View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
miss.a.p1600
12-28-2020, 10:19 AM
^ I just love how BOTH of your moms are sugar baby's basically but they are down on sex workers lol .
It is just SO bizarre and I see this so often in my community. There is just this HUGE batch of women my age who don't even work but would say / think that they are above all sex workers I'm sure if questioned about it.
It is bizarre
I have a relative that is the OG of pulling rich men. She's been a housewife for over a decade and living in wealth that most people will never obtain.
But has the audacity to call out women as being 'gold diggers'
In my mind Im like 'bruh you are the epitome of gold digger' cause if these men didn't have a certain level of wealth she would never give them a time day.
These broads be hypocritical af and stay hating on the next woman come up like they are the only people in the world allowed to move up the socioeconomic ladder. Obviously a bit of denial + power play.
LoveyDovey
12-28-2020, 10:22 AM
I had covid. It fucking sucked. Don't get covid.
Thank goodness you are feeling better now.
ravenskyy
12-28-2020, 10:28 AM
Thank goodness you are feeling better now.
I don't feel better. Breathing is hard and I'm mentally fucked up. I feel like I'm an alien in my own body. I can't function normally right now. Just had a baby and got covid days later, so I couldn't connect with him because I thought I was going to die for 2 weeks. Now I'm not "sick" anymore, but mentally, I'm fucked. I get no sleep. I don't feel like my body is mine anymore. Sleeping doesn't feel like sleeping. I'm afraid to let my husband go back to work because then I'll be alone with my kids.
I feel like I died and was partially brought back to life, but I'm missing a huge part of me. I don't feel like I used to. Everything seems empty.
Honestly, being sick hurt much less than this empty feeling does. I feel 0 connection to my life. It's like my depression got 100× worse.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-28-2020, 10:33 AM
It is bizarre
I have a relative that is the OG of pulling rich men. She's been a housewife for over a decade and living in wealth that most people will never obtain.
But has the audacity to call out women as being 'gold diggers'
In my mind Im like 'bruh you are the epitome of gold digger' cause if these men didn't have a certain level of wealth she would never give them a time day.
These broads be hypocritical af and stay hating on the next woman come up like they are the only people in the world allowed to move up the socioeconomic ladder. Obviously a bit of denial + power play.
I have a close family friend who was advertising on Backpage right up until the feds shut it down. Her money came to a complete stop and had to get a "real job". Now she likes to throw shade at my "lil internet money.." I just remodeled my bathroom with my lil internet money. Meanwhile she has to share a bathroom. I don't let her get to me.
LoveyDovey
12-28-2020, 12:36 PM
I don't feel better. Breathing is hard and I'm mentally fucked up. I feel like I'm an alien in my own body. I can't function normally right now. Just had a baby and got covid days later, so I couldn't connect with him because I thought I was going to die for 2 weeks. Now I'm not "sick" anymore, but mentally, I'm fucked. I get no sleep. I don't feel like my body is mine anymore. Sleeping doesn't feel like sleeping. I'm afraid to let my husband go back to work because then I'll be alone with my kids.
I feel like I died and was partially brought back to life, but I'm missing a huge part of me. I don't feel like I used to. Everything seems empty.
Honestly, being sick hurt much less than this empty feeling does. I feel 0 connection to my life. It's like my depression got 100× worse.
Oh no. I'm sorry to hear this. Hard enough to have a baby or covid, but both at the same time? I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. Sending good healing vibes your way, and I hope you have a speedy recovery. That is awful.
indiegirl
12-28-2020, 02:27 PM
Mom texted twice today about the rain as if we didn't fight yesterday. I need a mental break to think about what is best for me. It was at the point in the fight where I said "Maybe if I married an old man in an arranged marriage you would finally be happy with me." She responded: You would.
In the past with potential guys, she said "I just want you to be happy."
