View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
lynn2009
01-01-2021, 09:41 AM
I have a migraine and it's not going away after I ate and took ibuprofen.
WendiStarr
01-01-2021, 02:38 PM
My youngest daughter's 1st birthday is coming up this month. I've not been wanting to dick with shipping since past experience has taught me that stuff can take 2 months to come or not even come at all. I figured I'd do the pick-up in store option. An hour after purchase, I got an email that the item was out of stock and that I'd get a refund in 5-10 business days. I found the item on a different local store's website. It showed they had 3 in stock. I purchased it for in store pickup. I received an email a couple hours later. Sorry, out of stock. I called the store and I get 2 different stories. The customer service person initially said that she personally counted 6 in stock on the floor. I asked if she could hold one since I already paid and I could come pick it up. Upon hearing that I already paid, she put me on hold only to apologize and say none are in stock. I went in person and guess what? They were in stock! But it'll take them up to 10 days to refund me my original purchase. Wth?
miss.a.p1600
01-01-2021, 04:07 PM
My dad is annoying tf out of me.
I keep asking about his life insurance.
He’s elderly and could die anytime soon.
Of course in true “idgaf” fashion he has the gall to say “all y’all need is something to bury me with”
He claims he has a policy (allegedly) but can’t find it. Well how tf am I going to find the mf when the time comes if YOU can’t find it now. Hell I’m starting to believe you don’t have one and you expect me to pay for your funeral. I won’t.
Let me tell you asshole. If you don’t find that policy and if you have inadequate/no life insurance. I’m not going to gaf about you when you die. You can leave out this mf in some used Home Depot wooden planks and a shallow grave for all I care. And if you end up in a nursing home I’ll be too busy to visit.
LoveyDovey
01-01-2021, 10:31 PM
I think my stimulus check is going to be mailed to me since it was last time. Wah.
miss.a.p1600
01-01-2021, 11:06 PM
I finally had to tell L that I didn’t like spending the night at his house because he tries to sabotage my early morning routine so that I can lay around all morning with him.
He admitted he wouldn’t do this if he knew I’d get fired for being late. This is why you should never tell men you’re self employed then they think you can just cater to them and your time is too flexible.
I think it’s better for motivation to wake up early and go to bed early. Unless you are sick or work 2nd or 3rd shift you need to be up by 7am on workdays.
I am movtivated and ambitious and I plan to leave his ass in the dust if he continues to procrastinate n lays in bed till 9:30/10am
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2021, 06:57 AM
****this post contains info about sexual assault. Please don’t read if it may be triggering to you.*****
L said he had sex with this really ugly woman about a year ago. He claims he didn’t want to have sex with her but he told the woman his address not thinking she’s actually drive an hour to see him at 11pm. Well she actually showed up and his dumb ass let her inside.
Once she’s in. She pressures him for sex. He allegedly told her no but he said she was insistent and aggressive and he ended up fucking her so he could just get it over with and make her leave.
I told him that would like rape.
There was this awkward laughter then he’s like “did this mf rape me”
He was like “it’s not like she ripped my clothes off or anything”.
I’m telling him that being coerced into sex, doing something you don’t want to do, telling someone NO and they keep insisting, being pressured, would definitely count.
I don’t know why people think “just cause I wasn’t beat up n violently penetrated” or “I’m a man, unless a woman is violent she can’t rape me” that it doesn’t count as rape.
I later felt guilty about clarifying this as he said he was feeling bad about the topic and wanted to be alone. I don’t know if he recounted her as some aggressive sexfiend to deflect from the fact he made decisions to become involved with an unattractive “bottom of the barrel” type woman or if he actually was coerced into sex with said woman.
carmen_b
01-02-2021, 10:02 AM
It’s coercion .
BUT you’ve got to admit that he give the address so I’m not exactly sure he didn’t want the situation.
Its more like he changed his mind ( she was prob worse in person using old pics ) .
Ugh. It’s sad when consent isn’t there on either gender side.
carmen_b
01-02-2021, 01:39 PM
^ Same thing happened to me in 2010.
