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miss.a.p1600
01-23-2021, 07:40 AM
I got outed today. Someone who’d been a bouncer at the first club I worked at bought himself a tow truck and went into business for himself. I ran into him at Copart today, and he blurted out in front of several of my coworkers (including the one I was training) where he knew me from. I’m sure by now everyone in the tow company knows. I know the evening supervisor knows, because he called me and told me if anyone gave me a hard time about it, to let him know.

some of these guys are so dumb!

I’ve been outed (or guys have attempted) and I straight up did some Oscar worthy acting pretending I had no clue what they were talking about thus making them feel real dumb n question themselves n their memory.

Kinda close to gaslighting them. But hey that’s what their dumb ass gets for acting extra thirsty, failing to read social cues, being self serving, n trying to cause a scene in public

One time an actual woman who worked in adult industry outed me. I think she had aspergers or something. She was like “hey girl, you goin in to xyz shake junt tonight?” In my mind I’m like “bruh! We are in public! If I ain’t bring it up then you stay silent about this. You of all people should know this but I guess you have no common sense”

thankfully no one was around to hear the convo or she would have gotten the exact same treatment as those stupid men.

i always tried to NOT stand out n not be recognized on purpose but some of these mfs be having long memories

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 07:58 AM
some of these guys are so dumb!

I’ve been outed (or guys have attempted) and I straight up did some Oscar worthy acting pretending I had no clue what they were talking about thus making them feel real dumb n question themselves n their memory.

Kinda close to gaslighting them. But hey that’s what their dumb ass gets for acting extra thirsty, failing to read social cues, being self serving, n trying to cause a scene in public

One time an actual woman who worked in adult industry outed me. I think she had aspergers or something. She was like “hey girl, you goin in to xyz shake junt tonight?” In my mind I’m like “bruh! We are in public! If I ain’t bring it up then you stay silent about this. You of all people should know this but I guess you have no common sense”

thankfully no one was around to hear the convo or she would have gotten the exact same treatment as those stupid men.

i always tried to NOT stand out n not be recognized on purpose but some of these mfs be having long memories

Got shouted at with my work name outside his car while I was with my mom in the past. The look of death on him spread on my face and shock as well. One was following me around the lax airport. These guys!

Don’t know why people wanna be famous. Who wants to be recognized by people.

lurkingtitties
01-23-2021, 08:09 AM
Miss a.p. I was referring to a different male poster who had been active lately! I know who you mean though.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 10:06 AM
Girl, it's an internet forum. There is plenty of space for you. Unless you want to take a break because it's too much of a time sink for you or something, but if you actually enjoy SW I wouldn't leave because of someone else. You can do like me and just ignore the weirdos.

......

My annoyance today is my tires; I just spent $1300 for new tires----at under 17,000 miles. Apparently the tires Subaru makes for my car grip the road really well but because of that they wear down super fast. They recommended me getting some more economical tires with longer mileage, but when I asked if I would feel a difference between those and the ones specifically for my car and they said yes I opted for the latter. Now that I'm thinking about it though, I had no idea my current tires were even bald till they told me and felt zero difference with how my car was driving so I probably wouldn't feel the difference between the Subaru tires and the more reasonable ones. But I already ordered them and it still costs a small fortune with the reasonable tires so whatever. Next time though I will probably opt for the cheaper ones.

Some of these tire prices are too much!!

Barely drove my mustang gt and they said the front wheels need to be replaced and the mention of the fact it doesn’t matter if it hasn’t been driven much. It happens over time.

So annoying. Once I blow a tire out is when I’ll be concerned LOL.

LoveyDovey
01-23-2021, 10:15 AM
Yeah yo I’m originally from Philly where it’s the same way... I spent some time in the Upper Midwest last summer and I would get so angry internally when ppl try to make small talk! I made a dentist appointment while I was out there and the receptionist was trying to make small talk with me over the phone, I understood it was a cultural thing but it was sooo annoying!

Then one day a patient told me he had to visit my hometown for work and the 1970s and he’ll never go back because people were ‘so rude’. I asked him what happened and he told me while he was there he asked someone for directions and they didn’t know, and didn’t try to help him! Haha I told some friends about it later and we all laughed about it. Of course no one is going to stop what they’re doing and help you find your way around town!

