone else. I don't feel that I'm being childish or silly about it bc otherwise she would've told me no in the first place. Hell even on my birthday this year she said she'd paypal me my gift money so I said ok I need to set up an accnt & even after I texted her a few times she got annoyed then sent it. when someone says they're gonna send something why delay it or not even bother with it?

moneybags
12-09-2020, 02:49 AM
@Gothbarbie

It took my till my 30’s and a lot of therapy to really to understand my mom and cope with her behavior.

My best advice is journal about it. Maybe get some clarity that way.

lurkingtitties
12-09-2020, 04:13 AM
GothBarbie you’ve figured out a behavioral dynamic and now you can reflect on it and do healing work!

xxxGothBarbie
12-09-2020, 05:58 AM
Yes its taken me until now to finally accept that im not that important to her obviously but I wish she'd have just said no i cant etc instead of future faking. No wonder I have tons of issues in my adult life. Time to srsly detatch.

LoveyDovey
12-09-2020, 10:15 AM
Maybe I'm just being petty but I don't think so. So I've been on decent terms with my mom for a the past year & recently I've asked her to please send me some xmas cookies from the popular (only decent bakery in town) bc I've been craving them and they would make me happy, to which she said sure no problem. OK, it's been over 3 weeks now since I've asked & I even reminded her a day ago & shes like ok ya I can do that. Yet she never asked for the address or even texted me whether or not she was gonna do it.

I've def noticed a pattern here where it seems that my needs aren't important (the cookies) for example bc ever since I was a kid , she's always seemed to put whatever I want or desire on the backburner & just never put it as a priority. It's really fucking bothering me lately & I so wanna just be an asshole & send her a text saying never mind , you should've just told me no if you weren't even planning on doing it in the first place. Pisses me off bc if it were my sister (the golden child) asking or as she does more so "demanding" them , they'd def be sent in a heartbeat.

Should I say something? Or just forget it? I've been feeling reeaaly resentful of her lately despite our getting along. I just feel angry & pissy bc of it.

Your mom is being a lame ass. If my kid asked me to do something simple as send him something, it's done in a heartbeat. If I had more than one kid, it wouldn't matter. Their needs should be a priority, and the fact that your mom just ignores your needs says more about her than it does about you.

I had parents like this. I totally know how it feels. My twin sister was more of a priority than I ever was. To this day, she still can't do a damn thing on her own without fucking it up. Twin sis is the demanding, spoiled crybaby who does the "poor me" act when I shine at something.

I would ask yourself if the relationship with your mom is worth it. I would give it one more chance and ask her if she sent the cookies yet and if she hasn't, I would just let her know that you're tired of not being a priority and if she can't do a simple thing like send you cookies, you want nothing to do with her. Or You don't have to say anything, you can just cease communication and go no contact. She'll get the message. It's not about the cookies, it's about making you a priority which is her job as a mom. If she fails repeatedly, then she doesn't deserve you. I would call the cookie place and see if you can place an order and have them ship it out to you. Can they do that? I'm sorry you're going through this, some parents just suck big time.

LoveyDovey
12-09-2020, 10:28 AM
Yes its taken me until now to finally accept that im not that important to her obviously but I wish she'd have just said no i cant etc instead of future faking. No wonder I have tons of issues in my adult life. Time to srsly detatch.

I totally hear you and relate with you on this. I have a ton of issues in my adult life as a result of having abusive parents & siblings It fucking blows and it makes for a very lonely life. I just want you to know, you aren't alone on this.

xxxGothBarbie
12-09-2020, 03:04 PM
Your mom is being a lame ass. If my kid asked me to do something simple as send him something, it's done in a heartbeat. If I had more than one kid, it wouldn't matter. Their needs should be a priority, and the fact that your mom just ignores your needs says more about her than it does about you.

I had parents like this. I totally know how it feels. My twin sister was more of a priority than I ever was. To this day, she still can't do a damn thing on her own without fucking it up. Twin sis is the demanding, spoiled crybaby who does the "poor me" act when I shine at something.

I would ask yourself if the relationship with your mom is worth it. I would give it one more chance and ask her if she sent the cookies yet and if she hasn't, I would just let her know that you're tired of not being a priority and if she can't do a simple thing like send you cookies, you want nothing to do with her. Or You don't have to say anything, you can just cease communication and go no contact. She'll get the message. It's not about the cookies, it's about making you a priority which is her job as a mom. If she fails repeatedly, then she doesn't deserve you. I would call the cookie place and see if you can place an order and have them ship it out to you. Can they do that? I'm sorry you're going through this, some parents just suck big time.

