View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
indiegirl
01-16-2021, 02:48 AM
Me: not reading instructions on the essential oil diffuser wondering why it's not working like day 1.
Reality: HMMMM maybe you didn't read the instructions fully you idiot. LOL
Apparently this device is supposed to be cleaned weekly according to a youtube video and it's been a month with a sticky diffuser. I've been having the diffuser on mostly 24/7 if I'm home.
indiegirl
01-16-2021, 04:17 AM
The CONSTANT cheap haggles from return customers. At that price I would save money being at home. I would lose money. I'm fucking sick of it. UGHHH I gotta get back in high end with pro photos.
Still BS on cheap sites but less on high end. I wanted to cuss him out but ended it with a "ok have a good night."
I FUCKING hate men nowadays. There are strip club rooms that price and girls charging far more for extra. Then I get treated like shit. UGHHH TIRED of it. The day one is legit with pricing lately I won't even believe it based on the idiots I've encountered. I'm at the breaking point in this biz. Contact us or don't if you want to treat us like shit.
Fucking annoyed and don't know how a human being can treat another like this still. GOD!! Haven't received anything about combining reviews from TER yet.
whirlerz
01-16-2021, 06:28 AM
Yep. I'm w/you, on the cam side, also where I live lol.
I actually asked my former crush to bring in some bottle water, my ill roomie asked me to get it, I can't lift that shit! A case? Yeah, he's sick, not thinking straight..
Now we found out his son's mom has the virus too
I guess Mr (not) wonderful he's good for something..
carmen_b
01-16-2021, 08:54 AM
^ You should call him out.
Tell him it was shitty to announce he had paid extra to landlord when he knew you were struggling.
It was !
I mean 99% of humans would not announce they paid more / forward knowing a friend was struggling. Something might be mentally off with him anyway .
whirlerz
01-16-2021, 10:15 AM
^ You should call him out.
Tell him it was shitty to announce he had paid extra to landlord when he knew you were struggling.
I mean 99% of humans would not announce they paid more / forward knowing a friend was struggling. Something might be mentally off with him anyway .
Yeah, well, when you're self-absorbed... I mentioned the other guy being sick, he's like, "oh".
Doesn't.care.
Just like the other a/hole, who now btw is cooking again, he ran down when he saw my note saying I cut my hand on his blade..toget his stuff!
He wouldn't care if I cut my hand off, as long as baby got his precious things!
carmen_b
01-16-2021, 02:07 PM
This is petty but there was a western being filmed near me ( over next 5-6 days ) . Some of my friends got cast and I didn't see the notice or something.
I've done a lot of extras work in movies / tv but my DREAM scene is a saloon girl. This is a bucket list item for me. I will die of jealousy if anyone gets to shoot in the saloon ( or brothel ! ) scene that isn't me haha. I will literally be in make up near the set in case anyone calls out .
whirlerz
01-16-2021, 02:27 PM
Maybe they have a website you can go on?
They've shot a few movies in my area too..
indiegirl
01-16-2021, 02:34 PM
This is petty but there was a western being filmed near me ( over next 5-6 days ) . Some of my friends got cast and I didn't see the notice or something.
I've done a lot of extras work in movies / tv but my DREAM scene is a saloon girl. This is a bucket list item for me. I will die of jealousy if anyone gets to shoot in the saloon ( or brothel ! ) scene that isn't me haha. I will literally be in make up near the set in case anyone calls out .
I don't wanna be an actress but I want to be in one of those crime scene show reenactments. I want to act overdramatic just 1 time calling on a phone, running out of a car in terror just once and call it a day. LOL my dream is very simple and will retire after 1 show haha.
You don't even have lines to memorize too. Remember being cast in a play in middle school going up with my lines written on either my hand or a post it note LOL. I'm not that dedicated hahaha.
carmen_b
01-16-2021, 02:57 PM
^ I love that ! I also want to play a cop sometime for amusement !
I am ok having lines too. I can remember them ( a few ) and do it with 100% accuracy . I do want a speaking part sometime but the saloon scene is my “ must “ even over a speaking role.
carmen_b
01-16-2021, 03:07 PM
Oh wait I'm back with one more !
