View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
whirlerz
01-06-2021, 07:00 AM
Whatever you do , don't use the Sally's generic of quick blue coz that shot gave me a chemical burn on my scalp last year which is weird bc I've been bleaching for years with no problems. I was also using coconut oil
You had an allergic reaction. This can happen even if you've been using the same thing before.
I always make sure my hair hasn't been washed at least a few days before dying
indiegirl
01-06-2021, 07:02 AM
There's a grace period (1 month) I don't like to push it, wtf am am I supposed to do? I've always paid on time before, not that it matters to them.
I know, there's fines for everything, which's why I drive ultra carefully & drive as little as possible. Technically I do have insurance.
I had no idea car insurance had a grace period. Yeah when I was broke trying to support myself I drove around on a suspended license. Not because I wanted to everything cost too much...I didn't have the money. Feel you girl. I get the struggle.
whirlerz
01-06-2021, 07:06 AM
Learned a lot working in Insurance.
They sure af don't advertise that
AChildOfBoredom
01-06-2021, 01:29 PM
Don’t get me started on insurance. I have two teenagers on my policy.
carmen_b
01-06-2021, 01:33 PM
I could have sworn I had a appt. for my RED hair color at the beauty school. It's such a dramatic change ( I'm blonde ) and I was looking forward to it ! I really don't know if I didn't schedule it or if they lost me in the shuffle. :(
I wanted a particular person so I guess I'll be waiting until next Monday. ;/
xxxGothBarbie
01-06-2021, 02:01 PM
Don’t get me started on insurance. I have two teenagers on my policy.
Insurance is BS! I hate paying out over $100 a month for just liability bc i had my 1st speeding ticket ever 2 summers ago. I had a good driver discoutn for years until then. Oh ya don't ever fall for the driving school scam if you are driving & get the ticket out of state from you you live bc I did that & all it did was remove the point on my record from that state I didn't even live in ugh $45 down the drain!
xxxGothBarbie
01-06-2021, 02:07 PM
Really hate that i can't cook meals in this hotel ugh
I've been living off kids meals from BJ's Brewery LOL
They're not bad actually, and I've been getting a salad with every meal to have some ruffage at least.
I'm spending around $100 a week on food & I'm so wishing there was a way around it. I've read that ppl eat sandwiches & cold stuff when in this situation. I'm so over sandwiches & not trying to eat a ton of bread anymore. Plus that stuff gets old! :(
They won't allow any cooking here bc of the circuit breakers and it's an older building, so they say anyway. I was so tempted to go buy a hot plate & sneak it in here but if i blow out a breaker they could throw me out and ya ..... no.
indiegirl
01-06-2021, 02:12 PM
Got in a massive fight with my mom over the past 2 days (my brother is a cosigner on my house) "I'm sorry it has come to this and you've chosen this life but he will sell the house if you don't pay by this time"......FUCKKKK YOUR threats. I have told you TWICE the grace period is the 17th of the month and I was waiting for a check to pass before paying. I got so pissed off I just venmo-ed it. (I'd like to have extra in there for money for hotels/drivers) and texted some mean things. UGH! So easy for my brother because he gets to sit on his throne making 175k a year. it's not a fun life but yeah at least I didn't make my money getting married to someone and staying there for it.
xxxGothBarbie
01-06-2021, 02:16 PM
Got in a massive fight with my mom over the past 2 days (my brother is a cosigner on my house) "I'm sorry it has come to this and you've chosen this life but he will sell the house if you don't pay by this time"......FUCKKKK YOUR threats. I have told you TWICE the grace period is the 17th of the month and I was waiting for a check to pass before paying. I got so pissed off I just venmo-ed it. (I'd like to have extra in there for money for hotels/drivers) and texted some mean things. UGH! So easy for my brother because he gets to sit on his throne making 175k a year. it's not a fun life but yeah at least I didn't make my money getting married to someone and staying there for it.