I'm originally from Philly too and have a Type-A personality. What you guys sasaabout NY/NJ/Philly is true...the goal is to get shit done without any BS so that everyone's life is more productive and easier. People who dilly dally and screw around are considered rude. The only thing though that's different for me is that if I'm ever in Philly, and I ask someone for directions, they actually do stop what they're doing and take the time to tell me exactly how to get somewhere. It reminds me of the old joke..."the thing about Philly people is that they love to tell you where you can go" LOL.

Genoveve
01-23-2021, 10:41 AM
Yeah yo I’m originally from Philly where it’s the same way...

I’m from the Philly area! South Jersey, closer to Philly than NYC, everyone are Eagles and Phillies fans and we have Philly accents.


I would get so angry internally when ppl try to make small talk! I made a dentist appointment while I was out there and the receptionist was trying to make small talk with me over the phone, I understood it was a cultural thing but it was sooo annoying!

Saaaame.

My brother says his favorite thing about Manhattan is that everyone ignores everyone LOL.

Genoveve
01-23-2021, 10:48 AM
Barely drove my mustang gt and they said the front wheels need to be replaced and the mention of the fact it doesn’t matter if it hasn’t been driven much. It happens over time.

Was your mustang new? Because if it is, they should have just rotated your tires rather than replacing them first. You can check your own tread too to see how worn down it is.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 10:51 AM
Was your mustang new? Because if it is, they should have just rotated your tires rather than replacing them first. You can check your own tread too to see how worn down it is.

They do tire rotations on service checks. I just went to a tire place this time who said they needed to be replaced.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 10:56 AM
I’m exhausted. Two of the reviews said I never gave the address until last minute and the same with the phone number. BITCH ask! I don’t know your situation and if you have a wife. I’ve been through this before! Acting like I’m a mind reader with all their needs and bitching in reviews that I didn’t cater to their needs. You all have different needs. You aren’t the only man in this world!

Waiting on my regular to make my money back and go home. I’m done for the next few hours. Worst month of my life.

Honestly considering camming. I’m sick of this poor behavior and get it happens there but at least I get to be treated by cheap asses at home not spending money.

Should’ve pretended I loved my pimp longer to keep more money flowing with his connections LOL. Being required to fuck him at the end of the night wasn’t fun though.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 12:50 PM
Unbelievable. My regular just left and I thought he blew me off for a few months. It’s the mother fucking moderator doing his shit behind the scene. He showed me all the messages to me and we both thought we were ghosting eachother. Missed seeing him! Seen him for like 5 years

Selina M
01-23-2021, 01:26 PM
I’m just like why would you (the SW guys) come to a predominately female space knowing most of us probably are progressive-at least most of the sex workers I know are.

Because they assume we're stupid, incorrect in our political views, and need to be educated. The vibe I get in those threads is very much "Honey, the adults are talking".

carmen_b
01-23-2021, 01:49 PM
^ What is wrong with these people?

My stripper name has also been yelled across parking lots / the store ect.

I pretend Im deaf haha.

My good regs have both my # AND the manners to know discretion. Men can be incredibly stupid at times. :/

whirlerz
01-23-2021, 02:04 PM
Well, just went in my bathroom, the lights are out, the girl came down, we were talking, this guy keeps on overloading the circuits!

Really annoying, they have a right to have lights on.. LL doesn't care.

I guess they're withholding the rent about this.

miss.a.p1600
01-23-2021, 06:56 PM
Miss a.p. I was referring to a different male poster who had been active lately! I know who you mean though.

His ass is annoying too. Posting up a storm. Like bruh! Do something with ya life. 95% of the males are annoying.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 07:31 PM
I'm ready to have a stroke. I specifically asked to have my cheap asshole reviews removed on the other profile and they removed the other 150 ish reviews instead. Someone is not happy with me. This has been going on for so long. One even called the cops with a tip off that I was harboring a criminal (while my mom was living here) in the past (obviously I'm not) as well as removing my entire profile. I wonder who I've pissed off because it's not going well.

moneybags
01-23-2021, 08:10 PM
Because they assume we're stupid, incorrect in our political views, and need to be educated. The vibe I get in those threads is very much "Honey, the adults are talking".

Classic white male privilege-We know better than you. The whole world is a living hell, but yes the white male system works soooo well! Lol.

