View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
JGB2009
02-02-2021, 06:17 AM
I have a cold that I caught from my daughter. Because I am sick I didn't work last night. Ugh!!!
ravenskyy
02-02-2021, 07:35 AM
I can't get my 2 month old on a schedule. He doesn't sleep at night, he takes short 20-30 minute naps during the day. I need to work! I was supposed to start working 3 weeks ago!!! I have bills that need paid, but I can't get away from this freaking baby!!!! :irked: :banghead:
And I can't do daycare because I don't trust anyone to take care of him like I do. He is needy asf and my sons daycare provider has 5 boys already. She claims to have time for a baby but I know she really just wants more money. I'm not an idiot. I don't want him to get neglected and I definitely don't want the other kids trying to grab at him or hurt him. I already have to protect him from his own brother. :headache:
I've never wanted to cam so badly in my life.
LoveyDovey
02-02-2021, 10:28 AM
So we can't do laundry here Because it cost too much And the house manager is applying for utility relief, but it's perfectly fine and okay to leave the bathroom light and fan on Running indefinitely. I just can't with this place anymore I swear to God I'm so glad I'm almost out
whirlerz
02-02-2021, 10:35 AM
I have a nasty cold sore, it's healing but ugh.
From all the stress of my former wah.
Waiting on my sm check today, (hopefully).
chanzep
02-02-2021, 10:48 AM
By is this stupid job sending me a webcam. I'm not using that shit. I will probably get let go of soon anyway. I should care but I dont. My mouth was bleeding last night . I seen to sleep in 2 hour slots ugh.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-02-2021, 11:55 AM
Petty annoyed by how many people at my day job were irritable and odd-behaving. Is there something in the water? UGH!!!
Selina M
02-02-2021, 12:51 PM
Aurora - check out Menard or Home Depot, they may not have the look you like, (but mostly covered up by the books?)
Or, yeah go the pre-owned route, I got a great folding bookcase that someone didn't want.. It was originally from World Market!
@Selena: that's Way Ballsy to ask for returns, + F all that other shit too!
Reply within a reply :D
Aurora - do you guys have an Ikea?
I'm surprised Target didn't have anything. We have 3 bookshelves from them and they've held up well under massive amounts of books, IIRC they were like $30-50 each.
Whirlerz - yeah I know for real! It's whack. I gave them one blacked out W2 for my vanilla work. Watch them complain because it's issued from a parent company & not what the place operates as. I literally couldn't verify my self-employment if I wanted to because they want tax documents *completed by a 3rd party and signed*... I do my own taxes... and I'm not giving them an IRS transcript either :shrug:
whirlerz
02-02-2021, 01:17 PM
By is this stupid job sending me a webcam. I'm not using that shit. I will probably get let go of soon anyway. I should care but I dont. My mouth was bleeding last night . I seen to sleep in 2 hour slots ugh.
Aw. Take care of yourself hon!
Do you hace some gauze? Have a nice, beef broth & veggie soup, I used to get this Asian soup w/thick noodles, have a nice smoothie, and or some tasty Greek yogurt!
Petty annoyed by how many people at my day job were irritable and odd-behaving. Is there something in the water? UGH!!!
It's winter.
Reply within a reply :D
Aurora - do you guys have an Ikea?
I'm surprised Target didn't have anything. We have 3 bookshelves from them and they've held up well under massive amounts of books, IIRC they were like $30-50 each.
I was going to suggest Ikea too.
Whirlerz - yeah I know for real! It's whack. I gave them one blacked out W2 for my vanilla work. Watch them complain because it's issued from a parent company & not what the place operates as. I literally couldn't verify my self-employment if I wanted to because they want tax documents *completed by a 3rd party and signed*... I do my own taxes... and I'm not giving them an IRS transcript either :shrug:
That's way up in your biz, sounds like you handled it well ^
:)
WendiStarr
02-02-2021, 01:25 PM
Vanilla job fucked up my pay by $65( invoice shows $65 less than it should). I hate this crap of "someone will look into it. Wait until blah blah". Screw that! I'm not giving them any more hours of work until they fix their mistake.
LoveyDovey
02-02-2021, 01:38 PM
^^ These vanilla folks do not understand that when it comes tie money, we strippers will not allow them to get away with shit.
whirlerz
02-02-2021, 01:40 PM
Wendi, I think this place that canned me did the same..
Less time tho, but stiil.