I was “ talked “ into sex. Never ever ever ever again. So much so that I have a plan if I ever got caught in a situation again. My plan is “ fuck you and fuck off “ then leaving haha. In my own situation I was tired ( my body doesn’t do well late ) and physically stuck or I thought. This is before Uber was big. I knew / trusted the guy too which is standard if these types of stories.
LoveyDovey
01-02-2021, 03:11 PM
Dear IRS,
Why isn't the get my payment tool up and running yet? What am I paying taxes for?? You always want my money now now now but when it comes time for the government to deliver, you guys just take your sweet ass time. Fucking buffoons!
Genoveve
01-02-2021, 03:18 PM
Dear god I think MrDuckie is also Raziel. I was suspicious as soon as he started posting but didn't follow it too much, but now it seems like they keep posting with each other and I just read one of 'MrDuckie's' posts and it's the same writing style. I know the MrDuckie account is older, but Raziel's account is old and if he made multiple accounts now I wouldn't be surprised if he did the same in the past.
carmen_b
01-02-2021, 03:25 PM
^ Prob has never actually paid a sex worker in his life either.
whirlerz
01-02-2021, 03:26 PM
Dear god I think MrDuckie is also Raziel. I was suspicious as soon as he started posting but didn't follow it too much, but now it seems like they keep posting with each other and I just read one of 'MrDuckie's' posts and it's the same writing style. I know the MrDuckie account is older, but Raziel's account is old and if he made multiple accounts now I wouldn't be surprised if he did the same in the past.
Noooo, OMG!
Damn. I think I responded to a pm or 2 from him!:O
Btw, your avatar looks really pretty
Genoveve
01-02-2021, 04:18 PM
Noooo, OMG!
Damn. I think I responded to a pm or 2 from him!:O
And who else was trying to PM with eveyone....? Raziel.
Btw, your avatar looks really pretty
Thanks! I took it sometime around last NYE, I'm obsessed with peacocks.
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2021, 04:53 PM
And resident sociopath is posting on “would you marry a woman in adult industry thread”
I’m doing my best to leave his ignorant ass on ignore
I’m pretty sure he’s either posting some fake white knight bullshit, some ridiculous mansplaining, or something idiotic response to get attention.
Prime example of how male trolls need to be banned. Permanently
WendiStarr
01-02-2021, 06:36 PM
^ mrduckie? That would be weird but at this point, I wouldn't put it past Raziel/whatever the hell else he goes by. Oddly enough I received an offline tip the equivalent of $3 on a site I cam on from someone going by mrduckie.
My annoyance today is that I'm having a headache that I usually get before it snows.
whirlerz
01-02-2021, 06:52 PM
^ mrduckie? That would be weird but at this point, I wouldn't put it past Raziel/whatever the hell else he goes by. Oddly enough I received an offline tip the equivalent of $3 on a site I cam on from someone going by mrduckie.
My annoyance today is that I'm having a headache that I usually get before it snows.
Yes!^
I was getting that same headache! It's the humidity
Elektra Luxx
01-02-2021, 09:39 PM
Lynn2009 clear out your PMs
lynn2009
01-02-2021, 09:42 PM
Lynn2009 clear out your PMs
Done.
WendiStarr
01-03-2021, 09:18 AM
I have a sewer backup in my basement today and everything in the fucking basement is flooded. My office and computer, printer, etc is down there. The kids toys and play area is down there, 2 Persian rugs, clothes, paperwork. Of course because it's a Sunday nobody seems to be able to come out and fix the issue. The landlord said they can bring a carpet cleaner here but it's beyond that. That's two flooded rooms, full of belongings. Now we're staying in a hotel. Fucking wonderful. There goes my entire stimulus check and then some. Ugh. We were supposed to be going out of state for a few days and I guess I'm still going to have to pay half the fee of cabin rental. Fuck, fuck, fuck!