I got SO mad at J's house yesterday. I found this little jar with notes in it from his ex. LAME.
I know everyone handles this stuff differently so I acknowledge my way ( getting rid of all momentos ) isn't the only way. The part that makes me mad is that it wasn't that well hidden. It was in his closet ( the same one that holds our box of sex toys ). Of COURSE I'd be going into that section of the closet to fine that sex toy box so WHY would something like that even be there . Why would it be ANYWHERE other than maybe the garage TAPED shut ?
I asked him flat out if he still had lingering feelings. He said no.
I'm dropping it but LAME . I never should have seen anything like that !
I asked him to make sure I didn't see it anymore ( or any other memento type things ) .
It's actually only the 2nd time in 9.5 months I have seen anything like that is his house which is probably pretty good really considering.
He would go NUTS if I was storing a souvenir of an ex lol.
Genoveve
01-16-2021, 03:40 PM
The part that makes me mad is that it wasn't that well hidden.
I think that's a GOOD sign, if he was hiding it it would mean he really cared about it and really didn't want you to see it and is thus being really deceptive. Him leaving it out like that I think shows that he doesn't really give a shit about it and forgot about it.
carmen_b
01-16-2021, 03:45 PM
^ Yeah he did say he forgot about it.
There were shirts obscuring it but then when he went through that stack it was exposed !!! Lol
LoveyDovey
01-16-2021, 05:02 PM
Oh wait I'm back with one more !
I got SO mad at J's house yesterday. I found this little jar with notes in it from his ex. LAME.
I know everyone handles this stuff differently so I acknowledge my way ( getting rid of all momentos ) isn't the only way. The part that makes me mad is that it wasn't that well hidden. It was in his closet ( the same one that holds our box of sex toys ). Of COURSE I'd be going into that section of the closet to fine that sex toy box so WHY would something like that even be there . Why would it be ANYWHERE other than maybe the garage TAPED shut ?
I asked him flat out if he still had lingering feelings. He said no.
I'm dropping it but LAME . I never should have seen anything like that !
I asked him to make sure I didn't see it anymore ( or any other memento type things ) .
It's actually only the 2nd time in 9.5 months I have seen anything like that is his house which is probably pretty good really considering.
He would go NUTS if I was storing a souvenir of an ex lol.
Ugh, that sucks to find something like that. I wouldn't sweat it too much, though.I know I've held on to stuff and put it away in a cabinet or trunk just to forget it was there. Had nothing to do with having feelings for them, I'm just a hoarder like that. But still, that's a little unnerving and just not something you needed to see.,
I wound up firing off a nasty breakup text telling my now ex that he is so fucking stupid to take me for granted and treat me the way he did. I told him I'm an amazing girlfriend who deserves to be treated with respect. Tired of him undervaluing me and our relationship. I told him fuck this shit, I'm out. No excuse to leave me hanging. His grandma didn't die, nor was he in the hospital on a ventilator with covid. "I couldn't call you BC I'm going through a rough time and got a new phone &didn't have your number" was the lame excuse. He's done this before. He allows his ex to cause problems & he is too dense to see that his ex causes problems as a way of preventing him from moving on. And he could have dropped by his friend's house to get in touch w me since his friend has my number, but clearly I am not a priority. Ugh who needs this???
I'm depressed over the fact that I can't seem to find a guy who sees my worth and is willing to make me a priority. They seem to have nothing to offer except drama, problems, and trauma. Just wish I could find the right one who is actually fun, honest, respectful, and smart. They all seem stupid and selfish and I feel like I'm better off alone. How tf do women find it in themselves to marry anyone? I am just going to focus on me and my goals and rebuild my life on my own. I'm better off. Can't help but feel depressed though. It never works out for me and I'm done trying.
miss.a.p1600
01-16-2021, 07:54 PM
Male entitlement.
L slipped and said he would do things for his ex wife AFTER she had sex with him.
Then he said he’d wash my car for me if I gave him some.
In my mind I’m like .... wtf. NO!
