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WendiStarr
12-22-2020, 09:35 AM
I'm annoyed as fuck at some of my relatives. I don't understand people who live in absolute filth. How can people live with trash on their floor, empty food containers all over the place, and cockroaches scurrying about and act all nonchalant about it? I don't understand that at all! I came home and was playing with the baby on the floor when I kid you not, a goddamn cockroach came running out of one of the boots that I was wearing over there. I should've left those boots outside or better yet, throw the fuckers in the trash outside. I killed the roach but now I'm paranoid that more might've hitched a ride over here or what if it was a female and laid eggs somewhere already. I hate bugs! I'm also in a pissy mood because I started my period and have a million things to do for vanilla job, in addition to obsessively cleaning now because I don't want any fucking cockroaches setting up camp in my house.

moneybags
12-22-2020, 11:09 AM
I got petty annoyed by an IRS-related matter in my life, but I decided to settle down and have a glass of wine.

Good choice. Lots of people evade taxes (I’m not insinuating you did), but they’d rather fuck with normal every day people than go after the rich and powerful.

Had trouble with getting my exam started and they had NO ONE to help me! They should have sent this information out the day before the exam. Jesus! I got it figured it out. I’m going to take a deep breath and and tell myself everything is fine over and over again. I was cussing under my breath. Not at the lady because it’s not her fault, but they should have 24/7 tech support for such an important exam. Whatever

miss.a.p1600
12-22-2020, 05:22 PM
L is supposed to be recovering at his brothers house for one week.

One of his kids asked to come over and spend the night.

I’m thinking to myself “you need to say NO”. Tell Bertha in bold letter “I am recovering from surgery! It is your time to keep the kids”

I get wanting to see the kid but spending the night should be his ex’s responsibility during this time.

Not only is he supposed to be taking care of getting himself better, getting rest, but also he’s supposed to be studying for that exam for the new career.

I can just hear his ass now, “i didn’t get a chance to study cause I had my kid”

If I find out he ain’t using this time n studying for this test ....... it’s going to be a loooong rift between us

OF COURSE he hasn’t studied

And yes he’s using his kids as an excuse again.

Well cotdamn it you are dumb for letting your ex wife drop them off with you while you’re supposed to be recovering. Should have known you were going to be responsible for them even at your family’s house they’re not going to fully take care of your kids when you’re there.

Tell the bitch NO! Something is wrong with this situation if she cannot take care of her kids while you recover from surgery.

It’s too early in this relationship to be nagging a mf to get his shit together so he can be a better provider. I don’t want to keep reminding him he’s wasting time and wasting his opportunities.

Maybe everyone is right. If he ain’t motivated to do this before now for his own kids why would he be motivated now for our future kids???

Ain’t gone be no moving in, no marriage, no future kids with him if he don’t pull it together. Matter of fact I’m discreetly keeping my options open till further notice

Thanks, management

indiegirl
12-22-2020, 06:21 PM
OF COURSE he hasn’t studied

And yes he’s using his kids as an excuse again.

Well cotdamn it you are dumb for letting your ex wife drop them off with you while you’re supposed to be recovering. Should have known you were going to be responsible for them even at your family’s house they’re not going to fully take care of your kids when you’re there.

Tell the bitch NO! Something is wrong with this situation if she cannot take care of her kids while you recover from surgery.

It’s too early in this relationship to be nagging a mf to get his shit together so he can be a better provider. I don’t want to keep reminding him he’s wasting time and wasting his opportunities.

Maybe everyone is right. If he ain’t motivated to do this before now for his own kids why would he be motivated now for our future kids???

Ain’t gone be no moving in, no marriage, no future kids with him if he don’t pull it together. Matter of fact I’m discreetly keeping my options open till further notice

Thanks, management

He has plenty of time now if he's stuck at home after surgery. Sounds like he's full of excuses. Hopefully he realizes he needs to do something to provide for a family (and your potential kids in the future) because life isn't getting any cheaper to pay bills with a family.

