View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
02-24-2021, 12:49 PM
^ He will probably just clean it !
Good for you asking for receipt as proof of anything !
I did the same in Hawaii. I knew my couch damaged the carpet a BIT but i wanted exact specifics about what was done ( receipt and verification of replacement ) ! I think prop. managers sometimes think people just won't fight or ask or follow up.
So if you do ..... you can get fairness and save $.
LoveyDovey
02-24-2021, 01:11 PM
I told him receipts and photos of new carpet. Glad I took photos, videos, and got a signed statement saying the room was left in good condition. He just sucks so bad as a landlord. First he told our housemate (navy dude) to check me out for him, now he is denying it and calling me manipulative.That house was so toxic on so many levels. Glad I am in a better, safer, much cleaner place. The gals here are nice too.I bought the house some flowers yesterday for the kitchen. This place is awesome.
WendiStarr
02-24-2021, 01:14 PM
BD and his shitty attitude. He got all mad that baby started crying as soon as he picked her up. Baby has been with me 24/7 since birth. Of course she's attached to and favors me more. Not only that but when he's sober he has an awful temper and yells about every little thing. He acts as if I'm somehow making her hate him. She's 1 year old for gosh sake! I've been with her 24/7 and he hasn't so she recognizes who her primary caregiver/safe person is but her mind doesn't know how to hate yet. I can't stand when he picks fights with me over this. Right before this he was pissing and moaning about some stupid motorcycle sex party he wanted to go to but couldn't because it would cost him too much to lug his motorcycle out there.
LoveyDovey
02-24-2021, 01:59 PM
So now dickwad says he wants to charge me for repainting the walls.
I lived there for six months.
I hung nothing on the walls.
They are in good shape, the same shape as I moved in.
Wtf??
My guess is that the place is such a dirty shithole, he is having a hard time renting out the room (which was clean when I left) so he is trying to steal my security deposit
He can't do this. I told him if he charges me for anything above and beyond carpet cleaning, I will take him to court.
indiegirl
02-25-2021, 03:43 PM
Had to miss my appointment for my car device removal because my fob key stopped working and I am locked out of my car :(. I have no keyhole on any of the doors or extra fob/set of keys. So I decided to work today instead and head to the dealership for my key on the way to the hotel.
I was sitting with all my bags on the grass annoyed because the woman picking me up was 12 minutes away and we took another 7 minutes to find each other because the gps sent her to the bank instead barely speaking english. I'm now super comfy though lol.
Genoveve
02-26-2021, 11:38 AM
I think 'Target' is Raziel's newest account. I notice Raziel has been missing for once, and now this new dude is posting extremely lengthily like Raziel did. They even use parentheses the same and he's saying crap like this:
It’s a real post.. I assume my actions are going to be scrutinised as they should and need to be.
which is the same kind of crap Raziel would say under his accounts. Also the "It's a real post" is too funny. Interesting too how Raziel, who likes to vomit under every post, is suspiciously completely absent from this one. For now anyway.
Every time he doesn't get enough interaction on here he comes up with a new account and story to get people interacting with him. And we're really supposed to buy all the crap about how he's a big spender and going to the ballet LOL, and yet he still wants people to believe he's a professional fiction writer.
whirlerz
02-26-2021, 12:11 PM
Indie, my car's like that too!
Hate that shit.
Well, now I can't find my f'n glasses/case, I know I had 'em last in my car...looked in there, nope also pockets/purse etc.
This crappy pt job is stressing me out, along w/landlord situation, have to see him tomorrow, unless I bolt out
indiegirl
02-26-2021, 12:22 PM
Indie, my car's like that too!
Hate that shit.
Well, now I can't find my f'n glasses/case, I know I had 'em last in my car...looked in there, nope also pockets/purse etc.
This crappy pt job is stressing me out, along w/landlord situation, have to see him tomorrow, unless I bolt out
I don't understand why they can't install an alternative method (basic key) on the doors in case of an emergency. One time I was going to my car after working at a strip club and my fob key completely stopped working. I had to have my manager uber me roundtrip to get my last fob key at my house (my phone lost power after my shift).
It's so infuriating.
