View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Aurora_Sunset
01-10-2021, 07:08 PM
^is this Amazon?
If so there was some documentary about how they time the workers best times and keep pushing them to be even faster and faster to the point it’s unrealistic.
Yep, Amazon.
The dumb thing is, this "time off task" standard is exactly the same across all departments. The manager wasn't being a dick about it, but he tried asking if we have the same standard when picking, as though he was trying to compare them. And I told him that the process of taking a couple full totes to a conveyor belt only a few feet away and picking up 1 or 2 new totes is not evenly remotely similar to the entire process involved in switching stow carts. So why would the standard be the exact same??? So dumb.
And when I said, "I literally don't know how to do that any faster," he had zero advice to offer.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2021, 07:45 PM
L tried to tell me 'I want to see you" "I want some loving" etc.
My response: "And I want to roll around in a bed of 100's"
His response: "what's that got to do with me?"
Me as I prepare my pussy for indefinite lockdown.........
carmen_b
01-10-2021, 08:10 PM
^ You guys are at such odds.
Counseling if you think it's worth saving ? I am not sure why you are so afraid to say " I am really not comfy long term unless my partner is making XYZ " . If you go to counseling they might be able to assist when you freeze up . Being worried about your future or laying down some ideas for couples planning would be great to do at this point ( I think you've been with him 6-7 months or so I might not be exact ).
I know it can be hard though. I have a hard time sometimes suggesting what I was hoping for also. Ugh.
People visualize things for themselves all the time. Travelers want to travel. Kid people want to have kids. Dog people want 3-4 dogs ect. !
I don't know. ;/
Another strategy is to possibly lie about a promotion or something BIG coming up. Then tell him you'd like him to match or exceed it. THEN hustle like hell to get your raise.
OR say that getting more $ would require you to MOVE .
You could consider STAYING if he could make a little more to cover the difference ! Ha. Get creative and let it roll.
You could also try to get him into something that counter acts self limiting. Ji-Jitsu or Yoga or Lifting for example.
carmen_b
01-10-2021, 08:30 PM
^ I'm not being insulting either suggesting counseling. I think it can just be so good for couples to hit issues EARLY v.s. playing " catch up " later. I say from my own perspective also wanting to do this myself.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2021, 09:02 PM
^ You guys are at such odds.
Counseling if you think it's worth saving ? I am not sure why you are so afraid to say " I am really not comfy long term unless my partner is making XYZ " . If you go to counseling they might be able to assist when you freeze up . Being worried about your future or laying down some ideas for couples planning would be great to do at this point ( I think you've been with him 6-7 months or so I might not be exact ).
I know it can be hard though. I have a hard time sometimes suggesting what I was hoping for also. Ugh.
People visualize things for themselves all the time. Travelers want to travel. Kid people want to have kids. Dog people want 3-4 dogs ect. !
I don't know. ;/
Another strategy is to possibly lie about a promotion or something BIG coming up. Then tell him you'd like him to match or exceed it. THEN hustle like hell to get your raise.
OR say that getting more $ would require you to MOVE .
You could consider STAYING if he could make a little more to cover the difference ! Ha. Get creative and let it roll.
You could also try to get him into something that counter acts self limiting. Ji-Jitsu or Yoga or Lifting for example.
I guess I've never put a number on it. But I think I did tell him that his current career wouldn't be enough to support me & a new baby in addition to the current obligations he has to his 2 kids n ex wife. I might have to reiterate. We may need to have another conversation because I'm not sure were on the same page about money/finances. He did say that he's going to do more but I haven't seen much forward action. He studied a whopping 2 times and failed the practice test - so this signals to me that he's not consistent with his studying thus he's not taking it serious.
The promotion thing for me is perfect. Maybe I'm being the dick - expecting something out of someone that I could totally improve upon for myself. I'm probably at odds with myself.