Genoveve
12-22-2020, 09:17 PM
1.) All the shipping delays. No one has figured out how to make this shit run better? I ordered a perfume for myself last week so I could have something pretty and cute to open on Christmas day(all I asked my family for was cookbooks) and even though it was given to UPS on the 16th....it still hasn't started its journey. It was supposed to get here tomorrow. Ulta sent me an update basically saying that they have no idea when it will be arriving now.

2.) More power shut-offs. To try and prevent wildfires they power company now just shuts off people's power any time it's windy and they're doing it again tomorrow. Hopefully it won't happen here, last time there was a wind event my neighborhood wasn't cut off miraculously even though all the surrounding areas were, and the wind doesn't look like it's going to be as strong as it was during that event(I check wind-tracking websites). But it really sucks because if they cut it off tomorrow it probably won't be turned back on till Thursday or Friday, so there may be people who have no power for Christmas, which ESPECIALLY sucks for the plenty of people whom I'm sure did huge holiday grocery shopping trips for all their planned Christmas cooking. I wanted to spend all day X-mas Eve and X-mas day baking but because of the shut-offs I did all my cookies for my landlady and neighbor today and I'm about to go bake the cinnamon cake I had planned for X-mas eve now.

indiegirl
12-22-2020, 09:29 PM
1.) All the shipping delays. No one has figured out how to make this shit run better? I ordered a perfume for myself last week so I could have something pretty and cute to open on Christmas day(all I asked my family for was cookbooks) and even though it was given to UPS on the 16th....it still hasn't started its journey. It was supposed to get here tomorrow. Ulta sent me an update basically saying that they have no idea when it will be arriving now.

2.) More power shut-offs. To try and prevent wildfires they power company now just shuts off people's power any time it's windy and they're doing it again tomorrow. Hopefully it won't happen here, last time there was a wind event my neighborhood wasn't cut off miraculously even though all the surrounding areas were, and the wind doesn't look like it's going to be as strong as it was during that event(I check wind-tracking websites). But it really sucks because if they cut it off tomorrow it probably won't be turned back on till Thursday or Friday, so there may be people who have no power for Christmas, which ESPECIALLY sucks for the plenty of people whom I'm sure did huge holiday grocery shopping trips for all their planned Christmas cooking. I wanted to spend all day X-mas Eve and X-mas day baking but because of the shut-offs I did all my cookies for my landlady and neighbor today and I'm about to go bake the cinnamon cake I had planned for X-mas eve now.

Don’t shipping delays depend on where you live? I’m sure they’re bombarded with requests right now.

JGB2009
12-23-2020, 02:59 AM
I got mad last night and went to sleep. Now in order to recover my cam hours I have to work longer hours the next 3 days.

WendiStarr
12-23-2020, 09:01 AM
^ Shipping delays seem to be everywhere. I'm in midwest, have been waiting on 2 packages coming from the west coast and they blamed the one day snowstorm in the east coast on the delay. Smh. I should add, I've been waiting for like 5 weeks on those. It's frustrating.

I don't want to make another pissy post so I'll just add to this one. I miss my grandma. She's super paranoid right now because of the pandemic that she won't let me visit even if I was wearing a mask on and social distance. She said I can drop off presents and she'll wait an hour to go outside to get the packages to ensure any potential virus contamination would be dead by then since it's cold outside. She is 86 years old so I understand her fear. It just makes me sad that I can't at least visit her. She is one of those old people who hates phones, computers, etc so I only hear from her via letters in the mail. She's not getting any younger at 86 years old and I fear about what if I never get to see her again, as well as the isolation must be tough as an old person. It's got to be worse during this time with no cellphone, Zoom, or any video chat service to help her at least stay in contact with people.

carmen_b
12-23-2020, 09:04 AM
I swore he said “ morning “ for our hotel get away time.
Now it’s 4. Maybe I just assumed morning ?

I might drive up ( just me and the dog ) at 1:30.
That’s lost jacuzzi time honestly that I can’t support haha.