What a load of BS!!! Even when I was happy with a guy she always scrutinized them for everything like they weren't enough. "How much does he make" "Let me see his photos" "What's his job" "He has tattoos?" Look how that turned out for you mom marrying an attorney. Put us through a hell of a childhood. She blames everything on my father for how I "turned out"....you played a part too mom.
I have started to lose my enthusiasm in contacting her. I'm ready to call Dr. Phil for her to figure shit out for herself and not be involved LOL!
xxxGothBarbie
12-28-2020, 02:33 PM
It is bizarre
I have a relative that is the OG of pulling rich men. She's been a housewife for over a decade and living in wealth that most people will never obtain.
But has the audacity to call out women as being 'gold diggers'
In my mind Im like 'bruh you are the epitome of gold digger' cause if these men didn't have a certain level of wealth she would never give them a time day.
These broads be hypocritical af and stay hating on the next woman come up like they are the only people in the world allowed to move up the socioeconomic ladder. Obviously a bit of denial + power play.
Lol exactly! And let me guess they all had or have a new car every 2 or 3 years right? Mine does then basically laughs or cant understand why i still have the car i got from 13 years ago. They'll nvr understand the luxury of independence imo. Thats my power over her (them). It pisses me off that they feel so important & snooty just bc they married someone for the sake of being taken care of. I always laugh at their choice of men theyre stuck with lol you couldn't pay me to be tied down & miserable for the sake of $.
Is this mostly a "southern" thing or what?
xxxGothBarbie
12-28-2020, 02:39 PM
Mom texted twice today about the rain as if we didn't fight yesterday. I need a mental break to think about what is best for me. It was at the point in the fight where I said "Maybe if I married an old man in an arranged marriage you would finally be happy with me." She responded: You would.
In the past with potential guys, she said "I just want you to be happy."
What a load of BS!!! Even when I was happy with a guy she always scrutinized them for everything like they weren't enough. Look how that turned out for you mom marrying an attorney. Put us through a hell of a childhood. She blames everything on my father for how I "turned out"....you played a part too mom.
I have started to lose my enthusiasm in contacting her. I'm ready to call Dr. Phil for her to figure shit out for herself and not be involved LOL!
girl i think we were separated at birth or something bc wow thats something my mom would & has said. My mom has hated all of my bfs bc im assuming that bc they werent wealthy. I don't choose men for their wealth i choose them bc i genuinely like them. Im sorry your mom is so cruel ugh ;( my mom blames my dad for how i am too despite shes the one that cheated & stole money from their business years ago. She's always blaming other ppl so annoying! Narcissistic abuse at its finest.
xxxGothBarbie
12-28-2020, 02:42 PM
[QUOTE=PhatGirlDynomite!!!;3203492]I have a close family friend who was advertising on Backpage right up until the feds shut it down. Her money came to a complete stop and had to get a "real job". Now she likes to throw shade at my "lil internet money.." I just remodeled my bathroom with my lil internet money. Meanwhile she has to share a bathroom. I don't let her get to me.[/QUOT.
haha thats funny. Reminds me of my ex's mom when i was living there briefly years ago, i had just stopped dancing and was doing market research studies (focus groups) for money and was making the same amount i was dancing and she totally said its good that youre doing those but its just beer money. Funny that "beer money" was enough to feed myself pay my bills and leave that house for good ;)
indiegirl
12-28-2020, 03:00 PM
girl i think we were separated at birth or something bc wow thats something my mom would & has said. My mom has hated all of my bfs bc im assuming that bc they werent wealthy. I don't choose men for their wealth i choose them bc i genuinely like them. Im sorry your mom is so cruel ugh ;( my mom blames my dad for how i am too despite shes the one that cheated & stole money from their business years ago. She's always blaming other ppl so annoying! Narcissistic abuse at its finest.
I think its hard to look at a parent as narcissists because they are your parents. I dunno what to do right now. I'm just really upset.