Lol the worst is when you can't find something and then you buy another one to replace it...then it miraculously shows up. Hahaha
whirlerz
02-26-2021, 01:14 PM
Then, these IDIOTS here go to food pantries, there's now 6.fucking.gallons of milk, in fridge , theres so many of us sharing it already, so yeah lets cram it full of stuff no one will uses, so it all goes to waste!
indiegirl
02-27-2021, 08:44 AM
I have to spend 400 bucks on a new fob key and have my car towed to the dealership to program it *eyeroll*.....The dealership replaced the batteries on the fob and it still is not working. I'm so pissed off. I hate spending money on things I don't want to.
Luckily the device removal place was super nice and didn't charge me 50 bucks for rescheduling...prolly because I sounded stressed and very apologetic over the phone for having to reschedule.
indiegirl
02-27-2021, 10:21 AM
I'm going home for a few hours. I'm over sitting here for nobody. Only one appointment and responding to bullshittery is exhausting in a 24 hour time frame. They act like my rate is so overwhelmingly expensive when some girls are charging in the grand level. I am so annoyed by it. One guy yesterday decided to cancel because he didn't want to pay 40 extra dollars and haggled me. In my head: GIRLLLL what!?
Update: This fineeeee ass firefighter working lyft picked me up at the hotel and had the prettiest eyes. His first question "Are you coming back home from work?" LOL. We shared some stories. Guess I'm not that upset.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-27-2021, 12:30 PM
Petty annoyed by my addiction to caffeine. I know it's not good for me but I need it to deal with my fatigue from my autoimmune issues.
whirlerz
02-27-2021, 12:34 PM
Well, jerk landlord comes every week for $ (we pay weekly) normally I don't care, but I want to cam til this evening ..
he knocks first, but then walks right in, I left him a note..I also tacked up a sheet, & put a chair against it, he can get to the note w/o moving it.
Ugh, just makes me nervous, knowing he can walk in, I was camming in bathroom, but too cramped, in there.
Genoveve
02-27-2021, 12:48 PM
Over the last 4ish weeks I cut down my caffeine intake down to a marginal amount; I went from probably having at LEAST 500-600mg a day of caffeine a day to now under 40, but last night my friend gave me an Allegra-D for my stuffy nose and omg. My tolerance for stimulants is so low now that it basically made me tweak all night. I didn't sleep. I used to take those and nothing would happen.
lurkingtitties
02-27-2021, 03:25 PM
I think 'Target' is Raziel's newest account. I notice Raziel has been missing for once, and now this new dude is posting extremely lengthily like Raziel did. They even use parentheses the same and he's saying crap like this:
which is the same kind of crap Raziel would say under his accounts. Also the "It's a real post" is too funny. Interesting too how Raziel, who likes to vomit under every post, is suspiciously completely absent from this one. For now anyway.
Every time he doesn't get enough interaction on here he comes up with a new account and story to get people interacting with him. And we're really supposed to buy all the crap about how he's a big spender and going to the ballet LOL, and yet he still wants people to believe he's a professional fiction writer.
Plus the fact that mellowmutt showed up in that thread...
Genoveve
02-27-2021, 03:59 PM
It’s literally him talking to himself between three accounts. Again. He needs serious professional help, what would even cause someone to do this? Repeatedly??
indiegirl
02-27-2021, 04:28 PM
Plus the fact that mellowmutt showed up in that thread...
I was wondering why I wasn't seeing his blocked post notifications lately lol!
Reminds me of blocking this asian guy recently in my phone and he used another phone number to contact me on hahahaha. Take the hint.
Edit: Just saw the post about the ballet. BAHAHA. I honestly believe he is a fictional writer now...he's practicing his skills on Stripperweb.
lynn2009
02-27-2021, 07:16 PM
I really need people to stop treating me like a fucking charity case. I've been seeing Derek's friend often since I moved back and he helped me a lot with the house so far. He texted me about how he misses seeing friends and family and I said covid barely changed anything for me and he says "that makes me sad" and I told him I don't have a problem with my life and if he does he needs to shut the fuck up and save the pity parties for himself. And I know everyone thinks I'm pathetic and going to die alone and I do NOT care. I legitimately don't have a problem with my life and if anyone does I don't want to hear about it. Jesus. He's gotten butthurt about me not wanting to date before and called me a cold person as it that would be news to me, so I am extra fed up with this attitude from him.