I just know once I get in "hustle mode" I won't make as much time for him bc I'll be hyper focused on providing for myself, my immediate needs, n my future needs which will cause him to be like 'oh you make time for the things that are important/I must not be important if you're not making time for me'
I'll look into the counteracting of self-limiting type activities.
indiegirl
01-10-2021, 09:09 PM
I wanna eat and nap. Have to go to the dentist for yet another night guard impression taken tomorrow. Everyone acts all nice when I show up when I'm pissed
Get it done right the first time!! Last time I got one it took 3 times for the correct impression. I don't wanna drive to your facility this much. Check it right away. Knew this bs would happen and wasn't shocked by the call to come back
I'm thinking of rescheduling because I'm over it.
carmen_b
01-10-2021, 09:26 PM
The thing is Miss P ( I can vouch I’ve seen it in myself )... if you take these “ moving forward “ actions yourself finance wise it’ll give you this strong ground and strong social connections with others also not making excuses!
Level UP with or without him.
More of your own $ will never hurt.
Neither will friendships with others in similar mind set.
indiegirl
01-11-2021, 03:39 AM
Keep rewatching man on fire movies ending crying LOL! That amazing acting and her calling him "Love you Creasy Bear" in her diary AWW. Seeing the ending was so sad!! Felt like he was more of a parental role in the movie than her father. Wanna find another good movie.
https://youtu.be/tlgz71v1oIk?t=166
miss.a.p1600
01-11-2021, 07:49 AM
The thing is Miss P ( I can vouch I’ve seen it in myself )... if you take these “ moving forward “ actions yourself finance wise it’ll give you this strong ground and strong social connections with others also not making excuses about not moving forward.
More of your own $ will never hurt.
Neither will friendships with others in similar mind set.
Very true!
I'll focus more on improving myself, meeting others who think like I do, n leading in this aspect vs. focusing on his shortcomings
I'm focused on the wrong thing which is probably causing more of what I Don't want.
carmen_b
01-11-2021, 09:59 AM
It's why I think counseling would be so helpful. Then you can openly craft a plan WITH a third party.
Fitness goals, finance goals, lay it all out.
I worry that if it isn't approached that way that you are getting into a grey area of emotional abuse ( I'm just being really frank here ).
So much of your info is " he isn't good enough " . I ASSUME you are treating him ok and just venting here. If you are finding yourself just constantly picking at him that gets into an abusive energy and isn't right.
JGB2009
01-11-2021, 10:27 AM
I am sick of being asked to do family role play. I think its the same ass hat following me on different sites. What I would like to do is cut his dick off but I don't have that option.
LoveyDovey
01-11-2021, 01:15 PM
Still waiting for my damn stimulus check that is stuck in slow-mo snail mail. Also, the housemate fried a fish and I want to barf from the smell. Think it's time for he to go back to bed and restart this day later.
whirlerz
01-11-2021, 01:40 PM
I am sick of being asked to do family role play. I think its the same ass hat following me on different sites. What I would like to do is cut his dick off but I don't have that option.
LOLOL!:yuck::yikes:
I KNOW! hate that shit! sm needs to put up stronger wording about that, also the piss guys!
LoveyDovey
01-11-2021, 04:53 PM
OMG! YIPES! nasty af!
Hon, do ur self a favor: go get Ozium, and/or Trader joe's.room spray! Ozium's cheap @ Walmart, TJ's spray only 2.00, you can add water/essential oil drops as it gets used up to 'stretch' it! :)
I have a diffuser in my room that makes my room smell like lavender thank God.
JGB2009
01-11-2021, 04:54 PM
IDK why you think I am gonna kiss ur ass!!!!! U just need to fuck off!!!!!
indiegirl
01-11-2021, 06:18 PM
My grandpa who has cancer now has covid and 38 people in the nursing home he's at has it.
My mom two weeks ago: You blame not coming to events or visiting us on covid!
Now my mom: I just can't believe how fast covid spreads
Me: SMH
miss.a.p1600
01-11-2021, 06:47 PM
It's why I think counseling would be so helpful. Then you can openly craft a plan WITH a third party.
Fitness goals, finance goals, lay it all out.