Family can be so fucked up and the worst is trying to convince yourself everything is great/going well when it's not. Nobody even bothers to address anything at all. Like I'm the main problem in the family. No I'm the only one vocal about obvious issues. Other 3 family members are dead silent. I dunno, I need to consider what is best for me at this point or move on.
miss.a.p1600
12-28-2020, 03:05 PM
Lol exactly! And let me guess they all had or have a new car every 2 or 3 years right? Mine does then basically laughs or cant understand why i still have the car i got from 13 years ago. They'll nvr understand the luxury of independence imo. Thats my power over her (them). It pisses me off that they feel so important & snooty just bc they married someone for the sake of being taken care of. I always laugh at their choice of men theyre stuck with lol you couldn't pay me to be tied down & miserable for the sake of $.
Is this mostly a "southern" thing or what?
Haha.....Every 4 years
Ironically, she lucked up in a major way. Not only is the current dude 7 figure wealthy but he lets her lead most of the time so its the opposite of her previous husband who had 6 figure wealth but was really abusive n controlling.
Its def. wise to make mental sanity/happiness up there as a priority.
A good dude with some major wealth = Super rare, but it can happen.
Genoveve
12-28-2020, 03:50 PM
I don't feel better. Breathing is hard and I'm mentally fucked up. I feel like I'm an alien in my own body. I can't function normally right now. Just had a baby and got covid days later, so I couldn't connect with him because I thought I was going to die for 2 weeks. Now I'm not "sick" anymore, but mentally, I'm fucked. I get no sleep. I don't feel like my body is mine anymore. Sleeping doesn't feel like sleeping. I'm afraid to let my husband go back to work because then I'll be alone with my kids.
I feel like I died and was partially brought back to life, but I'm missing a huge part of me. I don't feel like I used to. Everything seems empty.
Honestly, being sick hurt much less than this empty feeling does. I feel 0 connection to my life. It's like my depression got 100× worse.
With what you went through I'm not surprised that you feel the way you do, you went through hormonal hell. I think women feeling worse after birth is more common than we think, and I've definitely heard new mothers say the sort of things that you're saying before. I don't know what resources you have available to you but I would definitely be researching postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis if I was you, I'm sure there's forums and reddit communities for them where you could talk to other people who have dealt with or are currently dealing with it.
Aurora_Sunset
12-28-2020, 03:53 PM
I feel like crap today. I know it's because I stayed up too late and ate nothing of nutritional value yesterday. I thought I'd start feeling better by now, but nope. I still did a lot of adulting today, but I wish I didn't feel like shit doing it.
Aurora_Sunset
12-28-2020, 06:03 PM
I'm tired of my part-time job. I'm usually fine once I'm there and get going, but getting ready to go is probably the most soul-draining thing I do all week.
I just hate that I can't quit it. I did the math today, and IF I was guaranteed some OT at my day job every week, I'd make bills just fine. But if more than 2 weeks in a month went by without any OT, I would fall behind without the part-time gig. So, I feel like I'm stuck with it.
WendiStarr
12-29-2020, 10:30 AM
I don't feel better. Breathing is hard and I'm mentally fucked up. I feel like I'm an alien in my own body. I can't function normally right now. Just had a baby and got covid days later, so I couldn't connect with him because I thought I was going to die for 2 weeks. Now I'm not "sick" anymore, but mentally, I'm fucked. I get no sleep. I don't feel like my body is mine anymore. Sleeping doesn't feel like sleeping. I'm afraid to let my husband go back to work because then I'll be alone with my kids.
I feel like I died and was partially brought back to life, but I'm missing a huge part of me. I don't feel like I used to. Everything seems empty.
Honestly, being sick hurt much less than this empty feeling does. I feel 0 connection to my life. It's like my depression got 100× worse.