indiegirl
02-27-2021, 08:14 PM
I really need people to stop treating me like a fucking charity case. I've been seeing Derek's friend often since I moved back and he helped me a lot with the house so far. He texted me about how he misses seeing friends and family and I said covid barely changed anything for me and he says "that makes me sad" and I told him I don't have a problem with my life and if he does he needs to shut the fuck up and save the pity parties for himself. And I know everyone thinks I'm pathetic and going to die alone and I do NOT care. I legitimately don't have a problem with my life and if anyone does I don't want to hear about it. Jesus. He's gotten butthurt about me not wanting to date before and called me a cold person as it that would be news to me, so I am extra fed up with this attitude from him.
I feel the same way when people think something is sad about your life when it isn't like everyone elses.
"Awww why are you single?"
Or some customers: "You watch porn? Why? you're so pretty though?"
indiegirl
02-27-2021, 08:43 PM
Lord have mercy. I have this Russian driver in his 70's and he won’t stop talking about politics. I’m trying to figure out what set him off. Lolllll. I’m just in the back of the car nodding my head in agreement. He drove on the opposite side of the road towards oncoming traffic because he missed the hotel and told me to enjoy my youth and to have lots of sex (girlll little does he know my job). BAHAHA. Weirdest driver this month.
I want that hot firefighter driver back right about now. Yum.
LoveyDovey
02-27-2021, 09:19 PM
Oh wow. So on the 24th, my ex LL texted me and told me that he was going to have to replace the carpet because the one in my room looked "really bad." I told him I left the room in good condition, even Navy guy signed a statement that the room was in good shape. The only thing needed was carpet cleaning. But LL kept saying he needed he needed to replace the carpet.
So I go on Craigslist today to find that low and behold, they are advertising my room, but the same carpet is in there, only they cleaned it! Everything in the photos was as I left it (I have photos to prove it) but the only thing different is that they cleaned the carpets. And here he is texting me the SAME DAY he posted the ad, telling me he was looking for new carpet because it was soooo bad. He is so busted. And stupid.
I haven't called him out on it yet because if he charges me for new carpeting, and doesn't have photos or receipts to back it up, I will take his ass to small claims and sue for 3x the amount of the security deposit. I now have proof that he lied to me.The carpets look fine in the craigslist ad, and he obviously thinks so too, otherwise he wouldn't have posted it! God he is such a lying manipulative Dick!!!
LoveyDovey
02-27-2021, 09:33 PM
For reference, here is a photo I took before I left. Ugh sorry it's upside down. My photos turned out darker but when I compare their photo with the other photos and videos I took, you can totally tell it's the same carpet. The one in the ad is not new.
He also sent me a text showing his hand, saying that he wasn't happy about me leaving. I told him he knew over 6 months ago that I would most likely be leaving around Dec-January , I gave him 32 days notice of my moving out, and it's his issue that he waited until now to start looking for a new housemate. Now he is pissy because he has to pay the rent on my room until someone new moves in, and he is trying to use my security deposit to cover it. I already called Fair Housing to file a report, and they are working with me.
indiegirl
02-27-2021, 09:59 PM
For reference, here is a photo I took before I left. Ugh sorry it's upside down. My photos turned out darker but when I compare their photo with the other photos and videos I took, you can totally tell it's the same carpet. The one in the ad is not new.
He also sent me a text showing his hand, saying that he wasn't happy about me leaving. I told him he knew over 6 months ago that I would most likely be leaving around Dec-January , I gave him 32 days notice of my moving out, and it's his issue that he waited until now to start looking for a new housemate. Now he is pissy because he has to pay the rent on my room until someone new moves in, and he is trying to use my security deposit to cover it. I already called Fair Housing to file a report, and they are working with me.