An older woman told me to read this book called Women’s Realities. It’s a guide book to understand the white make system. The tone of the author is not to hate on the white men system, but to give women a guide book to deal with it! It was written in 1960’s still applicable. Similarly, there’s the black system-which is amazing people of color have learned to cope with the insanity. Basically in order to survive women and people of color have to learn the white male system. The white male system is not bad or good-just a system. So we aren’t bashing men here. We are just identifying the system. Anyways, we have to learn their system, but they don’t have to learn our system. (Sex work is a female system.) Our system is seen as bad, sick, crazy, or stupid. It’s mostly unconscious, although some of them know fully well and abuse their privilege. I highly recommend it. Now I see the white system everywhere. It’s so engrained in our culture. We’re so use to we don’t even conscioussly recognize it most of the time.

That’s why is I’m so annoyed. Most of the world is based on the white male system. Can we have one corner on the internet to not have to deal with that bullshit! I’m ignoring all the males from here on out. I don’t wanna deal with the bullshit.

Also when I type white it auto corrects to whore...so annoying.

AChildOfBoredom
01-23-2021, 11:22 PM
^^^Wow what a dunce. At least the supervisor has your back though, that’s a miracle in itself.

Three women working here (in the field) is really good PR for the company. I really wouldn’t expect them to have a whole lot to say, although the guy I pegged as being most likely to say something did ask me, “Just how many different hats do you wear?”.


Agreed with everyone about a certain male troll being extremely offensive right now. Obviously a sex worker forum is going to trend toward the left/sympathizing for marginalized groups because we ourselves know what it’s like to be oppressed. I think he knows that and comes here to try and talk down to us intentionally.

Yeah… I’ve been hesitant about engaging with the blues lately. Especially when they seem too chickenshit to respond until they perceive a nonexistent slight against them.


They do tire rotations on service checks. I just went to a tire place this time who said they needed to be replaced.

Did they cite something like sidewall cracking, feather edging, cupping, etc.?

moneybags
01-24-2021, 03:31 AM
I’d like to work the day for camming, but I can’t until they are done spraying for bugs.. I about lost my shit when they said mornings are the only time the exterminator can come. (The bugs are from a neighbor).I need a consistent schedule for my mental health and really sucks to have people in my apartment in the mornings after a night of camming.

Aurora_Sunset
01-24-2021, 01:00 PM
I'm ready to have a stroke. I specifically asked to have my cheap asshole reviews removed on the other profile and they removed the other 150 ish reviews instead. Someone is not happy with me. This has been going on for so long. One even called the cops with a tip off that I was harboring a criminal (while my mom was living here) in the past (obviously I'm not) as well as removing my entire profile. I wonder who I've pissed off because it's not going well.

Holy shit... I would cry.

At this point, can you re-brand? Like, take new pics, set up a new name, and pretend you're new to get new clients?

carmen_b
01-24-2021, 01:10 PM
^ I would try that too. Maybe a whole new look. Like dye hair / new outfit styles or something. I don't know. I feel for you for getting messed with . It is probably a site moderator / boundary pusher ( as you already know ).

I think work trips just a few hours out of town could help a lot too. Fresh face / market type of refresh.

I would ignore these reviews at least for a few days. They can be SO depressing to read. Even doing massage stuff people get on there and are just SO awful. My personal fave ( about me ) was the gist of " Everything is worse in person " lol.
I don't heavily retouch photos at all so I have no idea what this persons problem was.

One person also said I seemed too short ( I'm 5'8'' without heels and often am wearing them ). Lol.

Just to give you some perspective.

carmen_b
01-24-2021, 01:14 PM
My beautiful curvy friend was described as " with a stomach pom as if she had recently given birth ".

^ No . She just had some normal curves.

These guys are such weirdos sometimes. Keep in mind what side of the transaction you are on. :)

Aurora_Sunset
01-24-2021, 02:35 PM
I'm excited to move but I am not excited about the logistics of moving. I have to figure out how to pack up this whole damn hotel room. And I forgot to have my husband bring in the stack of boxes needed to do it - the bundle is too heavy and awkward for me to carry by myself. I could bring them up a few at a time but I don't have the patience or mental energy for that shit... So I'm making piles and will have to pack after he gets home from work tonight. I still don't wanna do it.

I'm just happy I took 4 full days off of work.