Is it possible that it's due to the hormonal changes of birth and being sick, on top of stress has caused depression to worsen? I know giving birth and having a baby takes a major toll on your body and covid-19 does too. I know the alien feeling, like your body doesn't feel normal. I gave birth to my first daughter during the h1n1 crap and caught it when she was 2 weeks old. I cried every day, multiple times a day and didn't feel normal again for a couple months. I had to see a therapist and go on meds for postpartum depression for a few months. With my newest baby I went through the same feeling like I wanted to feel normal again. That lasted for 2 months. Sleep deprivation can cause you to feel all sorts of weird feelings, too. If you need to talk to a therapist, there's no shame in it. I hope that you feel better and are able to feel back to yourself again.
carmen_b
12-29-2020, 04:51 PM
Ugh.
I am feeling lost again.
Like really lost “ where IS my home ?” Types of thoughts.
:(
miss.a.p1600
12-29-2020, 04:52 PM
When you tell a guy to do something. He wants to do it his way. Turns out his way is wrong. :banghead::banghead::banghead:
carmen_b
12-29-2020, 04:54 PM
Also Macy’s shorted me my chocolate mints I ordered. I got them to reach a spending point for free shipping and now I want them. :(
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-29-2020, 06:36 PM
Funny petty annoyance- I grabbed a Bath and Body Works body spray that I didn't try smelling before I left the store, and I am not into it. I think I need to try harder to like it. (I got a gift card for Xmas so I grabbed a bunch of sprays since their semi annual sale is going on too.) There's a bitter note to the scent, I mean they nailed what they were trying with it, but I wish I had been pickier. LOL
carmen_b
12-29-2020, 06:38 PM
I’m wussing our talking to J about the room I rent.
I don’t want to rent it after Jan. 15
I have so much AirBnB vacancy.
If he doesn’t offer to let me stay though we would be in a bad spot / frustration for me ( or us both ). I get stuck on certain ideas sometimes and I kept having repetitive thoughts today about this.
Never mind : It worked into a convo and we will talk more about it Friday!!
carmen_b
12-29-2020, 06:57 PM
^ My mom and sister kind of started picking at it and they feel with so much vacancy it should be a no brainer that he just offer / eliminate $ waste.
My other idea was offering to set aside what I spend on it as travel fun cash for us.
chanzep
12-29-2020, 07:14 PM
Funny petty annoyance- I grabbed a Bath and Body Works body spray that I didn't try smelling before I left the store, and I am not into it. I think I need to try harder to like it. (I got a gift card for Xmas so I grabbed a bunch of sprays since their semi annual sale is going on too.) There's a bitter note to the scent, I mean they nailed what they were trying with it, but I wish I had been pickier. LOL
You can return it even if used. They have a good policy.
chanzep
12-29-2020, 07:23 PM
So I called the dental surgeon place today. They have nothing available until the end of January!. I wanted to get my wisdom tooth out ASAP recover then get some filler in my mouth lines and get lip filler. The woman also said they do consult and surgery on same day so have driver handy SMH. That's not normal I would like them to look properly at me plus my friends are busy and I have to prepare etc. I felt annoyed after phone call and cried . I spent last week in antibiotics feeling sick and depressed . I want this tooth drama over.
TheBrownFox
12-29-2020, 07:40 PM
Funny petty annoyance- I grabbed a Bath and Body Works body spray that I didn't try smelling before I left the store, and I am not into it. I think I need to try harder to like it. (I got a gift card for Xmas so I grabbed a bunch of sprays since their semi annual sale is going on too.) There's a bitter note to the scent, I mean they nailed what they were trying with it, but I wish I had been pickier. LOL
Now I'm curious which scent it was? :) I don't usually shop there anymore unless it's to get gifts for someone (After having had BV a couple times, I use plain Dove unscented soap now). But I got my mom into liking that Black Cherry Merlot scent. I think it's even better than Sweet Pea (She's always loved Sweet Pea)! I think I'm just gonna start getting the Black Cherry Merlot hand soap for my bathroom and kitchen, and the mini hand creams to keep in my purse for when I'm out and about (I hate having ashy hands). It smells so good, I wish I could eat it! Lol.