WendiStarr
12-24-2020, 08:13 AM
Old Navy. I called their customer service since it has been more than long enough of waiting. They tried to give the bad weather excuse. It has been 5 weeks and I'm curious to know what bad weather they have on the west coast. I ordered something from PA when they were having a snowstorm and it was still delivered on time so I call baloney on that. The customer service rep for Old Navy had the nerve to tell me that I should just reorder and pay extra for priority shipping since my order appeared to be lost. Yeah, because paying $20+ in shipping is really appealing from a company that lost my first shipment. I'm not confident that the same wouldn't happen again, especially after reading reviews of people who had the same exact thing happen. That was a Christmas present. I'm never ordering from them again.

Genoveve
12-24-2020, 08:34 PM
2.) More power shut-offs. To try and prevent wildfires they power company now just shuts off people's power any time it's windy and they're doing it again tomorrow. Hopefully it won't happen here, last time there was a wind event my neighborhood wasn't cut off miraculously even though all the surrounding areas were, and the wind doesn't look like it's going to be as strong as it was during that event(I check wind-tracking websites). But it really sucks because if they cut it off tomorrow it probably won't be turned back on till Thursday or Friday, so there may be people who have no power for Christmas, which ESPECIALLY sucks for the plenty of people whom I'm sure did huge holiday grocery shopping trips for all their planned Christmas cooking. I wanted to spend all day X-mas Eve and X-mas day baking but because of the shut-offs I did all my cookies for my landlady and neighbor today and I'm about to go bake the cinnamon cake I had planned for X-mas eve now.

I got lucky, just like with the last wind event they shut off everyone around me but my neighborhood was fine. They overall only shut off power to 6000 people(earlier this month it was over 90,000) and they turned it back on pretty quickly. I'm currently thawing out all the dairy products I froze in preparation.

miss.a.p1600
12-25-2020, 07:25 AM
L said his ex Bertha broad gave him hell for 3 weeks and cried on the phone when she discovered he was dating me.

I gave his kids some small gifts and when she found out she was not happy. Convinced their younger kid to invite L over to her house to do a Christmas celebration with them.

whirlerz
12-25-2020, 08:04 AM
Yea, they (ex-wife) do that shit

indiegirl
12-25-2020, 11:26 AM
I'm all "why is it so fricking hot in the house!?" Meanwhile I have the heater and plugin heater running bahaha. Apparently I'm trying to cook myself.

indiegirl
12-25-2020, 12:26 PM
Me every holiday: Let's make some money and eat a frozen burrito. Have to cover my ass and say I'm traveling to avoid family members when I'm not. Too much family drama.
Family: Are you okay? Who are you going with?
My head: Yes change of plans. (wanted to add....for my sanity.) Was easier to find an excuse living on the east coast.

carmen_b
12-25-2020, 12:57 PM
Im glad J spares me what his ex does drama wise and somehow forces good scheduling out of her . Haha.
I mean she left , what do I care anyway ?

I do think she was part to blame on that huge issue a month ago though ( where I wasn’t invited to stay over when daughter was there on occasion ).


L said his ex Bertha broad gave him hell for 3 weeks and cried on the phone when she discovered he was dating me.

I gave his kids some small gifts and when she found out she was not happy. Convinced their younger kid to invite L over to her house to do a Christmas celebration with them.

whirlerz
12-25-2020, 01:03 PM
Well, I got to be OUT OF MY FUCKING MIND to sit on sm for 8 hours, nothing.
Bc of the millionth contest, + 5 ppl told me its glitching.
Sat there in a freezing drafty room half naked.

Camming is Not working for me.

Now I'll have to go do that Shpt crap, I hate driving ,& it's risky being around people.

I have a pt job that barely makes the rent. Not sure if Im working Mon, since there's plumbing issues there

Maybe I'll sell my other laptop

indiegirl
12-25-2020, 01:12 PM
Well, I got to be OUT OF MY FUCKING MIND to sit on sm for 8 hours, nothing.
Bc of the millionth contest, + 5 ppl told me its glitching.
Sat there in a freezing drafty room half naked.

Camming is Not working for me.

Now I'll have to go do that Shpt crap, I hate driving ,& it's risky being around people.