Aurora_Sunset
01-24-2021, 02:39 PM
^ I would try that too. Maybe a whole new look. Like dye hair / new outfit styles or something. I don't know. I feel for you for getting messed with . It is probably a site moderator / boundary pusher ( as you already know ).

I think work trips just a few hours out of town could help a lot too. Fresh face / market type of refresh.

I would ignore these reviews at least for a few days. They can be SO depressing to read. Even doing massage stuff people get on there and are just SO awful. My personal fave ( about me ) was the gist of " Everything is worse in person " lol.
Like ...... I don't heavily retouch photos at all so I have no idea what this persons problem was.

One person also said I seemed too short ( I'm 5'8'' without heels and often am wearing them ). Lol.

Just to give you some perspective.

Some asshat on TER once gave me a 7/10 just because he decided that he didn't like the fact that my tattoos and piercings accentuated our age difference. I know it's not nearly as horrible as some of the things guys on there say, but it really pissed me off that he dragged down my perfect string of 9s at the time. My profile was perfectly transparent about the fact that I have tattoos and piercings and also how old I am... It's not like he was unaware. He even said so in his review. The fact that he regretted his choices after the fact shouldn't have made its way into MY review.

Genoveve
01-24-2021, 02:49 PM
he didn't like the fact that my tattoos and piercings accentuated our age difference.

W.T.F. That's one of the lamest complaints I've ever heard of. Sounds like one of those people who looks for something to be upset about.

indiegirl
01-24-2021, 05:45 PM
TER "are you ok with having both your reviews combined? (in the past they were ok with them being separate) ....I'm gonna lose 153-ish reviews on both accounts but I don't need this for my self esteem. So I'm losing all my reviews. They totally skipped the request to remove the posted new reviews and went back to my main message HAHAHA. Lets delete the good ones and leave her the shit new ones from whiners. Sucks losing those 150 ones but....time to move on from ter.

I'm waiting for the next BS from these men. Made prolly 200 this week after everything. These motherfuckers are enough minus the car guy. Worst month ever.

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2021, 09:02 PM
I loathe the expectations men have about sex.

Now that you’re in relationship with them they expect sex.

Well mf. If you expect sex, I expect money so now what.

indiegirl
01-25-2021, 09:14 PM
I loathe the expectations men have about sex.

Now that you’re in relationship with them they expect sex.

Well mf. If you expect sex, I expect money so now what.

Feel you. The worst is when they do that seductive heavy pat down or try to turn you on and then sitting there wanting to roll your eyes like "bitch I'm relaxed. Can't we just watch the movie? Now you want me to do sex sports for free?"

Honestly don't know how I'm gonna leave this industry and be normal again.

carmen_b
01-25-2021, 09:24 PM
^ It's actually hard sometimes for me too to have a normal relationship.

Even as someone with a high drive at times I have thought to myself things like " well great I am now the worst paid escort ever " .

My partner and I have a well matched drive ( we both like three times a week or so ).
Lately ...... I am struggling with seasonal energy loss . I don't want to tell him that temporarily ( like just in Feb ) I might want a couple times a week.

I won't ever push myself to do anything sexually I don't want to do .
I refuse to fake things if I'm not feeling it.

One factor that made me feel this way that that my partner got into this covid paranoia phase where he didn't want to go out . He seems to have lightened up now and is being more normal ( thank god ) but particularly in that time frame November-ish I almost had to tell him the sex would DEFINITELY be stopping if traditional date nights were also stopping. He would order nice food for us but it just is NOT the same.

^ I think my behavior got the message through because he quickly changed his tune in Dec.

indiegirl
01-25-2021, 09:30 PM
^ It's actually hard sometimes for me too to have a normal relationship.

Even as someone with a high drive at time I have thought to myself things like " well great I am now the worst paid escort ever " .

My partner and I have a well matched drive ( we both like three times a week or so ) but I don't know ....lately ...... I am struggling with seasonal energy loss . I don't want to tell him that temporarily ( like just in Feb ) I might want just a couple times a week .

I won't ever push myself to do anything sexually I don't want to do though.
I refuse to fake things if I'm not feeling it.

It sucks because you have to take their needs into consideration. Kinda weird how things change compared to being a teenager. Well obviously hormonal changes.