Sorry girl :( My mom used to use the same kind of threats to me as well in the past, just gotta ignore her. It sucks :(
carmen_b
01-06-2021, 02:37 PM
Hmmmm. Well I can't seem to get my wellness and self care shit going today. I drove over the gym where there is an outdoor hot tub and then realized I didn't have my suit in the car! Hahaha. It's not a clothing optional place ! :(
Boo. Ok ..... I guess I'm down to just a bath then . Hopefully I don't fuck it up haha.
lurkingtitties
01-06-2021, 02:59 PM
GothBarbie...I spend $100/week on food! Sometimes more if I need to re-up protein powders or get extra stuff for my dog. Organic meat and produce isn’t cheap and it’s a part of my life where I refuse to skimp. Hope that helps you feel a little better!
xxxGothBarbie
01-06-2021, 03:03 PM
GothBarbie...I spend $100/week on food! Sometimes more if I need to re-up protein powders or get extra stuff for my dog. Organic meat and produce isn’t cheap and it’s a part of my life where I refuse to skimp. Hope that helps you feel a little better!
Haha yes it does actually :) I was just thinking that even when I was able to use a kitchen & buying groceries last month that it was still expensive bc of the dam ingredients I needed to make things.
miss.a.p1600
01-07-2021, 10:31 PM
L is taking too much time off from that operation
He has to pay an extra 11% in rent next month or more and because he’s out on medical leave he is taking a 25% pay cut I think he should not be out longer than necessary
I told him he needs to go back to work and his ass is like “I’m getting ‘spoiled’” I said what are you talking about? He said he likes doing things on his own schedule.
Wtf?!? Get your ass back to work cotdamn it!
JGB2009
01-08-2021, 09:29 AM
You never try to resolve any issues we have. Leaves me feeling angry toward you.
carmen_b
01-08-2021, 09:51 AM
Soups and little mini crock pot.
Really hate that i can't cook meals in this hotel ugh
I've been living off kids meals from BJ's Brewery LOL
They're not bad actually, and I've been getting a salad with every meal to have some ruffage at least.
I'm spending around $100 a week on food & I'm so wishing there was a way around it. I've read that ppl eat sandwiches & cold stuff when in this situation. I'm so over sandwiches & not trying to eat a ton of bread anymore. Plus that stuff gets old! :(
They won't allow any cooking here bc of the circuit breakers and it's an older building, so they say anyway. I was so tempted to go buy a hot plate & sneak it in here but if i blow out a breaker they could throw me out and ya ..... no.
carmen_b
01-08-2021, 09:55 AM
I am having such an issue with how J gave approval for ex to drop kid off for an hour.
When we have her ( in the past 9 months ) we have NEVER ( even one time ) disrupted business hours.
It isn't worth a fight for sure. I can't really say " no she can't come here I want a totally quiet house to work " .
BUT .... we are both trying to do a super focused 5 hours of work on this Friday and leave town at 2 p.m.!
It's 10a.m. now and I'm already planning to leave J here and head out of town at 2 p.m. if he is delayed. It's a short drive. He can meet me there if needed. I have 5:15 dinner reservations. I'll just try to stay positive haha and visualize us leaving smoothly at 2! Haha .
indiegirl
01-08-2021, 02:10 PM
UGHHH.....I have one of those hormonal cystic pimples on my chin and I'm not pleased it hurts to touch.
Genoveve
01-08-2021, 02:17 PM
UGHHH.....I have one of those hormonal cystic pimples on my chin and I'm not pleased it hurts to touch.
I get neck zits before my period and they're always on the sides so my hair hides it, but two days ago I got one right in the middle of my neck and it was super big and red. :grumpy:
indiegirl
01-08-2021, 02:24 PM
I get neck zits before my period and they're always on the sides so my hair hides it, but two days ago I got one right in the middle of my neck and it was super big and red. :grumpy:
They are the worst right before your period :(. I had a cystic pimple on my neck twice and was truly convinced "yep this is the starting formation of a tumor" self diagnosing myself via google LOL.
miss.a.p1600
01-08-2021, 10:37 PM
L is getting on my nerves today
Ever since he's been on medical leave he has been lazy af. Waking up at 10, going to bed a 1-2a, not exercising, barely studying for that test.
Add to this he wants to buy a pricey kitchen appliance. I think it's a mistake and he should be focused on paying off his medical debt from his operation or some other more useful way to use his money now that he's on 75% of his income.
The fact that he doesn't hold himself accountable when he doesn't report to a boss is just disappointing.
He is so stuck on being 'with me' that he's not focusing on DOING the things it's going to take to keep me. He has this stupid saying "we can grow together" but I can see myself leveling up faster than him n feeling disgruntled that he's staying in his place where he talks about how great things were allegedly in the past, how he's going to 'try' to do something he knows he should do, an all this other ying yang I have no time to listen to.