I have a pt job that barely makes the rent. Not sure if Im working Mon, since there's plumbing issues there

Maybe I'll sell my other laptop

Feel you. Camming sounds like a lot of work for a small amount of money. Isn't there livejasmine still? Dunno. Seems like there's more money on Only Fans? I have no clue about online sex shows. I recall back when backpage was around and tested working there and it was a rude awakening. Some random stranger yelled at me and hung up. Super classy lol.

indiegirl
12-25-2020, 02:53 PM
Last hissy fit since it's xmas. Get your vehicle away from my house if you don't live here. I need room for my renters. The next door neighbors run a sober living for men and I don't need that near my property let alone bringing the value down. That's like living next to a strip club, nobody wants to. Totally get the cause but keep it away from my home.

lurkingtitties
12-25-2020, 03:03 PM
Old Navy. I called their customer service since it has been more than long enough of waiting. They tried to give the bad weather excuse. It has been 5 weeks and I'm curious to know what bad weather they have on the west coast. I ordered something from PA when they were having a snowstorm and it was still delivered on time so I call baloney on that. The customer service rep for Old Navy had the nerve to tell me that I should just reorder and pay extra for priority shipping since my order appeared to be lost. Yeah, because paying $20+ in shipping is really appealing from a company that lost my first shipment. I'm not confident that the same wouldn't happen again, especially after reading reviews of people who had the same exact thing happen. That was a Christmas present. I'm never ordering from them again.

Are you sure that's Old Navy's fault? USPS is sooooooo backed up right now...

miss.a.p1600
12-26-2020, 07:22 AM
L said his ex Bertha broad gave him hell for 3 weeks and cried on the phone when she discovered he was dating me.

I gave his kids some small gifts and when she found out she was not happy. Convinced their younger kid to invite L over to her house to do a Christmas celebration with them.

Her kids asked if L could bring them the gifts I got for them.

She said “don’t bring that mess over here!”

She seems like a real pleasant lady lol

hopefully I’ll never see her or meet her. Not trying to give L the satisfaction of two women competing over him plus aint no competition as I’m better than her on many levels.

I wonder what attracted him to her if she allegedly was lazy, argumentative, not that attractive physically, n refused to have sex with him.

either he’s lying about that or he liked the shitty treatment

miss.a.p1600
12-26-2020, 07:27 AM
Im glad J spares me what his ex does drama wise and somehow forces good scheduling out of her . Haha.
I mean she left , what do I care anyway ?

I do think she was part to blame on that huge issue a month ago though ( where I wasn’t invited to stay over when daughter was there on occasion ).

Yeah I might just avoid convos about the ex Bertha broad.

She seems like a miserable person and if he likes dealing with that weirdo that’s on him.

carmen_b
12-26-2020, 09:19 AM
^ It’s a bummer with kids that the ex can influence your life and schedule even if it’s very subtle.

Like me this morning.
I had to leave his place at 8:25 a.m. for kid drop off which is just stupid early.
I’d be mad at J for allowing it if he didn’t give me as amazing three days straight over the holiday.

carmen_b
12-26-2020, 09:20 AM
^ I think men exaggerate too. They will tell these stories of getting no attention and it’s not always accurate.

LoveyDovey
12-26-2020, 11:01 AM
Her kids asked if L could bring them the gifts I got for them.

She said “don’t bring that mess over here!”

She seems like a real pleasant lady lol

hopefully I’ll never see her or meet her. Not trying to give L the satisfaction of two women competing over him plus aint no competition as I’m better than her on many levels.

I wonder what attracted him to her if she allegedly was lazy, argumentative, not that attractive physically, n refused to have sex with him.

either he’s lying about that or he liked the shitty treatment

She isn't doing a good job putting the kids first and by doing what she did, she put the kids in the middle and isn't showing them how to maturely handle business. Like, just shut it and let your kids have their gifts. It's about them.

Sorry you have to deal with Bertha bitch.

carmen_b
12-26-2020, 11:05 AM
^ It sounds like their schedule is sometimes a little disorganized.
Maybe L can dial that in a bit more ?