LoveyDovey
01-03-2021, 09:29 AM
Oh no, Wendi. That's horrible! What a mess! I'm sorry this happened. Not an easy mess to clean up. Someone should be able to come out and help no matter what day of the week it is, this is an emergency here as it can become a health issue too. I hope you can get things cleaned up and that you're able to salvage your stuff.
LoveyDovey
01-03-2021, 10:11 AM
Someone is walking around my house sneezing over and over again. They must have sneezed about 10 times now. I don't think it's someone who lives here, someone who is visiting. Whoever it is needs to get the f*** out. I'm afraid to leave my room now.
Aurora_Sunset
01-03-2021, 01:25 PM
The COBRA insurance payment was due on the 1st, but we couldn't remember what we changed the password to and the "forgot your password" link wasn't working. Of course, it being a holiday, we couldn't get ahold of anyone. So, we tried on the 2nd, and the main help center wasn't in all weekend. So I got through to emergency IT support and got us into the website. The fucking insurance was already terminated after December 31st with the message that "once your coverage is terminated, it cannot be reinstated." Are you fucking kidding me? Where's the grace period? Especially considering that they also say that automatic payments don't come out until the 5th of the month.
My husband is calling to bitch them out tomorrow. Because it's not our fault that their website fucked up over a holiday weekend. There is no reason coverage should have been terminated immediately because we didn't pay on the EXACT date it was due. I have never seen that before. I'm sure he'll get it worked out, but I'm just so sick of getting fucked over by shitty systems and incompetent people and then having to waste OUR time and energy trying to fix things.
xxxGothBarbie
01-03-2021, 01:53 PM
Really pisses me off that my AAA renewal came at a time when I needed that $ for other things ugh. I hate paying it but I know that if I don't Ill regret it later!
Another thing I'm annoyed with is why I'm having trouble emotionally detaching from my emotionally abusive bf after leaving from up there days ago. I've been in this hotel alone & all I wanna do is watch t.v & lay around in bed. I can't seem to make myself work either. I think it's bc maybe I'm so relieved that I'm all alone now & the peace & quiet is just too nice?
lurkingtitties
01-03-2021, 01:55 PM
It's my day off and I feel so lazy. I want to work on a creative project but I don't even feel motivated to leave the house to buy art supplies!
Working full time is just not for me! I need more time to myself. 3 days a week/25 hours sounds just right.
miss.a.p1600
01-03-2021, 04:46 PM
And resident sociopath is posting on “would you marry a woman in adult industry thread”
I’m doing my best to leave his ignorant ass on ignore
I’m pretty sure he’s either posting some fake white knight bullshit, some ridiculous mansplaining, or something idiotic response to get attention.
Prime example of how male trolls need to be banned. Permanently
Thankfully another sensible male put his dumb ass in check
Unfortunately I read resident sociopaths post because it was quoted. I lost several brain cells reading his mindless chatter
xxxGothBarbie
01-03-2021, 06:57 PM
These mom & pop restaurants need to update their pricing menus online ugh i think im getting a sweet deal on a sandwich combo meal only to find out its $15 when i pick it up. Sneaky fucks! ;(
Aurora_Sunset
01-03-2021, 07:56 PM
Is it justifiable to kill your spouse because they left THREE pizza rolls in the bag? Wtf? Men...
neverendingkneebruises
01-04-2021, 04:25 PM
Update on the club "sanitizers." My club let all of them go unless they wanted to audition to be dancers. Some stayed, most of them left. No more wannabe strippers selling rooms for $100. :D
whirlerz
01-04-2021, 06:01 PM
It's my day off and I feel so lazy. I want to work on a creative project but I don't even feel motivated to leave the house to buy art supplies!
Working full time is just not for me! I need more time to myself. 3 days a week/25 hours sounds just right.
Yes, exactly!
I found a pt office job, it's about that many hours, maybe a little more tho. + I cam, which's hard. So I guess Im really at ft more or less, more flexibility.