I worry that if it isn't approached that way that you are getting into a grey area of emotional abuse ( I'm just being really frank here ).
So much of your info is " he isn't good enough " . I ASSUME you are treating him ok and just venting here. If you are finding yourself just constantly picking at him that gets into an abusive energy and isn't right.
Yeah I never say this too his face. But I think he can kind of subconsciously pick up on my displeasure sometimes despite me being what I think is really good acting.
The closest I got was saying I didn't agree with his "I'm okay if my wife makes more than me" and his "lets grow together" motto, because I believed I would grow faster than him/be expected to be the breadwinner/take a masculine role in the relationship (which would make me unsatisfied to be taking care of man AND his kids if he couldn't more than adequately do so) and I could tell he was triggered because we werent seeing eye-to-eye on an important topic so I kind of dropped it.
I also said he should lift weights in addition to cardio so that he could build muscle which would in-turn boost metabolism n burn fat faster. I did slip n say he should do squats to sculpt a nice butt because his butt is kind of flat n flabby. I felt guilty about it (and had to retract my statement) when he said *my* butt n body was fine the way it is.
He is obese and trying to change so I'm trying not to be too hard on him.
So yeah I do think I tend to vent A LOT here n sometime focus on the negative vs. focusing more on the things that he does right so I have to work on that.
I guess I'm not used to being around another person all the time and so the personality quirks kind of annoy me. But I'm working on it.
JGB2009
01-11-2021, 07:45 PM
Don't say ur gonna call me back then don't!!!!
miss.a.p1600
01-11-2021, 08:14 PM
My grandpa who has cancer now has covid and 38 people in the nursing home he's at has it.
My mom two weeks ago: You blame not coming to events or visiting us on covid!
Now my mom: I just can't believe how fast covid spreads
Me: SMH
my family the same way.
i was wearing my mask at my moms home n she was like “why u wearing a mask? Ain’t no Covid over here!”
3 months later = welcomes me in with the mask
my Other relatives the same
at first they were like come over, it’s a small group so it’s safe n we not wearing masks over here so don’t come over with those masks.
3 months later = oh were getting tested n wearing masks so if you come over we expect you to do the same
indiegirl
01-12-2021, 04:33 AM
my family the same way.
i was wearing my mask at my moms home n she was like “why u wearing a mask? Ain’t no Covid over here!”
3 months later = welcomes me in with the mask
my Other relatives the same
at first they were like come over, it’s a small group so it’s safe n we not wearing masks over here so don’t come over with those masks.
3 months later = oh were getting tested n wearing masks so if you come over we expect you to do the same
Anytime I have an old white driver I make sure to roll the window down. They tend to be so casual about it. "You're young it's just the flu." NOOO why would I invite myself to be sick to begin with?
My mom even pulled the most manipulative shit ever.
"I got tested for covid so you would feel safe coming over for christmas."
In my mind: no you didn't! You had the runs for 5 days and were concerned if YOU had covid! I dunno who has been at your house visiting to the very day and other family members have been around.
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2021, 08:07 AM
Im glad resident sociopath isn’t butting his nosy ass into the threads spouting his extremist viewpoints, instigating arguments with women, playing like he’s a victim, then spouting off how entitled he is to exist on this forum while at the same time getting threads locked.
Shows that people can have discussion maybe even light debates without sociopathic people interjecting n derailing good topics.
I may be speaking too soon. His desperate ass can never resist a round of online argumentative debates with strangers because it’s probably the only sexual excitement he can get.
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2021, 08:21 AM
I should be working rn
I shouldnt have to drag myself to this computer
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2021, 03:44 PM
L pissed me off again today.
He said he would help me with my work. So he’s been promising to pay for my marketing to help me get more clients which he hasn’t done.
So I figured he could help me make some calls which he did.
Then he started saying I had to pay him. Probably in sex. He was joking but I think he was kind of serious. I’m calculating let’s say if I did pay him in sex then he’d need to work a LOT more hours. Cause I could pay an assistant overseas $10/hr or less which would equate to $40.