This is why I’m glad I worked in the adult industry. Unless you gone hand wash, hand wax, change the oil/air filters, change n top off all my fluids, provide a 20point inspection, balance n rotate my tires, etc ...my pussy is worth Waaay more than a basic ass car wash.
Just cause men would provide their dick for free they think we should do the same. Um NO!
Then I could tell he thinks women should give up the pussy first then get showered with gifts later. Again NO!! This would only work with a trustworthy generous man which most men are not. Men need to give first then women can decide if their giving was worthy enough of whatever they want to give in return.
I was quite turned off by this.
kimbe
01-17-2021, 11:49 AM
Then he said he’d wash my car for me if I gave him some.
Like a BJ for a car wash...fuck what's wrong with your boyfriends >:(
Aurora_Sunset
01-17-2021, 01:07 PM
I can't wait to be done dealing with insurance. We're constantly told one thing and then another thing happens - when we call to complain, the next person we talk to is like, "I don't know why the first person told you something else." Well, apparently, ya'll are liars, or half the people who work there are fucking incompetent. So, which is it? >:(
They want us out of this hotel as soon as possible so they can stop paying for it, but they don't make it fucking easy to save money for an emergency move when they're constantly popping up to tell us we owe more money they never told us about or pulling the rug out from under us by not giving us money they initially said they would.
Their most recent shit this week was sending us a check for the cleaners instead of paying them directly (like they said they would), but the check is $500 short. They said WE have to pay it to the cleaners because that's our deductible. We were originally told that whenever they give us money for replacing items, they would take the $500 away from that sum, and that's how it would be paid. Now, we have to find $500 out of pocket??? Wtf, we don't have it. And we can't even take it from the replacement money, because, after initially being told that the payment would be pretty much instant as soon as we submitted our list, now we're being told it'll take up to 2 weeks.
That's not even half of what they've done to us over the past 2 months of dealing with this nightmare. I'm done.
Aurora_Sunset
01-17-2021, 01:19 PM
My family wants us to go out of town where they're all meeting over the Easter weekend. I could do it, but when I asked my husband, he found out that he doesn't get ANY time off from his new job until he's been there for a year. He literally watched a manager tell someone that his mom's birthday isn't his problem when the guy asked for one shift off to spend the day with his mom. They were told that "they're paid to work, and they need to schedule their life around their days off."
What really sets me off about that is that they're constantly "running out" of work and sending him home early. If they expect him to work his life around his shifts, they better fucking give him his hours. We don't have the money for them to be fucking around with his paycheck whenever it's convenient for them.
miss.a.p1600
01-17-2021, 03:27 PM
Like a BJ for a car wash...fuck what's wrong with your boyfriends >:(
Worse! He wanted full out sex. N That’s exactly why he was DECLINED for ANY action
Aurora_Sunset
01-17-2021, 03:41 PM
The PS4 isn't connecting to the internet for some reason. I know there's nothing wrong with the hotel internet because I'm using it right now on my computer.
miss.a.p1600
01-17-2021, 03:42 PM
I just stuffed myself full of greasy unhealthy McDonald’s because I was starving n it was right there. Now I feel like a heifer and I regret it.
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carmen_b
01-18-2021, 09:42 AM
Aurora : check your state labor laws. I don’t think that’s legal ( no time off ) . At least as an unpaid option . It’s cruel and weird 100% too. How do you expect people to function or be happy with NO time off?
carmen_b
01-18-2021, 09:47 AM
^^ I’d be really creeped out if J was openly starting sex negotiations for normal dating type behavior.
Don’t hate me ( hah !) but I’m going to be a voice to the other side here too. You mentioned you guys sometimes go 2-3 weeks without and that just isn’t sustainable for most men .
Not saying to do one thing or another just that I can see he is “ acting out “ and getting desperate ect.
Don’t listen to my advice probably though ! My dude is probably mad at me too ( we only had sex one time during our last three day block together ).
I felt non-functional sexually after I found out he let his ex wife come in the house and root around in our/his space ! :/
I’m kind of over it now but at the time my body was like “ NO WAY !”.