I'd be down with a vibrator daily and then actual sex a few times a month. But that vibrator performs better than any man...it's like I don't need some guy for sex unless I'm getting paid. I only want a guy for emotional connection now.

carmen_b
01-25-2021, 09:36 PM
^ In any phase where I don't feel " forward motion " relationship wise I get more sexually low key also.

Oddly one thing that also throws my groove off lately is probably not being a stripper.
I obviously have more time to myself and time for my partner but there is a catch . My partner can be somewhat stingy with looks related compliments ( I have already told him about this and he is working on it ) . If I was getting in full stripper swagger awesomeness on a reg. basis ( even popping in just every 2-3 weeks for a night ) it kind of FIRES my groove up. I kind of shamelessly enjoy the compliment bombs that accompany this job !!

baer45
01-25-2021, 10:11 PM
I just came back from the police station. My car was parked on the street before 5pm and it's gone after dinner. I called the police station, they told me there was an accident. My car was damaged and they are writing the police report. But what pissed me off was, no one bothered tocall me. I have to find it out myself.

carmen_b
01-25-2021, 10:12 PM
Ugh !!! :( ^^^

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2021, 05:54 AM
It sucks because you have to take their needs into consideration. Kinda weird how things change compared to being a teenager. Well obviously hormonal changes.

I'd be down with a vibrator daily and then actual sex a few times a month. But that vibrator performs better than any man...it's like I don't need some guy for sex unless I'm getting paid. I only want a guy for emotional connection now.

Same.

I’d be cool with a vibrator once a week. I told him I’m cool with sex once a month.

His ass started acting like a sex crazed maniac talking about some “I don’t know what I’d do if I only had sex once a month”

L didn’t understand why I like to use a vibrator when he is available for sex. I told him my vibrator never gets tired like you do. Lol! Plus he doesn’t take directions well. I had to tell him several times that I like my clit stimulated. He proceeds to go into this long diatribe about how “none of the women I’ve been with had this problem” in attempt to absolve himself from blame of the fact that his sex skills are mediocre at best. He later admits he doesn’t even know where the clit is. Like bruh wtf?!?

I also told him that his hands are too rough to touch me there. He picks at his hands constantly (I think he may have anxiety or something n needs some fidget toy) and he washes dishes manually with harsh dish soap so his hands stay dry and scaly. He said he’d work on it (he got a manicure ONCE, then SOMETIMES will put on lotion right before sex if I say something) which taking care of your body is a daily thing not when I nag about it. I told him his hands were too rough to touch me. First he’s like just tell me And I can put lotion on. Now He’s like ‘no they’re not. I don’t need lotion. *I* don’t feel anything’ in my mind I’m like stop gaslighting! Your hands are white n ashy and how about you caress your dick head with those crusty hands then let me know how that feels. You’re not laying those alligator hands near my body.

Like if simple lotioning your hands could guarantee sex and you refuse to do it. You’re an idiot.

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2021, 06:16 AM
^ but yeah. My point is it’s hard for me to take the guys need for sex multiple times a week. I don’t even think it’s a need. It’s just men are needy. Sex is a want. No one is going to die without it. But men are like whiny babies and act like tantruming toddlers if they can’t get sex.

I do miss the teen phase when we could just enjoy each other’s company without having to be obligated to being poked n stabbed with their member multiple times a week.

Maybe my hormones are low or maybe my mindset about men n sex is jacked (like if they expect sex 3 times a week I should be able to expect some money 3 times a week as well) cause I have zero interest in sex rn

carmen_b
01-26-2021, 08:46 AM
^ K here is the thing.

He is YOUR lover. I doesn’t matter if you needed the back of your knee stimulated to get off !
THAT ( whatever gets you there ) is what he should be doing.
He is choosing to not get you there.

carmen_b
01-26-2021, 08:49 AM
If a dude can’t find a clit he might as well be invisible .

What ? Did you hear a faint voice?
*I* don’t see ANYTHING . hahaha

whirlerz
01-26-2021, 09:39 AM
I couldn't get out if my driveway, from rhe snow
Of course, no one could be arsed to do anything..

There's 2 bags of salt, shovels etc.
Also, the little twerp pervo, saw me struggling, & goes,"get a 4 x 4?!
I told him to never.ask. me anything, EVER, so when he floods the circuit, he & whoever can sit there in rhe dark til hell freezes over..