I think though *too* that he is saying this stuff to get some jealousy out of you.
You didn't really need to know about her crying OR about her being weird with the gifts.
He is oversharing on purpose I think to get a little reaction.

You basically just need to know when she is taking the kids so you can get kid free time haha.

LoveyDovey
12-26-2020, 11:07 AM
^ It sounds like their schedule is sometimes a little disorganized.
Maybe L can dial that in a bit more ?

I think thought *too* that he is saying this stuff to get some jealousy out of you.
Like .... you didn't really need to know about her crying OR about her being weird with the gifts.
He is oversharing on purpose I think to get a little reaction.

You basically just need to know when she is taking the kids so you can get kid free time haha.

Yes. I see this too. He needs to put a lid on it.

whirlerz
12-26-2020, 11:43 AM
Well, this (way) overpriced home behind ours must've sold, guys working on it all day, drilling/hammering etc.
I know they have to, but FUCK!

The place has a tiny yard, its very close to the 2 homes on either side of it (including the place that bitched about us to the county). One of them should have have bought that lot!
Don't wanna hear that shit all damn day!>:(

Now the dude from upstairs is in kitchen, (cooking I assume ::)) whichs already overload w/dishes..the other cooking guy's upset, landlord bitched him out about$.
Now gonna be slop city out there>:(

Which, brings me to, I gave him a check, asked him to wait to cash it, so no receipt lol?
I called him about it, he conveniently doesn't answer.
I always pay on time, gimme a f'n break.

Also, the house sale here fell thru.

carmen_b
12-26-2020, 12:27 PM
^ Well if those new folks didn’t buy it gives you some time to make a plan right?
I think you should buy land / maybe prep for a tiny. :)

Then you could be the one in charge .

Or alternatively maybe get an apartment and rent a room out ( but with you as Alpha to make house rules ). You could aim to make sure your room mate is gone at least 40 hours a week to have solo time there.

miss.a.p1600
12-26-2020, 09:14 PM
^ I think men exaggerate too. They will tell these stories of getting no attention and it’s not always accurate.

EXACTLY!

Like if the broad was so fucking miserable, annoying, disrespectful n petty then why tf marry AND stay for over a decade?!?

Dudes be exaggerating like hell to make themselves look like victims n saints

miss.a.p1600
12-26-2020, 09:19 PM
Yes. I see this too. He needs to put a lid on it.

He overshares quite often. Not just on this topic but other topics too.

Like when he got me a gift (couple pairs of sunglasses) then told me they were in the discard bin at work. I’m like bruh! Why would you say that? Just give me a gift and be quiet. Don’t tell me how much you paid for it or how you got it. That’s unnecessary. Because now I’m thinking they’re defective or something and I don’t want them.

Sometimes he takes the honesty thing too literally

I’m like “I really do not need to know all this”

miss.a.p1600
12-26-2020, 09:26 PM
^ It sounds like their schedule is sometimes a little disorganized.
Maybe L can dial that in a bit more ?

I think though *too* that he is saying this stuff to get some jealousy out of you.
You didn't really need to know about her crying OR about her being weird with the gifts.
He is oversharing on purpose I think to get a little reaction.

You basically just need to know when she is taking the kids so you can get kid free time haha.

It is!

They have no set days it’s just whenever she decides she doesn’t want to take care of them anymore.

He usually has them about 60% of the time.

Recently we’ve been hanging out without his kids (which I enjoy - nothing against the kids but it’s just easier to focus on each other) and hes been feeling guilt about it because his kids have called him literally every other day begging to come over his place.

I’m like did he not tell his kids and that Bertha broad that he’s recovering from operation and needs time to rest without having to tend to some kids?

And yes. You’re right I think he wants me to act jealous n possessive over him as an act of devotion to his male ego

carmen_b
12-26-2020, 10:47 PM
^ He should probably consider doing at least some sort of schedule in advance with the co-parenting partner.

It's really the only way I could do it with J!