Worse! He wanted full out sex. N That’s exactly why he was DECLINED for ANY action
carmen_b
01-18-2021, 09:50 AM
^ I’m not taking his side. Just kind of looking at both sides !
I think based on your posts he fucks up OFTEN haha especially not keeping conversations about cheapness in check.
Women pretty much across the board would have a problem with THAT!
chanzep
01-18-2021, 11:33 AM
Sex for a carwash that's insane. I would cuss if a guy suggested it.
Aurora_Sunset
01-18-2021, 12:40 PM
Aurora : check your state labor laws. I don’t think that’s legal ( no time off ) . At least as an unpaid option . It’s cruel and weird 100% too. How do you expect people to function or be happy with NO time off?
Oh, I know for sure that this company does not adhere to labor laws. They're supposed to get 2 paid breaks and a 30 minute unpaid lunch, and they very often do not give him his breaks, or at least not all of them. Or tell them that all they're getting is a 20 minute lunch. There's no way that is legal. But most of the people they employ are temps or blatant druggies that can't get hired anywhere else, so they know they can just fire anyone who rats them out.
miss.a.p1600
01-18-2021, 01:58 PM
^^ I’d be really creeped out if J was openly starting sex negotiations for normal dating type behavior.
Don’t hate me ( hah !) but I’m going to be a voice to the other side here too. You mentioned you guys sometimes go 2-3 weeks without and that just isn’t sustainable for most men .
Not saying to do one thing or another just that I can see he is “ acting out “ and getting desperate ect.
Don’t listen to my advice probably though ! My dude is probably mad at me too ( we only had sex one time during our last three day block together ).
I felt non-functional sexually after I found out he let his ex wife come in the house and root around in our/his space ! :/
I’m kind of over it now but at the time my body was like “ NO WAY !”.
Exactly! I thought about that and was like mf youre supposed to offer to wash my car as a nice gesture anyways.
Yeah I told him my idea of sex is once per month...lol
And he started to freak out because he wants 3-4 times/week and so I think he's starting to ration his 'nice gestures' because he thinks I'm 'rationing sex'
But I refuse to reward a man with sex when he ain't performing in life to his full capability. In my mind yeah we can lay around and have sex all day IF all the bills are paid and savings goals met and IF its good.
He's been asking what he can do to help me feel more 'in the mood' for sex more often with him and I said "Dude! You HAVE to stimulate me MENTALLY AND then stimulate my clit!" and number two it's the finances (I'm turned off that he won't apply himself further when it comes to making money as he's okay with living check to check and I am not okay with that)
I even showed him a picture and I still don't think it clicked so I have to literally show him.
Then I tried not to rage against him when he went into this whole "I've never been with a woman who can't orgasm from dick" and I'm like "I've never been with a guy who hasn't used sex toys, hasn't had experiences with more than 3 women, and doesn't know where a woman's clit is!"
>:(
miss.a.p1600
01-18-2021, 02:08 PM
It sounds crazy but I really do care for him maybe even love him but the cheapness (which could be fixed by him improving his career) and the lack of good sex (which also could be improved by him being open minded) is wearing on me.
He promised to buy me this vibrator then he's like 'oh it went off sale?' .... which is clue word for he won't buy it cause it's 'too expensive'. Girl I wanted to rage at his ass. Like you should have looked at the price before promising me something then backing out.
I told him I was okay going off-peak for Valentines day because he makes it very clear what his budget is. I may just arrange a Ladies gathering at an upscale restaurant on the actual day and buy myself the vibrator and stay at home on Sunday exploring.
carmen_b
01-18-2021, 02:12 PM
^ It’s your call as no one can make this choice but you.
I would 100% leave a guy for bad sex though.
I feel strongly about it just because there are so many resources out there. Like .., you have to almost try these days to not get hit in the face with a link to “ how to get her off “!! This info is there for everyone not a mystery hah.
The earning thing is less of a factor for me but I probably would just wonder what is wrong with someone if they are not making at 50-60k a year ( didn’t have plans to get at least up to that in next 2-3 months ). There are other ways to save and earn too ( side hustles , 2nd jobs, rental property ect.)!