I'm going to start cutting our conversations short/hanging up the phone when he gets in this mode because when I stay on the line I get a little snappy n my displeasure and impatience comes out
moneybags
01-09-2021, 02:01 AM
Can we get the vaccine!?!? I’m ready to go back to work and make real money.
Emanuelle
01-09-2021, 02:41 AM
Can we get the vaccine!?!? I’m ready to go back to work and make real money.
YES! I just want to run on a treadmill indoors. I'm tired of freezing my ass off to burn my ass off.
whirlerz
01-09-2021, 06:30 AM
My pt job's getting on my last nerve!
It's super disorganized, this woman training me is kinda a B. She expects me to have all this down, she's quick to bite my head off (for 11./hr)
It's a family business, so there's that, not in a good way..
I got my first check for a full week (only 3 hrs a day tho). Not shit.
Camming isn't much better, Im going to be on today, as much as I can.
I'm looking to start working for Shipt (already hired), but rn my insurance is past due, I need to make a 1/2 payment by 17th. I also have to pay my storage today, & Mr B.O. rent collector will be along today as well, hopefully won't rag on me too bad:(
JGB2009
01-09-2021, 06:53 AM
I got all dressed up last night to go to the movies by myself only to discover that the movie theater wasn't open. I am still mad. The website says they are open and u can even buy tickets. I called the number listed on the website and it doesn't say anything about them being closed. WTF.....I am in such a bad mood and all I wanted to do was do something that might make me feel better. Life just sucks.
carmen_b
01-09-2021, 11:40 AM
Eh whatever .
We made it over to Vegas haha. Nice dinner last night.
indiegirl
01-09-2021, 12:29 PM
Me comfy at home on my bed watching a movie suddenly feeling at 50-62lb dog crawling on my back in bed to nap....LOLL
miss.a.p1600
01-09-2021, 02:32 PM
L cooks the SAME shit over n over again for his kids.
It's always tacos, spaghetti, burgers/fries or some little Caesars pizza. They drink cokes n lemonade at every meal
I guess they don't care.
But both of his kids are overweight and one of them is deficient in vitaminD
No vegetables, minimal fruit, completely unbalanced processed food diet
Neither him nor his ex wife have their kids doing any sort of physical activity or sport. So they basically sit around eating n watching tv all day.
I guess I can't rant about what people do (or don't do) for their kids. I just know I'd have my kids in better physical shape. What they do after 18 is on them
miss.a.p1600
01-09-2021, 02:33 PM
L said to me one day 'let me squeeze you as hard as I can to see if it hurts"
I said MF!!! Let me squeeze your testicles hard as I can to see if that hurts......
It's like their ass don't register pain till you say it will be inflicted upon their dick and/or balls
carmen_b
01-09-2021, 06:27 PM
^ Wait ?
Are you sure you heard him right ?
You sure the extra wasn’t to cover you / help you out a bit?
miss.a.p1600
01-09-2021, 06:29 PM
^pretty much why women can’t give to men (esp not more than they give)
Men are fucking weirdos. The more they do for You the more they like you.
All the times I was nice to men, went out of my way to do nice things for them, helped them etc. they took me for granted an took my kindness for weakness.
If anything give the same that they give or less (never more).
carmen_b
01-09-2021, 06:51 PM
^ Just the way he phrased it though seemed kinda like “ Wink , I gave him extra for you “.
Maybe he didn’t though.
That would be an odd interaction if he was just like “ oh I’m actually overpaid , sorry you are behind”.
That’s why I think that extra was for her.
whirlerz
01-09-2021, 07:38 PM
^ Wait ?
Are you sure you heard him right ?
You sure the extra wasn’t to cover you / help you out a bit?
Maybe? But this was the first time I mentioned it? Hmm. Hadn't thought of that..
Lol I brought the mat back.
I know he bought the guy w/the kid some groceries, he previously told me they help each other
Edit: another thing, unless he told me the amount, LL could still try to get the full amount from me, keeping that for himself?
whirlerz
01-09-2021, 07:42 PM
^pretty much why women can’t give to men (esp not more than they give)
Men are fucking weirdos. The more they do for You the more they like you.
All the times I was nice to men, went out of my way to do nice things for them, helped them etc. they took me for granted an took my kindness for weakness.
If anything give the same that they give or less (never more).