So after he asked me if I had booked appointments, I mentioned he should help me book some, and he refused to help.
Well asshole don’t ask me about my work if you’re not going to make yourself useful.
I’ll just be busy hustling in silence.
Well I guess I’ll be too busy working my ass if to see you tonight.
whirlerz
01-12-2021, 04:37 PM
Im pleasantly surprised RD has kept his trap shut, then again DJ more or less told him back down.
Ok, in other topics, was waiting for this lady to get back to me about the work from home thing, she said to email or call her, after I'd submitted the link that checks my laptop speed & that it's Win 10.
I emailed her right away, but just now called her too, they're gone, but I also left a voicemail message.:crossfing
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2021, 05:27 PM
^I bet he's arguing n cumming together with the dudes on tuscl
carmen_b
01-12-2021, 05:40 PM
Various events culminated in cleaners throwing away my carnitas left overs ! :(
whirlerz
01-13-2021, 07:44 AM
So, late Monday found out roommate has the virus. He went to hospital & is home, he's staying in his room
I called this bimbo from work cause I didn't have the mgr #, & she started telling me not to come in..
NO.FUCKING.SHIT>:(::)
I know,beeotch!
Called mgr, he told me the same thing, &got very fucking defensive, he said the owner had surgery , was on immune stuff, "he's older"? So am I!
Except when interviewing me, he didn't wear mask?::)
Now, just got a text, I think from office mgr (another prize B.::)) saying don't come in?::). DUH.NO SHIT SHERLOCK!
WE already covered this, like twice, I said I wasn't coming in??::)
I texted back I know, I'm NOT, of course not!
Jeez, what a bunch of DUMBASS IDIOTS! cripes!
Btw, wasn't planning to go back there, as it majorly sucks there!
Sheesh! rant over, thank you>:(
WendiStarr
01-13-2021, 10:36 AM
This is a 1st. I ordered groceries through Kroger and the shopper either stole my groceries or delivered them to the wrong address. I don't have time to go driving around the neighborhood to see if it was delivered to another house. I'm working until 3pm and tied to the phone and computer until then. Kroger said they'll give me a refund in 7-10 days blah blah. This totally fucked up my day. Fuck you, "Raiven G", Kroger, and Instacart!
indiegirl
01-13-2021, 11:06 AM
This is a 1st. I ordered groceries through Kroger and the shopper either stole my groceries or delivered them to the wrong address. I don't have time to go driving around the neighborhood to see if it was deliver to another house. I'm working until 3pm and tied to the phone and computer until then. Kroger said they'll give me a refund in 7-10 days blah blah. This totally fucked up my day. Fuck you, "Raiven G"!
Was it an instacart delivery through Kroger?
One delivery person screwed up to the point they came with only random groceries I never wanted when I lived in DC. (Sucks rating someone terrible and complaining) but you pay for what you need not random things instead. You can call and complain.
WendiStarr
01-13-2021, 11:28 AM
Was it an instacart delivery through Kroger?
One delivery person screwed up to the point they came with only random groceries I never wanted when I lived in DC. (Sucks rating someone terrible and complaining) but you pay for what you need not random things instead. You can call and complain.
Yes. It was. I don't see an option to rate the shopper. The only option I had was to remove their tip. I called Kroger to complain and all they said was refund. I told them I want the name of the Instacart shopper so I can call Instacart but they said all they have is the same limited info that I do. I'm going to not shop Kroger anymore.
JGB2009
01-13-2021, 11:34 AM
If I gave you the last text I am gonna wait on you to respond. Lately you have been having the nerve saying I haven't been texting as much or hey you been awfully quiet today. I honestly believe you want me to send you multiple text to get your attention. My motto is I am not chasing after anyone. No one has never done this to me so this is just odd ass behavior!!!!
indiegirl
01-13-2021, 11:55 AM
I can't get over how Casey Anthony just walked from her crap!!! Watching her youtube interrogation video again and it's wild! I was close to crying and calling frantically when I traveled to the east coast for work and returned with the sitters number disabled over picking up my dogs then finally reaching her after calling the site.