Am I thinking of this right .... like ..... you couldn't ask him for an evening out or something ( lets say friday 6 days from now ) and not have 100% certainty it would be a go and smooth ? I must not understand it quite right because I assume without some planned date type evenings you guys wouldn't have made it this far.

I agree with you too. Post surgery there is nothing wrong with him taking like 6 kid free days in the week! He was just in surgery. Giving them 1 day out of 7 post surgery and catching up more the following week seems like it would make sense . I can understand your frustration. I dated a guy like this in 2010. It just felt like his whole life was held hostage by his ex just randomly dropping his kid off with no organized times at all .

I lasted 10 years of not even entertaining the idea of ONE DATE with any men with children after my terrible experience 10 years ago until J swooped in.

carmen_b
12-26-2020, 10:59 PM
^ Side note : Isn't Dad guilt kind of unattractive ?
Like .... just drop the guilt already.
You are doing a GREAT JOB for hells sake.

Real guilt ( when justified ) would be different.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 10:07 AM
^exactly.

Today he’s like “I want some lovin’!”

My hypergamous thoughts kick in as I ignore him and I think in the back of my mind “and I want some money!”

whirlerz
12-27-2020, 02:29 PM
Waiting on this B to come buy something (selling stuff on a local forum).
I've had issues w/her before.

So, been an hour I took the stuff in really irritated RN, sent her a message, probably forgot

Going on cam watch er show up

Genoveve
12-27-2020, 05:25 PM
More shipping issues. I ordered some little perfume bottles made out of crystals from etsy on the 21st and they still haven't shipped...I was expecting it to take longer because of Christmas, but etsy says they should have been shipped by the 24th so now I gotta contact the seller. I'm hoping they're just on a break because of Christmas and forgot to announce it on their page. They were running a 10% off sale when I made my purchase though, I don't think they'd be running a sale if they weren't planning on selling though.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 05:29 PM
L is pissed off at me and abruptly ended our call.

Well I guess that frees up my night to hustle n make some money vs. laying up, cuddling, fucking

Aurora_Sunset
12-27-2020, 05:40 PM
My husband had to call the cops on the kids' stepdad today. The man aggressively reamed him out on Christmas and threatened to beat his ass, because he was a whole 10 minutes late picking up the kids. Today, when hubby went to drop them off, they were deliberately not home and showed up 15 minutes late to "make a point." Then stepdad followed him down the road to the gas station and chased him into the store yelling at him about how "this was happening now."

What the fucking fuck? This man is in his 40s. My husband got the clerks to drive him out, and then called the cops and reported the whole thing. When the cops called stepdad, his entire demeanor changed and he apologized. Hubby will now record every single pickup and dropoff, and the second he gets even slightly hostile, can call 911, give them the case number - and if he does it 2 more times, he'll go to jail for criminal harassment.

Oh, and he tried to pull the "military vet" card with the officer, saying he had "a temporary lapse in judgment but he's a war vet." Fuck you. First of all, it's not a "temporary lapse in judgment if you're still at the same level of rage and aggression 3 days after the original outburst, and obviously LOOKING to START a fight that day. And also, my husband is over a decade in EMS/fire. He could pull the PTSD card too, but he didn't react to the provocations at all.

Honestly, I don't even think bitch ex-wife has anything to do with it. He said that she looked like a whipped puppy when they finally pulled up. I think he abuses her. He has no business being around the kids.

AChildOfBoredom
12-27-2020, 06:36 PM
Oh, and he tried to pull the "military vet" card with the officer, saying he had "a temporary lapse in judgment but he's a war vet." Fuck you. First of all, it's not a "temporary lapse in judgment if you're still at the same level of rage and aggression 3 days after the original outburst, and obviously LOOKING to START a fight that day. And also, my husband is over a decade in EMS/fire. He could pull the PTSD card too, but he didn't react to the provocations at all.