Wise words, ty
xxxGothBarbie
01-09-2021, 09:44 PM
So pissed at myself for getting trashed thurs night. Not only did I puke all day yesterday but I screwed myself out of a working day only to have to take off tonight as well due to my stupid period coming ugh
moneybags
01-09-2021, 10:35 PM
^^^ We’ve all been there. I hate being sick as a dog
whirlerz
01-10-2021, 12:13 AM
Ok, I looked @ my texts, I did tell him I owed LL $.
I
indiegirl
01-10-2021, 12:55 AM
https://i.ibb.co/XpKQptG/IMG-3152-2.jpg (https://ibb.co/gwf2wJc)
So fun! not the lambo. I'm pale as crap so here we are without tanner and messy hair sex LOLL Thank you for being scottish/french tone LOL. I'm too happy still. Convertible ferrari I believe LOL?
Anyways some food and youtube time before work tonight :)!
I look crappy IMO so partial photo :P
I'm on that pro no self tanner thing for 2 weeks.
indiegirl
01-10-2021, 08:24 AM
Ugh :(...I thought it was just me, but I finished the mexican food I had yesterday and feel incredibly nauseous after eating it again. Dunno why? Maybe the hot sauces. :(
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2021, 08:30 AM
Yes spicy n greasy is a combo for indigestion, acid reflux, etc. ...... maybe try some tums or Pepto ?
And nice pic of you having fun with the exotic car!
lurkingtitties
01-10-2021, 08:30 AM
Not to freak you out but it could be from a few things-meat that was past its expiration date, chef not washing his/her hands before cooking it...
whirlerz
01-10-2021, 08:53 AM
Yes, I ate tex-mex not too long ago (not
^picking on any particular type).
But it didn't agree w/me, I find.as I get older, I have to be more careful about what I eat.
There's a breakfast/lunch place across from there, a Hispanic guy owns it, it's fantastic. They serve regular type breakfast & lunch.
Yea w/the pandemic, people are cutting corners to save $. Understandable, not when it affects someone getting sick..
Also, where I work, they make coffee w/well Fucking water??? My boss, " Oh the coffee's bothering me" No, it's the nasty well water!
The had a Hinkly Scmitt dispenser w/well water in it?
Well water: lighly filtered sewer water
indiegirl
01-10-2021, 10:13 AM
Yes, I ate tex-mex not too long ago (not
^picking on any particular type).
But it didn't agree w/me, I find.as I get older, I have to be more careful about what I eat.
There's a breakfast/lunch place across from there, a Hispanic guy owns it, it's fantastic. They serve regular type breakfast & lunch.
Yea w/the pandemic, people are cutting corners to save $. Understandable, not when it affects someone getting sick..
Also, where I work, they make coffee w/well Fucking water??? My boss, " Oh the coffee's bothering me" No, it's the nasty well water!
The had a Hinkly Scmitt dispenser w/well water in it?
Well water: lighly filtered sewer water
It's already scary ordering food delivery as it is because some food preparer may be not working with gloves. I couldn't get grocery delivery on instacart fast enough and resorted to doordash.
I'm so concerned. I'm gonna have to have a driver to a mexican mart. One dog is soooooo picky and avoided eating the turkey. They are out at the wonder bread stores near me. My labrador is so large and will eat anything. Don't wanna go!!!
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2021, 12:15 PM
L is acting like he’s some weak fragile being.
“Im going to wait for another month to do weights so I’m just gonna do cardio only for now”
Wtf!?!
His ass might as well just go n do water aerobics with the 80 year olds.
I can’t right now.......
indiegirl
01-10-2021, 01:37 PM
L is acting like he’s some weak fragile being.
“Im going to wait for another month to do weights so I’m just gonna do cardio only for now”
Wtf!?!
His ass might as well just go n do water aerobics with the 80 year olds.
I can’t right now.......
HAHAHA. I love it when people wanna be pampered but if a burglar/killer came in the house they would run their ass to safety like they were never injured/recovering.
Had this customer take many months off of work in the entertainment industry with his insurance company (think it was some sorta maybe skin cancer removal)....he said he's milking the time for what the insurance company (or whoever) would pay. It was funny. LOL.
Sometimes a good vacay is worth it.
Genoveve
01-10-2021, 03:26 PM
Ugh :(...I thought it was just me, but I finished the mexican food I had yesterday and feel incredibly nauseous after eating it again. Dunno why? Maybe the hot sauces. :(
It could be because they're reusing the oil that they're frying the food in too much. I eat greasy and extremely spicy food a lot and it never makes me feel sick, and if it was food poisoning I think you'd get the runs. I've made the mistake of reusing frying oil too much and it made me queasy, and because I know what that feels like I can tell when a restaurant or food stand is doing it.