Doesn't hurt to go to small claims court over it. I have renters who scratch my bedroom furniture. My dresser is worth a LOT of money but shit happens. Goo gone or a professional can repair it when they leave. Not a total replacement. Some of these places are so greedy.
moneybags
02-27-2021, 11:13 PM
^^^They are greedy. I never get my deposit back. They nitpick till there’s nothing left
LoveyDovey
02-28-2021, 03:04 PM
Well the fact that I caught him Gaslighting me should tell the judge something. Also I can sue for breach warranty of of habitability due to mice, mice feces on the stove, the fact that they were cooking on a stove without cleaning up the feces first and no heater, and loud parties the LL threw consistently during covid. One of the neighbors told me they've had problems with that household for a long time, so I am going to have them give me a written statement. I can also sue for wrongful eviction (discrimination) and emotional distress due to emotional and narcissistic abuse (Gaslighting, lying, manipulation, calling me a problem as a way of avoiding having to deal with the real problem, etc.) My doctor upped my blood pressure meds and my therapist has it on record that I was voicing concern over the problems they were causing me. The folks at Fair Housing said i could sue for all the above, up to 10 grand. I have a feeling he is going to withhold my deposit to cover my share of the rent. (He is not the owner of the house. The LL lives there are sort of a house manager, and he pays the owner for rent. So because the LL failed to find a new tenant during my 32 day notice, he is trying to gouge my deposit as a way for covering my rent, even though I am no longer living there.)
I'm willing to part with $75 for carpet cleaning. That's it. Everything else was left the same as I found it. The carpets were not damaged beyond wear and tear and they didn't need replacing, just cleaning. Otherwise the LL wouldn't be advertising my room on craigslist right now.
I am hoping he fucks up completely and doesn't return my deposit by 3/15. Because then he will forfeit his rights to withhold any of my money at all.
carmen_b
02-28-2021, 03:56 PM
^ Was your lease month to month ? Or did you " end " your stay right at lease end such as 6 months ?
I ask because EITHER situation would legally make it so he CAN'T hold that deposit for the vacancy. If you gave proper notice ( didn't break a lease ) it is on him to find a replacement. It sounds like fair housing is helping you which is great. I have a feeling he will back down and give you the deposit back.
IF you broke your lease you can still fight this by showing the court all these chronic problems. ^^
moneybags
02-28-2021, 05:08 PM
Being charged for something I shouldn’t have been charged for.
I know it’s not a big deal and I’ll just talk to them tomorrow, but I’m under so much stress it really P’d me off when I saw the charge to my bank.
I now have a to do list that says “bullshit I have to deal with”. I’ll just put it on that list. Life is a never ending to do list.
LoveyDovey
02-28-2021, 07:51 PM
^ Was your lease month to month ? Or did you " end " your stay right at lease end such as 6 months ?
I ask because EITHER situation would legally make it so he CAN'T hold that deposit for the vacancy. If you gave proper notice ( didn't break a lease ) it is on him to find a replacement. It sounds like fair housing is helping you which is great. I have a feeling he will back down and give you the deposit back.
IF you broke your lease you can still fight this by showing the court all these chronic problems. ^^
It was a month to month lease. I told them when I signed the lease I would most likely be staying for about six months, but I signed a mo-to-mo agreement. I gave 32 days notice. They asked for 30.
Fair housing has been greatl
I made a burner email account and contacted him through the ad on craigslist. I posed as a dude.He answered all my questions except "how well was the room cleaned? BC my girlfriend has diabetes and is concerned about covid." He had no answer for that, which is telling. If it were a new carpet I am sure he would have mentioned that, but he said he wasn't sure & that "they didn't have any issues." Obviously he didn't want to say if the carpet was cleaned in the event it was really me asking , which it was. I am leaving it alone now. I don't even think they paid for carpet cleaning, BC the housemate who checked me out told me they had a steam cleaner they could use. But if they make deductions, I am asking for photos, an itemized list, and receipts. Thank you for reading, I know this is long winded but I am so stressed out. Fuck landlords who steal deposits.
moneybags
02-28-2021, 09:34 PM
^^^i don’t know if I mentioned this if I did sorry. If you visit the HUD website they might have free resources. They had free landlord help in my state to help renters deal with landlords.
https://www.hud.gov/topics/rental_assistance
LoveyDovey
02-28-2021, 09:44 PM
^^yes, I took your good advice and contacted the HUD. They pointed me in the direction of the Fair Housing people. The Fair Housing folks are assigning me an advisor and are going to help me prepare for small claims court.