Gotta love that one. Especially when they try using it as a Hail Mary play when all their other pickup tactics fail. “Oh, so you’re telling me you’re suffering from this thing that you’re admitting an inability to handle with no effective counseling or treatment, and it’s supposed to make me want to be around you?”. Especially being there myself… this is largely why I consider myself undateable and makes me question sometimes whether it’s a good idea to have the others here. I’m still pretty mild-mannered, but it’s possible to push me to a point where I will get violent, and I seem to be not too shabby at that.

indiegirl
12-27-2020, 06:39 PM
Yeppp I cried for 2 hours today fighting with my mom. It's starting to be clear she does not understand me. Remember when I left the industry for a short few months and she was paying my bills and it became blatantly clear she didn't realize she set herself up for an expensive situation. She got upset and yelled at me for not being able to find a job at one point as if I was in charge of hiring myself. If they don't want you to work for them, well that's it! I returned back to exactly what I was doing in the business to not feel bad for being a burden. She's now talking about me always being negative. Mom you go fuck thousands of a bunch of strangers and be happy about your life in your 30's. She's always had a man financing her life so she has no clue. Even when she was divorced me and my brother were helping pay her bills. It's hard for someone like her to feel sad when she's ALWAYS been taken care of. It sucks not being understood. "This is the path you chose".....NO it ain't!!! If someone paid me well I would not be in 7 inch heels mom! Blocked my brothers number. Kinda fucking hurts because he was my best friend in high school to the point people thought he was my boyfriend... But I need to move on. Miss him but I know it's time to push forward. Not being able to send 1-2 texts back to me a month, I can't be invested anymore.

She gave me this SAD excuse that he was adhd. Unbelievable. He is not adhd. You were the very person carting me to psychiatrists, psychologists, forced medications, the amen clinic, tests with school to give me extra time in the "disability center" sober living, etc.... to even call him ADHD is a joke. Yeah I've been through a lot but what a joke and insult of an excuse.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 06:46 PM
L is pissed off at me and abruptly ended our call.

Well I guess that frees up my night to hustle n make some money vs. laying up, cuddling, fucking

i thought I’d have my night free

now he’s saying “I need you here”

FUUUUUUCK

I cannot hang out with someone this much

WendiStarr
12-27-2020, 06:49 PM
Some asshole trying to hack my account

moneybags
12-27-2020, 06:50 PM
Some asshole trying to hack my account

At SM? That happened to me too!

indiegirl
12-27-2020, 08:57 PM
God bless me! I'm not sure if this customer knows much english. Kinda obvious thats a no. Hard to understand he contacted me again (last time he was driving around waiting to confirm yesterday) and today calling Buena Park as Ball Park even when I correct him. Not sure if I should walk into this LOl. I'm down for an extra $100 tip to do this (hotel cost and driver) and head home.

xxxGothBarbie
12-27-2020, 10:12 PM
Yeppp I cried for 2 hours today fighting with my mom. It's starting to be clear she does not understand me. Remember when I left the industry for a short few months and she was paying my bills and it became blatantly clear she didn't realize she set herself up for an expensive situation. She got upset and yelled at me for not being able to find a job at one point as if I was in charge of hiring myself. If they don't want you to work for them, well that's it! I returned back to exactly what I was doing in the business to not feel bad for being a burden. She's now talking about me always being negative. Mom you go fuck thousands of a bunch of strangers and be happy about your life in your 30's. She's always had a man financing her life so she has no clue. Even when she was divorced me and my brother were helping pay her bills. It's hard for someone like her to feel sad when she's ALWAYS been taken care of. It sucks not being understood. "This is the path you chose".....NO it ain't!!! If someone paid me well I would not be in 7 inch heels mom! Blocked my brothers number. Kinda fucking hurts because he was my best friend in high school to the point people thought he was my boyfriend... But I need to move on. Miss him but I know it's time to push forward. Not being able to send 1-2 texts back to me a month, I can't be invested anymore.

She gave me this SAD excuse that he was adhd. Unbelievable. He is not adhd. You were the very person carting me to psychiatrists, psychologists, forced medications, the amen clinic, tests with school to give me extra time in the "disability center" sober living, etc.... to even call him ADHD is a joke. Yeah I've been through a lot but what a joke and insult of an excuse.