Aurora_Sunset
01-10-2021, 04:30 PM
It's the first real day of my period and I feel like crap. I always get super weak and have horrible cramps. Doesn't help that I'm already sleep-deprived and pretty much forgot to eat today until after 4pm. Tried to treat myself to some Taco Bell and a beer and ate some with half a beer and felt super sick. Tried to take a nap but still feel terrible. My friend is texting me asking if I can talk tonight, and I waited about 30 minutes to say sure, but I really am not in the mood to talk to anyone. It's been another 30 minutes and she never called, so I'm not gonna take the initiative if she doesn't. I just wanna curl up and be left alone.
My mom also wanted me to call my grandma tonight to thank her for the Christmas card and check she sent. I know I should, but I don't want to... Thinking of just setting a reminder on my phone for tomorrow.
I hate how weak and tired my period makes me. It feels like such a stereotypical "weaker sex" thing to go through once a month. I feel like it's been getting worse as I get older. It doubly sucks because the last half of this past week, I've had a strangely amazing amount of energy despite working a ton. I felt so good physically. And now that's all gone. I also hate that this is my only day off all week and I have to spend it feeling like shit.
Aurora_Sunset
01-10-2021, 05:02 PM
I also got a "talking-to" the other day for having too much "time off task" while I was stowing. I was legitimately shocked, because I was actually moving through things way faster than I normally do while stowing. When he showed me the sheet with the time chunks where I was flagged for being "off task," they were all around 10 minutes. I told him that returning one cart when I'm done with it and starting a new cart typically takes me around 10 minutes, and, of course, during that time, I'm not scanning any items which is how "time off task" is triggered - when you're not scanning items. He informed me that I only have 6 minutes to do that and be back to scanning an item.
Y'all, I timed myself for the rest of the day. Under almost-completely-perfect circumstances, and hauling ass, the fastest I was ever able to do it was still almost 7 minutes. And that was when I wasn't stowing in an area very far from the queue. If I had been anywhere else in the warehouse, it would literally take me at least 3-4 minutes just to flipping walk back to the queue with the cart! And then there's an entire process to drop off containers and totes and scan in the new ones you get. Sometimes just scanning them in can take 2-3 minutes depending on how they're stacked. So how the fuck is someone gonna return a cart, grab a new one, walk back to that area, and start scanning items again in less than 6 minutes?? It's literally not physically possible. It's not like everyone can stow in only the 10 aisles closest to the queue just to avoid the whole "walking all the way across a fucking warehouse" time. I wanted to tell him that quite frankly, it's fucking garbage to consider the time spent doing that "time off task" considering it's a required part of the job. I'm not "off task."
Long story short, I figured out a way to trick my scanner, but it literally ADDS time on to what I'm doing. So... because of their asinine "productivity" metrics, they are now forcing me to reconfigure the way I do things so that I take more time doing stuff that is actually less productive just so that their stupid robot thinks I'm working "better."
The other thing I wanted to say was that if they have a problem with the way I stow, they can stop fucking sending me there. It's not my department.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2021, 05:28 PM
^is this Amazon?
If so there was some documentary about how they time the workers best times and keep pushing them to be even faster and faster to the point it’s unrealistic.
carmen_b
01-10-2021, 05:37 PM
Damn it.
I might have to put skis on my feet ! I just don't understand this hobby ! I think I've talked about it before ! How do people justify spending like $100-$140 a day on this ? EVEN MORE if it involves a hotel ?
Anyway ..... I might just have to take a lesson. I was hoping I could skirt this by just being a fun hotel companion for J . He wants to do this every 4 weeks I guess and wants us to go next on Jan. 13-15? We were just up there in Dec.
I moved OUT of the damn snow and even told my own family recently I'm not coming North until mid - March. so to plan THEIR trips down instead. :/
I wonder if I asked nice and was honest about it if we could do a desert trip somewhere instead.
indiegirl
01-10-2021, 06:57 PM
I decided to do a test yesterday. One of my dogs alwayssss whines for like 20 minutes and wants on my bed (mister needy) hogging my bed so I decided to move myself to lay on his big barker bed (expensive, feels like a mattress for big dogs) and 5 minutes later he looked shocked and got off my bed trying to get on the dog bed and then laid on my other dogs big barker watching me. So needy!!!!