I am actually hoping he holds on to my deposit until after the 15th because if he does, then he will have forfeited his right to make deductions. He is so stupid drunk and lazy he probably will hold onto it, unless he rents my room out by then. I do know they are now charging 400 for a deposit, and $900 for the room. So if it rents by the 15th, I will most likely get my deposit back. If not, he will probably keep it and then forfeit his right to make deductions, then I can sue his ass for up to 10 grand.(breach of warranty of habitability, emotional and physical distress.) I will do it too. He is being such a manipulative asshole. There are so many better places for less in the area now that I think he is going to have a difficult time.
moneybags
03-01-2021, 12:55 AM
^^^you're helping protect other people from his abuse too. Having a bad landlord is the worst!
xxxGothBarbie
03-01-2021, 01:18 AM
^ Ugh def one of THE main reasons I've stuck to living in hotels this long. I refuse to shell out a chunk of $ on a dam deposit only to never get it back. It happens alot from what I've been told. Deposits are BS & should be illegal IMO.
My current rant is not getting enough sleep last night bc these asshats next door to me were up really late talking & laughing all dam night keeping me awake. UGH!
whirlerz
03-01-2021, 03:09 AM
^ Ugh def one of THE main reasons I've stuck to living in hotels this long. I refuse to shell out a chunk of $ on a dam deposit only to never get it back. It happens alot from what I've been told. Deposits are BS & should be illegal IMO.
My current rant is not getting enough sleep last night bc these asshats next door to me were up really late talking & laughing all dam night keeping me awake. UGH!
Ooh, Thanks for this!^
I think I'm gonna start a landlord support thread..
LoveyDovey
03-01-2021, 06:27 AM
^ Ugh def one of THE main reasons I've stuck to living in hotels this long. I refuse to shell out a chunk of $ on a dam deposit only to never get it back. It happens alot from what I've been told. Deposits are BS & should be illegal IMO.
My current rant is not getting enough sleep last night bc these asshats next door to me were up really late talking & laughing all dam night keeping me awake. UGH!
Makes you wanna head for the hills, doesn't it? I so wanna buy a cabin in the mountains away from people!!!
Deposits suck. It would be one thing if I spilled wax or dye or burned a hole in the carpet, but it was just dirty from wear and tear. They cleaned the carpets and posted an ad for it on craigslist. Clearly it can't be worth withholding my deposit over if it is in marketable shape. I said they could charge me for carpet cleaning ($75 since it's a large room that they most likely cleaned themselves since the LL gave me no receipts) but that's it. No reason to charge me $200 like he was going to do. He is just being vindictive since I moved out and now he is responsible for covering the cost of the room since his ass was too lazy to find someone when I initially gave my notice.
The irony is, I just moved into a place where there are 4 other women and a cat. In an upscale neighborhood near the beach, and the place is really nice. No deposit, and it costs the same price as that old shithole.
moneybags
03-01-2021, 10:55 AM
Ooh, Thanks for this!^
I think I'm gonna start a landlord support thread..
That’s a good idea
Sucks being a model because a lot times the work we do makes us more vulnerable to being exploited.
Elektra Luxx
03-01-2021, 03:09 PM
I ate 2 bean and cheese tacos on Sunday morning and my insides are still feeling bloated.
whirlerz
03-01-2021, 03:31 PM
I, personally, had to take Pepto Bismal today, from all the aggravation!
whirlerz
03-01-2021, 03:33 PM
That’s a good idea
Sucks being a model because a lot times the work we do makes us more vulnerable to being exploited.
OMG, is this a TRUTH^!
Genoveve
03-01-2021, 04:41 PM
Good lord. I've mentioned my super elderly landlady before, today was the 1st so I was over at her house paying rent and while we're chitchatting on her patio her phone(landline) rings inside the house. It's a cordless phone and she has the handheld part with her, she 'answers' it but I still hear the phone ringing inside her house so the handheld part is not working. I try to tell her this but she keeps 'answering' the dead phone, then the answering machine comes on and her daughter is talking into it and she's trying to answer her daughter's voice through her dead phone not realizing that it's the answering machine. Eventually we go inside and are fiddling with the phone, it's pretty clear that the handheld part needs charging but she swears it's an "issue with the line" and that it 'must be being worked on', even though her other cordless phone in the bedroom is working fine. At one point she starts playing all her phone messages over and over again, it's clear that she has no idea what any of the buttons do, and she's asking me how she can receive her messages. I'm like...."What do you mean by "receive"?" since she has already played them. She says receive = hears. ??? Either way, as she's replaying the messages I hear an earlier one from this morning with her tax lady calling her to confirm her appointment tomorrow and telling her that she needs to call her back at the office to do so. I'm like "Did you call her?" She's says no and that she has no tax appointment. The woman said her name so the appointment was for her. It's such a long story and I'm leaving parts out, but basically I wrote down the tax lady's info and go home and call her on my phone and sort it all out for my landlady.