F'N pickers!
indiegirl
02-02-2021, 05:50 PM
After doing the nursing school interview in Irvine for an hour and a half they told me no because of my background check but now they just randomly decided to call me up about working with me and seeing what they could do to help???? UMMMMM......what's there to help? You guys denied me and were the most expensive out of all the schools. I can't do anything until the end of march in court.
Plus this is the school that has access to clinicals. I'm not brave enough to head myself into a hospital with covid patients still out there. Haven't decided what to do or to even call them back? I Got my fill of fear mongering this morning watching the news and all they talked about was Covid lol.
chanzep
02-02-2021, 06:27 PM
[email protected] Wendi they are Assholes .
whirlerz
02-03-2021, 10:21 AM
So..
The POS WAH that canned me, emailed me asking for referrals for the position??>:(
Got it..
I told her don't ever contact me again!
Clueless fucks.
After a time share idiot calls me after calling me yesterday, at which time I asked to be removed, said I've never had one!
Then, he proceeds to ask me if I want to hear travel specials..
Must be related to the clueless fucks I live with!
chanzep
02-03-2021, 07:19 PM
Omg they are crazy.
whirlerz
02-04-2021, 07:08 AM
Omg they are crazy.
WAIT!
So, this morning this ASSHOLE knocked on my door, loudly & tells me to reset the circuits!
I. Was. Pissed! I had given him a note, telling him NOT to knock at all hours, & to leave me a note.
I also threatened to call sheriff.. I don't really want to, that's not their place to get involved, & it's petty..
Well, I heard him on the phone, sounded like he was calling the landlord.. He then left, I assumed for work (he works all weird hours) I decided to turn everything back on, I had to do it 3.TIMES!
Meanwhile, the one decent guy brought back dumpsters, so I texted him thanks, he texted me back, the PIG CALLED SHERIFF ON Me, or the situation, or both?
This cool guy knew the Sheriff, he told him the idiot left out, & he (Sheriff) should leave, which he did.
Now, the asshole came back, I'm sure he's all happy he got his way, little 4'9 offender
Meanwhile, the dirty dishes from last week still sit in the sink, w/new dirty one added?!
Bottom line, LL doesn't GAF. Nor does maintenance guy. Nor anyone else
So I have to deal with this.
Waiting for services to c
all me in the next 20 minutes about assistance.
Update Just talked to the assistance lady, she'll get back by tomorrow, hopefully.
whirlerz
02-04-2021, 09:21 AM
So..
The POS WAH that canned me, emailed me asking for referrals for the position??>:(
Got it..
I told her don't ever contact me again!
Clueless fucks.
Must be related to the clueless fucks I live with!
Sooo,
GLOATING over this, Bwaahaaha!
I just got sent, an email, from the WAH agency, to solicit me to work for them, lol, after 1. canning me, 2. asking me yesterday for a referral?
Left them a phone message, but also emailed a couple of their direct hire 'Big Guns' & told them to STOP. PESTERING. Me! I said it more 'official' tho.
I know that went over well!::)
Immediately, I got an emai saying I was removed, & wishing me well in my job search ::)
WendiStarr
02-04-2021, 11:05 AM
I'm aggravated by BD and that whole situation, as well as the high cost of childcare in my state. It would cost me more than I earn at my shitty vanilla job in a month to afford daycare for my super needy 1 year old. I've had this talk with him before about needing a babysitter for her when I'm working. I can't be taking calls from customers with a baby on my lap the whole time, pulling my headset off, pressing random buttons on my keyboard, or listening to her crying in the background. I need a goddamn break or he needs to pay a huge amount of child support so that I can afford a decent sitter. All these sitters want $60/day or more and daycares want $1400/month or more. I don't even earn that much with my shitty vanilla job right now! I miss sex work so bad! Things wouldn't be so difficult if things were back to normal.
carmen_b
02-04-2021, 11:13 AM
^ Can he pay for at least a helper for 4-6 hours a day?
carmen_b
02-04-2021, 11:15 AM
I just hate my life so much right now. :/
I'm just seeing all these " pain points " and it's hard not to be negative.
Two main ones are a boyfriend who won't live with me ( or schedule that at the 11 month together time frame -ish ) AND my business still operating at this sad 30-50% level. How do you not get DEPRESSED when you don't have 50%-70% ( or more ) of your income for 10 months ?
^ IF I figure it out I'll let everyone know !!
I HOPE my plans for the future are " real " but I am beginning to even have doubts of my business recovering by mid - March ( that was my " latest " type estimate 2-4 months ago ).