I was just venting to a close dancer friend the other day about this. Girl, do not feel alone in this, I assure you are def not. My mom is literally as you desribed yours word for word. Always had a man finance her life & looks down her nose at me & anyone else who chooses not do go that route. It's complete bullshit! They are complete selfish narcissists IMO. I waffle back & forth thinking my mom was jealous of women & myself that were strong enough to brave the world on their own without a man's help but I dunno. I know it's hard to keep them in your life bc well its your parent, toxic or not. I'm struggling with the same issue. It sucks.
If she offered to help you out then yells at you for it thats straight up manipulation & abuse!

My mom yelled at me about 5 years ago when I was homeless living in a hotel & I called her asking for her help for a few nights stay so I'd have a place to sleep & safety until I could put in a few nights at the club (which was crazy slow/nonconsistent) and she yelled so many cruel hurtful things at me. Calling me lazy, I'm a drunk laying in bed all day, I'm fat (thats why the guys didn't wanna pay me at the club) yes she said this stuff. I couldn't believe it. None of it was true but it was so annoying & enraging at the time bc a week prior she'd offered me cash money to help me get into a room for rent (which she never did).

When you stop & think about it though, they're the ones that are the slaves to society and their husbands, bf's whatever. Mine has to wake up at 3 or 4 am to cook his breakfast LOL no thanks! and literally cater to his every want & abide by his rules. I would be beyond happy living like that.

Sorry for the novel LOL I just can totally relate with you on this. Pisses me off when I know it happens to others as well bc it sucks :( *virtual hugs*

indiegirl
12-27-2020, 10:37 PM
I was just venting to a close dancer friend the other day about this. Girl, do not feel alone in this, I assure you are def not. My mom is literally as you desribed yours word for word. Always had a man finance her life & looks down her nose at me & anyone else who chooses not do go that route. It's complete bullshit! They are complete selfish narcissists IMO. I waffle back & forth thinking my mom was jealous of women & myself that were strong enough to brave the world on their own without a man's help but I dunno. I know it's hard to keep them in your life bc well its your parent, toxic or not. I'm struggling with the same issue. It sucks.
If she offered to help you out then yells at you for it thats straight up manipulation & abuse!

My mom yelled at me about 5 years ago when I was homeless living in a hotel & I called her asking for her help for a few nights stay so I'd have a place to sleep & safety until I could put in a few nights at the club (which was crazy slow/nonconsistent) and she yelled so many cruel hurtful things at me. Calling me lazy, I'm a drunk laying in bed all day, I'm fat (thats why the guys didn't wanna pay me at the club) yes she said this stuff. I couldn't believe it. None of it was true but it was so annoying & enraging at the time bc a week prior she'd offered me cash money to help me get into a room for rent (which she never did).

When you stop & think about it though, they're the ones that are the slaves to society and their husbands, bf's whatever. Mine has to wake up at 3 or 4 am to cook his breakfast LOL no thanks! and literally cater to his every want & abide by his rules. I would be beyond happy living like that.

Sorry for the novel LOL I just can totally relate with you on this. Pisses me off when I know it happens to others as well bc it sucks :( *virtual hugs*

Thank you for this. I needed to hear this so bad. Hard feeling alone sometimes. Family can be hard to deal with :(.

caramelcraze
12-28-2020, 02:37 AM
The wedding venue that I booked last January can’t hold the wedding and told me they would refund the deposit (paid $2k). It’s been an entire month since they promised to do so and they still haven’t! I’ve emailed them twice and have yet to hear back. My fiancé is a lawyer, so the next step is sending them some scary law jargon filled certified mail... really wanted my money back before the holidays and at this rate it will be next year before I see it. Ugh!

update: still haven’t got my deposit back. Time to send some lawyer mail.

carmen_b
12-28-2020, 09:43 AM
^ I just love how BOTH of your moms are sugar baby's basically but they are down on sex workers lol .
It is just SO bizarre and I see this so often in my community. There is just this HUGE batch of women my age who don't even work but would say / think that they are above all sex workers I'm sure if questioned about it.

ravenskyy
12-28-2020, 10:03 AM
I had covid. It fucking sucked. Don't get covid.