WHO does that to their child!?! I called my mom as well with my big desperate voice thinking my dogs were stolen too immediately. LOL. Thank god for getting my dogs back.
Casey Anthony didn't give a shit.
It's astounding to watch her interrogation every time. I watch her video still and think "that bitch is so guilty."
I get a dog and a kid are SOOO different but this woman in my mind killed her kid still.
Watching her video on JCS again.
whirlerz
01-13-2021, 12:01 PM
SHIT.
I didn't pass customer service test, I can re-take, But I wanted to cam now>:(!
whirlerz
01-13-2021, 01:45 PM
Well, re-took test, I spent the better part of todayon this shit, they told me my speed low? NO, its not !
Then, the browsers, ( all of them) interfere..
I told them to email , me & they call::)
Nice.>:(
Idk if I passed or not. Not calling.
Back on to (slow) cam.
I don't want to talk on the fuckin' phone, unless necessary!
Just email or text me, FFS
whirlerz
01-13-2021, 01:50 PM
I can't get over how Casey Anthony just walked from her crap!!! Watching her youtube interrogation video again and it's wild! I was close to crying and calling frantically when I traveled to the east coast for work and returned with the sitters number disabled over picking up my dogs then finally reaching her after calling the site.
WHO does that to their child!?! I called my mom as well with my big desperate voice thinking my dogs were stolen too immediately. LOL. Thank god for getting my dogs back.
Casey Anthony didn't give a shit.
It's astounding to watch her interrogation every time. I watch her video still and think "that bitch is so guilty."
I get a dog and a kid are SOOO different but this woman in my mind killed her kid still.
Watching her video on JCS again.
She's a narcissist sociopath. She was jealous of the girl, she'll get hers one day
indiegirl
01-13-2021, 11:10 PM
Woke up this morning doing this massive karate kick in the air from my angry dream trying to kick someone in it. Bahaha. At least I didn't shout or talk in my sleep this time. Dreams are violent sometimes bahahaha.
carmen_b
01-14-2021, 12:53 PM
^ Wasn't Casey A an escort or at least fascinated by it ?
I could have my crazy chicks confused .
LoveyDovey
01-14-2021, 01:42 PM
It's fucking amazing how my IRS bill shows up in 4-5 business days but my stimulus check takes 3-4 weeks to arrive. Wtf???
whirlerz
01-14-2021, 02:18 PM
^ Wasn't Casey A an escort or at least fascinated by it ?
I could have my crazy chicks confused .
I don't think so. she was a partier, she liked to enter bar bikini contests (so did I).
As far " who.does thus to their kid"? Unfortunately, many people, way too many people. :(
indiegirl
01-14-2021, 02:26 PM
^ Wasn't Casey A an escort or at least fascinated by it ?
I could have my crazy chicks confused .
she was a party girl wanting to be with her new bf or something. Why is it so many on tv shows never want their kids? Girl I’ll take one I’m down to foster in the future or whatever. Obviously not now.
indiegirl
01-15-2021, 05:38 AM
^ Wasn't Casey A an escort or at least fascinated by it ?
I could have my crazy chicks confused .
the crazy escort you may be thinking of is dalia dippolito. She tried to hire a hitman (undercover cop) on her husband and stashed cocaine in his car calling police saying he was selling out of his car hahahaha. That poor guy!
miss.a.p1600
01-15-2021, 08:00 AM
Casey Anthony n OJ Simpson
The two sociopaths who got off with murder. Add to that is George Zimmerman.
Oj actually ended up in jail later (I think he’s out now) for stealing his memorabilia from someone he claims stole it from him. Weird case. Then writing some cringy book “if I killed her”. Like dude wtf?!? You did kill her n now you’re clout chasing off getting away with it. Just stfu
Criminals are so dumb n full of themselves that oftentimes they end up incriminating themselves/committing other stupid crimes later on down the line
indiegirl
01-15-2021, 08:12 AM
Unbelievable message “what’s my incentive to see you. I’ve seen you before. What are you offering this time?” Ummm conversation and what you think?!! They are always so nice and then go home to be keyboard warriors...especially the cheap ones. I got soooo pissed off I posted a blog on the site about the cheapness and constant unsafe requests and it got removed. Unreal!!! We all know this site is male owned.