LoveyDovey
12-29-2020, 08:18 PM
So I went to pick up a microwave from someone I connected with on Craigslist. We texted shortly before I went over there to pick it up so he knew I was on my way. I knocked, rang the doorbell, texted them to let them know I was outside. No response. I f****** hate time wasters.
chanzep
12-30-2020, 12:19 AM
That's so rude
LoveyDovey
12-30-2020, 05:02 AM
I flagged his post for removal. Jerk.
miss.a.p1600
12-30-2020, 08:17 AM
I really don’t understand why people drive to the grocery store every day (unless they are paid chefs) because they obviously don’t realize they waste time + mileage by constantly commuting to the store
It’s really dumb to me. Like unless you’re broke af, a personal chef who requires same day fresh, then just get everything you need in ONE trip for the week.
moneybags
12-30-2020, 09:52 AM
^^^lol...I love going to the grocery store. But you’re right...twice a week is plenty...lol
indiegirl
12-30-2020, 10:04 AM
Fuck it is cold as crap in this hotel the AC is broken.
Also moms reminds me I’m not fucking crazy. You put me here and won’t own it. So many things she said. How the fuck did god decide this family was a good one?
miss.a.p1600
12-30-2020, 12:48 PM
L’s kids guilt tripping him and calling him numerous times asking when he’s picking them up.
They’re acting like their being slow tortured at their relatives house.
I guess I’d be a stern parent like ‘look! I’m picking you up on this day n time n don’t ask or I’ll extend the pickup” I’d probably be a mommy dearest cause I ain’t got the patience for no bay bays kids.
I might be conveniently travelling n working when L has his kids.
No offense to the kids cause kids do what kids do (tantrums, meltdowns, arguing with their siblings, whining to get their way, wasting drinks n crumbs over fine Italian leather, tearing things - accidentally allegedly, needing you to do thing for them, etc) but.......I don’t know if I’m equipped to deal with that when I want to be alone in peace n quiet
Edit: I hear them coming up. L is yelling at the kid. They kid is whining n crying. Apparently for lying about something.....omg!
Yeah - the joys of having bay bay kids......
Edit again: come to find out his kid tracked dog shit in his car. Not only did the kid lie about it but also had feet up on the seat further spreading dog shit all over the seat.
Yuk!!!!
I’m not riding in his car for a loooooong time. If ever
LoveyDovey
12-30-2020, 03:31 PM
This headache I'm having better be because of my period and not the beginning of a covid nightmare.
Genoveve
12-30-2020, 03:49 PM
I really don’t understand why people drive to the grocery store every day (unless they are paid chefs) because they obviously don’t realize they waste time + mileage by constantly commuting to the store
It’s really dumb to me. Like unless you’re broke af, a personal chef who requires same day fresh, then just get everything you need in ONE trip for the week.
I do this all the time, I'll even go to the grocery 2-3 times a day. I love to cook, especially from scratch, which can require fresh ingredients that I don't have on hand. Like if I decide one day, 'I'm in the mood for pork larb(a Lao dish)' I'm gonna need to go get the necessary ingredients. Then the next day I might be like 'I feel like making a lime tart,' which means I gotta go to the store for its ingredients...etc. Until the corona virus made me have to learn how to start shopping in advance I would pretty much go to the grocery store every day for that day's menu(and I'm about to be 34 and I've done that for pretty much my entire adult life). I guess you could say say I'm my own "personal chef." My grocery stores are a couple of minutes away too though, it's not like a twenty minute trek each way.
I used to always be amazed at people who only do one grocery shopping trip a week and be like 'How do they know what they are going to want to eat in four days?? I don't even know what I want tomorrow.'
AChildOfBoredom
12-30-2020, 04:02 PM
S’s car got t-boned by some fucking jackass who figured stop signs were a suggestion. She’s alright, but the car’s done for.