I need both
whirlerz
01-04-2021, 06:16 PM
Thankfully another sensible male put his dumb ass in check
Unfortunately I read resident sociopaths post because it was quoted. I lost several brain cells reading his mindless chatter
Yes & the fake Mr duckie, aka R___, posted his fake bs in there::)
whirlerz
01-04-2021, 06:21 PM
I have a sewer backup in my basement today and everything in the fucking basement is flooded. My office and computer, printer, etc is down there. The kids toys and play area is down there, 2 Persian rugs, clothes, paperwork. Of course because it's a Sunday nobody seems to be able to come out and fix the issue. The landlord said they can bring a carpet cleaner here but it's beyond that. That's two flooded rooms, full of belongings. Now we're staying in a hotel. Fucking wonderful. There goes my entire stimulus check and then some. Ugh. We were supposed to be going out of state for a few days and I guess I'm still going to have to pay half the fee of cabin rental. Fuck, fuck, fuck!
OMG, Wendi, I am sorry to hear this!
Could you explain to the cabin rental place, maybe they could make an exception under those circumstances?
Best to you, hugs.
indiegirl
01-04-2021, 06:28 PM
Well I decided to dye my roots and it didn't take because I'm lazy and didn't read the instructions plus it was burning and I was scared it would look bad. I'm at that point of "Im not going to the salon for a a few more months until I'm desperate"...many are so nonchalant about covid and in November-ish when I let my guard down and allowed my housekeeper in my house I wanted her to come back and thought she hated me due to lack of response. My mom told me she has covid. LORDD. I frankly don't want it.
Some people have said "Well you're young you'll be fine." No if I wanted covid I'd walked into a hospital maskless. I don't want to be sick, period.
Also I spent 10 dollars to have a doordash Mccafe from Mcdonalds delivered to my home before work hahaha. I'm out of coffee and instacart won't be available in my area for delivery until tomorrow.
chanzep
01-04-2021, 07:11 PM
Today has been one of those days ugh. I been feeling off Provi due the weather being up and down.
I was trying to do a online interview last few days and keep getting a system error. If course the helpline is closed. They emailed me some help that did not work. Deadline was today . I msg them again ! . Oh well. It looked like good job too.
lynn2009
01-04-2021, 10:32 PM
I'm staying at a shared Airbnb tonight instead of a hotel and holy fuck it is so loud and annoying.
indiegirl
01-04-2021, 10:39 PM
Booooo! I hate when customers think I remember them. There’s too many of you. One manages to contact my main line and deleted his account online which is too suspicious for me to see. The main front desk guy right now remembers me and asks why I’m in the area. Roar. He asked if I wanted a room near the emergency exit. I hate when hotel staff remember me. He’s been super nice each time but he knows what’s been going on since I’ve been here a few times trying to avoid deeper in South OC.
He quoted something I said last time and knew I’d look like I was hiding shit if I wanted a room near the exit so I asked for the close one. I’m running out of nice cheap hotels near me!
Told I’m not able to afford tonight by a potential custie. Gahhh. I spent the last time I worked napping. I want customers this time.
Emanuelle
01-04-2021, 11:42 PM
Not really a complaint or annoyance, but right now I wish someone would buy me some really expensive champagne. I miss this about the strip club.
xxxGothBarbie
01-05-2021, 01:37 AM
Really pissed that my period hasnt arrived yet and it prob will when im driving a long distance later this week.
whirlerz
01-05-2021, 05:48 AM
Well I decided to dye my roots and it didn't take because I'm lazy and didn't read the instructions plus it was burning and I was scared it would look bad. I'm at that point of "Im not going to the salon for a a few more months until I'm desperate"...many are so nonchalant about covid and in November-ish when I let my guard down and allowed my housekeeper in my house I wanted her to come back and thought she hated me due to lack of response. My mom told me she has covid. LORDD. I frankly don't want it.
Some people have said "Well you're young you'll be fine." No if I wanted covid I'd walked into a hospital maskless. I don't want to be sick, period.
Also I spent 10 dollars to have a doordash Mccafe from Mcdonalds delivered to my home before work hahaha. I'm out of coffee and instacart won't be available in my area for delivery until tomorrow.