I need a lobotomy to deal with the disrespect. Even if I posted “5 dollars” they wouldn’t even show up. Planning on checking my ter situation when I get home.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-15-2021, 01:01 PM
Casey Anthony n OJ Simpson
The two sociopaths who got off with murder. Add to that is George Zimmerman.
Oj actually ended up in jail later (I think he’s out now) for stealing his memorabilia from someone he claims stole it from him. Weird case. Then writing some cringy book “if I killed her”. Like dude wtf?!? You did kill her n now you’re clout chasing off getting away with it. Just stfu
Criminals are so dumb n full of themselves that oftentimes they end up incriminating themselves/committing other stupid crimes later on down the line
LOL this is so so true.
Petty annoyance for today- extreme weather has trashed my yard. WTF.....this is the shitty part of home ownership. Having to cut up downed trees and remove trash blown into the yard.
JGB2009
01-15-2021, 01:06 PM
I told you I will only be replying to you once a day and I meant it.
moneybags
01-15-2021, 07:20 PM
Starbucks barista. I wasn’t feeling good from staying up the night before. I went inside because the drive thru line was long. After ordering my drink, I sat down. She instantly got pissy at me because there was no dining in. I felt horrible and I just wanted to sit while I waited for my drink for 1 sec. Coronavirus doesn’t care if I’m sitting or standing. Not a big deal in the grand scheme of things. I was just annoyed at her attitude cause I obviously was sitting to wait for my drink. It’s not like I busted out my laptop or something. Obviously she’s having a bad day. Whatever. Trying to not sweat the small
stuff. Seems the current climate is making everyone on edge.
Genoveve
01-15-2021, 08:58 PM
Starbucks barista. I wasn’t feeling good from staying up the night before. I went inside because the drive thru line was long. After ordering my drink, I sat down. She instantly got pissy at me because there was no dining in. I felt horrible and I just wanted to sit while I waited for my drink for 1 sec. Coronavirus doesn’t care if I’m sitting or standing. Not a big deal in the grand scheme of things. I was just annoyed at her attitude cause I obviously was sitting to wait for my drink. It’s not like I busted out my laptop or something. Obviously she’s having a bad day. Whatever. Trying to not sweat the small
stuff. Seems the current climate is making everyone on edge.
Maybe it has to do with whatever new sterilization protocols they're having to follow, like maybe if people sit down they have to re-sterilize the area or something.
I never returned to my local Starbucks after they made me wait forever because the two baristas working were talking to some dude(and it wasn't about his order). Normally---at every Starbucks I've ever been to anyway---they take your order while you're in line so they can get it started and get everyone through faster, but there was no one in the place except for me and the dude so I guess they weren't in a rush. I'm just standing there for forever while both chicks are BSing talking and laughing with the dude so I just left and I haven't been back since and that was at least two years ago. Just because it's slow for ya'll doesn't mean I have all damn day. Fortunately a new grocery store opened up not long after that with a Starbucks inside so I am able to get my fix elsewhere(also I live closer to a McDonald's and I prefer their coffee over Starbucks anyway).
moneybags
01-15-2021, 09:23 PM
^^^yeah could be. I felt faint I was so hungry, but I’m sure some people are just morons.
I’ll try Mc Donald’s-it’s probably save some money.
Genoveve
01-15-2021, 09:26 PM
^^^ Their coffee menu has gotten pretty big: https://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en-us/mccafe.html
whirlerz
01-15-2021, 11:18 PM
@money & Genoveve: FUCK if wouldn't have called & talked to a manager about that SHIT!!>:(
Personally, I've called about a lot less, & gotten a free drink. At the very least, they wasted your time, time is $!