I seem to KEEP forgetting the world is STILL in a state of emergency and every day feel like failing!
carmen_b
02-04-2021, 11:37 AM
It might just be time to accept debt accumulation as part of my current life. :(
I had a plan 12 months ago to pay off 6k in past due taxes and 6k in credit cards ( the LAST of my debts ). I was SO EXCITED to finally reach this point in personal finance after student loans ect.
^ Both have barely been touched.
I shouldn't get into hard core self loathing over $12,000 .
Obviously I need to stop fighting with my bf over what amounts to $500 a month .
Logicially I know it isn't worth a constant fight.
It's just *more* than that. I'm not sure he GETS it .
When my business recovers he will KNOW and I will KNOW that he did very little to really help.
I really hope UnEmployment comes through for me for Jan and Feb.
I am just so horrified at the idea of asking my family for any help ( they would I just have too much pride even taking a personal loan from them ).
carmen_b
02-04-2021, 11:46 AM
I've got to do what I always do when I feel like garbage.
Self Care like my life depends on it ! If you feel like crap YOU do it too !!!!
Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2021, 03:59 PM
Reply within a reply :D
Aurora - do you guys have an Ikea?
I'm surprised Target didn't have anything. We have 3 bookshelves from them and they've held up well under massive amounts of books, IIRC they were like $30-50 each.
Whirlerz - yeah I know for real! It's whack. I gave them one blacked out W2 for my vanilla work. Watch them complain because it's issued from a parent company & not what the place operates as. I literally couldn't verify my self-employment if I wanted to because they want tax documents *completed by a 3rd party and signed*... I do my own taxes... and I'm not giving them an IRS transcript either :shrug:
We do have an Ikea, and got a good bookcase from there last year, but I'm personally boycotting that store because of the shitty way they handled a complaint I had last time we were there. Target should have stuff - they were just completely out. I could see the spots where there should be shelves, but there weren't any. And even then, the selection was slim. I don't know if they will restock in a timely manner, or if they're one of those things that are on constant backorder these days.
Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2021, 04:02 PM
I swear I've ripped open and pawed through every box that is left to be unpacked, and I cannot find my 8lb hand weights. Which is cool, since those are the ones I use most often... -_-
carmen_b
02-05-2021, 09:58 AM
I feel like I'm turning a corner on feeling like hell.
We have our counseling appt. today.
I did a massage a couple days ago and will probably do a wash / style at the beauty school today.
I should have started J on my more " conscious intention " type of relationship approach much earlier. I explained the concept more clearly yesterday and I think he " gets " it. As it sits maybe I can calm down a bit . I have a nice life here at his place around 5 days a week and while it's annoying ( both in terms of logistics AND finance ) I guess I can rent that room a little longer to keep peace with him. I hope he approves a move in type time frame for me at 11 months together ( end of this month ) which is the hybrid type living arrangement I offered ( where I was still go 1-2 days a week to the AirBnB's IF I had vacancy which would be often). I just feel strongly that waiting any more ( such as a year ) is overly excessive. I'm open to seeing what this counselor says as well.
IF he doesn't feel comfy with creating a home together I'd really like to know sooner than later.
I'd rather start the beginnings of something new than continue to wait.
I'll just try to check in with myself and I'm really feeling unhappy with anything I'll speak up.
If I can't take it anymore then I just can't.
I just don't want to get trapped in that thing you see with women where the guy is always stalling for more " time " ( investing minimally with her ).
JGB2009
02-06-2021, 08:14 AM
I went to pick up my groceries from Walmart yesterday and when I got home I seen I had $26 worth of food missing. It will take 3-5 business days to get my refund. Walmart sucks.
chanzep
02-06-2021, 11:48 AM
They can't replace the food?. They should offer. I would call back.
chanzep
02-06-2021, 11:51 AM
My toe is still hurting from the other day. I been advised to wear toe wrap.
WendiStarr
02-06-2021, 07:25 PM
I had cramps and spotting earlier, felt relieved thinking that my period was finally here(it's over 2 weeks late) . An hour later it stopped and hasn't returned all day. I bet it's waiting until I'm asleep to hit me full force.
LoveyDovey
02-06-2021, 08:47 PM
Landlords who are irresponsible suck.
indiegirl
02-07-2021, 07:40 AM
I'm on day 2 of having the Doug theme song in my head for no reason. No idea why. Lord have mercy lol.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d3o_WBboezw
Aurora_Sunset
02-07-2021, 08:17 AM
I hate that the kids' bio-mom uses the word "ninnies" as the "kid word" for breasts. When they first started coming over, the 3-yo at the time was still breast-feeding and would throw tantrums about wanting "ninny milk." Now we have 2 kids who wander around saying "ninnies and hoo-ha" all the time. Ugh... it's just... gross. Why can't we just teach kids to say "breasts" and "genitals?"