Yes exactly ;) thank you for that 🖤 i already gave up on it bc she's the type that would literally start a war with me bc i tell her that shes being an asshole & not being very motherly. If i had kids id totally wanna send them a care package or something i mean i thought parents lived for that shit lol

xxxGothBarbie
12-09-2020, 03:08 PM
id love to find a therapy group for kids (adults) like us that are dealing or have dealt with this. It really is horrible ;(
I remember once asking my mom why she yells at me & is so mean to me and not like that with my sister and she tells me bc she doesnt act like you. Omg i wanted to punch her so bad for that. Im pissy about it bc everyones different and im not a carbon copy and she cant handle it so i get left in the dust.

LoveyDovey
12-09-2020, 03:57 PM
id love to find a therapy group for kids (adults) like us that are dealing or have dealt with this. It really is horrible ;(
I remember once asking my mom why she yells at me & is so mean to me and not like that with my sister and she tells me bc she doesnt act like you. Omg i wanted to punch her so bad for that. Im pissy about it bc everyones different and im not a carbon copy and she cant handle it so i get left in the dust.

I'm on Twitter and I do follow this one lady "moving through to thriving." She's very good with explaining how to set boundaries with toxic family members. Another lady I watch on YouTube is on a channel called inner integration. Her name is Meredith and she is really good at explaining toxic and narcissistic behaviors, as well as ways to deal with these people. Basically the best way to deal with toxic people is to not deal with them at all, so it's probably best that you just gave up on the whole thing. I can see how it would blow up into a major fight with pretty much nobody winning. My guess is that you're probably the most normal and healthy one in the family while everyone else acts like a crackpot. And because you are the most normal and healthy, you're the one who gets shit on. It sucks to not be made a priority by your parent, because then you, as an adult, wind up in relationships where others don't make you a priority either. Happens with me too. I would just distance myself from them, and continue making yourself a priority. I completely understand your anger. It's like you can't say anything because if you do, then they get angry and leave you without your needs met. I'm sorry. I would probably just not talk to her so much anymore. These things don't change with these people, and I know you want to be on good terms with your mom, but it might just be one of those deals where you just have to love them from afar.

xxxGothBarbie
12-09-2020, 04:05 PM
I'm on Twitter and I do follow this one lady "moving through to thriving." She's very good with explaining how to set boundaries with toxic family members. Another lady I watch on YouTube is on a channel called inner integration. Her name is Meredith and she is really good at explaining toxic and narcissistic behaviors, as well as ways to deal with these people. Basically the best way to deal with toxic people is to not deal with them at all, so it's probably best that you just gave up on the whole thing. I can see how it would blow up into a major fight with pretty much nobody winning. My guess is that you're probably the most normal and healthy one in the family while everyone else acts like a crackpot. And because you are the most normal and healthy, you're the one who gets shit on. It sucks to not be made a priority by your parent, because then you, as an adult, wind up in relationships where others don't make you a priority either. Happens with me too. I would just distance myself from them, and continue making yourself a priority. I completely understand your anger. It's like you can't say anything because if you do, then they get angry and leave you without your needs met. I'm sorry. I would probably just not talk to her so much anymore. These things don't change with these people, and I know you want to be on good terms with your mom, but it might just be one of those deals where you just have to love them from afar.

Yes exactly ;) thank you again. Im totally looking into those links tonight btw ��

LoveyDovey
12-09-2020, 04:35 PM
No problem, glad I could help somehow. ;-)

xxxGothBarbie
12-09-2020, 07:03 PM
So pissy & annoyed that bf shared his pie thingy he baked for the two of us with landlady and now after he gave her a huge piece she's coming around almost hinting she wants more when he's got none left for himself. Why is it that ppl feel so entitled to other ppl's stuff?! ugh

I don't mind sharing but only if theres more than enought to share. Moneys been tight & her glutony is beyond annoying.

miss.a.p1600
12-09-2020, 07:04 PM
My stomach has been mildly hurting all day, then my dumb ass ate some spicy wing sauce

Aurora_Sunset
12-09-2020, 07:58 PM
I ordered something to an Amazon locker but my pickup code doesn’t work, neither does the barcode. So it’ll just get sent back because I can’t get it. So fucking annoying.