AChildOfBoredom
12-30-2020, 06:09 PM
I was visiting someone, stayed over and slept kind of poorly because I heard the neighbour having sex. At least that's what I assume happened, it sure sounded like that. I tried to not let this bother me, I tried to think "well good for her" (and maybe this was just karma for every time I've bothered the neighbours myself), but I had met the woman shortly earlier and hearing those sounds kind of disgusted me because I found her unattractive and a bit annoying. Finally fell asleep. Didn't tell anyone I heard this just vaguely said I didn't sleep well, then later that day some of the people who hadn't slept there and hadn't heard all this start talking about the place. They say the woman is usually by herself but lately her brother has been there too. And I'm silently thinking "oh god, oh my fucking god, please no". I really hope that wasn't her brother because that makes the whole thing even more disturbing to me and it was bad enough to start with, I sure didn't need that info to potentially make it even worse.
I just hope the sounds weren’t like that Forrest Gump scene
https://youtu.be/ADHXahsxIGM
carmen_b
12-30-2020, 06:09 PM
^ Hahahah. Ear plugs ! Don't travel without 'em !!
Even annoying people deserve some dick ! Maybe she won't be as annoying today. :)
Genoveve
12-30-2020, 06:26 PM
I was visiting someone, stayed over and slept kind of poorly because I heard the neighbour having sex. At least that's what I assume happened, it sure sounded like that. I tried to not let this bother me, I tried to think "well good for her" (and maybe this was just karma for every time I've bothered the neighbours myself), but I had met the woman shortly earlier and hearing those sounds kind of disgusted me because I found her unattractive and a bit annoying. Finally fell asleep. Didn't tell anyone I heard this just vaguely said I didn't sleep well, then later that day some of the people who hadn't slept there and hadn't heard all this start talking about the place. They say the woman is usually by herself but lately her brother has been there too. And I'm silently thinking "oh god, oh my fucking god, please no". I really hope that wasn't her brother because that makes the whole thing even more disturbing to me and it was bad enough to start with, I sure didn't need that info to potentially make it even worse.
I will take that any day over the roosters at my friend's house that sit right outside and cock-a-doodle-doo from like 3am-10am. Last time I was there I got *maybe* 90 minutes of sleep.
StellaRose
12-31-2020, 12:01 AM
Stop fucking calling the pharmacies asking when you can schedule to get a covid vaccine. Just keep watching the news. When it’s available to the public, believe me you will be plenty spammed with ads about get it done.
miss.a.p1600
12-31-2020, 05:15 AM
L will buy me food or gifts then ask the next day if if used or ate it. To the point where it’s obnoxiously annoying.
I bough him some slides for Christmas because he was wearing these worn down, ratty slides. I noticed even after I bought him the new pair he continued to wear these raggedy ass pair. So next time he asked if I’d used/eaten something he got me I immediately turned it around on him and asked him about those shoes.
His brother also got him a pair of nice pajamas because he noticed him wearing some grandpa-esque pajamas. I got excited thinking he was going to spruce up that night. But he has yet to wear the newer, nicer clothes and shoes he was gifted.
Wtf?!?
I feel like “accidentally” wasting some paint or bleach or something on those ugly old slides n pajamas
I find it ironic he complained about his ex wife not giving him gifts on holidays. Hell that’s probably why.
miss.a.p1600
12-31-2020, 05:21 AM
Oh and speaking of his ex wife. She called him going off on him yesterday because she didn’t want anyone around her kids.
She sounds just as annoying n disgruntled as I imagined. I slightly feel her though. I think L is kinda rushing about this and I started to feel a twinge of guilt because I don’t want anyones kids getting attached to me (In the event I want to throw tha deuces n leave)
He asked me to spend the night.
I turned down the offer because I didn’t want one of those kids waking up in the middle of the night, discovering me there then run back n tell their disgruntled Bertha mom. Plus o just think it’s a bad idea to have to hide n sneak around kids.
I’m glad to sleep alone in my own space.
carmen_b
12-31-2020, 01:07 PM
^ Haha. That is such a weird thing to say .