He then tells me I didn't ask him?? Oh so I have to kiss ur ass, you fuckin' SEE me struggling!:O
"Oh not my problem".
>:(
ok, twerp, wait

I also got splattered, twice, by passing car/truck>:(

whirlerz
01-26-2021, 09:40 AM
If a dude can’t find a clit he might as well be invisible .

What ? Did you hear a faint voice?
*I* don’t see ANYTHING . hahaha

Ooh, totally using this, !!

indiegirl
01-26-2021, 10:23 AM
^ but yeah. My point is it’s hard for me to take the guys need for sex multiple times a week. I don’t even think it’s a need. It’s just men are needy. Sex is a want. No one is going to die without it. But men are like whiny babies and act like tantruming toddlers if they can’t get sex.

I do miss the teen phase when we could just enjoy each other’s company without having to be obligated to being poked n stabbed with their member multiple times a week.

Maybe my hormones are low or maybe my mindset about men n sex is jacked (like if they expect sex 3 times a week I should be able to expect some money 3 times a week as well) cause I have zero interest in sex rn

Lol I remember it took my ex-doctor (obvious not a customer or I would've faked it) close to 20 minutes to finally get me off. He pulled the "have you cum?" Which in translation is the "I'm tired of this." I'm used to pulling that on older men with ED.
Kept thinking we could've wrapped this up in 2 minutes if I had my vibrator. But at a Deja Vu, I allowed some guy to play with me during a dance. It kinda just happened.. I felt so bad but I was on the verge of cumming (nobody has ever done it that quickly like him and a dancer walked by. LOL. Happened when I was like 22-23?

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2021, 10:27 AM
^ K here is the thing.

He is YOUR lover. I doesn’t matter if you needed the back of your knee stimulated to get off !
THAT ( whatever gets you there ) is what he should be doing.
He is choosing to not get you there.

yeah that’s what pissed me off

when he realized I don’t/rarely have orgasms during partnered sex, rather than explore n learn, he sat there trying to compare me to his oh so large stable of 3 broads who came from penetration, acted like I was some anomaly and he was some sex god, tried to tell me I needed to go to the doctor, and just turned his nose up at anything other than plain ass boring ass sex.

Like bruh if I tell you what *I* need to get off and you hem n haw cause it’s not the way you fucked your last 3 Bertha broads then just go fuck those broads then.

indiegirl
01-26-2021, 10:28 AM
yeah that’s what pissed me off

when he realized I don’t/rarely have orgasms during partnered sex, rather than explore n learn, he sat there trying to compare me to his oh so large stable of 3 broads who came from penetration, acted like I was some anomaly and he was some sex god, tried to tell me I needed to go to the doctor, and just turned his nose up at anything other than plain ass boring ass sex.

Like bruh if I tell you what *I* need to get off and you hem n haw cause it’s not the way you fucked your last 3 Bertha broads then just go fuck those broads then.

Hahaha telling you that you needed to see a doctor. LOL

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2021, 10:30 AM
Lol I remember it took my ex-doctor (obvious not a customer or I would've faked it) close to 20 minutes to finally get me off. He pulled the "have you cum?" Which in translation is the "I'm tired of this." I'm used to pulling that on older men with ED.
Kept thinking we could've wrapped this up in 2 minutes if I had my vibrator. But at a Deja Vu, I allowed some guy to play with me during a dance. It kinda just happened.. I felt so bad but I was on the verge of cumming (nobody has ever done it that quickly like him and a dancer walked by. LOL. Happened when I was like 22-23?


Exactly!!!!!

Lol @ did you cum.

Like if you even have to ask....that is your answer.

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2021, 10:32 AM
Hahaha telling you that you needed to see a doctor. LOL

LOL!!! Meanwhile I’m spending the evening with my vibrator.

I’ll go to the doctor alright, bring L’s ass along, and force the doc to explain female anatomy to his ass

indiegirl
01-26-2021, 10:37 AM
LOL!!! Meanwhile I’m spending the evening with my vibrator.

I’ll go to the doctor alright, bring L’s ass along, and force the doc to explain female anatomy to his ass

Hahaha. Explain it's him! Is he down to use toys with you?