Also, some fuckhead in Texas hacked my DoorDash account the other day. They stupidly didn’t change the address the first time, so canceled the $88 order. The order cancellation notification is how I was tipped off. I caught them in the middle of reordering to their address. The email from DoorDash said the first order was cancelled and the money would be credited back. But then it went through and hasn’t come back yet. Why the fuck would the transaction on an incomplete order go through in the first place? I disputed with PayPal and it apparently takes 9 days to investigate? So I have $30 to my name after paying over 2K for health insurance.

I am so tired of the world’s incompetence.

miss.a.p1600
12-10-2020, 09:55 AM
Ladies rejoice! your prayers have been answered and the accounts that annoyed you have been banned

I guess moderators got annoyed with those characters too

Don't know if its temporary or permanent but it will be peaceful for a moment.....until the Mumbai tricks rear their ugly heads

miss.a.p1600
12-10-2020, 10:38 AM
I guess L is finally getting the picture that having someone who works often is not ideal for someone who want more quality time with their so

Maybe he’s realizing that since I can’t be with him during his surgery and recovery because I have to work that he will man tf up and start earning more

He says during his recovery he’s going to finally start studying to get this license to get The new job. I told him he done procrastinated so long that job might not even be there.

I don’t know if we’ll ever be on the same page about this because I’ll never let anyone convince me that playing small n accepting mediocrity is okay when it’s not

Genoveve
12-10-2020, 03:29 PM
I ordered something to an Amazon locker but my pickup code doesn’t work, neither does the barcode. So it’ll just get sent back because I can’t get it. So fucking annoying.

I used to use Amazon locker and there was almost always some sort of issue with scanning the codes. Fortunately the people at the pick-up location were really nice and always eventually managed to figure something out, but it was a pain in the ass and the process was never as quick and easy as it should have been.

moneybags
12-10-2020, 03:57 PM
It’s annoying when you call people out on their rude behavior and they get all defensive. Don’t be rude and I won’t have to be rude back.

I’m honestly just done being nice to stupid people. Because that’s why people are stupid is no one tells them how stupid they are then they think it’s okay.

Genoveve
12-10-2020, 04:02 PM
I said, “Can you give me a second?” I was curt, but I wasn’t overly aggressive. He was like, “well if your gonna be that way then no!” Are you three! It would be rude not in a pandemic let alone in a pandemic.
I was literally so close I go touch him.

Oh HELL no. I would have said "Suit yourself." and then proceeded to move in extra slow motion. Like not going slow, but actual slow motion.

moneybags
12-10-2020, 04:20 PM
Oh HELL no. I would have said "Suit yourself." and then proceeded to move in extra slow motion. Like not going slow, but actual slow motion.

Clever...I’ll remember that for next time. Honestly, I’m just proud of myself for speaking up because I’m working on standing up for myself. As a woman, if feels like anything other than being a Pollyanna gets you in trouble. I’m a work in progress.

I’m usually very zen, but as my fellow spiritual practitioner says...”Do no harm, but take no shit.”

53701

Genoveve
12-10-2020, 04:28 PM
Honestly, I’m just proud of myself for speaking up because I’m working on standing up for myself. As a woman, if feels like anything other than being a Pollyanna gets you in trouble. I’m a work in progress.

It can get you in trouble, but you can let go of caring about being in trouble(assuming by 'trouble' you mean things like the disapproval of others). I try(most of the time) to be respectful of others, but if someone's not giving me any respect I don't feel that they're entitled to mine.

Aurora_Sunset
12-10-2020, 05:12 PM
A friend wanted help with her resume. This was really the only night I have to do it because it's one of the only nights I don't have my second job. I texted her as soon as I got home and was ready, and she took 15 minutes to get back to me to tell me "gimme 20 minutes, firing up the laptop now." Now, she's telling me she doesn't even have the laptop that her resume is on because it's dead. I'm ready to tell her, "bitch just google it." There's plenty of resume help online.

I told her what time I would be home - her ass should've been ready. Like, did it even occur to her that maybe I have other things I want/need to do on my one fucking night "off" after working 10 hours?

miss.a.p1600
12-10-2020, 07:06 PM
I’m stressed about everything and it’s probably counterproductive but a natural reaction

I’m going to sleep early so I won’t have to think about it ..... that is until I wake up in the morn