She really shouldn't be living alone because she is pretty helpless, but she has one daughter that is willing to live with her but she refuses.
lynn2009
03-01-2021, 06:13 PM
My company is switching the leave program to be unlimited, which would be all fine and dandy EXCEPT I have 23 days accrued that they're not paying out. I'm just losing it, the equivalent of a months salary. Fucking assholes.
chanzep
03-01-2021, 07:26 PM
Can they actually do that! I would be livid. The vanilla world is terrible.
xxxGothBarbie
03-01-2021, 10:24 PM
Hate these cheap bastards tonight on cam ugh! Always expecting free shit. Then I get blocked when one cancels our cam appnt when I ask for a tip for my time lol wtf?!
moneybags
03-01-2021, 10:37 PM
Can they actually do that! I would be livid. The vanilla world is terrible.
Hookin and crookin’ is about the only to not have to be a slave to hypercapitalism
whirlerz
03-02-2021, 06:04 AM
Hookin and crookin’ is about the only to not have to be a slave to hypercapitalism
Girl, you should seriously write a book, you say so many great things!^
whirlerz
03-02-2021, 06:12 AM
Can they actually do that! I would be livid. The vanilla world is terrible.
Yes, been there, shafted many times in it..^
.I fully expect this last shit office job I worked @ (2 days lol) not to pay me, I didn't fill out any forms..I quit by text, he texted me back, so he got it..
W/e, Im not going to run my self crazy to get it, it was pt so 8 hrs total.
Im just glad I bailed when I did & went back to other stuff
WendiStarr
03-02-2021, 10:31 AM
I hate the vanilla job application process. Why the hell do they have you upload a resume and then want you to manually enter everything in afterwards? I hate the whole,"Explain any gaps in unemployment" crap. Uh, was hospitalized due to pre-eclampsia, gave birth, was recovering from a traumatic birth, and then the pandemic hit? I don't get all these personality and behavior questions either, that take up 2 hours of your time. Jeebus! As if I don't have enough to do. There's a shit ton of classwork to do now and I wish I could just be done and certified already.
indiegirl
03-02-2021, 11:14 AM
UGHHHHH. Son of a bitch. I get 1-2 jury duty summons a year. I'm trying to get out of it once again by requesting excusal. They now require proof that you have moved with a bill and your name on a different address. I'm using an old bill. I hope it works.
Can't they get a bunch of senior citizens to hunker down for 6 bucks an hour in a courtroom? They have plenty of time to spend all day in court.
I have only left my house for work. These mf-er's are gonna make me sit with a bunch of people in an enclosed courtroom againnnnn? I'm not willing to risk my life for someone who made an oopsie during quarantine. Can't we have zoom!?
lurkingtitties
03-02-2021, 01:06 PM
Wendi I agree with you 1000000%. Applying for vanilla jobs is degrading!
indiegirl
03-02-2021, 01:25 PM
I hate the vanilla job application process. Why the hell do they have you upload a resume and then want you to manually enter everything in afterwards? I hate the whole,"Explain any gaps in unemployment" crap. Uh, was hospitalized due to pre-eclampsia, gave birth, was recovering from a traumatic birth, and then the pandemic hit? I don't get all these personality and behavior questions either, that take up 2 hours of your time. Jeebus! As if I don't have enough to do. There's a shit ton of classwork to do now and I wish I could just be done and certified already.
Yeah some of these personality tests make me roll my eyes. 45 minutes into it and you regret even bothering when they send you this sad auto-written rejection letter really fast compared to the time it took to fill the info out.
moneybags
03-02-2021, 02:01 PM
Girl, you should seriously write a book, you say so many great things!^
thanks! I’ve always wanted to write about sex work.