Aurora_Sunset
01-18-2021, 02:27 PM
The new apartment just called to tell us there was an issue with the unit we were supposed to move into and we have to move into a different one. I'm pissed, because this is exactly what happened that last time we moved. We have everything scheduled to transfer to the new address and now we have to change it all again - and it will get super fucked up because of it. The mail especially will be messed up for months. I'm also really upset, because we specifically picked a unit that faces a grassy space, and now the new one will just be staring at a damn parking lot, which we've spent the last 2 years doing.
Why can't one goddam thing go right?
miss.a.p1600
01-18-2021, 02:29 PM
^Ironically I'm the opposite
I could stay for mediocre sex if the earning is right.....That's kind of why I'm riding him (not in the good way lol) to improve in that area - He said he was open to working with me (which would be a nice side hustle in the interim)
Yes girl these next couple months are crucial!
WendiStarr
01-18-2021, 02:30 PM
A relative had the same issue with Kroger and Instacart as I did(Instacart shopper marked as delivered and the groceries were not in sight anywhere). She was given a refund and credit yesterday. My incident with that happened on Wednesday and I called Kroger back to rause some hell about getting my refund back faster. Kroger said they couldn't help me and to call Instacart. Instacart saiid they'd have their escalation team investigate and that I'd hear back within 48 hours. It's been over that so I called them back. The first agent hung up on me. The second agent kept saying she couldn't understand me. Then I asked to be transferred to a customer service representative that is in the U.S. I was on hold for 35 minutes only to hear a click and the call was disconnected. I called back and the csa said that she couldn't see the order that I was talking about and to call Kroger to resolve the issue. Omg, I can't even with some of these call centers.
miss.a.p1600
01-18-2021, 05:12 PM
I guess I need to hear this and practice it.
https://youtu.be/det7PSE0Hyg
whirlerz
01-18-2021, 05:22 PM
I see ur bud is @it again, dragging up a thread bout the old rich perv. He gotta resurface somewhere, I guess
chanzep
01-18-2021, 08:15 PM
I'm sorry that sucks.
miss.a.p1600
01-18-2021, 08:52 PM
I see ur bud is @it again, dragging up a thread bout the old rich perv. He gotta resurface somewhere, I guess
Your response to him is classic.
just point n laugh cause he’s a joke.
i reported him to moderator for intentionally trying to start shit by resurrecting an old thread just to get his desperate attempt at free attention and his last two cents in like anyone gives af
miss.a.p1600
01-19-2021, 07:22 AM
L is walking out right as I’m pulling up.
Ugh!!!!!
I don’t want him to see the Starbucks I got for myself (didn’t offer to get him any)
And my hair is looking very rough, I’m in pjs (not matching)
I’m going to drive off and hope he’s gone by time I get back
indiegirl
01-19-2021, 07:30 AM
I hate when amazon or package delivery people make you go on an easter egg hunt wondering where your package is thinking it was never delivered. Might I suggest the front door? One of my packages was in the bushes for days wondering where it was at. In the past it was thrown over my fence in the backyard....like what's next? Just spit on it, grab the package, and throw it on the roof from your vehicle if you're gonna be lazy. Geez.
miss.a.p1600
01-19-2021, 07:34 AM
They did that to me too.
Delivered to the wrong address then had the audacity to say I should ask my neighbors.
Bitch! YOU ask your drivers to be thorough. I’m not walking around in the blistering cold knocking on hella doors trying to search n find a package that my trifling neighbors probably kept for themselves.
Assholes!
whirlerz
01-19-2021, 08:45 AM
They did that to me too.
Delivered to the wrong address then had the audacity to say I should ask my neighbors.
Bitch! YOU ask your drivers to be thorough. I’m not walking around in the blistering cold knocking on hella doors trying to search n find a package that my trifling neighbors probably kept for themselves.
Assholes!
Yes, happened to my friend, her brother sent her a really nice coat, just so happened the regular. delivery guy was off that day, it got delivered to the wrong address, the Co did call, but they refused to give it back!