On a more serious note, I find it highly irritating that she's constantly bitching about what we "allow them to consume" over here, in terms of kids' youtube videos, and she threw a fucking fit about the almost 9-yo playing frikin' Plants vs. Zombies? Yet, every time they come over, they're running around cracking jokes about strippers and Carole Baskin because they watch TikTok videos with their mom... Cuz that's kid appropriate content. ::)
StellaRose
02-07-2021, 08:33 AM
Did somebody really complain that using a google search often sucks for him? Really? Learn how to type on search engines instead of typing on message boards for strippers. It’s a basic life skill.
...sorry if that was catty. Couldn’t help it
LoveyDovey
02-07-2021, 09:10 AM
I hate that the kids' bio-mom uses the word "ninnies" as the "kid word" for breasts. When they first started coming over, the 3-yo at the time was still breast-feeding and would throw tantrums about wanting "ninny milk." Now we have 2 kids who wander around saying "ninnies and hoo-ha" all the time. Ugh... it's just... gross. Why can't we just teach kids to say "breasts" and "genitals?"
On a more serious note, I find it highly irritating that she's constantly bitching about what we "allow them to consume" over here, in terms of kids' youtube videos, and she threw a fucking fit about the almost 9-yo playing frikin' Plants vs. Zombies? Yet, every time they come over, they're running around cracking jokes about strippers and Carole Baskin because they watch TikTok videos with their mom... Cuz that's kid appropriate content. ::)
That is gross, not to mention annoying. Why can't we just call our body parts what they are? I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Baby mamas suck. When my ex had a girlfriend, I was nice to her, even bought her a gift card to Barnes & Noble for Christmas because my kid told me that she liked to read. I wanted him to see how women were supposed to behave, and she was very good to my son. I don't understand why baby mamas have to act all uppity with the ex's girlfriend. I figured if I'm nice to my ex's -girlfriend, she'll treat my son well. And she did. I really appreciated her being around. Then I think she figured out my ex like I did and bailed lol good for her.
indiegirl
02-07-2021, 01:20 PM
Ugh I just found out today is the Super Bowl. That means it is not worth getting ready to work until late or at all. Irritated. Last Superbowl was dead AF
LoveyDovey
02-07-2021, 11:40 PM
So because the house "manager/landlord" has trouble making it a priority to give his tenants receipts that he has a legal responsibility to provide, I had to go out of my way and buy a receipt book and write my own damn receipts for him to read, date, and sign. I wrote him a note telling him to return them to me ASAP. He got them 2 hours ago AND STILL I DON'T have my receipts! Wtf is wrong with this guy? So fucking shady! ASAPmeans ASAP, but he thinks he can arrogantly just do things at his convenience. If I don't get them by tomorrow morning I am going to send him a text and tell him I need them NOW and if I am not home then just slide them under my door. I will tell him this is causing problems not just for me but for other people!
I also have screenshots of the civil code that states LLs must provide receipts upon request and I may include that for good measure.
He is acting like a total shade. I don't trust this guy.
Does anyone know how to file a formal complaint against a LL?
moneybags
02-08-2021, 12:21 AM
^^^Call HUD
indiegirl
02-08-2021, 04:42 AM
I hate that the kids' bio-mom uses the word "ninnies" as the "kid word" for breasts. When they first started coming over, the 3-yo at the time was still breast-feeding and would throw tantrums about wanting "ninny milk." Now we have 2 kids who wander around saying "ninnies and hoo-ha" all the time. Ugh... it's just... gross. Why can't we just teach kids to say "breasts" and "genitals?"
On a more serious note, I find it highly irritating that she's constantly bitching about what we "allow them to consume" over here, in terms of kids' youtube videos, and she threw a fucking fit about the almost 9-yo playing frikin' Plants vs. Zombies? Yet, every time they come over, they're running around cracking jokes about strippers and Carole Baskin because they watch TikTok videos with their mom... Cuz that's kid appropriate content. ::)
LOL!! My aunt would use the word tinkle instead of peeing/using the bathroom. "Do you need to tinkle?" with my cousin when he was a young kid the same age as me. Even as a kid I was thinking "What is a tinkle?" We pee in our house not tinkle haha.
whirlerz
02-08-2021, 05:54 AM
Well, I did it, actually took the full dumpster (1), + the full trash in kitchen, bathroom can needs emptying too. I didn't know how slippery it would be, not to mention wind chill/extreme cold. I'll run that out, w/my garbage, Eesh!