What volume developer did U use? U might be sensitive..at my salon they used sweet n low fake sugar mixed in to take the sting out. Or Sally's has something in a little bottle, it may block the color tho.
I dye my roots when my hair's really dirty, it's easier on it scalp
miss.a.p1600
01-05-2021, 07:28 AM
I really don’t feel like working today
Ughhh!
WendiStarr
01-05-2021, 09:54 AM
We left the hotel and are back home now. The basement was emptied and cleaned up and the basement carpet had to be removed and thrown out. There's still a mess to clean. I was supposed to start live training class this morning. My office and everything was set up in the basement because for some stupid reason, that's where cables are set up for the router. I'm going to have to have someone come over to drill holes and run cabling in my kitchen or living room until I can get the carpet replaced in the basement. The basement stairs are too dangerous to be walking on because they removed the carpet on them too and left a mucky mess with sharp tacks on the stairs. Anyways no one has responded back to me about training. I explained my situation. It's not possible for me to be hard-wired to the router at this point. It only works in the basement. Vanilla job system's VPN will not even allow me to sign on using WIFI. I've tried I don't know what I'm going to do if I am not able to start this new job.
indiegirl
01-05-2021, 11:45 AM
What volume developer did U use? U might be sensitive..at my salon they used sweet n low fake sugar mixed in to take the sting out. Or Sally's has something in a little bottle, it may block the color tho.
I dye my roots when my hair's really dirty, it's easier on it scalp
30 developer from Sally’s lol.
carmen_b
01-05-2021, 01:30 PM
Civilian women can be dumb AF.
This lady gets on the town message board and is like " where do I meet men ? I work from home ".
So I tell her my suggestions : co-working spaces, gym, get out for coffee ect. ! She doesn't like the suggestions.
Well stay home with no dick then .
She said she didn't like online dating so I told her my alternative spots for in person dude hunting !
Say THANKS you idiot. I can tell why you are single hahaha.
You just announced to the entire damn town you are not willing to put in ANY effort haha !
Genoveve
01-05-2021, 03:46 PM
^^^What a dunce. Like....if you want different results you're going to have to do things differently. Tell her to get dressed up and then start a housefire so she can work with the firefighters that show up since she wants men to show up at her house apparently.
Genoveve
01-05-2021, 03:52 PM
We left the hotel and are back home now. The basement was emptied and cleaned up and the basement carpet had to be removed and thrown out. There's still a mess to clean. I was supposed to start live training class this morning. My office and everything was set up in the basement because for some stupid reason, that's where cables are set up for the router. I'm going to have to have someone come over to drill holes and run cabling in my kitchen or living room until I can get the carpet replaced in the basement. The basement stairs are too dangerous to be walking on because they removed the carpet on them too and left a mucky mess with sharp tacks on the stairs. Anyways no one has responded back to me about training. I explained my situation. It's not possible for me to be hard-wired to the router at this point. It only works in the basement. Vanilla job system's VPN will not even allow me to sign on using WIFI. I've tried I don't know what I'm going to do if I am not able to start this new job.
Wait, so are the basement cables that were (presumably)drowned still working and you still have internet? Maybe I'm crazy, but I would just work in the fucked up basement. As far as the stairs, I'd just wear some shoes that I didn't care about for foot protection and then do whatever I could to make a comfortable, temporary work space down there.
whirlerz
01-05-2021, 05:33 PM
30 developer from Sally’s lol.
That seems high..I used 20 when I was using sally's.
I use box dye, its good, I may up the developer to 20.
Also, when you rinse, use cool water temperature
So, my frickin LL's calling me, Id asked him to hold my rent check,I was expecting a much bigger sm check:(. The mf called twice already!
My boss paid me for the 2 days last week, (slow cause of holidays) I deposit both checks, barely cover my rent, + I had to get gas, food.
Still behind on some bils, including my car/renters insurance. Which's why Im not working Shipt rn.
I was working get my Asus going, to cam I had all this bs trying to download the VPN, I got it now, but so aggravated
Had to ask maintenance guy for wifi password, & he got ignorant so I hung up on him .>:(
I got really hungry & had a burger out, I lost weight from not eating enough.