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2021, 10:37 AM
Lol I remember it took my ex-doctor (obvious not a customer or I would've faked it) close to 20 minutes to finally get me off. He pulled the "have you cum?" Which in translation is the "I'm tired of this." I'm used to pulling that on older men with ED.
Kept thinking we could've wrapped this up in 2 minutes if I had my vibrator. But at a Deja Vu, I allowed some guy to play with me during a dance. It kinda just happened.. I felt so bad but I was on the verge of cumming (nobody has ever done it that quickly like him and a dancer walked by. LOL. Happened when I was like 22-23?

thats also where I have questions

the times I had orgasmic experiences where when I was doing something taboo ex. When I had a technically one night stand of letting this guy give me the best oral sex I’ve had in my life, when I let my married coworker eat my pussy, and the extra rare time I was grinding on this guy (I had thin shorts) at the strip club and he was squeezing my ass just right

so yeah.

i May have a sex addiction or something - where I can only get off in taboo risqué situations.

I even told L my fetishes and his ass was like “yeah we will do that later” but first you need to come from this plain boring sex

carmen_b
01-26-2021, 10:43 AM
Men who don’t get women off are good to ignore.

Then make fun of later with your girlfriends .

indiegirl
01-26-2021, 11:08 AM
thats also where I have questions

the times I had orgasmic experiences where when I was doing something taboo ex. When I had a technically one night stand of letting this guy give me the best oral sex I’ve had in my life, when I let my married coworker eat my pussy, and the extra rare time I was grinding on this guy (I had thin shorts) at the strip club and he was squeezing my ass just right

so yeah.

i May have a sex addiction or something - where I can only get off in taboo risqué situations.

I even told L my fetishes and his ass was like “yeah we will do that later” but first you need to come from this plain boring sex

"From this plain boring sex" hahaha.

Yes new experiences always make it hotter! You're so right about taboo sex. Spicing things up makes it so hot. I don't get the whole costume thing but different experiences sounds fun.

Aurora_Sunset
01-26-2021, 11:16 AM
I have such high anxiety trying to unpack today. I thought I would feel better after everything was moved but I don’t. The cleaners were 2 hours late dropping off our stuff yesterday and then forgot to bring our electronics so we waited another 3 hours for them to come back, which seriously hindered the rest of our day and trying to get some things unpacked. I’m glad I didn’t have to pack or move much, but now I’m realizing that not knowing where anything was packed is seriously messing me up. And EVERYTHING is wrapped in ungodly amounts of plastic. I’ve spent half my day so far just trying to unwrap clothes.

As I keep going through everything, I also keep adding to the list in my head of things we need for the new place. Luckily, the insurance money finally hit so we have some extra cash to go get what we need, but I’m so done. I just want this all over with.

carmen_b
01-26-2021, 11:45 AM
Miss P : If you REALLY want to try to circle this with him ( and I don't know if I would despite his emotional capacity ) you can ASK him how he would feel about only getting his thighs, balls , first 1/2 inch or so or his dick touched. If you left the top half of his dick out entirely that is the only way to duplicate the experience for him ! Just tell him no clit touching = you will not be touching the top half of his dick EVER in any way!

Like ...... THAT is the womans experience if the clit is not involved . This isn't the latest breaking news either. This information has been around for years.
You can explain that your clit is the top half of " your " dick lol. Maybe not in that language hahahaha.

indiegirl
01-26-2021, 12:00 PM
I have been banned from TER. LOLLLLLLL They were not happy with my choice. I did nothing to deserve it. This was planned out shit from men with an ego. I'm not gonna sit here and act like I'm a fucking DV woman. I'm thinking of disputing it with the credit card company. Being that bitch. They act like they have provided me funds this year and like I should salute them. Not 1 cent came from your stupid site!!!! Help me or don't!!! We all need money.

They didn't like my choice of not merging accounts.

OH so we're just gonna merge a bunch of cheap asses? RIGHT? One was upset he didn't get BBFS from another girl he poorly rated. Guess what that means....I'm gonna have a shit review. I am ready for heroin at this point. FUCK YOU men.

Lie down and being treated like crap. How unfair! Like I'm a bad person. These men try to torture and shut everything down for me until I'm in a damn tent in LA....FOR how LONG do I have to tolerate this!?!!
I am here for money. Jesus fucking christ.

This is my full time job. These guys love to fuck my life up even more. Can't wait till I get a nursing job. I'm so pissed off and exhausted from these guys and their BS.