I can see that hesitation haha but what do you expect in a breakup ?
I personally would expect the person would have another partner ( whether soon or eventually ).
carmen_b
12-31-2020, 01:10 PM
I'm mad at myself. I'm just dying for some TLC today. I tried to book a massage like an idiot at the last minute. When doing massage as a practitioner I always hated the last minute people haha.
Anyway ..... I booked myself for 80 minutes on Monday and they know I'm really wanting today or tomorrow . I'm on the cancellation list and will probably go near the shop and just sit and have a tea for an hour in case someone cancels short notice hahaha.
WendiStarr
12-31-2020, 01:18 PM
Vanilla supervisor: can you sign in real quick and complete the short training coursework?
Apparently "short training" consisted of 4 frustrating hours of boring, common sense videos that couldn't be fast forwarded or rushed through at all. On top of it, baby kept wanting to be up on my lap hitting buttons on the keyboard. Whenever she wasn't doing that, as soon as I set her down on the floor with her toys, she'd start crawling and make a fast beeline for the stairs to try to go up them. I wish she understood the word no because I must've said it 100 times to no avail. I'm going to have to figure out how to block her from being able to get to the stairs. My oldest isn't the best babysitter.
miss.a.p1600
12-31-2020, 01:45 PM
^ Haha. That is such a weird thing to say .
I can see that hesitation haha but what do you expect in a breakup ?
I personally would expect the person would have another partner ( whether soon or eventually ).
yeah that’s what he was trying to tell her
that he was moving on ...... and they weren’t ever getting back together
indiegirl
12-31-2020, 02:26 PM
Me when a customer asks for an overnight *rolling my eyes*...........girl its 5k for 8 hours ......some people can't afford it (understandable) or think it'll be 900 bucks for 24 hours. I have to stay up all night with some of you guys as you snore in my ear. That is a solid 5k. Someone wrote a review calling me a clock watcher....no, I'm not watching the clock, but that phone alarm is your queue to politely shower and collect your things because if I have a lineup there is gonna be someone pissed waiting in their car because you wanted free extra time. I feel I'm reasonable. Going without sleep all night is so tiring.
carmen_b
12-31-2020, 02:39 PM
When was their split again ?
It can be hard. I know I felt this weird loyalty / attachment to my long term partner even up to a year or so after he left.
yeah that’s what he was trying to tell her
that he was moving on ...... and they weren’t ever getting back together
miss.a.p1600
12-31-2020, 04:30 PM
^yeah i actually can empathize. When you are in a state of disbelief that it’s over but still hoping for some miracle
I actually was slick hoping he’d let her back in - so I’d have my out.
It was two years ago when they divorced. He said she thought she could disrespect him n not have sex for years and he continue to stay. I guess loyalty to a certain point n when he reached that point he divorced her. He said she refused to sign the papers and even thought they’d get back together after divorcing. He said it was like a few short months ago she told him she loved him.
indiegirl
12-31-2020, 07:07 PM
Some guy treated me like the biggest bitch. Hunny, if you don’t wanna drive, don’t!
Acting like I was roaming around maskless when it got tangled in my work bag. I was trying to be all nice asking questions (apologizing for my mask that I had to pick up. Like gurlllll I never even put a foot in your car!!!” and he was a rude bitch.
I get the panic but shit. I rarely leave the house other than to work. He was such an asshole. Some drivers are like that where you think “okie doke. Let’s plug in the earphones. You’re a dick.” Most drivers I get are fine.
indiegirl
01-01-2021, 02:24 AM
When I have a return show and talking in a baby voice when it’s anal or family play. I don’t do that
miss.a.p1600
01-01-2021, 09:20 AM
L is still taking prescription pain medication, his operation was over 2 weeks ago.......knowing good n cotdamn well he ain’t in no pain.
Bruh! You either need to Man up!!! Or you now slick taking this for recreational purposes