I just want to rest now, tried to cam before work this morning but nothing, maybe try later or get up extra early
indiegirl
01-05-2021, 06:38 PM
That seems high..I used 20 when I was using sally's.
I use box dye, its good, I may up the developer to 20.
Also, when you rinse, use cool water temperature
So, my frickin LL's calling me, Id asked him to hold my rent check,I was expecting a much bigger sm check:(. The mf called twice already!
My boss paid me for the 2 days last week, (slow cause of holidays) I deposit both checks, barely cover my rent, + I had to get gas, food.
Still behind on some bils, including my car/renters insurance. Which's why Im not working Shipt rn.
I was working get my Asus going, to cam I had all this bs trying to download the VPN, I got it now, but so aggravated
Had to ask maintenance guy for wifi password, & he got ignorant so I hung up on him .>:(
I got really hungry & had a burger out, I lost weight from not eating enough.
I just want to rest now, tried to cam before work this morning but nothing, maybe try later or get up extra early
Yeah I have no clue what I'm doing. I've dyed hair extensions purple many of times trying to go blonde haha. Don't they stop insuring you on car insurance? It's like 1,000 for the fine if you're caught not having it.
It's been slow for me too. Day 2 of trying to work and I got no appointments. I need to start advertising on other platforms again. I don't want to.
AChildOfBoredom
01-05-2021, 06:45 PM
Noooo, OMG!
Damn. I think I responded to a pm or 2 from him!:O
Never was contacted by MrDuckie, but I replied to Raziel. Live and learn…
Is it justifiable to kill your spouse because they left THREE pizza rolls in the bag? Wtf? Men...
Temporary insanity is a thing, after all.
Thankfully another sensible male put his dumb ass in check
Unfortunately I read resident sociopaths post because it was quoted. I lost several brain cells reading his mindless chatter
I read that thread once and that was enough for me never to visit it again.
My annoyance… “no, it’s not all that spicy. Not really even spicy at all”.
edit to add: couldn’t help myself and looked in that thread again
xxxGothBarbie
01-05-2021, 07:07 PM
Yeah I have no clue what I'm doing. I've dyed hair extensions purple many of times trying to go blonde haha. Don't they stop insuring you on car insurance? It's like 1,000 for the fine if you're caught not having it.
It's been slow for me too. Day 2 of trying to work and I got no appointments. I need to start advertising on other platforms again. I don't want to.
Whatever you do , don't use the Sally's generic of quick blue coz that shot gave me a chemical burn on my scalp last year which is weird bc I've been bleaching for years with no problems. I was also using coconut oil
Hungry Bunny
01-05-2021, 08:13 PM
This may make me sound like a whiny little bitch, but screw it.
I've just finished chatting with a Walmart rep bc I got an email saying my package had been delivered early. I opened the email and saw they took a screenshot of NOT MY APT!!! It was only part of my order, a $7 part of the order, but I need my Cottonelle Wipes. Baby wipes irritate my puss so...
The 1st customer service agent said he'd help me, made me wait 20 mins while he "looked for an answer", then without notice, I found myself back in the queue 🤬 The next guy was more helpful. It only took him 3 mins and he offered me a refund or the item to be replaced. He was sweet, but I want to kick that first guy in the nutz!
I NEED my wipes!!
Oh, also my wireless apple keyboard has been acting up since I switched from an iMac to a Mac Mini. >:(
whirlerz
01-06-2021, 06:55 AM
Yeah I have no clue what I'm doing. I've dyed hair extensions purple many of times trying to go blonde haha. Don't they stop insuring you on car insurance? It's like 1,000 for the fine if you're caught not having it.
It's been slow for me too. Day 2 of trying to work and I got no appointments. I need to start advertising on other platforms again. I don't want to.
There's a grace period (1 month) I don't like to push it, wtf am am I supposed to do? I've always paid on time before, not that it matters to them.
I know, there's fines for everything, which's why I drive ultra carefully & drive as little as possible. Technically I do have insurance.