They had to reimburse
indiegirl
01-19-2021, 09:37 AM
I have to get the fuck out of this house in like 15 minutes for work. Have a customer coming soon. The same guy who would bring his under age 10 children to appointments. Apparently I'm the only person that had an issue with it. I'm fine with seeing him only & made sure it didn't happen again with me present but just put a bitter taste in my mouth knowing he's prolly done this numerous times with other people.
I'd be on the next snapped episode if I found out my babies were with some hooker and ex husband at a hotel. I get some ladies have to work like that due to money issues but I can't be part of it when some guy has enough money to hire a babysitter staying at an expensive hotel for an hour.
chanzep
01-19-2021, 10:58 AM
That's crazy that people allow that. He is sick.
whirlerz
01-19-2021, 11:04 AM
Yeah, WTF do the kids do, when he's 'busy'?
miss.a.p1600
01-19-2021, 11:08 AM
I have to get the fuck out of this house in like 15 minutes for work. Have a customer coming soon. The same guy who would bring his under age 10 children to appointments. Apparently I'm the only person that had an issue with it. I'm fine with seeing him only & made sure it didn't happen again with me present but just put a bitter taste in my mouth knowing he's prolly done this numerous times with other people.
I'd be on the next snapped episode if I found out my babies were with some hooker and ex husband at a hotel. I get some ladies have to work like that due to money issues but I can't be part of it when some guy has enough money to hire a babysitter staying at an expensive hotel for an hour.
thats why I’d NEVER leave my babies alone with the man. Not even for a short time. Especially in the first few years.
most men are not that good at child rearing.
ive seen men on film dropping kids by letting them roll off their back, roll off changing tables, tripping while carrying the baby, leaving the baby in hot cars, etc.
Once I saw a guy without his wife....pushing a regular baby stroller while RUNNING downhill chasing his other kid, I was shocked in horror cause all it would have taken was for him to trip and the stroller crash/baby go flying out.
neverendingkneebruises
01-19-2021, 11:15 AM
My internet has been sooo slow >:( I pay almost $100/month for super fast internet and for the past month and a half it's been irritating me. I hate calling customer service but guess I'll have to. Ridiculous I pay so much just to deal with this. -.-
indiegirl
01-19-2021, 11:16 AM
Yeah, WTF do the kids do, when he's 'busy'?
I was super nice but damn could you imagine being a mom not knowing your babies were subjected to this. Let’s put some cartoons on. I get everyone needs money but that’s my limit. “Oh they’ve been around other working girls when they were topless.”
Are we in a fucking cult? It’s not okay to expose them to this. Maybe I’m the crazy one...I don’t want children at my appointments. Obviously I won’t say his name nor do I save their info. Just very shocked still and I bet he brings them to other appointments.
miss.a.p1600
01-19-2021, 11:36 AM
I have to mute my phone because L is one question asking mf.
“Are you xyz because...I hear car sounds/stomach growling/water running/food crunching/ etc”
Like cotdamn! Can I live without hella questions? Ima start muting out.
indiegirl
01-19-2021, 11:38 AM
He cancelled. I dunno ♀️ I just want nobody bringing their kids to appointments. I have never gotten that out of my head last year. It was a first.
miss.a.p1600
01-19-2021, 11:45 AM
Yeah, WTF do the kids do, when he's 'busy'?
probably leave them in the car (tinted windows so nosy people won’t call police) glued to an iPad or something
Then bribe them like if you sit still here I’ll buy you some pizza when I get back.
ive read a few articles of people leaving their kids in the car while they go to the club/bar/grocery shopping/have sex/etc
They get caught if windows are clear so onlookers can see the kids alone, it’s extremely hot/cold, n the car is still running
whirlerz
01-19-2021, 12:01 PM
There was a roomie awhile ago, he had a gf that brought 2 kids (1 was her babysitting), w/her upstairs to the guy's room??
Mind you, this's a ROOM, & 0they were%$&? in front of the kids?
Beyond Disgusting!
&those kids left in the car, you don't think child pervs look out for that???
carmen_b
01-19-2021, 01:31 PM
Indie : omg no way you just would never expect either party to bring a kid to a sex work appt.
Crazy !!
Hopefully he is a good customer who has learned to hire a sitter. What the hell ?!?!!!!