-2° btw>:(
Up camming too, since 12:30am
whirlerz
02-08-2021, 08:05 AM
Well, cause I do like the girl upstairs, we were talking about the electrical issues, she asked if she could text me, so I said ok..
She got stuck in parking lot, (always does)
She wanted me call LL, nope, not w/me behind..
I texted him tho.
Really, it's frozen solid, - 2° sooo.
We're in a rutted, gravel, deep incline driveway so it sucks normally, let alone now.
I went out w/the salt twice already, if my SM check comes I wanna cash it.
Travel advisory tho:-\
miss cleo
02-08-2021, 09:35 AM
Ive just spotted damp patches on my walls and ceiling think the chimney needs repointing and new flashing just what i need in the middle of a snow storm!
indiegirl
02-08-2021, 10:05 AM
It's a beautiful day to be threatened once again for not obeying the demands of my brother to pay the mortgage on the 5th. It is due the 16th for grace period. I have the money I haven't had the time to go to the bank. My mom "This is it! Something is going on." UMMMMMMM what's going on? I specifically said and confirmed the mortgage grace period is due on the 16th. Oh is this because I'm not following your rules like I'm a child?
LoveyDovey
02-08-2021, 10:13 AM
So I sent a text to LL saying that I needed my receipts signed and returned to me *now* because my future landlord wanted to see these receipts yesterday and the fact that he has still not provided them is holding things up and causing problems not just for me but for other people. I told him that people are getting irritated and that this is not okay as this is the fourth time this week I've had to ask him. Also sent him a screenshot of the civil code stating that he has to provide the receipts upon request. This is ridiculous. I'm tired of having to crack the whip. When he wanted my pay stubs for his utility assistance application, he wanted that right away, but when it comes to him doing his job and holding up his responsibilities, he can't be bothered. What the hell is wrong with this guy? Then he'll probably turn this around into me being the bitch. Um,noooo, I'm not the one causing the problem here. JFC the incompetence and inconsideration is real!!!
whirlerz
02-08-2021, 10:43 AM
So, just now the one roomy mentioned about garbage bags.. The LL supplies, (dishwashing liquid too).
The maintenance guy beings it.. I said he wasn't too happy I texted him about the snow plowing (@ girl upstairs request)::)
He said, someone needs to go out & spread salt around (which, btw, I've already done twice) ! >:(
I said, "I already: took out kitchen ("I rarely use it) & their bath room trash, took the full dumpster, called LL for snow plowing ", W.T.F>:(
Oh yeah, I get the mail too::)
Yeah, I'm dumb:(::)
Edit @ least the girl texted me TY.
indiegirl
02-08-2021, 11:25 AM
My mom talked about my brother needing "peace of mind" for his preference the mortgage would be paid on time despite the grace period. He makes 175k a year. Peace of mind?! I sent her a photo of 7,600 dollars and said "I hope this helps his peace of mind. (sarcastically) Depositing it in a few hours."
She was quiet after that.
Then a massive fight occurred. "He's selling the house officially"
LOL. I love my family. So fun
whirlerz
02-08-2021, 12:02 PM
So now 'someone' (ME) just re-salted the parking lot.
Amazing how that works, huh? ::)
carmen_b
02-08-2021, 12:12 PM
Indie : What is your agreement with Bro ? Does he give you a deal but he is the full owner ?
Or are you 50/50 type owners ?
carmen_b
02-08-2021, 12:17 PM
I have lot to bitch about today.
Dressing rooms it seems are a thing of the past. Ill try not to launch into it but honestly ....... now I guess you can try on clothes at the damn store ? I'm going to the mall again in next 1-2 days for more recon on this. :(
Aurora_Sunset
02-08-2021, 01:05 PM
indie, I am wondering why the hell your MOM is the one always texting you about your brother's "preferences" and "disapproval" about how you handle the mortgage payment? If he was that concerned about it, wouldn't he text you himself?
Genoveve
02-08-2021, 01:32 PM
My pissy annoyance is how every time I am sleep-deprived and thus sleepy all damn day to the point of not being able to function, as soon as it nears bedtime all of the sudden my energy comes back and I'm not sleepy any more and still end up staying up too late as usual. Oh and I'm also annoyed that I cannot take naps; no matter how tired I am and how well I black out a room, if the sun is up my body is not falling asleep.